The Double Blue International
Wesley College Colombo - Sri Lanka
In Memoriam
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land.
RAJU HENSMAN —
It was with great sadness I read the obituary of Mr. Hensman just a few weeks ago. I first came across Mr.Hensman in 1956 when he taught us Chemistry in that airy classroom at the end of the corridor before turning into the stairs to the Library. He was an excellent teacher kind, considerate and gentle and knew his subject well. Mr. Hensman was always well dressed and powdered with the clothes immaculately creased. His dry sense of humour amused us when the going was rough. The "honkers" from the back of the class had little chance to disturb when he was on, in spite of his kindly manner. As a teacher he was far from pompous. His slight shyness belied a quiet self-confidence, and he was a lively and gregarious character, with a constant sparkle in his eye. He was invariably good company as we realised when we became senior.
He had all the gifts necessary for a teacher– intelligence, knowledge, warmth, friendliness, caring and also devotional seriousness which helped in the pastoral care. As a result he was a popular figure wherever he went and was both a sensitive and a generous counsellor to many students.
Calm and efficient he was a man of extraordinary intellect, who cared deeply about teaching students. Mr Hensman inspired us all. He was also a person with great kindness and humanity. The two so rarely go together. He made us feel we had something to offer even when we were callow and simple. As we were beginners in Chemistry he shone his torch for us as we groped towards examinations. He listened attentively to our weekly essays and marked them considerately. I can speak from personal experience of his dedication to his pupils and concern for their welfare.
Always immaculately turned out he will also be remembered as one of the best dressed teachers. Dressing well came so naturally to Mr Hensman who had an immaculate dress sense. He always had his face well powdered and the body well perfumed. He wore well ironed shirts and trousers with knife-edge creases. He turned heads as he strode the long corridors of Wesley College.
Softly spoken and warm-natured Mr Hensman dedicated his life to teaching. He taught that “In the joy of others lies our own”. With his strong Christian faith and belief he strove to help every student to become a better member of their family, community and country — and in doing so, helped to make the world a better place.
After 34 years a teacher at Wesley he retired in 1988. Seldom has someone served so many, so selflessly, and for so long.
After retirement he decided to remain in his old haunt at Wellawatte.
Although I had Mr. Hensman as a teacher for just one year I will always remember him for the excellent grounding he gave me in Chemistry and for his caring ways. I wish he knew that one of his students in his chemistry class of 1956, R.Somanathan is now the Associate Prof. of Organic Chemistry at the University of San Diego, USA.
May his Soul Rest in Peace.
Teacher at Wesley College from 1956-1988
It is with sadness that I pen this tribute to the late Mr Raju Hensman, retired Teacher who served Wesley College with distinction for thirty two years and passed away at the end of January this year. Those of us who were at Wesley from 1956 to 1988 will I am sure have many memories of Mr Hensman. The image that I have of him at Wesley is of a short, very dark complexioned bald man that had a high pitched voice and who possessed some effeminate mannerisms. He was always impeccable dressed in white short sleeve shirt and long white trousers with the creases crisply starched and as sharp as a razor. From this description you would instantly gather that if he was to have a “nickname” it would be because of a physical attribute rather than anything else. And so it was that in Mr Hensman’s case it was “Cheese Ball” because of his bald head. Little did we realise that he was pioneering a fashion trend that is popular all over the world today.
Schoolboys could be quite mean and I am sure that when the name was coined there was no consideration given to Mr Hensman’s feelings. He was also known as “Koli” and “Kikkili” – “nicknames” that were derived from his surname.
Mr Hensman was a qualified Teacher (Inter-Science Calcutta English Trained) specialising in Maths and Sciences. Very early in his time at Wesley he taught Chemistry in the senior school. I had the priviledge of being taught by him in a number of classes in Maths and General Science as I progressed from the Kindergarten to the Senior School.
He had a thorough knowledge of his subject and was a strict disciplinarian but also considerate and kind in his manner. I recall one occasion during an interval when my classmates and I would relish a game of “King”. I happened to be the chaser and in my eagerness to get another person out I took this firm shot at a classmate hiding behind a pillar. The ball missed my friend and also whizzed past Mr Hensman’s shiny head as he ducked for cover. The ball was confiscated and I was summoned to his classroom. I subsequently had to front up to Mr Premawardhena and had to apologise to Mr Hensman for my actions. However the ball was not returned much to the disappointment of my friends and I As a consequence I must have appeared to be insincere in my apology to him. Later that afternoon/early evening when Mr Hensman arrived at my home for my tuition he mentioned the incident to my mother who in turn mentioned it to my father when he got home from work. I was marched down to Mr Hensman’s home by my father and I had to apologise again and also got two of the best from my father for my trouble. On reflection it was part of my personal development and growing up to be a responsible citizen and gentleman.
Teachers of Mr Hensman’s calibre were loyal and dedicated to their craft and their remuneration was a pittance when considering what they had to put up with. Our parents entrusted us to their care and they in turn inculcated in us a set of values, discipline and knowledge that has helped us over the years. As diminutive as Mr Hensman was, he can stand tall as one of Wesley’s loyal teachers who served the College with distinction and devotion.
I probably shared many more experiences with him than the other students as he lived only a few streets away at Somasunderam Place off Station Road, Wellawatte. Though he gave the impression that he was a very serious person I saw his funny side on many occasions as teachers and student gathered outside the Gas Company Showrooms on Galle Road to catch the school bus each day. The late Mr Watson Wijewickrema and the Late Mrs Sheila Arndt (previously Wijeyekoon) and Mr Hensman would carry on a lively chat which often continued on board the bus much to our amusement and inquisitive ears. He tutored me in Maths for a short period of time and I recall he would have much delight in joining my mother for a chat over a “cuppa” as I plodded through the sums he had set me. I am indebted to his efforts as it contributed to my good grounding in Maths which resulted in my obtaining a University degree with Double Maths majors.
He became firm friends with my parents and when he married in the late sixties my parents and I attended his wedding. If I recall correctly, my mother made his wedding cake. When my family and I migrated to Australia he purchased many items of furniture and household items some which he still had when I met him in 1999. Though we lost touch over the years, when I returned to Colombo in 1999 for the 125th Jubilee Celebrations he made it a point to seek me out for a chat at the Jubilee Dinner held at the Oberoi. I had a photograph taken with him that day. Mr Hensman had aged which was to be expected but his mannerisms were still the same and as expected he was impeccable dressed for the occasion.
He was very keen to find out how some of his former students were faring in Australia. Teachers like Mr Hensman took a keen interest in theirs students not only in class but long after they had left school. He was pleased to hear that many of this former students were getting along well in Australia. He invited me for a meal and I had the privilege of taking my family to his home at Somasunderam Place for afternoon tea. His wife and he who were both retired were looking forward to joining their only daughter and her husband in Canada in the near future. Sadly it wasn’t to be.
Thirty two years as a teacher at Wesley College is a long time. To spend such a significant part of one’s life dedicated to Education and Wesley College is indeed laudable and hundred of students had the benefit of Mr Hensman as their teacher.
We are indebted to teachers like Mr Hensman who we have met along life’s journey and have contributed in their own way to moulding a rich mosaic of knowledge and character which is uniquely ours. Thank you Sir for your loyal and dedicated service to Wesley College and all her sons. I am grateful for having had the opportunity to be taught by you.
May God grant you eternal rest.
Sincere sympathies to Mrs Pathma Hensman, daughter Rapti and son-in-law Christie Ratnam.
Keith de Kretser
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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The Doyen of Sri Lankan Hockey - No More
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Walter Jayasooriya was recognised as the Father of Ceylon Hockey and is deeply respected by the Hockey fraternity in the Island. A thread of simple decency ran all through his hockey career; it was perhaps his defining characteristic, and he became a much-liked and respected figure. Walter cut a strikingly handsome figure on and off the field. He was a dignified sportsman at all times.
In his day Walter was a brilliant hockey player and later a respected referee. He was known for his technical skill, creative vision and tactical awareness. Receiving and passing the ball precisely was a skill he seemed to possess naturally. He was a supreme tackler scoring many goals. His reputation rested not only on his individual skills but also as an extraordinary team player. He became a glamorous symbols of style and success. Walter brought an authority and experience which raised our game tremendously in the international arena.
Walter is also remembered by several generations of Wesleyites as a loyal old boy of the school. He was a high profile, flamboyant character well known to many. Walter will be deeply missed at the old boys gatherings, OBU meetings and lunches. He was an entrancing raconteur who saw the funny side of life. His speeches were laced with plenty of wit and humour that elevated the mood and lit up the proceedings. Without his live wire and spark the old boys' gatherings will never be the same again.
His demise is an enormous loss to Sri Lankan hockey and Wesley. Walter lived a long, interesting and rewarding life and will always remain as one of the acclaimed legends of Sri Lankan Hockey. He will be fondly remembered at Wesley with great honour and esteem.
From Edmund Dissanayake
Wesley lost one of her most distinguished and loyal Old Boys in the course of 1999. Walter needed no introduction to Wesleyites whether they be senior citizen, middle aged or young Old Boys. He will not be forgotten not only for his prowess, as a hockey player, official and an administrator in those sporting circles, but also for the unbroken stint as a Vice Patron of the Old Boys' Union, his loyalty to the school will be regarded as exemplary. Walter passed on his knowledge of the game willingly to the generations that followed. Walter's sense of humour will long be remembered especially at Founder's Day Lunches where with his closest friend A Mylvaganam he would have the Hall roaring with laughter. Hockey and Wesley have lost a favourite son.
From Dennis De Rosayro
Walter J is no more The flame of Sri Lanka hockey has been extinguished, though expected at the ripe age of 84, all lovers of hockey in Sri Lanka and abroad, especially India will receive the news with sadness. An Old Wesleyte Walter Jayasooriya was a colossus among giants and his comuterparts in India and Pakistan respected him with awe for his wealth of knowledge of the game and its rules and administration. When India dominated the hockey world for five decades, he was affectionately known as "Mr. Walter - the mighty atom of Sri Lanka hockey," and deservingly so. He was officially connected with Ceylon/Sri Lankan hockey since 1938 and one time member and office bearer of the then Ceylon Olympic and Commonwealth Games Association. Numerous times he was the senior vice-president of the Sri Lanka Hockey Federation, Chairman of both the selection and umpires' committees, and Ceylon's first international Hockey Umpire. In 1963 he went as general team manager for the 1st Ganefo Djakarta Games, hockey manager to Ceylon/Sri Lanka team in 1953, 1957, 1959, 1966 and 1969 and manager at the 5th Asian Games to Bangkok in 1966. Perhaps his greatest achievement and contribution to Sri Lankan hockey was when he and the late Mr. T.M.N. Mahamooth went to India in 1955 to witness and study the organization of the Indian Hockey Nationals. His dream dawned in August 1956, when the 1st Hockey Nationals was inaugurated, the very first in any sport in Sri Lanka. Walter was a walking encyclopaedia on all matters relating to hockey and possessed up-to-date authentic records - indeed a labour of love. He spotted me as a schoolboy at St. Benedict's College in 1954 and it was a privilege to have known and associated with Walter ever since, who virtually gave all of his time and knowledge for the game he loved so much. The Father of Sri Lankan Hockey has gone to his eternal rest!
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Researched by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
A. Mylvaganam captained the All-Ceylon Team. He was best known as “The Hockey Wizard’. Mylvaganam is considered one of the best players produced by Wesley and Sri Lanka. His goal-scoring feats were extraordinary. Being a renowned short corner specialist he packed dynamite to his short corners and penalty hits. Those shots were a nightmare for the goalkeepers. The ball was hit with such great force it whacked the rear board of the goal that boomed like a clap of thunder.
He is remembered by the Sri Lankan hockey fraternity as a hockey legend. Undeniably Mylvaganam will be remembered not only as a key member of the Sri Lankan team but for his immense contributions and love for the game of hockey on the pitch and beyond. His mastery of the stick work, commitment and loyalty to the game will long be remembered. Together with several stalwarts of the game Mylvaganam through his ongoing dedication to field hockey helped to establish it as a national and international sport. They all played such a huge role in so many capacities to help shape the sport in Sri Lanka. Mylvaganam left behind a legacy which will always be remembered and cherished. They will indeed serve as a beacon for the budding new talent in the game.
It is often said Mylvaganam was to hockey what Sathasivam was to cricket. With his bohemian lifestyle he made many friends and became a popular figure socially and in the playing field. Mylvaganam was a pioneer in hockey at Wesley. He learnt the game up at school playing at Campbell Park. Mylvaganam played 1st XI cricket for Wesley College. He made a tremendous contribution as a cricketer for Tamil Union for several years.
Mylvaganam was flashy and flamboyant. It was considered wise not to get on his wrong side on or off the field. He could be volatile and belligerent but was always quick to forgive and forget. His attitude was always dignified and conciliatory. The Tamil Union was his life which he served in many different ways. Ever present in the club house or in the playing field, it was indeed his second home. Perhaps it was his wish to breathe his last there, and so he did, when the time finally arrived. He was deeply missed at the Tamil Union Club by his many friends.
Mylvaganam was a loyal Old Boy of Wesley and was ever present at the OBU meetings,lunches and gatherings with his erstwhile friend Walter Jayasooriya, another Hockey legend. They both made a tremendous contribution to the cameraderie, social life and friendships within the OBU. Their speeches, anecdotes and laughter filled the air at the OBU gatherings in the Great Hall. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites We thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
From the Ceylon Hockey Federation - March 1955
A. MYLVAGANAM. Captain, Half back, 33 years. Government Servant, Captained Wesley College Hockey Team in 1941. Has been a regular member and one of the best players of the Tamil Union Team from 1939. Is now Captain of the Tamil Union Hockey Team. Was an automatic choice in the Ceylon Teams as from 1947, and has represented Ceylon against all visiting teams. Has the distinction of being the only Ceylon player selected to play with the Indians in an exhibition match in Colombo in 1947. Has Captained several C. H. A. teams. Played for the Combined Colleges Cricket Team in 1941, and is a Member of the Tamil Union Cricket Team. Captained the Ceylon . Team on the South Indian Tour in 1953
Mylvaganam is a Hockey legend and considered as one of the Hockey greats of Ceylon
Privilege to play for and against Ceylon’s best Mylvaganam
From Sunday Observer Sri Lanka by Dennis De Rosayro
A Mylvaganam ended his illustrious hockey career as captain of Ceylon against the mighty Indian Olympic team and world champions who won the second unofficial Test in July 1960 at Police Park, Colombo 5-0.
It was a fitting farewell to Ceylon’s best player during his long career. Mylvaganam made his international debut also against India in 1947.
He also captained Ceylon’s South Indian tour of 1953 and North Indian tour of 1959.
Born in 1922, he was an ageless wonder, playing in the vital centre-half position in the 5-3-2-1 formation except in his last two matches.
It was an experience and privilege to have played alongside him as right-half and against him for the Burgher Recreation Club versus the Tamil Union C&AC in the 1950s and 1960s.
It is also a memorable coincidence that even older Leslie Claudius at the age of 42, retired after the Rome Olympics in 1960.
India beat Denmark 10-0, Holland 4-0, New Zealand 3-0, Australia 1-0 but lost in the final to Pakistan 0-1 at the 1960 Games.
From Dennis Rosayro
A Mylvaganam was Ceylon’s ageless wonder, making his international debut versus Afghanistan in 1947 and had the rare distinction of being the only Ceylon player selected to play with the Indians in an exhibition match in Colombo in 1947.
Throughout his distinguished career of over three decades, Mylvaganam played in the pivotal role of Centre Half barring his two farewell Test matches against the Indian Olympic team in 1960, where he captained the team and played as a Right Full Back. Mylvaganam was Ceylon’s best short corner specialist and feared by his opponents, as he could change the outcome of a match within seconds. He was crafty and the ‘heart and soul’ of the team he played for.
It was amazing at the age of 37 how he played and withstood the might of the Indians on the 1960 tour, playing in all 14 matches. As Right Half, I played alongside him in 11 matches and indeed it was more than a learning experience. He captained the Government Services at the first National championships in 1956 until 1960 when he retired; but in 1958 he led an ageing Government Services team to beat Mercantile HA who had eight Internationals 2-0.
He was the backbone of the formidable Tamil Union C&AC which won 11 championships from 1946 to 1960. He umpired several National championships and internationally he umpired in three Tests vs Pakistan in 1962 and vs India in 1967. In 1977, he was recognised by the world hockey body FIH as an International Umpire and was chairman of the Selection Committee from 1962 to 1964 and Selector in 1961 and 1965. It was fitting that he ended his illustrious career as captain against the visiting Indian Olympic team of 1960.
From Elmo Rodrigopulle
The Tamil Union must be congratulated for deciding to honour their past stalwarts T. Murugaser and A. Mylvaganam, by having a gate and a stand in their honour. Both were top class sportsmen. Muru a cricketer and 'Myla' a hockey player who had no peer as a short corner specialist.
Myla was one if not the greatest short corner specialist the game has seen here or in Asia. No defenders rushing to stall the hit or the opposing goal keeper would relish when 'Myla' was taking the short corner. He hit it with such tremendous power that the ball rocketed into the board with the speed of lightning.
A game I well remember was the one between the Old Bens who were new to the big league - the Andriesz Shield - and the Tamil Union at the Army ground, Galle Face. The Bens conceded several short corners in their enthusiasm and it was a treat to watch Mylvaganam converting them with ease with drives that beat the onrushing defenders and goal keeper giving them no chance.
And this was when 'Myla' was in the twilight of his illustrious career. I was then doing the hockey rounds for the Times of Ceylon and the hockey critic at that time was former Features Editor of the Times, Subbiah Muttiah, who wrote the then popular column - 'Corner Flag'.
He wrote reams about Mylvaganam's prowess with the curved wand.
Tamil Union honours 'Muru' and 'Myla' by Richard Dwight
The annual general meeting of the Tamil Union Cricket and Athletic Club scheduled for this evening at 7.30 will be marked by the stepping down of President Tryphon Mirando after his three-year term to be succeeded by M. Ganeshan.
The occasion will also be significant to be historical where a representative gathering will view the opening of the newly constructed club's swimming pool and also witness tangible expression of gratitude and appreciation being made to two club past stalwarts Thambiah Murugaser and A. Mylvaganam by the opening of a stand and a gate respectively in their names.
Both Muru and Myla as they were affectionately referred to were virtually pillars of the Tamil Union Club who through sheer commitment strove in the cause of the club and for its betterment at all times. It's most fitting therefore even posthumously though their memories be perpetuated in the very place they laboured for in love, all these years.
Given to sober disciplined ways the mild mannered, genial Tambiah Murugaser excelled both in the classroom and sports field at Royal College where he did well at cricket and tennis.
Always well attired and a pleasant exterior he brought to bear qualities that were noble to his work as Director at C. W. Mackie & Co. and to his club, Tamil Union he was its mentor, guide and friend.
He not only played cricket for his club but held responsible positions in the club being its president for many years. It is said that whenever the club was in need his hands dipped into his pockets. Muru also displayed abilities of being a fine administrator and at one time was the Vice President of the Cricket Board having had the distinction of being the Manager of the Sri Lanka Cricket team to England.
Mylva it could be said that what Satha was to cricket Myla was to hockey, with that bravado air of nonchalance, which made friend to become popular soon. He picked the game at Wesley and shone at cricket too, for the college. Almost a pioneer in the cause of hockey in the island, Myla captained the national as well as the club side for many years and was a short corner specialist, not forgetting as well his contribution as a cricketer for Tamil Union.
By his flamboyant you dare not get onto his wrong side on the field of play or off it, for he could prove to be belligerent but was quick to forgive and forget, his attitude was always reconciliatory. The Tamil Union which he served in different ways was his second home and who knows he may have desire to breathe his last there, and so he did, when the time came.
Excerpts from the recollections of Rangi Akbar - Sunday Times 30th August 2009
Hockey and rugby has played a big part in Tissa Ettipola’s life. His love for hockey led him to marry woman star player Nimal (nee Jayasuriya) and his association with the game ended abruptly when he was slapped with a five year ban for allegedly assaulting umpire A. Mylvaganam! This happened at the Badulla Hockey Nationals in 1972.
On that fateful day when Tissa was ordered off the field for hitting the umpire, Mercantile was pitted against Colombo led by Dennis de Rosayro and Mercantile were beaten 0-1. This set a stumbling block to their chances of winning the coveted title. Off a goal mouth melee Tissa Ettipola, playing at left inside, swung his stick haphazardly and hit umpire A. Mylvaganam on the face opening up a wide cut! Blood burst forth from the wound and Mylvaganam was escorted out of the grounds to be treated. Tissa Ettipola was ordered out! The other umpire at the game was Willie Moses.
Confusion reigned at the grounds. The games came to a stand still. Stunned crowds at the Badulla Stadium watched Tissa getting his marching orders. Hockey officials cuddled in the Uva Rugby Club and after about an hour’s deliberation it was decided to continue the competition. Tissa Ettipola had apologized to Mylvaganam and the Umpires Committee decided to accept the apology. Subsequently the Sri Lanka Hockey Federation reviewing the situation imposed a five year ban on Ettipola. This cast him into cold storage where the game was concerned. “I had no grudge with Mylvaganam. In fact we have sat together after the incident and enjoyed many a drink,” said Ettipola during an interview.
This was confirmed by many sports fans who attended Mylvaganam’s funeral when Ettipola was one of Mylvaganam’s pall bearers!
May he find Eternal Peace
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We have to place on record the demise of Fitzroy formerly Vice President and one time Secretary of the Welfare Society. His attachment to the school was evident from the hard work he did. Fitzroy was an Old Boy who was always present when his services were needed.
Addendum from Nihal D Amerasekera
On one of my visits to to Wesley - Fitzroy Muthuvaloe , Fred Abeysekera and Neville Weerasekera decided to walk the long corridors and the maginifient gardens on a hot sunny day. It was a wonderul walk down memory lane as we reminisced. Fitzroy spoke softly and deliberately and his warm affection for the school was obvious. He had an unjustified modesty about his achievements as Vice President of the OBU.
He graced the OBU as an independent-minded person, and was widely acclaimed as one of the most principled old boys. In that world of monstrous egos, tantrums and shark-like competition Fitzroy was a beacon of reliability, pragmatic trustworthiness and common sense. Fitzroy was an inveterate networker known for his quiet charm but was able to collect funds and support Wesley during those financially perilous times. He was wonderful company, a marvellous friend and a magnificent person. The only tribute that he would want, the only memorial that would do him justice, is enduring application of his loyalty to his old school.
That was the last time I saw him. He was a friend to all and we will miss him.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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I remember him from my first days at school as the Tuck Shop man selling his stuff in a shed behind the Hostel kitchen. The shed had a "takarang" roof being hot during hot weather, cold during cold weather, and noisy during rainy weather. Wije and his sidekick Jinadasa provided the sustenence for the boarders and days scholars alike. At the short interval there is mayhem in the tuck due to the brisk sale and immense traffic. He was always polite except to those who did not settle their bills. Subsequently he was in charge of the canteen at the Medical College Colombo. He treated old Wesleyites with a free "tea and punt" when times were hard. I last met him when I took my sons to see Wesley College in 1995. He didn't look a year older than when I first saw him at the old Tuck. We had a long chat about times gone by. This time he gave a free Coca Cola to both my sons. He was an astute businessman, an excellent Old Boy and a good and genuine friend. With his great integrity, his wit and his charm being in the school premises all his working life he sought solutions to problems about the old school when none were thought possible. Such dedication is a rarity and he is irreplaceable.
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He was one of the most popular old boys that Wesley has produced. He had a canteen at Wesley where boys ran up big bills. Whether these bills were honoured, one does not know. His popularity extended to other schools like Royal and St. Thomas’. Wije was a family friend for close upon 60 years. He played for Wesley as a pace bowler. The best in him was revealed whenever any person fell ill.
Once the Wesley ground boy Vincent Perera found him sleeping on the cricket matting in the middle of the ground, late at night. When he inquired as to the reason, he said that I had an argument with him and that he was at fault. Vincent came home to tell me about this problem. I assured him that there was nothing that transpired. I remember when I was hospitalized for a month, Wije was very helpful to my wife. He was there when help was sorely needed. He was a man for all seasons. At Wije’s funeral, not only Wesley, but the students of many other schools were present. Wesley gave him the highest honour.
When will we be able to see the like of him? He was a man in a million.
This article has been transcribed from the 125th Anniversary souvenir
One of the persons a 'new boy' to Wesley inevitably met on his first day, was DSW- affectionately called 'Wije' who headed what was to a schoolboy the most important infrastructure of the School, viz "the Tuck Shop" Without "Wije" there would have been no mid-day break with its Fish buns ( those delicious lumps of baked dough with savoury fish), no seeni sambol and freshly baked bread (Wije knew the art of keeping bread 'oven fresh' for several days) and no 'patties'. The cutlets which Wije produced were truly a triumph of culinary art. What they contained was the subject of much conjecture and debate.
I recall an incident (Derrick Mack and I were having tea in the Tuck) when the Hockey Goalie walked in with his gear, up and rearing to to prepare himself for a strenuous practice session at Campbell Park. A mountain of fish buns was placed before him by " Wije " ( he knew his customers exceedingly well) and the lad begun his business in earnest and calculated that he had eaten "only eight " fish buns ( how could one go for Hockey practice on an empty stomach), but "Wije" who had kept an eagle eye on Mike's deft movements reckoned that the count was eleven. In the ensuing controversy, "Wije" calm and unruffled, accepted the customer is sometimes right , and the goalie paid for eight. It has been rumoured that he had ultimately paid for the fish buns he had consumed long after he had emigrated to Australia, as expected of him. Running a Tuck Shop for growing schoolboys, (horizontally ) with rapacious appetites was no mean task. Mountains of food - that would have knocked Pidurutalagala into second place- were devoured each (lay- in the short break, in the lunch interval and after school- all in manner of fleeting seconds. And "Wije" kept a miraculous count of individual consumption despite cheek by jowl conditions, and an accounts of those buying on 'tick' being fair. To say that he kept all and sundry well filled and content would be correct.
Always a happy man, "Wije" enjoyed identifying himself with all of Wesley's extra-curricular activities. He was seen at all matches- cricket. Hockey. Rugby Football, soccer; swimming galas, athletic sports meets, OBU functions and at the dynamic Old Wesleyites Sports Club events and he did not miss an Annual prize giving. It was fascinating to have observed "Wije" on the Cricket Field, representing Wesley in the over 40's match against Royal in 1993 when the two schools celebrated one hundred years of school cricket with each other. Associated with him as a team mate was his son, Jayantha Whilst Royal (astutely, and well within their rights) fielded a side barely over 40, Wesley's spread was more generous and more attuned to the spirit of the event Wije was in his sprightly seventies. It was this great spirit of DSW that attracted people to him.
His commitment to Wesley was an intense one and he enjoyed being a Wesleyite. He was very proud of the school and to be associated with it. His death brought to an end a long association with Wesley as a College Prefect, Cricketer, and Tuck Shop Man. He provided a valuable service, and a most enjoyable meeting point to many thousands of school boys who passed through the portals of Wesley's hallowed Buildings. We shall surely miss his kindly and jovial presence at the current celebrations, when "past and present kindly meet" and in the years ahead.
May he attain the ultimate Bliss of Nirvana.
Highly decorated Officer and a Gentleman By Neville Weerasekera
The on-going hostilities in the North of Sri Lanka has claimed lives of thousands of young men and women and amongst the bravest will belong the name of Lt. Col Sumith Dhammika Perera. He .served in the Sri Lanka Army ten years with exemplary conduct and valour and is on of the most highly decorated Officers, In this relatively short period, he was an outstanding officer leading hi men with courage in the battlefield. For these achievements, during his lifetime he received the highest honour medal of "Rana Wickrema Paddakkama", for outstanding bravery and valour. On the 10th of November, 1995 he laid down his life for his country in the course of the Riviresa Operation, and wa posthumously awarded the "Rana Suriya Padakkama' once again for outstanding bravery in face of the enemy.
This high honour is bestowed not for reasons of rank, nor wounds nor long service or whatsoever condition, save the merit of conspicuous bravery. Truly a most democratic award for a signal act of valour an bravery, in devotion to his country. Sumith Dhammika Perera was educated at Wesley College and showed early promise of his abilities as leader. His parental home, nurtured in him from earl days the love of school and country, and service to the Nation as being the prime object in life. His father W. A C. Perera indeed by his own example, encouraged his young son in the development of these and other noble traits At Wesley he was a much loved student, Personality of good character and conduct. He was school Prefect, and Captained Hockey , was a member of Rugger XV teams, and won his colours in both games.
After leaving College he could have chosen the comfort and safety of a civilian life, but became Commissioned Officer, and saw active duty in the North for ten years until he laid down his life in the course of enemy action. He belonged to Kiran Camp and indeed was a hero of this contingent. For any family the tragic death of this smart officer at the early age of 30 years a young son, & husband who whole life lay ahead, with so much promise, is indeed tragedy of unbearable proportions. Yet the manner his death, his noble conduct in the Army, his love and affection and bearing to his family and friends are great sources of consolation. We are grateful that we were allowed even a short period of contact with this outstanding a person. Outstanding not only as an Army Officer, but as a dutiful husband, son and brother and loyal friend.
Each year on January the 15th, the Anniversary his birth, it is a time to especially remember him, and that he lived for. In order to perpetuate the memory this brave officer a "Memorial Foundation" bearing the name has been instituted by his family and friends, which undertakes meritorious acts. In 1999 one of these h been to award scholarships to sons of .soldiers killed action and other deserving students at the "A" level, and in the University. Wesley is indeed proud that a product of the school has received the highest Military honour in the service of the nation. It is our earnest hope that the laying down of the life Sumith Dhammika, along with the many others, will pave the way to a peaceful and united Lanka in the very near future.
Lt. Col. Sumith Dhammika Perera by W. Nayomi Perera
The fifth year remembrance pinkama in memory of late Lt. Col. Sumith Dhammika Perera RWP, RSP who was 2nd in Command of 1 Gemunu Watch and sacrificed his life in the Riviresa Operation will take place on November 9 and 10 at his Battaramulla residence.
On Thursday November 9 (today) a Pahan Pooja and Dhammadesana will be conducted by Ven. Kolonnawe Siri Sumangala Thero of "Samadhi Ashramaya’, Devram Viharaya, Pannipitiya from 7.00 p.m. followed by an alms giving to Maha Sangha on November 10. Sumith’s comrades-at-arms, his Wesley College friends and associates, relations, members and well-wishers of Lt. Col. Sumith Dhammika Perera Memorial Foundation are cordially invited to join in this pinkama.
A special feature of this pinkama is the opening of a library of Buddhist Publications for children and adults organised by the family and dedicated to the memory of this young army officer, as a service to those keen in the study and practice of Buddha Dhamma.
Arrangements are also being made to help a disabled soldier R. G. Rohana Sumanasiri of Nikawewe in the Weli Oya region who has made an appeal to Lt. Col. Sumith Dhammika Perera Memorial Foundation in the relocation of his house close to Anuradhapura, as his family had to abandon their earlier home due to terrorist attacks in November 1999 and had to live in a refugee camp. He has been helped by Lt. Gen. Denzil Kobbakaduwa Trust for the purchase of roof timber and has sought our assistance for the covering of the roof with asbestos sheets.
Taking into consideration his present predicament, a presentation would be made at this pinkama as a measure of assistance to him and any one who wishes to join in our attempt to fulfill his wish, may contact the Foundation on Tel. No: 864022 for details.
May we on this occasion remember and offer merit to Lt. Col. Sumith Perera and the thousands of all ranks who have sacrificed their lives to make our country a safer place for all communities to live in peace!
Down Memory Lane by Saman Wijesooriya
Lieutenant Colonel Sumith Dammika Perera RWP, RSP was my first Adjutant (Principal staff officer to the Commanding Officer) when I joined 1st Battalion The Gemunu Watch (Leading infantry battalion in the Sri Lanka Army) as a 2nd lieutenant in 31st December 1989.Still I remember the 1st day I met Captain Perera at the battalion headquarters to hand over my movement order received from Sri Lanka Military Academy – Diyatalawa. After accepting it Captain Perera took me directly to the battalion operations room at Konduwattuwana – Ampara & started to brief me about the tactical areas of troops deployment using Topographical & Grid Maps. Luckily I had a small note book inside my uniform shirt pocket; I immediately took the note book out & jotted down the grid references of the localities. Captain Perera paused for a while & I saw him looking at me from head to toe & toe to head. Then he asked me to sit & write down the relevant information.
From that day onwards Captain Perera was behind me observing my behavior & performances but no favourations. Because of my superior’s guidance & instructions I got an above average grading for my first Annual Confidential Report from the Commanding Officer. On the same day Captain Perera called me to his office & told “Wijesooriya you have done well as a second lieutenant but the battalion needs more from you in the future & you should fly the College Flag high”. That was the first time I heard Captain Perera mention WESLEY.
As Mahendra aiya had stated Captain Perera fought bravely as the company commander of “A” company during LTTE attack at Kiran Army Camp & he was decorated with “RANAWICKRAMA PADAKKAMA” & RANASURA PADAKKAMA – gallantry medal awarded by the head of the state for distinguished conduct in the face of the enemy & for the bravery shown in the battle field.
After a few months Captain Perera was posted out from the battalion to take over the post of officer instructor at the prestigious Sri Lanka Military Academy – Diyatalawa. He was responsible for training & moulding of a civilian to military personnel & to be commissioned to Sri Lanka Army Regular / Volunteer force. During his tenure at Sri Lanka Military Academy Captain Perera was promoted to the rank of Major & he returned to the battalion in 1994. During that period our battalion was deployed at Elephant Pass for operational duties. Having arrived at EPS, Major Perera came directly to my office to hand over his movement order as I was the Adjutant of the battalion. After accepting his movement order I took Major Perera to the Commanding Officers Office. After having a very lengthy discussion with the Commanding Officer, Major Perera came once again to my office & advised me “Opendra (it was the first time he called me by my first name), complete your tenure as Adjutant, complete your tenure as a commander of a fighting company & at the same time work hard in order to get a posting to Sri Lanka Military Academy as an officer instructor, serve there & come back to the battalion as the 2nd in command”. At that moment I was a bit confused. But finally I realized what Major Perera wants from me, nothing but to follow his footsteps, which I have done during my twenty two years of unblemished military career.
After a few months Major Perera was appointed as the 2nd in Command of my battalion & I was appointed as a fighting Company Commander. During that period our battalion received an operational order from the Directorate of Operations – Army Head Quarters & with a very short notice we were air lifted to Palali from EPS & our troops directly joined with friendly forces for the “Operation Rivirasa”. Major Perera had to take full responsibility of the battalion as our Commanding Officer was on leave. Our battalion was tasked to advance from Urumparai to Kopai under heavy LTTE resistance. Major Perera gave his orders to troops in his capacity as the acting commanding officer of our battalion & finally he delivered specific troops to tasks for company commanders & to the officers of the battalion.
Strategic approaches were identified in detail & we received well planned & very clear orders from Major Perera. I was entrusted with the task of leading the company during the advance. We launched the advance operation next day at the dawn under heavy LTTE resistance & the casualty rate was found to be very high from the very beginning of the advance. But despite LTTE resistance we continued our advance & Major Perera was on the radio giving necessary instructions to enable us to carry out our tasks with confidence.
A few hours later our commanding officer contacted us over the radio & gave further instructions. Around noon, when the enemy resistance was found to be at a low ebb, the commanding officer called all company commanders over the radio & informed that our 2nd in command got injured & was evacuated for medical attention. We all thought that nothing untoward had happen to Major Perera & that he will be will be ok & continued our advance. Our troops consolidated the possessions which we gained during the dark hours. After consolidation process was completed all company commanders were asked to meet our commanding officer at a safe rear location. There we heard that Major Sumith Perera was killed in action. We all were shocked... for a few minutes, but finally we realized Major Perera who was with us through thick & thin will not be with us anymore. Our 2nd in Command had left us for his final journey without informing his subordinates.
Lieutenant Colonel Sumith Dammika Perera RWP, RSP scarified his life for a better tomorrow. I could not pay my last respect to you sir, because of operational commitments, but my battalion (it was your battalion also) with the assistance from Gamunu Watch Regimental Center, made all arrangements to conduct a proper military funeral.
I am a satisfied person today, because whatever the targets that you showed me, I have accomplished them to the best of my ability despite your absence during my military career. But some of my dreams remain unfulfilled. At the college I address you as aiya & you called me malli. But throughout our military career we could not address each other in that way. Both of us could not get any opportunity to be under “WESLEY STAND” to cheer up our rugby team or cricket team or hold each other’s hands at WESLEY WALK.
Great leaders are those who take a little more share of the blame & little less share of the credit. You were a great leader, Sir.
It has been a long twenty years ………….. Being a Wesleyite I got the opportunity to get your final orders & implement them to the best of my ability.
Sir, I will remember you with great respect throughout my life.
Mahendra aiya thank you very much for remembering a great son of mother Wesley.
By: Saman Wijesooriya.
Thulana Wijesooriya
Deputy Head Prefect (2014/15)
Wesley College
Doctor devoted last years to his faith
Thursday, April 26, 2001 By Christopher Snowbeck, Post-Gazette Staff Writer, Pittsburgh USA
Dr. Brian V. Jegasothy, a former chairman of the dermatology department at the University of Pittsburgh's School of Medicine, died last week after a long battle with cancer and Parkinson's disease. Dr. Jegasothy, 58, spent most of his life providing medical care, but dedicated his last two years to the spiritual care of Christians who migrated here from the Indian subcontinent. He founded the Asian Indian Christian Church of Pittsburgh, which brings together members of the region's Indian, Sri Lankan, Pakistani and Bangladeshi communities. The author of more than 300 publications and several books, he helped develop an improved treatment for cutaneous T-cell lymphoma, a rare kind of cancer. The photopheresis technique that Dr. Jegasothy and colleagues at Yale University pioneered in the 1970s remains the standard of care for serious cases of the rare cancer, explained his 32-year-old daughter, Dr. Manjula Jegasothy, who followed her father into dermatology.
The elder Dr. Jegasothy also contributed to the study of immunobullous diseases, in which the immune system attacks the skin and causes it to blister and fall off. He was instrumental in developing a topical form of FK506, the anti-rejection drug pioneered by organ transplant pioneers at Pitt. Topical FK506 has been used to treat conditions such as psoriasis in addition to the rashes that transplant patients develop. "He trained and taught and took care of patients with a very positive attitude and a very gentle manner," said Dr. Nancy S. Nieland-Fisher, a Pittsburgh dermatologist. "Although he was nationally respected, he was a very humble man who did not ever try to one-up someone or to embarrass. . . . Whenever dermatologists were sort of puzzled about a patient's disease or a treatment, we'd send those patients to Dr. Jegasothy and he always came up with some new diagnosis or a suggestion for some innovative treatment."
He was born in Colombo, Sri Lanka. He planned to enter medical school there in 1961, but construction of a new school hadn't been completed. So he and other students ended up working for a short time at a local bank. At the bank, he met a medical student who was taken with his sense of humor. They dated secretly during medical school. Their subsequent marriage was unusual because it wasn't arranged by their families. "He was my only love," said Dr. Juliet Jegasothy, medical director for hospital accreditation at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center.
He was among the first Sri Lankan medical-school graduates to come to the United States for further study. After working at a hospital in New York City, he so impressed his mentor that the physician recommended him for a dermatology residency at Yale. From Yale, Dr. Jegasothy's career took him to Duke University and the University of Pennsylvania before he became chairman of the dermatology department at Pitt in 1987, a post he held until 1999.
Throughout much of his life, Dr. Jegasothy was a regular churchgoer, his wife said, but he experienced a deepening of faith with his illness. Thinagar Sitther, pastor of the Asian Indian Christian Church of Pittsburgh, said Dr. Jegasothy was "visionary" during the planning of the church, which began meeting in December 1999 at the Church of the Brethren's sanctuary in Squirrel Hill. Dr. Jegasothy anticipated the challenges such as determining which of the many languages spoken by church members would be used for services and helped craft solutions. "He declared to his friends that what mattered at the end was his faith in Jesus Christ," Sitther said. "In fact, I heard him say he had done many successful things, but this was the most significant thing in his life -- to be involved with this church and declaring his faith." Contributions in honor of Dr. Jegasothy may be made to the Asian Indian Christian Church of Pittsburgh, 3503 Beechwood Blvd., Pittsburgh 15217.
Addendum by Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera:
Professor Jegasothy was a world renowned dermatologist and a visiting professor at over 50 Universities and clinics, and was the Chairman of the Department of Dermatology at the University of Pittsburgh. His published works include four dermatological books and over 300 articles. He has been an Examiner for American Dermatology Specialty Board, as well as Editor for numerous dermatological journals. Professor Jegasothy has been the Chairman of the Department of Dermatology at the University of Pennsylvania. He also taught at Duke University and Yale University.
Brian was a boarder at Wesley with his brother Ranjit, from 1952-55. Then they left for Jaffna and arrived at Wesley again in 1958- where they remained until 1960. He was a brilliant scholar winning the Hill Medal in 1960 and obtaining a direct entry to the new Medical Faculty in Peradeniya. He had an illustrious University career. I recall the many happy times spent with him in the boarding, in the Sixth form and as a Junior Doctor in the General Hospital Kurunegela. Brian was a resident of the famous "Ambaruk Sevana" doctors quarters at Kurunegala and his Ford Anglia was a "taxi" for the many doctors visiting Colombo for the weekends. Above all I remember him for his polite and pleasant manner and his humility despite his outstanding intellect and many academic achievements. Brian was a proud Ceylonese and a loyal old boy of the school.
Obituary: Brian V. Jegasothy - From the University Times, University of Pennsylvania
Brian V. Jegasothy, former chair of dermatology in the School of Medicine, died last month of cancer and Parkinson's disease. He was 58.
A native of Sri Lanka, Jegasothy came to Pitt as professor of dermatology and chair of the department in 1987, a position he held until 1999. Prior to that he held appointments at the University of Pennsylvania School of Medicine, Duke University Medical Center and Yale University School of Medicine, where he did his dermatology residency. He earned a bachelor's degree in biology in 1961 and a medical degree in 1966, both at the University of Ceylon. He also held a master's from Penn.
He was a member of the Society for Investigative Dermatology, the American Academy of Dermatology, the American Federation for Clinical Research and the American Society for Dermatologic Allergy and Immunology, among others.
Author of several books and hundreds of articles, abstracts and chapters, Jegasothy was a frequent consultant and held several visiting professorships. At Pitt, he served on numerous academic committees, including the medical school executive committee, the graduate medical training subcommittee and committees on residency training for occupational medicine, and health and safety at the Graduate School of Public Health.
Jegasothy helped found the Asian Indian Christian Church of Pittsburgh, an organization serving local members of the Indian subcontinent community.
His wife, Juliet, is medical director of the managed care division at UPMC Health System.
Memorial contributions may be made to the Asian Indian Christian Church of Pittsburgh, 3503 Beechwood Blvd., Pittsburgh 15217.
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The night of the 9th May, 2001 was indeed one of the stormiest, which yielded to a calm yet rainless, cloudy day to allow for a befitting funeral for Kenneth M de Lanerolle, who passed away on the 5th May, having completed his 90th birthday on the 20th of April. His remains was placed at AF Raymond's to allow the general public who knew him to pay their last respects upto the 9th morning, and thereafter it was transferred to the Wesley College Hall. At the College gate the cortege was met by the Principal, Mr.Dunstan Fernando, and Vice Principal Rev. Shihan Fernando, members of the staff, and Old Boys. A smart guard of honour was presented by the College Prefects, and Boy Scouts, and the casket was then carried, draped in the College Flag by the Prefects, all smartly attired in white longs and Blue Blazers, to the College Hall up the driveway, whilst Marshall ( the aging College Boy) tolled the College Bell, to mourn, as if, the departure of a great friend of Wesley. In the College Hall, the casket was placed on the bier and opened, and there was his mortal remains in a serene slumber of death., dressed in the manner he decreed, which was a simple National costume. Behind him was a garlanded youthful photograph, which normally adorned the walls of the Hall in company with other illustrious principals. Many present would re-call the same Kenneth de Lanerolle, as his elegant smart handsome self, with flowing gown, emerging on the stage from the rear to deliver in his most eloquent and perfectly enunciated diction an address to all present, to which they listened enraptured. It could have been a College Prize Day Report or a morning assembly.
Alas that voice was now stilled that once resonated across the College Hall. A hymn was then sung led by the school choir, and a prayer for his soul was said by the College Chaplain Rev. Shihan Fernando, who also thanked God for the life and service of Kenneth M. de Lanerolle. It was now 2.00pm, and the Principal and staff, old boys and present boys filed past to pay their respects and mourn the loss of great teacher , Principal, Vice Principal of Wesley. More Hymns were sung, and then the clergy Rev. Noel Fernando, Chairman of the Methodist Synod, and Rev. Ratnanayagam arrived to conduct a service at Wesley.
The service began with singing of the Hymn " Thine be the glory, risen conquering son", and was followed by reading from the Holy Bible by Rev. Noel Fernando. Then Hilary de Alwis, a student of Kenneth de Lanerolle, led the congregation in prayer, recalling and thanking God for the personal benefits he received, as well as many hundreds of others, from the guidance and direction he bestowed on his students. Then followed tributes by Shelton Peiris on behalf of Wesley College, and Geoffrey Scott on behalf of Kingswood College. Shelton Peiris dwelt on the many facets of the once very versatile Kenneth de Lanerolle. He was a teacher, elocutionist, with an admirable command of the English language, an actor, artist, photographer, writer and he directed the students' affairs in many disciplines. Geoffrey Scott recalled the valuable contribution he made to Kingswood College, as a fine administrator admired by staff and students alike. Another Hymn was sung, and to close the ceremony two of his grand-nephews Rohan & Ishan de Lanerolle rendered an appropriate duet in their rich baritone voices. Then Rev. Ratnanayagam pronounced the benediction, and family members bade their final farewell before the casket was closed. The casket was draped once again in the College Flag and borne by the College Prefects to the waiting hearse, to take him on his last journey to the Kanatte Cemetery.
The cortege was followed on foot by the senior prefects, scouts and others all the way to the lych gate at Kanatte, where was assembled a large number of old boys of Wesley, and Gentlemen of Kingswood. A long white cord was then attached to the hearse, and Old boys, held this cord upto a distance of hundred feet ahead to slowly vend their way to the crematorium. The pall bearers were Principal of Wesley, Mr. Dunstan Fernando, Principal of Kingswood, Mr.S.Chandrasekera, Mr.Edmund Dissanayake, Mr Tissa Jayatilleke, Mr Terry Benson and Mr Rienzie Wijetillake. The service at the crematorium was conducted by Rev. James Ratnanayagam, in the presence of large and distinguished gathering . In his funeral oration, Rev. Ratnanayagam dwelt on the life of Kenneth de Lanerolle, which he said was one of significant fulfillment. He was an outstanding educationist. He inspired so many many young people in his roles as Principal of several schools. And later served on several committees and formulated policy on several major educational topics. Indeed it was a full life, rich in quality and fulfillment. At the end of the oration a Hymn was sung and thereafter his mortal remains was consigned to the flames, after the benediction.
Among those present were family members , Mrs. Kalindi Wirasingha (daughter) and her husband Dr.Chula Wirasingha, his grand-daughters Shalomi and Chitrangani, Mrs. Lilamani Benson, Mrs Krishni Fernando and Mrs Nirukshi Fernando (nieces), Priya Jayawardena, Rohan de Lanerolle, Harris de Lanerolle and Mohan de Lanerolle nephews, Principals of Wesley and Kingswood, Mr.Dunstan Fernando, Mr.S.Chanderasekera, Emeritus Bishop Swithin Fernando, President and Commitee Members of the Wesley College OBU, and Kingswood Union, Mr. Rienzie Wijetillake and Mr.Asoka Perera. President of the Wesley Welfare Society, Mr.Tyrone Maye, President of the Wesley Sports Club Capt. Navin de Silva., as well as a large and representative gathering too numerous to name. Of the many old boys who turned out in their numbers to pay their last respects to Mr Kenneth de Lanerolle, many made spontaneous and sincere mention to family members of the depth of his influence in their lives. 'He made a man of me,' was what they all seemed to say!
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It is with a great sense of sorrow that I pen these few words as a tribute to one of my well-loved and revered teachers at whose feet I had the good fortune of studying as a student at Wesley College, Colombo.The demise of Mr. Kenneth M. de Lanerolle who passed away a few days ago, at the ripe old age of ninety, has removed from us yet another outstanding and respected teacher this country has produced. It was only a few months ago that he celebrated his 90th birthday.My own recollection of Mr. Lanerolle goes back to more than five decades ago, when I was admitted to Wesley College as a kindergarden student, when Rev. James Cartman was then the principal, and the late Mr. Lanerolle was vice-principal.
Mr. Lanerolle who was a graduate of the University of London, also held a M.A. degree in Linguistics from the University of Michigan, U.S.A. He was a Fellow of the Royal Geographical Society and led many important teams of educationists and teachers to a number of countries.After many years of selfless service as the Vice Principal of Wesley College, he became the head of Kingswood College, Kandy. On retirement after a long and illustrious teaching career, he was appointed the Director of the Asian Christian Service in Vietnam, where for the yeoman services rendered he was awarded the Social Services Medal. Returning from this assignment in Vietnam he devoted himself to the activities of the National Christian Council and served in that organisation in many capacities.
When I joined Wesley College it had on its staff teachers of high calibre who moulded and guided the students upholding, the values and ideals of the highest order with utmost loyalty and dedication.If I were to single out one teacher who had the greatest impact on my life, it was Mr. Lanerolle. He was a teacher par excellence who gave himself to the cause of education and moral upliftment of the children in this country. He was one of the most versatile men I have had the fortune of coming in contact with. He was broadcaster, linguist, sportsman, dramatist, singer and actor. He was an excellent teacher and one of the finest English masters we have had. He was a stickler for grammatical accuracy and his language was unimpeachable. He had remarkable mastery of the English language and made every lesson in English come alive. He was always punctual, smartly and immaculately dressed. He instilled in everyone of us a sense of discipline and dedication.
To those in the teaching profession he was and will be an ideal and a shining model. His upright walk along the corridors of the college building was itself an example to the pupils.Mr. Lanerolle belonged to a rare breed of teachers who possessed an extensive knowledge in many fields other than his speciality - the English Language. He has written number of books and contributed extensively to the media.The character of the life he led may be summarized in a few words. He was self-sacrificing, indefatigable, conscientious and sincere.
He lived a full fruitful and meaningful life and met his death without having to endure the pangs of protracted illness and suffering.Wesley College and the other education institutions where he served should consider themselves fortunate to have had a man of high eminence and intellectual attainment like Mr. Lanerolle. Students who came under his influence and had the privilege of learning at his feet had their lives determined in one or another by his character and personality. His life was based on Christian principles which he never failed to profess and practice. A few days before his death, 1 went to look him up, addressing me in a feeble voice he said, "Chandradasa, I am now in the Departure Lounge". With his death our country has lost a teacher of undoubted stature who will be difficult to replace.
Now this great teacher has gone leaving a void in many places where he was needed and loved. All his pupils and the institutions he served owe a great deal to him and his name will be honoured with undying gratitude for many generations to come.
Mr. Lanerolle is now no more but his noble resplendent spirit will remain with us.
May he rest in peace!
In Memoriam - Kenneth M. de Lanerolle
With the death of Kenneth M. de Lanerolle in May this year at the age of 90, the life of an illustrious educationist ended.
Educated at Richmond, he was successively Vice Principal of Wesley, Principal of Kingswood and Principal of Wesley - all of them Methodist institutions set up in the 19th century in the noblest traditions of a liberal education by illustrious principals, Darrell, Blaze and Highfield. De Lanerolle picked up his role from them as a versatile, and gifted teacher, linguist, novelist, broadcaster, actor, playwright, poet, humorist, painter, geographer, public speaker and administrator.All these talents were gracefully blended in one outstanding school principal - the likes of which we will never see again in our grim educational landscape. My association with Mr. de Lanerolle was mainly, though by no means exclusively, in the field of English teaching, a vocation we shared. The late Minister of Education Dr. Badi-ud-din Mahmud hand- picked him to head a Committee of Inquiry into the Teaching of English in the Schools of Sri Lanka (CITE). The leadership he gave to this committee and the commitment and zeal with which he accomplished an important assignment designed to give our country "a place in the sun" are etched in my memory and undoubtedly in the memories of those who were associated with him in his task.'A Place in the Sun' was the apt title he gave to his report, which consisted of two parts and ran into 382 mimeographed pages. It appeared in 1973 in the aftermath of the lunar conquest, that "giant leap for mankind".
De Lanerolle's report contained 21 chapters, whose titles give an idea of the scope of its coverage: * The role of English in South and South East Asia; English in Sri Lanka; The Demands for English; English in the Schools; Outline of a Plan.* Beginning English; the Four Year Course; English in Schools after NCGE: The use of the Mother Tongue in TESL; Libraries, Preparation of Classroom Material and Creative Works in English; The Place of Literature;* Evaluating and Testing; Learning and Teaching in and out of school; Recruitment and Deployment of Teachers; The Good English Teacher; Teacher Education; Regional English Units; The Administration of English, Research and International Contacts. We wonder, as did de Lanerolle in the last lap of his earthy sojourn, if the present educational establishment has even heard of a report titled "A Place in the Sun". Professor Gooneratne's brief communique to CITE sounds true, after all: It's not only English teaching that is dead but most of the members of the committee that inquired into it, not to speak of Minister Mahmud and a good many of those who submitted their excellent oral and written submissions.
For me, to remember Kenneth de Lanerolle is to summon up, among many other remembrances, CITE and the long hours I spent with him in a truly educative experience producing A Place in the Sun". CN
Instructive and inspiring master-pupil relationship to the end
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| Vice Principals bungalow at Wesley where Mr Lanerolle lived in the 1950's |
Brohier Memorial Elders Home in Wellawatte where Mr Lanerolle spent his final years |
Kenneth. M. de Lanerolle was my teacher at Wesley College, Colombo. As an ardent Buddhist, I owe him a deep debt of gratitude for all the English he taught me, and the ethical values I learnt in the awesome aura of his rich Christian life and experience.
In school, he earned the respect and admiration of his pupils by his ability to enforce discipline. Mr Lanerolle was a terror because he was a disciplinarian, but we loved and respected him all the same. We knew he was showering us with parental care and moulding us as responsible future citizens. In school, I would nervously say, “Good morning, Sir”, and now, with equal respect and humility I say, “Fare thee well, Sir, on thy onward journey.”
I lost touch with Mr Lanerolle after leaving school. I had heard that he had headed a Sri Lankan mission that served in Vietnam during the Vietnam War.
One day, when I was living in Kandy, I ran into him quite unexpectedly on Peradeniya Road. He was thrilled to recall the old school ties. He visited me the next morning, driving his Volkswagen Beetle to “Haanswyk”, in Asgiriya, where I was staying. From then on I would call on him at his home in Peradeniya Road, where he lived with his sister Hazel, of whom he was very fond.
All these visits were spiritual communications of sorts, at which master and pupil discovered each other in depth. Every visit turned into a discourse on English. We discussed at length many intricate points in English usage.
I always addressed him as “Sir”. One day, when I was visiting him, his sister Hazel called out to me and said, “Mervyn, could you please ask Uncle whether he would like to have his tea now.” My guru overheard this, and promptly shot back at his sister, saying, “No, Hazel, he cannot call me Uncle, he was my pupil.”
Later, when distance separated us again, we kept in touch by letter. His long type-written letters were quite interesting. His signature was the most curious I have ever seen; it looked like a flight of birds. Sometimes he would enclose little works, such as “The Seven Ages of Woman”, or “The English Teacher.”
He complimented me for keeping alive the lost art of letter writing. His last letter to me came when I was in England. It was written for him by someone at the Brohier Memorial Elders’ Home, where he spent his last days.
After my Kandy days, we would meet frequently at Wesley College, where he was on a special assignment while in retirement. He would stay for periods in Watapuluwa, Pitakotte, and Mt. Lavinia, before moving into the Brohier Memorial Elders’ Home. He lost his sister Hazel at the time he was living in Mt. Lavinia. His mood changed very much with her death.
Whenever I called on him at Buller’s Lane, during his visits to Colombo from Watapuluwa. Mr Lanerolle he would discuss with me his last pet project, “Names to Remember.” He invited me to the book launch. He was also concerned about a reprint of “Southern River.” I have with me a copy of “Names to Remember”, and other books of his, all of which strengthen my memories of a teacher of a rare kind.
It was heart-warming to see so many of his old pupils calling on him from time to time at the Brohier Memorial Home, and graciously doing things for him. If there was anything he would have called his “absolute favourite”, it was seeni-kehel bananas.
He told visitors that he wanted them to see him dressed in his pyjamas. He always had a new pair of pyjamas ready and stored under his bed. He certainly left his footprints in the sands of time.
May we meet you again, Sir, on that distant shore.
Mr Lanerolle addressing the Old Boys in Melbourne 1989
Links to further reading
- Kenneth M de Lanerolle
- No School is an Island by K.M.de Lanerolle
- Kenneth M de Lanerolle remembered by Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
- K.M.de Lanerolle by D.F.Abeysekera - 1959 Magazine
- To Sir, with Love.... A tribute to Kenneth De Lanerolle of Wesley by Fred Abeyesekera 26/10/ 200
- Kenneth M de Lanerolle by D.F.Abeysekera
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A Teacher at Wesley 1946-1979
In 1972 I took part in a six month Asia Youth Leadership Training programme. This took me to the Philippines for close to four months. I did not know that the Methodist Church in Sri Lanka sent Mr. Vethanayagam for a similar training programme almost as soon as I left the Philippines. I learnt with much sadness from my Philippians Counter part that Mr. Vethanayagam died in a boating accident. I remember some of those boating rides: They were most challenging!!
Addendum by Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
I remember Mr.Vethanayagam when he was a Boarding Master. He was a kind and gentle person not very fond of sports, as I recall. He was affectionately called Vetha . He was enthusiastic, knowledgeable, approachable and always willing to help. Mr.Vethanayagam left the hostel after his marriage but never failed to greet us with a smile on the corridor in the years that followed. Mr.Vetha took an active interest in the Tamil stream of the school and remember being involved in many of the Tamil plays. He was a deeply religious person and served the school for well over 25 years.
May his Soul Rest in Peace
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A Teacher at Wesley 1931-1959
JLF was an avuncular gentleman who brought gravitas to the profession. He was an energetic, plain-speaking school headmaster who earned the lasting affection of several generations of schoolboys. JLF was a headmaster for much of his career, he never gave up teaching and remained an inspiration in the classroom, particularly to boys who found mathematics difficult. A modest, affable man, he had the knack of winning the trust of the students and their parents. With his winning smile, he had a manner which inspired complete confidence in those who came to know him. He was respected by colleagues and revered by students.
JLF was the Headmaster of the school during my time at Wesley in the 1950's. He spoke with authority, composure and and a twinkle in his eye. In outward appearance and dress JLF might have been mistaken for a pillar of the Establishment. In reality he was quite the opposite. He was one of God's good men in the harsh environment of education in the 1950's. He was a kind man who spoke softly, whatever the situation. JLF wasn't a reformer but an old fashioned teacher who provided a good education to the many who passed through the gates of Wesley College.
The post of Headmaster occupied an "odd" position in the school management hierarchy. But it is evident that his job required tact, discretion, tough-mindedness and a healthy dose of common sense — qualities that this man of God had in abundance. It says much that JLF retained the respect and goodwill of all who came into contact with him.
For many years he lived in the Vice Principal's bungalow with his family. Within the school premises his charm made him an affable presence.
During his years as the Master in Charge of Cricket we had phenominal success in that sport in the 1950's.
Though self-effacing in manner and absorbed in the challenges of his own Profession, he was admired by his peers as one of the most effective Headmasters of his time. JLF possessed the invaluable gift of inspiring those who worked with him to achieve things that they had not previously believed they could do. He worked tirelessly to achieve his goals as a teacher. Behind a deceptively bland exterior there was always a shrewd mind and a firm hand. JLF was known for his diplomacy and caring ways. He combined wit and charm with integrity, professional modesty and quiet determination. He served at Wesley for well over 25 years and grew old gracefully with great respect and dignity.
JLF believed in the power of preaching and delivered clear and concise teachings at assembly which were non patronising and simple. His incisive intellect and occasionally mumbling style of delivery was well loved and respected. He came to the Hostel once a week to take the prayers on a Tuesday at 7.45pm. He was always a pious man and a tireless crusader. He did not seek to convert boys to Christianity but made religion accessible and available to those who seek it. He had an indefatigable faith and sense of mission. His Christianity was all about people and was a regular visitor to the Welikada Jail. His faith was strong, simple and serene. He was a devoted teacher to his students at school, taking great care especially of those who fell into any kind of trouble. His pastoral skills were displayed in his care of those at Wesley. JLF will be fondly remembered by the Wesleyites whose lives he touched.
Generations of Wesleyites as well as their families and friends have relied on JLF's advice, prayers and support at times of confusion loss pain and sorrow. He considered his teaching duties to be particularly important and enjoyed nurturing the aspirations of his students. JLF has also gone on to share their good times of hope and glory. He shepherded students through triumphs and disasters with an avuncular authority. One of his greatest assets was his ability to remember boys and their parents and what they did and went on to do. Many Old Boys received letters from him in later life congratulating them on their achievements. These attributes propelled him beyond the role of simple Headmaster..
JLF De Mel lived for many years in the Wesley College Flats with his wife, young daughters and son, Prem. He and the family were well known to the schoolboys and his pretty daughters brightened the functions at College no end. Prem was well loved at school. After he left Wesley he worked in the printing department at Lake House Printers. He emigrated to Perth. I was saddened to hear Prem who was a Wesleyite died young in Perth Western Australia. He was a smiler and was a happy lad, always. To be the son of the Headmaster at school couldn't have been easy. We remember Prem's life and times at Wesley College with great affection.
In retirement, he combined his interest in Religion and school affairs related to the Welfare Board. JLF De Mel lived in Kolonnawa in a lovely house on a hill between 1959 and 1961. I too lived in Kolonnawa during that time in my 6th Form years. He may have been retired then and managing the Welfare Board.
JLF was admitted to my ward in the General Hospital Colombo when he got a severe heart attack in 1974. When he was terminally ill, as I attended to him, he asked me aren't you a Wesleyite. I said yes, which made him smile. He was promptly transferred to the Coronary care unit where he passed away the next day. He led a busy and fulfilling life right to the end.
The combination of humility and intellect left a powerful impression on all those who met him. Charming, courteous and shrewd he gave freely of his time. To generations of Wesleyites he was the voice of reason. I recall his storytelling , playful humour, and concientous teaching. Such teachers dont exist anymore. Mr JLF De Mel's contributions to Wesley College were unparalleled. His death, a great loss. There is nobody quite like him and he is missed enormously by all who came into contact with the great man. We will remember his colourful character, his extraordinary wisdom and his gloriously old fashioned ways but most of all his warmth, his depth and his heart. Generations of students he taught, his former colleagues, and the many beneficiaries of his kindness will be ever thankful to Mr JLF De Mel.
We remember most warmly Fred and Prem De Mel for their contribution to our lives at school.
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"One of God's good men" So said those who knew you then, You loved beauty and honesty, High ideals mixed with simplicity, Alas to your glorious life came the end; You died as you lived-everyone's friend. Fred de Mel veteran and beloved Head- master of Wesley College, was called for higher service, quite suddenly, at the age of 74, on the 2nd of January 1974. The vast number of old Wesleyites, his colleagues, friends and relations who gathered to pay their last respects, proved his popularity.
He joined Wesley College and served there right through for 30 years until he retired in 1959, as Headmaster, having acted for some time as Vice-Principal. During his long stay at Wesley, Fred was one of the most painstaking teachers. He was at one time Secretary, and later President, of the Teachers' Guild. He was Cricket Master from 1947 to 1959. He took a keen interest in the Staff Tennis Club and in the S. C. M. He spent his leisure time teaching English to the prisoners at Welikade Jail. These prisoners always looked forward eagerly to the arrival of Fred de Mel with his band of helpers.
He threw himself into every activity at portion in life, good or bad, he accepted with unswerving faith and thankfulness. He did not banker after praise or high office. He bore no ill-will toward anyone. Injustice raised his anger but there was never any malice. Fred de Mel was a firm administrator and disciplinarian. All shoddy work was abhorrent to him. The teachers of Wesley will know what keen understanding and insight be had regarding the duties and responsibility- ties of a good teacher. His loving concern for Wesley exceeded even that of an Old Boy and everything was done for Wesley, not with a fanfare of trumpets, but with a quiet graciousness of spirit so that no one person in the College knew all he did.
He was a practicing Christian, transparently honest and sincere. When Wesley opted to be a non-fee-levying private school in 1960 and formed a Welfare Society, the unanimous choice for secretary was, of course, Fred de Mel. He, perhaps, worked harder in this capacity than when on the staff.
On that memorable morning of March the 9th., the College Centenary Old Boys' Cricket Match began, and Rama stepped out of the Pavilion from among some of his life-long friends and his wife Sushila, no one thought that it would be his last glorious hour with them. In sun-drenched enthusiasm he played, displaying that same schoolboy zest and vigour (capturing two wickets for 13 runs) and urging the others on. Then, even in his moment of glory, without the least warning, the Grim Reaper brought his innings to an abrupt and unexpected end. Rama-"Chuttie" to his close friends- was always gentle and unruffled, his cherubic smile draining the fire out of us when we ignored reason. Like his illustrious cousin, M. Sathasivam cricket was Rama's first love, and with this passion he brought honour to Wesley and a sparkle to her cricket in the forties.
He was a College Prefect and the First XI Vice-Captain in 1944/45. He was a keen student and later proceeded to read law at Lincoln's Inn. On his return he was saddled with the responsibility of managing the family estates, which Rama did with characteristic efficiency. And now he has gone ahead, having played his last earthly innings with no complaint, wearing that typical smile, to that Pavilion of the Immortals, and to his eternal rest. His 'Ashes' shall be retained in the urns of our memory for all time.
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My first recollection of M.Y.de Alwis is as a Prefect at Wesley dressed in brilliant white standing by a hall door at school assembly. Thereafter he gained entrance to the University of Peradeniya. After obtaining his Bachelor of Arts degree he joined the staff of Wesley College. He taught English and History to the 6th Formers and was a gifted teacher.
It is more than 50 years ago 1954-56 when Maxwell de Alwis was the Senior Hostel Master. He was slim and tall and had a forever-youthful look. He spoke to us with his tenor voice, at times firmly. I remember he maintained good rapport with the senior students but the juniors feared his temper. He used the cane sparingly and kept good order in the boarding. Sports was never his passion and was rarely seen at Campbell Park. Classical Music was his life and his radio echoed his love of Mozart and Beethoven. In the hostel we often saw him wearing a scarf round his neck giving us the impression he was unwell. He had no time for small talk and spoke about things that mattered in day to day life in the boarding.
His real gift was in the sphere of choir training and conducting. He established the School Choir and made it fashionable to be a Chorister giving them special privileges. I recall the choir practices on Sunday afternoons and after prep on weekdays as most choristers were boarders. Cecil and Arthur Barbut, S.K. and Ranjit Seneviratne, NAB Fernando, Senaka Jayasinghe, E.Y.Buell, Nimal Sureweere, Daya Peiris, Kenneth Anthonisz, Sheriff Fallil, Michael Christoffelsz BCRN Fernando, NGA Fernando are some of the names that come to mind.
Some Sundays we sang at the Maradana Methodist Church. I particularly remember singing at Mr.Wilfred Wickramasinghe's Wedding (He married Miss Pinto-Jayawardene who was our singing teacher) . The treble, Alto,Tenor and Base singers brought beautiful four part harmony thanks to the efforts of Maxwell De Alwis. "Maxy" as he was affectionately called conducted the proceedings. The production Alad-in-and Out produced glorious performances and was a hit right from the start. It was shown also at Wesley College and also Kingswood College Kandy. These performances garnered glowing reviews. Miss Mary Colin Thome provided the piano accompaniment. During Easter we sang Jesu Joy of Man's desiring and other works by Palestrina. During Lent there was an invitation from The Royal Air force Base at Katunayake to sing those special Lenten Hymns and sacred songs. Joy Gunewickrema sang a baritone solo which was well received. For Christmas there were the Nine Lessons and carols sung at the Maradana Church and at Wesley College. Dayaprasad Peiris and Nimal Sureweere were the solo singers. I particularly recall singing " In Dulci Jubilo" all in Latin. Maxwell De Alwis always kept our interest alive by introducing barber shop quartets and remember Lyle Godridge singing baritone, at school, for a lively Group. Despite the hours of gruelling practices it was a marvellously harmonius time for us all. The camaraderie of the choristers out lived our school lives many times over.
The highlight of our Choir Calendar was our Carols by Candlelight. Maxwell De Alwis hired a coach which took us to the houses of old boys and well wishers. After singing the carols we were showered with gifts and food. We enjoyed this immensely and was great night out. Perhaps the "Boss" considered this a special treat for the Choristers who had worked hard all year round.
Maxwell De Alwis was one of the most inspired and charismatic choirmasters of his generation. He unearthed expressive qualities that had disappeared under the weight of religious music. He made it his mission to inject more colour into the music spectrum. It was at Wesley College that his supreme skill as a choir trainer came to fruition. The expressive sound quality that he produced from the choristers was outstanding, and more than a match for the work being done by his high-profile contemporaries in other prominent schools in Colombo and Kandy. His presence was commanding, and he gave his time generously to develop a fine Choir at school. He was a demanding taskmaster and choir discipline was always strict. Any hint of laziness or total commitment to the choir would infuriate him. He was inspirational and a master of detail at times difficult to please. Rehearsals were a testing time for everyone. Yet the choristers gave him their loyalty, respect and affection; and, later in life, grateful recognition that he had enabled them to sing at a level of excellence they had thought unattainable. The singing of hymns – musically, rhythmically and with clear enunciation of the words – was renowned throughout the country.
Through his passion for the Choir, he gave his choristers the key to phrasing, dynamics, tone-colour and expression. The result was a sublime sound most pleasing to the ear. Whether he was piloting the choir through uncharted musical territory, or rehearsing an apparently simple Hymn, he infused music with life and energy. When the music began, magic filled the air and thrilled the audiences wherever we sang.
Maxwell De Alwis was a very private person outside his choir work. The school Choir was his pride and joy. He was a strict disciplinarian but remained very practical and kind. His brother who was also a boarder was treated like the rest of usl. Students loved him, and so did his colleagues, to whom he was generous with his time, interest and encouragement. He was a man who enjoyed simple things, a man of unostentatious spirituality, a man whose happiness was contagious. There were time when I felt although he was physically with us his mind was far away. Maxwell De Alwis suffered with poor health for many years. He was never one to make much of a fuss; he announced his departure without any fanfare.
Maxwell De Alwis never married. He left Wesley to join a Christian Organisation for which he worked for several years before becoming a Priest. His greatest achievement came towards the end of his life – joining the Church. He was faithful, not pious, and modest about his great intellectual gifts. He loved the good things of life but was the least materialistic of men. Rev Maxwell De Alwis became an immensely likeable man of charm and sensibility, exuding in every contact the courtesy and kindliness well suited for his new chosen profession. I was deeply saddened to hear that Rev.Maxwell De Alwis died in the early 1970's at the General Hospital Colombo. His death was in its way no less inspiring. He accomplished it with good humour, courage and firm belief. If he had ever felt surprise that his maker had singled out a good and faithful servant at a relatively early age, who still had much to contribute to the Church, he did not show it. We appreciate greatly what he has achieved in his short but eventful life. He was still loved and respected at Wesley. He was hugely loved and will always be remembered for his immense contribution to the life of the school and the wonderful Choir he established.
A short account of his Ministry in England at ALL Hallows Church North Greenford - From the Church Chronicles (Hidden Light 1931-81)
This is one of the "45 churches" started in the 1930s as London suburbs expanded. Following from a building which is now the church hall, this was built in 1941.
Maxwell de Alwis was curate for the first half of this decade. Max, as he was affectionately known, was a jolly gentleman from Ceylon who was too good for All Hallows. Despite his superior intelligence and intellect, he was approachable. Many thought they could eat curry until they tried Ceylon curries and were reduced to tears!
Max spent a certain amount of time abroad at conferences but on one occasion Max thought it was time to have one of the conferences at All Hallows and the continentals came here. Max tried to raise the congregation to his level by holding courses on comparative religion.
In 1963 he showed his musical talent by producing "Swanee",a black and white minstrel show. This show was probably the last of a long line of productions which started in the earliest days. I think it is a pity we no longer have these activities.
Father Ginever left in 1963 and Max stood in during the interegnum of five months. Shortly after the arrival of John Crane, Max left to return to Ceylon, concluding his display of versatility by showing that he could play the spoons.
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Served Ceylon 1873-1889
Rev. Samuel Rowse Wilkin was born at Porkellis, Helston, England on 14th February 1849. His father being a local Preacher and class leader. Converted in 1865, he began to preach two years later, and was sent in 1873 to South Ceylon.
In 1882 he took over the stewardship of Richmond College. He was the Principal of Richmond until 1888. He served as the first Principal of Wesley College Colombo, for several years. In Galle he did much to train Sinhalese Ministers, evangelists and teachers.
Rev. Wilkin returned to England in 1889, and he continued to render devoted sevice. His preaching was instructive and useful. He was systematic and faithful in all pastoral duty, skilfully used his great gift of sympathy. He had a wealth of tender affection, often indeed concealed but always effectual. His was a strong faithful ministry throughout.
He died with startling suddenness at Bangor, on 16th February 1918, in his 70th year and in the 46th of his ministry.
Information obtained from the Assistant Archivist of the School of Oriental and African Studies at the University of London
The true character of a school is reflected in the school magazine as it mirrors both its virtues and weaknesses. Our first school magazine was published during Rev. Wilkin's period. Before taking over Richmond College, he served as the first principal of Wesley College from 1837 to 1887. Therefore, when he assumed duties at Richmond in 1882, he was already well experienced in administering a school. During his period, the syllabuses were expanded substantially, and the children were trained to sit, first Calcutta University examinations, and in 1884 the Cambridge examinations. He also added shorthand and woodwork to the school curriculum. He was also responsible in providing new facilities to the hostel. A new dormitory and hall were constructed during his time. Rev. Wilkin was born in England on 14th February, 1849. He entered Church in 1873, and arrived in Sri Lanka on the 25th October of the same year. He left for England in April, 1888, and died on 16th February, 1918.
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Born November 20th 1854, at Retford, where his father, the Rev. John Shipham, was then stationed. He was at Kingswood School for seven years and there received the impulse that determined his subsequent career. With characteristic precision recorded that he "found peace at ten o'clock on the evening September 21st, 1868." He was than a boy of thirteen, and from then onward he felt that he was Surely called to be a preacher of the Gospel. He was accepted as a Candidate in 1874 and after a year at Richmond he was sent out to Ceylon. For thirteen years he made full proof his ministry in the Colombo District.
He returned to England in 1888 and gave thirty-one strenuous years to circuit work. Eight years he became a Supernumerary and spent his retirement in Southport. His modesty and Sincerity won for him everywhere, the affection and confidence of our people. Every demand that the Church made upon him was met with a loyal and loving response. As preacher pastor administrator, he was always found faithful. And he did not labour in vain. By his unobtrusive yet fervent devotion he led many to whom he ministered into the joy and peace of a real experience of God. He was a life long student of Theology, and until Ill-health prevented him he was ever seeking to help young local preachers to equip themselves to their work. He suffered much in his last months, but did not fear death's challenge, for he knew that it could not separate him from the love of God. He died in that assurance on February 9th 1927 in the seventy third year of his age and the fifty-second of his ministry.
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Samuel Hill, who was born in Lancaster on 8th December, 1853, became a missionary in 1878. He arrived in Ceylon a year later, succeeding Rev. Langdon as the principal of Richmond College. He did a distinctive service, specially in raising the standard of the school in the academic context. During his period, the boys of Richmond excelled in public examinations. It was on his recommendation as principal that the decision was taken by the District Committee of the Methodist Mission to rename the school as Richmond College. Rev. Hill has published a few books on English grammar. Professor D. M. De Z. Wickremasinghe, who was a famous scholar, was a pupil of Rev. Hill. He left Richmond in 1882 and for nearly two years did missionary work in Moratuwa. He also held the post of principal of Wesley College from 1884-85. Rev. Hill died in Colombo on 25th November, 1885
The most prestigious award at Wesley College is the Hill Medal named in honour of Rev Samuel Hill. It is given to the student who received the highest total marks at the University Entrance Examination and is awarded every year. There is a board in the Great hall to honour those students whose names are inscribed in bold white. --Editor NDA
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Born at Bacup April 29 1860. After 3 years at Richmond he was sent to South Ceylon in 1883 where he spent 34 years. As Principal of Wesley College Colombo he brought that instituition into the front rank of Ceylon Schools. He soon became known as a preacher as well as an educationist especially during his 3 years in Kandy where in addition to vernacular work he had to preach week by week to an English speaking congregation composed of people of several nationalities, both Eastern and Western. In 1894 he was appointed Chairman of the Colombo District. The 6 years of his Chairmanship were distinguished by advance in many directions- in mission buildings and organisations as well as spiritual efficiency.
In his English circuit work his sermons were marked by vigorous thought and clear and picturesque expression. He was a sympathetic and Methodical Pastor and showed great ability in the business affairs of the Church.
Amongst his gifts to Ceylon Christianity was a "life of Christ" in Sinhalese and to this he added just before his death "Life of Paul". He also published in England2 or 3 valuable volumes on missionary subjects. His work and character won admiration, confidence and affectionat home and abroad. Strong and firm he was at the same time gentle and sympathetic. and there was in his nature a happy strain of humour and poetic feeling. He kept his mind and teaching fresh by constant study and wide reading. In his preaching he put 1st things first and in all things he was the devoted soldier and servant of Jesus Christ. He died on July 7th 1920 after a long and trying illness borne with patience and Christian Cheerfulness.
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Born at Watton, near Brecon, in 1862. A son of the Manse, he was educated at Kingswood, took his degree when nineteen yearn of age and was accepted as a Candidate in 1888. During his first term at Richmond an urgent call came for educational work at Colombo, and he was sent out to become the Principal of Wesley College. In this and other important posts he rendered excellent service. After six years in Colombo he returned to England. and for thirty-two years exercised an efficient ministry.
His preaching was marked by clear thinking and forceful speech. In circuit administration he was keen and courageous, skillfully handling difficult situations. A retentive memory made his pastoral work very effective. He exercised a gracious and uplifting influence in the sick room, was a tender comforter of the bereaved and an encourager of the faint-hearted. He loved the "lilies of the field," and became, a recognised authority on the flora of the locality in which he lived. Retiring from the active work at the Conference of 1927, he met with an accident in Liverpool, and passed swiftly and painlessly to his reward on August 26th,1927
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Born at Littlehampton . Devon, in 1865. trained at Handsworth. In 1890 he went to Ceylon as Principal of Wesley College. Colombo, and much of the subsequent success of the College must be attributed to his fine leadership. Methodism in Ceylon was then moving towards the assumption of self-government, and in this formative and critical period he again proved the outstanding worth of his wise administration. For family reasons he was obliged to return home after twelve years of service in the island, but in 1908 he went East again, this time as the General Secretary of the Christian Literature Society of India, with headquarters at Madras. For nineteen years he provided countless Christians with educational, devotional, and theological literature, and into this task of utmost responsibility concentrated his energy, his remarkable gift of organisation and his passion for accurate scholarship, and achieved his goal with enduring success.
He was a pioneer in the creation of the Co-operative Banks in India, which today are proving of unspeakable benefit, and also in the creation of a Sustentation Fund for Indian ministers and their families. In 1923 he was elected Chairman of the Provincial Synod. When Dr. Mott carried through the series of Conferences that led to the formation of the National Christian Council for India, Burma, and Ceylon, he was responsible for organising the greatest of the Area Conferences. On returning again to England he served for a period in Sheerness, and in 1930 he retired to Harpenden. The man was greater than anything he did; his kindly wise counsel, his rich humour and impregnable integrity have helped, and will continue to help, all who were privileged to know him. The end came peacefully on April 20th, 1936.
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Information obtained from the Assistant Archivist of the School of Oriental and African Studies at the University of London
His early education was at Kingswood, and he afterwards took the MA. degree at London and Cambridge. He was accepted as a candidate for the ministry, and after training at Richmond was sent to Ceylon in 1895. Here he had charge of Wesley College. Colombo, and remained in Ceylon for thirty years. On returning to England he servedin the following circuits: Aberystwyth, Marazion, and Cradley Heath. He retired to Pickering in 1936 and to within a few months of his death was actively engaged in the life of the circuit, taking regular preaching appointments and leading a society class.
He will always be remembered for his outstanding work in Ceylon. it was under his guidance that the new Wesley College at Colombo was built, at a cost of £15,000, and largely through his unremitting efforts this magnificent structure 'was opened free of debt. He cycled throughout the length and breadth of Ceylon soliciting subscriptions for the enterprise, and actually collected £2500 in this way. He left a lasting impression on the public life of Ceylon. and many of his former pupils came to occupy posts of great administrative responsibility. The present Governor-General of Ceylon is one of his old students.
The Education Officer for Ceylon writes: Like "Arnold of Rugby ", he will ever be remembered as "Highfield of Wesley ".' He excelled as an expository preacher, his intimate knowledge of New Testament Greek enabling him to present ever-fresh aspects of Christian truth. During his retirement he freely placed his knowledge at the disposal of the probationers in the Ryedale area and guided their studies. He exercised a wonderfully helpful ministry in the homes of his people, where he was ever a welcome visitor.
He was utterly consecrated to his Lord and counted no sacrifice too great for the extension of the Kingdom. He was most generous in his financial support of the work of God at home and overseas, and never refused a duty he was able to fulfil. He died at Scarborough on 1st February 1955. in the ninetieth year of his life andi the sixtieth of his ministry. A host of friends in England and Ceylon give thanks for his life of service.
Links to further reading
- Highfield of Wesley by Prof.JLC Rodrigo
- Three hundred days of begging in the tropics by Rev. Highfield M.A.
- A Biographical sketch of Rev.Henry Highfield Edited by Rev.W.J.T.Small
- Highfield of Wesley by Shelton Peiris
- Highfield at Marazion by Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
- Rev. Henry Highfield in Aberystwyth 1926-29 by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
- Rev Henry Highfields letter to Mr Oorloff in 1951
- The begging Saint of Karlsruhe by HSAT Peiris
- Highfield of Wesley by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
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Rev Albert Hutchinson succeeded The Great Rev Henry Highfield as the Principal of Wesley College Colombo. He will be forever remembered for the introduction of the House System and the Prefect System to the school.
From Mr P.H Nonis
Rev Highfield's successor had already left England and was at that moment on the way-Rev. Albert Hutchinson, B. A., B.D.
Rev Hutchinson arrived in April 1925 with his wife and two children. Soon there was a third child, a son, who was named Michael Wesley. Every new Head of a school is faced with difficulties on taking up his new duties and the fact that Hutchinson had to succeed a manlike Highfield made his task doubly difficult. He was appointed to reorganise, to innovate and to put fresh life into a school which needed a younger man at the helm. Numbers increased and to meet the need for additional accommodation the Kindergarten and Junior School blocks were built
During the tenure of Rev Hutchinson the Chemistry Laboratory was fitted with work benches and the ground floor of the South Wing was fitted with tables and shelves to form the Physics Laboratory.
It was at this time, for instance, under the energetic principal ship of Rev. Hutchinson, that Mrs. Joyce Leembruggen was appointed head of the Kindergarten, a post which she held for many years until her retirement. Hundred of children must have benefited from the enlightened teaching methods instituted or developed by her and her assistants.
From Alfred (A.K) David
Rev. Albert Hutchinson (1925 – 1928) was Rev. Highfield’s successor. He was a keen disciplinarian, stressing particularly the importance of character building. It was no easy task to follow a Principal like Rev. Highfield, but those who knew Hutchinson speak of the valuable contribution he made to the life and wellbeing of the college. The present House system in Wesley together with Inter-House competitions was introduced during the time of Rev. Hutchinson. The suggestion to introduce the House system was made by Rev. Highfield but it was his successor who began it. The college was divided into four houses, three were named after the earlier Principals Wilkin, Hillard and Passmore, while the Boarding formed the fourth House (in 1947 its name was changed to Moscoop House).
The new venture was enthusiastically taken up by the students and keen inter-house rivalry followed. During his term of service, Rev. Hutchinson introduced into the college the Prefect system, which Rev. Cash had earlier started at the hostel. The Prefect system has since worked well and many prefects were trained for leadership. Rev. Hutchinson built a new Primary School block of five classrooms on the extreme north of the main building, and soon afterwards was responsible for the construction of the new kindergarten building near the Boarding Block on the Karlsruhe side.
In 1928 Rev. Hutchinson improved the Science laboratories. The two classrooms beneath the Chemistry laboratory were adapted to make the present Physics laboratory. The Chemistry laboratory itself was re-fitted in the same year. By his sound business acumen, Rev. Hutchinson placed the college which had been in debt, in a good financial position and provided the funds for the new buildings and other improvements.
From Dr Shanti McLelland
The stately arm chair majestically used by the Principal during morning assembly has been intricately carved and expertly hand crafted in teak, and beautifully woven in finely trimmed rattan. The prize procession was presented during the time of Rev. Albert Hutchinson
From Jeremy Brohier
Rev. Albert Hutchinson succeeded the Rev. Highfield in 1925. He was a keen disciplinarian who stressed the importance of character building. One of the few features during his tenure was the introduction of the present House system together with the Inter-House competitions. The College was divided into four houses; three were named after the earlier Principals, Wilkin, Hillard and Passmore, whilst the Boarding formed the fourth house.
This new venture was enthusiastically taken up by the students and keen inter-house rivalry followed. (Incidentally in 1947 the Boarding House changed its name to Moscrop House). Rev. Hutchinson built a new Primary school block of five classrooms on the extreme north of the main building soon after which he was responsible for the construction of the new Kindergarden building near the Boarding block on the Karlsrhue side.
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Born in Leeds on 2nd April 1898 into a family whose Methodist roots went back to the days of John Wesley. After leaving school at eighteen he enlisted as a soldier in the First World War, was wounded, taken prisoner and spent the rest of the war as a prisoner in Germany. After his release in 1919 he went first to Leeds University and then to Oriel College, Oxford, where he gained his MA. In 1924 the Wesleyan Missionary Society sent him to Ceylon where he became Vice-Principal of Wesley College, Colombo, and where he married Christine Raw, who loyally supported him in all his work. They had two daughters, Margaret and Rachel. From 1929 to 1940 John was Principal of Wesley, moving on to Richmond College where he also became Principal. In 1938 he was accepted for the ministry. He always looked upon his time in Ceylon as a period of great privilege and rich experience. In 1944 the Dalby family returned home and John's first appointment was to the Lincoln (Aldersgate) Circuit, followed by a term in his native county at Pudsey, and then back to Lincolnshire to the Sleaford (Northgate), Lincoln (Central) and Coningsby Circuits.
He retired in 1963 to Nettleham and continued to preach in and around Lincoln, becoming deeply involved in the life of the local Methodist Church where he was able to exercise his pastoral gifts to the full; for, scholar though he was, his great interest was always in people. He loved the fellowship of his colleagues and in staff meetings and FK his gentle humour was always appreciated. When old age and failing eyesight brought limitations, John joined the family at Stones Place MHA. Always sturdily independent, he came to terms with dependence, discovering the truth of Milton's words, "They also serve who only stand and wait." No longer able to conduct worship himself, he loved to share in the services at the home. On Christmas morning just before his death he was in his usual place for Holy Communion; as he received the elements John said as always his firm "Amen", in sure and certain hope of the resurrection to eternal life. Such was the manner of his passing from us on 30th December 1989 in the ninety-second year of his age and the fifty-second year of his ministry.
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Information obtained from the Assistant Archivist of the School of Oriental and African Studies at the University of London
Educated at Croydon High School for Boys and then gained a BA (Honours) and AKC at Kings College, London. He taught for a year in Cairo, returning home to candidate. He entered Wesley House, Cambridge, completing his studies in Berlin, sharing the Finch Travelling Scholarship with the Revd Raymond George. His first station was five years with the MMS in Ceylon, where he was ordained and where he finished as Principal of Wesley College, Colombo. In 1943 he became an army chaplain, serving in Burma and Palestine; whilst on leave he married Eleanor. Service at home was followed by a three-year posting to Egypt, a fruitful period when a number of service personnel accepted Christ, twelve of whom went on to serve in the ministry of various denominations.
Further postings at home followed, culminating with his appointment as Senior Methodist Chaplain, based at Aldershot.
He finished service after twenty three years in the army, reaching the rank of Colonel. In 1966 he moved to his first home station, as Superintendent of the Watford Circuit. Service in the Winchmore Hill Church followed. On retirement he resigned from the ministry out of principle, serving as field secretary for the Bible Lands Society.
Eleanor died in 1977. A year later he married Lucy and moved to Hemel Hempstead. Here he felt challenged to apply for reinstatement, becoming much loved within the Circuit. He preached with a depth of scholarship which was accessible to ordinary people.
A man of tremendous intellect, he was a Fellow of the Royal Philatelic Society; an expert in archaeology; a keen gardener; chairman of the local Probus Club; National President of the Bible Lands Society and Vice-President of the Garden Tomb Association; a member of the Wesley College (Colombo) Old Boys Association and the Burma Star Association. He delighted in his children, Paul, Mark, Timothy and Hilary and their families, and was cared for with great devotion by Lucy. David’s life was a pilgrimage, to many places, into many areas of secular, intellectual and community life and a spiritual pilgrimage as well. In his own words ‘It has all been by God’s grace, all of grace.’ He died on 5th May 1999 in the eighty-ninth year of his age and the sixty-fourth year of his ministry.
From Alfred David
Rev. David S.T.Izzett (1941 to 1943) assumed office in January 1941. One of Rev. Izzett’s first duties was to re organize the House system in the school extending it to all departments of the school curriculam. Hitherto, the House trophy had been awarded on results in sports alone, but now points were awarded not only for sports but for debating, attendance and for scholastic achievement. Rev. Izzett’s first year at Wesley was marked by considerable advances in respect of numbers, examination passes and sports achievements. In his second year, Wesley suffered dislocation along with other schools in Colombo due to the war. In April 1942, the College buildings were commandeered by the military authorities who gave the college very little time to remove its properties. In consequence, considerable losses were incurred both in the college buildings and the hostel, including valuable furniture and science equipment.
The college went into exile, first at Carey College, where in May 1942, the second term opened with only 45 students. Later, the college was removed to Kittiyakkara in Campbell Place, where a number of cadjan classrooms were erected. Soon after the commandeering of the college building, many members of the staff volunteered for civil defense work. Some of them were able to return to school after a few months but others were retained for a much longer period. During the following years, the number of students gradually increased again but the conditions under which the college had to work was most distressing. By the end of 1942, Rev. David Izzett joined H.M. Forces as a Chaplain.
He was the Parish Priest at Winchmore Hill, Enfield in North London for many years and was a friend to old Wesleyites during that time.
Chaplain of His Majesty's Armed Forces in 1943, Rev. Izzett was Principal of Wesley two years before (1941 and 1942). Returning to his native England, Rev. Izzet kept in close touch with the Old Boys in Sri Lanka and the United Kingdom Branch. His last message to the school was recorded and published in the 125th Anniversary Year's Souvenir.
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REV. JAMES Cartman, a former Principal of Wesley College, passed away in England on January 28 at the age of 87 years. He was known as the cricketing padre. Rev. Cartman was Wesley's head from 1945 to 1949 and during this period, Wesley fared well in sports. Having played for the Colombo Cricket Club (CCC), Rev. Cartman, was the first president of the Ceylon Schools Cricket Association. On his retirement, Rev. Cartman, was appointed by the government to be the Student's Welfare Officer at the Ceylon High Commission in London. He leaves behind his wife Winifred and daughter Christine Waver. His funeral takes place in London on February 5.
From Alfred David
The arrival of Rev. Cartman at Wesley also coincided with the adoption of a new Education policy by the Government. At that time Government Central Schools were opened in many parts of Ceylon and a large number of special posts, on a comparatively higher salary scale, were available for graduates and first class trained teachers. In view of these opportunities, together with the then fears regarding the future of the denominational schools, many well qualified and long experienced teachers accepted posts in the new central schools. Wesley like many other denominational schools experienced this exodus of teachers. Most of these qualified teachers who left were responsible for work in the upper School and to replace them was extremely difficult. Thus the college was called upon not only to fill the vacancies created by the resignation of teachers, but also to find additional teachers, including several specialist teachers.
After October 1945, the new education policy created several problems for Wesley. The Government made it obligatory for Christian schools to restrict their Christian religious teaching and training to the children of Christian parents. All non-Christian children, whether their parents desired it or not, were no longer permitted to attend a Christian Assembly, prayers, scripture classes or specifically Christian meetings. For these children, moral instruction classes were arranged.
Another state requirement was the insistence upon the mother tongue as the medium of instruction for children in the Primary School. Wesley was thus obliged to create parallel classes for standards 2, 3, 4 and 5: one stream for the Burghers and Muslims taught through the medium of English, the other for Sinhalese taught through the medium of Sinhalese. Along with the mother tongue requirement, came the regulation that all Ceylonese students must pass in either Sinhalese or Tamil at the Senior School Certificate. This sudden change caused much difficulty for many senior boys, especially Burghers who had taken Latin as their Second language.
In 1945 the Government made another far reaching decision when it adopted free education from the Kindergarten up too, and including the University: Denominational schools which hitherto levied fees were given three years to enter the free education scheme. Many schools joined immediately, fearing that if they remained outside the scheme, the State would open free state schools and draw away their students. Wesley was one of the denominational schools that decided to continue as a fee levying school for three years. It was soon evident that instead of a decrease in attendance, there was an increase in students seeking admission to Wesley.
Eventually, the time came when Wesley, like all other Colombo denominational schools was unable to take the greater number of those seeking admission. At the end of 1945, 350 students were in attendance. By 1949, there were 800 on the roll and this unprecedented increase had necessitated the purchase of large quantities of school furniture and equipment. By October 1948, the Government was unable to insist on all the remaining denominational schools joining the Free Scheme and a further two years’ grace was allowed.
In 1948, it was imperative that more accommodation be provided at Wesley, and plans were made for a Building Scheme to mark the 75th Anniversary of the College. Two new classrooms were built on the north side adjoining The Primary School buildings. The Diamond Jubilee Scheme included the completion of Rev. Highfield’s original plans for the college buildings. These included (i) an adequate college library (ii) a biology laboratory and (iii) two new classrooms. The new extensions were opened on July 8th,1949 by the Prime Minister Hon. D.S. Senanayake. The opening was part of the Diamond Jubilee celebrations which were held from July 1st to July 10th, 1949.
Rev. Cartman restored Wesley’s image and helped in restoring the school to conditions prevailing before the war. Rev. Cartman worked hard to restore Wesley’s credibility and stability. In order to cope with the increase of the number of students to 800, he was able to organize a 40 strong, loyal, efficient and well-knit staff despite the fact that many senior teachers had left as a result of the changes in the educational policy referred to earlier. He spent a great deal of his time and energy in organizing the Diamond Jubilee celebrations, in the collection of funds for the extension of the college buildings and in the compilation of an excellent history of the school.
Rev. Cartman was undoubtedly The Apostle of Restoration, striving for excellence in whatever he attempted. His name has been fittingly given to the handsome library built during his time. Rev. Cartman’s era, though short-lived, witnessed rapid growth in the school. Wesley’s studies and sports developed tremendously.In particular, Rev. Cartman will be remembered by students of his time and succeeding generations for giving Wesley its war cry; “Zum Zum Zake, Zum Zum Ze, Ishuba Ishuba Ooh Ay Ey”.
Rev. Cartman left Wesley in 1949
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Information obtained from the Assistant Archivist of the School of Oriental and African Studies at the University of London
Written and collated by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
A Teacher at Wesley 1876-1926
Charles Peter Dias started teaching at Wesley 2 years after the school first opened. All Wesleyites will remember this photo of Mr CP Dias that adorns the farside wall of the Great Hall close to the stage. He was a visionary teacher at Wesley during the great Highfield era and became a part of the fabric of the school. Some have said that Mr CP Dias'contribution to enhancing the reputation of Wesley was second only to that of its founders. He was passionate about the school and has left a fantastic legacy for which we should all be very grateful.
Mr.C.P Dias was the veteran Head Master for over 40 years- taught Latin and English. He was a strict disciplinarian and was greatly loved by the students. Mr Dias was a pivotal and progressive figure at Wesley and played a key part in the management of the school after its move from Dam Street Pettah. He was immensely respected by the Principal, Rev Henry Highfield and was in charge of the School when the Principal was away in England. Mr Dias became a popular member of the school community, respected for his dedication, skill and kindness.
He was a visionary Christian headmaster who encouraged and instilled hard work among students. As a senior teacher in the early 1900s, he influenced and helped numerous colleagues to enhance their teaching careers. Mr CP Dias helped to build a strong pastoral community at Wesley College.
The school became a powerhouse of education, innovation and success, owing to his outstanding leadership. He inspired a sense of awe, sometimes fear, but everyone, whether staff or pupils, knew they could turn to him when troubled or in distress.
The Dias House is named after him for his dedication to teaching and loyal services to Wesley College.
Mr Dias found time for many voluntary activities and gave countless talks to a range of groups. He was a senior member of the Colombo Municipal Council and served as a Councillor for 36 years (1891-1926).
About the Conflict in 1915:
The village population in Ceylon in 1915, constituted 85 percent of illiterate lower classes of Sinhala and Muslim community compared to today’s high literacy rate and social standards. When the infamous communal riots broke out between the two races , a report on the incidents was prepared by C P Dias, a senior member of Colombo Municipality and Head Master of Wesley College, for Sir Ponnambalam Ramanathan, the only member representing the educated Ceylonese in the Legislative Council.
From J.C.F De Silva Student at Wesley 1915-1922
Now, the lay staff, chief of whom was C. P. Dias 'Papa Dias' as he was generally known) our Headmaster and also doyen of the Colombo Municipal Council, of which he was a Member. Grand old man he was loved and respected by all, his outbursts of temper, were looked on as a joke by us boys, though sometimes with dire consequences to us. Well do I remember one occasion when I had incurred his wrath by laughing or some such thing. He caught hold of me by my throat (nearly strangling me in the process), pushed me against the balustrade and tried to kick me, so making a ludicrous picture, as his efforts were hampered by the cloth he wore over his trousers. He then pointed out to me the Welikada Jail opposite and, said that I would some day be an inmate there!
The old mans prediction has so far not come true, although fifty years have passed by however, one can never say what the future holds for each of us.
From R.L Kannangara student at Wesley 1906-1917
We, who knew , the old school in Pettah, were delighted to find ourselves at Karishrue. C. P. Dias, affectionately known as 'Dia Pappa' was a colourful personality. Tall and well-proportioned, he walked the corridors of the school like a Colossus.
From Rev Henry Highfield: It was good for Wesley that she had in Dias a genuine Church of England Christian. The School should never forget what it owes to him. Mr. C. P. Dias is still going strong, has advised and helped us all; and what the College owes to him, and What l owe to him is quite beyond words to express.
The above passage was taken from the Journal called "Ceylon Friend" (obtained from the archives held by Edmund Dissanayake )
From Mr. P.H Nonis: Throughout the first fifty years of her history, Wesley was fortunate to have the service of C. P. Dias as Headmaster. He was a public figure in the country - the Senior City Father and one whose counsel was often sought by political leaders of the day. His pupils remember him as a vigorous teacher of English and Latin and as a stern disciplinarian. He was a true friend to his boys and knew their homes and families. On these long walks in the evenings for which he was famous, he found time to look up the parents of the boy, If he was in his evening walks, one would find him at Kanatte acting as a pallbearer at a funeral: I believe he found this depressing in later years, for he had expressed the wish that his own funeral there will be no pallbearers nor flowers - the first time I had read of such a request in a funeral.
From the Editor DBI
Mr C.P Dias will be fondly remembered for his enthusiasm for teaching. He had boundless energy for preparing students to become useful and responsible citizens in this wonderful world.
From the 150th Anniversary Chronicle
C. P. Dias (MBE) — He joined the staff in 1876 and remained until retirement in 1926, a span of 50 years! His character had been aptly described by one of his students. Rev Fr. S. G. Perera as “In class he was the most dreaded disciplinarian whose voice was thunder at which our young hearts quaked. But out of class in his house, where I often was and where sometimes we met or crossed, he was the greatest of men”. “Papa” as he was affectionately and respectfully called, summarises the love as well as the fear for this kind, simple gendeman. In 1910, the old boys recognized his 25 years’ service which he completed as Headmaster in 1903. A memorial for him was held in the College hall in December 1937.
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Educated Wesley College, Colombo, 1911-15. School master, Prince of Wales, Wesley College, Zahira, and Sri Sumangala. Established Kolonnawa Vidyala (now named the Terrence de Zilva School). Active in Suriya Mal campaign, 1933-35. Founding member Lanka Sama Samaja Party, 1935. Jailed during WWII. Sided with Philip Guawardena in post-war split in LSSP. Councillor, Kolonnawa Urban Council.
I first came across Mr. de Zylva when I was a boarder at Wesley. He was omnipresent at all Old Boys' events and at sports events of the school. Always immaculately dressed be it in National Costume or Western dress he carried himself with authority and style. Mr. Zylva was a keen tennis player and played doubles with Mr. Oorloff, JLF De Mel and Mr. Wilfred. Sadly none of them are with us today. Often we were ball boys enjoying the game. Terrence de Zylva contributed most generously to the Wesley building fund and it would surprise me greatly if he does not have a plaque in his memory at Wesley. He showed utmost kindness to the schoolboys at the time and in turn earned our respect.
Outside school he was a left wing politician and had great support at Kolonnawa where he was involved in Local Government politics. He found the experience of national politics uncongenial; this confirmed him in his conviction that his destiny lay in local government. He was a Councillor for the Kolonnawa Urban Council for many years. Terence De Z successfully stayed clear of the imbroglio whilst retaining the goodwill of everyone. He was, above all, one of the well-loved and respected socialist of his time. At Kolonnawa he is remembered as a philanthropist for starting a school for the local children, now called the Terrence de Zilva School. The clever children of that school gained a place at Wesley with his support and I recall one such student who entered the Medical College Colombo and is now a General Practitioner in London.
"Terrence N. de Zylva was a school teacher, a live wire of the "Suriya Mal Campaign" and founded Kolonnawa Vidyalaya. He was later jailed during the second world war - many of his students were in the LSSP" said Bracegirdle, the veteran British Socialist who then lived in Ceylon. Suriya Mal, the anti-Poppy day movement also took a stance against war. Terence de Zylva, claimed that it was "definitely anti-war" and urged people to prevent money going out "to help the British Empire wage wars for the purpose of dividing the World." November 11th thus became a moment not for celebrating war "heroes" but for reflection on an anti-war agenda, on imperial rule and on the dangers of fascism that loomed large in the 1930s
Terrence de Zylva died in 1960 at the age of 73 . His casket was placed in our Assembly hall when Old Boys and present pupils paid their respects. The funeral was at the Kolonnawa Cemetery and I remember being one of several hundred gathered there. Of the numerous distinguished old boys Sir Oliver Goonetilleke was there to say goodbye to his friend and colleague.
He was a man of principles and honour and supported the school most generously.
May he attain Nirvana
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they will walk and not be faint”
Isaiah 40:31 rsv
29.09.32 to 15.05.2001
It was in 1946 that I first met Rodney.- the school was moving from its wartime abode to the present premises. For reasons unknown to me I was admitted to the 7th standard. The class teacher Mr Weragoda introduced me as the new boy and as I was the smallest in the class he made it a point to emphasise that I was to be treated with respect and care. This introduction had a reverse effect for I was immediately set upon for some good-natured ‘teasing’-and my resecuer happened to a gangling ever smiling Rodney Schokman, who was nicknamed DragonFly. Rodney was my protector and our friendship developed, that was to last for close to 45 years. Others in class were George Robertson, Bryan Claesen, Neil Gallagher, Arthlow Chapman to name a few.
Rodney had no hesitation to stand up to the bullies and was always working for the underdog. He became a very effective and powerful trade Union leader, and with his lovely wife Olive became a key member of the CMU under the leadership of Bala Tampoe the great Union Leader, Parliamentarian and Advocate. It was said that on all policy matters of this Union, Olive and Rodney were consulted. Such was the respect that even now Bala Tampoe is a personal and good friend of the Schokmans. It could be said that a aquatic section of Wesley College was first inaugurated at Mount Lavania beach when Wesleyites in hordes arrived to watch the Wesley /St Thomas cricket. When things were going bad for Wesley,time was spent in the sea and Rodney was our leader. Sometime later swimming became more popular and again Rodney, although not proficient as a swimmer participated in aquatics at Kinross Swimming & Life Saving Club. . David Schokman and Trevor Ebert won bronze medals for life saving – Gordon Amarasekera , Tissa Amarasinha, Vernon and Chris Speldwewinde ,Earnest Algama were all proficient swimmers. Rodney was a keen follower of KS &LS C. and wanted to be a spear fisherman he teamed up with Gordon for forays into the sea, but his visits to the Club became a little infrequent and we gathered then that he had met, and , was enchanted by the beautiful Olive.
Rodney, “Kuiya” Herat, Tissa Amarasinghe were our cheer leaders and as schoolboys I used to look forward to the sporting rivalry, songs and hilarious antics by the Wesley Cheer Squad: and the Josephians led by the Aloysius Brothers- Hubert , Dennis & Peter. Such sporting rivalry is sadly not seen in sport today in any part of the world.Rodney was a good and loyal friend, a staunch and true Wesleyite and had bore no illwill to anyone. Rodney used to look forward to occasions organised by the OBU and sang the school song with great gusto and pride. On the 15th of May 2001, Rodney passed away after a brief illness.
A large congregation of family and friends gathered at St David’s Anglican Church, Moorabbin to pay their last respects at a service dedicated to the life of a dear family member and colleague.The Pall-bearers at the grave side were all Old Boys of Wesley, whilst a choir of Old Boys led the singing of the College song, followed by the War Cry.So Rodney went to his eternal rest with the full blooded roar of “Zam Zam Zackie!!” from all his friends floating up to the Heavens We have lost a great friend and LOYAL Wesleyite.
To Olive and family you always will be a part of the greater Wesley College, Colombo family in Melbourne.
Rest in Peace , Rodney.
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The brothers, Ranjit and Vernon, were Wesleyites and lived up the hill at Station Road Nugegoda overlooking the Railway Station. I remember playing cricket with them in their front garden well looked after by their very kind and generous parents. Their neighbours, Godwin, Godfrey and Edward Roberts also attended Wesley College. Ranjit was in STD 5 in Mr ST Perera's class in 1950 and Vernon was a couple of years senior to him. Vernon was a quiet lad and a regular at Church and a Chorister at the St.Johns Church Nugegoda. Ranjit was a more jovial person and kept us entertained as we all travelled in a gang by the KV line train to Baseline Road and back. I remember Ranjit playing cricket at small park with his mates. After the Senior School Certificate they both left school and after some years emigrated to the United Kingdom in the late 1950's. Vernon had a successful life abroad except at the very end. He passed away in the mid 1970's. I was told Ranjit Lives in Middlesex near London. Sadly our paths never crossed. I recall the happy times and the fun all those years ago. In my memory, they still seem young and invincible. Vernon was a loyal Wesleyites and will be sorely missed by his numerous school friends.
Or a lovely, calm blue sea,
A refuge from life’s problems,
As only a friend can be.
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Remembered by Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
A Teacher at Wesley 1947-1982
Mr Wilfred Wickramasinghe joined Wesley as a teacher in 1947 and became a hostel master. The grim days of depression from the war had come to an end. The struggle for an independant Ceylon was in full swing. The school of 400 students was ably guided by the Principal, Rev James Cartman. There was a serious dearth of good teachers and he had to go to South India to recruit Mr. Charles Yesudian and Mr D P George to fill the vacancies. This was the dawn of an new era at Wesley when the school once again joined the "Ivy League" with excellence in academic studies and sports. During those heady days Mr Wickramasinghe played his part in supporting the school to the best of his ability.
Mr Wilfred Wickramasinghe was modest and private, with an old-fashioned courtesy and reserve that would occasionally give way to firm utterances. In his professional life, especially as a teacher, he was a formidable figure — but he was essentially kind and warm-hearted.
Mr. Wilfred as he was called then was a Hostel Master when I became a boarder in 1952. He brought an air of firm but courteous authority to the school and the hostel. With his husky-insistent voice, Mr Wilfred always looked assured, comfortable and confident in his role as a teacher. He was strict . He didnt suffer fools gladly. Given his build and demeanour few people would cross him. He was the toughest and most implacable critic of our work. Mr Wilfred was a rigorous teacher who could reduce his students to tears in class, but he would generously work hard to help them and cared about them deeply.
In 1952 I was in Std 4 and he was my classmaster. There we recall his relentless quest for good habits, refined manners and strict discipline. As the Primary Block was being refurbished all the classes were moved. We were sent to the Vice Principal's Bungalow along with Mr S.T Perera's Std 5. At the end of 1953 Mr S.T Perera left Wesley to become the Head Master of Christ Church College Tangalle. Mr Lanerolle who was the Vice Principal was away in England for 2 years. We had an airy large room. At the beginning of his teaching career he was strict. I still recall the "cuts" we received with the ruler and the pinching of the tummy for various misdemeanours. We weren't angels then. These, perhaps, helped to toughen us up for our lives ahead and also to maintain discipline in the classroom. As he matured, he grew more tolerant. Mr Wilfred was fond of reading stories to us from the classics. I remember as if it were yesterday his story of Count of Monte Cristo by Alexander Dumas which mesmerised and thrilled us no end.
Mr Wilfred and his bride Miss Elna Pinto-Jayawardene
He tried hard to instill in us , honesty and integrity. I recall him saying that if you tell one untruth you have to say many lies to cover it up. He was in charge of the 14th Colombo Cub Pack at Wesley. Together with Mr EL Rodrigo they managed the Cubs which became a popular out of hours pursuit. I recall being in the Cub Pack and taking part in its many activities on Thursday after school. Chip-a-job week helped us to collect funds and we walked the roads in Borella for simple household jobs.
Mr. Wilfred , Mr Yesudian, Mr Ooloff and Mr JLF De Mel played tennis doubles in the evenings in the court behind the College Flats. Sometimes we were allowed in to be ball-boys which we enjoyed. On a blisteringly hot day I can still see them in my minds eye playing the game with beads of sweat running down their foreheads. The highlight of our presence there was Mr Oorloff's grunt while serving, just like the modern day professionals. We were amused by their antics, polite banter and refined 'swearing' and talked proudly of our experience when we returned back to the boarding. What stood out was their old fashioned courteous conduct.
He was an experienced teacher, with a strong sense of public service – and both strands were evident in his career. He would never compromise his personal ideals and beliefs. After students left his class they experienced his kindness and generosity. Like most old teachers he derived great satisfaction seeing his students achieve their goals becoming useful citizens of this wonderful world.
Mr Wilfred had tremendous loyalty and dedication to duty. Wesley meant a great deal to him. He spent much time there even after school hours. In addition to his teaching commitment he took an active part in Primary School Drama and House Plays. He helped to organise the annual sportsmeet and Prize Giving. Mr.Wilfred was in charge of the school book shop at the back of the Great Hall. Business was brisk and all the cash-only deals were done through a small cubby hole. I distinctly recall the smell of fresh paper of new books that wafted across the long corridor when the cubby hole was opened in the morning before assembly.
Even after his retirement, during those financially perilous times he worked tirelessly for the Welfare Board raising funds to help run the school . Even on his final day on this earth he was at school attending to unfinished business.
After a long and loving courtship, I remember his marriage to the pretty singing teacher Miss. Elna Pinto Jayawardene in 1952. We sang in the choir at their wedding at the Maradana Methodist Church. The Chaplain, Rev Wilfrid Pile officiated and Mr Maxwell De Alwis conducted the Choir.
Their son, Athula, attended Wesley College as they lived in the School Flats and played cricket and hockey for the school 1st XI team. Their daughter- Nilmini (9 years younger to Athula) works at Air Lanka. She`s married to an Old boy of Wesley College - Rohan Perera.
Both Mr and Mrs Wickramasinghe showed their immense warmth and hospitality to a generation of boarders when we were invited to short eats and drinks on Saturday evenings. He was extremely proud of his role as a family man and never allowed the demands of other duties to infringe upon it.
Mr Wilfred and Mrs. Elna Wickramasinghe belonged to the old tradition and believed that the ideal of service to others was indeed the only satisfying way of life. They worked tirelessly to give the students a good all round education and gave of their best to the school. They always had the students welfare at heart. Despite their tremendous contribution to the life of the school over so many years their self effacing manner, charm and modesty prevented them from getting the recognition they deserve. I wish there was a plaque or a Prize at the Annual Prize Giving to remember their immense contribution to the life of the school. Such teachers are an extinct breed now. They both spent their entire teaching careers at Wesley. We will not see the likes of them again. They will always remain as our unsung heroes.
After leaving school I met him many times at Campbell Park watching cricket on a Saturday afternoon. He was a handsome man who was always immaculately turned out with his spotlessly brilliant white shirt and trouser and the broad smile. I was deeply saddened to hear he passed away on the 30th May 1985. His friendship, wise counsel, and talent for organisation will be sorely missed by the school.
He was so much a part of our lives, then, that it is difficult to comprehend that we will not see him again. Mr Wilfred touched the lives of all of us in different ways. We will always recall and cherish many memories of a fine teacher. His friendliness, kindness and thoughtful generosity of spirit will remain with us a lot longer. For me, their wedding photograph with their beaming smiles brings them back to life again. Whatever tribute we can pay will not match his great contribution in inspiring a whole generation. On looking back, probably, no one else ended a career in teaching with more friends than Mr Wilfred Wickramasinghe. That would serve as an epitaph for a fine teacher and a great man.
I feel honoured to have been a student during those golden years.
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Retired Deputy Inspector General of Police.
Played cricket for Wesley and the Ceylon Police. He was a distinguished and loyal old boy of the school. He was an all round sportsman. Bertus with another Wesleyite L.Abeywardene were in the Combined Colleges Cricket team which played against the touring West Indies side in 1950. West Indies team was captained by John Goddard and included Jeff Stollmeyer, George Headley (Black Bradman), Clyde Wolcott, Everton Weekes, C. A. Mcwatt, W. Ferguson, George Carew. The match was played at the Colombo Oval (Saravanamuttu Stadium).
May he find Eternal Peace
I remember him at College as an ebullient lively student good at sports. Whenever there was cricket or soccer matches in the small park at intervals he was in the thick of it. Gamini was a strong lad. Sometimes he rebelled against rules and regulations at school like the rest of us. We will always remember his cheeky grin and the ever present naughtiness. He made us laugh by his antics. He always played hard but had the kindness and gentleness which made him a popular student- loved by all. Gamini had a huge impact on everyone he met.
On leaving school he took with him the best traditions of his education at Wesley College. He brought to his profession a special mix of Christian-inspired ethics combined with a social discipline that was unique at a time of great tension in the country. These qualities were also tinged with a quiet, dignity of purpose that almost certainly matured during his years of service. Although unconventional he had the ambition and the determination to achieve a high position in the Ceylon Tourist Board. As a Director his leadership qualities, charisma, hard work and honesty was recognised and respected. Gamini was one of a number of pioneers who reshaped the industry into its modern form. He grew into the assured leader of a highly skilled team
He was always incredibly generous. Gamini never needed any help integrating; his warm and irreverent personality attracted friends from all over the country many of whom benefited from his generosity. Gamini managed to keep both his principles and his good humour while at work. During difficult times a smile would ease itself across his face, a hand would stretch out, and a warm, candid friendship would be on offer.
His father L.V.Jayaweera (Sr) was the Boxing Coach at school and the brother Vivian a very popular student.
He cared so much for others that he neglected his own health. His work routine was not calculated to foster long life. It is sad to lose a friend at a relatively young age of 58 but Gamini had time to pack much into a short but eventful life. His untimely death is a great loss to the organisation but more so to his close family and friends. He will be sorely missed for many more years to come. (I am greatly indebted to the late MW Wickremaratne, a fellow Wesleyite who worked with Gamini in the Ceylon Tourist Board, for providing the information about his friend and colleague.)
An exemplary officer was Gamini Jayaweera by Hope Todd
Gamini Jayaweera, a director of the Ceylon Tourist Board, passed away recently.
He was on circuit, staying the night at the Gurulupotha Rest House at Hasalaka when he suffered a heart attack which led to his demise. Gamini was an exemplary officer with a high sense of dedication and sensitivity. He worked with me during my assignments with the Tourist Board. A loving husband and father, he leaves behind Sriyani and Dushyantha who will miss his guidance and presence. Let there be more of his ilk in this country!
May the turf lie gently over his mortal remains!
to be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an after glow
of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo
whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times
and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve,
to dry before the sun
of happy memories
that I leave when life is done.
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By Ruhanie Perera and Rochelle Jansen
Life is short. Accidents happen. But we will never understand why this talented young man was cruelly snatched away at just twenty one - to be buried on his mother's birthday.
Surendran (Suren) Thiruchelvam was a guy like any his age. Full of dreams, plans and an unquenchable thirst for life. Suren loved life. And lived each day to its fullest. He had a ready smile at all times and never wanted to be a burden to anyone. He was an honest, hard worker who did his best at any given task - be it at school, at home or at work as a marketing executive of MTV. He earned the respect of peers and superiors. He didn't smoke or drink but he liked to 'eye' beautiful damsels like any guy his age. "Suren was a keen student of Wesley College, with great leadership qualities, and talents in singing and drama," said a teacher of his fondly remembering this young lad. "He respected his teachers and never forgot them." Suren had a vision in life. He wanted to be a priest. And not wanting to be a burden to anyone, especially not to his widowed mother, he wanted to be financially stable before embarking on his journey in the ministry.
He had, only recently, successfully completed a business management exam. And had enrolled for further studies. Yet today, of what use has all that studying and all those plans been to Suren? He drowned.
It was an accident. His family last remember, a happy carefree Suren, playing with his little niece whom he adored, spreading a little sunshine into the lives of others: and later asking his mother to wake him up in the morning because he had to leave early…. Mrs. Thiruchelvam's last conversation with her son was over the phone, "be careful" she begged him. She received a typical reply of youth: "Why are you getting scared? Nothing will happen. I'll come home carefully."What a twisted prank fate played on them all. Or was it fate? There are too many grey patches in the picture. Inspector U. L. A. Namasinghe of the Theldeniya Police Station in charge of the investigation said, "A group of six friends, including Surendran Tiruchelvam, left Colombo on June 16 around 11 a.m. to attend a colleague's wedding held at the Earl's Regency Hotel, Kandy. "On reaching Kandy in the afternoon the group checked into Digana Village, a holiday resort, to have lunch and later on get ready for the wedding. With the swimming pool on the premises they decided to go for a swim as well. "Lunch was served near the pool and after that some of them ordered drinks. Suren however, did not have any.
"Having finished lunch and a swim the friends left the pool, but Suren and another friend stayed on and went back into the pool. "Suren, who couldn't swim stayed on in the shallow end while his friend went diving in the deep end.
"After a while his friend noticed that Suren was missing, and began looking for him. It was some time later that he, together with the pool attendent found Suren. "How exactly he drowned, or what exactly happened at that point, we will never know," said Inspector Namasinghe. Suren's body was found at the point where there is a drop in the levels of depth in the pool. Suren was taken to the Kandy hospital where his death was confirmed. The verdict at the inquest was - accidental death by drowning. Accident it may have been, but this is one that need not have happened. Suren's death leaves us with many unanswered questions. How did he drown in a pool? What if he knew to swim? What if a trained lifeguard had been present, would he still be alive today? What if CPR (Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation) had been administered as soon as he was found, would that have saved him? We will never know. What of the other questions that can be raised when one thinks of having a good time? Do we always take into account the dangers involved? "It's shocking, he was laughing and joking all the time, I can't believe he's no more," uttered a grief-stricken friend.
Six friends went.
Five came back.
From Dr Nihal D. Amerasekera
I remember EJ in the boarding as a quiet, decent friend. He was a kind and helpful person. Though not a cricketer he had a tremendous love for the game. He was the cricket secretary at the Colombo Colts CC for many years. He served as Assistant Secretary, Board of Control for Cricket for a period before being elected Board Secretary for the year 1973-74. I remember he wrote in my autograph book some poignant verse which has been sadly mislaid. I last met him on Church Street Nugegoda when I was a medical student in 1963, now nearly 40 years ago. We had a long chat about the hostel days and the mutual friends. Since then our paths never crossed. I have often thought about him wondering how life treated him. Edward started his working life as a Planter at Welimada Group before joining the Chartered Bank. I was deeply saddened to hear he led a troubled life but was encouraged to note Eddie was greatly appreciated at the Chartered Bank as a skilful worker and a good colleague. Amongst his numerous friends he was well known for his endearing qualities and social skills. "A party man at heart". My condolences go out to his family.
A letter from Fazli Sameer Riyadh, Saudi Arabia.
If I may say a few words about Eddie which you may be able to use in your appreciation as I knew him during the period 1969-79:-
Eddie and I worked at The Chartered Bank, in the Fort, Colombo, during the period 1969-79. I think Eddie joined the bank after me as my mind is a bit cloudy about that fact right now, going on 54 (Feb-16-2002 hopefully).Eddie was A true Cricket BUFF. He loved the game more than anything else in this world. He also possessed a tremendous knowledge of the game and its players through time. he was responsible for organizing the Chartered bank Cricket Club and infused much impetus into the team arranging to take part in various cricket tournaments and other sporting activities. during that era. He als had a great penchant for organization of activities and celebrations, parties, etc.
His organization ability, knowledge, and influence amongst various circles was a great asset to him in this arena. He was a member of the BRC and Colomb Colts Cricket Clubs through which he made many a grand relationship and acquaintance with many influential and active people in society. These relationships helped him a lot in life. And he was also very popular with the people around him on account of his active and efficient abilities to get things done.At the bank too he was an efficient worker in whatever tasks he undertook. We did work in the same department on some occasions and it was always a great pleasure to share your work with someone as efficient as him, and his great sense of humor and his voluminous guffaw when he laughed. Wonderful man he was.His body was cremated as per his wishes.May he rest in peace!
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Born 16.03.1915 - Died 28.09.2001
A family man, proud parent and grandparent, a staunch and large-hearted friend are some of the many clichés mentioned by those to whom I spoke, of the Late Len Senaris.
My memory of this gentleman, who I have known for many years and to whom we pay tribute, is that of a devout Christian to whom, apart from his love for his family, devotion to God and his Church were of highest priority. Alas with his passing, Wesley College, Sri Lanka and our Old Boys’ Association here, have lost yet another of our loyal “Old Boys”.
Len walked the corridors and playing fields of Wesley, in the Highfield era, with fellow stalwarts like Vernon Achilles, Raymond Fernando, the eldest of the Fernando brothers affectionately called “Notta”, Mervyn and Max Fernando and Quintus Blacker – all of whom, with the exception of Vernon Achilles, have now passed on.
He enjoyed his College-days boxing and boating, and in retired life his golf and bowls.
Most of his working life was spent at Rowlands, the well-known Motor Firm, where he progressed from stenographer, to personal assistant to the General Manager, and retired from the position of Manager of Rowlands’ Associate Firm Tyresoles at Nawinna.
Another friend of this same era, remembered Len as one who always had genuine concern for the less fortunate, and to whom money and the material things of life had scant value.
On 2nd January 1951 Len married Phylis Fernando, now deceased, who he met as a colleague at Rowlands. Len is mourned by his loved daughter Diane, granddaughter Sharon, and son in law Peter Draper – all of whom assuredly brightened his life with their achievements, as truly talented and accomplished concert musicians.
May he rest in peace and may his memory live on!
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04.01.1925 to 01.07.2001
Recalling the memory of someone, who I could call a younger brother though not biologically could be both enjoyable as well as heart-wrenching. With his brother, the late Denver Van Buuren, Oswin spent most of his later years at Wesley living at our home. This was an Association that lasted all through our years together, and which I recall with fond affection happy years interspersed with occasions of schoolboy fun and innocent mischief when more often than not, Oswin was put on the “front line”! Indeed those were happy times! Through all the years of our Association, Oswin has been a cherished friend to me and our family, and it is with that knowledge of him that I say that he always exemplified the true hall marks of a devoted husband, and a father whose children and grandchildren rightfully idolized. He was never brusque or churlish but on the contrary a gentle man - a gentleman in every sense of the word who bore no traces of haughtiness, arrogance or pride. I count it a privilege to have known him.
May the roses and the orchids, which were his passion and hobby, blossom in abundance in his memory and may he rest in peace.
A voice we loved is stilled
A place is vacant in the home
Which never can be filled
We would've loved to keep
But God who surely loved him best
Has finally made him sleep
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By Louis Adhihetty
Vincent (familiarly known as Vincy and, popularly, much to his fury, nicknamed' Galthoppi ') was born on the 31 st of July 1937. He was the youngest in the family of 4 children -a girl and 2 other boys. The entire family (father, mother and children) was Sports crazy!. At least 3 members of the family represented a Sri Lankan National Team in Sports (Cricket, Athletics and Hockey). Of course, this was no surprise to friends and relatives because Monday to Friday the entire family woke up at 5.30 am and joined the trainee Prison Officers' to Physical Training on the Welikada Prisons Cricket Field. What discipline and regimentation!
Vincy started his schooling (Kindergarten) at St. Bridget's Convent at the age of 4 years. He continued there until he was 8. In 1945, he was admitted to Wesley College -thanks, to Mr.Weragoda, who was the Head of the Junior School. Then, as a result of ruthless / unsympathetic Government Officers' Transfer Policies, Vincy and his brother Lou, had a nomadic spell in schooling for (thank God) only 3 years. Their father was transferred from Welikada Prisons, Borella to Mahara Prisons, Ragama. As a result, since financially it was not feasible to board all 4 children in Schools, the younger two were admitted to De Mazenod College, Kandana in July. 1945. Then, in Jan. 1946, both boys were admitted to Richmond College, Galle. Vincy detested Boarding School life, especially the discipline, rigid rules and regulations. In addition, he was very 'homesick' and threatened to jump into the Richmond College Boarding House well of course, naturally a 'pity party' to win the sympathy of Mum and Dad!! So, in July 1946, Vincy was re-admitted to Wesley College, where he continued his schooling until he left in 1955.
Vincy excelled as a Sportsman at Wesley .He represented Wesley in no less than 5 games and won College Colours in Cricket, Football, Hockey and Athletics. He was an exceptional sportsman.In 1953 he skippered Wesley Under 16 Cricket Team. In 1954 he was Full-back in the 1st XI Soccer Team. He was feared by the many opponents because of his truly aggressive and rough tactics. He played in the same position in the 1st XI Hockey Team -often, if he could not get the ball he, at least, got the feet of the opponent! In the same year, Vincy won the Javelin, Putt Shot and Discus Throw events in the College Sports Meet. He also represented Wesley in the Public Schools' Sports Meet and. also, the Public Schools' Tennis Tournament. Also in 1954, Vincy is down in Wesley 1st XI Cricket Records as 'saviour' -Herman Claessenand he helped the School to beat St Thomas' by I wicket and 2 runs. A memorable feat! In 1955, he was top scorer in the Thomian match, which Wesley lost by 8 wickets.
Academically, Vincy achieved something which not one of his family member's were ever able to do! He passed the Senior School Certificate in his first and only attempt. After passing his SSC he underwent training as a planter but, obviously, it was not his cup of tea! Soon he was able to apply for a position in the army as a Trainee Cadet. Then, in 1956 he was sent as Cadet to the Royal Military Academy Sandhurst in Camberly, England. He passed out as a Second Lieutenant in 1958. In the same year, he married Hannelora Hoffmann (of German descent), who was learning English in Camberly. They returned in 1958 and Vincy was then attached to the Army Camp in Diyatalawa. In 1960, as Lieutenant, he joined the Army Ordinance Corps. Later, in 1962, Vincy was appointed Captain.
After the birth of their two children Karl and Merlyn, Vincy had a desire to quit the Army and pursue further studies. In 1963, he and his family left first for Germany Lauenburg on the river Elbe .-not far from Hamburg) and, eventually, emigrated to Canada in 1964. While working for Canadian Gypsum in' Toronto, he studied and qualified as an Industrial Accountant. Around 1980 Vincy joined the Canadian Development Co-operation -a semi -government organization.
Vincy continued participating in sports, especially Tennis. In fact, he was President of the Thorold Tennis Club. However, unfortunately, he was a heavy cigarette smoker. In 1992 (or thereabouts) the first signs of cancer surfaced. Soon a kidney was removed. Then, he experienced restrictive movement of his right shoulder. Once more, a tumour was detected. His condition was too advanced and not responding to medication. Then, in December 2000 Vincy died. It was a sad end of an excellent Wesley College Sportsman!
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From Dr Nihal D. Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I note the death of Wilfred who was with me at the school boarding. Wilfred Thalakumbura was from Badulla and was a affable, thoughtful and humble lad who enjoyed school life during the golden years when Mr CJ Oorloff was Principal. He didnt care much for academia and was full of fun and mischief and wonderful to be with. Wilfred always was an enthusiastic participant in school sporting activities. He took part in all sports and as I recall was a good basket ball player. He represented the 1st XI Teams in Soccer, Hockey and Basketball and was considered a valued member of those teams. He was a regular vocal supporter at cricket matches at Campbell Park.
Wilfred remained a loyal Wesleyite all through his life. He had spoken to his school friend Mr NAB Fernando when he was Principal to get his sons admitted to Wesley.
He was a jolly lad always ready for a joke and a laugh. I last met him when I worked at the Central Blood Bank in Colombo (1970) and he lived with his wife in a house built in our former "Small Park". He remembered the school friends and spoke warmly of those happy times. My abiding memory, however, is of a bubbly, effervescent person with a great gift for friendship. We will always remember his impish wit, cheeky grin and pleasant manner.
Wilfred Thalakumbura's son, Suraj, is a Senior Sales Manager at Ceylinco Insurance Plc and is an old boy of Wesley College. He kindly sent me the following photographs of his parents wedding day, their 3 sons and a recent photo of the family. I am most grateful for the photos that brings Wilfred Thalakumbura back to life. They bring back the good old days of fun and games in the boarding. At the time we never realised even for a moment those days won't last forever.
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That makes life good and sweet,
And you, my friend, are all that;
You make our lives complete!
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May 2002 Aged 67 Years
Wesley's Ansar Fuard no more by Richard Dwight
The sudden passing away of M. A. M. Fuard the former Wesley College captain, Moors SC and NCC cricketer, in the early hours of Saturday (4.5.02) at the age 67, did cause a void and came as a rude shock not only to the members of his family, but to many a relative and friend.
Ansar, as he was affectionately referred to was laid low with a severe bout of fever, which found him exhausted and weak even to walk. He however recovered sufficiently to be discharged from hospital and, was up and about for a few days, gearing himself to resume work at the Sri Lanka Cricket Board, where he served. But fate willed otherwise, for in the wee hours of Saturday around 1.30 a.m., he complained of a pain in the stomach and, within the swiftness of an hour he slipped through life peacefully, just the way he had lived, into a land of eternal bliss. Rather, than lingering on a bed of pain, it's a death that any sportsman dreams of, but becomes the preserve of only the best who are counted worthy.
Ansar did not flaunt his religion to be seen of men and, he could not have been the kind of person he was, nor lived the kind of life he led, were it not for his abiding faith in Islam, which unobtrusively he practised. From his father, the late Proctor A. M. Fuard who also captained Wesley at cricket, he imbibed virtuous qualities to lead an exemplary life, whilst from his mother, Ansar learnt that the fear of God was the beginning of wisdom.
It is against this background and environment, that Ansar grew and blossomed out further, to be a conscientious, painstaking student at Wesley College, which with time became his second home. He was made up of the firm belief, that the classroom and the playing field were handmaids, complementary to each other.
Being essentially a team man and a stickler for accepted norms, he made valuable contributions in those golden years of Wesley's sports, in the early fifties, by representing the college at cricket, hockey and athletics, with a flair for table tennis as well.
As an athlete he was a sprinter and a hurdler and, proved to be a penetrative inside in the half line on the field of hockey. But superceding all this, was his inordinate passion for the game of cricket. So keen was he that he represented the glamorous cricket teams of Wesley, commencing from 1952 to 1954 where he eventually captained the college in his final year. He proved to be a fine all-rounder excelling as an enterprising batsman, found to be a useful bowler and an alert, nippy fielder. He adored the mercurial Sathasivam and in jest would say I'd like to late cut, drive through cover and hook the way Satha does, with much finesse. In these attractive days of school cricket he played for Wesley in the august company of the Mack brothers Derrick and Spencer, the Claessen brothers Radley and Brian, Lou and Vince Adihetty, Patrick Schockman, Neil Gallaher, Artlow Chapman, Samsudeen and his brother Abu Fuard who went ahead to play for Ceylon as a reputed off-spinner. Through it all he made the right kind of impression to be appointed as senior prefect, where his experience was, that he learnt how to be led and how to lead.
On leaving college he continued playing cricket for the Moors Sports Club and the NCC and had the privilege of making tours to India. His contemporaries at the NCC were Vernon Prins, Michael Tissera, Herbie Fernando, K. M. T. Perera, Rienzie Perera, Patrick Schockman and yet others.
What was most striking about Ansar, was that when he set his heart and mind to achieve an objective he never rested until he was successful. Evidence of this was seen in his obtaining a Bachelor of Arts degree, which stood him in good stead in securing employment in the Education Department, the Mahaweli Board and the Sri Lanka Cricket Board where he was the personnel manager at the time of his death.
Ansar was one given to sober disciplined, meticulous ways with the accent on honesty and integrity. He was a kindly man, of quiet disposition, a fine sportsman and a true friend. His sacrificial nature was amply made manifest in his deep association with his brother Abu.
Ansar is survived by his wife Fathima Badri and son Asif. May the turf lie gently over him.
Addendum by N.D.Amerasekera
A wonderful all round cricketer who dominated the school cricket arena in the early fifties. He thrilled many Wesleyites with his aggressive batting, accurate bowling and sound captaincy. Ansar was held in high regard and was made Senior Prefect whose duties he performed to the highest traditions of Wesley.
Wesley College cricket stalwart, the late Ansar Fuard, who captained a 1954 cricket team teeming with talent, was posthumously felicitated for his immense contribution on the field, during a special ceremony which celebrated the school’s120-year cricket history.
Honoured with him were eight other Wesley cricket legends: batting maestro Mahadevan Sathasivam, spin wizards Sridharan Jeganathan and Abu Fuard, Bryan Claessen, Lou Adihetty, Nalendra Abeysuriya, Hilary de Vos and Robin Reimers.
A genuine allrounder capable of inflicting equal devastation on opposing bowling and batting lineups, Ansar led a unit which boasted players such as Lou and Vince Adihetty, Herman Claessen, M. Samsudeen, Ananda Batuwitage, N. Fernando, B. Jurangpathy, Neil Gallaher, A. Chapman and his brother Abu. His uncompromising and intelligent leadership influenced the team to employ a flamboyant brand of cricket that was both exquisite and effective, and which yielded a stellar cricket season for Wesley.
The late Ansar Fuard’s son, Asif, collects a plaque honoring his father. Pic by Amila Gamage.
By captaining Wesley, Ansar had also followed in the footsteps of his father, A. M Fuard- who led the school’s first XI team in 1915- forever engraving the name ‘Fuard’ in the annals of Wesley cricket. Furthermore, his skills as a captain were recognized by school administrators at the time and he was appointed the skipper of a combined college team for the Colombo district.
Upon leaving school, where he also excelled in Athletics, Hockey and Table Tennis, Ansar captained Moors SC, and continued his club cricket at the NCC, sharing the dressing room with cricketing doyens like Michael Tissera and Vernon Prins. The special celebration, at which Ansar was honoured, took place in the college hall on Thursday, and was graced by a raft of distinguished past Wesley cricketers, who had assembled from all around the world.
It is with sadness that the Wesley OBU UK received the news of the death of Ronald klyn on 10 April 2002.Ronald was born on 1st April. He was 67 years of age when he was taken away from us. Ronald was a proud Wesleyite who spent his entire school life at Wesley. He always proudly recalls his school life and the years he spent at "Katiyakkara" where Wesley College spent its war years.When ever the old boys of Wesley meet Ronald brings out his many Nostalgic times at the alma mater. After leaving Wesley Ronald joined the Ceylon Post office Department in the fifties and rose to the hight as Post Master. He also served as Post Master in the Kandy district. Ronald and his wife Erin came to UK in the sixties. In the UK he joined British Rail and served with them until his retirement in the eighties.
Ronald was an active member of the Wesley OBU UK joining the committee nine year ago. He held the post of Membership Secretary for four years and during this time he was able to get many new members. When ever we have a younger Wesleyite joining the union or has arrive from Srilanka for studies Ronald always goes out of his way to see to their comforts and if neccessary does the cleaning or applies a coat of Paint to the flat where the boys will be staying. He was very popular amongs the OBU UK membership. Ronald was also the popular choice to edit the OBU UK's Double Blue souvenir which position he held for over five years the OBU souvenir was always held as one of the best dinner dance souvenirs amongst the schools in the UK. Ronald always maintained very high standards. Ronald was elected at the 9th AGM of the Wesley College OBU UK held in December 2001 as its General Secretary which position he held until his untimely death.
Ronald was a true Christian gentleman. He was recently appointed as one of the vergers at St Anselm's Church, Belmont. He was heavily involved with the church many events most noted of which was the breakfast for the elderly which is held every day and Ronald was the main organiser. Recently he also donated a bible for the chapel which is used daily. The funeral service was held at St Anselm's church Belmont on the Thursday 18 April 2002, St Anselm's Church was full to capacity a true testimony to a very pouplar figure.The Wesley OBU UK was well represented at the funeral and the OBU also assisted as the pall bearers. Ronald was cremated at Breakspear Crematorium Ruislip and his ashes buried at St Anselm's church he so dearly loved. Tribute on behalf of the Wesley College OBU UK was presented by Azahim Mohamed. Wesley College OBU UK salutes and bids farewell to Ronald Klyn, a loyal Wesleyite and sincere friend. We will always remember with gratitude for the selfless efforts made without any complaints by Ron over the years to support Wesley College. Ronald Played a fair and splendid innings in line with the Spirit of Wesley.
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August 2002
I first met Ramsay when we were both students at Wesley College, Colombo in the early 1950's. That sounds like it was such a long time ago. Maybe it was. We were both young lads then, in our teen years. I remember Ramsay as being rather quiet, well-mannered with a preference for English Literature. This was during the years when Mr C J Oorloff was the Principal, and Mrs Oorloff took 4th Form English.
I left college a few years later, and never heard from, or saw Ramsay again, until forty-five years and about 25,000 kilometres away in Australia. In the meantime I had married, raised a family, become a grand-parent, retired from work and with the wonderful support for the MS Society in Victoria, my wife Beryl and I were about to commence visiting residents in a nursing home close to where we lived.
Imagine my surprise that first day, when I was informed that I would shortly be introduced to "Mr R Miller, born in Sri Lanka, educated at Wesley College….etc." And that's how I had the privilege of meeting Ramsay twice a month for the last few years of his life.
Ramsay was not a well man, we knew that. In the early days we used to play cards, or draw pictures, or cover the board when they called the numbers for Bingo. He seldom uttered a word, but I shall always remember him saying to me, once
"…Have a coffee?"
And after a short pause
"…I'll pay."
To have a cup of coffee together in some small café was always the ritual when two friends met in the old days in Colombo. And it was considered good manners to offer to pay.
I'd like to believe that just for that one brief moment, Ramsay was transported to another time and place, and he had just met an old friend with whom he would share a cuppa and a chat, and catch up on all the news.
There was no wheel-chair, no physical restraints on movement or speech and he looked at me with an intense recognition that I never saw again.
Ramsay succumbed to his illness on 29th August 2002.
Ironically, just a few days before, I was visiting Sri Lanka and spent a wonderful couple of hours at my old school Wesley College, showing my wife all the classrooms where I spent so much of my early years.
I began by suggesting that we never can tell how our lives will turn out. I quote below the last verse from a poem written by him and titled:
A Farewell From Ramsay"
Farewell my family and friends
Take heed of what life offers
And embrace your families
For who knows
What tomorrow may bring
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From Dr Nihal D.Amerasekera
Robin was one of three brothers ( Hilary and John) who were at the Wesley boarding in the fifties. He had a fine dry sense of humour and a rather light-hearted attitude to life and work. He was well liked in the boarding taking an active part in sports. I still recall playing I-Spy on Sunday afternoons with Robin and his many friends. It was often the highlight of our weekends in the boarding. Robin was a fine cricketer and it surprised me not to see him in the lst XI team. I remember the many softball cricket matches at the small park where he often made his mark in the fiercely competitive house matches, at the boarding. His spin-bowling ruined the dreams of many softball cricketers. At these matches Robin’s umpiring was often hotly debated and argued but he stood his ground despite strong arguments to the contrary. I recall once when he said he did not raise his finger but was just picking his nose - (I was the batsman and agreed with him on principle). I cannot believe he will not be there to play those elegant cover drives again in the small park. Sadly the small park too has been converted to a housing complex.
Those were tumultuous times in our young lives but they were glorious times too. The boarding life away from the love and care of our parents was not for the faint-hearted. That was a wonderful chance for a kid to grow up fast and be streetwise. Where else do you get that kind of responsibility thrust on you so young? We made friendships that have lasted a lifetime. Robin was an integral part of the boarding and took life easy. Academia was not for him but he had much else to enjoy.
He was famous for his pranks. Although perceived as a hard man I have seen his kindness too. Robin and Hilary were good friends and were inseparable. The two made a formidable team. They knew all the loop holes in the Hostel Rules and also where the ripening papaws were within the school boundary. Robin was the author of many of the hostellers’ nicknames. Getting thosais from the Thambikadey without being seen was an art they had mastered to perfection. He had 1001 excuses not to attend Sunday School at the Maradana Methodist Church which was a chore no one liked.
Cameraderie was strong and he never snitched on friends and expected the same loyalty from others. When punished he took the canings bravely. Those punishments were taken as yet another feather in his cap. There was a natural arrogance, but also wit and humour, which made him a master of the art of mischief. Even when caught red-handed, during interrogations he was able to weave remarkable stories to confound and mesmerize the teachers. I can just imagine that electrifying scene!! Robin's guile and cunning reminds me of Mark Twain's fictional characters Tom Sawyer and Hucklebury Finn. These misdemeanours never amounted to much and was just clean and innocent fun. The teachers always took him for a lovable character. He remained a much sought-after friendly figure in the boarding until he left. When he left there was a void that was never filled. The likes of Robin made life in the boarding bearable and memorable.
His father worked for CGR. After Robin left the boarding I met him at the Dematagoda Railway Housing Estate where they lived. He left school soon after the SSC to join an Estate (Carolina Estate Watawala) as an upcountry Tea Planter where he worked for many years. Our lives took different paths and we never met again.
Addendum by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
20th of October 2014
I was pleasantly surprised to receive an email from Robin's son Rudy, who lives in the UAE. He kindly gave me some information and sent me the photos for which I am most grateful. Despite the lines and furrows on his face Robin retains the boyhood features of his days in the hostel. In his emails Rudy has mentioned some of Robin's delightful pranks. Robin's photo brings him back to life and to those halcyon days of fun and games. Hilary retains his youthful good looks and we wish him well.
Our condolences go to his immediate family and to Hilary and John who shared the highs and lows of boarding life all those years ago.
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss.
Ah, yes, these things, I too, will miss.
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JAYASURIYA - DAVID LIONEL PERERA
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Born in Veyangoda, he was the youngest of 13 children. He studied at St. John's College Panadura and Carey College Colombo. He was actively involved in the school cricket team. Although he wanted to be a violinist, he gave-up the violin for cricket! Mr.Jayasuriya was also involved in scouting where his troop played a part in the Independence Day Celebration in 1948. He played for the SSC 2nd eleven cricket team. For many years was a much loved teacher at Wesley College. He recalled, how he enjoyed school trips with his students. His wife died in 1997. All his brothers and sisters too have died.
The Grand Old Man of Wesley is no more. He taught my father soon after the 1st World War and then myself in the 1950's. He was an excellent teacher of English. Mr. Jayasuriya would have been 103 years old next January (2003). They don't make teachers like that anymore- honest, kind and hardworking.. He has served Wesley College and its pupils with great distinction. My lasting memory of him will be Mr.Jayasuriya driving his ancient but immaculately maintained Austin 7 into the Vice Principal's porch. Our sympathies go to his daughter Kaminee who cared for him in his final years.
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They were twins - Manan and Mano. Manan lived in Sri Lanka being promoted to the post of Commander of the Navy before he retired. He subsequently emigrated to Australia where he died 28/01/03. Mano lived in Canada and passed away some years previously. They were prominent all round sportsman at Wesley in the mid and late 1950's
LR Rajasingham: 1st XI Cricket Team 1956-57, ist XV Rugby 1956-57, Combined Colleges RugbyTeam 1957, Athletics Team 1957, Best Performance at Inter House Athletics 1957, Winner Discus Throw Colombo North Meet 1957, Swimming Team 1956, Life Saving Award of Merit 1957
Genuine and rare,
The one that we call friendship
Has worth beyond compare.
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Hisni had his entire schooling at Wesley. We were in parallel classes. I have seen him grow-up from a boy in short trousers to a youth in "longs". In the process he grew in stature and in self confidence. He came into prominence as a Maliban Quiz Kid in that ever popular Quiz show of the Commercial Service of Radio Ceylon Compeered by Livy Wijemanne. This was in the Late 1950's. As a prefect I can picture him standing at ease at Assembly 'ticking off ' the boys. Hisni was the Co-Editor of the 1960 school magazine and his appreciation of the work of Mr. CJT Thamotheram in that magazine shows his talents as a writer. He was a member of the School Spelling Bee and Debating Team and was a fearless and eloquent speaker. With such skills he was eminently suited for a career in Law which he pursued after leaving school. We were together in the 6th Form. I recall the riotous humour and the wild and mad times we enjoyed together amidst the hard work. Above all he was a trusted and valued friend. After leaving school I last met him in 1963 watching a cricket match at Campbell Park. He was then at his ebullient best not bound by the school discipline and Prefects code. I was deeply saddened to hear that he died suddenly in the 1970's while taking a walk. A promising young life cut short in its prime. Cest la vie
Addendum from Dallas Achilles
Hisni Marikkar was a good friend to me. When I was a rookie in the Spelling Bee & 'Do you know' teams, he was my mentor and coached me. He also encouraged me & spurred me on. The Spelling Bee contests were great fun, & the competition was fierce with many close & thrilling encounters amongst the leading schools taking part. Held in the Radio Ceylon studios, each school faced each other before the large studio mike. Each team member was called up in turn by the adjudicator to spell a word. If correct, the team got one point, if missed, it was thrown to the rest of the team. The Team then got half a point if the called up person spelt it right.. If the 2nd team member got it wrong it was then thrown to the opposing team who would gain the half a point if spelt correctly. I recall as a rookie sitting next to Hisni who was our champion. I also remember when the opposing team missed a word altogether I just could not curb my enthusiasm & practically jumped out of my chair hoping to get called up to spell the word & gain a valuable half point for us. Hisni being our champion was always expected to be our 1st choice & of course the safest bet to go up & get it right. But seeing how keen I was, the true gentleman that he was, he pushed me forward. It made me feel good to know that he had confidence in my ability to get it right. Suffice to say I did not let him down. I recall we went on to win the championship 2 years in a row.
Wesley's former skipper, colts and combined schools cricketer, W. P. S. Abeywardene passed away after a brief illness on Tuesday at the age of 75.
W. P. S. as he was affectionately known, proved to be a fine all-rounder in that star studded cricket team of 1947 led by Edmund Dissanayake - a period referred to as Wesley's glorious years of cricket under the principalship of cricketer cum padre, Rev. James Cartman.
In the next year under a colourful captain Harold Matthysz, he scored a century against St. Josephs' and ended his cricket career at Wesley College by leading the side in 1949. He continued playing cricket for the colts cricket club and the Fisheries Department. He continued playing cricket for the Colts and Fisheries Department where he was an inspector of fisheries. WPS was a man of quiet disposition, given to sober disciplined ways - who through the qualities imbibed from game of cricket lived a virtuous life right to the end. His mortal remains will be cremated this evening at 5 p.m. at the Kohuwela cemetery (27/03/03)
Written by Deloraine Brohier
VAN DORT - GODFREY.
The special moments he captured will remain forever. He was known as "Goofy" - a pet-name for Godfrey. Goofy van Dort was quite a character - strong in opinion, inflexible and sometimes even obstinate. He was assailed by moods - high and low, full of fun and laughter on occasions, cynical and touchy at other times. I knew Godfrey when he was a young man and visited his Aunt Rene who stayed with my grandmother in Pamankade - though much later in life I got to know him better. He worked in the National Insurance Corporation for many years. Should he have seen anyone he recognized in the corridors or offices of the establishment, he would saunter up to them, and ask, "What can I do for you?" or "Can I take you to the person you have come to see?" leaving his desk to take the visitor as requested. Goofy had an inborn sense of "PR" and would go out of his way to be of assistance.
Goofy was an interesting man to converse with and he would entertain his listeners with a run of anecdotes, jokes and stories - some quite exaggerated and obviously fictitious. He had an insatiable desire to see and know more of our island, its deep back-blocks, little towns and villages, places of historic or religious significance and he would probe my knowledge. A memorable holiday we once shared was in Diyatalawa, at the Survey Camp. Goofy lapped up all I showed him in the hills around - "Adisham", "Lipton's Seat"off Haputale, the road down to Badulla and the Duwa Temple; the wooden Bogoda Bridge, Ravana Ella Falls and the spectacular Ella Gorge.
The camera, which was part of the man, had its open shutter at every turn. Roll after roll of film emerged from that trip. Godfrey van Dort was undoubtedly an expert with his camera - an extraordinary photographer.
He was proud of the award he once won for his picture of "Stilt Walkers", at a Japanese photographic exhibition. At every function in the Dutch Burgher Union in recent times, Godfrey stealthily moved amongst the crowd with his camera - be it a children's party or in our Elders' Home, the occasion of a special lecture or Founder's Day.
He captured moments of significance, which will remain on record.
Godfrey was not only the "unofficial photographer for the DBU, he was also jolly "Mr. Santa Claus" or the stately "Bishop, St. Nikolaas".
He played those roles with aplomb - varying his style, his expression, for the part he was taking. As the roly-poly Santa in red cloak and fur he bounced around kissing the old ladies of the Home for great giggles and with the children on St. Nikolaas' Day he sat them on his knee and tenderly talked to them as the sober Bishop.
Goofy will be remembered by many - for a long time.
Addendum by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Godfrey was in my parallel class at Wesley and a quiet, decent chap. He lived in Dematagoda and on occasions we have walked back home together as I lived in Kolonnawa. I never saw him since leaving school and was deeply saddened to hear of his death.
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Minister Methodist Church
Beloved husband of Bertha, loving father of Janaki, Jayalal, Rohan and Kumudini, loving fatherinlaw of Ilangasiri, Kamani, Mihiri and Nishantha called to Rest with Jesus. Cortege will leave 14/1, Pedro Lane, Puwakaramba, Moratuwa on Saturday 12th April 2003 at 4.00 p.m. for Service at Methodist Church, Moratumulla.
Rev Manukulasooriya was an old boy of the school during the Highfield era in the 1920's and then returned as the Chaplain of Wesley in 1950. I refer you to his article in the "Recollections" page of this website which gives an insight into his life and times at Wesley. He died in the 87th year of his Ministry.
From Sunday Island 17th August 2003
(The Late) Rev. John Samuel Benson Manukulasooriya
Rev. Benson was the only son in a family of seven, of the late Methodist Evangelist Sampathawaduge John F. Manukulasooriya of Moratuwa and Pattiyage Lucy Francina Gomes of Upper Welikada, Rajagiriya.
Benson and his six sisters Millicent, Clarice, Florence, the twins Edith-Evelyn and Beatrice had a very happy childhood. Benson joined them in all the fun, especially in the vacation when some cousins would also join them. Gradually he found different hobbies and even friends. He became a lover of nature and enjoyed himself out-of-doors with paltry and rabbits, spending time in the garden, who also loved to keep pets in-doors—birds, squirrels, butterflies etc; Butterflies in his room was an attraction for all. He would bring the chrysalis and hide them in various places in his room, and one fine day he would open his doors and windows to enable the baby butterflies to fly out. That was a lovely sight.
His mother knew how to keep all her children together and was always mindful of the only son. She was with them in all their activities. She had a dream and a vision for Benson, and in her quiet way, paved the way for it. All the children were given small duties in the home and sharp at 7 pm had family prayers which everyone had to share. The Sabbath day was strictly observed as a holyday. All the work in the house such as cooking, washing, sweeping and cleaning including studies were completed on Saturday.
In his formative years, Benson became more and more involved in church work being active in Church Services, Sunday School, Choir practices, Class meeting, Wesley Guild and even Boys’ Scout Troupe.
Special aptitude
Benson had his primary education at Richmond College since his father was stationed at Kalahe, Galle. When his father fell ill and had to come down to his home-town Moratuwa, Benson’s studies resumed at Prince of Wales’ College, Moratuwa. He had a special aptitude for languages in addition to his exceptional skills in mathematics and at the end of his school career had collected English, Sinhalese, Pali, Latin, French and an exemption from the Matriculation. [Later, at the Theological College, Bangalore, India, he added on Greek and Hebrew.]
For a short period he worked as English Assistant in a Methodist school. When he got-through the Clerical Examination he was able to get a government job in the Health Services Department quite easily.
It was while working here that he heard God’s call to a full Ministry. All were very happy and his mother was overjoyed. In a way his choice was not a surprise considering the atmosphere in which he was nurtured.
The Church sent him to Theological College, Bangalore, India for a 4-year Bachelor of Divinity (B.D.) Course.
When he returned from Bangalore, he was sent as Chaplain to Wesley College, Colombo. After a short spell there, he was stationed in various Parishes that included Maradana, Badulla, Tangalle, Koralawella (Moratuwa), Thummodar-Nattandiya (NWP), Katana-Miriswatte, Kalutara, Badulla (2nd time), Matara and Moratumulla. He mostly cared for the lost sheep. He was with the youth too. Youth Camps, Wesley Guild and the Sunday School were very much close to his heart all the time. His loud Bass voice was helpful to train the church choir and his family choir as well, and at times even without any instrument. His highly disciplined life helped him to carry on the administrative work smoothly in spite of disagreements at times.
Besides parish work, he helped the church in various other areas too. As a member of the committee for the revision of the Sinhala Prayer Book and Hymn Book his contribution was immeasurable. His far reaching suggestions helped the committee to maintain the spirit and quality of the originals. Another important work he undertook was to safe-guard the church property, where he found it all in disarray. He got the Parishes to send an account of their property and also the deeds to Methodist Headquarters. He studied them all and knew all details, even the problems. Even after he retired from active service his help and advice in this regard was sought by Headquarters so much so that he served as Property Secretary for 10 years after his retirement until he reached the age of 80. He had the Methodist Church Constitution, Standing Orders, Wesley Guild constitution, etc; at his finger-tips. During this period he also functioned as a "Distant Minister" for Badulla Circuit visiting members in the hills once again mostly on his usual untiring foot even at that old age.
Sinhala culture
He developed a keen interest in the Sinhala culture towards the latter part of his Ministry. Sinhala and Hindu New Year was celebrated with a Sport Meet/Cricket match. An oriental wedding march and Sinhala lyrics were used at some weddings he solemnized. He even discarded his western clothes and found an oriental outfit. He received an unstinted support from his wife Bertha and their four children Janaki, Jayalal, Rohan and Kumudini who always rallied round all church activities of their father which was a way of life for them too. Although he was frequently transferred to distant circuits thus upsetting mainly his children’s education, he took it up well as usual with his keen sense of humour and was well rewarded end of the day. He was also blessed to share and enjoy the love and affection of an array of grand-children having baptized each of them himself.
In out-stations, teaching English free-of-charge, organizing vocational training for rural youth in Spinning/Sewing etc; were appreciated by the Christians and all others alike. Carols (Christmas as well as Easter), Nativity Plays and training Choirs to sing with all parts in perfect harmony were just a few specialities that he was identified with. He undertook his solitary visit abroad ever-since his joining the Ministry when he was nominated as Sri Lanka’s representative to the Methodist Conference in UK during his post-retirement period spent serving at Methodist Headquarters. Accompanied by his wife and coupled with a brief stop in Germany, he enjoyed this tour very much which also enabled him to witness the historic monuments of the late Rev. John Wesley, the founder of Methodism.
After a successful period in his last Parish i.e. Moratumulla he continued his services further shouldering additional responsibilities at Headquarters which also included heading the Committee that completed the compiling of Sinhala Christian Hymn Book — the very first of its kind that contained Music Notations in both Oriental and Western Styles. Added to his ability to read and play Western Music, the training he had received in Oriental Music during his youth under the maestros in the calibre of Sunil Shantha and Deva Surya Sena must have had a great influence on his work giving him total confidence to assist and guide the Committee to accomplish this huge task quite satisfactorily.
He also served as the Advisor to the Editorial of the Sinhala Methodist journal ‘Methodist Witness’. He finally ‘retired’ at the age of 80, especially at the insistence of his family members. and started living a quiet life with his family. Although after a serious operation for a duodenal ulcer in 1947 the doctors had pronounced only 2 more years of life ahead, - thank God- he lived a healthy active life and completed 87 years in March this year.
He was confined to his bed in the last few weeks, quiet and hardly knowing what was going on around him. We were all sad to find such an active person in this condition. All of us prayed hard asking God to grant him a mercy release. Thank God, he was relieved of this condition in the end and with a smile he gained his Eternal Rest on the 10th April 2003. We are sure he is "Safe in the Arms of Jesus".
A Service of Remembrance and Thanksgiving for his Life and Ministry was held today at the Methodist Church, Moratumulla at 7.45 a.m.
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He was known as J.B.W Karunatilleke at school
B.J. Karunatileka
He is not here;
but faraway
The noise of life
begins again
And ghastly through
the drizzling rain
On the bald street,
breaks the blank day.
He was my faithful friend and after 50 years of association, Karu has passed on, leaving a void in my life. His eldest brother told me at the funeral that Karu had referred to me as his friend of a lifetime! I am happy to know that he thought of me that way, although he never told me so himself. We first got to know each other at the Wesley College hostel at the tender age of 14. During my university career at Peradeniya, we lost contact but resumed our friendship in the 1960s when I was employed as a management trainee at Levers and he was a medical rep for Organon Laboratories. Our friendship blossomed and grew because of a wide range of common interests. We both pursued marketing careers.
We actively participated in the affairs of the Sri Lanka Institute of Marketing, the Wesley College Old Boys' Union and the Havelock Sports Club where we functioned as presidents in successive years, not having ever played rugby in our lives! We also shared a passion for English Literature. In the Wesley hostel, Karu was mainly remembered as a raconteur and throughout his life he retained this knack of story- telling. He liked to exaggerate and embellish his stories for greater effect and in his school days was given the sobriquet 'Puller' by our mutual friend, Clinton Rodrigo.
Hostel days were carefree but had some discomforting associations. Karu used to say that "acute hunger"' was his most enduring memory of hostel life! It was this sensation of hunger that once motivated him to team up with a group of pranksters led by the irrepressible Clinton and steal a big bunch of bananas from the Vice-Principal's compound. In his working life Karu proved that he was made of "sterner stuff". He rose from the modest position of medical representative to become the Managing Director of J.L. Morison, Son & Jones within a relatively short period of time. He had an incisive mind, the gift of the gab and a disarming nature, which were considerable assets in his career as a pharmaceutical manager. He befriended several medical specialists who eventually became close friends.
He loved to entertain friends in the early years of married life at his flat by the sea in Dehiwela. In more recent times, he entertained us mainly at the Capri where he was a very senior and respected member. Karu had many hobbies and interests. He probably had one of the best collections of postage stamps in Sri Lanka and would spend hours organizing and reorganizing it. He was also an acknowledged expert at solving cryptic crosswords. He used to win crossword puzzle prize money with monotonous regularity and was once even interviewed by a newspaper on this skill.
He lost his beloved wife, Cynthia, about 13 years ago. Immediately after her death he became a wreck but with time he was able to come to terms with his loss. Karu's greatest pride was his son, Nalin. Nalin and his wife, Tharanga, showered Karu with an abundance of care during his illness.
Karu retired from Morisons two years ago and immersed himself in humanitarian work. As a director of Helpage he was signing cheques from his sickbed only days before he died. I know that he lived a full and satisfying life but his death at the age of 66 was untimely. It would have been good to see him batting longer.
Addendum by Frank Samaraweera
My beloved wife Kamala passed away on May 6, 2003 and less than two months later, on June 25 my close friend of over 50 years, Karu died leaving me even more bereft and lonely. I first got to know B.J. Karunatileka (known by his older friends as Karu and by more recent acquaintances as BJ) in 1950 as a fellow hosteller in the Wesley College boarding when we were both around 14 years of age.
In 1955 I lost contact with him when I entered the University in Peradeniya and he took on employment as a medical rep at J.L. Morisons. We resumed our friendship in 1960 when I had passed out and began working at Lever Brothers as a management trainee. From that time until his demise in 2004 we were the closest of friends. We had our share of joys and sorrows. His wife Cynthia died after a long and traumatic battle with cancer in July 1992 leaving him a broken man. Unfortunately I was living abroad at the time of Cynthia's death and could not provide Karu comfort and consolation in his time of need. It took Karu several years to overcome his grief but he did eventually return to normalcy.
In the course of our association Karu and I also shared many happy experiences. One annual event that brought our families immense pleasure was the holiday we spent with our schoolmate and buddy Clinton Rodrigo and his charming wife Yvette. At that time Clinton was the monarch of all he surveyed from his spacious bungalow on North Meddekumbara estate in Watagoda. The comfort of Clinton's bungalow and Yvette's graciousness; good food and drink and the salubrious upcountry climate made those holidays wonderfully memorable. There were many other times of joy and laughter that we spent together which I now recall with nostalgia.
Karu's formal academic education was confined to GCE 'O' Levels but he educated himself very thoroughly in the university of life. He was well informed and well read and his general knowledge was only surpassed by that of his son Nalin who won every public general knowledge competition held in Sri Lanka, including the Dulux contest and the Mahaweli quiz! In fact the legendary Gamini Dissanayake is said to have admitted that Nalin knew a lot more facts about the Mahaweli Scheme than he did as the pioneering Mahaweli minister.
Karu in addition to his prodigious knowledge was also a good writer and an eloquent public speaker. Karu's competence is clearly demonstrated in the fact that he rose from the modest rank of medical rep to the position of Joint managing director of J.L. Morison Son & Jones.
Karu and I had many common interests. We served as committee members of the Havelock Sports Club for many years and as president in successive years. Those were the halcyon days of the Park Club when defeat at rugby was a rare occurrence! We were both also committed marketing professionals and though we worked in rival business organisations we did our best to promote the cause of marketing through our association with the Sri Lanka Institute of Marketing.
We were loyal old Wesleyites and both served as vice presidents of the OBU. We both loved Western classical music and English literature. However, in temperament we were poles apart. I have always been a reserved person. Karu on the other hand was very much of an extrovert and in addition to Havelocks he was a prominent member of Bloomfield, Capri, and the Old Wesleyites Sports Club. He revelled in club life and camaraderie. In his school days he was affectionately referred to as 'Puller' because of his tall stories. Even as an adult, Karu was a raconteur with a zest for relating yarns with more than a measure of exaggeration. Karu once told me that he was a late developer and didn't start talking till he was five years old! He made up for this lapse because he rarely stopped talking in later life!
Karu had a very generous disposition. He spent a great deal of his time and money on charitable causes. During the latter part of his life he was actively involved in Helpage and despite failing health made regular visits to the Helpage office and assisted director. Wijewantha with numerous administrative and operational tasks in a totally honorary capacity. Above all, Karu was a wonderful friend and a truly upright human being. He belonged to a rapidly disappearing breed of gentlemen with old school values. In the memorable words of the 14th century English poet Geoffrey Chaucer - "He was a verray, parfit gentil knight."
Links to further reading
It is with deep regret and sorrow in my heart that I pen these few lines for my friend B. J. Karunatilleke who expired on June 25 and was cremated on the 25th instant at Borella, Kanatta.I have known B. J., for the past five years when I got involved in solving crosswords. First it was a friend, Hyacinth Perera who helped me but unfortunately she met with a tragic fatal accident and later I turned to B. J. for help. I had seen his name appearing in the prize list very often and when I called him he was ever ready to help me with the crosswords. Whenever there were questions from the old newspapers I was able to help him as I had a collection of about three months. B. J. was a very intelligent and efficient person and held very important positions.
About two years ago we visited him at hospital when he was sick and he was dictating letters to his secretary over the phone in the capacity as General Manager to J. L. Morrisons. B.J. would oblige anybody who inquired about the solutions to crosswords. He was not interested in the prizes but was only interested in solving the crosswords. He taught me how to do cryptic crosswords. Our friendship became a family affair and I visited him at his residence with my husband and he spoke to us a great deal about his young days and about his late wife and family. After retiring from J. L. Morrisons, he was attached to Helpage and worked voluntarily. With our heartfelt appreciation for your invaluable service to the country, we bid you farewell till we meet again on that beautiful shore.
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Patrick Gnanamuttu (Hewlett-Packard,Geneva)
I came to know Patrick via the internet relatively recently. What struck me most was his intense love for Wesley. He wrote to me occasionally about the website - an email of encouragement just to tell me how well it is doing. I appreciate this very much when it is yet another job to do in addition to my work. He most kindly sent me some photographs of his recent visit to Wesley and the OWSC which are now in the Photo Gallery of this website. I was deeply saddened to hear of his sudden demise and wish I had the good fortune to meet him in person. On behalf of the Worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites I send my condolences to his family now living in Australia. A life sadly cut short in its prime at the young age of 47. His enthusiasm for Wesley is a beacon for us all.
A tribute to Patrick from his work Colleagues at Digital EHQ Geneva, Switzerland
As you may or may not know, our friend Patrick Gnanamuttu has passed away during the early hours of Saturday 11th of October 2003, after having admitted to the hospital following an acute cardiac failure.
Patrick Gnanamuttu grew up in Sri Lanka. He went to school at Wesley College which was 3rd generation for his family. It was an English speaking school with proud traditions and it was the combination of his close family and school that gave Pat his basic qualities of honesty, integrity and a sense of fair-play that served him throughout his life. It was to his credit that despite some early health problems, he went on to be captain of the school rugby team.
Patrick came to Geneva over 20 years ago. He had a quite a hard time when he first arrived - he spoke about it from time to time – usually in the early hours of the morning - he took on all sorts of jobs including working in bars & at a launderette just to earn a living – He deserves enormous respect for the way he coped and started to build his life here.
He was given a chance to work in Digital – he seized this opportunity with both hands, worked hard, gained respect, ended up responsible for IT operations in Digital EHQ and Switzerland. When Digital’s internal auditors came and saw how automated & smoothly it was running he was sent to do workshops in the US to show them how to do it. Patrick was very proud to work in Digital and that’s because he knew he was well respected and had a lot of friends there many of whom were able to attend the funeral.
To cap his integration in to Switzerland, a few years ago, Pat actually became a Swiss citizen – although he never actually learnt how to make a fondue – he was tremendously proud of his new passport – he was officially accepted here and that was very important to him. But saying that if Switzerland were to ever play Sri Lanka at cricket, he would never have supported the Swiss team. He was still a Sri Lankan at heart.
Patrick had many qualities – some hidden – you may not know that he was a great cook as anyone who has had the honour of tasting the chicken curry with dahl – papadoms and hot onion sauce will know. The one thing that will stand in our memory is the natural and easy way he could make contact with people both young and old, professional and social always with a smile and a joke.
Through his life he had his set backs but always had a positive attitude to life and was never down for long. He spent the last year studying at University of Geneva for a Masters in Security Management & only found out last month that he had passed the final exam and was preparing for another professional exam at the end of this month. Finally, we all know that Patrick was too young to die – that it’s cruel and unfair, he had lots to live for and was making some concrete plans for the future with his girlfriend Diane. What we know is that if Patrick could have, he would have chosen to leave us like this – no suffering, no fuss and enjoying a drink in his favorite bar. As Pat would have said – “Bob’s the word!!”
We can’t know why he has gone, but we can keep precious the good memories we have of him and take a little of his cheerful personality with us as we carry on our lives without him.
And friends from day to day,
But sweet memories of friendship
Will never fade away.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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It was with deep sadness I received the news of the demise of Dr. Daya Perera on the 4th of November 2003.
I met Daya one Saturday morning in November 1949 at the Entrance test to Std 2 at Wesley College Colombo. He came up and spoke to me and there started a friendship that lasted a lifetime. Early on in his career he showed his leadership qualities. He was always there to ‘bell the cat’ if ever we needed someone. On numerous occasions he carried the torch and stood up for the students in class and sometimes owned up to save others. His many friends were regular visitors to Daya’s parents home in Gunasekera Lane, next door to All Saints School and later on at Kuruppu Road Borella. His parents always welcomed us. We have spent many hours listening to Jazz and the velvet voice of Nat King Cole from his reel to reel tape with lots of biscuits and Lanka Lime. He made good imitation of the gravel voice of Louis Armstrong. Those were happy carefree days of our youth.
The sea and ships fascinated him. Daya was a Sea Scout like his father and brother and was deeply committed to its procedures and protocols. I believe its hierarchy, rituals and regimentation fashioned his life and it was there he developed his life long love for the sea. He was always self confident and forthright. What struck me most about Daya was his unusual mix of intelligence, courage and humility. He always had time for the less fortunate and the less able and a desire to treat everyone fairly and with dignity. He was generous with his affection, encouragement, and kindness, giving freely of his time. He was strong in his convictions and self-assured yet docile and gentle in his interactions. This self-effacing modesty, combined with an utterly unstuffy attitude to fellow students in particular and life in general was one of Daya ’s trademarks.
At school he showed the qualities of determination and leadership that were to distinguish his later life. He was at the top of the class and often carried away many of the coveted prizes. Daya was an extrovert and had friends galore, belonging to both sexes. He came to his own in the 6th form when he became the captain of the school 1st XV Rugby team. He was then the Senior Prefect at Wesley. His warmth and approachability made him a hero and role model to his juniors. His wise counsel was always sought. His approach to each endeavour was wholehearted, constructive, and most of all, selfless. I remember well his efforts to stop students from smoking. During his tenure as" Head Cop" Daya created a united Prefects Guild which was respected by the staff and students alike. We truly appreciate what a difference being with him has meant for us. Those were memorable times spoilt only by the loss of his brother Shanthie in an air accident in England in 1961.
Daya was a charismatic and friendly soul who frequently inspired adulation in those he encountered. Although he had numerous friends at Wesley he had a core group of loyal mates who were with him always, even to the very end. They were Sarath Wickramaratne, Rohan Wijesinghe, Mervyn Fernando, Lakshman Jayasinghe and P. S.Rodrigo - who were inseparable.
We were then at the Ceylon Medical College together where he enhanced his reputation as an honest and loyal friend and also a successful academic. It was yet another triumphant chapter in his life.He breezed through the tough examinations without difficulty obtaining his degree in June 1968. Thereafter he practiced as a Resident Medical Officer at Central Hospital Colombo for a couple of years until he moved to Los Angeles California where he qualified in Anaethesiology. He is most appreciated and fondly remembered for the helping hand he offered to so many during his exciting and productive career. He created opportunities for others and encouraged those willing to take the step up.
In August 1994 I went on a holiday with my family to San Diego, California and phoned him to say 'hello'. He insisted on making the 150 mile trip to see us that same day. Daya took us back to his home in La Canada, California built on a hill over looking a gorgeous valley. Daya with his wife Swarna arranged a party to our mutual friends at very short notice. He was a gracious host of social functions. There was good food, good music, and a lot of laughter. That was a most memorable evening. They made a special effort to take my two sons to the Rose Bowl at LA where they held the 1994 World Cup Soccer. We walked the length of the famous Venice Beach at Los Angeles listening to his erudite descriptions of the eccentricities of that weird and wonderful stretch of land. I remember to this day his narrative of the destructive Santa Ana wind which the Californians dread so much. His friendship, wise counsel, and talent for organization will be sorely missed by those of us who depended on them.
It was a pity he was half way round the world away from me but we kept in touch with an occasional call or an email. Some years back I was deeply shocked to hear of his battle with coronary artery disease as he was always calm in a crisis situation, never smoked and did not require alcohol to be the live wire of any social event. Despite these setbacks Daya continued to lead an active life travelling, scuba diving and snorkelling all over the world close to his beloved sea. The lure of the sea never left him. Daya often met up with his pals from school in Sri Lanka and abroad. He was a regular visitor to Wesley and the OBU functions. Daya was a generous benefactor to the school and in particular supported the Rugby up at Wesley. He is largely responsible for the surge in that sport in his old school.
It was ironic that I heard about his demise while on holiday in Sri Lanka and visiting Wesley, the very same premises where I first met him all those years ago. He has died whilst on holiday in the Far East doing what he liked best, swimming and snorkelling. That turned out to be his last sight of his beloved sea. His body was cremated in Hong Kong and the ashes spread in the Pacific Ocean, according to his wish. Personally I have lost a sincere and valued friend. It was a privilege to have known him. His smiling face and cheerful demeanour will be missed by us all. Many friends will mourn the loss of a good man.
We remember with affection his vast repertoire of jokes, his candour and his zest for life. Those of us who were fortunate to know him remember his fun and commitment to his chosen field and his unwavering loyalty to his school and friends. We admire his example, miss his company, mourn his departure, and are richer for the lessons of his life. He remains one of the great student icons of my time at Wesley.
On behalf of the worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites I send our sympathies to his wife Swarna, daughter Shanika and his sister Pathmini. From the exemplary life he lead he must be closer to the ultimate goal of perfect peace.
May he attain the ultimate bliss of Nirvana.
When we were all together,
The family chain is broken now,
But those memories will live forever.
From Trevor Collette President of OBU Australia
Dr. Daya Perera or Daya as he was known to us, who were with him at Wesley at the same time, is one of the schoolmates who made an indelible impression on all those who knew him. Daya was a year senior to me in school and captained the 1st XV Rugby team and was Senior Prefect when in
the sixth form. I was a second year player in that team and a newly appointed prefect, however we “juniors” were treated as equals by Daya who was a born leader and inspiration to us all. I still remember the
encouragement and kindness with which he treated us. A captain who taught you to lose with dignity and win graciously, this was Daya.
He was a thorough gentleman and represented one of the finest and best products of Wesley.
May he Rest in Peace.
Trevor Collette
From Rohan Wijesinghe - Toronto, Canada
Daya's death was an absolute shock to me. I think he had some premonition because he phoned me a couple of weeks before asking me for photographs of myself and family. In fact I received some photos of him and his family a few days before he died. He had a snowball head like his dad, and I am bald more than my father was! The last time I saw him was in Sri Lanka around 1977. He was looking great then.
Swarna returned my many phone messages when she finally returned to LA. It was good to be able to speak with her and have more details. I continue to keep in touch with her.
Although it was for a few brief years At Wesley College that I shared school days with Daya, we became the closest of friends. My first memory of him goes back to Standard 5 when my father died. Daya was at the cemetery with T.W.de Silva. I could not miss the look of sympathy and sorrow on his face when he saw my tears and pain. That was when our friendship was formed. In Form 2, I had had a disagreement with him and we were not talking to each other. Then it was his birthday, and the next day he brought me a large peice of his birthday cake. So he took the initiative to restore our friendship.
Then I remember the day we both became Sub-prefects. As you know we usually spent our breaks in the lab. Now that very day Kodituwakku (Head Prefect) asked us to be at the back gate at the end of the lunch interval. The bell rang and all the students who were playing the the small park came back and to their classes and suddenly we found the back gate completely deserted. Then Daya suggested that we celebrate and go for a show. I, being of less daring stuff would not think of it. But he teased me and asked me not to be a spoilt sport. So we tossed and he won. So we decided to cut school, and go for a show. First we had to pass the Principal's house, but Mr. Nonis was walking up and down the verandah reading the news paper. So, we waited until he went into the house. Then we saw LAFA out in the garden carrying his little daughter showing he some flowers in the trees. So we pasted ourselves against the hedge until he went into his house and then we bolted down Karlsruhe Gardens road to Campbell Park and from there came out to Baseline Road near the Children's hospital. As we got on to Baseline Road, a car suddenly screeched to a halt and the driver looked at us and waved his finger so as to say "I caught you!" It was Dabrera, our class teacher. Both of us felt we had been run over by a truck! We lost our appetite for a movie and we went home. The next day we went back to school to face the music and certain disgrace of our sub prefectship being removed from us. When Dabbi was marking the register, he called both of us to his table. Then he said, "I suppose you were trying to celebrate yesterday. Good thing for you, Daya, you are in my rugger team. So I marked both of you present!" Oh, were we not relieved!!
Then taking down names at the gates to catch late comers was also quite an adventure. I was diligently writing down names of the late comers, while Daya was secretly winking at all the sisters in the cars of those who were coming late. We were quite an odd couple. I, with me Baptist upbringing was not one for fun like that, but bent on doing my duties, while Daya in addition was finding way of having so much fun.
Then there was that time he took a fancy to a particular girl in his neighbourhood. I was his support person many times when he would clandestinely meet her close to her home. Then there were those times when he would get her younger brothers (They were very small) to the lab and bribe them with candy and tell them to tell her sister that "Daya loves her," with strict instructions, "but do not tell anything if your mother is around." So the little tykes were at table having their tea when the sister arrives from school. They blared out, "Sis, Daya asked us to tell you something, but since mother is here we will tell you later!"
Then I remember when we had to go to the Medical College to write our Medical Entrance Test, or something like that. Lucky, who was in the habit of shooting out his mouth too much said something that was not complimentary to Soysa, who was a first year medico, and who had come to tease us. After all he wanted to show off before his fellow medicos. When we had finished writing a certain test, Soysa had gathered a whole lot of fellow Medicos and was waiting to take Lucky away to most probably give him a right royal rag. We were all stunned when Soysa singled out Lucky. Then Daya stepped forward and spoke to Soysa, with words to the effect, "Soysa, we are all Wesleyites and if you cannot keep that code, and if you do anything to Lucky, I will make sure that you will never be able to return to Wesley for anything." There was a deafening silence and Soysa wilted and hesitated. Then his own followers challenged Soysa to make up his mind. Soysa backed down and was deserted by his fellow medicos. That was the defining moment of my admiration for Daya. He was truly a leader. I felt proud to be his friend.
I abandoned my ideas of doing medical related studies and felt called to be a Christian minister. Daya continued to pursue his medical studies. Prior to being sent out for training to India, I was asked to be a hostel master at Carey College, which is adjoining the medical College. Daya had visited me there. I was once teaching a grade 6 class when suddenly Daya came to my class and he looked terrible, shaken, no, totally devastated. I had never seen him so distraught. He was in tears whe he told me, :Machan, Shanthi bugger has crashed." Shanthi was his elder brother whom he hero worshipped. I knew that Shanthi was tipped to get the sword of honour when he was to have graduated in a few day's time. So, I immediately spoke to the Principal and took leave and went over to Daya's house and vitrually spent the following days there. In fact I had been to his place the day before when his mother read out a letter from Shanthi which stated that he had a night solo jet flight and he was scared because there was sudden fog in and around London. She commented, "Just look at that, I though Shanthi Puta did not know the meaning of the word 'frightened'". Then, Sirimao Bandaranaike as Prime Minister arranged for Daya's mother to fly out to London. Then came the sad news that shortly after she had spoken with Shanthi, he died. Then there was the state funeral for Shanthi, and the honour guard was led by his friend Terrance Gunatilleke. Shortly before the cremation, I was one in emotion with Daya, as the Ceylon Flag and cap and sword was ceremonially handed over to the family. In spirit, I was empathetically one with Daya's soul as he was with mine many years before, when my father was buried.
After I came over to Canada, Daya would not miss phoning me on my birthday every year. He began with one ritual. "Happy birthday Machan. You were good in your sports and studies, you were a Prefect of the college; you had the whole world at your feet, and out of all the bloody things you could have done you had to go and become a bloody priest!" May be he really meant it because he seems never to forgive me for that! We would laugh. But our friendship was never any less by distance or the many years that went by.
I was honoured, blessed and fortunate to have had Daya as my best friend. I respect and honour his memory. Due to many reasons, I was not able to attend any Wesley functions, nor keep in touch with Wesleyites. But Daya did, and he never failed to keep me updated as often as he could. I often sigh, and weep within myself, "O Daya, do not be too far from me." And I know he is not!
A Tribute by Dr. M. Uvais Ahamed
He was an old boy of Wesley College and a former President of the Old Boys Union.
The great reformist and architect of modern Turkey, Mustafa Kemal Ataturk in a statement made shortly before his death in 1938 said, "Any human being who believes that the destinies of other human beings depend wholly upon him personally is a petty man, failing to grasp the most elementary facts. Every man is destined to perish physically. The only way to stay happy while we live is to work not for ourselves, but for those to come".
Haleem Ishak, whose death brought sadness to all those who knew him epitomized the sentiments expressed by Mustafa Kemal Ataturk. Altruism was the driving force behind all his actions and he had the welfare of his fellow-beings at heart all the time.
When my son broke the news to me on September 24 that Haleem Ishak had died, I was saddened deeply, for it was only a few days earlier that I received a letter of appreciation from him for the work I am doing as Principal of Zahira College. "I am aware of your past as a Principal and I hope your experience will be used for the benefit of the students of Zahira, and I wish you all success."
He died the way he lived without rancour towards anybody, with peace within himself and wishing and praying for the wellbeing of others. With the death of Mr. Ishak, the country in general and the Muslim community in particular have lost a man in a million, whose greatest attribute was caring for others. As a community leader, politician and elder statesman he left an indelible mark on the affairs of his community and country. His death has left a void which is hard to fill. The large number of people who thronged the Kuppiyawatte burial ground spoke volumes of the love and affection in which Mr. Ishak was held.
Mr. Ishak who came from a family with strong links to social service, followed the footsteps of his father, N.M.M. Ishak. He entered politics by being elected as a member of the Colombo Municipal Council. He was always accessible even to the poorest of the poor and made use of that position to work and toil for the well being of the down-trodden.
He graduated into national politics and was elected as one of the very few members of the opposition in 1977, when the UNP won a landslide victory at the general elections. His contributions to parliamentary debates were informed, eloquent and down to earth.
I am personally aware of the painstaking manner in which he did his homework before a debate. On numerous occasions when he had to speak on educational topics, he would call me and ask questions pertaining to the educational problems facing the country and the manner in which they are addressed in the international arena, especially with the intervention of organizations like UNESCO and UNICEF.
He was an eloquent speaker in Sinhala. Whether on the political stage or in person to person communication with his constituents, he always exuded a sense of honesty and sincerity which had a lasting impact.
I have often heard him saying that as a representative of the people, a sacred trust has been placed upon him and it was his duty to live up to that trust. He will be remembered by the people who elected him both to the Municipal Council and Parliament.
Mr. Ishak was an old boy of Wesley College, Colombo and had the distinction of being elected President of the Old Boys’ Union. He worked hard to marshal the resources and capabilities of old boys to make tangible contributions to their alma mater. Whatever the task he undertook in that capacity, he performed it with diligence, dedication and single-minded steadfastness.
As a person concerned with the welfare of Muslims in Colombo, he paid considerable attention to the improvement of educational standards in government Muslim schools and did whatever possible to provide them with much needed infrastructure. Although he did not achieve great heights in the field of education, he was convinced that the future of the Muslims depended on education. It was that conviction that made him pay special attention to schools in his constituency.
He was also concerned about Zahira College, Colombo, the oldest and leading Muslim education institution in the country. Inspite of his onerous responsibilities he agreed to serve as a member of the Board of Governors of Zahira College. He made this an opportunity to serve and provide useful suggestions to the college authorities to enable them to improve the educational standards of the poor children attending the institution.
His life was so gentle, and the Elements so mixed in him, that Nature would stand up and say to all the world
This was a man.
Addendum
Senior SLFPer and former Colombo District Parliamentarian Haleem Ishak died yesterday at a private hospital. He was 64 at the time of death.
He was one of the few SLFPers elected during the UNP landslide of 1977, from the Colombo Central multi-member constituency. Thereafter in 1989 he was appointed as Nationalist List MP by the party at the first General Election held under the PR system. Mr. Ishak later joined the UNP just before the 1994 General Election. Haleem Ishak started his political career as member of the Colombo Municipal Council. He contested the General Elections of 1965 and 1970 without success. He was also the Vice President of the Islamic Socialist Front. Janaza took place at the Kuppiyawatte Cemetery yesterday.
Mohamed Haleem Ishak by A.H.G. Ameen
From the Times of SL 9th October 2011
He was an old boy of Wesley College and a former President of the Old Boys Union
September 24 marked the eighth death anniversary of a respected leader of the Muslim community who served his people and the country for over half a century.
He was a gentleman in politics loved by all, serving mainly the poor and the oppressed, a respected municipal councillor and parliamentarian. The kind of politics he was engaged in should be a lesson to politicians of today.
Like the respected Sir Razik Fareed he worked without racial, religious and communal differences promoting his famous slogan, “Sinhala-Yonaka Ekamuthukama” , the Sinhala – Moor Unity in Sri Lanka.
He was the grand-son of the philanthropist the late A.M. Nagoor Meera whose sons were the late N.M. M. Ishak ( 1901 – 1965 ) and late N.M.M. Haniffa ( 1893 – 1949 ), the father of M.H.Mohamed.
He was born on December 9, 1929 at N.M.M.Ishak Mawatha, named after his father for his services. The Ketawalamulla Lane, the road adjoining this was named recently after him as “M. Haleem Ishak Mawatha” for his services to the community.
Haleem Ishak joined the SLFP in 1955 and became its vice president. He successfully contested the Maradana Municipal Ward in the CMC and represented the Kuppiawatta- East Ward. He was not only popular among the Muslims of Sri Lanka but also the Buddhists.
Kuppiawatta - East Ward consists of a population of 80 % Buddhists and the largest number of temples in the City of Colombo is found in this Ward.
His honesty, and simplicity were well known and his gentleman politics was emulated by others. In July 1977 the Sri Lanka Freedom Party was routed badly but Haleem Ishak was elected to Parliament to the Colombo Central Constituency as the third member. He was a parliamentarian for nearly two decades.
The SLFP government that was in power before his death offered him a diplomatic post which he declined, saying he wanted to remain in the country and serve the poor until his death.
Cecil WIJETILAKE.
It is with deep sadness that I read the obituary of ACW. He was in the hostel for many years until he left school. My earliest recollection of him is at soft ball cricket in the small park where he specialised in "along the ground" bowling which bought him a bag full of wickets in the ever popular and competitive house matches. He was no slouch with the bat. We will not see those dashing cover drives ever again or the lofty sixes over the tall "Andara" hedge into the Nalanda grounds. He was a wizard at table tennis and gave us a hard time in the tournaments. Cecil was a well known figure in the school at large and became the Senior Prefect in 1961. In the following year he won the Lydia Senaratne award for the most outstanding Hosteller and also the Highfield award for the best all rounder in the school.
After a fine school career in 1963 Cecil entered the Arts Faculty at Peradeniya. Here sadly Cecil could not complete his degree due to problems in his personal life. In spite of the brightness of his glittering school career, Cecil's personal life was plagued by darkness and despair. Subsequently he obtained his degree from the Kelaniya University. Memories of these sad events followed and troubled him to the very end. When I look back into the life and times of the many Wesleyites who took part in my life’s drama. I see the awesome force of destiny that fashioned and moulded their lives.
I last saw him in Nugegoda in 1962 when he was happy and at his best. To this day I recall his smiling face wishing me goodbye. ACW wanted to be a politician and he would have made a good one, but sadly destiny had other plans. Cecil was a small man with a big heart. He will always be remembered for his loyalty to his school and his kind and caring ways. I just cannot believe I will not see him again although it is 50 years since that last goodbye!!
May he attain the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
RAM RATNAVALE
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Ram Ratnavale was a popular student in the boarding at Wesley College.“Velu” as he was affectionately called joined the school and the boarding in 1954 with his brother Anandakrishnan. They were devout Hindus. For his age Velu was bigger and broader than the rest of us and with his natural flare for sports soon became an indispensable member of the Athletics Basketball and Football teams at every level. He went on to play for the 1st XI soccer team and was in the Athletics team in his final years at Wesley. My first recollections are of football in the Small Park when he like an express train darted from one end of the pitch to the other smashing the ball into the goal. He was a well loved eccentric. He took life easy and was a great smiler. The academic work merely came in the way of his fun outdoors. He left school in 1962 and sadly thereafter our paths never crossed.
He worked for Elephant House in Slave Island for for his entire career becoming its Production Manager. He continued with his love for sports becoming the Vice President of the Basketball Federation of Sri Lanka. It was with much sadness I received the news of his death in February 2003. He was much loved and remained a valued friend both at Wesley and the world at large. His cheeky grin and infectious laugh are precious memories for us all.
Sarath Wickramaratne remained good friends with him until the very end.
The Mercantile Basketball Association Championship is now played for the Ram Ratnavale Challenge Trophy a just tribute to a fine sportsman and for his contribution to Basketball in Sri Lanka.
From Brawin Fernando, the incumbent President of the Mercantile Services Basketball Association.
The Mercantile Services Basketball Association was formed by some basketball enthusiasts in 1977. Ram Ratnavale who became the secretary of the Association held that position until he died in 2003. The MSBA knockout basketball tournament is played for Ram Ratnavale Challenge Trophy to honour the service rendered to the association by him.
The need of an association for basketball in the mercantile sector arose since there was no other association to nurture the talents of that sector those days. MSBA had been affiliated to the Sri Lanka Basketball Federation from its inception.
MAY HE FIND ETERNAL PEACE
Mr CJ Oorloff's first day at Wesley College
From the Times of Ceylon
Mr. C. J. OORLOFF, the new principal of Wesley College, Colombo, who assumed duties this morning, addresses the Special Assembly. On the extreme right is the Rev. G. B. Jackson, and next to him is Mr. Kenneth de Lanerolle, acting principal. Mr. Oorloff said: "I pledge myself to honour the magnificent traditions of Wesley and shall endeavour to build on those foundations. The torch of enlightenment, kindled by the founders and kept alive by their successors— that flame shall be kept burning". Both Mr. de Lanerolle and Mr. Jackson, chairman of the South Methodist Synod, paid a tribute to Mr. Oorloff’s abilities.— (Times).
A Tribute to a legendary Principal By Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
Cedric James Oorloff was a Classics scholar and belonged to the elite brigade of Civil Servants of the British Raj. His final assignment in the CCS was Controller of Immigration and Emigration. After Independence he decided to move into a hitherto un-chartered field of education and became Wesley College's first Ceylonese Principal. It must have seemed an audacious move at the time. He arrived at Wesley with his good looks, dapper cream coloured suits, distinguished hair parted on the side and charming manners. With his immaculate English and British Upper Class aristocratic diction Cedric Oorloff could have easily been mistaken for an Englishman. He was noted for his meticulous timekeeping and attention to matters of style, dress and habits. He brought with him the British stiff upper lip, aloofness and strict discipline which attracted many critics. He set the highest standards for himself and others. With Mr Oorloffs unswerving sense of fair play, sound judgment, sense of humour and understated turn of phrase, he inspired many devoted admirers. He was at the height of his powers at a time when Education was a weighty political and social issue in post-Colonial Ceylon.
Nobody who met Cedric Oorloff could easily forget him. Tall and white skinned he cut a striking figure on the teaching arena at Wesley. His intellect was as imposing as his stature. He could be sweepingly dismissive of views of which he disapproved. CJ Oorloff spoke his mind so liberally and without fear of controversy. But the quality of his thinking, like the clarity of his prose, was outstanding.
Austere and 'regal', there was always a wide gulf between the boys and the Principal. Corporal punishment was then in vogue and his tantrums were avoided like the plague. Being an intellectual he didn't suffer fools gladly. Along with his foresight went a zero-tolerance of mediocrity. Despite this we cannot falter his commitment to Wesley and to education. It must be said the discipline in the school was then at its best. While his intellect and apparently sardonic style could make him seem intimidating, CJ Oorloff was a tough but compassionate educationist of the old tradition.
The new political environment, and new laws diluted the power of the Independent Schools run by the Church. Political ructions dominated his whole career and much of his professional life. On looking back his shrewd political awareness was a Godsend to Wesley during those turbulent times of the 1950's when policies on education were made on the hoof by politicians pandering to the rising tide of ultra-nationalism. His job required tact, discretion, tough-mindedness and a healthy dose of common sense — qualities that this former Civil Servant had in abundance.
With his arrival we saw the dawn of a new era at Wesley. The institution was transformed into an organisation committed to delivering a high quality education. We continued to receive State Grants while maintaining our independence. He found little to admire about politics and politicians. His approach to them was sceptical, even cynical but diplomatic for the greater good of the school. His long association with succesive Governments as a Civil Servant helped him and the school enormously.
CJO showed a keen interest in his staff. He drew deeply on the wide array of talents of the teachers for improvements in teaching, maintaining discipline and high standards of extra-curricular activities. His instructions were lucid and penetrating exploiting the rich resources of students and staff. There was no place in his school for small-minded troublemakers and zealots. He was inspired not by new-fangled and fancy theories but by a wish to do whatever he could to deliver a high-quality Education and he was meticulous. He achieved his objectives in grand style.
We couldn't have had a better forthright Principal during this crucial time. Academic standards improved in leaps and bounds. During his tenure we had some of the best years in the field of sports. I saw his lighter side (literally and metaphorically) when I was a ball boy at the staff tennis court. CJO laughed the loudest during the games, on and off the court. He grunted like a modern day tennis players as he served, just as he did when he swung the cane!! With his trademark look of wry bemusement and a stern schoolmasterly gaze he questioned those about to receive his punishment. But behind the somewhat forbidding exterior was a wicked sense of humour, a high intelligence and a deep loyalty to the profession. He was always courteous and polite whatever the situation and we saw his kindness only when outside the school premises. CJ Oorloff was a thoughtful man who often held strong opinions. He was forever optimistic of a better future for Wesley College.
I recall with much nostalgia his entry onto the stage which he did with incomparable grace, every morning at assembly. He wore his black robe and cap. "Good Morning boys" and we chanted "Good Morning Sir" And he said "Be seated". On Fridays he read out the "Detention for tomorrow" This well rehearsed drill we repeated day after day until he left school. When I see his photo his voice still echoes in my head. His awesome performance on stage must haunt every student who saw his regal presence.
He ran a tight ship and steered the school through difficult storms into calmer waters. CJO was an astute educationist and saw troubled times ahead for the Government assisted schools. He preferred to move to a school independent of the inconsequential and whimsical manouvres of politicians . He left in 1957 after 7 years at Wesley to become the Principal of Trinity College. Our loss was their gain. There he was much loved and respected despite his firm authoritarian style. I am reliably informed by an old Wesleyite who taught at Trinity College briefly, Ranjit Alwis, that CJO had mellowed a great deal. Trinity is a school with long traditions and processes and Mr Oorloff replaced a much loved Principal in Mr Norman S Walter. This was a difficult act to follow. There were times when Mr Oorloff's sure touch seemed to desert him. Perhaps he lacked the total and unhindered support as at Wesley College. Nevertheless his achievements at Trinity speaks volumes of his successful tenure as Principal.
He was the complete professional the likes of whom we may never see again. Whoever is Principal of Wesley College there are moments in my mind's eye when as long as I live I shall only see CJ Oorloff on that special chair on stage. Like Rev Henry Highfield and Rev James Cartman he will remain a legend at the Karlsruhe village in the years to come.
CJ Oorloff's illustrious career as an educationist ended with his retirement in 1968. All through his career he was loved, admired and feared. He was celebrated enough to earn a place alongside the great Principals in the Educationists hall of fame. His distillation of wisdom and good practice as Principal will remain a benchmark for others to follow. He passed away at the age of 80 in August 1986.
Mr C.J Oorloff - A Man of Grit, Industry and Honour by Mr Ivor De Silva
Mr. Oorloff brought to Wesley the rich culture of a classical education and the best that the Civil Sercive could give to a man hard work and efficient administration. At the time he was appointed Principal of Wesley, Education in the island was in a fluid state, or rather In virtual chaos. Mr. Oorloff's experience in the Governmenl Service gave him the necessary training to define and clarify obsoure education codes and circulars. A Principal who had no knowledge of Government Service technique and jargon found the administration of a school! no easy task. But to Mr. Oorloff all this was familiar ground He had the equipment and the inside knowledge of how to deal With Government red-tape. His experience was invaluable at the time our schools decided to join the Free Scheme.
When Mr. Oorloff joined the teaching profession he had little experience of educational matters but he leaves us having contributed a great deal to the cause of education. He has been a driving force at the Headmasters Conference. A man whose opinion was respected, wanted and heard. Mr. Oorloff has an unbelievable capacity for work. A few years ago when three or four senior members of the staff had gone on study leave abroad, at various times it was he who did the bulk Of their work. In the last two years in addition to his work as Principal of Wesley with over one thousand one hundred boys on the roll he was asked to take over the management of the Colombo Industrial School. At the farewell assembly a senior member of the Staff summed up Mr. Oorloff's working power in two things he said. 'The first that he had worked under five Principals or more but he could not remember a man who worked so hard for the school. The second that when he worked on the Time Table he normally took two Weeks over it but when Mr. Oorloff prepared the Time Table he spent only 4 days'. Mr. Oorloff worked on the average 10-12 hours, often 14-15 hours a day and he expected his staff too to work as hard. There is no aspect of school work that does not pass through his hands at some point or other. Some have said that he spends his time unnecessarily over trivial matters, which could be entrusted to others but I believe it is because he does not wish anything he is responsible for to go amiss and more so in these days of rapidly falling standards.
Mr. Oorloff is a stolid Christian, and a stolid Christian is what a leading Christian institution needs. His presence and deep faith has enriched the spiritual life of the school. He has continued to uphold Christian values in every aspect of school life from disciplinary action to personal relationships. His example has been a guiding light to Christian witnesses. Mr. Oorloff has identified himself with the College motto. He prays and works.
It is now over 5 years since he began the Staff Prayer cell that meets in the bungalow once a week. A teacher of many years service on the eve of his retirement said " Mr.Oorloff is the only Principal who I know prayed for me during my illness and his prayers gave strength and courage in those difficult days." Mr. Oorloff himself has said on several occasions his work at Wesley taught him the real meaning of prayer. He had learnt to pray in a way never before and prayer has been the only answer to meet the strains and stresses. "More things are wrought by prayer than l his world dreams of. Mr.Oorloff has for over 30 years had an abiding interest in the Student Christian Movement and it is this interest that has strengthened the work of the school at Wesley. It is our joy that many Christian youth leaders have had their training in the S.C.M. at Wesley.
Mr. Oorloff has in the past years established a democratic set up at staff meetings. A colleague who joined Wesley from another ' big' school in Colombo said he was struck by the spirit of friendliness and frankness at staff meetings. Here was a true Christian spirit at work to the extent that even the most junior staff member could speak his mind on any matter that was important to him though it were contrary to the opinion of the Principal. There was open discussion, group reasoning and a collective deci¬sion in the best interest of the individual and the school. No single individual, not even the Principal dominated or influenced the decisions of the staff. That has been a rich experience to us and one that we have treasured.
Mr. Oorloff is also a man with big ideas. The big ones that Principals of our schools have had in the past. He has spread the ' One World' idea of Wendle Wilkie and has encouraged the school at every opportunity to think in these categories. He believes Ceylon is too small a country to be fenced into racial groups. As a practical solution he has arranged that boys of various com¬munities meet is one class during certain subjects. He is above the influence of race, colour, caste or creeds. He believes that all at Wesley are the Children of God with equal rights and opportunities. He believes that a man should fight against the primitive ideas of racial and religious intolerance. He believes no man is too big to say 'sorry' to another. I remember quite vividly the day he met me on the corridor, put his arm round my shoulder and apologised for what he had said earlier. There was humility and affection on his face.
He has given cricket at Wesley its rightful place in the life of the school. No cricketer is given preferential treatment with regard to academic work and general discipline. He has suspended some and severely punished others for breaches in discipline. The cult of cricket is a myth of an earlier age and today cricket is one of the normal activities of college life. Mr. Oorloff was present at every inter-collegiate match sharing the defeat and the victory with his team. You would hear him on Monday morning making special mention of the achievements, of the victors and the vanquished, encouraging applause for both. It was an object lesson in preparation for playing the big game of life.
In the earlier years we detected a trait that Mr. Oorloff had carried over from the Government Service. He was rather fond of establishing a ' paper ' relationship. At first it was something that disturbed us but in subsequent years his memos and chits became rare. If he did send one it had a touch of his quaint humour. He would rather ask you to meet him for a quiet chat in his office or bungalow and you, perhaps, got more involved with some work after a conversation with him than through his chit-system.! But we are glad for the personal relationships he established with us. Wesley has been blessed by a great man and behind him has been a great woman. Mrs. Oorloff is a woman of charm and simplicity. She has added grace and a quiet dignity to the life of the school. A woman who showed she was as much in love with Wesley as with her husband. She has given to the school much of her time and energy — in teaching, dramatics and in several other undefined ways. If ever you needed help she gave it with a contagious smile that made you feel better. Whatever she undertook she did with great care and concern. You could see an artist at work in the smallest task she undertook.
Mr. and Mrs. Oorloff are so much a part of Wesley that it is difficult to accept the fact of their leaving us to work in another school in another clime. But we cannot presume that they belong only to Wesley. They have spent seven fruitful and memorable years at Wesley and we have been the better for it all. Trinity is fortunate to have such a man and woman. The separation pains us but we rejoice that they go to give another great school what they have given and received from Wesley. There is a lurking pride in our hearts that we give to Trinity a great Principal from Wesley.
The Photos and the brief summary of his life were kindly sent to me by Gillian Leembruggen, Melbourne, Australia
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Christ Church Galle Face where the Oorloffs were married
Then and Now
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A Brief Summary of his Life
Mr Oorloff was educated at Royal College and the University College Colombo. He obtained an honous degree in Classics(1927) and joined the staff of Trinity. He left TCK to enter the Civil Service in 1930. He served as magistrate, OA and AGA. He preferred working in the outstations and was twice at Hambantota where he revelled in the beauty of the place and the proximity to the National Park at Yala.
He married Christobelle Leembruggen in 1936. He was transferred to the Customs in Colombo to the post of Landing Surveyor and later was Controller of Immigration and Emigration. He set up the Ceylon Legation in Australia and served as the First Secretary before he returned to Ceylon.
In 1949 he resigned from the CCS to become the first Ceylonese Principal of Wesley College Colombo.
In 1957 he became the Principal of TCK and retired in 1968.
Mr Oorloff was a strong supporter of Miss Carney’s “House of Joy” at Talawa and for several years kept the accounts.
On his retirement from TCK he joined the Colombo Diocese and was the Property Secretary. He later served as a Consultant on various Trust Boards and as Manager of the Schools for the Deaf and Blind at Ratmalana.
The dates show that he died a few months short of their Golden Wedding anniversary; Mrs.Christobelle Oorloff was very sad about that. His cause of death was not conclusively established although he was
declining quite rapidly. He died after a brief illness on the 17th of August 1986.
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Rev W.S Senior: Teacher, Poet and Priest by Cedric James Oorloff
Walter Stanley Senior was born on 10th May, 1876 the son of the Vicar of St. Thomas' Church in Nottingham. Educated at Marlborough and Balliol, he offered himself in 1896 to the CMS for work overseas.
In 1906 he received and accepted an invitation from Fraser to come out to Ceylon and be his Vice-Principal at Trinity College, There Senior worked for ten fruitful years. In 1915 he left Trinity, Kandy to take on the Incumbency of Christ Church, Galle Face, where in addition to his Parish- work, he got going, in the slums of Wekande, in Slave Island as it was then known, the School of Hope, a night school where the boys of the area came for evening classes and other activities. Later he resigned the Incumbency in order to take on an appointment as Lecturer in Classics and Registrar of the University College, Colombo.
Classics
In the magnificent Chapel of Trinity College Kandy, stands a pulpit of excellent craftsmanship, erected there to commemorate "Walter Stanley Senior, Teacher, Poet and Priest." All these he was, and more besides. Living as I did in a different parish, I had no personal experience of him as a priest, except that 'his pastoral care for me and for all with whom he came in contact was manifest in all he said and did. And 1 know that the Older parishioners of Christ Church still refer nostalgically to his ministry among them Lecturing at the college was work he loved doing for on the one hand, he was a keen and sensitive Classics scholar, rejoicing in the opportunity now given him to "talk" Roman and Greek culture with his colleagues on the staff, on the other it brought him in close contact with . young people, in whose cause he delighted to labour. I had the privilege of having him as my teacher at the University College. How well I remember the polish and easy cadences of his Latin proses, and the patience with which he endured our feeble efforts at imitating him. He was an inspiring teacher of English Literature too and one of the methods be used to introduce us to its wealth and beauty was the method of public declamation ' of selected pieces of poetry.
Poet
The poet in him helped him rouse inert minds and unseeing eyes to the beauty and wonder of creation. Mountains and hills and streams were mountains and hills and streams to me—just that and nothing more until I learned to see them with his eyes. and they became in a strange but convincing way glories of God's creation, eliciting awe and wonder and praise and thankfulness. Happiest of the memories of my undergraduate days is the hike he organized for us, for me and a group of mutual friends. For ten glorious days we roamed on foot among the mountains and valleys of Uva and the Central Province, starting with the climb up Sri Pada, then by devious ways, past Bogawantalawa, over the Bopats, on to Agrapatna, over Horton Plains, past Ohiya, Idalgashinna and Haputale to Badulla; then back by Welimada and Nuwara Eliya and Maturata to Rikiligaskande, and so to Kandy. I was only 20 then; he was over 50. But he accompanied us, un-fatigued ...and- uncomplaining, for much of the way, kindling-in all of us, by his quiet enthusiasm, an appreciation we had never had for the incomparable beauty of this island of ours.
Artist
Senior was an artist, then, using language as a medium for conveying to others the truth and the beauty behind the appearance of things. He has written poetry and prose of the highest order, much of it still unpublished. His worthiest piece, perhaps is "Pisgah". the poem which won him, in 1914 the triennial prize at Oxford for a poem on a sacred subject.It contrasts Balaami and Moses in their crises of decision and indecision on Mount Pisgah.
Balaam seen base, and Moses greatly good,
Moses greatly good,
The Master Spirits of the Middle East.
Each on high Pisgah, poet, prophet, priest,
His climateric hour of vision spent,
To that sure bourne his youth had chosen went.
Ah, in the stripling's beauty who might see,
For shame or glory, what that bourne should be ?
But the whole poem must be read if it is to be truly appreciated. Other poems too he has written on sacred subjects—"Judas Maccabaeus", "St. Peter's Deliverance from Prison", "Domine Quo Vadis?"—all of them of the same high quality.
Ceylon
Better known, and more homely, though equally beautiful, are his collection of poems about Ceylon. They reveal a deep knowledge of the country, an understanding of her people, an insight into their weaknesses and their strength, a live sympathy with their yearnings. The best introduction to these poems are the stanzas entitled: "The Call of Lanka".
The Spirit of Lanka cries out for a bard to sing the glory that had been hers, and the glory that was to be. And the poet answers:—
I, child of an alien isle;
For my heart has heard thee, and kindled,
Mine eyes have seen these and smile
Take, Foster-Mother, and Use it;
'Tis but for a little while".
A little later, because it wasn't good enough in his eyes that the epic of our country should be the work of an alien, however loving a foster-child he might be. Lanka's bard must be a son of the soil. And Senior had no doubts that one would arise in time.
born of thy womb, shall rise,
The Bard of the moonlit jungle,
the Bard of the tropic skies.
Warm from his Mother's bosom,
bright from his Mother's eyes".
And when he came he would sing of Sri Pada and Dunhinda. of Sigiriya and Minneriya, of whatever is old and lovely in this old and lovely land.
In the brave new days that come,
When the races all have blended
And the voice of strife is dumb;
When we leap to a single bugle,
March to single drum,
Here was great faith, and here again in his "Call to Lanka", where he sees her People,
One Man from shore to shore,
The stranger become a brother,
The task of the tutor o’er;
When the ruined city rises,
And the Palace gleams once more.
His vision was not the Seam of a misty-eyed optimist. Freedom he insisted the people must have, freedom and unity; but these were not to be had for the asking. There was a cleansing and a struggle to be gone through before these could be achieved.
And would ye keep ' your freedom while ' the testing ages roll?
' If ye fain would free the body ye must first make free the soul".
And then he goes on to tell us with the frankness of a true friend some of the things that must be shaken off before we can toe truly free—"the binding mesh of mammon", for instance, and "the base ungenerous gibe" We need to know the truth, he goes on, for only the truth can set us free. This is why the University-to-be was to him a factor of over-riding import.
there is Hope in the House of Mind,
That they who were deaf shall listen,
and they shall see who were blind".
Even the village school had its part to play,' for there ' keen minds were …… ardent hearts awakened. Then there were the bigger schools in Colombo and Kandy,
beautiful, her brave,
Look in Life's eyes,and
with Life's lessons cope".
But the goal was not even a University College, like the one he lectured in, but a truly national University,
Behold the slow fruition of a dream, our island-goal, some University,
Where dateless hosts of visionary youth, Asia with Europe one in holy quest,
Shall read aright the starry deeps of Truth, adoring bend, and offer Being's best'.
He did not sit so lightly to me question of the sitting or the projected University as the first line seems to suggest. He was in the thick of the controversy between those who, like him, wanted it in the metropolis, and those who demanded that it, should be built at Peradeniya. It is difficult to understand why this lover of the —
Aye, and will linger till the last of time,
The Voice once heard, the Vision once beheld", who could speak of the "chasmed heights" as the healing skirts of God"
should be so resolutely opposed to the Dumbara Valley site. But he was! And at considerable ' cost
To his emotions …… The tension was great", he says,
"and even affected friendship, to my grief."
Alegiance
We have had glimpses, then, of Seniors deep and willing involvement in the life of this country. But he had his allegiance to his family too. Their claims on him had now become pressing, and in 1928 he decided he would have to go back to his, people in England. Read what he has to say about the inevitable break in his "Goodbye" and his "Desiderium". In the former he trots out , not yet seriously, some arguments in support of a return to England, and then goes on:—
And the English climate’s chilly and the English clouds are gray
When the birds are sad and silent, and the sun is seldom seen
And life is miles of houses with miles of mud between
You will see in a sudden vision, you will see with a sudden sigh
The scarlet splashed flamboyant awash in the azure sky
You will see Anuradhapura and the old kings’ bathing pool
And the shadowy blue king-fisher, the carven granite cool
And the pass of Haputale and the lowland flat and far
And through Gravillea feathers, the rosy evening star
And the moon-besilvered jungle, the dipping magic cross
Mid steady balm in-blowing from the silver foam and floss
And better than places — faces, the Aryan face (your own)
With its brown and olive beauty, the youths and maids you’ve known
And the tender pearl of India in the black and brilliant eye
My soul, you will break with longing — it can never be Goodbye.
The Graveyard at St Andrew's Church Haputale
Ashes
And so, reluctantly, this great lover of Lanka left the home of his adoption for the home of his birth. He returned to Ceylon in 1936, but only for a short holiday. It was clear, even then, that he was a sick man. In 1938 he was called to his eternal home. His tale of days was told, his span was spun, to use his own metaphors. On him was conferred "the Freedom of the endless morn."
The ashes of this poet of Ceylon, this seeker of souls, this servant of God, were interred on the 23rd of February 1938 in the garden of the hill-top Church of St. Andrew in Haputale among the hills and valleys he loved so much. For him "It can never be goodbye".
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Rev W.S Senior, Ceylon's "Poet Laureate", will always be remembered for the famous "Hymn for Ceylon" which we sang at end of term assembly during the Principalship of Mr CJ Oorloff. As a schoolboy I was mesmerised by its soul stirring lyrics and haunting melody. The students sang it with passion and almost lifted the roof. Such was our affection for the hymn. His gravestone is a testament to his life "He loved Ceylon"
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Addendum from Trinity College Kandy
Mr. C.J. Oorloff ( At Trinity College 1957-1968)
When the previous Principal, Mr. N. S. Walter, began to feel that it was time for him to return to England, his first task was to ensure a suitable succession. His choice fell on Mr. C. J. Oorloff, at that time, Principal of Wesley College, Colombo.
Mr. Oorloff was, of course, no stranger to Trinity. Although he went to school at Royal he had been born and brought up almost within our precincts and even lives there still on his visits to Kandy. On graduation Mr. Oorloff came home, as it were, when he joined the staff in 1930; but unfortunately, like so many after him, he could not resist the lure of the Civil Service, a decision which we suspect he regrets except perhaps, for a nostalgia for Hambantota which he shared with another Civil Servant, the late Mr. Leonard Woolf. His broken connections with Trinity were, however, somewhat renewed when he married the sister of three brothers who were Trinitians.
In 1949 Mr. Oorloff quit the Civil Service, though well on the way becoming a Permanent Secretary, to accept the post of Principal of Wesley. There he spent seven fruitful and happy years before succumbing to the temptation of returning at last to his real home. Mr. Oorloff’s period of office as Principal of Trinity is the second longest in the history of the school, second only to that of Mr. Fraser, whose era was, however, nearly twice as long. These years were years of consolidation after the frantic pace that had been set by Mr. Walter. Trinity settled down to a quiet and sound if unspectacular progress which carried the school through on an even keel despite all the political and educational upheavals of the time. When Mr. Oorloff handed over the school to Mr. Lionel Fernando on the 1st of October, 1968 he handed over a school that was slowly but surely adjusting itself to the new conditions
Mr. Oorloff’s chief strength lay in a quiet, dignified integrity that was probably the most desirable characteristic that a Principal needed in times like his. No bitter involvement in raging controversy, no rash commitments, no yielding to public hysteria but an unobtrusive guidance in the right direction-this was, with the courage of his convictions, Mr. Oorloff’’s way, not hurriedly to jettison past traditions merely because they were under fire but to preserve what was best in them while gradually adapting them to the new demands. In this way, for example, the language medium revolution was completed but English was not abandoned; the teaching of other religions was introduced but the school remained unapologetically Christian.
For Mr. Oorloff this last was his first concern. He was a man of deep and abiding but not ostentatious faith and it is fitting that through his efforts the most beautiful part of the school is that which surrounds the Chapel whose tower he was chiefly instrumental in building.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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A Tribute by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
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Cedric James Oorloff, B.A. (Lond-), was born on the 5th of December 1906. He married Christobelle Enid Lembruggen B.A., (Lond.), born 3rd July 1907, in Christ Church, Galle Face Colombo on the 28th of December 1936. She was the daughter of the Reverend Gerard Henry Percival Leembruggen and Enid Alice Raffel.
With her quiet, kind demeanour — Mrs Oorloff never wavered in her sense of duty towards the students of Wesley. She was a highly gifted lady. She was a calm elegant person who stepped in to bridge the gap between the students and Cedric James Oorloff. She did it with style and to perfection. CEO was cultured and widely read with many interests and talents. With her MA diploma she taught the senior boys English and history and relished the challenge. Her involvement in the school stretched way beyond the teaching commitments executed with verve and aplomb. Well-organised enthusiasm, notable both for its vigour and extent, was the hallmark of her character. She was profoundly modest and self-effacing that she never really sought or got the recognition she deserved.
With her charming personality she immersed herself fully in the life of the school. Mrs Oorloff was an exemplary stalwart of the English drama tradition. Her contribution to the school theatre and drama is not an easy one to define, so broad has been her involvement and so widespread her influence.
At Wesley, Mrs Oorloff participated in a whole range of activities in productions and backstage. She had an inexhaustible enthusiasm for drama. She re-invigorated a generation of amature dramatists at school and made a tremendous contribution to the drama at Wesley. She was responsible for the upsurge in the fortunes of the School Dramatic Society. With her gift for getting students interested and involved made it an experience, which she hugely enjoyed. This gave her a lifelong love for Wesley College. I was a boarder then living behind the Principals bungalow. Tall flamboyant trees (Delonix Regia) with spreading branches surrounded the 150 year old building. The Oorloffs were the Lord and the Lady of the Manor of that elegant house. On some Saturdays I recall the lavish parties she had for us, little kids, with music and games with plenty to eat. We all thought her hospitality was “princely”. She enthralled us with her stories. Mrs. CEO was always smiling and had a calming effect on us all. Being a keen gardener she maintained an immaculate garden with flowers in bloom throughout the year. There were Temple Trees scattered on the periphery of the lawn. She was often seen in the evenings playing with Gillian (her niece) and the dogs in the well manicured lawn in front of the bungalow. An image of their apple green Austin Devon (A40) parked in the porch is firmly etched in my memory.
Mrs.Oorloff was the elegant First Lady of Wesley for seven long years and later on at Trinity College Kandy. At TCK the teaching and other duties she performed were not for payment, just as she wanted. We respect her not only as the wife of our Principal but for her charming and effervescent personality. I was saddened to see the obituary of Mrs Oorloff and remember her with gratitude and much affection. It took me back half a century into a tranquil and happy period of my life when the country was at peace and Wesley secured its place in the higher echelons of education. Mrs.Oorloff's decision to remain in Sri Lanka all through the dark days of the ethnic conflict showed her resilience and love for the land of her birth. She always kept faith with her beloved country through all its physical, racial and political transformations.
They were both committed Christians, and were active in their faith. The Oorloff's disemminated the religion not by preaching but by the life they lead. Yet it was their gift for taking a genuine interest in people regardless of their backgrounds which made them bewitching company throughout their long lives. Their hard work, honesty and integrity were an example to us all. They dedicated much time to voluntary work and was greatly respected for their probity. In retirement they found satisfaction in social service, tending to their garden and church-related work.
Their long association with 2 of the finest schools in Sri Lanka came to an end with the death of Mrs. Oorloff in September 2004. She was aged 97. Mr Cedric Oorloff passed away in August 1986. Theirs was a beautiful partnership and they complemented each other perfectly. They made us what we are today giving us the anchorage to survive and thrive in this big wide world. Now it is indeed an end of an era.
Many of their students both at Trinity and Wesley will remember them with much nostalgia and deep gratitude. The Lindsay Girls School and the students will have a special place for her in their hearts. Such dedication to duty is rarely seen nowadays. Their professionalism and service to education cannot be surpassed. We now live in a material world. They don't make individuals like the Oorloff's anymore!! The mould has changed to our detriment.
Christobelle Oorloff by Joy Goonewickrema
Karlsruhe is the site on which Wesley College stands. Mrs. Christobel Oorloff moved into Karlshruhe when her husband Cedric, became principal of Wesley in 1950. With them came their niece Gillian, who was a pupil of Ladies' College. Together they made a happy home. When Mrs. Oorloff joined the teaching staff, we found in her a person who had taken keen delight in the splendour of the English language.
English was both a weapon and a toy in her hands. She could strike' with it, and play with it. She impressed upon us that English was one of the most valuable personal assets we could possess, and encouraged us to get a good command of it. Her classes were lively, and learning in that atmosphere was an in-estimable experience to us. Her standards were difficult to attain, and whenever we failed, her expressions of disappointment seemed to come from somewhere deep down within her heart, because she really wanted us to do well.
Where others might have been stern, she was gracious. I remember a boy who had not done his assignment for the day struggling and struggling to come up with a good excuse. Knowing he wouldn't make it, she put an end to his agony saying, "Sit down, I'll not tax your imagination."
Outside the class-rooms, she showed enthusiasm in such things as choral music, drama, and word-games. She was a fine actress, herself, and performed in some stage-plays that were acclaimed by cultured society The college choir which was among the finest in the country then, may have promp¬ted her to stage musical plays. She directed three operettas during her days at Wesley - Hiawatha, a Ladd in-and-out, and King of Sherwood. It was hard work for her, but she prayerfully laboured on to make them some of the most memorable performan¬ces of the 1950' s.
Whatever she did for the school, she did with all her might, and watched keenly as her husband steered Wesley to the fore. Yet, have we been amply grateful to her
All our teachers had nicknames, so we had to give her one. We turned to Shakespeare and Ganymede was what we picked. She knew about it but, in her wisdom, pretended to be unaware.
It was customary for small groups of boarders to visit the Oorloffs on Saturdays after dinner for a chit-chat which was accompanied with delicious cookies and coffee. On one such occasion, Mrs. Oorloff asked the boys, "Who's your favourite Shakespearian character?" The answer was a roar of laughter.
The smile that she was born with, she carried through the changing scenes of her life. Her everpresent grace, ready wit and kindly humour endeared her to our hearts.
The Rose of Karlsruhe is only a pleasant memory now. Her parting grieved us, but we have sought comfort in the thought that she had gone to dwell with the creator. Surely, the gates of heaven would have let her in willingly, because she was, above all, a devout Christian.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
Joy Goonewickreme was a boarder at Wesley in the 1950's. He was a fine athlete winning the 440 yards for Moscrop House and representing the school in the Public Schools Meet at the Oval. He sang base baritone in the school choir and took part in the famous Operettas Alad-in and Out and also Robin Hood arranged by Mr Maxwell De Alwis. I recall with much nostalgia, Joy, singing a solo "Good King Wenceslaus" at the school Carol service. Since leaving Wesley he has become a prolific writer to the Sri Lankan Newspapers.
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Christobelle Oorloff’s Memorial Service in Melbourne November 2004:
Hilary Abeyratne's presentation, (on behalf of Trinity College Kandy)
For 12 years, from 1956 to 1968, I had the privilege of being a colleague of Cedric and Christobelle Oorloff and, since I hold them both in such high esteem, I feel that it is indeed an honour that I have the opportunity to say some words in her memory. I might even express the view straightaway that I was more impressed by her than by him; he was a most imposing Principal with great integrity and dignity but she, I believe, was more personally involved in many aspects of the life of the school that brought her into closer contact with more of the students. Maybe this love for Trinity, that beautiful school on top of a hill in the most beautiful city in the country, may well have stemmed from the fact that having a brother there, she was already part Trinitian even before she came to us as the Principal's wife.
I shall start by telling you that it is no coincidence that, on a wall of my den here, in Mornington, I have 2 signed photographs of ex-Principals of Trinity and their wives; Rev and Mrs A.G. Fraser and Mr and Mrs C.J. Oorloff. The former pair was of course, way before my time at Trinity, but since their time, I have been keenly aware, as student and member of staff, of the role played by each of the wives up to 1974. I have also, since coming out her, heard enough about the others to be able to state categorically that the 2 wives I speak of today had the greatest impact on the life of Trinity in the twentieth century. Strangely enough, Mrs Fraser has the longest tenure as Principal's wife, twenty years, while Mrs Oorloff s stay is the second longest in the history of the school.
My association with Mrs Oorloff was such that I never spoke or referred to her as Christobelle but, if not Mrs Oorloff, more commonly as Mrs O; not because there was nearly a decade's difference in our ages, not merely because of her being the Principal's wife, but because of the respect and affection we, staff and boys, had for her. Everyone agreed that she was always a gentle, gracious and generous person, so friendly, cheerful and accessible to all in her own naturally charming manner tinged with a delicate sense of humour.
Apart from all her desirable personal qualities Mrs O's value to the school was inestimable in that little took place without her being there. It was difficult to decide in what order I should tell you what made her so very special but what is certain is that this is not just a catalogue of her virtues, but a heartfelt appreciation of an outstanding person.
I think I should start with the fact that her own warmth rubbed off on her husband and, for example, when she was the hostess when the school officers were entertained in the Principal's bungalow, they used to say that they felt so much closer to him as a result. She was on these and all other occasions the ideal Principal's consort, modestly taking the back seat despite her own strong standing in the school.
Then there was their common commitment to their faith. She loved the Chapel and David Paynter's efforts in the murals to give that faith a Sri Lankan landscape with the faces of his subjects also local. She was herself in the quest for stone masons who had not lost their ancient craft for continuing work on her stone pillars that so impressed her. The Chapel surrounds, far and away the most attractive part of the school and to keep them so was also, in part, her province while the flowers that adorned the chapel at all services were provided by her at her own expense.
There was also the Sunday school which took so much of her time because she organised and ran it with such enthusiasm.
And then she was certainly indispensable when it came to what took place on or back stage; to direct, to provide costumes, to do the makeup and whatever else was required of her in respect of any production in the schoolhall Nor was her interest in all else that went on in the school any less; from judging the annual contest for the reading prize and getting so involved and excited watching school rugger matches.
Those of you who have delved into the hundredth anniversary history of the school, may find that some of what I have been saying sounds somewhat familiar but what is most strange is how few people are aware of Mrs Oorloff's most selfless service to the school. Perhaps it was my bland use of the word 'honorary' that did not wake people up to the fact that Mrs Oorloff did a great deal of teaching of English for many years, from the University Entrance class downwards, without accepting a cent for her services.
Need I say any more to pay my respects to this great lady?
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
The Nursing Home was built on land that was a gift from the late Dr. R.L Spittel, eminent surgeon and wildlife expert. The Dutch Burgher Union (DBU) constructed the buildings and the home was opened in 1951 to provide lodging and care for the members of the Dutch Burgher community. The compassionate staff preserve and maintain the dignity, individuality and privacy within a warm and caring atmosphere.
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Wesley College Colombo – from Christobelle Oorloff’s writings to Gillian Leembruggen
“ …….. when you asked me to write a few memories of our time at Wesley, I thought over things that had happened then, which of course are part of the history of the College; such as the building of the Highfield block and the Flats. But there are many more personal memories which made us feel that our own 7 years at Wesley were a very happy time for the 3 of us. You may know that Cedric had taught for a short while before he went into the Civil service. He was glad to retire early and take up the challenge of administering a school and found working with staff and boys to be a satisfying and rewarding task.
To start with, there was the house, perhaps the coolest in Colombo – with its high roof, large rooms, long wide verandahs, many huge doors and windows; and the beautiful artistic Lorenz screen dividing the drawing and dining rooms; its shady porch and wide sweeping lawn – all much appreciated.
The school Hall, well-proportioned and dignified, seemed made for order and discipline. Very soon we got to know the staff and realised we were truly among friends. Many of them had been there for years; for example, Mrs Joyce Leembruggen in the Kindergarten, Mr Fred de Mel and Miss Iris Blacker in the Junior school – to mention just 3. Then there was Mr Lanerolle as Vice Principal and so many others of senior and office staff who all had the good of Wesley at heart; so the atmosphere was positive and productive.
I had been an ordained teacher and wanted to have a part in the school so I was given a half-time job on the staff and soon found myself fully involved in every dramatic project, something I greatly enjoyed. We had Maxwell de Alwis as choir master, Ivor de Silva as singer and Miss Mary Colin-Thome as pianist. It looked like operettas were indicated! The Kindergarten produced Thumbelina, the Junior School Hiawatha and the Upper School, Aladdin and Out, and Robin Hood. You remember we had tremendous fun and a sense of satisfaction in painting the stage properties; from Mrs Mouse’s house in Thumbelina, to the hardboard trees for the forest in Hiawatha, the Palace in Aladdin and Castle in Robin Hood.
I enjoyed every minute of it; planning costumes, make-up and rehearsals and I think that the staff and boys involved enjoyed it too.
Other amusing memories were our own dogs; for instance, Jock, our sheepdog cross, used to accompany the Principal to the platform for Assembly and when after the General Assembly the non-Christians would be asked to leave, Jock would rise and pointedly depart. So the staff called him the non-Christian dog! Our little terrier, Inkspot, used to follow me to class and settle down for a nap till the bell rang and then he would get up and look inquiring. If it happened to be a double period, he would grumpily settle down again, to the amusement of the class. For a short time, we also had a long bodied, short legged dragonist-looking dog called Danister, aptly named ‘the Hot Dog’ by the boys. One evening, the dogs alerted us to the sound of hissing coming from the fern pots on the verandah steps by barking furiously and jumping backwards. The torch picked out an enormous polonga lurking amongst the foliage. Some of the staff started a Bachelors Club and we attended a social meeting; they all wore Bachelors Button flowers as their emblem. I believe the Club did not last long as most of the members got married! Needless to say, the more orthodox school societies carried on their activities very successfully. The Chaplains Rev David Wilson and later Rev Wilfred Pile were a wonderful influence and the Student Christian union flourished under their guidance. When we left Wesley to go to Trinity, we felt that we were leaving many dear friends among the staff and boys, and I am glad that some of them still keep in touch with me. They bring so many memories of the happy years spent at Wesley. “May Wesley go on from strength to strength! “
Photos from the Oorloff Family Album
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The Principal's bungalow was built around 1860 by an eminent Colombo Lawyer called Charles Ambrose Lorenz. He was a Burgher of Prussian descent. The architecture of the building is typical for that period with tall cylindrical columns supporting a large porch, a wide verandah and the lovely lounge with many spacious rooms. In 1859 Lorenz purchased the Ceylon Examiner which became the first Ceylonese newspaper. Until his death in 1871, at the age 42, Ambrose Lorensz wielded the powerful influence of his pen for social reform, championing democratic causes and courageously criticising the British colonial government, the Governor and his Executive Council. He passed away in this bungalow on August 9, 1871. Karlsruhe is German for "Charles Rest". Karlsruhe Gardens is perhaps named after Charles Lorenz which is the final resting place for an intrepid lawyer who died so young.
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WESLEY COLLEGE MEMORIES
By Gillian Leembruggen
Living on the school campus, I was involved in its life; particularly the annual concerts. The preparations, from the auditions to helping by painting the scenery; and the buzz of the performances were exciting. In the house, the intricately carved Lorenz screen was always a focal point and the long verandahs were perfect for running up and down and playing hopscotch. On the weekends I would wake to the singing of Novenas from All Saints Church down the road; and walking to Sunday school through the park was an adventure. Nature was all around. I remember the visit from a charmer who promised to rid the garden of snakes! We sometimes heard/saw a snake or a polecat in the verandah ceilings, and who can forget the polonga incident?
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The vast garden was light and shade. I vividly remember the alamanda bower of yellow blossoms which ran alongside our bedroom windows; its secret spaces were the haunt of certain elusive migratory birds. Diving for the binoculars and bird books kept to hand, we all soon learnt to identify them. The rear garden contained a grove of citrus trees with fragrant flowers; where the ‘seedless lime tree from India’ took pride of place. Tall flamboyant trees formed a backdrop which partially screened the Hostel buildings. Then there were the large mango trees which happened to be just outside our bedroom window, a source of temptation to the boarders. I was fascinated by the huge cadju-pulang tree where flying foxes plundered the fruit.
I have visited these happy childhood haunts a few times recently and I wish Wesley College every success in all its endeavours.
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From Gillian Leembruggen
Cedric and Christobelle Oorloff with Gillian - Photos from Canberra 1948/49
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An acknowledgment by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
My heartfelt thanks to Gillian Leembruggen (Melbourne, Australia) for the photographs and the information which has helped me to compile these notes. The students from my era can now relive those happy memories of school and the boarding in the 1950's. They can also get a peek into the lives of Mr and Mrs Oorloff at Wesley and thereafter. For the present and future students of Wesley, this is a taste of the mid 20th Century at Karlsruhe. As an old Chinese proverb goes 'a picture is worth a thousand words'. The black and white photos bring those times to life. As I walk the passages and long corridors of that great institution there is often a sense that my friends and teachers walk with me. Their voices swirl in the ether of the hallowed grounds at Karlsruhe. Ah! those were the days.
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By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Godwin Roberts
Lionel, Godwin and AK were boarders in the 1950's in the LA Fernando era.
Lionel had 2 brothers who were respected teachers at school Henry and MT. He was a talkative soul and a live wire in the hostel. I remember him joking to say that the only way to get his name in print is to die.
AK was the son of Rev Dr James Mather who was Chairman of the Methodist Synod and lived in the Staff quarters opposite Campbell Park. He was a quiet soul and a keen basketball player.
Godwin Roberts was a prefect (1957) in the school and in the hostel. He went on to follow an honour degree in chemistry at the Peradeniya University. Godwin Roberts rose up to become the Head of the Biochemistry Division of the Tea Research Institute of Sri Lanka, Talawakele. Subsequently he emigrated to Australia where he died of a cerebral stroke. Godwin had a brother Godfrey who was in the boarding and went to the USA for further studies of whom I have had no news since those halcyon days.
We walk down memory lane,
There we see your smiling face
We talk with you again,
And as we wander slowly back
We seem to hear you say
Don't grieve. don't worry my friend
We'll meet again some day.
May Their Souls Rest in Peace
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We regret to record the sudden passing of Terence, on the 15th September. The Committee and members of the Old Boys Union extend their deepest sympathy to Terence’s family and relatives at this time.
Terry was one of six brothers, all of whom studied at Wesley College; his three older brothers Ronnie, Wilton and Melville (all deceased) joined Wesley before him. Terence was at Wesley from 1937 – 1944. Youngsters George and Rex joined the school later.
A keen participant in most of the OBU social activities, Terry never missed a Senior’s gathering and always brought his camera to record the occasion. Everyone who knew him might remember him as “Happy –go – Lucky” and as one who always enjoyed a drink and a funny story. His presence always enlivened any company he was in, and he will be greatly missed.
Family and friends gathered to bid him farewell as he rested his last hour among us, lying beside the colours of his Alma Mater.
Goodbye, brother.
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After a long battle with cancer, Hilary de Vos passed away in the early hours of today Saturday 3rd of December 2005.
Hilary was 66 years old. Hilary will be fondly remembered at the Senior Lunch on Sunday 4th of Dec for the immense contribution he made to the OBU Australia Branch and the spirit of the Double Blues.
Life to Hilary was best explained in the context of cricket which he loved with a passion. As a cricketer for Wesley & various other clubs in Sri Lanka & Australia he had scored almost 30,000 runs since he began playing as a boy over 55 years ago. Hilary was bowling with a fifteen yard run up at the age of 55 & he was playing club cricket in Melbourne at the age of 60 years. Wesley OBU family in Australia experienced his talents, charm and kindness over many years. He was a highly respected and admired by everyone -young and old.
Wesley old boys in Sri Lanka and around the world, teachers, friends, OBU-Australia, OBU-Canada, OBU-Colombo, and OBU-UK send their condolences to his wife Jenny, children Tammy, Roger, Vanessa and families, his brothers Harry and Joy and the sister.
Hilary De Vos is now no more but his noble Wesley spirit will remain with us forever.
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THAMOTHERAM - CHARLES JEYAM THAMBYRAJAH
Remembered by Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
Mr. Thamotheram was an intellectual and a respected mathematics teacher at Wesley in the 1950's. Being a brilliant mathematician he didn't suffer fools gladly. I still remember when students misbehaved he said they would end up in the institution opposite Wesley( The Welikada Jail).
Teaching maths is a gift and a unique skill which he had in great abundance. He made an immense contribution to maintain high academic standards at the school. The engineering and physical science students of the era gained enormously from his erudite maths lectures. His premature departure from Wesley was a great loss. CJT left a legacy of care, concern and commitment as a teacher and the void he left was never filled.
Bryan Claessen , Wesley's famous cricketer from the 1950's has contacted his old maths teacher CJT who has indeed returned his call from London. Bryan remembers CJT taking the maths class in the classroom by the chemistry lab and the famous remark "I think you all are more likely to pass the ass ass C rather than the SSC".
CJT's father was the Principal of Hartley College Jaffna, a Methodist Institution of repute in the north. CJT himself was a student and later taught at this school before joining Wesley College. For him teaching was not a stepping stone for another more lucrative job. It was a profession and a way of life which he cared for passionately. CJT made a profound difference in our lives and made us think more deeply. At an impressionable age he set our feet on the right path. At the prime of his life he spent 10 good years at Wesley.
While at Wesley College he won a Fulbright scholarship for a year to the University of Pennsylvania, USA. On his return he continued to teach at Wesley. In 1954-55 he became the President of the Colombo Teachers Association and also founded the Ceylon Teachers Travel Club.
With his deep voice and powerful presence CJT was a formidable figure on the teaching scene at Wesley. He was feared and respected in equal measure. We all knew as students he could be refreshingly direct and “almost tactlessly” forthright, but also humorous, good-natured and hard-working. He carried these traits throughout his life and made many friends and some enemies too. In later years his thinking and writing revealed the sad intolerance of humanity.
The Methodist Mission in Colombo did not recognise his efforts and service to Wesley and Methodism. They ignored his desire for promotion. In retrospect, this was a grave mistake. A missed opportunity to have a man of his stature in a leading role in a school going through stormy times. He made no attempts to hide his feelings. Naturally , there was bitterness on his part for this lapse. From Wesley College, in 1959 he joined the British Council in Colombo as the First Administrative Assistant .
CJT's commitment to Wesley and to his students did not end on his departure. After emigrating to UK in 1961 he became the patron of the Wesley College OBU since its very inception. I last spoke to him a few months ago when he gave me his memories of JAT Sethukavalar the physics guru at Wesley College, of the 1950's. His mind was then clear and his voice just like in the old days. He was an old school teacher, now a rare breed, who cared genuinely and worked tirelessly for student welfare.
He taught countless students at Wesley and later on in the Latymer School in London from 1965-83. He started the first Tamil School in London in 1981. CJT was a tower of strength to the Tamil community abroad specially those displaced by the ethnic strife in Sri Lanka. He had the courage to stand up for the oppressed.
His contribution to Wesley College and education will always be fondly remembered by his students and colleagues. The brotherhood of past students send their condolences to his immediate family.
MR CJT Thamotheram A leading light of the Tamil Community has been extinguished but his memory will live on in our hearts forever
From Ivan Pedropillai, Hartley College, Point Pedro
The mortal remains of Jeyam Thamotheram were laid to rest in London, England on 4th November 2005. He passed away on 27th October at 87 years of age after a lifetime of service to the Tamil community. He was a loving a husband, a father, a grandfather, a brother, an uncle, a friend, a counsellor and above all the conscience and the motivating force that unceasingly mustered and rallied the intellectual and professional classes of expatriate Tamils to uphold and advance the cause of the oppressed Tamils of Sri Lanka in their struggle for freedom. The institutions he created and the network of friends that he made by his immense capacity of persuasiveness and his infectious energy will remain as edifices to his selfless devotion to the cause of justice and self-determination for Tamils in the northeast of Sri Lanka.
But before we paint a picture of a man who fought for justice and liberation for his own people, we must thank God for creating in him a man endowed with great moral and intellectual courage and an unwavering love of his homeland. The hallmarks of his character were formed in childhood in a family in which his father, Mr C. P. Thamotheram, was the eminent Principal of Hartley College, Point Pedro; a leading Christian College in the country which has established a reputation for producing brilliant scholars especially in mathematics.
Jeyam Thamotheram went on to study in other leading Christian Colleges, such as St John's College, Jaffna and St Joseph's College, Colombo. He was an outstanding student and entered the University College, Colombo on an illustrious exhibition award. He obtained a First class honours degree in mathematics from University College and went back to teach in his old school, Hartley College, from 1939 to 1942. Although he left teaching for a short period of two years to join the Ceylon Government Supplies Department, his love of teaching saw him return as a teacher to St Patrick's College, Jaffna for a couple of years and from there he left to join Wesley College, Colombo where he taught for over 10 years.
In 1944 he married Florence Thiviamalar Nalliah. She too comes from a leading Christian family, in which her father - Rev N. K. Nalliah was a prominent pastor in Jaffna. They were to have six children, three boys and three girls who have themselves gone on to become well-qualified and upright persons of whom Jeyam and Florence can be rightly proud. Jeyam was a loving husband and a caring father, and in turn the devotion of the children to their parents is a joy to behold. It has been a very moving experience for me to see how they have looked after him in his illness and have worked together with their own children to organise the final valediction for him.
While teaching at Wesley College he won a Fulbright scholarship for one year to the University of Pennsylvania, Philadelphia, after which he again returned to Wesley College to teach. His interest in serving the rights of teachers as a profession was to come to the fore at about this time. In 1954-55 he took on the mantle of President of the Colombo Teachers Association and led them ably to become a force for good in the teaching profession. He was also starting to prove his keenness in expanding the interests of teachers by founding the Ceylon Teachers Travel Club.
From Wesley College, he joined the British Council in Colombo as the First Administrative Assistant in 1959 and afterwards in 1961 he arrived in the UK to teach at a school in Luton. However, his longest service as a teacher was from 1965 to 1983 at Latymer Upper School, Hammersmith - one of the leading public schools in London.
He was a man of phenomenal vision and capability and took on the tasks of building the different pillars that would form an infrastructure for the Tamils in the UK. While teaching at Latymer, he also inaugurated the Association of Commonwealth Teachers (1966); founded the Tamil Times (1977); founded the West London Tamil School (1978); and founded the International Tamil Foundation (1988). We could have thought that Jeyam would rest on his laurels after creating these organisations. But, even in his advancing age and with his failing health, he felt strongly that there existed another void amongst us, which was to represent the Tamil cause with intellectual vigour in the English media. Towards this goal, he was inspired again, in March this year to enlist with his customary tenacity some of us as writers to found the Tamil Writers Guild of which I am the first President. In his declining months, with both his legs giving way, he still came to our meetings as our Patron and contributed with his wisdom and experience to get TWG functioning. This was his swan song and we wish to invite more of you to join it as a lasting memorial to his irrepressible and indomitable spirit.
It would have been impossible for anyone else to start even one or two of these organisations and involve so many leading Tamil academic and professional figures in them. The vibrancy and growth of some of these organisations even to this day is a testimony to Jeyam Thamotheram's powers of persuasion, dedication, organisation and intellectual ability. He would be on the telephone from morning to evening, calling people and exhorting them or cajoling them to do something for the good of the Tamil people and their cause. Countless are the times that Jeyam has worked the telephones relentlessly to raise substantial monies to save Tamil newspapers and journals from financial insolvency.
He was respected and loved by the people that he knew - and there were many of them - and they trusted him and gave willingly for the causes that he sponsored. He was a true friend and a soul mate to a number of people and would instantly rally to their support in their illnesses and in their hour of need. He was truly a great man, a giant among men for he thought not of himself but of the community and others who were more in need. He was an old-fashioned gentleman, courteous and well mannered but also doughty and courageous and prepared to stand firm for his principles. We are all better for having known him.
Throughout his life he embraced students and people of all religions and backgrounds and he did this from the strength of his own Christian upbringing and values. Some of these friendships that were formed as a teacher in the 1950s have lasted for over 50 years and even to this day there are some of his former students and associates who have maintained their close friendship with him. Their love for him and his love for them has been undiminished over these many long years.
He was one of the founders of the London Tamil Christian Congregational church in Putney and in the moving service of prayer and thanksgiving in that very church on 4th November 2005 attended by many hundreds, our prayers have joined those of his family to wish him our fondest farewell when we know he has gone to join his loving God and creator in heaven. We wish to convey our love and deepest sympathy to his sorrowing wife and children and their families and pray that the good Lord will grant them peace of mind and his blessings. We grieve the loss of this colossus among us but we also celebrate the life of one so special and touched by God. May his soul rest in peace.
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FERNANDO - BENITO (Dr N.A.B. Fernando)
The news of the passing Ben has shocked many including his immediate family. I had the privilege as President of the OBU Australia Branch to forge a strong friendship with Ben who I must say was a teacher when I was a student, but who in his time as Principal of Wesley instilled an aura of confidence in his ability as an educator to guide Wesley through a difficult period and to direct Wesley, her staff and students towards greater achievements. The 125th Jubilee celebrations were a fitting tribute to the enthusiasm and pride he established in the alumni groups at Wesley. Those of us that attended the celebrations will remember the good times we shared and we in Australia were delighted to host Ben and Ira Fernando, Louis and Lisbeth Adhihetty and Upali Samararatne for the equivalent celebrations in Melbourne in 1999. It seems like only yesterday that he was here in our midst. Since he became Pricncipal I have made regular contact, and it was only in December, that I sent Ben and Ira a Christmas card.
I rang Ira tonight to offer my heartfelt condolences to the family not only from my immediate family but from all the Wesley College Old Boys in Australia. She was composed and expressed the shock she, the family and many friends the world over had experienced when informed of Ben’s passing. Ira gave me the very sad details of his passing. Many of you may not know that Ben obtained his Ph. D late last year in education and only graduated last Thursday week(9/3). Ira described his graduation as a fitting tribute to his lifetime of work in being an educator and stated that he looked a picture in his red robes when he graduated. Ben was a deeply religious fellow, a staunch Methodist from his roots in Moratuwa and was very involved in Church work both at the local level and the Church in general. He was attending a church conference over three days in Derby. He rang Ira each night (Tuesday, Wednesday) and was looking forward to being back home on Thursday. On the morning of Thursday there was a communion service before the conclusion of the conference. Ben received communion and shortly thereafter collapsed. He never regained consciousness and was pronounced dead. He had no symptoms of a problem, particularly heart disease. His body is still with the Derby infirmary and an autopsy identified blocked arteries. It was Ben’s wish even though having lived in the UK for almost 40 years, that his final resting place was to be Moratuwa. The family have decided to comply with his wishes. There will be a Service of Thanksgiving for his life this Friday in London, after which his body will be flown to SL where it will remain in State in the Wesley College Hall, his alma mater and the college that was instrumental in his development. His funeral will be on Friday 7th April 2006. Many of us treasure many memories of Ben and let us remember him with fondness and a sense of gratitude for his life’s work with not only Wesley College but with the youth of U.K..
I also noticed in the Sunday Observer(SL) today, that Upali Smararatne has also passed away and his funeral is tomorrow Monday 21 March 2006. It is indeed a coincidence that two friends and old Wesleyites at that should pass away within days of each other.
May their souls rest in peace and God grant them eternal rest.
Lest we forget.
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UPALI SAMARARATNE - JPUM All Island
Remembered by L.C.R Wijesinghe
It was with a sense of disbelief that I heard of Upali Samararatne’s untimely death.I had met him on two separate occasions in December 2004 and he looked quite Healthy and spritely.
Upali was my elder brothers’ classmate and close friend. During College days I was not a member of their “ clique”. My early association with him was as a “rookie” member of the College First Eleven Cricket team. He was the wicket- keeper & vice - captain under the captaincy of Nalendra Abeysuriya. Upali was a hard hitting right-hand batsman and a competent and confidant wicket keeper. He had easily recognizable qualities of leadership and excelled in nearly all of the many extra curricular activies he cared to participate as a schoolboy. Upali left an indelible mark at Wesley and can be considered as one of her noteworthy products.
My friendship with Upali actually developed when he had left college. I became one of his many close friends and was a regular visitor to his Parental home at Wellawatte.
This was during our batchelor days. He was a larger than life personality and was moderate and sensible in his outlook towards life. He was an extrovert and the “ livewire” At any party or social gathering. I will not forget his own characteristic rendering of “ ba ba black sheep” which was a party favourite whenever he was present.
With the pursuit of higher studies, travel , employment & marriage our close association was broken. I am aware that he was a leading personality in Marketing in Sri Lanka and made his presence felt in his chosen field.I am also aware that he was a devoted husband and father to his three daughters.
It is truly sad to hear of his passing away and may he rest in peace.”
From - Neville Weerasekera and Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I was deeply saddened to hear of the death of Upali Samararatne, a pal from my era and a well known and vibrant character. His charisma, warmth and common sense set him apart from the rest. While some were immersed in scholarly traditions, sports was his passion while at school. He excelled in it enormously. Upali was a fine wicket keeper. Sports writer Premasara Epasinghe describes him as one of the best in schools of his time. When he came in to bat there was always a wild cheer that echoed round the grounds inviting him to give the ball an almighty whack. Upali never disappointed his fans. Edmund Dissanayake, the Honorary Coach at the time relates a story of his batting prowess. In the previous week Anton Perera of St.Peters had annihilated the strong St Thomas' team with some fearful bowling. which earned them the sobriquet of "giant killers" in the newspaper headlines. Next week they played against Wesley, and Kenneth de Silva was trembling to go in and face Anton Perera. Upali volunteered to step in and Edmund agreed. Anton Perera's first ball was dispatched for six.So was the second, and the third for a boundary. At this point Edmund yelled from the pavillion be careful, and he blocked . The next went for two. and another four, making 22 runs in the over. Anton Perera stopped bowling and Wesley won the match. He was a fearless soccer player too. His dare and dash in the field and the hall mark sliding tackles subdued many able school teams. Neville Abeygunewardene, his football coach, in his memories of his years at Wesley, pays Upali a handsome tribute . We will remember him for his skills as an enthusiastic gifted sportsman, a natural leader and a fine Prefect at school.
He started his career at Ceylon Tobacco Co, where his excellent public speaking talents were recognised, and he became Training manager in a short while. Later he setup his own firm as a Marketing and Sales Consultant. He had the capacity to hold audiences spell bound. At a Multi Lac Paints Dealer Convention one thousand five hundred people packed the hall. Trade and Commerce Minister Kingsley T. Wickramaratne, Deputy Minister of Youth Affairs and Sports, Reginald Cooray addressed them. The man who kept the audience in pindrop silence was Upali Samararatne who addressed the gathering for nearly two hours.
He rendered yeoman service in setting up Sathosa Franchise scheme and became Chief Executive of the establishment. The Minister had given Mr. Samararatne the task of appointing 5,000 franchisees within two months. It took him only 58 days to achieve the target and the franchise sales reached Rs100 million per month, within four months without any bulk sales to Jaffna at that time.
He conducted a packed seminar on Marketing and Sales at BMICH, the proceeds of which were entirely donated to the Wesley OBU.
His social skills were his greatest asset. He made friends with a wide range of people, whom he brought together with brilliant results. He gradually became a nationally recognised adviser making his name in the field of marketing. He gave marketing in Sri Lanka an extra dimension and became a much sought after speaker in the field. Upali became a Management Consultant well known for his common sense and fine oratory. He was appointed all island JP, an honour bestowed for his integrity and honesty.
Upali was a man of great charm . He had a galaxy of acquaintances among leading figures in politics, corporate organisations and the trade. He was kind and generous to all with whom he worked and was cherished by his many friends
He always had a strong sense of social justice which endeared him to many. One of his final acts for Wesley was to visit an old boy who was in poor health and set up a Benevolent Fund for Old Wesleyites in distress.
He had an indefatigable love for his alma mater. His passion for Wesley was too great to ignore the troubles and the dissolution of the Colombo OBU. I wish very much he was allowed to lead the OBU which he wanted to reorganise and revitalise. Whilst unjustly frustrated by others in these efforts one of last things he did was to organise a get-together of Wesleyites from the1950's. A very happy and successful inaugural meeting of about 20 persons was held on the 27th of January at the Victoria Masonic Lodge. The next meeting was to be on the 8th April ,and Upali was making many phone calls to enlarge the group. Those who met on the last occasion have decided to continue these series of gatherings as a token of remembrance of a loyal Wesleyite.
Upali had much to offer and gave of his best to Wesley and to society. We will not see his huge sixes at Campbell Park ever again. It was a privilege to have known him. His smiling face and cheerful demeanour will be missed by us all. We will always remember him.
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May he attain the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
PREMAWARDHANA - FELIX
Remembered by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Felix Premawardhana was a burly, larger-than-life character, one of that rare breed of schoolmasters who gave their entire school career to one school, Wesley College. There he was ever present 24 hours of the day living in the College flats. Intensity and energy are words that most readily convey the impact of his teaching at Wesley. Like most successful teachers his work and influence did not cease at the school gates. With his background in the Baptist church he played an invaluable role as a counsellor for those in trouble. He had considerable talents and wide interests and was a man of modesty, integrity and kindness. Felix P influenced generations of colleagues and pupils as a teacher. In his interest and many roles in theatre and television became a popular household name in Sri Lanka. In the 1960’s the celebrated British dramatist Peter Schaffer’s play 'Black Comedy' was translated by Felix Premawardhana as 'Kaluware Jaramare' .This was hailed by the theatre critics a great success. For many years he was a stalwart of the school dramatic society when he brought many Sinhala plays to our stage like Ediriweera Sarathchandra's 'Maname'. There were also many productions of his own which he staged at Wesley introducing schoolboys to the pleasures and pain of drama and acting.
Felix P taught many subjects in the middle school. He taught ancient Ceylon history with a passion and held strong views about the original inhabitants of the island. The long held view that they were savages akin to the devil was fiercely contested and dispelled by him. History for him was a story which he related as a master story teller to a spellbound audience. He acted these parts brilliantly bringing the characters to life. It was a fun time provided we had done the homework
Many would remember him as an energetic teacher of the Sinhala language. He was a strong character and had a real interest in academic detail. Our text was the infamous Kumara-rachanaya, a ‘gruesome’ collection of Sinhala prose, poems and comprehension. It still gives me nightmares and I have been known to recite the poems in my sleep!! He tolerated no nonsense and we all learnt Sinhala to sail through the difficult examinations. Above all he cared for our welfare and never forgot his mission as a teacher. Felix P was my class master in Form 1 in 1954. He had no favourites in class. Everyone was treated with respect. He pronounced his words with clarity and precision and spoke with authority. His message was robustly delivered. He was one of the fine all round teachers of my time.
Felix P had a passion for photography and was in charge of the Photographic Club of the school. He was there with his camera to record the proceedings be it the Sports Meet, Prize Giving, or the Founders day celebrations. The agony and the ecstasy of a generation of Wesleyites must be captured in his films. He took an active part in the Student Christian Movement and also joined the Social Service Club. Many would remember him as the enthusiastic master in charge of Hillard House. Felix P served Wesley for over 25 years and was the middle school supervisor for some of the time.
He was always well dressed. My abiding memory of Felix P is his well trimmed handle-bar moustache and his large frame in a light brown gabardine suit walking the long corridors of the school. His loud booming laugh still seem to echo in the background. He inspired great affection in everyone who knew him. Some people, through what they are and what they do, raise our expectations of human nature and thereby lift the spirit. Felix P did this. His serenity. lucidity composure, generosity, gentleness, compassion and sheer indomitable courage in his final illness made him an extraordinary man.
He was strengthened throughout his life by his very happy marriage to Indranie and also by his son Kuvera and daughter Kuveni. To them he gave his love and guidance always. To the school he gave his entire career. We miss him and give God thanks we knew him. We remember and celebrate his life and work. .
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From Shanta Premawardhana
At his 80th birthday party this January, my uncle Felix, in a speech laced with his characteristic humour said to his guests that he has only a few weeks to live. Expressing his readiness for the inevitable end, he exhorted his family and friends not to be afraid to talk about death, since it is indeed, a part of life. It was one of the more powerful testimonies I have heard about the power of hope over death. Uncle Felix died on Tuesday 25th April 2006.
He was a prominent Baptist and Ecumenical leader in Sri Lanka. A renowned actor and director on stage he was also a movie star. As long-time director of Communications for the National Christian Council of Sri Lanka, his efforts resulted in an Arts Centre that included a TV studio and an Arts garden in which artists of various sorts were welcome to rehearse. He was also an international movie critic with Inter-film. He is survived by his wife Indrani (Vice President, Baptist World Alliance), Kuvera (Physician, Cardiff, Wales) and Kuveni Wijeratne (Senior Executive, Sri Lankan Airlines)
I will officiate and preach at his funeral due to be held in Sri Lanka on Friday at 2:30 p.m. I will arrive in Sri Lanka following my meetings in Kazakhstan on the same day at 9:15 a.m. I will post more details following the funeral.
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Obituary 24th March 1979
Remembered by Dr.Nihal D Amerasekera
I am greatly indebted to Dhilanthi Fernando for providing the information about the good Reverend's early years. The photo, as we saw him at Wesley, was sent by Shantha Premawardhana,
Cyril Devadasa Ellawala Premawardhana was born on March 23, 1915. He was 2nd in a family of 10 children. His early life was spent in Horana where his Father was a Baptist Minister and mother a devout Christian. Rev. Cyril Premawardhana received his early education at Carey College which was a prominent Baptist School at the time. He then went on to Serampore, India for his theological education and obtained his BD. (Bachelor of Divinity). In the mid 1950s, Rev. Cyril Premawardhana studied in the United States and was conferred the STM (Masters in Sacred Theology) from Andover Newton Theological Seminary in Newton, Massachusetts, and MA from Columbia University, New York. He returned to teach at Wesley College and continued his Church work in Nugegoda where he served his Parish for many years. Later Rev. Cyril Premawardhanastarted a PhD program at Vidydodaya in the late 1960s and went on to North Western University in Chicago to complete his studies. He returned prematurely to SL as his wife Mercy died suddenly that year (1970).
Rev. Cyril Premawardhana moved to the Theological College of Lanka in Pilimatalawa in 1965, and later became its principal in 1977. There he taught Buddhism, World Religions, and was the director of the Centre for Buddhist Studies. He died in on March 24, 1979 of a heart attack, while still the Principal.
He was president of the SL Baptist Sangamaya for 3 terms.
His main contribution to theology was to develop a close association with the Buddhist leadership of Sri Lanka, including Ven. Kotagama Vachissara, and Ven.Walpola Sri Rahula. He led the Theological College to understand that it was important to interpret the Christian gospel in a way that was relevant in the Buddhist context. He did this with much conviction and sensitivity.
I remember with great affection Rev. Cyril Premawardhana, who taught at Wesley from 1954-65. His roots were tenaciously Baptist. His father was a Baptist Minister. He was a committed Christian and an air of his ecclesiastical background remained with him throughout life. While he could have pursued a career as either a churchman or a schoolmaster and would have risen high in either profession, he chose both to become our Chaplain and also a teacher of divinity, history, civics and Sinhala.
As a Chaplain of the school he administered pastoral care with his special brand of discretion, good humour, kindness and commonsense. For this he was loved and respected by us all. He travelled to Wesley College from Chapel Lane Nugegoda in his BSA Bantam motor cycle with his son Shantha on the pillion. Stories were legion of their mishaps on the way.
Rev. Cyril Premawardhana wore his reverends’ collar with pride. He was, in fact, a very able priest. His preaching was memorable and he had a dramatic talent for creating worship that was, easy to comprehend without being intimidating. I recall his scripture lessons when he taught us St. Matthews Gospel. He dissected the text separating fact from fiction with the expertise of a forensic scientist. He showed a tremendous insight into the intricacies of all world religions and contributed enormously to the religious life of the school. We have always found him astonishingly alert and perceptive to alternative philosophies and ideas. He had enormous enthusiasm for teaching and was a great historian and a good Christian.
He taught in the middle school when we were in our mischievous teen years. Occasionally we tested his patience to the brink. There was a brisk rebuke but no canings or tantrums on his part. He controlled the class well with his experience and charm. What you saw was what you got - a man of God.
Rev. Cyril Premawardhana encouraged and inspired generations of students to lead a good life. He suffered from a chronic stiff neck which remained with him all his life. We schoolboys often had a wicked streak in us and called him "Bella" for his infirmity. I am sure he knew it but took it in his stride. That was the true Rev. Cyril Premawardhana and his forgiving Christian spirit. His name was synonymous with kindness and simplicity.
I last saw him when I worked at the Central Blood Bank in Colombo in 1970 when he greeted me with a bear hug. He reminisced in fascinating detail about Wesley, in which we had a common interest, but did not dwell on the past . He had followed events in education at School with a keen eye and made his comments politely. I will always remember this avuncular figure with dark rimmed spectacles and a benign smile. He was an embodiment of those values we cherished at Wesley, and was a wise and kind mentor to many. Rev. Cyril Premawardhana was a gentle soul who brought kindness to an often harsh environment. His humility was awe inspiring and his life was a mission fulfilled.
I recall his passing with deep sorrow, yet feel deep gratitude for having known him.
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I read with much sadness the loss of yet another school friend. We were together from Std 3 (1951) at the age of 9 years. I remember LK as a quiet curly haired chap tall for his age. His father was a Superintendent of an estate in Ingiriya. When Lynfrey was at the boarding his parents came to see him at weekends with his little sister.
Sports was never his forte and one could see this at a glance the way he held the cricket bat but he made up for this by his passion and support for the game throughout his school career.
My lasting memory of Lynfrey will be his gentleness. He spoke no evil, heard no evil and saw no evil. I cannot recall him being angry or unpleasant. I often wish we could have kept in touch. He left school after the GCE in 1960. Our paths never crossed as I left the country to settle abroad.
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room,
Why cry for a soul set free.
We will never see his smiling face again but his quiet contribution to life of the school will not be forgotten. His voice and laughter must swirl in the ether of the classrooms and corridors of Wesley.
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ETERNAL PEACE
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Mrs Enid Annaratnam Sivasubramaniam – Mrs Siva Born 7.05.1921 Called to Glory 11.08.2006
Mrs Siva passed away peacefully on 11th August in Sydney Australia surrounded by family and loved ones. My recollections of Mrs Siva is that of a statuesque lady, a strong disciplinarian and a teacher who took a great interest not only in her students but the overall well being of the school community, i.e. staff, pupils and parents and in upholding the highest values for our alma mater Wesley College in every field of endeavour.
Whilst being a strong disciplinarian she also had this maternal instinct that understood the psyche of boys growing up and the scrapes they would get into, being able to deal with and manage the issues and to garner the respect and trust of the students. These characteristics were appreciated by a number of students who felt she was one teacher who bothered to understand their perspective and to afford them appropriate mentoring rather than corporal punishment being meted out as a quick fire solution to dealing with the situation. Mrs Siva acquired these skills by bringing up 6 sons as a single mother. As her son Patta once mentioned she used to punish them when they misbehaved and they would get a thrashing with the stick that was used to push out "pittu" from the old fashioned "pittu bamboos". At a time when single mothers were not known among the community as it is in today’s society, coping with this stigma in a country which embraced certain traditional cultural values and frowned on those in such situations, Mrs Siva balanced her duties as a mother, homemaker and teacher and brought up six sons on a paltry teachers salary. Mrs Siva had a strong Christian faith as she had strong family ties with the church. Her uncle was the first Bishop of Jaffna Rt.Rev.Dr. Sabapathy Kulendran. I recall she would take Christian assembly in Tamil on occasions.
At her funeral, her grand daughter (Ponnambalam - P Siva’s daughter) spoke candidly about the courage and determination of Mrs Siva during this phase of her life I quote from her eulogy, ..”My grandmother had it rough. She was a single mother of six boys in a very traditional society, It was a time I never heard her speak about, but it was a time that embodies her character. My father’s retelling provides me with a myriad of painful images. When she worked at Wesley College, she had only one sari. She would come home from a hard days work, every day wash the sari while she cooked a meal for her sons and happily wear the sari the next day and repeat the process. I know she went without food so her sons could eat. She took a small salary at Wesley College so her sons could attend a private school free of tuition fees. She provided for each of them with a small salary that she had.”
Mrs Siva taught Mathematics and English at Wesley. I recall the many lunch time sessions in the Highfield Block where Mrs Siva trained us to participate in the many successful Wesley College “Do you know?” and “Spelling Bee” teams in the inter-Collegiate competition on Radio Ceylon. She also wore the hat of both a teacher and parent and was also involved with the Parent Teacher Association. When Wesley competed in sport particularly cricket, one would find Mrs Siva there to support “her students”. She was one of those rare breed of teachers who was passionate about her work in a holistic sense and it highlights the wonderful job she did in not only moulding the lives of many students but her overall contribution to Wesley College in an era when Wesley boasted a tutorial staff that shared many of the same ideals as Mrs Siva.
I had the pleasure of meeting her after many years in the late eighties when the Wesleyites in Sydney formed an OBU Branch. She remembered names and always enquired about the well being of the students from yester year. Mrs Siva was active till her last days. In fact I was on a flight to Sri Lanka last year when I met her son Patta who was going to Sri Lanka specially to celebrate her birthday. At one stage in the late eighties she was hit by a car and broke both legs, her hips and her left shoulder. But Mrs Siva’s courage endured, never one to give up she was up and about after recuperating.
Mrs Siva was laid to rest on Tuesday 15th August at Rookwood Cemetery in Sydney after a Service of Thanksgiving for her life. All her sons had gathered to give this grand matriarch a fitting farewell. There were many Old Wesleyites who attended the service. Mrs Siva’s final journey from the hearse to her grave involved the Wesleyites in attendance who were invited by the family to carry her coffin to her final resting place.
As the words of the last verse of Charles Wesley’s hymn “Forth in thy name O Lord I go …” which was the second hymn sung at the service state
whate’er thy bounteous grace hath given;
and run my course with even joy,
and closely walk with thee to heaven.
Mrs Siva thank you for your contribution to Wesley College and the many lives you touched. May your reward for your labour be eternal rest in heaven.
To the family we extend our sincere sympathy particularly Ponnambalam(P Siva), Rev Ariaratnam, Purushothamar Sivasubramaniam (the Athlete who won a number of Public School athletics events – held High Jump record for Public Schools) and Patta who were four of Mrs Siva’s sons that attended Wesley College.
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Dear Dr. Amerasekera,
I was trying to contact you since June 23 but I have lost your e-mail address. My father passed away on June 23, 2006 at 09.20 hours at home in Nagercoil at the age of 89. I was at his bedside at the time of his death. His funeral took place at the local Church of South India church on 24th afternoon.
I was going through all his photos of Ceylon , which he cherished so much. I came across one photo, which you may recognize. Please see the attached photo and the signatures behind it. It seemed to me a farewell photograph.
With warm regards.
C.A.K. Yesudian
Charles Yesudian was an innovative and inspirational teacher of biology, botany and zoology at Wesley from 1949 to 1961. He was a brilliant teacher; former students still recall a lecturer of compelling eloquence and inspiration. His lectures were lucid and skilfully organised. His students admired him unreservedly. He introduced students to the method and purpose of biology in a way that greatly influenced its teaching. Charles Yesudian insisted and introduced a source-based practical approach to the teaching of science. He was an iconic figure during this time and there are many who owe their careers to this great man. He was also a shy, generous and deeply kind man. He had an unswerving commitment to biology and its social purpose.
Charles Yesudian was a hostel master and a good one. His calm demeanour brought kindness and understanding to an otherwise harsh environment. He will mostly be remembered for his efforts in building an enormous library of books and specimens for the Biology Dept. He spent his free time admiring the fauna and the flora of the school grounds. We remember him for his gargantuan efforts to get us through the difficult University Entrance examinations. His words of encouragement still echo in my years. The results in those years speaks for itself. He was a legendary figure. Personally I was very fortunate to have been at Wesley during this time. His contribution to the academic and pastoral life of the school will be fondly remembered by his students for years to come. That was a golden era of science education at Wesley.
Hi Nihal,
It is with great sadness we see another of the great masters of Wesley College pass into the next world. Yesu was not only my biology teacher at Wesley, he was also the Dorm Master in my Senior years in the hostel, he was a great gentle and understanding man, in all my years at the hostel he never raised his voice once at any student, even if we got up to some pranks that deserved more than just a stern talking to. Thanks for the picture it brought back memories, it was good to see some of the senior men at College like Sheriff Fallil, L.C. R Wijesinghe, Nihal Fernando, Daya Perera, yourself and Sarath Wickramaratne. In concluding I can only say we were privileged to be taught not only knowledge by this great man, but also respect for our masters and peers.
Mike Christoffelsz (Australia)
Dear Nihal,
Thanks for your message. ( very sad news ) We at Wesley are privileged and blessed to have had such a wonderful, caring group of teachers. Charles Yesudian was one of the greaest.
I distinctly remember our last year, when the University Exam results were published how elated he was and Lafa too. Their dedication was not only for the education of the students but to make us good citizens of the world. That photo brings back many memories : Each and every one in our batch did very well . I noticed at least five doctors, Sarath Ranasinghe, NJ Nonis, Daya Perera, you and myself. Thanks to Wesley and our great teachers.
Kind Regards
Lakshman Jayasinghe (Brisbane Australia)
Hi Nihal, That is a great picture, I will try to get this enhanced. I was able to recognize most of guys in the picture, some I have a vague idea. Could you write their names,. It is a sad loss for all us who had known him over the years. He laid the foundation for what we are today. The picture does indeed brings back some old memories.
Thanks.
R. Somanathan ( San Diego USA)
Dear Nihal,
Thank you for letting us know of the passing away of Mr Yesudian. He truly was a Wesley icon.May his soul rest in Peace.
I can still recall with fondness, how he commenced his first Zoology class in the Bio lab ,where all of us were seated on Lab Stools,with new copies of that standard Zoology texbook (Grove + Newell) opened before us. If my memory serves me correct, he wanted us to write on the first page the words " Knowing the better and doing the Worst" - Prof Hogg.-- I really do not know who Prof Hogg was, maybe a well known Zoologist. Some of these memories are etched in our minds for always.
Thank you also for sending this autographed photo .......It should be treasured ...brings back so many memories.
Regards
Lalith Wijesingha (Emirates)
Please read the accounts written about Mr. Yesudian in the Teachers section of this website.
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From the CSI Adult Learning Center, STATEN ISLAND NY USA
There are students like Tuan Fallil, who fled Sri Lanka in 1996 after a terrorist attack destroyed the bank where he worked as an examiner.
"It was like our Twin Towers," Fallil said, explaining that a truck carrying explosives slammed into the bank, killing 360.
A month later, Fallil arrived in Meiers Corners and soon developed serious medical problems that kept him bedridden for three years. But he worked with his doctors to keep his illness under control.
Although he sometimes had trouble standing up, Fallil began attending classes to earn his GED. "Everyone encouraged me in class," said Fallil, 60, who will begin an undergraduate program in the fall to become a physician's assistant.
This was the last email (April 2006) from my school friend - NDA
Hi ND,
Nice to hear from you. I am sorry for the long silence. Now that I have discovered Nissanke is close by, I am in touch with him. It's a live conversation over the telephone.
End of 2005, Nissanke went to Sri Lanka for his mother's funeral. I was sad to hear about it. I did not know that Nissanke was your cousin. So it was your aunt who passed away.
Back home, Mr Felix Premawardane was a telestar. He appeared in many of the teledramas over the Rupavahini and ITN channels. What impressed me was that he looked and appeared very young. I found it hard to believe that he was my teacher for sinhalese in primary school. Both Mr Felix Premawardane and Rev. Premawardane taught my class Sinhalese. What a difference between the brothers? Rev. Premawardane was easy going while Felix was a 'terror'. His size and voice intimidated us. I wish Mr Felix Premawardane well and may peace be with him.
Reminiscing when I was in the 2nd standard, Mr Felix Premawardane was introduced to the class as having returned from the USA. he wore very dapper nylon shirts and at that time I thought USA was full of people who were well dressed .Now that I am in New York find the people dress weirdly.
So long, I will keep in touch.
TK
His comments in the Wesley College OBU (UK) Guestbook speaks for itself
T.K.A.Fallil
When were you at Wesley? 1950 - 1964
Please write your comments: Ever so grateful to Wesley College.
From Him do we come and unto Him do we return
From Richard Dwight:
It is with regret that we record the passing away of Wesley's and CR&FC's hockey star of yester-years and, the former President of the Old Wesleyites Sports Club - D. Peter Perera, affectionately known to many as Denzil. Denzil wasn't enjoying good health for quite sometime now and, more recently was confined to his home, and eventually succumbed peacefully to cross the great divide on Tuesday night at the age of 69. A loyal stalwart of Wesley College , he had his entire education, both primary and secondary at Wesley, to which he stood committed to the end. Endowed with a pleasing personality and a fine physique, he was found to be meticulous student and a good sportsman, where he excelled at hockey with his trade mark powerful drive. Denzil in the wider sphere of life worked at Aitken Spence, before breaking out on his own to be the proprietor of 'Quali Packs'.
He was actively involved in mercantile hockey, participating in many a national. By far the best and crowing moment of his, was when he was a member of the first ever mercantile hockey team's tour of South India in 1956 where apart from Denzil amongst the others were Hugh Aldons, Vernon Prins, Chandra Schafter, V.S.De Kretser, Dennis de Rosayro, Ivan de Kretser and a few more. Amidst the constraints in the work-a-day business life, his concern however was to see his college and the club forging ahead. And so he gave sacrificially to both institutions, in an attitude of let not your left hand know, what your right hand doeth. He gave tone and direction to the OWSC during his revival days and was its President for 3 years.
Denzil liked the good things of life, he was a moderate and the good virtues he imbibed at school was brought to bear in later years and his salient feature was, that he knew when to speak and when to withhold his speech. He was a kindly man, of quiet disposition and a true friend, the like of whom Wesley will not see for a long time. His mortal remains which lie at his home in Rajagiriya, will be taken to the Rajagiriya Sacred Heart Church for a service at 3.15 p.m. and thereafter for burial at 4.15 p.m. at the Borella Cemetery . Denzil, whose wife predeceased him, is survived by his two daughters Charminie, and Asha and his son Hiran. For Denzil, there will now be no more pain or grief, may his soul rest in peace
From LR Goonetilleke (1999) :
Mr. Denzil Perera was appointed the President of the OWSC in 1994 with Tyrone Maye and Sunil Fernando as Secretaries. It was during his tenure of office that Captain Navin De Silva was appointed as convenor for the expansion of the Second phase of the club. Navin De Silva was motivated by a donation of Rs. 25,000/- made by Dr. G. Paul and the reserves in the club's coffers. He had Ivor Mahroof as Secretary of the project committee and late R. Kukendran designing and supervising the project. Some old Wesleyities contributed generously for the expansion and their names appear in the Roll of Honour displayed at the Club House. A plaque to honour President Denzil Perera was installed, on his gifting a magnificent Billiards table to the Club. His splendid and generous munificence, certainly enhanced the Club's status and profile.
From L.C.R Wijesinghe:
I came to know him with the work leading to the establishment of the OWSC . The most noticeable trait of his was his overwhelming generosity .
He had a passion for ballroom dancing and was a regular attendee at all the OBU and OWSC Annual Dances with his dear wife Joyce who predeceased him. Denzil lived a full life and enjoyed it to the maximum until fate dealt a cruel blow, by an illness which left him partially paralysed , wheelchair bound and bereft of Clear speech. Denzil was a past President of the OWSC and held that office with dignity. I recall the pleasant times shared with him at the numerous social gatherings I had the priviledge of attending. He had a large circle of friends and a close knit family . Neville and Roger were younger brothers and both outstanding Old Wesleyites I am aware he had an elder brother Bertus who was a DIG of Police and studied at Wesley.
Though my association with Denzil was a short one I am thankful for the opportunity to get to know him and appreciate his humane qualities.
May his soul rest in Peace.
In earthly things he can be found
A falling leaf, a growing tree,
In every breeze flying free.
As you were, you will always be remembered.
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Milroy Bulner was my front door neighbour at Baddagane,Kotte from about 1961 to 1962. He stayed with his sister Wilma and brother in law, who was a Captain in the SL Army, during this time. The two of us were Senior students at Wesley and were members of the 1st XI Cricket team as well. He was my senior by one year in the Cricket team, Milroy was Vice-Captain of the cricket team in 1961 which was his final year. He was an accomplished right hand batsman. He was also a College Prefect & won College colours for Cricket.
We became close friends during these last years at College travelling to College together & also coming home together after cricket practise. What struck me most about Milroy was his good manners, sensitive nature & concern for others. These were admirable qualities to possess & spoke truly of his family which was well knit & loving with good family values.I recall the regular conversations the two us used to have as schoolboys on our doorstep, sometimes till late evening.
Soon after leaving College he found employment with a Tea Trader in Colombo & worked there for a few years. Subsequently he joined the Trincomalee Tea Administration & moved to Trincomalee. This was the time I lost contact with him & regret it so dearly. As I never got the opportunity to see Milroy Bulner again. I came to know that he died suddenly of renal failure, after a brief illness. It was a premature & sad end to a life which could have meant so much to so many. Milroy, will be remembered fondly by his friends & family."
Addendum by ND Amerasekera
I first came across Milroy Bulner in the Primary School when he was in a parallel class. Then we were both in the boarding. He was a quiet lad with a deep sense of what’s right and wrong. I saw this when we played softball cricket together in the small park and umpired our own matches. He was a fine all round cricketer and had a good understanding of the theoretical and practical aspects of the game. He partook in the mischief and the fun which was endemic in the hostel. This took our minds off the blight of homesickness. Milroy was a popular figure in the school and in the hostel. His place in the 1st XI cricket team of 1960 as its vice captain attracted the usual fan club of juniors. Even after I left the boarding in 1958 we continued to meet in the long corridors of our school for a chat and a laugh. Sadly after I left school in 1962 our paths never crossed . It is with deep sadness I note his demise at the prime of his life. The world needs the likes of him, kind, forthright and honest. There is some truth in the saying "Only the best die young". As they say for cricketers "may the turf lay lightly on him".
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me -
God wanted me now, God set me free.
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ETERNAL PEACE
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Marshall was the Office 'Peon' and man Friday doing the errands and making the coffee. He worked the Gestetner cyclostyle machine and generated the paperwork that oiled the machine that ran the school. He was a close associate of Mr Eric De Silva, the Bursar, who was the backbone of the school for over 30 years. Marshall walked the long corridors of the school many times everyday carrying the good and bad news and the paperwork to the teachers. In the process he warned us the Principal was on his way - "becareful".
It is indeed an end of an era. I have always associated Wesley with Marshall. With his three quarter sarong and his toothy smile Marshall was often seen 'loitering with intent' within the school premises. He looked after school property as if it were his own. Marshall had a remarkable memory and knew all the students and teachers past and present. On my many trips to Wesley it was Marshall who greeted me first. He never failed to take me on a conducted tour of the school mentioning little snippets of news of old boys and Past teachers. He conducted his many duties with dignity and honesty. Marshall is the last of a long line of dedicated workers who have provided such a fine service to the school over many decades. Ranis the Great, Chemistry Rodrigo, Physics Silva and Marshall formed a quartet of dedication to the school. Their lives were closely interwoven with the fabric of the school. Their combined years of service would amount to an incredible 200 years. They were an integral part of the school community and will all be remembered fondly and with much respect by the many generations of school boys who have passed through the gates of Wesley College.
I do not think Marshall ever retired. He was too much a part of Wesley. An old soldier who remained loyal to the very end to just fade away into eternity. He is one of our definitive cultural figures. A man of unsurpassed knowledge of Wesley's recent history, and of its dignity and heart.
The grateful Old Boys built a house for Marshall in Kekirawa for his retirement.
Links to further reading
May he attain the ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
I have some sad news to share. Some of you may
remember Glen Rabot of the 1998 batch. He had met with
an accident last evening and passed away.
While at school Glen was a Prefect and the Vice President of the Student Christian Movement. His body will lie at A. F. Raymonds funeral parlour in Borella from this evening (Thursday). The funeral is on Saturday, 9th December 2006.
Glen will be sadly missed by many of us who knew him.
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Brian was a boarder with me at Wesley in the mid 1950's. I remember him as a decent and polite friend mad about cricket. He joined in the fun and the laughter ever present in the boarding. I will always remember his smiling face. Brian left Wesley to join Law College where he qualified to practice the profession in the Matugama and Kalutara Courts. He married Chandrani Corea and had 2 sons Sanjeeva and Shelan. He died after a tragic accident at home aged 34. With his honesty and kindness he would have made a good lawyer. Sadly his life was cut short in its prime before he was able to serve his community to the full. As they say only the good die young. We will always remember him.
Born in April 1942
Died in May 1976
with which we never part,
God has you safely in his keeping,
But we have you forever in our thoughts
I thank Damian his brother for providing the information and the photograph
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Trevor was an icon of our time at Wesley. Above all it is his eccentricity that has made him an iconic figure. Even after the passage of nearly 50 yrs we still remember Trevor and his antics. I have vague recollections of Trevor as a Rugby player. Built like a tank those who tackled him must have felt his presence!!
Trevor was a decent bloke at school despite his somewhat erratic behaviour. He was always teased at Wesley which he handled with characteristic belligerence. His unsophisticated humour often amused and even frightened us in those days as he pounced on unsuspecting students. Perhaps his innate affability was not allowed to surface due to his personal circumstances. He never failed to give me the customary "Salaam" in the long corridor. Occasionally he extended his kindness by tapping me on the back with his powerful spade like hands sending me reeling onto the tarmac below. Then came the booming baritone voice next to my ear "sorry ND, are you ok". When we left school, sadly, our paths never crossed and I never saw him again. I sincerely hope he had a good life. I wish to remember Trevor as he was in the 1950's, a firebrand. I am convinced behind that aggressive facade was a gentler soul. It would be true to say he has left a void that can never be filled!!
Our brotherhood of Wesleyites extend our condolences to his family.
May God Bless you Trevor and mind the pearly gates of heaven and open them gently!!
From Robin Reimers
My story is about my first meeting with Trevor since 1961.....its important that you know that this story is told "sine livor" (without malice....hell if its good enough for Keith its good enough for me!!..)
It was during the 125 year celebrations in 2000...a group of us Aussie Wesleyites decided that we would meet for a pre function drink at "the Library" of the Trans Asia Hotel where a lot of us were staying at the
time.I had managed to make contact with Trevor at Crescat Residencies that afternoon & decided that it would be good if he could make it to this get together where he would be able to meet others like Bill Deutrom,Reg Bartholomeusz,Keith DeKretser etc (well it seemed like a good idea to me at the time!!!)
The original intention of the the group was to have a couple of drinks prior to the main event which was the 125 Year Celebration Ball.....as is the normal Aussie way it was planned that the bill would be split between us all and away we would go.....now that was the plan untril Trevor got in the way...he had arrived there with a big big thirst which seemed to get bigger by the minute.....double scotch after double scotch gleefully chased with a cold beer had us Aussies looking at one another & wondering
(a) how much can this bloke drink
(b) do we have enough money to pay the bill &
(c) how to "cut & run".....well a plan was hurriedly hatched that we call a last round of drinks...no names.... but a bloke whose 1st name is William & surname starts with D offered to pay for Trevor's considerable consumption which went a long way towards soothing the angst that had built up among some of the Aussies & partners who had no idea who Trevor was anyway! Everything looked to be going ok until a waiter arrived to say that a
gentleman over in the corner would like to buy our group another round of drinks.....the man in the corner turned out be Afghar Mohideen who was in a deep discussion with a member of one of Sri Lanka's ruling families(not the Senanayakes)....after a quick discussion (Trevor's opinion was not sought!!) it was decided that we would seek a rain check on Afghar's kind offer......you all also need to know that this was the only drink that was refused by us for the entire period of celebrations!!!!I did see quite a deal more of Trevor during the next fortnight at the various events & enjoyed his company over a drink or three. I shall remember Trevor for being a man of considerable bluster on the outside but a very genuine person on the inside
From Peter Christie
Fortunately for me I met Trevor while I was on my way to an assignment and the company van i was in just happened to slow down, because of the Temple Trees traffic on a bright Colombo morning. Lo and behold was the "looming larger than any Wesleyite" image of Trevor or Golu standing on the pavement, waiting for a "putt putt, tukk tukk" or whatever. I remembered not to let my enthusiasm get the better of me so after careful thought I shouted out "Joe" instead of my usual "Goluwa". He approached and asked me "where the .... are you going to?" "Assignment" I replied very meekly, remembering his knuckles hurt. He opened the door and said "drop me at St. Michaels" (THE BLANKS ARE ON FOR LOU's heart). I told the driver that he had a detour and that the mahathaya was a senior "ussas police niladhraiyek" and we took old Golu to St. Michael's. "Wait for me" and I did. I was thinking to my sef "You mess up everybody's life and you are still scared........... when you see Golu."
He finished his whatever he came for, then wanted to be driven back to where I had picked him from. According to Willie only Layton VanderPutt could have said "no" to Golu and I decided that playing tough guy was not advisable. More traffic jams and Joe got talking about "Blubber". Now Robin, I had not heard you nick name since 1961.Le morale de l'histoire. I bought the driver a meal just in case someone had seen us all together and wondered why I had a war-head in the back seat of a Lake House vehicle
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From the daughter and grandson - Sunday Times January 2022
Our lives were enriched by his friendship
On January 27, it will be a quarter century since our dearly beloved father and grandfather Allan Eustace Gunawardena slipped the surly bonds of this earth and entered God’s heavenly home. During these past 25 years we have felt an immense void, and a sorrow-filled emptiness.
An illustrious product of Wesley College, Colombo, he played a leading role in the affairs of the Wesley College Old Boys Union, and was elected to be the Vice President of the Union. Today, a prize is awarded in his name for the best student in English literature in Year 11 at Wesley.
After some years of public service in the Treasury, he became a highly respected school principal at a private school in Colombo. He took a keen interest in developing the school, and worked tirelessly, both as a teacher of English and as the principal, to help mould the students who came under his tutelage.
As a father and grandfather, he had endless love for us. He was a loving and faithful husband to our mother and grandmother, and they were fortunate to celebratetheir golden wedding anniversary in 1994. He had high values and led by example. We hope that his sound work ethics, depth of intellectual curiosity, unflagging loyalty, humility, and abiding sense of goodness and decency, are traits that will remain with us and we will be able to live up to the example that he showed us year after year.
Allan Eustace Gunawardena
To all those who knew Allan Eustace Gunawardena, his untimely demise on January 27, 1997 has left an immense void, and a sorrow filled emptiness. An illustrious product of Wesley College, Colombo, Eustace — as he was affectionately known — played a leading role in the affairs of the Wesley College Old Boys Union, and was elected its vice president. Today, an English literature prize is awarded in his name for the best Year 11 student at Wesley.After some years of in the Treasury, Eustace served as the principal of a private school in Colombo. He took a keen interest in developing the school and worked tirelessly to help mould the students.During his spare time Eustace engaged himself in writing poetry and other literary works such as Poems of Sri Lanka, Reconciliation and Reconsideration, and Sara Makes a Bid.
He also edited his own journal Liberty and Progress from 1964 to 1970. Eustace was also involved in the World Liberal Movement and attended the World Liberal Convention in Tel-Aviv and the School for Freedom in New Delhi.Eustace never forgot to fulfill his duty towards his family. He was a devoted and faithful husband to his wife Florence, loving father to Sitha, and doting grandfather to Viranga.
The world he belonged to no longer exists. A true gentleman, Eustace was unassuming. He went through life hardly revealing his many achievements.Leonardo Buscaglia who authored a number of New York Times best-selling inspirational books on love and human reticence, eloquently sums up the indelible imprint Eustace made on all whose lives touched by him:
I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death.
They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make.
Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories.
We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.
A Tribute by his Grandson (Sunday Times 23/01/2011)
January 27 marks 14 years since my grandfather went to rest in the arms of Jesus. During my early, formative years, he not only played the role of grandfather, but also that of a father figure. There is so much to tell about my grandfather. It is no easy task to capture the essence of his life in this limited space.
My grandfather made my childhood and teenage years delightful and memorable. Those years are forever etched in my memory.
He took me to school each morning and brought me home in the afternoon. He took me for scout training on Saturdays and for tennis classes on Sundays. My fellowship with my grandfather during my childhood and youth are filled with vivid recollections and unforgettable experiences. We shared so much in those years.
He was a true gentleman – a rare breed in this day and age. He taught me by example to be forthright, to tell the truth, to pay one’s debts on time, and to stand by one’s principles, whatever the inconvenience. I appreciated the honest, clean example he set for me to follow.
He influenced me to look at my life from a positive perspective, to enjoy each and every day, and to contribute to society. My grandfather was a great man. His commitment to God, Church and Family was total. He loved everyone, and everyone loved him in return. In his latter years, circumstances did not offer me the chance to be close to him. I was deeply saddened to hear of his demise, and that I was unable to be at his bedside in his last days.
By Suresh Muthulingam
Ten years have passed so fast since Diyanesh passed away in March 1997.
After having attended Wesley College and Thurstan College, Diyanesh took to law in the family tradition and passed out as an Attorney-at-Law. He was one of the first to successfully complete the MBA programme at the University of Colombo.The mundane business of making money however attracted him little. This led him to join the Employers Federation of Ceylon and specialize in labour law.
Diyanesh was also a great sportsman and excelled in rugger and cricket. He was also a cricket commentator during the latter years of his short life that ended in 1997 when he was 44 years. Those who knew Diyanesh will agree that there was something exceptional about him. He had a remarkable mind and he read and wrote widely. He was a gifted draftsman and an accomplished advocate. New or intricate legal points interested him. His uncanny and profound knowledge of the law coupled with his ability to direct one to an authority from memory was unusual.
He did not parade his knowledge but humbly shared it with all who sought his advice. He was known for his humanity and particularly helping little people who needed help. Diyanesh's achievements speak for themselves and he brought an unparalleled degree of dignity, courtesy, fairness, candour and complete integrity to everything he did. His knowledge of the law was one matter. He could talk with authority on the classics, science, poetry, sports or whatever. There is so much respect for Diyanesh's pursuit of perfection. He demanded so much from himself and instilled into all who surrounded him that great yearning for perfection.
I write about Diyanesh now as he deserves to be remembered. Diyanesh was a great man and was a role model par excellence.
Because no more your face they see,
Are wrong, for in our hearts you live
And always will in memory".
Our thoughts are with his beloved wife Devarani and his two wonderful daughters Dashanya and Dhanushka.
Addendum : Diyanesh Rajaratnam
The Ball no Question makes of Ayes and Noes,
But Right or Left as strikes the Player goes,
And he that tossed Thee down into the Field,
He knows about it all - He knows - He knows!
The Rubaiyat
And so, very unexpectedly, so stunningly and so dramatically, the life of Diyanesh Rajaratnam ended on the morning of March 25. This day also was the 17th wedding anniversary of Diyanesh and Devarani.Diyanesh was a devoted family man and whatever his professional duties were, he made time for his family. He doted on his two daughters.I first became acquainted with Diyanesh and his manifold talents, when he was leading his school cricket team. His versatality was obvious and he revelled in playing cavalier cricket. He appeared destined to blaze a trail in the sports arena.
I next encountered him when he applied to join our professional staff at the EFC. He was recruited as an Assistant Secretary fifteen years ago and rose to the position of Assistant Secretary-General which he held with distinction. He was also appointed as Director Training subsequently.Diyanesh had many opportunities to exhibit his forensic talents at the EFC. He grasped a point very quickly, he assessed facts very shrewdly, he cross-examined with rapier thrust effectiveness and could either charm his judge or stand up to him as the occasion demanded. At times his zeal seemed excessive, but there were many member companies who loved his approach and sought him out to handle their work. They perceived a Rambo-like streak in Diyanesh, which perhaps he gained on the rugger field, having once been an outstanding player.
In recent times, I entrusted to him some challenging assignments. He handled the disputes at Ceylon Diamonds, Polytex Garments, Veyangoda Textiles and Pugoda to name a few. He was always self- confident and could stand eyeball to eyeball against the strongest opposition. He delivered results in all these matters.Communication skills were a blessing which Diyanesh was probably born with. Whether in English or Sinhala he had a facile and engaging way of putting a thing across. These skills were used to the fullest in his training activities.
He was a born improviser and once an idea was put to him, he was unstoppable and would make the best use of it. He had a flair for articulating an idea and the Supervisory Training Programme which he ran for several years will perhaps be a lasting monument to his competence as a trainer. He was an Attorney-at-Law like his father, the late S.S. Rajaratnam and his brother Suresh-Chandra. Diyanesh had undergone specialised training with the I.L.O. in the field of Human Resource Development and he was one of the first to obtain an M.B.A. from the University of Ceylon (Colombo Campus).
Diyanesh's passing was in keeping with his character. He always appeared to me to be in a hurry. He worked until a few hours before his death. The news of his death therefore shattered us, his colleagues at the EFC. Diyanesh played his last innings with aplomb walking out without waiting to be ruled out. His life was a sparkling knock, studded with brilliant strokes which will remain in our memories.
I was proud to have been his boss but I am more proud that even in discussing our official work Diyanesh lapsed into calling me 'machang' which was the term which he used liberally with all his colleagues at the EFC.
Franklyn Amerasinghe
Secretary-General,
Employers' Federation of Ceylon (EFC).
A reservoir of legal knowledge, he shared it with all by Suresh Muthulingam
Diyanesh Rajaratnam
Sixteen years have passed so fast since Diyanesh Rajaratnam passed away in March 1997.Educated at Wesley College and Thurstan College, Diyanesh took to law in the family tradition and passed out as an Attorney-at-Law. He was also one of the first to successfully complete the MBA programme at the University of Colombo. The mundane business of making money however attracted him little. This led him to join the Employers Federation of Ceylon and specialise in labour law.
Diyanesh was also a great sportsman and excelled in rugger and cricket. He was also a cricket commentator during the latter years of his short life that ended in 1997 when he was 44. Those who knew Diyanesh will agree that there was something exceptional about him. He had a remarkable mind and he read and wrote widely. He was a gifted draftsman and an accomplished advocate. New or intricate legal points interested him. His uncanny and profound knowledge of the law coupled with his ability to direct one to an authority from memory was unusual. He did not parade his knowledge but humbly shared it with all who sought his advice.
He was known for his humanity and particularly helping those who needed help. Diyanesh’s achievements speak for themselves and he brought an unparalleled degree of dignity, courtesy, fairness, candour and complete integrity to everything he did. His knowledge of the law was one matter. He could talk with authority on the classics, science, poetry, sports or whatever. There is so much respect for Diyanesh’s pursuit of perfection. He demanded so much from himself and instilled into all who surrounded him that great yearning for perfection.
I write about Diyanesh now as he deserves to be remembered. Diyanesh was a great man and was a role model par excellence.
“They who think that you are gone, because no more your face they see, are wrong, for in our hearts you live and always will in memory”.
Norman Armstrong by Peter Cassiechitty
At some stage or other in our lives at Wesley , we have all run into the most colourful Armstrong family. Three brothers -- Gordon, Herman and Norman , were prominent their mischievous ways.
Well the youngest and the brother I knew best, has passed away and it is heartbreaking to think that the last time I set my eyes on him was over the "tsunami" period. I was rushing to an assignment and lo and behold Norman's gravel grinder voice boomed out "Ado, Val Kitchi" a la "parana coat Roberts". Needless to say, I forgot teh assignment for a while and we stood outside the War/Memorial comparing notes, England, France, Sri Lanka and mostly Wesley College and the "Bullet, Balli and Bella days". I remember him describing me as the professional scorer in the 1963 cricket team and having a hearty laugh when we lost to Richmond by an innings under Thurairatnam in 1965.
I remembered the dreaded days when the cricket team was at the butt of his jokes and imitations, but then who could have blamed him. He'd run into Royalists and Thomians at Sunday school and he got a hard time from them. He was the opening quotes as Dennis Azariah was the closing quotes. Like Lone Ranger and Tonto, they hunted in pairs these two.
Norman would sheepishly avoid me when the Rugby team were on show in the second term, but the two paragraphed articles were easily missed and I was always late enough to miss the announcement in the College Hall.
Norman and Herman were reported to have been at many weddings without being invited. I never found out whose imagination was running riot, but I would not put it above these two to do a "gate crash" just for a laugh. Some laugh we had when they told us how they'd walk around gorging themselves at the Cinnamon Gardens parties pretending to be relatives of either the bride or grooms parties depending on who they were speaking to. Takes a lot of brass balls !!!
Norman, I know that if your are in heaven the inmates will all be having cramps laughing.
So after Golu Gunasekera, it is now you. We have buried Lovell and Cedric Van Dort and now here is good ole Norm. Guys keep in touch, say a prayer that his soul will be at a party where he'll meet Golu and the rest.
By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Asoka and Shirley were brothers who enriched our lives in the boarding in the 1950's. They hailed from Minuwangoda and I remember his parents visiting them in the hostel. They were fine softball cricketers in the small park and excelled in the fiercely competitive house matches. Asoka was a good left arm spinner making full use of the uneven batting strip of the infamous small park. Asoka left Wesley in 1957 to enter Law College and started his career in Puttalam where he became a respected Attorney. Asoka was reticent but quietly determined and would have been a formidable opponent in the Law Courts. His popularity and influence grew and in 1972 he contested the Puttalam seat for the MEP to become a member of parliament although without success. I doubt the cut-throat nature of Sri Lankan politics would have suited him and he decided not to stand at the next general election. As a fine product of Wesley he improved the lives of many. Asoka moved back to his hometown in his later years. In 1969 attending Puttalam Magistrates' courts as a Judicial Medical Officer I tried in vain to locate Asoka. Perhaps he was not working that day. I never met him after leaving school and wish we had the opportunity to meet and reminisce as we had much in common.
SHIRLEY RANASINGHE (SSP):
Shirley was a good all round cricketer and an academic, winning many prizes and awards at Wesley. He was well respected and was held in high esteem at school. He was known for his remarkable memory and love of the sciences. We admired his quick mind and sense of humour. In those days we realised he could be a fearsome foe or a staunch ally. Shirley became a prefect in his final year at School.
He left school in 1959 to enter Medical College Colombo. With his sharp mind, kind and caring ways he would have made a good doctor. In spite of the brightness of his glittering school career, Shirley’s personal life was plagued by darkness and occasional despair. He was bedevilled by severe depression. Shirley was unable to complete his medical studies and left its precincts to lead a quiet life in Minuwangoda. Here his mental illness troubled and tormented him until his untimely end in 1962. He sadly took his own life.
May they both attain the ultimate bliss of Nirvana
I remember quite vividly one Saturday morning in August 1960. The memorandum on the main notice board by the hall had said that Under 16 cricket practice would be held in the first week of the August holidays. I needed to show off a second hand pair of “Winit” cricket boots given to me by a Peterite friend. He had grown out of it and it fitted me like a glove so to speak.
I sneaked into the pavilion and changed. Most of the other boys, a year at the most older, were already on the grounds. Nigel Christoffelsz, my classmate and the only friend I could have relied on, was on holiday somewhere far away where his father a Senior Police Office was stationed. Nigel did not need to come as early as we did because his place in the side as wicket keeper was established; beside he could bowl and bat. Teddy Campbell walked off with a group of accomplished players and as captain, started fielding practice.
One other boy, I noticed was as ill at ease as I was and I am sure neither of us fancied our chances of making the final fifteen .Donald Thurairatnam and I were in the same group for fielding and when Mr. Edmund Dissanayake asked him to “pad up”, I could notice a lot of furtive glances aimed at Thurairatnam. Allan Jansz and the quicks were allowed to test the left-hander and he was up to it, moving his feet and driving beautifully through the covers.
Walking back after practice, he looked to me – I must add that I had taken a lot of stick till the ball was tossed to me and somehow the jokes at my expense ended as did practice.
I knew everyone at practice having joined Wesley as a kindergartener. We walked talking about “who’s who” and he seemed impressed. When the season started he batted at the top of the order and I was in as a reserve, till Teddy Campbell fell ill and Allan Jansz took over. My friendship with Thurai grew and we became inseparable.
The first year he showed what a stylish left-hander he was and made good scores.
The next year he was skipper and Ananda Thevadasan his deputy. Things worked well because in both seasons we beat Royal and St. Thomas' -- not a mean feat.
So then came the best when we were in the 1963, Ist Eleven. He said he could not spell so I had to do the scorebook. He carried the water. Milroy Mutuvaloe and Darrell Maye led us to great games and Wesley was the Best School’s Team. Darrell Maye, Schoolboy cricketer.
The author- Peter Casie Chetty
The following year we had Everard Schoorman and Mervyn Hamer to lead us. His best effort for me was when he partnered Mervyn Hamer in a record-breaking partnership and he was on song nearing closing on a hundred when Perusinghe the Kingswood skipper attacked his leg stump.
He was back and a chance to make the ton, gone. More often than not since that match he made starts but every school seemed to know he liked to sweep and Thurai played by instinct. He did not play anywhere near his potential. He was an energetic fielder who shared the catching positions with Russell Hamer and Willie Deutrom. Team effort and I made headlines in one match, after the Coach Mr. Henry Van Buuren threatened to drop me.Thurai may not have been the century-maker Lou Adhihetty was, nor did he hold catches as spectacular as Sarath “Monkey” Wickremaratne or Russell Hamer did. His leg breaks were not exactly like C.T.Rodrigo’s and rarely landed where he wanted them to. But he was one hell of batsmen. Good enough to be picked for the Under 18, Ceylon Schools’ team under Anura Tennekoon of St. Thomas’ and later Sri Lanka Skipper.
I had to bowl at him when we were both called up for Ceylon Schools trials. Although Thurai was chosen to play on the same side as I, a last minutes switch meant that I did all my bowling at him. The inevitable happened. Thomian Sriyantha Rajapakse was selected to play and I was OUT of the side because Thurai “murdered” me instead of Rajapakse. I think I burned all my bridges with representative cricket that day, a headstrong teenager with one remark to the Chairman of Selector’s.
Thurai was an International cricketer at 17, as was Russell Hamer who represented Colombo schools against the Touring Indian Schools Under Sunil Fernando (St. Benedict's) and was two month's short of his 16 Birthday. Had he been encouraged as Farweez Maharoof has been Hamer would have risen to greater heights. However Wesley's so called historians have conveniently forgotten these achievements.
The following year Thurai was elected Captain and I was his vice captain. Everything went well till we played Royal College. The Royalist we had in a stranglehold but for one batsman and he saw them out. The intricacies of playing on grass we never mastered and things went from bad to worse. With each match Thurai was getting into a shell, looking for some reason to hide away from this bad dream, till the ultimate humiliation came in Galle. Does anybody remember though that we had no one to tell us where we were to go. No proper coach and no support. We both looked up and saw nothing coming but criticism. The one man who could have saved us was Edmund Dissanayake who was faced with his personal difficulties and could not help us bail out. Thurai went to pieces and I was no better. We were like the “babes in the wood”, I survived because I was street wise.
Thurai was the polite boy who never swore, so I did all the swearing sometimes on his behalf. I was surprised when the announcement was made that I was vice captain. Willie Deutrom I thought should have skippered and Thurai vice captain. Wesley College is somehow different and full of little surprises.
Thurai I noticed had an accent and said things like 'runk and 'riving or benian and bino clauses (binoculars) we'd have a laugh all round. He always took it well unlike others who refused to speak to us if we got at them. He was a real gentleman and he sulked only for a moment.
Club Cricket - and we played for rival Clubs, he for Colts and I for BRC. We rarely met and when journalism put an end to my cricket, Thurai moved on and out of sight. When I migrated I made it a point to look for him whenever I returned, but by then he had migrated to Australia there leading a very quiet life.
He avoided the limelight and one Founder’s day speech in 1965 clearly showed how timid he was. Making the speech before lunch that day was like dragging him to the gallows across the road. This was one event I could never stand in for him and his intention to feign illness was soon shot down. William Deutrom wrote out the speech and I added the bits and pieces. We even sat beside him and I remember sitting there and watching him read the manuscript with a tremor in his voice in harmony with the rustling of the paper as his hands shook.
Although the speech was written and meant to be short I suspect he even skipped a paragraph or two.
He was a good friend, a decent person and a true Wesleyite. Each and everyone who knows him will miss him. He will find a nice quiet spot wherever he goes, and that will be outside the lights, so may his soul Rest in Peace. –
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The memories are deep blue and beautiful, I promised to meet and greet, but …
Mano Gnanapragasam will be always remembered by his friends for his honest and good humouredly friendship willing to call a spade a spade without twisting his words, yet willing to walk away without offending anyone in disagreement. There are two distinct features that his friends will always remember, his affectionate and genuine smile and his affable loud voice intertwined with a distinct laugh. My last encounter with him was at York Street Fort, in Colombo. I was glad recognized me from far and walked up to me without a doubt linked the past with his good humored and cheerful slap on my back. It was brief, but we had the time to share some fond memories of good old days at Wesley. Amazingly, I found his love for Wesley, the teachers as intact as it was for Sri Lanka and its people. Even though he had left the tiny speck of land the pearl of the Indian Ocean many a few years after he left Wesley, his memories were fresh and genuine, he missed the warm and friendly country and the sandy beaches lined up with swaying coconut trees, the lust green rugby grounds at Colombo 7. Mano was ecstatic he was back home after many years and was happy to be back close to Havelocks and Colts grounds at Park Road, Colombo 5, where his school mates the Hariharan and Sridharan Jeganathans lived. All talked was of Wesley and the wonderful green green palm swaying shores of the white beaches filled island of Sri Lanka. It was in January 2004 and we promised to keep in touch, the promise I never kept, but the friendship will always be deep and beautiful and it will be cherished as years go by.
It was nearly forty yeas ago I first bumped into Mano at the Wesley College grounds at Campbell Park. He was training for the 400 and 800 metres to take part in the school sports meet. He had just joined Wesley and was ready to take his place in the honour list at the Wesley College Public Schools meet. As always a true double blue, he was proud to don his double blue jersey as he represented Wesley and Passmore House at Rugby and Track and Field. He excelled in both sports, but I think he loved Track more. For record, Mano won the college 400m race with ease, I still remember his stylish long strides and the burst of speed at the start of the race to take a lead he would keep to the end. Mano represented Wesley at the Public Schools meet in 1965 at the Police grounds, running the 3rd lap in the 4x400m relay, along with Reggi Bartholomeusz, Upali Silva, and myself. Mano was always well dressed and sociable in his ways. He was well liked by his friends and teachers, and he excelled equally in his studies. Mano Gnanapragasam, I always remembered as good-natured friend, a partner in sports, and an outstanding Wesleyite with lots of grit and lots of fun.
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A note by Peter Casiechitty
Reginald was one class senior to me at Wesley and had two brothers Elmo and Edward who were junior.
Their father Percy Van den Driesen was a Police officer and a classmate of my Dad's -- therefore an old Wesleyite too.
I remember the three boys coming to school on a motor bike with their father riding.
No traffic laws were broken because the two younger fellows travelled in a side car. All of them had distinctive grey eyes.
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Remembered by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Austin Salgado was an old boy of the school in the late 1940's and early 50's. He pursued the study of the arts at the University of Peradeniya. Austin was inspired by his experiences at school. After completion of his degree he joined the Staff at Wesley. With his dark complexion and unmistakable large frame he was ever present at assembly, in the long corridors and at the pavilion at cricket matches. He was a scholar and a talented teacher and soon earned the respect of his students. His innate kindness did not exclude the firmness needed for teaching. Austin was fond of earthy jokes and had a dry sense of humour. He expressed his pleasures and displeasures most eloquently. He preferred to tease insolent students than punish them.
In those days Diplomat shirts were the craze which was a sign of schoolboy affluence and elegance. I overheard him speaking to an errant lad " you wear Diplomat shirts but you are a real "polmat". He left Wesley to join the Teacher Training School at Peradeniya from whence he retired after long years of service. Methodism and the Church was in his blood. He came from Katunayake, a strong enclave of the faith. A cultured and personally charming man he had a wide range of interests covering the arts. Despite his large size he was a gentle soul. We remember his contribution to the life of the school as a student and a teacher. The world is a poorer place without him but as it is said in the scriptures he has returned to his Maker.
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It is with a heavy heart that I pen these few words in memory of Tyronne Maye. Over the past four decades, Tyronne Maye has been an integral part of the Wesley College alumni community be it with the Old Boys Union(OBU) for many years or with the Old Wesleyites Sports Club(OWSC). When one reflects on the years of dedicated and loyal service to these two bodies and through them to his beloved alma mater Wesley College, you will find no one else who has ridden the roller coaster ride of the challenges Wesley has faced in that time. A loyal and dedicated son of Wesley College whose sense of service and commitment to her well being has been inherited from his father Alfred who likewise was dedicated to serving Wesley.
Tyronne who gave so freely of himself to Wesley, was outspoken in his endeavours and no doubt would have upset those along the way who would be critical of him. But we (Wesleyites) must never forget that it is individuals like Tyronne, with the passion, commitment, loyalty and a sense of service who persevered regardless in their endeavours to make Wesley College and her alumni organisations a better place and to uphold the standards we all cherish for Wesley College.
As the words of our beloved College anthem reminds us - ….”and when Wesley’s call shall sound ready aye shall all be found, in duty and in honour bound, Wesley to the fore.” Tyronne answered Wesley’s call with a passion and in abundance.
As Old Wesleyites around the world receive this sad news, there will be many who will gather their thoughts and reflect on the life of Tyronne. I am sure his dear friend Peter Christie(Casie Chitty as he is known today) and others are better qualified to pay tribute to this sincere, passionate and proud(he was proud of his education) Wesleyite.
To his wife Audrey, brother Darrell and sister Arlene – Tyronne was one of a kind. Not only was Wesley his great passion, but his commitment to other community related activities reflected his sense of duty to put back to the community his share or contribution to make things better for his fellow citizens. Now he is at rest and at peace – no more suffering, pain or worrying about others.
As the quotation from Vince Lombardi states - … It is time for us all to stand and cheer for the doer, the achiever -- the one who recognizes the challenges and does something about it.”
Drawing inspiration from our College anthem – “boys of Wesley through the land(world), Wesley boys together stand, bound by one fraternal band” stand up and remember with fondness and a sense of gratitude this dedicated servant of Wesley College and friend to us all for a job well done.
Farewell Tyronne and may God grant you eternal rest.
A wave of grief surged over amongst Wesley’s fraternity, when news filtered through that former sportsman, Tyronne Maye an old boy of Wesley College , had passed away on Thursday at the age of 61.
The sadness and sense of loss was all the more profound, mainly because as a stalwart of the college, he was a man for all seasons for no function or event at Wesley was wholly complete without Tyronne painstakingly striving hard towards its success. He certainly did have a hand in everything that Wesley stood for.
Tyronne who had his entire education at Wesley proved to be a conscientious student, to go further ahead on the field of sport where he represented the college at cricket and hockey, not forgetting that he was a promoter of all forms of sport. His brother the illustrious Darrel Maye, captained the college cricket team and was adjudged the Schoolboy Cricketer of the Year.
Tyronne, with his pleasing manner and well meaning ways, endeared himself to many to be ever so popular. The noble virtues he imbibed while at school, was brought to bear in his work at Aitken Spence, where he rose to be one of its Directors.
Notwithstanding all this, he took possessive pride and had a sense of belonging for Wesley, which was his second home where he strove for its betterment and progress, with unflagging zeal and passion.
Spanning a period of well over 35 years until his untimely death he served the cause of Wesley by being the secretary of the OBU for 15 years, the President of both the welfare society and the old Wesleyites sports club and, was as well as on the governing board of Wesley college.
Not to mention that he also served as warden of St. Luke’s Church, Borella.
In the different foras of the varied bodies of the school, he was independent in his thinking, one who stood for justice and fair play, to be forthright to call a spade a spade.
If he did hurt another’s feelings, he was quick to forgive and forget, for his attitude was always reconciliatory. With his clear diction and high tone of voice he was a live wire of any party or social gathering be it a dance, concert the walk or an event on the sports field.
He was indeed a rare kind of person and the void created at Wesley will be hard to replace. The college most fittingly in honour of him saw to it, that his remains was brought to the college hall last morning where a service was held. Funeral arrangements will be notified later.
How true for everything there is a time, a time to work and a time to rest, the time for rest has now come for Tyronne, farewell dear son of Wesley. He is survived by his wife Audrey.
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Charles de Silva - Remembered by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
A Teacher at Wesley 1947-1973
Charles De Silva taught Sinhala, Pali and Sanskrit at Wesley in the 1950's and 60's. Through his dedication to the school during those years he convinced the Methodist hierarchy to appoint him as the Vice Principal, a prestigious post never held by a non-Christian before . Although he lacked the glamour, charisma and the sophistication of his predecessors as Vice Principal he brought to the the job a genuine purpose and a welcome new direction in the fast changing field of education. It would be fair to say that he helped to steer Wesley safely through the rapids of the 1960's.
I first came across him when I studied Pali for the O'levels. He was strict but kind. In his enthusiasm to teach he splattered and bathed the students in the front row with saliva, as he spoke. All his students faired well at the exams except myself due to my appalling grammar.
Charles De Silva was affectionately called "Boat" probably because he came to school in an old fashioned boat-like dark green Morris 8 car. This glistening vehicle was his pride and joy and provided the students a focus for mischief and jokes. He accepted these with a customary smile.
In the realm of education, often rife with politicking and petty squabbles, Charles De Silva stood out as a genuinely modest man who seemed to have nothing bad to say about any of his colleagues. He was much loved by his students, who appreciated his gentle manner and ability to listen; many of whom have gone on to have significant careers.
Charles De Silva was always conscientious, sometimes to a fault. He was widely respected for his honesty and ability to bring common sense to the most apparently mundane tasks. He was a fine teacher and had a certain graciousness that made him be respected widely. He carried out his duties with outstanding courage, skill and initiative and proved beyond any doubt his appointment as the second in command was an inspired choice. He was a Teacher with traditional values and virtues – he was polite, cordial, modest and well-meaning. Despite his diminutive stature and somewhat rasping, high-pitched voice, he was a brilliantly gifted teacher. I personally would describe him as a small man with a big heart who gave of his best to Wesley.
From Mr Edmund Dissanayake
Mr. Charles de Silva will be retiring in December, 1973 having served Wesley for 28 years. Students affectionately remember his earlier Morris 8 car which was reminiscent of a padda-boat. This car was made available to staff and students in wet weather. His appointment in 1972 as Vice Principal (Acting) greatly redounded to the credit of the Governing Board, as he was the first Non-Christian to hold such office at Wesley. He filled this post with much acceptance.
May he attain the ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
May he attain the ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
The Journey’s End - Reflections on the loss of a friend By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Friendship is one of life’s rich gifts. Those that are made at school during our formative years remain strong in our hearts and minds throughout our lives. The great dispersal at the end of our school careers come as a shock to us all. We then embark on our journeys through life in the wider world stepping on the treadmill to carve ourselves careers and raise our families. It is not until these life’s obligations are fulfilled do we get the time to look back and trace our school friends who meant so much to us. Good communications in the 21st century, internet and telephone services have made keeping in touch easier. But these still remain an alien culture to many of us who grew up in the fifties. This great dispersal and my own destiny has brought me to the UK where I have lived for the past 35 years. A distance of 5000 miles from home is a hindrance to my efforts to trace friends. In my retirement, with time on my hands, this remains a frustration and a regret.
I joined Wesley College in 1950, in its heyday. Cedric Oorloff, a career Civil Servant, was its head and driving force. Mutual respect, good manners and courtesy that pervaded Ceylonese society in those days also filtered through to the schools. The discipline at Wesley College was exemplary. The academic standards improved tremendously and so did our sports. This was the scene when I met Wimal (MW) Wickremaratne alias ‘Mynah’, a nickname that stuck to him like glue. We were boarders together in the harsh prison like environment of the fifties. It sounds oppressive by today's standards, but it was a magical childhood. The boarding was a place of great warmth and spontaneous humour. He was a small stocky lad from the outback of Horana. Wimal was a natural sportsman with a fantastic eye for the ball. In the early days he was at his best playing cricket in the small park, which was our amphitheatre behind the school. This dust bowl of grass and pebbles was a bowler’s dream and a batsman’s nightmare. It was there we found friendship which was to last a lifetime. Be it football or cricket, the games were played in the blazing sun and torrential rain until dusk when the victors and the vanquished returned to their homework. In all this, what struck me most was Wimal’s even temper despite his sportsman’s natural desire to win.
Living in the boarding away from the parents, friendships meant much. We formed a remarkably close-knit, self-reliant and mutually supportive group. This strict environment prepared us for the vicissitudes of life in the wider world. There was a surprising sense of calm and order to our lives. Despite the regimentation we had time to put our arms round our friends and share in their joys and sorrows. We shared our secrets and exchanged stories about our families. There was a certain closeness which was rarely seen in friendships later on in life. We talked about our dreams and aspirations and assumed we will always be friends. It fills my heart with sadness to think many of us will never meet again. It is a horrible reminder of our own mortality to read or hear of the death of boarders who played, laughed and fought with us all those years ago. For me they will always remain young, healthy and smiling. It is hard to believe they will not be playing those elegant cover drives ever again.
As we moved up the school ladder Wimal struggled with his exams but excelled in sports. He played 1st XI Soccer for Wesley and represented the school in the 4X100 meter relay at the Public Schools Meet held at the oval. He achieved much in sports but was modest and kept his feet firmly on terra firma. Even during those challenging teenage years Wimal remained a kind and thoughtful person. The Public Examinations came and went and Wimal decided to leave school in 1960 and briefly started the A-Level course at Stafford College. Academia never appealed to him and soon he joined the Ceylon Tourist Bureau which later became the Ceylon Tourist Board. Changing names was a fashionable pastime in the sixties. I continued my studies but never met him again for several years. Then once in Nugegoda in 1963 as I went into a shop on High Level Road I saw the familiar figure. He was a manager, temporarily, in a small store. We hugged and reminisced at length as the customers formed a long queue. I stepped out without paying as he refused to accept money. Then there was a long pause of 40 years when we were both busy building up our careers and raising our families. There was no contact of any kind.
I have always tended to follow a wandering star. I had made my home in a delightful suburb in rural England when in 2003 I heard a familiar voice on the phone. The emotions overwhelmed us. Wimal was a senior member of the Ceylon Tourist Board and was posted to London. He had been in the UK for 5 years but didn’t know I was here too. We decided to meet at Bond Street underground station at 3 pm. I was there on time and looked for that familiar face. I paced the busy Oxford Street by the station many times but Wimal was not to be seen. Then our eyes met. He was enormous having filled out on all sides with a fat face, body and a huge tummy. Much of the black hair had turned grey. I must have changed too. Our lined faces and baggy eyes perhaps gave us a leonine nobility. Round the corner from the station was the famous Claridge’s Hotel in London, a refuge for the rich and famous. There, Ranjit Rosa, another past boarder was the Chief Engineer. We paid him a surprise visit and spent time in their plush lounge reminiscing. Hours passed as we exchanged stories of our lives and our ups and downs. There was laughter mixed with tears and sadness of the lost years since school. The conversation seemed to return incessantly to where we first met at Wesley as the stories and anecdotes of our school lives flowed freely. It amazes me still how much of it we have retained for so long in the archives of our minds. We remembered mutual friends who are no more.
The life after leaving school brought its own pleasures and pain. Wimal had lost his wife to the scourge of cancer, in her forties. This has taken a lot out of him as he raised his family as a single parent. The ever present glint in his eyes spoke volumes of his loss. The daughters were now married and happily settled in the UK. The night wore on and it was time to leave. We bade a long goodbye and I watched Wimal disappear into the stillness of the night. I wondered, once more, if we would ever meet again.
We kept in touch, from time to time, until he moved to a house just 15 minutes away from me. I was ecstatic to have a friend so near to me. We met again in our houses and mostly spoke of mutual friends, of school and of the ravages of time. Somehow the spark has gone out of his life although he maintained a bold front. As always he was kind and understanding and never had an ill word for anyone. Wimal enjoyed the company of his close family but for many of us who knew him in his youth, he had become withdrawn, and a recluse. He, however, never lost his passion for sports. Wimal watched football and cricket on television all his waking hours. British TV is a sportsman’s dream. He refused to look after his health, eat sensibly and to take regular exercise. He had a sweet tooth and enjoyed his Sri Lankan cuisine enormously. Despite advice to the contrary he maintained his large frame. Wimal lead the life he wanted and never searched for the fountain of youth. Perhaps, he let destiny take its course after losing his soulmate and the light of his life.
In 2007 Wimal retired from work and fulfilled his dream of travelling to the West Indies for the Cricket World Cup. He had much to say on his return of this fantastic sporting spectacle. He embraced retirement and the new found freedom with both arms. Wimal then spent a month in Australia visiting friends and relatives and stayed in Sri Lanka for further couple of months before returning to the UK. He then looked happier than ever but continued his reclusive existence. I wished we could have met more often but that was not to be. Time slipped by.
On my return from a holiday in March 2008 there was an email from his son-in-law that Wimal has been admitted to hospital and had cancer. I saw him many times in the same institution which was my place of work for a quarter of a century. He was in some discomfort. After he came to know the diagnosis he showed the courage I saw in his youth as a fine sportsman. His health deteriorated rapidly and lost much weight but his mind remained clear. He was unable to fulfil his desire to see his 96 year old mother in Sri Lanka due to his rapidly failing health. Her loss must weigh heavily on her fragile self. Age 66 is too young to die but longevity and a protracted life has its own drawbacks seeing the demise of ones siblings, friends and children. In the 21st Century our judgment of youth and age has slid away from its traditional moorings. Healthy diet, exercise and good healthcare can give us some extra years but we depend so much on having good genes of which we have so little control.
Wimal bore his final illness with the customary stoicism. Despite the rigours of chemotherapy and surgical interventions he remained courteous and thoughtful to the very end. Their were times he was at the end his tether and wished his life would end sooner. Then one day the dark clouds and the dismal weather echoed the loss of a good man. His serenity, dignity and sheer indomitable courage in his final illness made him an extraordinary man. When such tragedy strikes you are on your own. In this long and tortuous journey none of us will get out alive, but we continue to grieve for those who are gone.
Grief is a universal experience. Unlike in the old days there are no comforting rituals to sustain the bereaved. Anger, denial, relief and guilt are the emotions that swirl around in our psyche. Nowadays there is no wearing of mourning attire which would signal to others our fragile state and the need for time and space. Pressures on our time has robbed us of the necessary grieving period which would create a safety zone around us. Hence, after writing this note, which in itself is cathartic, I reached for the comfort and wisdom of The Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam:
Before we too into the dust descend
Dust into dust, and under dust, to lie
Sans wine, sans song, sans singer, and – sans end.
Reverend W. A.(Bill)HOLDEN Passed away peacefully at St. Benedict's Nursing Home, Glastonbury on March 16, 2008, aged 97 years. Cremation private. A service of Thanksgiving will be held at the Lambrook Street Methodist Church, Glastonbury on Wednesday, March 26 at 2.30 p.m. Family flowers only, donations if desired made payable to Lambrook Street Methodist Church or Methodist Missionary Society.
Revd. William Alfred Holden's obituary is stipulated in the minutes of Methodist conference 2008. It reads as follows:
WILLIAM ALFRED HOLDEN:
Born in Southport on 6th April 1910 into a Wesleyan Methodist home. He was educated at King George V Grammar School, Southport. His first job was in the printing industry. Regular attendance at Young Laymen's Conference at Swanswick led to his call to the ministry. Following a pre-collegiate year at Millom, he trained for ministry at Handsworth College, where he met his beloved Hetty Hodson, the Leader of a Peoples' group at a local church.
From college he went to Burma for two long spells, followed by service in Accrington, London Finsbury Park, London Highgate and Basildon Circuits. On retirement he and Hetty moved to Somerset Mission Circuits, where he continued to preach and fulfil a devoted pastoral ministry until well into the nineties. The major part of his active ministry was in Burma. His service included spells as Principal of Mandalay Wesley High School, on the staff of the Union School Kalaw and at the Ministerial Training Institute in Mandalay.
His commitment to Burma represented not just by those first eight years (1934-42); but by his return in Government service in 1944-45, and with the church in 1950-53, with an extended period of furlough to do translation work, before the change of Government in Burma prevented his return again to work there.
During World War II he moved to Ceylon to act as Principal of Wesley College, Colombo. At the end of the war he was commissioned as an army officer serving in Burma Civil Affairs Service, responsible for rehabilitation work in the North Shan States. He was ordained and married to Hetty in Mandalay, where their only son William was also born. His contribution to the Burmese church included commentaries in Burmese on Job and Romans, together with the translation into Burmese of The Methodist Order of Divine Worship.
He was a genuine scholar, whose preaching was thought-provoking, instructive and challenging. His direct, sometimes blunt approach put his listeners on the spot. His prime concern was for their spiritual welfare. He was a demanding Local Preachers' tutor, feared and loved in equal measure by his students. He was universally regarded with respect and affection as a caring minister, whose home visiting was legendary. Bill died on the 16th of March 2008 in the ninety-eighth year of his age and the seventy-sixth year in ministry.
A Letter from the World Church Office
Thank you for your message.
We were informed that Rev William Holden died on 16th March 2008, a few weeks before his 98th birthday.
His official obituary will not be appearing in our Conference minutes until the new edition which will be available in September, at the beginning of our Connexional Year.
I am attaching a copy of the contents of a letter of condolence which we wrote to his son when we heard the news of Rev Holden's death. You will see from this that he served for just 2 years in Sri Lanka and we have little information about this period of his ministry on our office files.
With best wishes
From World Church Office - Rev William Holden Obituary
In the World Church Office we have been sorry to hear of the recent death of your father just a few weeks short of his ninety-eighth birthday. May I on behalf of the World Church and personally send you and the family our sympathy.
At the next meeting of the World Mission Group on 23rd July we shall recall and give thanks to God for your father's commitment and service to the church in Burma (Myanmar) and for two years (1943-44) in Colombo, Sri Lanka as principal of Wesley Boys College. We shall remember that your father first sailed for Burma back in 1934, and was one of the first European Methodist ministers to be ordained in Burma in 1937; and then, by the rules of the time, was able to get married to your mother in Mandalay.
His commitment to Burma represented not just by those first eight years (1934-42); but by his return in Government service in 1944-45, and with the church in 1950-53, with an extended period of furlough to do translation work, before the change of Government in Burma prevented his return again to work there. His courageous service and dedication was greatly valued by the World Church office, but more especially, by the Methodist Church of Upper Burma.
May the love and presence of the risen Christ give you hope and uphold you and the family at this time.
Yours sincerely
Michael King
Team Leader, World Church Relationships
From Alfred David
Rev. W.A. Holden (1943 to 1944) came to Wesley as Principal in March 1943. He steered the school during the war years, since the school had to be content with temporary accommodation in Kittiyakkara. In fact Rev. Holden was not able to do more than keep the college “going”. The prevailing conditions greatly restricted advancement or improvement. The number of students dropped to less than 100 but Wesley continued to function. In his report in 1944, Rev. Holden said “Wesley has a purpose, it enshrines much that is fine in educational life in Ceylon. Such institutions cannot be lightly set aside, they have their roots deep in the life of this land and to seek to tear them up, root and branch, is tear out much of what is noble. It is to throw their traditions to the wind as no value. But that cannot be done without very great and serious loss”.
In September 1944, Rev Holden bade farewell to Wesley.
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Indika Ratnayake joined Wesley from middle school and had a remarkable school career which lasted up to his A/L studies. He was exemplary in displaying his qualities of Leadership which saw him become a College Prefect, and a house captain. in the field of sports he was a ruggerite in the junior team and as well as an athlete.
A man gifted with the skill of effective speech, he was a member of the sinhala debating team and went on to win the school debating prize for Sinhala debating (the ranabahu Memorial prize). he was also the treasurer of the Buddhist society.
Passing his A/L examination with three 'B's he gained entry in to the Diyatalawa military academy and brought great distinction to his alma mater by topping the batch and being selected for a year long training scholarship in the prestigious Sandhurst Royal Military Academy in UK, which contributed in moulding military greats such as the late Gen.Denzil Kobbakaduwa.
Upon passing out from the Diyatalawa academy he was commissioned to the rank of second-lieutenant, and served valiantly in precarious operations such as the Silawathura campaign, and several others of note, in the recent war scenario. He was stationed in operation areas of Mannar and lastly in Vauniya, serving in the Army's Engineering regiment. he was promoted to the rank of (full) Lieutenant on the 27th of march this year which also happened to coincide with his 25th birthday. an accomplishment which he told several 'as the best birthday present' that he had got. he was by any standards a remarkable officer and a gentleman who served with untiring effort and undiminished courage, committed to serving the motherland and keeping true to the Wesley spirit which is evoked in our college song in the line-'and for our dear land we'd be men of grit and industry' he was a popular figure in college who left many fond memories with his riotous acts of light hearted mischief. his sincerity as a friend endeared him as a brother true to all who befriended him. and forever he will remain embedded in our hearts and minds as a loving brother who made our lives brighter in every way he touched us.
May he attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana.
I have just been informed that Mrs Bertha Bernard (nee Weerapas) passed away in her sleep today aged in her eighties. Some of you may remember her and please pass on this information to others you may feel may know her in our Alumni Community.
Aunty Bertha worked in the office at Wesley in the era of Fred de Silva and Papa de Mel. She treasured fond memories of her time at Wesley and especially would relate stories of her time at the College and Shelton Peiris who she respected so much. Please inform Shelton of her passing. Also Richard Dwight who was a Wella Methodist parishioner.
Aunty Bertha was a delightful lady of strong Christian faith, a proud Methodist and the wife of the late Andrew Bernard. The family were pillars of the Methodist Church Wellawatte where I had the good fortune to be a student in her class at Sunday School and since then have had a long standing friendship with her and her family. Those who met her were touched by her gentleness and simple Christian faith and she was much loved and respected. She had a wonderful talent in writing little verses in her cards she sent for Christmas always with a simple inspirational message of hope, love and encouragement to keep the faith with our Christian beliefs. I used to see her less frequently as old age and ill health took its toll. She never failed to attend the Combined Colleges Carol Service in Melbourne regardless of how frail she was and made sure she caught up with many of the choristers who she knew. She enjoyed hymn singing and the choruses we sang in Church and I belonged to a quartet who regularly sang in Church. We all migrated to Melbourne and her delight was to get us to lead the singing and reminiscing those wonderful days at Sunday School and Church when we would gather.
Aunty Bertha’s life is reflected in the words of one of Charles Wesley’s hymns “Forth in thy name O Lord I go”
my daily labor to pursue;
thee, only thee, resolved to know
in all I think or speak or do.
O let me cheerfully fulfil;
in all my works thy presence find,
and prove thy good and perfect will.
what e'er thy bounteous grace hath given;
and run my course with even joy,
and closely walk with thee to heaven.
Aunty Bertha I am sure has reached that glorious destination and is at peace with her maker.
From Nihal D Amerasekera
Miss Weerapass as she was known in my time at school was everyone's kindly aunt in the school office. Her photo brings back fond memories of a fine lady and a gentle soul. We met her as we made our errands or visited the office for punishment. Miss Weerapass had a kind word for me as I emerged from the Principal's office after a beating, one 'soggy' day. She was a kindly face in the harsh environment of education in the fifties. She is the last of those stalwarts of Wesley from my era to leave us.
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ETERNAL PEACE
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Appreciation by Shanti McLelland
Kingsley was the President of Wesley OBU from 1972-1976. Kingsley an affable entrepreneur rose from the small beginnings as owner of Wicks Advertising Campbell Place to become an astute politician. He rose to the rank of Governor, Southern Province, Minister of International Trade, and was elected to the prestigious position of Vice President in the worldwide organization - Jaycee International.
He came to the rescue when the OBU membership and interest was at a very low level and evergreen P.B. Herath consented to fill in as pro-term president. The few others who rallied around him before the centenary year with Ponnambalam Sivasubramanium (Treasurer). The notable office bearers were, Walter Jayasuriya, Shelton Peiris, P.B. Herath, Rohan Amrasinghe, Patrick Edema, Watson Wijewickrame, Cecil Fernando, Garath Jayawardane, D. S. Wijemanne, Rajah Sinnadurai, Tuan Camball, Sunil Fernando, Rex and R.M. de Silva, A.M. Mohideen, Rohan Soysa, Jayalal Jayasekara, Christopher Goonatileke, Edmund Dissanayake, and Lakshman Samaraweera. The OBU had less than 50 members with the OWSC having half the number. Under Kingsley’s leadership, The OWSC hockey team won many of the major hockey tournaments organized by the Colombo Hockey Association. A championship dinner dance was held at the Galle Face Hotel organized by Mr. L.A. Fernando while he was the Director of the Unite States Educational Foundation.
In 1974, Kingsley’s vision was to hold a dazzling dance on a floating stage at Bentota, with an International cast of entertainers. Unfortunately, the project glittering and ambitious project had to be abandoned as the investors were not provided with audited accounts by the Welfare Society and Wesley OBU could not substantiate the financial integrity and the application of funds generated to the charitable cause of School development and Education. However, with limited resources, Kingsley as President quickly came up with an alternate solution by drawing the Wesley’s top marketing talent, Frank Samaraweera, B.J. Karunatilake, Neville Perera, Nihal Wijetunga, Garath Jayawardane, and Denzil Perera ably directed by Mr. L.A.Fernando to organize the grand Centenary celebrations.
Kingsley was sociable and genial and many time invited the executive and the member to the Serendib Hotel at Bentota, where he was a Director. Always looking for new ideas, he spearheaded a successful three-day event at the Lionel Wendt Theatre, to stage Haig Karunaratne’s production of “Rainbow Man”. The paper raved about the “House-Full” as one of the best produced and staged by a school with over 100 participants. The profits from the show helped to pave the front road way with the help of another old boy, Nihal Peiris who brought in his crew to finish the job over a week-end.
At the political front, Kingsley first contested the Kaduwela seat in 1977. Then he campaigned from his Mercedes Benz to draw large crowds who were curious and was happy to test ride in an ostentatious vehicle. As a shrewd marketing and advertising guru, his theory was that people would vote for successful and colourful politician who is a winner than a loss leader. He was elected to parliament many times and was hand picked to be Governor of Southern Province, which was developed rapidly under his leadership. Later he used his vast International experience to become the Minister for International Trade.
Wrapped in glory, he never lost his common touch. He would always would reached out with open arms and greet anyone with a smile and sincere friendship. At the OBU always had an anecdote to tell, and with his jovial smirk he once related how he allowed a beggar to sleep at the office door step after closing at night and after a few days he was asked for an advance for acting as security for his office. Kingsley was a true Double Blue his office and staff was always made available for OBU work. Kingsley will be missed as he was always there to support Wesley at anytime with no fanfare and publicity.
From Asian Tribune : Sri Lanka Bureau
1st of October, Kingsley T. Wickramaratne, Ex- Governor of the Southern Province passes away at a private hospital , in Colombo a shortwhile ago. He was a powerful minister during the Chandrika Bandaranayake regime. He was also Advisor on International Trade to the former President of Sri Lanka Chandrika Bandaranike Kumaratunge.Kingsley T. WickramaratneKingsley T. Wickramaratne
He served as the minister of Internal and International Commerce and Food in the Sri Lanka Government Cabinet of President Chandrika Bandaranaike Kumaratunga from 1994 to August 2000. Seventeen (17) departments/ Corporations, in trade, Commerce and Food sectors of the country came within the purview of his Ministry. By virtue of this key ministerial portfolio and his expertise, he was actively involved in cabinet Committees to foster International Trade and Investment, Industrial infrastructure and Socio-Economic Development. He was elected as a Member of Parliament for the District in 1989 and served as a Parliamentarian up to August 2000.
He has led Trade Mission to the United Kingdom, Russia, United States, People’s Republic of China, Iran, Egypt, Italy, New Republic of Yugoslavia, Australia, Bangladesh, Pakistan, Maldives, India, Nepal, Thailand, Chile, Sweden, Germany, Portugal and UAE. He also led Sri Lanka's delegation to the SAARC commerce Ministers meeting in India in 1995-2000 and to the WTO meetings from its inception in Singapore. As advisor on international Trade he specialized on matters related to W.T.O.
He was educated at Wesley College, Colombo. He was a fellow of the British Institute of Management (UK). He was the first Sri Lankan to be admitted to the Young Presidents Organization in USA. He was a founder member of the institute of Marketing, the institute of Packing and the International Advertising Association (SL - Chapter).His professional career has been as a Management and Marketing Consultant. He became the first Sri Lankan to be elected as Executive Vice President, Junior Chamber International and sixty four (64) countries which came under his jurisdiction. He has traveled widely. Before entering Parliament, he was private Sector Entrepreneur. He had been the Chairman of the Serendib Group of Hotels and of the Wicks Group of Companies. He also served on the Board of Directors of several leading companies in Sri Lanka.
Twenty six years ago in 1975, he presented a comprehensive paper on " One Economy - One Market - One world " at the JCI World Congress in Nice, France, which was vigorously debated by representatives of eighty- four(84) countries. He also the author of the book - Tomorrow's Economics. His political affiliation with SLFP ( Mrs. Sirimavo Bandaranaike's Party) began in 1974.
He was elected as Assistant Secretary of the SLFP in 1978. In 1983 he was appointed as Treasurer. in 2001 he was elected as the Senior Vice president of the Sri Lanka Freedom Party. He is a family man, married to Helen. They have three daughters.
May he attain The Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
Obituary from the British Medical Journal 19th Oct 2009
From his brother Dr M.H.Yu
Following his internship in Sri Lanka, Shee Hung Yu spent a brief period in general practice. While practising as a general practitioner, he came to the UK in 1978 to further his education. He started in anaesthetics in Chelmsford in May 1978. Finding that general practice was more to his liking, he followed his instinct. He did his training in Guildford in 1984 and then settled in Edmonton, where he worked at different surgeries before finally setting up his own surgery at Chalfont Road in 1990. He gradually built up his practice through hard work and was dedicated to his patients as a single handed general practitioner. He was well respected and liked by all his colleagues and patients. He was direct in his approach in both his work and dealing with people whom he came into contact with. He was generous in both his actions and his deeds to his patients, friends, colleagues, and family. He was a staunch supporter and member of the local medical committee and the Edmonton branch of the BMA, working tirelessly for both institutions. He was a member of the professional executive committee of Enfield Primary Care Trust between 2003 and 2005. He was forthright in his opinions, which were sound. He was always willing to help the underdog, and he helped doctors and colleagues in various ways. He loved politics and was considering running as the Conservative candidate for Edmonton before he passed away suddenly. He suddenly took ill on 6 October 2008 and passed away at Chase Farm Hospital following meningococcal septicaemia and myocardial infarction. He leaves behind a wife, four sons, and a daughter. Two of his sons and his daughter have followed him into the medical profession. He is still fondly remembered and missed by his patients and all who knew him. General practitioner Edmonton, London (b 30 October 1947; q Colombo, Sri Lanka, 1975), died from meningococcal septicaemia and a heart attack on 6 October 2008.
A Tribute to Dr Shee Hung Yu by Dr.Nihal D Amerasekera
Shee hung was a learned, cultured and tolerant man. He was many years my junior and I came to know him just 2 years ago through other UK Wesleyites. Our association became closer as we served together in the OBU-UK Committee. It was a social ritual he enjoyed enormously. Totally unblinkered by the usual prejudices of the day, he saw people and institutions from entirely new angles. Unfortunately his prose sounded a tone unfamiliar and not everyone was ready for it. There was never a wilful desire to provoke, Being a true blue Wesleyite He was much concerned with the management or the lack of it in his alma mater. He tried his utmost to bring about clarity and transparency to the various bodies that ran the school. Although vehemently critical of the current school politics it was never directed to any individuals but to a system which needed change. In his enthusiasm Shee was most verbose at the Committee meetings. Those comments were laced with sincerity. No doubt, now, those vitriolic outbursts will enter into the folklore of the OBU-UK. His forthright manner has left its foot prints on the organisation he loved.
In the 1960' it was an impossible task to enter Medical College as a top sportsman from school. Playing competitive games and attending practices took too much time. But Shee had the intelligence, ambition and stamina to combine studies with sports, a rare achievement. He captained the School Rugby XV and played 1st XI Cricket for Wesley College. Having spent many happy years as a boarder at School he showed much loyalty to the hostel and tried his best to support and uplift its declining fortunes.
Shee Hung was a respected General Practitioner in North London in a busy practice where he was the voice of reason and of practicality. He was a true professional and gave of his best to his patients who in turn gave him much respect. Shee moved with the wealthy and the underprivileged with equal ease and treated them all with dignity and respect. Shee was never in the least tainted by greed or his many achievements in his illustrious career. He had carried through from Wesley College the best traditions of the school of kindness, helpfulness and also honesty and integrity. The medical profession has lost a good caring GP.
Shee Hung was loved for his courage, his humour and above all for his unflinching, uncompromising honesty. He will be remembered with profound admiration and affection by all those who knew him for his tremendous love for his school and his amazing loyalty to his numerous friends.
May You Attain The Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
A Personal Tribute from Afghar Mohideen
When your sister called me last morning from London and mentioned that Shee Hung has passed away the previous night I was in a state of shock and took sometime to recover. She did not know how to contact friends from his old school now living in London. I had to convey this sad news to all colleagues in UK and to Reggie in Melbourne.
It was only last week Shee Hung e-mailed me and as he knew I was coming to London on the 11th October he wanted me to bring him two college ties, Shee Hung was a fanatically loyal Wesleyite and he was determined to give back to college in whatever way possible in gratitude to all what Wesley had given him. He was bold and fearless in whatever he had to say and never compromised with anything that was dishonest. He was very active in all Wesley College activities in U.K. As a medical doctor he was totally committed and devoted. Whenever I needed medical help he has helped me at all times. He was extremely generous and contributed lavishly to all the get-togethers, parties etc., He was devoted to his family. He got down his parents and other family members to London and looked after them. Three years ago he brought down to London his aunt and uncle from Avissawella, for three months, having paid for their air-tickets. They also stayed with him at his home. He told me that this uncle and aunt had helped him financially during his difficult days whilst being a student and now they have fallen on hard times and he needs to help them.
Shee Hung was a great and a sincere friend with a good sense of humour. He was a good father to his five children and he was determined to give them the best education, I know they will all miss him.
As mentioned to you during my telephone conversation yesterday, if the funeral is on Sunday 12th October I will certainly be there.
May he Rest in Peace.Email to sent to Ma Hung (Shee Hungs’ brother who is also an old Wesleyite seen in the above photo standing 1st from the left):
From Azahim Mohamed
It has taken a few days for me to come to terms with the passing away of a very good friend and a true Wesleyite. I have known Dr Shee Hung while we were schoolboys at Wesley. However it was in England that I got to know him really well. We worked closely as members of the Wesley College OBU UK. Shee was a genuine supporter of our Alma mater.
I have kept a very close link with Shee and would meet over Buriyani and Watlappam. When my festival Eid was announced he called me and said lets meet for Lump Rice and watlapam. On the day of the Eid Festival he told me that he was too tired and that we should meet up again later. The last I spoke to him was on Saturday 4th october 2008 when Wesley OBU UK rugby was in action in the Schools Touch rugby tournament. He informed me that he would be there and requested me to give direction to the venue. Later on in the day he called me again to say that he would skip the event as he was feeling too tired. He suggested to me that in the event Wesley enters the Semi finals we should give them a good feed. Wesley did enter the semis...... .
Later that night his call was of a man tired with the strains and stresses of a seven day working week. Late into the night he sat examining papers and patients, a father, a provider a brother, a son and a friend. A generous man, he was never too far from his roots or his boots be it cricket or rugby. His great big heart worked overtime for the lives of people he did not even know. An appeal for a child who needed surgery and he wasted no time and sent the money as fast as he could .
He had a little time for himself. He always sent us funny emails and comments. The friendly banter and the cameraderie was always there.
He loved and respected his parents who lived with him and he was ever grateful to Wesley. He was ever thoughtful of his teachers and to his multitude of friends. He was planning to contest the Edmonton Council Elections on a Conservative ticket and chose Peter as his campaign Manager, I am told!!
We can moan him in silence.
But the Almight must have known that Shee was better off at his side.
Dr. Shee Hung (From Excerpts from Peter Christie, Bunny Taylor, Leon Ingram, Cassim Cader, Indran Niles & Daya Winslow). Kindly sent to me by Shanti McLelland
It was nearly 50 years ago in 1959 on a pleasant January morning our friend and colleague Dr. Shee Hung and his brother Dr. Ma Hung walked into the grandeur buildings of Wesley for the mandatory Grade 6 admission interview. Daya Winslow now living in Germany remembers Dr. Shee coming the same day in January 1959 for admission to Wesley to the 1st Form as it was called for Grade 6. Many students like him from the outstation came to Wesley with hopes of achieving high standards of education and the opportunity to enter university.
Dr. Shee came from a catholic school in Trincomalee along with him for admission was many other students from Jaffna, Tangalle, Badulla, Kalmunai, Batticloa and even from closer place like Moratuwa and Seeduwa. They travelled with their father from the famous city on the Eastern sea coast of Sri Lanka where the continental shelf is lined with serene clear blue waters of the Indian Ocean hugging the beautiful Nilawali Beach splashing sympathetically on to the lover leap Swami Rock, and where lies hidden the world famous natural harbour.
It was an era when the bold and the wonderful banded together as proud Moscropites by default. A time when friends like Algamas, Rohan Soysa, Wimal, Rosa, Jayantha, Amarasekaras, Lal Jayasinghe, Conrad Fernando, Wanigatunge, Siriwardanes, Razark, Daya Perera, Robin & Glenn Reimers, Scarnivel, Winslows, Tala & Kosgahakumbura, Phillips, Wijetunges, Lasantha & Anil Ferando, Priyantha Perera, Neil and Christopher Harvie, L.R. & Dr. R.G Wijesinghe, Prasad de Silva, Koilpillai’s, Jacobs, Arthur Goonasekara,, Kantha de Silvas, Sathanandans, Daluwatte, Wijayakumar, Murugespillais, Upali Perea, and even day scholar Mohideen joined the hostel. The hostel was considered a sure path to dedicated study and a clear solution to the highly competitive problem of entering a university (I am sure I have missed some of the wonderful hostellers of that time).
Then the Highfield Block had become a reality and at the helm was amiable former Wesley cricket captain and senior prefect Mr. Harold Nonis. Latin was still a favoured subject taught by Mr. Nonis to those who clamoured to enter the hallowed halls of medical college at Kynsey Road and the Law College at Hultsdorf. Double Blue Fates were a simple norm to raise funds, as Wesley opted to become a Christian non-fee levying private school along with Methodist College under Methodist Mission, after giving up prestigious and historical Richmond and Kingswood colleges. Then Welfare Society was not collecting large fees from students coming from diverse socio-economic homes, who were mainly selected on merit and exemplary citizenship. Mrs. Nonis and her band of loyal and energetic volunteers from the PTA and OBU organized events, while the 14th Colombo scouts given the task of security and the sound was ere handled by the Wesley hostellers who were electrical and sound wizards knowledgeable about acoustics, amplifiers and turn tables.
Many students like Dr Shee Hung and brother Dr.Ma Hung joined Wesley for the Hostel facilities and for Wesley’s fame and glory. It was a time when we were proud that Old Wesleyite Sir Oliver Goonatilleke held the rank of first Governor General of Sri Lanka. It was just after 1958 turmoil, a time when Shee and many others thought of Wesley as a safe haven with all the multi-religious, multi-racial, multi socio-economic and multi-language students were able to study and play together in harmony. Then like now, Trincomalee was no safe place for a kid whose destiny was to become a life saver a physician and an active OBU member.
Dr. Shee joined the 1st Form, as it was known then, and had the choice of joining the Tamil, Sinhala, or the English stream and switchover to English stream if he was to go to medical college a dream his father and mother had determined for him and his two younger brothers and sister. Then Shee had the opportunity of sleeping in the comfortable dormitory of the Wesley’s Hostel. The hostel was vibrant with teachers like Mr. L.A. Fernando and Mr. Kiruppurajah a former 400m sprinter. Both had returned from the United States after graduating with a Masters in Arts and Science, and Bachelor’s in Kinesiology respectively. The others who maintained Wesley discipline and scholarly standards were Dr. Frank Jayasinghe, Rajapaksa, Cyril Fernando, S. Thevarokiam, L. Dharmarajah, R.E. Abaraham, Arulanandan Aruliah, J. Dhanapala, M. Kalupahana, and Premadasa.
It was in Form IV that many of his friends teamed up together for various activities, from hostel lunches for college teams, the English literary union, and at the pavilion. In his class were some of the bold and famous, Alston Koch remembers him class, possibly meeting for Biology taught by Mr. Sundaralingam, Chemistry by Mr. Ramanathan or English by Mrs. Sivasubramanium. Then there were the other famous school mates, Harmers, more than one Bartholomeusz, Siavapakkiam, Azariah, Armstrong, Easwaran, Iqbal Cader, Ponna Sivasubramanium, Bunty Aniff, Rohan Soysa, Sarath Algama, Wimal Silva, Omar Jayasekara, Lal Jayasinghe, Rohan & Dr. Lakshman Amarasekara, Asoka Jayawardane, Dr. Prasad de Silva, Dr. Parasuraman, and Dr. Paramjothy, and host of others.
Dr. Shee was passionate about cricket and rugby. But, at the back of his mind it was one mission to become a doctor and a healer. After school and sports, when the All Saints musical bells tolled 6pm, to Dr. Shee it was book, books, and books till late night. He and his brother was disciplined and determined and they were engrossed in the stacks of homework paged marked by unforgettable teachers like V.R. Roberts (Mathematics) Ramananathan (Chemistry), D.A. Pakianathan (Chemistry), R. Chandrasekaran (Physics), Sunadaralingam (Botany & Zoology), Welikala & Felix Premawardane (Sinhala), Rev. Cyril Prmawardane (religion), Mr. Wilfred Wickramasinhe and E.L.Rodrigo,, while Haig Karunaratne & Joseph, Watson Wijewickrame, Lionel Jayasuriya Lyon Bellath taught English. He was a kid when cricketing stalwarts like Senthil Sinniah, L.R. Goonalitllake, Koddituwakku, L.C.R Wijesinghe, Evaraad Schoorman, C.T. Rodrigo, Sarath Wickramaratne, Upali Samaratne, Milroy Muthuvelu, Milhar, Bulner, Chandran Perera, Rodney Perera and Ebert and Smith carving Wesley’s name into history and rewriting the record books.
Dr. Shee proved his mettle and his determination when he passed out as a Doctor of Medicine along with his bother Ma Hung in the early 1970’s. He also made sure he captained Rugby at a time when Wesley had to practice either on the rock hard gravel grounds at Campbell Park or at the distant Havelock Park. As captain, he led the practices when the volunteer coaches were hard to come by.
The most hilarious story narrated by Bunny Taylor is how Shee emerged donned with a clear double blue jersey after the St. Benedict’s match at Kotahena from the boggy mud and putrid muck after heavy rains from the overflowing drains, a jersey he was proud to wear and protect all the time!!!! While the most frightening story Dr. Shee experienced was also narrated by Bunny. Dr. Shee had kicked the door at his boarding to protect another young boarder from being bullied and he set a storm in a tea cup infuriating a nasty gang from Maradana wanting his head. Fortunately, his friends were able to get him out of the rut and cool off the situation. At school he was straight with his feeling if teachers were not doing their job or if kids were misbehaving or bulling in the hostel. As a prefect he stood his ground when it came to issues of discipline. This reminds us of another great leader. It was said that Rev. Highfield had a snapping temper and he once visited the hostel and found the door closed and losing his cool kicked the door to his own dismay of ending up with a dislocated foot. At another time he had the courage to admonish the British Administrators for jailing civic activist like D.S. Senanayake for descending against British Rule. Another scary incident at the hostel was when Arthur Gunasekara fell off from the top of a coconut tree at the school front yard. His friends were shouting not to drop the young coconuts, while Arthur was suffering with broken and a rammed jawbone at the bottom of the coconut tree.
After completing his medical studies along with his brother Ma Hung, they migrated to England and Bunny Taylor was one of his first points of contact to set himself up in London. In the recent years he was actively involved with the OBU and was a strong voice for the Association. Peter Cassie Chetty, A. M. Mohideen, Azahim Mohamed says Dr. Shee will be greatly missed by his family and friends as a great healer and negotiator. Many will miss his straight talk especially in the UK so says Ananda Thevadason, Ramakrishnan, Wimal de Silva, Dr. Anandanesan, and Senthil Sinniah. There was hope Dr. Shee will help lead OBU (UK) to greater heights, but sadly he will leave behind a legend that others will have to carry out in the future, possibly Wimal de Silva who will take over as President of OBU UK. Dr. Shee Hung leaves world a better place and an exemplary model for others to follow. Thank you and farewell.
Transient alas are all Component things
Subject are they to birth – and then decay
Having gained birth to death, the life flux swings
Bliss dawns when unrest dies away
The Buddha
The voice still echoes in our ears - By Sisira Chandrasekara, UK Correspondent for the SLBC in London
Derek Meloney, veteran broadcaster, radio DJ, news reader and TV presenter, passed away on October 16 from pneumonia at the age of 58 in Perth, Australia. November 2007.
Derek joined the Sri Lanka Broadcasting Corporation as a relief announcer for the English Services in 1977 and worked there until he left the country for Australia in the early ’80s. I was the technical assistant who worked with him on his very first shift on the SLBC commercial services live broadcast studio in 1977. Derek became popular among listeners and built up a huge audience within a short period. I can remember the amount of postcards and letters which he received from loyal listeners.
He used to come for the night shift from 7 p.m. to 11 p.m. once a week. Those days the people-request programmes were popular among radio listeners. Derek prepared for this one-hour programme well in advance and wanted me to do my best. On his webpage he had made mention of me: “Thank you to Sisira Chandrasekera, the legendary operations assistant of the ’70s & ’80s and to the fans who termed the phase "Music Memories & Good Old Fashioned Meloney Magic ".
It was in 1962 when he first walked into the studios of Radio Ceylon as a 13-year-old schoolboy lucky to be picked for the Wesley College school choir that he made that first entry to one of the most famous buildings in the Indian subcontinent. This was Radio Ceylon, the home of some of Asia’s best known broadcasters. Livy Wijemanne, Jimmy Barucha, Shirley Perera, Mil Sansoni, Chris Greet, Leon Belleth and Nihal Bharetti to name a few. This was the place where he met "The Movie Man About Town", Jimmy Barucha; happy-go-lucky Greg Roskoskie, Gingernut Vernon Corea and shortcake Leon Belleth and the great Livy Wijemanne, the man whose voice was on air when Hillary and Tenzing received Radio Ceylon on their tiny transistor radio from atop Mt Everest.
After this brief foray, came an intense desire to be a part of this empire, filled with people who were fiercely possessive of their place of work and of the image it gave them. It was a few years later that he was introduced to the original "Mystique" of commercial radio Chris Greet.
Thus began Derek’s love affair with the microphone. He caught the eye of Hector Jayasinghe who was the head of the Drama Section of the SLBC, and so it was not long before he started attending the Corporation’s training institute down Jawatte Road. Soon he was on the way to becoming a guest producer English National Service and so followed the programmes Radio Quiz Club, Just For Fun, The Soul Searchers and Let’s Spin A Disc.
It was around 1974 whilst working for Lloyd's Advertising Services, he decided to apply for a position of relief announcer. To his amazement he was one of the lucky few, but alas his endeavours were all but lost, as the rules of engagement were that advertising agency staff were not permitted to work the commercial beams, a rule he found hard to accept. He was entirely out in the cold as his voice was now approved to present commercial programmes for clients of the agency he represented, his co-habitation with the station’s best known producer Harold Fernando was about to begin and so the commercial world of radio saw Derek Meloney team up with Leon Belleth to present programmes.
It was the beginning of the advent of "Music Memories and Good Old Fashioned Meloney Magic". By this time he had caught the attention of Jimmy Barucha and Shirley Perera who reminded him that the day he left the agency he could return to the panel of announcers on the commercial beam. This was incentive enough for him and in 1977 Music Memories And Good Old Fashioned Meloney Magic was heard on the commercial service on a regular basis.
He spent the last 19 years in Perth -- 15 of the last 19 years in the public service and part time broadcasting with the Overseas Service of the Australian Broadcasting Corporation. He made the occasional appearance on the ethnic radio stations.
Whenever he came to Sri Lanka he did a spot of announcing and news reading at the SLBC. He was a faithful, sincere, dedicated broadcaster to the SLBC.
I lost a dear old good friend; the SLBC lost one of its best ever announcers and our listeners lost a great broadcaster. Derek although you are not among us, your voice is still echoing in our ears. I can remember the good old days we enjoyed so much working together as a team in Studio C. Although you are no longer with us your name will stay in our hearts and memories forever.
My dearest friend may you rest in peace.
Added 25th January 2012
The name Derek Meloney has been synonymous with broadcasting, since the early 70's. Derek and Sri Lanka Broadcasting Corporation are not just two names but the combination of great commercial cohabitation. Derek made his first appearance on Radio on what was then known as the English National Service with veterans like late Christene Blacker, Hector Jayasinghe and Mark Anthony Fernando. Derek is in town after many years and he is very much alive at his favourite beam at the SLBC.
'I migrated to Australia in 1984 and since then I have come down in 1997 and this is my second visit to Sri Lanka,' he said. Derek was exclusively interviewed by TV Times last week while he was spared with little time from SLBC. Speaking on his latest visit he said it was to launch 'Ishala', the Aussie- Sri Lanka friendship CD by his good friend Gary Ellis. The famous line 'Music memories and Good Old Fashion Meloney Magic' was started by this broadcaster, during his career at the SLBC. 'I was very fortunate to have grown up and listening and later on working with some of the greatest broadcasters of all time,' he said. 'If I am what I am today is anything of value, I would have to pay homage to people Like Jimmy Barucha, Livy Wijemanne, Mill Sansoni, Tim Horshington, Greg Roskowski, and Christ Greet, some of whom only inspired me whilst others, I was privileged to work with', Derek said. Derek presented few programmes while he was on holiday here in 1997. Likewise he is busy at the SLBC with his favourite programmes 'Wednesday Musical Clock', Choice 'of the People' and 'Family Choice'.
I owe a personal debt of gratitude to Shirley Perera. It was Shirley who ''picked'' me from relative obscurity on the English National Service, encouraged and motivated me to become the commercial broadcaster. Derek was immensely popular in the early 80's and even won the outstanding broadcasters award presented by the then Ceylon Daily Mirror. ('This country lost one of its greatest assets in the industry and commercial broadcasting was never quite the same', he said. Derek describes his association with the microphone as "the most successful love affair to date". In fact he insists it's the only love affair he has ever had. He adds "as much as I miss my listeners I am very much aware of the fact they miss me. It is this factor that keeps bringing me back to Sri Lanka. So naturally my plans for the future will always include radio in Sri Lanka. On this occasion I was specially brought down for the launch the 'Ishala' album and I am grateful to Gary Ellis Cameron Kolambege, Robin Foenander, and the great Desmond Kelly, he explained.
He will be leaving the island in early September to Australia, where Derek will be the special correspondent to Rupavahini and SLBC in Aussie. 'That is my new appointment and I am glad to work with my friends in Colombo' he said. When asked whether he will come back to Sri Lanka on permanent basis, Derek said. 'If I get the right offer I would love to come and work in Sri Lanka'. He also said the new voices and new comers on new stations sound very amateurish and a broadcasting academy would solve the problems faced by these young ones. 'Some broadcasters do not know how to speak or present a programme. Sometimes it is irritating to listen to these people. It is a sad situation,' Derek said.
In conclusion, he pays tribute to his closest friend, producer and compiler Harold Fernando for his loyalty and support through all these years.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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This appreciation is an excerpt from the Wesley College Magazine February 1919 (From the archives held by Edmund Dissanayake)
By C. V. HONTER- Our Heroes lost in the First World War
Kingsley Redlich was the youngest of 5 brothers who received their education at Wesley College. He commenced his school career ill' 1900 and worked his way up by steady perseverance to the Senior Cambridge Form. He was a quiet, cheerful fellow whether in classroom, drill ground or playing field. He passed his Cambridge Junior and 2 years later 'entered the Ceylon Medical College. While a Medical student, he was also a member of the Ceylon Medical Corps and helped in attending on the wounded sailors of the "Emden" in the Military Hospital at Colombo. He was mentioned in Military orders and thanked for his services.
He left for England at his own expense early in 1915 and had the distinction of being the first Wesleyite to offer his services for the Empire in the Great War. Although his brother, Rev. E. B. Redlich, had arranged for a commission in the R. A. M. C., Kingsley preferred to join the fighting line and enlisted in the London Rifle Brigade in July 1915. He was sent to a big training Camp at Tadworth in Surrey where he was very popular among his comrades, by whom he was always endearingly called "Darkie." After the usual training in drill, route' marches, bombing and musketry, he left for France with his regiment in February, 1916. There he went through a furthur course of severe training for several months before being sent up to the firing line. He was in the front trenches in June, 1916, and drove back a band of Huns who attempted to capture his trench. In a letter written about this time he says, "A few days ago I was in the trenches for 3 days. We were quite close to the Germans this time. 'We weren't shelled very much during this second visit of mine. The Huns had a raid on our trenches the first night we were there. When we opened fire, they ran for all they were worth. We were off duty this morning, and so I took my opportunity and received Commun¬ion." On the memorable 1st of July, 1916, he took part in the First Big Push on the Somme. On the 14th of July, brother cabled out the sad news that Kingsley had been killed in action, being one of the first Ceylonese to make the supreme sacrifice. "After life's fitful fever', he Sleeps well' somewhere on the sunny fields of France, but his memory will live with us for ever as that of a. young man, with' promising career before him, who gave up all' for the sake of his King and Country.
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1896-1917
Our Heroes lost in the First World War
That Duty nobly done makes noblest history
Aristotle says that "honourable descent is in all nations greatly esteemed." The Staples family has been a household word in Ceylon for over half-a-century through the disinterested public service and singular literary gifts of several of its members.
Harold Staples was born in Colombo on 2nd November, 1896. His early years were spent with his grandparents, whose simplicity, integrity, and robust l'eligiotis faith contributed to develop his character. He was an amiable and dutiful child. full of healthful enjoyment of life. Many an incident has been narrated which reveals his charm of character. For instance: when he was about five his favourite dog fell into the well. His anxiety was intense, and in his sore plight he retired to the bedroom, knelt down, and prayed with touching simplicity: "O God, hear me! Save my puppy. Don't let it die!" His joy knew no bounds when his pet was rescued. 'Childhood shows the man.' As he grew up the noble traits which marked his tender years bore abundant fruit.
Harold was taught at home, and at five was sent to the Pettah Giris' High School when Miss Ledger (now Mrs. Highfield) was at the head. He gave unmistakable signs of dawning intelligence. He had the honour of presenting Lady Ridgeway with a bouquet Of this occasion the then Principal says: "The only thing I remember about him is that he was brought to a Prize-Giving with his hair curled and wearing a dainty Muslim dress that made him look like a pretty little girl." In the photograph which was taken out about that time we see his well-chisseled features and bright chubby face, with a toy gun in his hands. The love for soldiering created at so early an age never forsook him.
When his grandfather died in 1903 he returned to his parents. He attended Miss Ferdinands'school for about two years, was for a brief period under' the able tuition of the Rev.G.A.H. Arndt. and then joined St. Thomas' College. Here a new world opened to him; and apart from his studies, his interest in man¬ly games and athletic exercises was aroused. He was alive at every pore. In 1911 he joined Wesley College, and often spoke of the three happy years he spent within its walls with sincere gratitude. His sunny disposition, winning ways, and absolute truthfulness won the hearts of the masters and boys alike. He was a keen Cadet. and on the football field his enthusiasm was unbounded. He was fond of fun and frolic. Out of school he loved to wander' over the country with an open eye and heart. He had a boy's affection and reverence for animals, and especially for birds. He studied their natural history, and was encouraged to do so by the sympa¬thetic interest taken in him by the Vice-Principal. To this he joined a love of reading and quiet meditation. The College Sunday School was of real help to him, and in after years he became an ardent worker in the Cotta Road Sunday School. He left College in December, 1914, from Lower VA. to enter business.
It was felt that a journalistic career would be congenial to his literary tastes, but as there was no immediate opening he joined Aitken, Spence & Co., and subsequently the Ac¬countant's Office, C.G.R. He had a genius for friendship and was loved by his fellow-clerks. With the outbreak of the Great War he was on active service as a member of the C.L.I. both in Colombo and Diyatalawa. This culminated in his enlistment.
On 15th September, 1915, Harold sailed in the MM. Amazone with the Ceylon Contingent through the "Times' Passage Fund." In his entertaining letters en route he showed his keen-eyed interest in all that he saw, and was a tower of strength to many of his' comrades. After an eventful voyage he reached England, saw the great sights of the Metropolis. and was quartered in Seaford Camp and then at Oxford: The natul1al charm of the old University town cast its spell over him. Kind friends treated him with lavish hospitality. The training was exacting but he welcomed it. He deepened in character. He steadily disciplined his sOl11 for' the perils, the squalor, and the ghastliness of the battlefield. Life to him was duty. The 'vision splendid' loomed large before him.
In January, 1916, he was with the Royal Fusiliers in the thick of the conflict. His innate cheerfulness was a priceless military asset in the dark days of disillusion and disaster. He took part in many a bloody struggle; he was in the valleys of decision where-
'The thundering line of battle stands, and in the air De3th moans and sings.' His graphic accounts in letters- the garnered memories
of the dramatic experiences of one year-would fill a little volume. In the last Number we had an inkling of his power for word painting. Enough for us to know now that through it all his indomitable wit, selfless courage, and unquestioning faith in God never left him.
In the battle of Ancre he fought with dash and vigour.
He fell in action on February 28, 1917. The Chaplain wrote thus: "Our men took a trench on that morning, and he was alright up till mid-day when he was hit in the head and body by shrapnel and killed instantly. It would be some consolation to you to know that he could not have suffered. He had done very well and we are sorry to lose him." In a very touching letter to the writer dated 21s't January, 1917 which reached four days before he fell-he wrote: "I am simply longing for this cruel war to end when I shall be able to go back to Ceylon," But God willed it otherwise! He has 'gone over the top' never to return. But what a triumphant death! He fell in the cause of right and justice.
'This is the Happy Warrior; this is He That every man in arms should wish to be.'
Let us ever cherish and keep green the memory of noble and chivalrous young men like Harold.
His name a great example stands, to show
How strangely high endeavours may be blest E
When Piety and Valour jointly go."
The above appreciation is an excerpts from the Wesley College Magazine February 1919 (From the archives held by Edmund Dissanayake)
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Paul was a quiet, unassuming, sensitive and cultured student at Wesley in the 1950’s. I came to know him when he sat next to me for a whole year in the 4th Form in 1957. Modest as well as charming, he possessed a great gift for friendship. He wasn't impressed by academia but came to prominence in the school as a writer and a poet from his numerous contributions to the annual Wesley College Magazine. Paul was articulate and had a wonderful command of the English language. He spoke eloquently and wrote fluently. He expressed his views of the world as a teenager most elegantly.
Although he came from an elite social background from the posh surroundings of Barnes Place in Cinnamon Gardens he had his feet on the ground and remained down to earth, at all times. Paul was often seen with his then soul-mate called Moore. They were inseparable friends. Paul always remained a very private person.
Many would remember Paul arriving early to school and watching the world go by from the Biology lab corridor. It was a vantage position to watch the busy traffic on Baseline road, see the prisoners being taken by the guards for their hard labour and also to watch the teachers and students walk up the driveway for their days toil. He remained there quietly and patiently, deep in thought, until the bell rang for assembly.
He was such a warm, intelligent, sophisticated and gifted personality. A complex figure, Paul seemed, despite his talents, more often than not to have been dealt a peculiarly bad hand for the game of life. Although he was happy enough as a schoolboy Paul seemed troubled deep inside. We were then in our emotional and idealistic teenage years. At times I have seen his mind in turmoil but seem on the surface to cope with life's adversities like the rest of us.
Paul was a poet who wrote with great sensitivity and style. "Poets," wrote Shelley, "are the unacknowledged legislators of the world." We turn to them to express what is best in us, to give us words during all the important emotions and situations that shape our lives. We remember poets whose words continue to inspire, and whose legacies live on in their poetry. And so we will remember Paul.
I lost contact with Paul when I moved on to the GCE Science class in 1958 and got immersed in the preparations for the examination. I thought he would become a journalist and would have made a good one. Although I remembered him from time to time our paths never crossed and sadly we never met again. He emigrated to Brisbane, Australia with his family in 1961. Paul went to high school for a short time and then worked in a laboratory in the city of Brisbane. He always loved nature. Paul took his own life in 1970. A tragic loss of a young life in its prime.
Paul will be remembered fondly for his integrity, insight and honesty. He was the most generous and mild-mannered of boys, unfailingly polite and self-effacing. There was not a trace of arrogance in him. He never gave himself a chance to make a difference to this world but he certainly made a difference to the many who got to know him as a friend. Paul looked into the distance and frequently smiled suggesting a lad who knew beyond doubt that the world through which he was passing might have rhyme, but no reason. He left this world a poorer place by his early exit. We bring into this world our own destiny and have little control over its awesome force. We should save our sadness for the rest of the Modder family who lost a son and a brother, so young. My thoughts go out to his parents and sisters,Yolande and Megan.
Although we had a short sojourn through life as friends they were our impressionable formative years. Paul was calm and deeply courteous to everyone. I will always remember his kindness and his smiling face. No one could have predicted the tragic conclusion to his life. I Wish Paul found a way to keep going. What a sad waste. He was a gem in a world of pebbles. This world was never meant for one so sensitive and caring as Paul Modder.
I'm following what God laid for me.
I took God's hand when I heard the call;
I turned my back and left it all.
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Remembered by Peter Casiechetty
One of the many old Wesleyites we have to be proud of. I knew Tita for only a little while, but that while was long enough to admire the Man.
Frank and forthright he was an old school old Wesleyite and they don't make them in that mould any more. He was a senior executive in the Mercantile Sector and had an Office in the Old Colonial sector of the Fort near Gafoor Buildings. I knew his brother George a lot better so I will not therefore venture to touch on his great cricket career for Ceylon and the Colts or Wesley.
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By Upali Perera & O.K.Hemachandra
Our friendship with Maurice Weeraperumal goes back to our school days, way back to early 1950’s. I knew Maurice from my hostel days and “O.K” developed a friendship in the Campbell Park during their athletic endeavourers especially while they were hurdling.
I could very vividly remember Maurice beating “O.K” in 1957 in the 110 hurdles event whilst “O.K” was the unbeaten champion for many years. This event was filled with a lot of enthusiasm and excitement due to “O.K’ trying to beat the college record held by Abu Fuard .
Maurice was a very talented sportsman excelling in Rugby, Athletics and Hockey during his school days. His generosity too was limitless. The inheritance he received from his aunt, who was very fond of Maurice, was spent on us as friends for musical shows, motor races, & other boyish activities along with a donation to the College Hockey team. He had a heart of Gold.
In his working life our friend was extremely well regarded in the Garment Industry as one of the best Quality Controllers in the Country. During these days he was very helpful to all his close friends in finding jobs and was very lavish in financial assistance to those who needed.
Maurice was a carefree, lovable individual, who enjoyed life to the fullest without much thought for the future. This was his weakness, which led to some hardships during his latter years. In 1996, Maurice had a severe heart attack and had no funds to under go an urgent operation. Organised by “O.K”, all his friends locally, from Australia and his relatives rallied round to quickly pay the costs of the surgery performed by well-known surgeon, Dr.Dalpadathu. We must not forget the crucial part taken by “O.K” who was instrumental in this process, using his influence as the Director CID to get assistance from the active Presidents Fund.
After the surgery he got back to his garment Trade and in the year 2000 obtained a staff position in Karachi, Pakistan. After two weeks, Maurice got a stroke and never recovered. The then High Commissioner for Pakistan, General Srilal Weerasoriya with the help of “O.K” and Capt.Dalkin Samidon helped Maurice to return to Sri Lanka. From here onwards life was a huge struggle until his death. I personally know that “O.K” was helping him until his final days.
Maurice was a dear and a sincere friend who was loved by many. Friends who knew him well enjoyed his sharp sense of humour. Maurice enjoyed doing favours to those who were dear to him at the risk of his reputation and was ready to face any adverse situations.
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Maurice Werapermall Remembered by Nihal D Amerasekera 2/4/09
It was with deep sadness I received the news of the demise of yet another friend from our era at school. I came to know Maurice and his younger brother Bryan when they joined the boarding in the early 1950’s. Their father worked in the Coconut Research Institute in Lunuvilla. They had a Renault car with the engine at the rear and I do recall they arrived in the hostel at the beginning of every term with the trunks on the roof.
Maurice told us firmly at the very beginning that his name was not Weeraperumal but Werapermall which is a European name, No one believed him but now I know that was true. Maurice was a smart guy. He had a light hearted attitude to school work but I recall being in the same class with him for English with Fred Abeysekera as the teacher. He had a wonderful command of the English language and produced some fine essays. His spelling was exceptional.
He was a great sportsman himself and also a vocal supporter of our many school teams. My lasting memory of Maurice is playing cricket in the small park. This was long before the limited over games began. He wanted a quick finish and batted and bowled to that end. He was a demon bowler who sledged his opponents not to intimidate them but to make fun. He swung the bat and on a good day the ball reached the Nalanda grounds. Maurice played Rugby for the school 1st XI. His speciality was athletics and hurdles in particular. He came up against a formidable opponent in OK Hemachandra. They struck up a friendship which lasted until the end of his life.
He loved the bohemian life style in the boarding but despised its regimentation. Maurice was a rebel, pretty forthright and spoke his mind. Yet that was his strength and also his weakness. In the fifties we were not allowed to express our views. We were only to be seen and not heard. His hot temper left him impatient of anyone, even fellow students. We understood his body language in that situation and avoided him. However, his flinty, selfless integrity never wavered and no one had a bad word for him.
Maurice was always well groomed and well presented. He had a western swagger, good looks, and an impeccable sense of style. He was the author of much mischief at school. No ripe papaws or plantains in the premises or just outside were safe when he was around. He had the remarkable ability to give boys nicknames to suit their persona and their ways. These names were so realistic they stuck with them for life. Despite his apparent arrogant and aggressive demeanour at school these first impressions were misleading. He was a loyal friend and had a heart of gold. I have witnessed first hand his kindness towards the less wealthy and also the less able at school during our long association. He had a wide circle of close friends who supported him all through his long and final illness.
Maurice had a fine sense of sophisticated humour, rarely seen at school. He made us laugh. We will always remember him for this. I last saw Maurice in 1960 when he left school. I wish I had the good fortune to meet him after leaving Wesley. He had a fine repertoire of amusing anecdotes which he changed to suit the occasion. I was told Maurice lived life to the full and was a popular figure. I sincerely hope he has had a good life despite the troubles of the last few years.
Maurice's flamboyant style, irreverent humour and loyal friendship ensured him a unique place in school life and beyond.
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A Teacher at Wesley from 1916-1945
The last of the band of contemporaries to retire from Wesley among those who belonged to the Highfield regime and the good old days of Dias, Mack and Honter-passed away with the sudden death of Mr. C. M. Fonseka on the 6th of March 1958.
One could hardly believe that the familiar figure of C. M. that unfailingly showed itself at every school function or gathering will be henceforth conspicuous by its absence. When, almost the other day, he was seen hale and hearty as ever, moving among his friends, colleagues and past pupils during the Old Boys' week end and in reminiscent mood, relating various incidents that stood out concerning school personalities during a period of well nigh 40 years, and later sat to lunch with a record number of Old Boys, little did ·he or any others present realise that it was. in fact the last memorable Scene in the Final Act in the drama of Life, so far as C. M. was concerned. Even so, it seems to us now the most appropriate way for C. M. to have moved away from the scene of his labours after having foregathered with a representative section of those who came within his benign influence and held him in high esteem and affection as one who had given of his best in loyalty and devoted service to his Alma Mater for a record spell of years.
C. M.'s amiability and friendliness and the way he enjoyed doing what he could for his old school were characteristic of the man; for even just before he made his final exit from the school premises he was impressing on a group of friends the great benefits Wesley boys could enjoy from establishing a Dental Clinic-a project he was sure could be a present reality.
During his years of retirement he busied himself contacting Old Boys to help swell the Building Fund, and it must have been a matter of gratification for him to have seen for himself that the Highfield Memorial Building had reached completion. He joined the staff of Wesley in 1916 and retired only four years ago, in December 1953. During those years he showed great enthusiasm in the teaching of Geography and took a special pride in the fact that he was one of the earliest Hostel Masters and perhaps the First assistant Scout Master of the first Wesley Scout Troop.
He was greatly interested in Gardening and yearned for the fruition of a great scheme of his to establish a School Farm where he could use his many talents to train his pupils in Horticulture and in the rearing of birds and animals, thus passing on his own expert knowledge and enthusiasm to the younger folk, to find in such a pursuit both pleasure and profit. It was indeed unfortunate that when his dream was about to become an accomplished fact, World War II intervened and the opportunity passed.
Yet those who have visited his home know what a veritable Botanical Garden in miniature filled his compound and what pleasure he derived from taking his friends around, talking of his rare collection of plants and the pets, birds and poultry' as well. This aspect of his interest he put to good use in the school by the care and attention he paid to planting out in well laid garden plots and flower beds cuttings and seeds from his home nurseries-a labour of love he continued for many years till he retired.
It was a fitting tribute to his devotion to the school that he was made Supervisor of the Primary Department during the period before retirement . . Unassuming, quiet, simple in his ways and always genial and friendly he took a personal interest in the boys he taught as well as in those who came to know him in one way or another. A host of grateful pupils as well as many others who came into close contact with this veteran teacher who endeared himself to them by his simplicity and kindliness will long cherish the memory of one who served the school he loved so dearly with such zeal and fervour. May he rest in peace.
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20th April 2009
Ralph Woutersz passed away yesterday. Ralph was ailing for some time and his demise is a sad loss to Wesley OBA (NSW). Ralph was a class mate of mine in the very late 50's. He was a good athlete, excelling in the Hurdles event and represented Wesley at the Public Schools Athletic Meet.
Photo - Wesleyites at the Funeral
Left to Right: Nizar Sapideen, Bill Deutrom, Harris Anthonisz, Mel Mottau, Ernie Algama, Ralph Pereira, Ken Anthonisz
Nizar with Mrs.Woutersz and Son, Andrew
From the Editor: My grateful thanks to Nizar Sapideen for the photos and script
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I noted with sadness the passing of Mr PGR Fernando another one of those famous teachers that served Wesley for more than 25 years with distinction. Many would remember him I am sure as he was an institution in the Junior school for many years. I think he was house master of Lemphers House in the Juniors School .
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The many tributes from his loyal friends
conclusion of Mass for burial at Springvale Botanical Cemetery, Princes Hwy, Springvale. Rosary will be recited in Tobin Brothers Currents of Life Chapel, 505 Princes Hwy, Noble Park (opp. Browns Rd) TONIGHT at 7 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Peter MacCallum Institute. Envelopes will be available at both venues.
Good Bye Nifty (Neville Ludowyke) by Keith de Kretser- Melbourne
A bleak winter’s day greeted mourners as they gathered with the Wesley brotherhood to farewell Neville “Nifty” Ludowyke on his final journey home to his maker. The church began to fill from 10:30 a.m. for the 11 a.m. service of thanksgiving and as expected a large crowd was in attendance to farewell one of life’s nice guys. A free spirited generous guy in every sense of the word to his wife, son, family and friends, Neville was a popular bloke and many were there as he had touched their lives in some small way along life’s journey. The brotherhood of Wesleyites was well represented and sat in the seats next to the choir looking sombre at the loss of a loyal and proud Wesleyite and all wearing the College tie that identified our pedigree the ‘band of double blue”.
The many Wesleyites present were choristers in their day at Wesley and lived up to the Methodist traditions of music and supported the choir in all the hymns singing with gusto. Neville lived life to the fullest and in that symbolic new testament passage of scripture from St Paul’s letter to Timothy, the words rang true …. ”As for me the hour has come, the time is here for me to leave this life. I have done my best; I have fought the good fight. I have run the race; I have run the full distance and kept the faith. …” Older brother Winston in a brief eulogy paid tribute to Neville capturing in words the lovable larrikin and spirit that Neville represented and some of his experiences as a schoolboy at Wesley and later on in life in Sri Lanka and overseas.
At the conclusion of the service, the cortege left for the lawn cemetery where his mortal remains were to be buried. At the request of his wife and son and knowing Neville, possibly his final wish, he wanted his beloved alma mater to feature in the final moments of his journey. As the mourners braved the grey skies, intermittent drizzle and bitterly cold winds all the Wesleyites present, about twenty in all, formed a guard of honour as his coffin was carried to his final resting place. With the final strains of the graveside hymn “Nearer My God to Thee ‘ still ringing in the mourners ears, the old boys began the College Song which was sung in full concluding with the War Cry “Zam, Zam Zacky” which Neville look forward to singing at all old boy gatherings.
Nifty was one of the founding members of the OBU Australia Branch and served on the committee. He was a Wesleyite through and through. If there was anything for Wesley be it fund raising, hosting Old Boys regardless of the era, Nifty was there and would pledge his support. His wife Mignonne and son Trevine were dutifully inculcated about Wesley and in what it was to be a Wesleyite and to be the wife and son of one. The last time he joined the brotherhood to celebrate was at the senior’s lunch in 2008 when struggling to walk due to his illness, he climbed a short flight of steps to partake in the festivities. He would not miss it. Sadly as his condition deteriorated we did not see Nifty at our functions again and when we had that nostalgic re-union when Dr. Nihal Amerasekera visited Melbourne, Nifty could not join us. Nifty supported all the functions of the OBU since inception and he would ensure that at every Double Blue Dinner Dance he would organise at least two tables.
At one dance when he was Social Secretary in our formative years, we had over 450 patrons in attendance. At the end of the night it was the Social Secretary’s duty to organise the clean-up, etc. We searched and searched but could not find Neville who was responsible for co-ordinating this task. After sometime we finally found him being carried out to a waiting car to go home. The dance was a great success and Nifty had celebrated the occasion in fine style and was sadly a bit under the weather. As friends and colleagues gather their thoughts I am sure there will be many fond anecdotes that capture the character of Neville. So as another passionate and loyal Old Wesleyite leaves our midst, we remember Neville with love and treasured memories of happier times.
As the words of that famous old fireside classic Beyond the Sunset remind us, may Neville’s soul rests in peace for evermore beyond the sunset of this earthly life.
Beyond the sunset,
Earth's toiling ended,
O glorious dawning,
beyond the sunset when day is done.
Beyond the sunset,
no clouds will gather,
No storms will threaten,
no fears annoy; O day of gladness,
O day unending,
Beyond the sunset eternal joy!
Beyond the sunset,
a hand will guide me To God the Father whom I adore;
His glorious presence,
His words of welcome,
Will be my portion on that fair shore.
Beyond the sunset,
O glad reunion,
With our dear loved ones who've gone before;
In that fair homeland we'll know no parting,
Beyond the sunset forever more!
A Tribute from a family friend
A dear friend of our families since 1955. Thanks for the fond memories of friendship and laughter, embellished with
a deep spirit of your generosity and love. One of natures gentlemen, a diamond in the dust now lost forever. Your battle in life well fought, the race over. As you play on Elysian fields we will always treasure the priceless legacy of your friendship forever. Deepest sympathies to Mignonne, Trevine and Natalie. Rest in Peace
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Neville Ludowyke remembered by Nihal D Amerasekera - 29th June 2009
I came to know Neville in the boarding as a boy of unfailing courtesy and great charm with a quiet but very real sense of humour. Despite his strong character and husky voice soon won our confidence and affection through his genuine kindness and sympathy. Even at a young age he fought for the needy and the underdog. In spite of his natural reserve he was wonderful company. At school he loved the outdoor pursuits more than the books and tests. Neville joined in the cricket and football in the small park and thrived on the heated banter which was part of the game in the hostel. At school Neville rarely pulled out of an argument but was always reasonable helped by his wit and common sense, which were rare gifts. He was always a loyal and genuine friend. Our mums were friends from their schooldays in Girls High School in Kandy. This gave us something in common and remained friends until he left school to emigrate to Australia. Then we lost contact for two decades and made contact again through my Double Blue International website. Neville was a founder member of the Old Boys Union Australia and remained a loyal supporter in the committee for many years. The passage of years did not diminish his love for his old school and remained a true blue Wesleyite to the very end.
Neville was a keen Rugby player and represented the school in the 1958/59 seasons. He recounted his vivid memories of those years in his article to the Double Blue International
Links to further reading
When I planned to visit Melbourne he wanted me to stay with him but I knew of his poor health. I phoned him 3 weeks prior to his demise and had a long chat reminiscing. In any life there are difficulties and Neville was not immune to these. There were health problems. Despite his disability due to his final illness he had the courage and the dogged determination to lead as normal a life as possible, aided by the devotion of his wife Mignonne. Neither did his sense of humour desert him. To me he will always remain young, seventeen and smiling as when I saw him last on the steps at Wesley. We will not see his cheeky grin ever again. To his family he gave his love and guidance, to his friends his loyalty and to his school much affection. We miss him and give God thanks we knew him. Neville passed away at Box Hill Hospital in Melbourne after an eight year battle with cancer.
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An Appreciation by Nihal D Amerasekera
Praising the quality of his all-too-short life is easy. Making sense of the injustice of his death is harder. No one conquers death. But you can achieve a certain triumph over it. This Robin did, and how he did it is a lesson for us all. The lesson is that it is not the longevity of your life but the intensity of it that counts.
Robin came into my life at school at an extraordinarily young age. He had the same feelings, anxieties and crises as the rest of us. But he had the self-awareness to recognise them and the determination to overcome them. Robin was a charismatic and dashing lad at Wesley with a clear, youthful and incredibly engaging manner. He was a man of sharp mind and yet of much heart. Everyone knows individuals with one or the other of these characteristics but they are seldom combined in the level of quality Robin personified. In the 1950's as a schoolboy he was upto all the pranks. His rascality and naughtiness was his hallmark but he had the remarkable ablity to prevent its escalation into anything serious. Despite the hard talk at times he had a more gentle and thoughtful nature too. He had a natural empathy for the less affluent and the less fortunate at school. We liked him much and his sparkling exuberance was a joy to us all.
Cricket was his passion then and was a good criketer at that, representing the school in the 1st XI for a couple of years, in the early sixties. His exploits on and off the field are legendary and have passed on to cricket folklore at Wesley. It must have been Robin's seemingly bottomless supply of self-belief that made him such a good sportsman.
Robin and I have been friends for 60 years. Although we were separated by many thousand miles have kept in touch with email. When I finally decided to meet my school friends in Melbourne Robin asked me to stay with him, despite his illness. We met on the 19th of March 2009 when the OBUA held a dinner. It was great to see Robin and all my friends. The chubby 'baby' face he had in school was gone. He had aged far more than his years. The lines and furrows in his face were the result of his battle with cancer. I will never forget his hug which nearly broke my ribs. Nothing much seemed to have changed in that score since the schooldays. I felt so grateful he made an effort to see me despite his pain and discomfort. Harmless gossip was exchanged. Our enduring friendship was re-invigorated. We laughed and reminisced late into the night until the pain returned. Robin still remembered the stories and anecdotes which brought us all together at school. Robin had an almost boundless capacity for friendship. He's the most amazing person to be with, no effort at all, and I feel I've known him for years and actually I have.
He didn’t always know he was going to die young. But he lived as if he might. Robin was widely and deeply loved, surrounded by friends in good health and in bad. His own conviviality won him loyalty among others, in whom his jovial modesty brought out the best. He loved a social occasion and the crowded room.
Robin and Glen were great chums at Wesley and also in later life. I am very grateful Glen made time to see me at the dinner in Melbourne. To see them both together again since schooldays was a special treat. Robin was philosophical about the future but was determined to fight his long battle to the very end, and so he did, most valiantly.
Now, all the good we say about Robin doesn't mean he was a Saint. He has an irreverent streak which probably debars him from cannonisation. His range of expression was broad and and his views were often robustly delivered. His essential quality was that he cared about others. Robin really did value his friends and was unstinting in his support for them. Loyalty and dependability are admirable qualities in this changing and competitve world.
Robin left a huge gap in the lives of his family and his many friends, but also left many fond memories. He will be remembered by his school friends for his vitality and sense of humour. He received the respect of all who knew him. Our sympathies go out to Trilby and the sons and also Glen.
Robin passed away without fuss and with great dignity. Wesley lost one of its most contagious and mischievous smiles, and twinkliest of them all.
We will remember Robin - Always
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Riemers I suppose it is easy for me remember "Blubber" Riemers as Robin was affectionately known to all, as the plumpier of two brothers. Robin was a kind lad and in primary school I used to take time off from throwing stones and watch him at a game of cricket, with his class- mates in the small park. I liked to watch him bat and if he was on my stone throwing stopped for as long as he batted. I was a little nuisance and all he needed to do was frown and I would by respect for an older brother look for something else to do. The boys in his class were older than mine and while Tony Musafer, or "Big Baboon", Samahoon Dennis Colin Thome and Kaki Bill Deutrom were "well behaved" Golu Gunasekera and a few others were politely put, not. On the park we learned a few new words, but never one from Robin.
He was the decent, kind type. The Riemers boys were boarders for a while and Glen was the smartly dressed chisel nosed statuette whose sleeves were impeccably "balance" at the elbows, his trousers creased making him look a young Cary Grant. He had in my opinion all that was needed to make him a Hollywood star. In the opinion of many Mount Mary girls too. Robin was a normal as any William we read about in the little hardbacks for schoolboys. His shirts fought to stay out side his trouser tops and his socks slipped into his shoes. He was one of the crowd and a popular boy. As we moved on the politics of the country, rightly I will add were changing. Those of us who knew only English were looking gloomily at the horizon and what the Antipodes or Europe had in store. Who could blame them! The first load of immigrants were at my doorstep - Kotahena, the Harbour the ships and the leaving to settle down. On Fridays of Second Term we heard the team announcements for the Under 14 and Under 16 cricket matches.
On Mondays at General Assembly was all about the results of the games played. The same names kept coming up over and over again. Robin's was one always mentioned. He was a stylish batsman and could have looked to a long and a grand career if his parents had chosen to stay. For four years he shone and then the Riemers left the boarding and were day scholars. I saw Glen and Robin together on the school bus. Glen was ever the aloof. Now a major player in the Ist XI cricket, hockey teams and also in the Rugby XV he never seemed to lose his guard or his nerve nor have time for the indisciplined like me. I could see that Robin was a mite different. He would peep out of the bus at the good looking school girls with a smile and a joke. This was the Galle Road bus that went down to Moratuwa. There was Milroy Jebaraja who was always funny and Robin, Evarade Schoorman in a bunch. Ignoring us completely and we raised hell. When things got out of control there was Robin's glance and a word and things cooled. I do not know if he had plans but after the first year of cricket mostly in the "hot dug out" Robin took leave of Wesley. he was young. I would have liked to see him and Dennis Colin Thome bat together or Russel Ingram and Teddy Campbell. But the politics of the day meant that these youngsters would make people in Australia and England marvel at their artistry. Russell Ingram as we all know met with a tragic death. Teddy went on to Preach and Robin continued to charm the Australians.
He would charm one in particular and that is Trilby. She and the children have our kind thoughts and I want her to know that Robin was a gentleman to the soles of his feet. He was a kind and generous person and never ever tolerated a bully. I know he helped Trevor Gollu and a number of his classmates financially and warmed at my idea that we should be in a Collective to Aid Old Wesleyites who have not got Social Benefits that we have. That meant the one we left behind in Sri Lanka. Robin also shook me into place when I treated an old boy with scorn over a remark he made about a friend. I was seething and poured my heart out in an email. "Stop you ranting and get to the point" he said. Robin you know I did, because I loved and respected you. If I was going to be insulting again, I did not let you know because you must have remarked when you were watching that I am incorrigible. I thank you for the lessons I learned at Wesley, and I thank Wesley for boys like you Robin.
My last few miniutes to you on the phone were too short. I wanted to write you a letter and tell you that you'll live to a 105 because you are a tough bugger. I was told you were in pain. Today I hope you are not and I know that you are at peace. I was there and came back three times, you know that because I told you all about it. I will never forget you telling me to oil the edges of my bat when I was walking to practice. I knew you were joking. I am sure the whole OBU joins me with saying this to you. I ofen used a few of your catch phrases when I was sledging someone. I got a bump on the head for my trouble. You have not gone too far away. Until I lose my memory, you will be on my shoulders in my head and in my heart Blubber.
God Bless you and may you Rest in Everlasting Peace.
A Tribute to Robin Reimers by Lalith CR Wijesinghe
At College Robin was to me , the younger brother of my dear friend Glen. He played for the 1st XI Cricket Team with us at a tender age of fifteen years.This showed what a talented cricketer he was.
Robin and Glen migrated to Australia in 1961 and Wesley lost two cricketers prematurely , who I am sure would have made an even bigger contribution than now.
In spite of the distance my friendship with them never faded, specially because of Robin. He ensured that he kept in touch with his host of friends both in Sri Lanka and other locations. Sri Lanka was close to his heart and he never failed to make his regular trips here. Everytime he visited meeting up with his classmates and colleagues was a high priority.
I recall the occasion he picked us up from the Melbourne International Airport at a most inconvenient hour,the first time we visited Australia. This exemplifies the person Robin was. My wife and I, always used to enjoy Robin & Trilby’s hospitality at their home in Melbourne. The weekend we spent at Glen’s country home in Bonny Doon,with Glen,Robin,Upali ,their wives and Errol is still etched in my memory. We had the most memorable time . Anecdotes from College times together with the spirit that cheers kept us going till 3.00 in the morning. A barbeque the next day where the late Hilary De Vos and wife joined topped it all. Thank you Robin and Glen for the pleasant memories.
Robin was a sincere,reliable and generous friend. They are a rare breed today. He had an exceptional intellect and his writing skills certainly made an impact . I enjoyed reading his emails and the contributions he made to the Old Wesleyite’s web page.
Trilby was Robin's soulmate and constant companion .My wife and I extend our most heartfelt sympathies to Trilby and her family. The Wesley fraternity will miss Robin deeply. I consider myself privileged to have been Robin’s friend.You will be in our hearts always.
Farewell my friend.
From Neville Koch
Hi Trevor, fellow classmates and boys of Wesley,
It is with profound sadness that I received the news of Robin's passing away.As you say, we have all lost a very special friend. For some of us (Robin's classmates in particular) who knew Robin from the early 1950's up to the time he left our shores for the land Down Under, who had the privilege of knowing Robin for 60 years, I believe the pain is even greater. We have lost a most sincere, genuine and devoted friend! We were the guys who enjoyed (or endured) class teachers like Joyce Leembruggen (UKG,1951), Agnes Smith (Std.2A), Iris Blacker (Std.3A), Oliver Swaris (Std.4A), Iris Blacker again and Dulcie Leembruggen (Std.5A), Ivor De Silva (Form 1A, 1956), Edmund Dissanayake (Form 2A, 1957), and Rachel Leembruggen (Form 3A, 1958) - to name a few! Of course, we all enjoyed playing cricket, soccer and hockey together in the small park, where some of us (guys like Robin and others) graduated to playing those games "big time" at the venerated " Campbell Park ." Some of us sat on the boundry lines and cheered our guts out, relishing our victories, sober and sportsman-like in defeat ("taking cool whatever befall"). We enjoyed lots of great fun - and, of course, giving our teachers a hard time! We shared our deepest secrets, our joys, our struggles. We skinned our hearts and skinned our knees together. We were in and out of each other's homes, where we enjoyed eating lamprais and watalappan. We talked about almost everything under the sun - and, of course, about the GIRLS of All Saints, Metho and Lindsay et al (ask William Deutrom about those long "after school" walks from Bambalapitiya to Borella)! He will tell you about those "glorious" days!
Such are the memories (and many more) that we all cherish and treasure (and will do so till we die). We can all profoundly thank God for bringing us together (that was no accident), for what we learnt from each other, and for how, in unique and unimaginable ways, we helped shape each other's lives over the years. In the midst of our grief, we can thank God for Robin - that bright and shining star that impacted and enriched our lives in so many wonderful ways. We will all certainly miss him. I believe he is at peace with his Maker, free from all sickness and pain. And to dear Trilby and family, Glen, Jill and family, Lorraine and I offer our heartfelt condolences. Though so far away, you are all much in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord give you strength and comfort in the difficult days and long, lonely nights ahead. May you know the peace of His presence in the midst of your pain! Regards, Neville.
A Tribute from Ranjit Aaron - From New Zealand
It is with deep regret and deep pain of mind I struggle to write these few words of appreciation. At the sad loss for my dearest and loving class mate & friend, Robin.
We were in contact by via email, untill very recently, when it suddenly faded away.
Robin is one who respected and up held others principals. I always loved his company. Even during the Small interval & Lunch intervals. When they sneaked out to have a punt at Salih's boutique, at the end of Karlshure Gardens. I always accompanied, because, I always loved being in the companyof Robin. Although I never ever smoked during my school school career. Many tried to encourage me to smoke, but not Robin. His words were always respect others principles.
I still remember vividly some of his vocabulary. One that comes to my mind, which he used frequently during his school days. When some one attemped to do some thing beyond them, he said "Card less". yh
He was really one of the most generous guys during my school days. Even when he met me during the School centenary clebration. He inquired, if I had bought a ticket for the dinner, when I said I hadn't bought one he promptley bought two tickets for my wife and I
Although I knew Robin from my very inception at Welsey. Playing House cricket from the age of 14. We came even closer, when the ethnic classes were amalgamated after the JSC.
Playing cricket in the company of Robin, in what ever form. During our lunch breaks or in the small park was always an inspirationI. although I could not make it to the 1st.X1 side, He knew it, thats another chapter. I can write another chapter of his school cricketing prowess, well thats well known to all of us.
I am so thankful, that I was able to meet him during his last visit to Sri lanka in 2006. We had good drink at the OWSC. His parting words were "See you in Ossie"
I know it would be difficult time to console Trilby and the sons and their families at a time like this. But please be assured that Robin will be at Peace with his Creator. May his Soul Rest in Peace.
A letter from Bryan Claessen - From Adelaide
Robin's passing is like losing a brother. I regarded Robin with great affection. I believe that we all, as Wesleyites in particular share in his family's sad loss. I am not feeling the best at the moment but I 'll get over it. Love to all
Bryan Goodbye dear friend! I am privileged to pen these few words on behalf of the many alumni in Australia in a tribute to a great Wesleyite and friend. Robin is the younger brother of Glenn and lived in the shadow of Glenn’s sporting achievements on the field in cricket, athletics and rugby. However Robin was no slouch himself and was an equally talented sportsman. Robin and Glenn with a few other Wesleyites in Melbourne carried the flag of Double Blue with pride at a time when the past pupils of Sri Lankan Schools did not have any associations in Australia. Robin was one of the inaugural members of the OBU Australia Branch when we formed in 1979. My memories of Robin go back to my collection of College magazines of 1959, 1960, 1961 era and the many sporting team photographs where Robin who with cherubic good looks was the baby in the team be it standing in the back row of a cricket photo or with legs crossed on the ground with one of the Christofelsz brothers in a rugby photo. Robin served on the OBU Committee for many years and was instrumental in recruiting new members through his wide network of friends. He was involved in arranging regular cricket matches between Old Boys from Royal, St Thomas’, Trinity and St Benedict’s Colleges OBA’s and displayed his flair with the bat on many occasions. He was also involved with Norman de la Harpe in arranging a Golf challenge against Trinity OBA which continues to this day. Robin was a proud and loyal Wesleyite and supported the many OBU functions. At Committee, Robin provided a dignified balance to the debate and advice which gave perspective to the many issues the committee had to deal with. His love for Sri Lanka and Wesley combined saw Robin make many trips back to Sri Lanka. In the spirit of goodwill and support he graciously offered to act as the ambassador for the OBU Australia Branch in discussions with the College and alumni groups. Robin was always ready to help the College in its hour of need and on many occasions answered Wesley’s call. His love for cricket and support for the work of the Cricket Development Committee at Wesley are well documented. However his generosity was not limited to helping the school but Old Wesleyites in distress. His concern for their well-being was not restricted to a mere donation but organizing a collection of funds, regularly contacting the person in need and monitoring their progress. He did not seek acknowledgement for these generous deeds of kindness but it demonstrated his concern and commitment to help others who were less fortunate than himself. Robin represented a lot of those old world values and charm that we miss today. Not big in stature but of solid character, decent and forthright, a loyal and trusted friend and above all a gentleman who enjoyed the simple things in life without much fuss and ado. These qualities earned the respect of many. His engaging presence and friendly demeanour endeared him not only to his peers but to Old Boys of all age groups (Senior and Junior to him) who had the opportunity to meet him and share fond memories of those halcyon days of our youth at Karlsruhe and Campbell Park. Photo - Three generations of Reimers He again bravely gathered up the courage and made an appearance at the dinner we held for Dr Nihal Amerasekera in March this year in Melbourne to the delight of everyone. However his stay with us that evening was short as the pain and his fragile health forced him to retire early. The photo of Robin circulated at the time from the function shows how his physical appearance had declined rapidly in recent months. I last saw Robin just about a month to this day when I dropped in to see him at his home and spent about an hour with him and his wife Trilby. I took him some ulundu vadais and sambol and though he had lost his appetite, he enjoyed two vadais for his lunch in my presence. He was lucid and we chatted about the changes happening at Wesley under the stewardship of the new Principal and the well being of other Old Boys both in Australia and overseas. Tiredness has prevented him from reading his emails and in recent months communication via the internet diminished. As usual his fervent wish was that Wesley would move forward in a new direction under Dr Shanthi McClelland’s stewardship and that he would restore some of her standards and standing in the community. As I said good bye I knew it would be the last time I would possibly see him and it was difficult to remain composed as we made eye contact for the last time. A shadow of his former self he was still gracious and dignified as he endured the pain and uncertainty of the future. So as friends and the brotherhood of Wesleyites prepare to farewell Robin on Friday this week, we remember him with fondness, the happy times we shared,, his inspirational and courageous fight against cancer and above all what Robin stood for. He endured the final days in a lot of pain and at last his weary soul may rest in peace. To his wife Trilby, sons Stuart and Tristan and their families, brother Glenn and family and Mrs Reimers Senior, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We give thanks to God for the love and care demonstrated by Trilby and the boys as they cared for Robin and made his final days comfortable in the warmth and comfort of his home rather than in a hospital. May God’s divine providence grant them the courage and strength in the days ahead as they grieve over the loss of their dear one, truly one of life’s ultimate gentlemen. Bless them Lord we pray. So from all of us “Good Bye dear friend” till we meet again on that heavenly shore.
I have sent Shanti via Sajeeka a list of many names of old Wesleites especially from my time. It was a list I had included in a poem I once wrote titled "To A Special Friend" that I had hoped to frame for inclusion in my den. As a matter of interest I made a desk for my den on which I inscribed the names of all my school mates that I could remember. It was a good way of constantly remembering friends. My one big regret about my school days is that I did not think of keeping photos of my class mates etc. Names come to mind and I am unable to put faces to them and I meet others and it is difficult to recognize them. It will be nice if the present youngsters are encouraged to keep such records.
They say that life at times can be cruel and in the space of one week to be exact, the news reached the alumni community that loyal Old Wesleyite Robin Reimers had slipped away from this earthly life after valiantly fighting his cancer. Whilst we were all aware that his time was near, it is a difficult time for all of us and particularly the batch of 1960 - 1962 who paid their last respects to batch mate Neville Ludowyke only a few days earlier. The final days were difficult and Robin’s plea has been finally answered:
Lord no longer will I roam
Here I fix my habitation
In thy sheltering love at home.
He was liked by all who knew him and lived up to the accolade of being one of life’s “nice guys”. In cricket parlance he was an all rounder and a player you would pick in your team. Robin took up the fight against cancer with a positive and courageous mindset and continued to live life to the best of his ability as this insidious disease took hold of him. Trevor Collette, Rodney de Kretser, George Robertson and I with our partners, along with Trilby and Robin would go away for the weekend in recent years and after Robin was first diagnosed with cancer. Even though he had some discomfort at times and was in recovery, he fought his battle privately and never did he seek our sympathy, complain about his lot in life but carried on with a positive outlook. His love for Sri Lanka and Wesley slotted into his final plans and with his whole family he visited Lanka not long ago for the last time to say goodbye to his friends and pay his last respects to the land of his birth and the school that he loved. His fierce loyalty and love of his friends saw him put aside his own adversity and pain to fly up to Brisbane to support Bill Deutrom in his hour of need when Bill’s wife passed away last year. 
they walk beside us every day, unseen, unheard, but always near,
still loved, still missed and very dear.
A friend we love remains with us for love itself lives on,
and cherished memories never fade away because a loved one's gone.
Those we love can never be more than a thought apart,
for as long as there is memory, they’ll live on in our heart.My Memories of Robin Reimers by Bill Deutrom
Photo of Bill and Maureen Deutrom taken during the 125th Anniversary celebrations
My memories of Robin Reimers go back many years, in fact to 1949 when we were both in the College Kindergarten, along with Trevor Collette and Robin Perera. All of us were members of a mini band, led by Robin Perera with the big drum, followed by the rest of the class with triangles and an assortment of odd instruments.; A distant but vivid memory. In those early years Robin Reimers progressed to be one of the leaders and he would captain either the English or Australian team with Trevor Collette being the other captain. These were great years for young Wesleyites, with sport being our main focus. I would always look up to Robin as he was a natural sportsman and a born leader. He represented College in the 1st X1 at a very young age, playing in D.Koddituwakku’s side in 1961. If he had not migrated to Australia he would have captained Wesley.
He represented Wesley in Rugby, Hockey and Athletics and was a fine all round sportsman. Robin was a well behaved student, avoiding the wrath of teachers unlike his close mates Rodney (Errol) Smith and Upali Perera who were terrors in College! Coming to Australia at an early age generally meant that you lost contact with your childhood friends. However thankfully due to the very active Old Boys Union in Melbourne, of which Robin was a founding member, we were able to make contact in the early 90’s and our friendship was renewed and strengthened. Maureen and I were fortunate to have been able to meet with Trilby and Robin on many occasions at Brookfield, Melbourne and Sri Lanka.
In SL during the 125th Celebrations we went to Nuwara Eliya where the girls visited an orphanage with gifts, while Robin and I attempted to master the golf course without much luck. That was a really great trip with many memories as the two long suffering Wesley wives had to put up with the same College yarns which had been recounted many a time. Maureen was very fond of Trilby and Robin, and both of us Wesleyites were blessed with our wives. Robin approached the challenge of his illness with fortitude and courage. His friendship was demonstrated to me, when despite his illness he came to Brisbane to be with me and supported me at Maureen’s funeral. When I saw him at the church I was amazed and humbled that he had made the journey.
I will always be grateful for his caring nature and I am terribly sad that towards the end we were reduced to an occasional phone call, as I understood that constant visits were too exhausting as the illness advanced. Robin was a friend who could be counted on for sound advice and with his excellent sense of humour had the ability to gently chide you without being offensive. He was a totally committed Wesleyite and even though he was very ill arranged to collect funds from ex-cricketers to assists the Wesley Cricket Committee with their work. All who knew or came into contact with Robin have been privileged to know a real gentleman in every sense of the word. Trilby has done a remarkable job to make his life comfortable over the last few years.
Robin never gave up hope but more recently he realised the battle was almost over. We will miss him dearly and I am sure he and Maureen will share a chuckle as we continue our struggle down here. Our thoughts and prayers are with Trilby, and sons Stuart and Tristan and his brother Glen who will be hurting terribly. Robin knew that he was surrounded by a wonderful family, a caring wife and friends who would always remember him with love. The Wesley flag at College is at half mast today, Tuesday 7th July, remembering and honouring a very special Wesleyite. Rest in peace my friend and God Bless you and your family.
Rays of sunshine filtered through the gathering grey clouds on this cold winter’s day as mourners gathered to farewell a shining star – Robin Reimers. The Wesley boys looking resplendent in their dark suits and College ties had turned out in numbers covering a broad age group as Robin was well loved by all who knew him. In a simple service of thanksgiving, symbolic of the simple lifestyle of the man, the family and friends gathered to farewell one of life’s gentleman. The eulogy was given by his niece Karen (Glenn’s daughter) and his two sons Stuart and Tristan who captured in words the many great attributes of Robin and what he stood for. These glowing tributes were punctuated by anecdotes of his life that highlighted many of these admirable traits. There was not a dry eye among the alumni as we remembered him at this time and our experiences.
The Wesley boys led the singing, Trevor Collette read one the lessons and I led the congregation in prayers for the faithful. After the committal, it was Robin’s request that as his mortal remains were carried out of the church it should be done to that favourite tune Vaya Condios. The words aptly changed to “Vaya Condios dear Robin, Vaya Condios my friend”. Glenn, his sons Stuart and Tristan and long time friend Harold Juriansz were pall bearers as they carried his coffin to the hearse through a guard of honour by the Wesleyites. The cortege then left for the crematorium where after prayers his remains were taken away to the strains of the College song and war cry. A sad ending and lasting memories of a treasured friend and a loyal old boy of Wesley. We then all adjourned to the church hall where the family and friends had gathered for afternoon tea and a wake in his memory.
At the conclusion once again it was Robin’s wish that his close friends return to his home and celebrate his life rather than mourn his loss. This is what Robin loved most where he would gather his friends and share a wonderful time of fellowship. Many of us will recall fondly the times at the OWSC and on his many visits to SL and at his home such gatherings and in a way it was a fitting way to celebrate his life. I had planned a small wake for the Wesleyites and their partners at home with a dinner and we left Robin’s home and adjourned to my place where we continued to celebrate his life and remembered him fondly. Though absent he was with us in spirit for this is what he would have wanted. We were delighted that Glenn and Jill joined us as the Wesley boys who were close friends reminisced and came to terms with our sad loss. It was almost the midnight hour when wearily we said our good byes after a long day knowing that our dear friend Robin was at last resting in peace and watching over us. It concluded one of the toughest weeks on our emotions with the loss of our two dear friends Neville and Robin.
A final note on behalf of the family. It has been an overwhelming outpouring of grief from the alumni around the world in phone calls, messages of sympathy, emails and written tributes. It is indicative of the high regard and respect they had for Robin and his popularity. Trilby, Stuart, Tristan Glenn and families are deeply appreciative and touched by your expressions of sympathy and prayers at this time as they mourn their loss.
Keith de Kretser, Melbourne
When Dad was fighting his battle with cancer I would often find myself questioning the fairness of the situation. I did this right up until the last days of his life and had managed to convince myself I had every right to ask questions. The questions of course would invariably revolve around why God has chosen this path for Dad and our family. Knowing how hard my Dad had worked how was it fair that my dad will never get to enjoy his retirement with my mum? Why won’t they get to celebrate their 40th wedding anniversary next year? How is it fair that dad will never get to see two of his grandchildren take their first steps? Why have I been denied the opportunity to enjoy another round of golf with my dad and hear him sledge me about my inabilities to sink putts when money was involved? Why wont dad be there to see my brother and I take on the responsibilities and challenges parenthood will throw at us?
Clearly no one can answer the questions but Id still ask them struggling to come up with any meaningful answers. After dads passing I thought about how as a family are we ever going to move on without him there and I started to think about what dad would be doing now and what plans God has for him to see over us… As most of you will know, Dad enjoyed life and was never the type of person who missed out on making the most of the time he spent with friends and family. With that in mind I pictured dad starting his day at the Wesley College Sports Club in preparation for the morning cricket match between Royal and Wesley with a glass of Johnny Walker Blue close by to kick start the day and a plate of devilled squid within reach for breakfast. After cheering on the Wesley XI boys to a win I can imagine my dad making his way to Black Rock to enjoy the moment where his grandson Jed takes his first steps as a child with a grin on his face as big as the plate of rice and curry he was about to devour for his lunch. After enjoying Jeds achievement he’d then be off to Lords with Neville Lydowyke to watch Sangakara smash the poms all over the oval or maybe see Murali take his 1000th test wicket. It would then make complete sense for my dad to come to thinking that any day that started at the Wesley Sports Club must finish there as well. A glass of scotch in one hand surrounded by his mates reminiscing about the past with probably some country music blaring in the background would cap off a pretty good day. The day encompasses everything important to dad; enjoying family, valuing friendships, rice and curry, Sri Lanka, scotch and good music (although it has to be said dads taste in music has always been questionable) The thought of dad having a day like the one Ive just described makes the answers to the questions seem not that important anymore.
What was important to dad was his family and friends, his family was his life and he valued his friendships like no one else I know and am ever likely to know. His commitment to his family was typified when Jed was born. Dad had spent a week at Cabrini hospital with terrible stomach ulcers leading up to Jed’s birth. Dad was discharged from hospital on the 20th of Jan and Jed was born at Cabrini the next day. Resting after surgery was never an option for dad, in fact he was the first family member to greet me with Jed at Cabrini. When he’s old enough it’s a moment I will take great pleasure in telling Jed about. The moment was a symbolic one a moment that no words can describe and a moment Jed and I will treasure forever.
On behalf of my brother and I, we would like to thank Mum's employer, Monash University and in particular her Managers, Robyn Wight and Karen Allsop who were instrumental in letting her use her leave entitlements to spend the last 3 months of Dad's life caring for him at home. The time Mum and Dad got to spend during this time was invaluable and ensured Dads wishes to pass away at home were fulfilled.
Over the past 7 years dad has worked tirelessly on completing our family tree and I know it would mean a lot to him if you could all take the time to visit the link that is printed on the last page of the service book. He worked tirelessly on it and even managed to convince mum to let him go to Sri Lanka to research it. I’m pretty sure though Mum knew his best work on the trip was done at the Wesley Sports Club though.
Dad you were never the type to admit something like this but take it from me, you were and always will be the best member of the Reimers Tree by a long long way.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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By Mr. D.F (Fred) Abeysekera
The warmth and generosity kindled by his friendship, will live on.
On reflecting on Robin’s life, I recall a poem taught to us in the Upper Sixth Form by that great English Teacher, C.R. Hensman – on “Buffalo Bill”. Though dead, the poet, E.E. Cummings, recalls the athletic prowess of the man -
Just like that!
Jesus –
He was a handsome man!”
Robin’s prowess as a sportsman is well known. He was, perhaps, the youngest player to don the prestigious Wesley Cricket blazer, at the tender age of 13.
Brian Claessen was very young as well when he made the grade. Perhaps, he was fourteen or fifteen at the time.
Robin was also one of that great pool of 125 – representing age tiers ranging from under 10 to under 19; the Second Eleven and consequently, Wesley’s magnificent First eleven at the time – in which team his elder Brother, Glenn, excelled (1957 – 60)
Our Teacher-Student relationship which commenced when I was Master -in-charge of Hockey at Wesley blossomed and matured, over the years, to one of friendship and camaraderie – with Trilby, just as Jill Reimers did – identifying herself totally and joyfully, with the Double Blue fraternity – completely immersed in the spirit of it.
We spent delightful evenings together in the company of Upali and Charmaine Perera, Maurice and Jean Mortier, Norman and Helen de La Harpe (Norman was my classmate at Wesley) and Glenn and Jill; with my son, Dushy, and hiw wife, Leonie, joining in.
On each of these occasions, we re-lived the happy memories of our days at Wesley with thunderous laughter and bon homie! The snippets of our school boy mischief (such as Norman switching the Sulphuric Acid label with an Alkali, in the Physics Laboratory, and the dire consequences this had on our Physics teacher!) never losing its savour, though repeated a hundred times – “the suspension of disbelief”, as Professor E.F.C. Ludowyk taught us!
Robin’s love for Sri Lanka – his boyhood home – never waned. It was with an immense sense of joy that he visited his beloved island in the sun – a land he loved, dearly, and of which, he was proud. Trilby was always with him, on these happy occasions.
He travelled extensively, re-kindling sweet memories of his boyhood home – he saw the serenity and beauty of Sri Lanka’s copper beaches – warm and enticing, as old as when time began! The waves beating on the shore – the blue and aquamarine seas – the fisherman coming in their catamarans, with their catch...... the cool, crisp air of the salubrious mountains – the beauty of Sri Lanka’s rivers, lakes, streams and waterfalls; of forests and wild life – the graceful leopard, the splendour of the peacock in all it’s glory.... the rainbow trout that tippled in the streams of Horton Plains....
He was “one with the people” in all his travels. He used to tell me of his father’s love of the country and its rural folk, in particular – and this love and concern Robin carried in his heart – a love for his people – Sri Lankans, at all times.
I recall with joy the happy weekend we spent together in Robin’s holiday cottage off the beaten track in Melbourne – located by the sea. Like children we joyously collected sea shells amidst much frolic and laughter. My Grandson Dwayne, thrilled by the myriad sea shells scattered on the beach...Harold Juriansz, and his wife Charmaine, were with us, as well contributing in no mean measure to the treasure trove of ‘Wesley Tales of Yore’!
Trilby, Stuart and Tristan, Glenn, Jill and Karen will gain strength from the fact that Robin’s courageous life, despite all odds, was filled with the mirth of laughter; of love and concern for others, at all times.
This is how we shall remember him.
May flights of angels sing him to his rest
Fred Abeyesekera
24 Magnotta road
Markham
Toronto L6C 2VA
Canada
12/07/2009
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In Memoriam - Dr. Thomas Louis De Z Adhihetty B.A. (Hons.), M.A. (Cantab) Ph.D
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A Tribute to Louis By Bryan Claessen
Carol very promptly sent Lisbeth a message expressing our sorrow and our earnest prayers. Now I must, however, with due formality and great sincerity extend our deepest sympathies to Lisbeth, Shakuntala, Arjuna and their respective families and place on record our feelings of grief and despondency, shared by so many Wesleyites, young and old living in Sri Lanka and around the world. We mourn the loss of an outstanding person. A talented sportsman, a man intensely devoted to his family and a caring friend. The impact of Lou’s life on all of us is clearly demonstrated by the numerous messages conveyed on the internet alone.
It is true that we cannot share the burden of grief with Lou’s family as it will not lessen their very deep and personal feelings of loss. However, we as “Wesleyites” take great comfort by joining together and sharing our thoughts and our memories of Lou. To me there is that momentary easing of pain when I begin to think of the days Lou and Lisbeth spent with us some ten years ago, at our home in Tailem Bend in South Australia. I am sure Lou enjoyed our farm animals, the country solitude and the friends he made in our local community.
Lou and I, both enjoyed the stories and yarns we spun to one another of those magic and exciting days at school. First there was the 440 yard relay in the inter-house championships. Lou and I were in Hillard house. I had participated in athletics as a very young lad but I elected to stick to Cricket exclusively. This caused one of the teachers to give me a rather hard time hoping to get me to participate in the School Athletic Meet for Hillard House. It made me more stubborn and as a result I was not seen running as an athlete for several years and until I became the house captain when I felt obliged to help out. In the 440 yard race I received the baton with all the others about 50 yards or more in front of me. I shot out like a bullet doing what would have been a 100 yard dash to overtake some. I soon got pumped out and I began to stride in a daze and when I reached Lou, neck and neck with the front runner. Lou did the rest with customary elegance to earn 3 points for Hillard by coming first.
At that same meet I also represented Hillard in the high jump. I was a short stump but I had a bit of spring in my jump that got me up a fair way. The stage was now set and there were three left. The bar was raised and Hussain ( Another magnificent athlete) took the first jump and knocked down the bar. Lou was next and he did the same. I was last in line and I cleared the bar by over 6 inches according to a jubilant Mr C.J. Thamotheram, who insisted that I’d win hands down. Lou and Hussian finally cleared the height and the bar was raised once more. Lou and Hussain cleared the new height with no more than a centimetre to spare. With my first jump my foot hit the bar; with the second I hit it with my waist and in the third I brought it down with my head. I was indeed lucky that I didn’t go completely under it. The first on the scene to console me was Lou. With his arm around me he said “” You did well Bryan because you are assured of one point for being third. Lou’s words were certainly comforting but it didn’t take away the sense of embarrassment. Lou took the honours according to my recollection and Hussain naturally took second place.
In Cricket I had the record at the time of scoring five centuries for Wesley. Not much later Lou equalled that and I was pleased to share the record with him which was finally broken by Danesh Dissanayake. Lou was one of the great all- rounders produce by Wesley. He was an elegant batsman, a bowler who was comfortable bowling fast or switching to spin and he was a superb fielder in any position.
One thing I could never understand about Lou was his ability at soccer to move his upper body to the right or left and run in the opposite direction to leave his opponent flat- footed. That used to really intrigue me.
It is evident that our lives were closely linked together through sports and our years at Wesley College. The most dominant aspect of our friendship over the years has undoubtedly been Lou’s very caring nature. Lou very regularly telephoned me from Switzerland simply to keep in touch and we both kept in touch by letters exchanged quite regularly.
Lou’s approach towards all “old Boys” of Wesley College was not limited to just a few, because he regularly kept in contact with many, living in many parts of the world
I could go on and on telling stories that Lou and I shared with great joy during our brief meeting in Tailem Bend, ten years ago. It is however time for me to bring this my final tribute to my dear friend Lou to a close with a poem I wrote some years ago titled “A Journey’s End” and I’d like to share it with all “Wesleyites”. I end this Tribute to Lou with the words of the Poet Thomas Gray:
Lou, will not be in his usual places from now on. We all as brother’s of Wesley College shall dearly miss him and we shall never, ever forget him.
It is with very deep and overwhelming sadness that I received news of the passing of my dear friend “Lou”, whilst I was in Hospital in Adelaide with a severe chest infection. I had great difficulty breathing at the time and the news of Lou’s death, which reached my wife Carol via Warrick de Kretszer didn’t help my condition much. At the same time it made me frustrated at my own inability to respond quickly and effectively by assuring Lisbeth of our support at this very difficult time. It is with continuing difficulty that I now embark upon a simple tribute to the caring friend that Lou indeed was to me and to all “Wesleyites”.
Lou as we all know, was a talented sportsman and he did well in everything he undertook. He played, Cricket and Hockey and Soccer . He was good at Volley Ball and Badminton. In Athletics he was absolutely outstanding and in terms of athletics a couple of stories come readily to my mind.
Death, so inevitable.
We like the bright flowers of the field
Must bloom and we must all then yield.
Should we train ourselves to deal
With such loss and not feel?
Do we now search our minds
For answers of more logical kinds?
For the departed we weep.
Should we grieve so very deep?
Is there no faith to shed a tear,
For one that is to us so dear?
There is no faith diminished,
To cry when life is finished.
There was a lessen to be seen
When “He wept”.
The Son of God – The Nazarene.
Along the heath and near his favourite tree;
Another came; nor yet beside the rill,
Nor up the lawn, nor at the wood was he.”
As we all know, Lou was a devout Christian. An ardent and faithful follower of that great teacher of Galilee. We may take great comfort in the knowledge that Lou is now safely in the arms of his Lord and Master.
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Lou Adhihetty – An Icon of Wesley has faded away By Peter Casiechetty
One like me should be forgiven for thinking of Lou Adhihetty as an immortal. Oh yes, for many of these years I never thought people like him could be taken away, but he has gone and by that I mean his mortal remains will soon be but dust and a large looming gap will be left in the lives of people all around the world and “more larger and more looming” in the lives of the Boys of Wesley young and old, past and present.
It was two years ago, at the Aigburth cricket grounds in Liverpool, I watched Sussex and Lancashire battle it out while sitting next to a white haired gentleman with a posh accent. He had been at Cambridge he told me and knew a Sri Lankan – Dr. Lou Adhihetty!
I went through the whole story about Lou’s records at Wesley College and conveniently slipped in that I was even lucky to be able to torment the great man with my off spin in the 1960s when he skippered the Old Boys XI in the founder’s day match. I left out about the time he was our PT master while on a summer vacation from Cambridge University because I was otherwise a source of his torment. The man introduced himself as a clergyman and in my mind some things are best left unsaid.
In the late 80’s in Paris I wore a sweater with the Wesley College double blues while the rest of my team sported the Standard Cricket and Athletic Club’s red and black striped woollies! Up walks a man and asks me why I was dressed differently and I replied, “because I am a Wesleyite and these are my colours!” David Barmes was a friend of Lou’s and this should indicate that I was living in a very small world! David and I became close friends for ten minutes and then I tormented his team while they batted! Dugal Jansz also a Wesley vice captain in the 1980s turned out for the same team - Geneva CC of Switzerland in the 1990s.
But my hero-worshipping the Adihetties, the Fuards and the Claessens took root in my father’s love for Wesley and the game of cricket. I learned about these people along with the stories from the classmate of another great, Mahadevan Sathasivam and the cousin of Ashley Casie Chetty a former Wesley wicketkeeper. Dad took me to the Wesley – St Peter’s match in 1955. In between the icy chocks that often made me sick, I watched two of the best schoolboy teams battle it out. Lou got a ton I think and so did Clive Inman! Samsudeen and Abu Fuard, Maxi de Silva, Harold Juriansz, and the youngest of the Claessens, a left armer, the late Herman made the side a stronger team than most club XI s. This was in keeping with the golden age of Wesley College where the academics and the sportsmen excelled under Cedric Orloff later Lou’s mentor.
But Lou like all the great sportsmen of Wesley in those years was available when advice was needed. He was as down to earth as other greats who walked the corridors of the school. As primary school boys we were seated closest to the senior prefects who stood at the second door in Assembly times. We were many to gape with open mouths at Lou or Ansar and want to imitate their every gesture. Even right-handers switched over to batting left so they thought they looked like Lou. We heard that he was also a brilliant student and we’d all liked to have been brilliant students and we dreamed on, till it was our turn to don the whites and wear the blazer. It was then that I realised that I would never be a Lou Adhihetty in sports or in studies. Millfield College, Cambridge University, ICI, Switzerland news of Lou always filtered back. The good news and now the bad.
This monumental old boy will be among the very few others who will never be forgotten for their sportsmanship, their academic ability and their leadership. I would advocate a change of us naming buildings after heads of the school who dragged the school into the decadent doldrums it is in today. If all and sundry could be treated like this people like Lou Adhihetty deserve to be put on a much higher pedestal – for he is one of the many true Wesleyites who would have moved mountains to uplift his old school and ours.
Lou to you, true old Wesley a giant among men, I will mourn you as long as I live.
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Former Wesley cricketer Lou Adhihetty no more By Sharm de Alwis
Dr Lou Adhihetty died in Switzerland on Wednesday. He served God and Wesley almost in equal measure. Lou was one of the finest cricketers produced by Wesley College which has had the distinction of producing M.K. Albert, the Gunasekeras, Mahadevan Sathasivam, Stanley Jayasekera, Bertram Henderling, Edmund Dissanayake, Abu Fuard and the Claessen brothers. In a period when Wesley played only six inter-school cricket matches, the 50s were, certainly the best years but 1956 was when they struck the purple patch. 1955 and '56 were considered by scribes the 'Lou Adhihetty years' even though the team he captained to be undefeated inter-school champions in 1956 had accomplished batsmen in brother Vincent Adhihetty, Patrick Schokman and Neil Gallagher; M. Samsudeen of the low trajectory as the opening bowler and a plethora of all-rounders in Lou, himself, Bryan Claessen and his brother Herman, Abu Fuad and his brother Ansar in the fore-front. Lou scored three centuries in 1956 out of the six games the school angaged in and scribes reported they had never seen a better batsman than Lou in the Wesley team. 1956 was the year in which the country's schools showcased the best batsmen - Ronnie Reid and Michael Tissera of STC; Lorensz Pereira and Brendon Gunaratne of Royal; Malsiri Kurukulauriya and Nimal Maralanda of Trinity and W.Premaratne with Ranjith Doranagama of St Anthony's being those who are within my memory. On leaving school, Lou entered Cambridge University and obtained his BA [Hons] and MA [Cantab] PhD. and returned to serve as Wesley's Principal from 1985 to '88. He also served as Director of the Asian Christian Service in Vietnam and as President of the Swiss Sri Lankan Association based in Switzerland. Lou leaves behind his wife, Lisbeth, daughter Sakunthala and son Arjuna.
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Lou Adhihetty - An appreciation by Edmund Dissanayake
Former Wesley Principal Dr. Lou Adhihetty is no more News has been received of the passing away of former Wesley College Principal Dr. Lou Adhihetty, in Switzerland. Dr. Adhihetty was Principal of Wesley from 1985-1988. He was a wizard at sports. He captained the Wesley cricket team in 1955 and 1956 and also the hockey, athletics and soccer teams. Together with Bryan Claessen he held the record of having scored the highest number of centuries, namely four, until it was broken by Dhanesh Dissanayake in 1989 when he scored 5. To set the record straight, in 1991, Roshan David equaled 5 centuries. However it is Darshika Jayakody who holds the record of scoring 8 centuries, which he completed in 1998. While at Cambridge University, Lou obtained his Hockey Blue, being the first Sri Lankan to do so. While at Cambridge, Lou met his partner in life, Lisbeth. She was a tower of strength to Lou. While at Wesley, Lou taught German and English. Lou had two brothers, Vincent and Arnold. The latter captained Richmond in 1947, while the former, Vincent, was a useful cricketer, who was popularly known, even by the Principal Cedric Orloff, as ‘Gal Thoppi.’ Lou’s sister Malini was also an outstanding athlete at Methodist College. The Adhihetty family was well known to me. I can quote several interesting incidents, but this is not the occasion! Bertie Adhihetty was Superintendent of Prisons, and when he served in Jaffna, the numerous anecdotes connected, make very interesting reading. In a way, Lou’s rise to stardom happened quite accidentally. The final senior House cricket match was played on the Prison Grounds, bordering where Lou lived. In my capacity as captain, I asked Lou, then only 12, to don pads and proceed to bat as last man. He clobbered the bowling, and we won comfortably.
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Wesley’s sporting legend Dr. Lou Adhihetty By Edmund Dissanayake
The funeral of former Wesley College, Colombo, Principal Dr. Lou Adhihetty BA (Hons) (Cantab) Ph.D was held in Switzerland on 10 August.While at Wesley, Lou captained the school at cricket, hockey, athletics and soccer, winning colours in all. 1955 and 1956 were glorious years for Wesley sport.
While in England, Lou captained Millfield College. He won his Hockey Blue at Cambridge University, being the first Sri Lankan to do so. His National Cap in hockey was won at the Asian Games in Djakarta in 1962.
For want of space, this article will refer to events not published earlier in connection with Lou.When Harold Nonis was Principal of Wesley, (1957-61), there was on the teaching staff five former cricket captains of Wesley. Nonis 1921, Derryck Mack 1950 and ‘51, Adhihetty 1955 and 1956, Lalith Wijesinghe 1962 and yours truly, 1946 and 1947.
The 1956 match against Trinity was played at Campbell Park. Finally, Wesley were left with 12 minutes to score 49 for victory. Normally, only four overs could be bowled. But Trinity wasted no time in field placing and changing after each over, and went on to bowl as many as six overs. The three bowlers conceded 47 runs while there were wides. Thus Wesley were victorious. The splendid sportsmanship displayed by Trinty is an object lesson to all schools.
Lou, as captain, had an array of top rate bowlers. He was feared as a demon bowler, together with Abu Fuard, M. N. Samsudeen, Herman Claessen, B. Buell and Warwick de Kretser and often mincemeat was made of the opposition.Soon after the Trinity match, Herman, youngest brother of Radley and Bryan, passed away after meeting with a motorcycle accident.
Victories against Royal and St. Peter’s followed. Wesley were fortunate in having several coaches who served as honorary coaches.
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A Tribute to a friend - Lou Adhihetty by Nihal D Amerasekera
As we think of Lou today we are naturally shocked by the suddenness of his death and feel a deep and genuine loss.
I first came across Lou when he captained the school cricket team in 1956. That was a remarkable year for Lou, his team and the school. Wesley were unbeaten. His dazzling stroke play, aided by seemingly effortless timing, brought him 4 brilliant centuries. As a fast bowler he was an aggressive and whole-hearted performer and took many wickets to lead the side in great style and glory. Lou is still considered one of the most brilliant all rounders in the school's history. His photo appeared in the back pages of the popular newspapers week after week and became a household name in Ceylon. His fame that year grew immensely and reflected on the school and its many students. Lou played soccer and hockey with equal panache. He was a fine athlete. Despite his many achievements at Wesley he kept his feet firmly on the ground and his modesty and wisdom shone through. Softly spoken and unfailingly courteous to everyone on and off the field, he will be remembered as an outstanding cricketer, a thoughtful leader and one of the game's true gentlemen. Those wonderful times in a peaceful Ceylon left lasting memories.
Lou wrote in one of his emails: ........... Thanks for your e-mail. WE MUST KEEP IN TOUCH !
You recollect my sports achievements BUT YOU DO NOT KNOW THAT BECAUSE OF SINHALA LANGUAGE (WHICH WAS COMPULSORY IN MY TIME - 1954 - 56), I took 3 years to pass my SSC !!!...........................In fact, I applied to join the Police as a Sub-inspector and was selected to commence training in 1957 !!! My parents insisted that I should study - I HAD THE GUTS AND CHEEK to tell THEN SEND ME TO THE UK !!!
Lou left school end of 1957 to complete his education at a British Public School called Millfield. The School offered him a £300/annum scholarship. It is a school famous for its sports. Ian Botham played and studied there. Lou made best use of its facilities and excelled in sports and studies. He got the grades to complete his University education at Cambridge where he read Chemistry and proceeded to a Doctorate in Philosophy. He became the first Ceylonese Hockey Blue at Cambridge.
I came across Lou for the 2nd time when he joined the staff of the school briefly in 1960/61 teaching us chemistry in the 6th form. He was a dedicated teacher and was a great asset to the school. Despite his mild manner he was a strong character and a fine leader. Teaching was then a temporary arrangement and he left the country to work and live in Switzerland. Lou returned to Wesley College again in 1985 as its Principal whence he remained until 1988. As a Principal he inspired his students with his patient care and lovely personality. He wanted to make the school more humane, improve the boys' social behaviour, their dress and discipline, and give them a broader, all-round education. His knowledge and huge range of interests was a gift he imparted most generously to his youthful students.
Lou searched tirelessly for funds for his school, raising money from Old Boys, businessmen and other supporters, leaving the school thriving and independent. Much was achieved during his tenure but he never made a fuss about his achievements. The quality of his talk, responsiveness and charm were undiminished whatever the conditions in which he found himself. Although many appreciated his scholarship, generosity and kind ways it had implications. Sadly a small band of rebel old boys prevented him from doing his duty for the school he loved so dearly. Lou regretted this more than we did. I wish the Methodist Church gave him more support during those troubled times. Had events been otherwise Wesley would be a grander and a more stable school today. Lou was never bitter of this whole episode but much saddened. On the contrary, he seemed studiously determined to be as uncontroversial and understanding as possible. When Wesley's history is written this would remain as a blemish on the management and a handful of old boys, in the years to come.
He returned to an idyllic life once again in Zurich, Switzerland with his family but remained close to Wesley and its many supporters. Although he kept a low profile whenever funds were needed you could count on Lou who contributed generously. Beyond all that, he contrived to find time for a lifelong passion for sports, and cricket in particular, where he remained a member of the MCC with access to the Lords Cricket Grounds for all the matches, until his untimely demise.
Lou came into my life for the last and final spell in the 1990’s when he contributed articles for the Double Blue International website of which I am the Editor. He wrote about his memories of Wesley College cricket and also sent me a moving appreciation of his beloved brother Vincent who predeceased him. He seemed to search out and gather up Old Wesleyites everywhere, or people who had a connection with Wesley. Lou influenced several generations of old boys to remain loyal to the school and the Old Boys Unions all over the world. We often discussed the politics at Wesley and its multitude of problems but Lou had a knack of gaining the confidence of all sides in a dispute without pointing a finger. Lou had an abiding and deep awareness of the larger picture. He was often the epitome of calm and patience.
On the 27th of May 2009 I received this email from Lou : Yes, we are all getting old /older. Bryan is 75 and Radley 77 - I THINK ! I am 73.........................I stopped playing Tennis and Volleyball this year - IT WAS TOO MUCH FOR ME !!!............................ If you do come this way PLEASE COME AND STAY WITH US ! We have reserved an apartment in Feb 2010 (10 th to the 20 th) in the Simmenthal - YOU ARE WELCOME TO JOIN US. Of course, it is a Skiing area - we ONLY do cross-country ski-ing (literally walking with skis). Let me know.
God bless you and your family (I believe that your son was also a Cambridge Hockey Blue - BEST WISHES TO HIM !)
Lou
Lou was a kind and patient man, always willing to give his time to others, and wore his scholarship lightly. As a Skilled and successful person in the fiercely competitive pharmaceutical industry, he had the remarkable ability to leave everyone he came into contact with feeling that they were important to him. This fine quality remained with him to the very end. This made speaking with him an exceedingly rewarding experience. With his impressive tall figure and smart demeanour, Lou was a man of immense style and good humour. In his company his silence spoke volumes. In later life he travelled widely with his wife and made a point of keeping up to date with new technologies and corresponding with many friends and colleagues worldwide.
On 22nd of May 2009: Hi Nihal !
I am glad you are ON FIRE for Wesley ! We MUST all do our BEST to help our OLD SCHOOL ! We (SRI LANKA CHRISTIAN MISSION) help 20 boys attending Wesley - we give the parents appriox. Rs. 16'000.- per annum per child to cover
all the fees and transport. Thanks for sending me a copy. I was at Wesley for 9 years - WESLEY HAS BEEN MY LIFE ! My grand uncle WIKRAMANAYKE (EG ex minster's brother), my mother's brothers BERTRAM, CECIL & SHELTON Wikramanayake were ALL at Wesley ! My father, Bertie, my brother's Arnold and Vincent and sister Malini were at Wesley !!! Wesley is in my
blood !
LET US STAND TOGETHER !
Lou
He was touched by the gratitude shown by his students, past and present and moved by the devotion of many old boys for their alma mater. He reciprocated by his hospitality to those old boys who visited Europe. Despite his many achievements Lou remained a quiet and unassuming man. He did not talk about his achievements except to his close group of veteran old boys. He was a cricket raconteur par excellence. His memory was phenomenal and he could reel off without hesitation the scores in any matches he has played. He was a walking Wisden of Wesley's cricket of the fifties.
In any life there are difficulties and Lou was not immune to this. Poor health was a concern more recently. The last email I received 6 weeks before his demise he spoke of his failing health as a part of growing old which he accepted gracefully. His deep faith in his religion never wavered and Lou remained a committed Christian all his adult life. Despite the passion of his own intellectual and religious convictions, he was always tolerant of other's views and ideas.
In retirement he and his wife Lisbeth gave much of their time to religious and charitable work. Lou was a good man who enriched our lives beyond measure. He achieved much in his life. He funded and started many charities for the poor students in Sri Lanka. Lou was modest to a fault and on many occasions remained a generous anonymous donor. To my knowledge he has never walked away from helping students and old boys.
He was a warm family man and to his close knit family he gave his love and guidance always. To his school he gave his support throughout his life. He will always be remembered as a respected and much valued friend and a True Blue Wesleyite.
I am grateful I was able to walk with him a short way, along this long and tortuous path through life. Words cannot describe the sadness I feel at the loss of a friend and I reach for the wisdom of Shakespeare in Hamlet ""Good night, sweet prince, and flights of angels sing thee to thy rest!"
We miss him and give God thanks we knew him.
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Cambridge University and Wesley sportsman Lou Adhihetty no more by Richard DWIGHT
"In the midst of life we are in death", this truism was driven home with stunning reality to the fraternity of Wesley College - when the scholarly Cambridge hockey Blue and Wesley's Versatile sportsman, Dr. Louis de Z. Adhihetty, passed away in Switzerland on Tuesday at the age of 73.
Spanning a period of ten years in the mid-forties and fifties Lou, as he was affectionately spoken of, had his primary and secondary education at Wesley College. A premier boys school of the Sri Lanka Methodist Church, to which he stood ever so committed right upto the very end, as a loyal old boy.
Lou as a conscientious student, was found to be exemplary, given to sober disciplined ways with manners that were mild, and of a friendly disposition. Through it all, he endeared himself to his colleagues and found favour in the eyes of his mentors and whilst doing well in the classroom he also did impress to hold responsible positions in the life of the school.
To Lou Adhihetty the classroom was incomplete without the Sports field, they were complementary to each other, handmaids if you like. His enthusiasm for sports knew no bounds, for with his tall lanky physical frame he proved to be role model an ideal for any sport. Lou did well to represent Wesley at seven games and was awarded colours for five of them. He was exceptional in that he was the captain of 4 games viz, cricket, hockey, soccer and athletics.
He did the college proud by representing Ceylon at hockey, as its goalie. His fondness however was for cricket, where he played for 5 years from 1952, captaining the side in the last 2 years wherein he scored centuries against St. Joseph's 114, Trinity 104, Kingswood 147 and St. Joseph's 116 and an 89 not out against S. Thomas'. On the field of play, he was indeed extraordinary to be dynamic as a dynamic pace-bowler as well.
Lou was persevering and determined to do well and successfully read chemistry at Cambridge, and as well had the rare distinction of being the first Sri Lankan to be awarded a hockey blue at Cambridge. Though living in Europe for well nigh 41 years, he never failed to keep in touch with Wesley and supported its cause in various ways. He rose to the occasion, way out in Switzerland to answer Wesley's call to serve as it's principal from 1985 - 1988.
Lou's end came when on Monday night, he was taken in with heart failure and while being medically attended upon, he breathed his last in the early hours of Tuesday. The one whom he trusted most, must have drawn close to him, to endearingly whisper into his ear "my son its enough, come home", and so he slipped through life peacefully to the land of eternal rest. Wesley will remember Lou Adhihetty, one of its loyal stalwarts at a service of thanksgiving and praise, the details of which will be notified later.
Lou is survived by his wife Lisbeth, son Arjuna and daughter Sakunthala.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Ron was born on the 5th of July 1935 in Colombo, Sri Lanka, then known as Ceylon. He was the second of seven children to George and Florence Altendorff.
Ron was educated at Wesley College Colombo from about 1945 to 1952. His contemporaries were Arthlow Chapman, Bryan Claessen, Srilal Karangoda, George Robertson, Gordon Amerasekera, Benjamin Buell and Robert Coburn, to name a few. On the athletic field, Ron proved to be adept at “Shot Putt” which suited his rather muscular frame. The athletics coach was Mr. R. A. Honter who was quick to notice Ron’s capability in this event.
A well-mannered and popular student, Ron earned the respect of his class-mates and teachersAfter he left school in the Senior Form’ Ron found employment at Trevine’s Florist in Colombo where he was well regarded by his friends and work colleagues.Ron was the first of his family to emigrate to Australia. In 1957, when just 22 years of age, he arrived in Melbourne to seek employment, He found work in a number of positions and later moved to Sydney where he met his beloved wife Shirley.
After a whirlwind romance they married in 1960.They set up home in Bondi and a year later had their first gorgeous daughter Vicki. The passing years saw many more beautiful children come in to the world-Tracey, Steve, Kelly and Jason.Ron decided to move his family to Maroochydore in 1972, travelling interstate in a caravan that he had built. In 1974 they bought a property in Woombye. In the meantime Ron had obtained his builders license and began his career as a builder. A couple of years later they bought 6 acres in Nambour where Ron built his dream home to accommodate his family To supplement his income, Ron partnered with his close friend Ted Musca and started a fish run, then a potato run, a tyre business and a paint agency. This led to a profitable partnership finally leading to the birth of “Tedron Homes”.
In 1985, Ron (always striving to make things better) tried his hand at politics, running for the local council. Although he was not successful, he certainly left an impression on the local government.
In 1987 Ron met a man named Hubert Jayakody, and with Hubert’s support Ron extended his building career in 1988 to Brisbane and internationally, constructing pavilions for international expositions and fairs. Ron always built a solid building. One of the many pavilions he built ( the Sri Lankan pavilion in Spain in1972) took only 3 months to erect but 6 months to dismantle. Records show that he also designed and built the Sri Lankan Pavilion for an exhibition held in Brisbane. Ron and Hubert worked together for the last 22 years and had developed a great friendship and respect for each other. Their projects took them all around the world including Japan, Spain, Korea, Dubai, Portugal, China and Germany.
On Tuesday the 2nd of June, after a short battle with cancer, Ron passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family.
MAY HE REST IN PEACE
(Contributed by his niece Fiona Richardson, daughter of old Wesleyite Wilton Robertson, with the school information filled in by George Robertson. )
A Tribute to Ronnie Altendorff by Egerton de Fransz
Ronnie Altendorff passed away peacefully on the 2nd of June 2009 after a short battle with cancer. He was 73 years old. Husband of Shirley and father to Vicki, Tracey, Steve, Kelly and Jason, Grandfather to Beau, Jacqueline, Caleb, Teya and Jack.
Ronnie joined the club in 1972 and was a regular to most functions until 1988 when he joined up with Hubert Jayakody to construct pavilions for international expositions. Their projects in building Sri Lankan Pavilions took them around the world including Japan, Spain, Korea, Dubai, Portugal, China and Germany. I was fortunate enough to have been part of some of those achievements representing Sri Lanka in Japan, Spain, Portugal and China. Many remember the 1988 World Expo in Brisbane in which Ronnie, Hubert and many others including Anton Swan did us proud. Ronnie, an old Wesley College boy, will be missed by most people who knew him.
Rest in Peace.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Dear Wesleyites
I received the sad news this evening that our oldest Old Boy, Vernon Karl Lorensz Achilles – “Uncle Vernon” to many, passed away this afternoon. Uncle Vernon who was born on the 26th of October 1907 was 101 years old. It seemed like only yesterday that I attended his 100th birthday to celebrate this significant milestone. See photo with message from HM the Queen.
One of a few surviving old boys who were at Wesley in the era of the “Saint of Karlsruhe” – The Reverend Henry Highfield, Uncle Vernon was a proud and loyal old boy and the father of Dallas and Delmer(who are also old Wesleyites) and daughters Dalrene and Orianna. He is the proud grandfather of 6 and great grandfather of 6. Uncle Vernon was blessed to have enjoyed such a long and healthy life. If we pause for a moment and reflect on the various historical moments he has lived through it is an awesome thought.
Until recently he was quite lucid and after a great innings, God called him home. The funeral is expected to be next week and I will keep you informed. So to Dallas, Delmer, Dalrene and Orianna and their families we extend our sincere sympathy at this time.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Warm memories of Guneratna hospitality by Champa Wickremasinghe
Herbert and Miriam Gunaratna
There are people who, in their gentle and caring ways, touch our hearts, and when they leave this world they leave behind beautiful memories.
My uncle Herbert Gunaratna, who passed away three months ago, and my aunt Miriam, who predeceased him, were gracious hosts who made any person who visited their home “Ratnasri”, at Seeduwa, feel very welcome. Whether you arrived announced or announced, or visited early in the morning, in the middle of the afternoon or late at night, you were given a warm welcome.
My family’s association with the Gunaratnas goes back to the early 1970s, when my father, the late W. P. R. B. Wickremasinghe, had the good fortune to find a lifelong and loyal friend in Uncle Herbert.
The two worked together at the National Museum, in Colombo, and later moved to different government institutions. My father joined the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and Uncle Herbert moved to the State Gem Corporation. By then, they had laid a solid foundation for a friendship that grew into an extended family, combining the Gunaratna and Wickremasinghe families, including Aunty Miriam, their two daughters Roshi and Dayani, and the five of us.
My father’s job as a diplomat meant that the family would go overseas for extended stays. A stop at the Gunaratna residence on the way to the airport was a must. And their home was our first stop when we returned to the country.
Sumptuous meals awaited us whenever we visited. The warmth and friendliness shown us by the Gunaratnas was unlike any we have ever experienced. The inevitable reality of life is that those we love will leave us some day. But the memories they leave behind stay with us forever.
Herbert and Miriam Gunaratna were warm, loving and caring people who touched many hearts. Now reunited in their heavenly abode, they must surely be resting in peace, happy in the knowledge that they lived their best life while on this Earth.
Herbert Gunaratne remembeed by Nihal D Amerasekera
My association with Herbert was brief when we were both in the Wesley College Boarding in 1952. He was the Prefect in Charge of the Junior Dormitory and I was a junior. He was strict but kind to us all. He had a younger brother Lakshman Gunaratne who entered the Medical Faculty and became a doctor in 1963. They were both from the strong Methodist enclave of Kurana Katunayake and had strong links with the Methodist Church and Wesley College. I am sad we never got a chance to meet again since those days in the boarding.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Some things cannot be expressed in words. They had much to give and they gave it freely and gave their lives. They fought to preserve freedom and liberty. Let us hail the dawn they won for us.We must and will remember their living comrades. Give them the opportunity and liberty they helped to win.
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The Poppy became the symbol of fallen soldiers
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A Poppy field in Flanders, Belgium
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From 1914 to 1918, Flanders Fields was a major battle theatre on the Western Front during the First World War. A million soldiers from more than 50 different countries were wounded, missing or killed in action here.
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We know the names of 3 Wesleyites who have made the supreme sacrifice in the First World War
1. Eustace Lovell Brohier - age 19yrs
2. Harold Staples age 19 yrs
3. Kingsley Redlich age 25 yrs
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Links to further reading
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Every Wesleyite will remember the bronze plaque on the back wall of our Great Hall in Memory of Eustace Lovell Brohier
Eustace Lovell Brohier's father was George Charles Robert Brohier born 1st December 1870. His mother Grace Charlotte Don married his father in the Methodist Church, Kotlupitiya on 18th May 1893. Grace was born 22nd June 1869 and died 16th December 1914. They had 8 children. Eustace Lovell was born 1st November 1896, fell in action in the Great European War, 19th April 1917, when serving in the 17th London Regiment.
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In Flanders Fields - By John MCCRAE
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie,
In Flanders fields.
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.
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The flowers and the larks serve as reminders of nature's ability to withstand the destructive elements of war by men, a symbol of hope in a period of human despair.
The two minutes of silence provide another significant way of remembering wartime while thinking of peace. Two minutes are scarcely enough time for thought and reflection. As we pause and bow our heads, we remember those brave men and women who courageously volunteered for the cause of freedom and peace.
One day every year, we pay special homage to those who died in service to their country. We remember these brave men for their courage and their devotion to ideals. We wear poppies, attend ceremonies, and visit memorials. For one brief moment of our life, we remember why we must work for peace every day of the year.
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Excerpts from the writings of Michael Roberts:
We must always remember FREEDOM HAS A PRICE. LEST WE FORGET. Many VOLUNTEERS FROM CEYLON SERVED IN THE BRITISH AND COMMONWEALTH FORCES DURING WORLD WAR 1 [1914-1918] AND WORLD WAR 2 [1939-1945]
Ceylon played a comparatively important role in the First World War although we were a crown colony of the British Empire. In 1917 the Times of Ceylon estimated that 1,250 volunteers had enlisted for overseas service. At least 351 Ceylon volunteers signed up while in England and another 438 enlisted on their own account. In addition, the ‘Times Fund’ facilitated the expenses for 156 Ceylon volunteers to enlist overseas.
In terms of the 1,250 Ceylon Volunteers estimated, there were 105 fatalities, 84 were Killed in Action and 21 died of wounds. Of the 114 Wounded in Action, 18 were categorised as either missing or Prisoners of War. It goes on to say that of the 330 casualties from the four English medium schools (Royal, St Thomas, Kingswood and Trinity) approximately 28% were casualties. Some of the volunteers were either students, past students or staff.
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Throughout our recent history the Sri Lankan Armed forces have been engaging in a fierce war against the ruthless scourge of terrorism threatening to disintegrate our beloved motherland. In doing so the valiant sons of our nation have placed 'country before self' and have been relentlessly on the offensive. In this three decade long battle, many soldiers have laid down their lives to protect the sovereignty of the motherland. It is needless to emphasize that proud products of Wesley College Colombo have been among them.
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Despite the untimely demise of our dear school mates, many more Wesleyites continue to be in the forefront of this relentless war bringing their alma mater pride and honour. Indeed this blessing too would be of yeomen help to our noble brothers.
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Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them."
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WE WILL REMEMBER THEM - ALWAYS
Uppajjitva Nirujjhanti – tesam Vupasamo Sukko.
Transient alas are all Component things
Subject are they to birth – and then decay
Having gained birth to death, the life flux swings
Bliss dawns when unrest dies away
The Buddha
From Nihal D Amerasekera
Dimantha and Suranjan Range
Suranjan and Dimantha were brothers. Both were at Wesley in the late 1940's and 1950's. They lived in the shadow of the school in Karlsruhe Gardens and remained loyal Wesleyites. Suranjan played Basket Ball for the 1st Team at Wesley 1957/58. His abundant self-confidence was well suited for the Legal Profession in which he rose to become the Chief Legal Officer at Ceylinco Homes International. Their views were sincere and were respected. They both had a great gift for friendship. Dimantha (DT) was a popular 1st XI cricketer during the Bryan Claessen era- 1953. He was a big lad who arrived at the crease towards the tail end of an innings. Dimantha hit the ball hard and his batting was always greeted with cheers at Campbell Park. I well recall a six that he hit to fine-leg, the ball ending up in PB Herat's garden across the road. Dimantha was a Planter in an Estate down south. We sadly note they have both passed away. Many will remember with gratitude their contribution to the life of the school all those years ago.
To laugh, to joke, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way,
I found that place at the close of the day.
May they Both Attain the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
A special Assembly and Memorial Service was held at Wesley College Colombo on the 19th of March 2010 to Celebrate and Remember the life of Elton Bryan Claessen.
A Tribute to Bryan Claessen by George Robertson
an afternoon of nurses and rumours;
the provinces of his body revolted,
the squares of his mind were empty,
silence invaded the suburbs,
the current of his feeling failed; he became his admirers.
W.H. Auden
It must be nigh on sixty-five years since I first met Bryan when we were both enrolled as students at Wesley College. We were class-mates then, and have always enjoyed a rewarding friendship over the years. Bryan and his family lived fairly close to Wesley and so did a young lass named Beryl who, in those days, was also enrolled at Wesley and become a kindergarten friend to Bryan before she entered an all-girls’ school.
I remember Bryan as a decent, friendly guy who rarely spoke about his sporting prowess. He was a good student, a loyal friend, and always had time for a funny story or anecdote. With the passing of the years, I copped some good-natured kidding from Bryan because as it turned out, that young lass from kindergarten days was to become my wife, much against the friendly protests of Bryan who always reminded me “I knew her first!”!
Bryan hails from a respected family, and all of his brothers have made their reputations on the cricket field; but Bryan has gone on to set new standards and to inspire aspiring youngsters for many years. He was the first “Under 14” Cricket Captain, leading a successful team that defeated an English Schoolboy team from Hill School, Nuwara Eliya. Included in this team were his brother Herman, Pat Schokman, Ralph Maas, B.M. Jurangpathy and M. Ismail. Here are some of Bryan’s outstanding achievements, which are a matter of record:
- Played for Wesley “First XI” Just after his fourteenth birthday.
- Awarded Cricket Colours in his first year.
- Held School Record with four centuries.
- Awarded All-round Cricketer’s Challenge Trophy.
- Led an undefeated Team in 1953 to become the first unbeaten intercollegiate champions since WW II.
- Was only the second Wesleyite to play for Sri Lanka whilst still at school.
- Scored over 1000 runs and took 100 wickets in a season for four consecutive seasons – 1950, 51, 52 and 1953.
Bryan emigrated to Australia in 1957, spending three years in Western Australia during which time he played district “A” Grade cricket for South Perth Cricket Club. Moving to South Australia, he continued playing “A” Grade cricket for Sturt District Club. It was during this time that he first met, and wed the lovely Lady Carol who has supported him and put up with his many friends from Wesley and elsewhere all these years, whilst listening (over and over again) to the many fables about “the good old days” and all the never-ending cricket stories.
Bryan and Carol are blessed with five children and seven grandchildren. After his retirement they moved to a property in Tailem Bend, South Australia, where they cultivated Barley, Oats and raised sheep, some pigs and numerous goats, all of whom Bryan has named after people he has known. There was even another old goat named George, to whom I was introduced. Bryan and Carol have established themselves as popular members of the local community, where Bryan has a busy role as “Scribe”. We have visited Bryan and Carol a few times and have always received a warm and friendly welcome every time.
Bryan finally hung up his boots in 1990 It was good for Wesley that he was indeed around in the ‘50’s when school cricket enjoyed what must have been it’s “Shining Hour”.
One day I asked Bryan what advice he has for my grandsons who are just starting to play cricket. This is what he replied:
- Believe fully in your abilities.
- Practice hard; having a lot of “potential” is not enough if you cannot come up
with the goods. - As a batsman, don’t concentrate on the position of fielders but rather on the gaps in the field.
- As a bowler, on most occasions bowl to a batsman’s strength.
- There is little point bowling to a weakness which the batsman is careful of .
- Be yourself, Don’t try to imitate your favourite Test Star. The world has already seen him and now wants to see you in action.
May you Rest In Peace, old friend. You have just ended the finest innings of them all.
18th March 2010
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From Edmund Dissanayake Former Prefect of Games, Wesley College, Colombo.
Wesley’s cricket idol Bryan Claessen is no more. The passing away of Bryan Claessen in Australia is mourned by several thousands of Wesleyites throughout the world. Bryan was one of the very few Sri Lankans who played for the country as a schoolboy. That was in 1953 against Australia skippered by Lindsay Hasset. Bryan was a shrewd captain. Wesley remained unbeaten under his captaincy, defeating Royal, St. Joseph’s, Prince of Wales’, Kingswood and Richmond.
He was the first Wesleyite to score four centuries. At the time he played, the School played only 8 school matches. Today, the number exceeds 18. As a bowler, he was greatly feared. His best bowling was against St. Joseph’s 8 for 68, vs. Trinity 6 for 87, vs. Kingswood 6 for 39, vs. Zahira 9 for 37, and vs. Prince of Wales’ 6 for 20. While in Australia, Bryan played for the Prospect District Cricket Club winning the bowling prize in both 1984 and 1985. He was a wily googly bowler and a brilliant fielder in any position.
The cricket match against Royal in 1953 is of special interest as in three innings the score did not exceed 85. Royal scored 68 and 76, while Wesley scored 145 and 84. That match was played at Reid Avenue. Another interesting feature was that on the Wesley side there were three sets of brothers: Bryan and Herman Claessen, Lou and Vincent Adhihetty, Ansar and Abu Fuard.
Professionally, Bryan was a prosecutor in family law. When he retired, he was in charge of the division responsible for the enforcement of Family Support Orders in South Australia. Bryan was proud to be a Wesleyite. He maintained his interest in Wesley by keeping in touch with his close friend Dr. Nihal Amarasekera. Bryan’s wonderful wife Carol has stood by Bryan, valiantly. He was a man in a million. When cometh the likes of him again?
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Wesley's glamorous Bryan no more by Richard Dwight
In the midst of life we are in death, and so it's with much regret that we record the passing away of Elton Bryan Claessen, the former Wesley, Colts and All Ceylon cricketer.
Bryan, as he was affectionately known was ill for sometime and finally succumbed to his ailment at the age of 74 on Tuesday night (16) in Australia.
Bryan was a potential, promising cricketer in the under 14 team and, was easily picked for the Wesley College 1st XI team when he was 15 years under Derrick Mack. As a versatile, glamorous right hand batsman, right arm leg spinner and an alert gully fielder, he proved to be the cynosure of the side.
He represented Wesley for four years from 1950-1953, captaining the side in his last year. Along with him there were many fair complexioned cricketers in the team, that resembled a young Aussie XI.
He was a commanding dynamic leader and whenever he led the side to field, he sported that bravado, cock-sure confident attitude. Little wonder that Wesley remained unbeaten under his captaincy with him scoring freely and taking as many wickets. During his four years of cricket at Wesley he notched 4 centuries took many wickets and catches.
On leaving school he represented Bosanquet and Skrine, Colts and All Ceylon. Against Pakistan he has a score of 70 and was also selected to play against Australia skippered by Lindsay Hasset in 1953.
As a gentleman Bryan endeared himself to many. He is survived by his wife Carol and daughter.
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18th March 2010
Bryan Claessen - A Life Remembered by Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
A Poem by Bryan Claessen
And many years have slowly edged on by
Memories of a distant past unfold
To set our spirits free and flying high
Ties that bind us to our happiest time;
Which in strange and miraculous ways
Keeps alive days that were once yours and mine.
Let's go on in our own merry way
To reach the straight which lies beyond the bend
As we walk, I will in silence pray:
Thank you Lord", I'd say for this my special friend
I first came across Bryan Claessen as I joined Wesley in January 1950. It was the beginning of the school cricket season. He played as a 16 year old with DBC Mack as captain. He went on to represent school under his brother, Radley, before becoming the captain of the 1st XI team in 1953. That was a most remarkable year when we were unbeaten and Bryan scored 4 centuries and took many 5 wicket hauls as a fine all rounder. He thought about cricket with a deep intensity. He seemed to be a batsman without flaw, impeccable in defence, and classically elegant in attack. His stroke play was a sheer delight. At his best Bryan could make any attack seem ordinary. Bryan was a cricket legend, a leg-spin bowler with a wily action who, at his peak, mesmerised and terrorised all who faced him. It is said he made the ball bounce, especially his googly, which was well disguised. At school cricket earned him fame and adulation in equal measure. Despite his iconic achievements he was well liked for his modesty and friendship. As an 8 year old I was thrilled by his fine performances for the school.
Although versatile and intelligent he did not take his studies at school very seriously. Bryan learnt the joys of substituting hard, disciplined study for the indulgence of cricket. This he did with great relish and much success all throughout his teenage years and beyond. At school he acquired a fine command of the English language which he put to good use in later years which is evident in his numerous letters, emails and poems. He expressed himself succinctly and elegantly, always.
After leaving Wesley he joined the mercantile sector where he flourished. He continued to play cricket for Colts Cricket Club, Colombo and represented his country in 1953. Some of his team-mates of the Sri Lanka side, captained by V. G. Prins, were C. I. Gunasekera, Dr. H. I. K. Fernando, ACM Lafir, Stanley Jayasinghe, C. T. Schaffter, Dooland Buultjens, P. N. Schokman, G. P. Schoorman, P. A. T. Kelly, N. Ponniah and M. Makkin Salih. That year they won the Gopalan Trophy which is a bi-annual cricket tournament played between Ceylon (Sri Lanka) and Madras (now Tamil Nadu). The match became a regular fixture in the annual calendar until Sri Lanka received Test status in 1983 and the competition was stopped.
In 1957 Bryan emigrated to Perth, Western Australia and then to Adelaide, in 1960. In Australia he continued to play Club Cricket with great success. He also coached and helped young cricketers to achieve their goals. His innate ability to spot rising talent remained with him throughout his coaching career. Bryan was one of the few great cricketers of whom it could be said, without flattery, that he was as fine a man as he was a player.
Bryan worked for many years in Adelaide in the Public Service. His combination of wisdom, wit and kindness made him welcome wherever he went. After years of service he finally retired relatively early in his mid fifties. Bryan and Carol then moved to a farm in Tailem Bend, South Australia. It is a small picturesque town on the Murray River 100km east of Adelaide on the South Eastern Highway to Melbourne. Here they enjoyed the life in the country. They took easily to their new life of open spaces, clean air and farm animals and soon became an integral part of the farming community. Life was not always easy. He was a newcomer to farming and its demanding physical routines took its toll. Nevertheless, Bryan remained a resourceful and colourful character and an asset to the community. His ability to charm never deserted him. Carol was an energetic supporter of her husband’s work , and an inspired gardener in her own right. She had a particular talent for bringing beauty to the place where she lived and always worked with great imagination and enthusiasm.
I had by then moved to live and work in the UK. When I wrote an article to the Wesley College 125th Anniversary Souvenir, Bryan contacted me. In the subsequent months and years we maintained close touch with phone calls and letters. Bryan’s letters were always beautifully written in calligraphic handwriting. He wrote the news and views with poems to illustrate a point. He was a gifted poet and had an amazing talent and zeal for poetry. It was a great pleasure to receive his letters written with such sincerity and style.
Bryan was fiercely loyal to his old school. With his characteristic enthusiasm he contributed generously when funds were needed and maintained contact with many of his schoolmates. His 1953 cricket team remained always close to his heart and he kept in touch with many of them. He never spoke ill of anyone and was always polite. He combined his skills of natural diplomacy and generous spirit with his strong beliefs in justice and equality. Even during the dark days of our simmering conflicts of Wesley College when everyone blamed everyone else Bryan was pragmatic and gave his advice to help change the school for the better. He was the voice of reason and common sense. When change came at Wesley he was delighted and showed his approval by his well written emails. Throughout the years after leaving school he kept in contact with his old teachers – Rev Wilfred Pile, CJT Thamotheram, Edmund Dissanayake and Lionel Jayasuriya with phone calls, letters and Christmas cards, until the very end.
It was Bryan who said that all Wesleyites belong to a brotherhood and that we are all brothers. Disunity amongst old boys was of great concern to him and on numerous occasions he has emailed for unity. I hope as a mark of respect for Bryan we will strive for unity. Let unity be the tribute to Bryan Claessen . He was non partisan during the squabbles and sleaze that engulfed the school. As a consequence, he is held in the highest regard. Bryan remains a prince among the old boys.
In the last few years Bryan’s health was failing and had to give up his active life. He and Carol continued to enjoy the social events at Tailen Bend including Ballroom dancing and the more energetic Barn Dancing. They loved the company of their grandchildren and the extended family. Bryan and Carol had a rich family life and she was the love of his life. They have five children. Their highlights were large family gatherings where Bryan took his place at the table with his usual humour and character.
They remained a popular couple in Tailem Bend where they entertained often and generously. They were particularly close to Radley who lives in Adelaide. They wined and dined Lou and Lisbeth Adhihetty some ten years ago of which they spoke about most warmly. Although he bravely fought his health problems, towards the end he displayed great fortitude, resigning himself philosophically to the inevitable. Bryan respected all religions but he was never overtly religious. The love and closeness of his family remained a great source of comfort.
I was deeply saddened to hear that Bryan Claessen passed away. I am grateful I was able to know him and be his friend. We will remember his humorous banter and his vast archive of stories for many years to come. His sense of humanity and energy for what he believed in will be sorely missed. We send our deepest condolences to Carol and the family in this time of grief. As we say for cricketers
"May the turf lay lightly on him"
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Links to further reading
- Wesley's glorious years of cricket by Bryan Claessen
- Cricketers of 1953 - Sent by Olkie Edema
- A Tribute to Sir Donald Bradman- A Poem by Bryan Claessen
- Some Memories of cricket of the 1950's sent by Bryan Claessen
- Bryan Claessen by Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
- Lunch with the Claessens - From the OBUA Newsletter 2005
- A Letter from Bryan Claessen sent in 2009
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24th March 2010
Farewell to Bryan by Upali Perera
The funeral ceremony for the late Elton Bryan Claessen was held on Monday 22nd March 2010 at 11.00 am in the Minge Chapel, Murray Bridge in Adelaide, South Australia and was followed by a private cremation.There were three Wesleyites who travelled from Melbourne.
I went to Adelaide on the 21 st to pay my respects to the great man and stayed with my friend and Wesleyite Ranjith de Alwis and his wife Lakshmie who graciously hosted me for a couple of days. At the same time Errol Smith was a guest of Warrick De Kretser the Wesley cricketer and his wife Peggy. The third Wesleyite was of Radley’s and Bryan’s era, George Jayatunge and his wife Chris who put up in a hotel in Murray Bridge. All of us along with the Adelaide Wesleyites, Radley and Doug, the brothers of Bryan with their families and Everard Reimers represented Wesley College.We left Adelaide around 8.30 am to travel to Murray Bridge, a distance of approximately 100 kilometers, sporting our Wesley College ties, to pay our respects to our dear friend Bryan for the last time.
The viewing was scheduled from 10.00am. Bryan had in his beloved College Tie and, beside him, was another of his dearest possessions - his “All Ceylon” Cricket cap which were symbols of his other great loves, after his family and friends.The large congregation filled the chapel to capacity, leaving standing room only as friends and loved ones came to celebrate the life and to pay homage to one of the greatest sons that Wesley College ever produced.
The funeral director Claude Minge spoke about Bryan’s life and his achievements as a Husband, Father, Sportsman and Friend to so many. This was followed by the eulogies delivered by Julian, Bryan’s eldest son, followed by his daughter Audra, his grand daughter Emelia, grandson Ryan and myself. The audience was spell bound and there was not a single person who was not moved by what they heard. With very heavy hearts, yet standing proud, we bid our last farewell to the loved and devoted husband, dutiful father, the faithful friend, legendry cricketer, the ball room dancer, poet and one of the nicest human beings you could ever hope to meet.
The following poem was read at the commencement of the ceremony, which Bryan would have been very proud of.
When I come to the end of the road,
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom filled room,
Why cry for a soul set free?
And not with your head bowed low,
Remember the love that we once shared,
Miss Me – but let me go.
And each must go alone,
all part of the Master’s plan,
A step on the road to home.
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows
In doing good deeds,
Miss me – but let me go
Eulogy By Upali Perera
Elton Bryan Claessen was the vice-captain of the cricket team under Radley his brother, in 1952, when I joined Wesley College. I was a boarder along with many other Wesleyites who are indeed present here today. It was compulsory then, that all boarders had to be present at all cricket matches played by Wesley in Colombo. The team was full of talented and skilled players. The player that stood out was my hero and friend Bryan Claessen. It was with pride that we juniors went almost every afternoon to watch our wonderful cricketers practice and to see them in action, to speak, to touch and to be in their presence was a blessing.
I was much junior to Bryan in college, hence Bryan did not know me at all, but all the juniors knew of all the cricketers and specially the famous Claessen family. It was much later, in the late 70’s that I met Bryan at the Adelaide oval, when the Sri Lankan under 19 cricket team played against the Australian team. I was on my way from Melbourne to a conference in Adelaide and dropped by at the oval to see the match for a few hours. I happened to know the Manager of the Sri Lankan team and as I met him he said….Upali, there is a living legend from Wesley in the pavilion and pointed to Bryan. Bryan had not changed, his neatly combed hair, still wearing his round glasses and his boyish handsome face instantly brought back old memories. I paused for a while, walked up to him and nervously said…Bryan you do not know me, I am Upali Perera from Wesley and you were our hero. As if I was a long lost brother, he said….yes…, I could remember you (which was not true) and there began our bond and a true friendship which will last for ever.
Since that day we have been in touch constantly and during this period my young family and I have enjoyed the honour and privilege of staying with Bryan, Carol and their family during our holidays in their Adelaide home in Modbury and later in Tailem Bend. I will always treasure those moments and the regular conversations we had all these years.
Bryan’s simplicity, his humour, his noble and legendry attributes are qualities that I would have loved to have aspired to.
I need not speak of the immense impact and contribution Bryan has made to Wesley College and to all those young and old, who were blessed and privileged to be his friend. He touched us all and the tributes that have poured to the Wesley College Websites, local and overseas newspapers are a testimony to what Bryan stood for.
Bryan has left a huge void in our hearts which can never be filled.
Finally our thoughts and prayers are with his wonderful and faithful wife Carol, their children Casa, Julian, Thomas, Audra, Christine and their families.
Ties that bind us to our happiest time;
Which in strange and miraculous ways
Keeps alive days that were once yours and mine.
On behalf of all Wesleyites, I salute you my dear and faithful friend.
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A Tribute to Bryan Claessen by Michael Berman
I read with much sadness the passing away of Elton Bryan Claessen in an obituary circulated by Victor Melder to the Sri Lankan diaspora resident ‘down under’.
Bryan was a very good all round cricketer, batting right hand and bowling right arm leg spin much in the Richie Benaud mould. He played in some extremely useful Wesley College teams from 1950 to 1953 captaining in his final year. Prior to leading his College he played under Derrick Mack (1950-51) and brother Radley (1952).
SL writer, Neil Wijeratne informs me that during this period Wesley defeated our Alma Mater, St Joseph’s College (SJC) twice in 1952 & 53 but lost in 1950 and played out a draw in 1951. In the 1951 fixture, brother Radley scored a century while Bryan top scored with 31 out of 146 in the losing 1950 match 1st innings and took 8-68 in the SJC score of 228 in the 1951 match.
During this period they also defeated Royal College in 1952 & 53 and played out draws in 1950 & 51. Bryan top scored in most of the Wesley College innings versus Royal.
While still at school in 1953 he was selected for All Ceylon against Lindsay Hassett’s Australian team bound for the Ashes in England along with opening bowler P I Peiris, wicket keeper H I K Fernando and medium change bowler Bob Bartels. Bartels left shortly afterwards to play in the Lancashire League which was arranged by famous West Indian Learie Constantine who was then coaching in Ceylon. The Claessen family emigrated ‘down under’ in 1958 and ultimately settled in Adelaide. His elder brother Radley was a handy pace bowler and I remember him well bowling vicious bumpers at our Josephian teams of that period.
Their younger brother, Herman was a tall and useful left arm bowler (pace and spin) who made his debut under Bryan’s captaincy and played for Wesley between 1953 & 56. He unfortunately was killed in a motor accident shortly after leaving school and starting an apprenticeship at Collettes Limited on Kanatte Road.
The 1953 Aussie side comprising Hassett, Arthur Morris, Graeme Hole, Keith Miller, Ian Craig, Jim de Courcey, Richie Benaud, Ron Archer, Don Tallon, Ray Lindwall and Bill Johnston, batted first and scored 8 for 209 dec and All Ceylon including Makkin Salih, C H Gunasekera, Vernon Prins, Stanley Jayasinghe, C I Gunasekera, Claessen, R B Wijesinghe, F C de Saram as captain replied with 4 for 149.
I attended this match at the P Sara Oval and remember seeing my hero, Keith Miller play and the brilliant fielding of the Australians stretching their sea legs for the day while the “Orcades” was in port. This was the only chance that we had of witnessing international cricket and cricketers in those good old days!
Bryan also played for the Colombo team in the Gopalan Trophy fixture versus Madras and represented All Ceylon versus the touring Pakistan Services team in 1954. He represented the Colts in the Sara Trophy inter club competition. In Australia he played A Grade District cricket for South Perth, and for Sturt in Adelaide. In his later years, he played for the Prospect Cricket Club and finally for Tailem Bend in the local regional competition. The Claessen family lived on Thimbirigasyaya Rd, Narahenpitiya not far from the Govt quarters at Manning Town on the Borella to Narahenpitiya Rd where I grew up.
His departure was a big loss to Ceylon cricket in those pre Test Cricket days. He leaves behind wife Carol and children Cass, Julian, Thomas, Audra and Christine. A well attended funeral service was held on Monday 22nd March followed by a private cremation. A General Assembly was also held at his Alma Mater, Wesley College in Colombo on Friday 19th March to pay tribute to Bryan and as a mark of respect.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Distinguished Old Boy and an Exceptional Talent in the World of Economics
Mr. Loos retired from the World Bank Bank, Washington DC in 1991.
Remembering David Loos (C C S) by Bradman Weerakoon
- Daily Mirror Oct 10, 2006:Photo- David Loos
David Loos, who passed away at the end of last year in Washington DC, was one of a team of public servants who once negotiated terms of the original “Mahaweli Project” in the days of Prime Minister Dudley Senanayake’s National government in the late 1960’s. Although it was later to change the face of Sri Lanka’s central highlands and lay the foundation for the country’s power and agricultural self sufficiency, the project was then so visionary that Dudley’s political opponents derisively termed it the Mahaweli ‘diversion’ – inferring that it was only a stunt to divert public attention away from the many problems the seven party national government was then facing. David’s important contribution then, as the Director of External Resources in the first ever Ministry of Planning, led by the legendary Gamini Corea, evoked the comment in the satirical and widely read column in the Times of Ceylon, “Roundabout by Contact”, that ‘David Loos was selling Sri Lanka to the World Bank.’ David was the first to laugh out loud at the clever pun on his name.
David Gladwin Loos was born on the 26th of September 1925, the second child of a well established Burgher family, (his sister was Joan who married Gerald -later Professor Cooray) at a time when members of that community were playing a prominent part in the public life of the country. His mother to whom he was greatly attached, and literally ran the family, was a leading figure in the education field and crowned her career first as a teacher and then as the Principal of Lindsay Girl’s school in Kollupitiya for several years. David himself schooled at Wesley College Colombo, where in addition to being a School Prefect, he was invariably first in class. Friends say that like most other boys of his age he cycled to school, a habit he continued even after he entered the University of Ceylon then functioning at Thurstan Road. He showed early signs of his scholastic quality by winning the School’s Hill Silver medal at Wesley and at the University secured a First Class in Economics.
The Bachelor of Arts (First Class) was in the early 1950’s a highly rated honour and David was privileged to share this with a few other brilliant contemporaries namely Godfrey Gunatilaka (also CCS and later founder of Marga) who received a First Class for English Literature and GVS de Silva, in Economics a couple of years earlier, who chose a career in academia and shone brightly at Peradeniya, for many years influencing an entire generation of undergraduates in a distinctly socialistic vein. Like most other University men at the time who ‘got a good class’ as it was called, either a First or Upper Second, the Civil Service seemed for David the obvious choice. The Central Bank newly established under John Exter, and on the look out for up and coming economists offered him a scholarship to Oxford which would have given him a Doctorate but David turned it down to sit for the ‘civil’. This was not for the money, since even then the private sector companies such as Lever Brothers, Ceylon Tobacco and even the Commercial banks in the country, the Bank of Ceylon foremost among them, would have paid more, but for the prestige and sense of being able ‘to do something for the country’ which motivated the top level of public servants at the time. The Civil Servants then thought of themselves as belonging to a rather special breed, a tight and exclusive network, who could be quite effective in keeping the wheels of government in motion. In David’s year of selection there must have been at least three hundred University men (no women then) between the ages of 22 and 24, with ‘good classes’ who competed for the ten positions on offer. David did very well coming third, Godfrey Gunatilaka came first, in an exceptional year of recruitment which produced ten, very talented, young men who served the country for many years with distinction. Of David’s peers Godfrey and Shelton Wanasinghe remain yet very active amongst us.
I first met David Loos in 1954, when as four young CCS ‘cadets’, as we were known during the two year probation period, Shanti Kumar Phillips, myself, Chandi Chanmugam, and Lester Pereira were ushered into the austere presence of Sir Arthur Ranasinghe, then head of the public service as Secretary to the Treasury. After a very brief ‘briefing’ Sir Arthur dismissed us into the safe and comfortable hands of David Loos, who very soon had us chuckling with his stories of the men we would have to deal with in our first three months at the Treasury. In addition to the Financial Regulations to be learned, which were boring with Balasingham, then the DST (and the acronyms were flying), Shirley Amarasinghe, then the Controller of Establishments, to emulate, and always, when needed, we had David, the perfect mentor.
In addition to being complete master of his subject, that being budget and finance, David had an ease of manner and sartorial elegance which was quite unexpected in the arid corridors of the General Treasury. Not only was he always extremely well groomed but he was blessed with the good looks of a Greek god. Jeanine, his wife, would tell me later that in his days at the World Bank in Washington she had a time keeping the admiring females from getting too close to him. David became an institution at the Treasury, helpful, but a model of rectitude where financial accountability was concerned, effective, through his vast experience of precedents, always courteous on the phone or face to face and ever with a touch of humour, which was both delectable and self effacing. He made himself indispensable to a succession of Finance Ministers under whom he served, ten in all, as he often reminded us said with great pride. Here he was in charge, with him as the officer who knew the subject advising them, and not as often happens these days, in a total reversal of roles, the Minister having his way come what may.
The official language policy particularly to people like David was irksome, as they needed to make a Herculean effort to master enough Sinhalese to be able to function effectively at their level. Some like Donald Speldewinde and Eardley Mc'heyzer who excelled in land work in the dry zone stuck it out with that characteristic dogged determination that was a hallmark of the community. I recall Francis Pietersz, who served as Government Agent in Nuwara Eliya, completely flooring Dudley Senanayake, then on one of his famous food drive inspections to the outstations, by using the word ‘samalochanaya’ in introducing the review of his district’s agricultural programme. Dudley actually turned round and asked sharply “what is that”? But David who was essentially a city type and served mainly at the Treasury was not that that way inclined.
David’s forays into the countryside that he loved began after he met Jeanine who was the daughter of a family groomed in the culture of the proprietary planter. Her father was ‘Coco’ Jayatilleke the owner/manager of a 60 acre tea estate in Ratnapura, one of a breed of now extinct gentlemen farmers whose life style was reminiscent of the British ‘periya dorais’, with the Ratnapura town club occupying a prominent place in the social calendar. Spending a Sunday eating a feast of a lunch, on the Jayatilleke estate was an experience to be savoured. But David’s and Jeanine’s idyllic Sri Lankan life, with a week at work and the week-end on the estate, was soon to change
In April 1970, just before the elections, which saw Mrs. Bandaranaike and the United Front government sweep into power, David was posted to Washington to serve as our Counselor for Economic Affairs, with ministerial rank, at the Embassy. But this was very short-lived and he was recalled home soon after the new government was inaugurated. David then took advantage of the facility available to officers who had been recruited before the Official Language Act in 1956 and felt unable to continue in service, to opt for early retirement. He did not have to wait for long to begin his second career.
He was offered a job at the World Bank in Washington and began as a Loans Officer working on Iran and Afghanistan. When one met him later he was apt to make a joke of it and say that he could not have done much of a job, since as he put it, “Look at where those countries are now”. In 1973 he had a new assignment when he was promoted as Division Chief for Korea, Taiwan and Hong Kong a job he found fascinating and enjoyed working there for seven years. In 1980 he was posted as Director in the East Asia region and was based in Nairobi, Kenya. I met him there on one of my visits as Secretary in the Plantations Ministry, looking at the way they had so well organized their small tea holdings, where he entertained me in his home which he claimed belonged to Mrs. Jomo Kenyatta, the widow of the famous first President of Kenya.
David’s final stint for the Bank was perhaps where he was most at home and best at. He was appointed the World Bank’s Special Representative to the United Nations, with its headquarters in New York. Here he had, in Jeanine’s words ‘six glorious years’ moving amongst royalty including Presidents and Prime Ministers from all parts of the world. He retired in 1991 and went back home to Washington DC, where he lived with his family and friends surrounded by his music and books.
David Loos was one of the most graceful, talented and decent men who ever lived.
From the Dutch Burgher Union
LOOS, David Gladwin, 1925 – 2006, Educated at Wesley College, where he was school prefect. He was the winner of the Wesley College’s High Silver medal. In 1945 he entered the University of Ceylon where he secured a First Class in Economics. In 1950, having obtained a Bachelor of Arts (First Class), the Civil Service was his obvious choice. The Central Bank offered him a scholarship to Oxford, but he turned it down, because as a Civil Servant he was able ‘to do something for the country’. He was one of a team that negotiated the original terms of the ‘Mahaweli Project’. In 1970, he was posted to Washington to serve as Sri Lanka’s Counsellor for Economic Affairs, with Ministerial rank, at the Embassy. A complete master on the subject of budget and finance, he accepted a position of loans officer at the World Bank in Washington. In 1985, his final stint was the appointment as the World Bank’s Special Representative to the United Nations in New York. He retired six years later after moving amongst Presidents and Prime Ministers, and returned back to his home in Washington. (The Burghers of Ceylon Worldwide – Kelaart, 2007)
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:Bradman Weerakoon, CCS is a Sri Lankan civil servant. As a senior bureaucrat of the Sri Lankan government, he served nine Sri Lankan heads of state in a career spanning half a century.He was born in Colombo on October 20, 1930, the day Donald Bradman came to Ceylon for a cricket match. Bradman Weerakoon played cricket for St Thomas College Mt Lavinia in 1947/48 and 1948/49) and for the Ceylon University 1950/51. He was Ambassador to Egypt and held several key positions in Government at crucial times.
Remembered by Dr N D Amerasekera
R.M.De Silva was the school cricket captain in the Christmas Term of 1956. He became the Senior Prefect in that same year. He lived with his parents in the Prison Quarters, a short walk away from school. At school everyone seemed to know him, from the Primary to the Upper 6th. His brothers studied at Wesley and his sister Norma was a teacher at school. RM De Silva had a successful school career which brought him pleasure, fame and acclaim. He left Wesley in early 1957 and joined the Coconut Research Institute in Lunuvilla where he worked until retirement. He always had a relaxed and easy going attitude to life and enjoyed tremendously the company of friends. He remained a good, helpful and loyal friend to many. After retirement he often travelled to Australia to be with his son and caught up with his old school pals and cricket colleagues in Melbourne. He also spent time with his daughter in Dubai. RM was a delightful person who influenced many with his tolerance, humour and outstanding kindness. He retained a steadfast affection for Wesley throughout his life. He passed away peacefully at home after a prolonged illness. We remember RM De Silva with much affection and cherish those memories of our youth. We thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
As we say for cricketers "May the turf lay lightly on him"
The Comfort and Sweetness of Peace
after the winter, the spring,
after the shower, the rainbow,
for life is a changeable thing.
After the night, the morning,
bidding all darkness cease,
after life's cares and sorrows,
the comfort and sweetness of peace.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Added - 7th June 2010
The Matron (1949-55) by Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
Lest we forget !!
In Ceylon 1950's was an idyllic time. The country was at peace. Tolerance, love, affection and time were found in great abundance far removed from the politically and financially polarised society of today. My father then worked for the Local Government and the "Transfers" took him to all corners of the island. It was then he decided to send me to the boarding to give me some stability for which I am so very grateful.
My first encounter with the hostel Matron Mrs Ruth Hindle was when I joined the boarding in January 1952. The Matron was the Queen of the boarding and its dynamic driving force. She was an impressive fair skinned woman with a big heart and an equally large bosom. She lived in a room by the Junior Dorm with her son Waldo who was my age. For the couple, mother and son, a normal home and family life was impossible. She was in full time employment and had to remain strong-willed and independent as a single parent in the 1950's. In addition she had to care for dozens of children left in the boarding by their busy parents many of them living far far away.
Waldo soon became my friend. He would smuggle me into his apartment and give me some food. There was no bigger treat to a hungry boarder in the midst of a famine of biblical proportions. We listened to the test commentaries from the BBC amidst the hiss and the crackle of an old Phillips radio with a green magic eye. He had to kick the beast to improve the reception. Waldo was called "BADA" for his rotund appearance. He was a gentle giant kind to his finger tips. He won numerous friends by his gentle ways and charming smile. Although he lived with his mum, Waldo joined the rest of the boys for sports and study. He was a fine leg spin bowler with the soft ball and a hard hitting batsman in the small park. He was a good table tennis player. Waldo was a fine exponent of the ever popular indoor game called Carrom. We had much laughs together and he was an amiable and generous person. Waldo often reminded me of Billy Bunter, the fictional rotund mischievous comic strip character of the 1950's created by Frank Richards. Every school needs a Waldo Hindle to lighten the proceedings and bring some life and heart to a pretty stiff environment. He did so with great finesse.
Waldo left school after the GCE and emigrated to Canada where he spent most of his adult life. His cheeky grin and infectious laugh are precious memories for us all. He bestrode his difficult situation in the boarding, as the son of the Matron, with consummate ease. The keystone of his life at school was the warmth of his abiding friendliness.
Mrs Hindle had a warm and sympathetic personality ideally suited for a Matron. She was firm but fair. Looking after 30 juniors some of them as young as 7 yrs who were far away from their parents was time consuming and may have been at time emotionally draining. She not only rose above it all, but also significantly contributed to changing the situation making a home away from home for scores of young hostellers. She helped pupils settle in to school life by providing a sympathetic ear and support. Mrs Hindle kept pupils' families informed about their health and well-being and helped students enjoy school life and also to achieve their potential.
Mrs. Hindle ruled supreme in the Junior section and upheld the multitude of hostel rules, both written and unwritten. Occasionally she would call out- WHO DID THIS? as the culprits shivered in their boots. We were not allowed to sit on the bedspread. Anyone seen doing this received a good scolding and was frequently reduced to tears. She was a formidable woman and was variously kind or histrionic. I do not wish to paint a picture of a demon. She was far from it. She was a kindly lady and looked after us well. As youngsters our barbed comments, withering sarcasm and assorted bad behaviour had to be controlled. Mrs Hindle was very fond of the boarding and understood well its quirky ways. She will be remembered for her warmth and vitality, and for her passionate engagement in almost every aspect of boarding life. She had an unfailing sense of humour which was lovely and light. Her reputation was built on dedication to duty and hard work.
She was also our nurse in the boarding looking after our health. She looked after minor illnesses and gave out non-prescription medicines. The running repairs for our cuts and bruises were done in the evening “surgery” which she held in a room by the sickroom. She took or delegated others to take pupils to medical and dental appointments and was a regular visitor at the school sick room where we were sent if taken ill. This was a great big responsibility which she undertook and carried out with care and efficiency.
The Matron had an important domestic responsibility too. She had the unenviable task of providing wholesome and tasty food for growing kids with enormous appetites. This had to be done on a low budget. How she managed it we will never know. Everyone complains about school food and at Wesley during my time there have been student strikes for “bad food”. One organised by Harris Anthonisz comes to mind easily. Despite his heroics for which he was severely reprimanded the food remained an “issue” until I left the boarding in 1958. This has now entered our folklore and we talk about it when past hostellers of the 50's meet. In March 2009 I had the good fortune to meet that legendary figure, Harris Anthonisz, in Sydney, Australia with Mike Christoffelsz. Over lunch by the Darling Harbour we went on a pleasant trip down memory lane. Whatever deficiencies the boarding may have had the all important hostel food has helped to keep those memories alive !!
Mrs Hindle was an accomplished pianist and played the music for the Choir and also at special occasions at Assembly. She was a devout Christian. Mrs Hindle left Wesley College in 1958 to join Trinity College Kandy. She perhaps remained there until retirement. Mrs Ruth Hindle was born in 1909 and Passed away in 1976 in Sri Lanka.
She was outspoken, sympathetic and generous with her time and her patronage. She will be both remembered with love and enormously missed by her family – but that family will encompass hundreds of students and young people, mostly boarders, who were helped over the years, and who took her as the epitome of what a mother, an aunt or grandmother should be – wise, witty and unconditional in her support and approval.
Despite the passage of more than half a century I still remember the love and care she gave us and her immense dedication to duty. She was full of kindness, courage and dogged determination to create a home away from home for many. She is yet another unsung hero of the fifties and a College treasure who looked after a generation of boarders before they emerged as adults into a harsh and unforgiving world. My search for their lives after leaving Wesley College has drawn a blank. I never met the Hindles after they left but recall most vividly the happy times in the boarding all those years ago.
Links to further reading
From George Robertson living in Melbourne, Australia ( 24th June 2010)
Many thanks for sending me the article which I have just read. It is beautiful, evocative and will strike a chord with every old boy who had the experience of Boarding School at Wesley - and I cannot recall a period at Wesley without Mrs. Hindle - I had four older brothers, all of whom also attended Wesley and were often boarded before I started my schooling. They also remembered Mrs. Hindle! My Dad, like yours, worked for the Ceylon Railways and also was transferred to places like Paranthan, Jaffna, Trinco, Anuradhapura, Moratuwa, etc. etc. But I have a vivid memory of Mrs. Hindle which affected me personally, which was like this - In the early hours of one morning I was woken by a terrible pain on my right side, near my hip. It was as if I had been stabbed. The pain was throbbing without ceasing and I finally got out of bed, went down the stairs to the kitchen where I saw a light on. Mrs. Hindle was in the kitchen and I told her what I was experiencing. She asked to see the spot and when I lowered my pyjamas, a huge, purple centipede could be seen hiding in the folds. He was promptly killed, and Mrs. Hindle cut an onion in half and rubbed it on the spot which relieved the pain. That is one of my fond remembrances of Mrs. Hindle too. I shall end, with kindest regards to you, and we shall keep in touch.
God Bless.
Cheers,
George.
GRANT HER O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
SIVALINGAM - V.P. - SIVA of Austin, Texas, USA (Former Engineer, State Engineering Corporation, old boy of Wesley College, Colombo, University of Peradeniya and formerly of Kolonnawa, Sri Lanka). Beloved husband of Hemamali Jayantha (nee Wijeyekoon of Dehiowita, Sri Lanka), loving father of Shivantha, Shamantha and Sushantha, father-in-law of Hope Nickerson Sivalingam (Houston, USA), brother of Muthulakshmi, Lakshmi Latheef, Lakshman, Arun (London) and Parames (Toronto, Canada), son-in-law of Chandra Wijeyekoon of Dehiowita, passed away on June 22 in Colombo. Remains lie at No. 7, Perakumba Mawatha, Kolonnawa. Cremation will take place at Kolonnawa Public Cemetery on June 26th 2010 at 3.00 p.m.
When we were all together,
The friendship chain is broken now,
But memories live forever.
MAY HE FIND ETERNAL PEACE
Eric Ferdinands By Langston Joseph
Eric was 92 when he passed on to his eternal rest on 10th. June 2010 in Brisbane. Maureen and I were indeed pleased to visit him at the Albany Gardens Nursing Centre in Albany Creek, Brisbane, on a brief visit we made to Queensland late February 2010. My main recollections of Eric were as one of the seniors, and also as a member of the College 1st. Eleven Cricket Team in 1935, under the captaincy of Henry van Buren. As fellow ‘old boys’ will recall when the Revd. John Dalby was Principal; it was the tradition, on 1st Eleven Inter Collegiate Match days, for the team to attend morning Assembly, wearing their dark blue / light blue College blazers. Sitting in the front of the Hall, where we juniors sat, I envied them, and wondered whether I would ever have the privilege of wearing the College blazer. Alas I didn’t! Leaving College, Eric worked in the Government
Postal Department till, with his wife Dagmar, and daughter Sandra, they migrated to Australia, and settled in Brisbane. With us living in Melbourne, visiting Eric and his family at their home was limited to just three occasions, and twice when they visited us at our home here in Melbourne. I have been told by fellow ‘old boys’ of Wesley that Eric took part in competition Cricket Matches in Brisbane, but was best known as an Umpire. Suffice it to say that as cousins, ours was a happy friendship, supported by warm family ties. To compliment the situation, both families lived in Karlsruhe Gardens - with Wesley College as the centre piece. Dear Eric – Rest in Peace.
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Farewell dear Billy
In kindergarten at Wesley we had teachers Mrs Sheila Wijeykoon then Mrs Joyce Leembruugen who replaced our mothers for the short day we spent enjoying ourselves. We had close relationships with the boys who were either a year older or younger what ever the case was. In those days Billy Colin Thome was one of the boys who was junior but mingled well. He was a chubby boy with a rhubarb complexion after ten minutes of running around either as a “cowboy” or a “crook” As time went on we had more in common a Christianity class with the formidable Miss Iris Blacker “Presiding” and no –one had any real cares.
Life was a game with a lot or reading, ‘riting and ‘rithmetic. There was close bonding in the classes and Reggie Bartholomeusz, Alston Koch and Russell Hamer like Billy showed signs of things to come. Alston was a singer, Russell and Reggie sportsmen but Billy was the musician. His aunty Mary was for a while the teacher who took us through the singing scales after Mrs Smith left in 1957. She was adorable. Then we were told that Billy would move on to Trinity College as a boarder with his young brother. I knew I was going to miss Billy because he was the kind of boy who would be missed not only by his class but by everyone who knew him. Never an angry word, always pleasant always polite, ready to help anyone who needed him Billy was a God send even to boys like me.
I was sorry he was leaving and I remember telling him so never realising that we would run into each other in Kandy and at Asgiriya in the basketball quadrangle outside the dining Hall at Trinity. We did and I was glad I met him. Billy recognised me (not very hard to do) and we got chatting. He remembered every one of his classmates and mine. He had not forgotten any of the funny details of quips and jokes we had shared. I was probably the only boy in the 1963 Wesley cricket team that he could relate to although he knew everyone else. Milroy Mutuvaloe our skipper Darrell Maye vice captain and all-rounder in fact he even remembered Sarath Wickremaratne’s primate nick name! I spent a lot of time with Billy and his good friend and class mate Trinitian Gavin Rodie.
Somehow I felt that Billy was still an Old Wesleyite inside without him saying so. We parted company after Sunil Perera’s Trinitians were treated to a brilliant innings of calculated batting by the late Rodney Perera and a very honourable draw on a wicket we were never going to get used to. Two years later I met Billy again and after a lot of catastrophic decisions by our rudderless team Wesley was comprehensively beaten by an innings. There was sadness and sympathy in Billy’s eyes when we met in mid afternoon as we walked down the Asgiriya hill. He expected us to put up a better fight and we just crumbled to Anil Ratwatte’s off spin. So MTM Zarook’s men had given us an object lesson after Colombo 1964 when we snuffed them out for 64 runs when all they needed was 120. That was sweet revenge for the Lions.
I got the feeling that Billy could not take sides when Wesley and Trinity met but then the Wesleyites were always supporters of Trinity whenever they played any other school. Like Mr Cedric J. Oorloff the Principal of Wesley then Trinity, Billy was a binder of our schools. The bonds were there. We took pride in them and them in us. Gavin Rodie had left for Australia and for years we had not been in touch. Mohan Sahayam the ace International fly half and Gavin were the links I had with the Trinitians. When he told me that Billy his good mate and mine was suffering with cancer I was shell shocked.
I have been planning to meet them both when I had the time to visit Australia. But then it seems that all the nice old Wesleyites were saying their goodbyes before I could see them. Bryan Claessen, Robin Reimers, Lou Adhihetty, Donald Thurairatnam, Tyrone Maye, Joe Gunasekera have all gone in the past few years. One thing is common with each and every one of these gentlemen and Old Trinitian Billy Colin-Thome! They were humble, generous, and kind human beings! Is that why then that I am left behind?
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Country Roads regular Darlan passes away - Darlan Perera by Feizal Samath, President/CMF
“Machan I’ll be there” … were the warm words and brief response, always, from Darlen Perera, the 69-year-old veteran singer/guitarist who died on Tuesday night after a brief illness, whenever I asked him whether he could perform at our regular Country Roads charity concerts. An affable, friendly and much loved personality in the Sri Lankan music scene, Darlen played for many bands including the Bohemians before branching out as a solo artiste in recent years.
He was a regular on the hotel circuit and locations like the Capri Club and Colombo Swimming Club. Darlen played at the Country Roads charity concert for many years as a member of one of the bands and then as a solo artiste often providing the audience a range of old country favourites. That was his forte – the good old country songs, evergreens and songs of a bygone era that are still popular. He got crowds rocking and rolling wherever he played. The Beatles was one of his favourite bands, judging from a number of Beatles’ favourites that he sang. He attended the Beatles’ tribute band concert last week and fell ill thereafter, never to recover again.
Musicians like Darlen are among a breed that’s hardly recognised – men and women who sweat their way in the music scene to keep the home fires burning, raise a family and provide a decent education for their children. They never ask for much: don’t receive any accolades or awards like some musicians; are satisfied with the bare necessities of life and are extremely humble. Darlen is the third musician to pass away from dozens of musicians who have given their heart and soul at the Country Roads concerts which has raised millions of rupees for needy children in Sri Lanka, working through organisations like UNICEF and Save the Children, UK. Earlier Cosmic Rays drummer Asoka Ratnapala passed away just before the 1999 concert followed by folk singer Thisula Abeysekera in 2006. They were also two musicians who volunteered their services for these concerts, a rarity these days in a world governed by material values. Darlen, you will be sorely missed by all your friends and us at the Country Music Foundation. Feizal Samath, President/CMF
Remembered by Brinsley Rosairo
Darlen Perera passed away on 21st September 2010 after a brief illness. He represented College in rugby in 1959 and 1960. He was a well known musician in Sri lanka, He played with the popular dance band “The Bohemians”. He was a regular at the local Club socials always playing the favourite covers from the sixties onwards which often kept the party swinging. He leaves behind his wife Joan and three children Dormani, Desso, Damien and five grand children. He was a lovely fellow always willing to help out where he could and will be sadly missed by everyone.
The music will play on just for you Darlan Perera by Johnny Heyn
I got to know the country singer and all round musician par excellence Darlon around ten years back. Since I too am a singer, we got on very well and became close pals. We sang at gatherings, functions, home parties, etc. We did stints at the German Restaurant at Galle Face and at the Colombo Swimming Club where I presently work.
My sister and family overseas got to know him very well, when he entertained them all on his guitar with all his top class renditions of the oldies. In 2006 we went to Hikkaduwa taking our famous guitarist along to liven up our holiday. I also had the pleasure to sing at two ‘Country Roads’ show with him. We used to call each other practically daily and talk about life, sharing a couple of jokes .
Last year Darlan came down with a nagging persistent cough that forced him to even skip my b’day in April.
He was advised to go to Ragama Hospital for a check up. After being in and out of hospital he was sadly diagnosed with lung cancer. Just five days before his passing away on 16, last year, he joined us all for the "Fab Beatles show".
Since he was unwell I draped my jacket around his shoulders, but he was trembling due to the air-conditioning. He left half way through the concert. He was admitted to the Maharagama Hospital, a couple of days later and his daughter broke the sad news of his passing away, on September 20. He left behind his wife,two daughters, son and grand children. He was my best friend and mentor in music. I miss you dear Darlon my dear friend. Till we meet again. Let the music – play on – like you always said –ACHA
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By Nizar Sappideen
Anwar Sappideen(born 1938), the oldest in our family of five boys – all old Wesleyites (Nizar, Razeen, Seenar and Binhur) and one girl, Nazeera (a past pupil of Davi Balika Vidyala), passed away in Melbourne (Australia) on 14th October, 2010, after a short illness.
Anwar and I joined Wesley in the year 1952. He was a bright student, like his other contemporaries, some names I can remember - A. J. Pathmarajah, Terrence Goonewardena, Ajitha Wijesinghe, Shanti Perera, Frank Samuel. While he wanted to study medicine, he had the most wonderful opportunity to study in the UK at the Northampton College of Technology (as it was then) and left College and sailed to England in 1958 (I left College in 1959). Anwar graduated from the Northampton College in Leather Tecnology (majoring in Dyeing and Finishing) winning the College’s Gold Medal, and where he was for sometime also an Instructor. He returned home in 1962 and was for many years the Works/Factory Manager at the Ceylon Products Corporation, until he accepted an appointment with an Italian Multinational Company setting up plants in Malaysia and Singapore. He emigrated to Australia in 1974, worked in Sydney for sometime, and then joined Yorkshire Chemicals (a UK Mutinational Company in Melbourne), where he was Manager for their South East Asian operations, until his early retirement at the age of 55 years. Amongst his other achievements, he played Rugby for Wesley, when Rugby was first introduced to Wesley under Mr. Dabrera, and was a member of the College Debating and Spelling B Teams.
He was a very prominent member of the Muslim and Sri Lankan Malay Community in Melbourne and their members will miss him very much, as this was evident at the big gathering at his funeral in Melbourne. He leaves behind his wife Fatima, daughter Azni and son Jehan.
Remembered By Keith De Kretser
Anwar Sappideen passed away peacefully on Thursday 14 October 2010 after a long and courageous battle with Parkinson’s disease. Anwar was born in 1938, the eldest of five boys his brothers being Nizar, Razeen, Seenar (all living in NSW) and Binhur (Melbourne) who were all educated at Wesley College. He played Rugby for Wesley amongst his other achievements. He left Wesley in 1958 to further his studies. While he wanted to study medicine, he had the most wonderful opportunity to study in the UK at the Northampton College of Technology (as it was then).
He graduated from Northampton College in Leather Technology (majoring in Dyeing and Finishing) winning the College's Gold Medal, and where he was for sometime also an Instructor. He returned home in 1962 and was for many years the Works/Factory Manager at the Ceylon Leather Products Corporation, until he accepted an appointment with an Italian Multinational Company setting up plants in Malaysia and Singapore. He emigrated to Australia in 1974, worked in Sydney for sometime, and then joined a UK Multinational Company in Melbourne (which specialised in the chemicals industry) where he was Manager for their South East Asian operations until his retirement. Anwar was a regular at the OBUA functions in Melbourne during our formative years until his health began to deteriorate quite some years ago. His funeral was well attended and his mortal remains laid to rest on the same day at the Springvale Necropolis in a traditional Muslim ceremony. I joined a number of old Wesleyites who were present to bid him farewell. May his soul rest in peace.
From Him do we come and unto Him do we return
From the Wesley Times Australia - November Issue 2010
Passed away peacefully at home in Melbourne after a long and weary illness. on 19th September 2010. aged 73 years Beloved husband of Dorothy, father of Gary and Jenny (daughter-in- law), Anne Marie and Tim (son- in-law) and grandchildren: Jarrad, Trinity and Scott. Loved son of Edward (Ned) and Doreen (both dec.), fond brother to Christine and Alex. We extend our sincere sympathies to the family, their relatives and friends. Note: His sister Christine Stork taught at Wesley in the early sixties in the Primary classes.
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Late of Homebush Bay, New South Wales. Australia Dearly loved husband of Deepthi, darling dada of Michael and Shane, beloved son of James (Bunnie) and Lois (deceased) dear brother to Jeremy and Carina (deceased), loving uncle to many nephews and nieces."Forever in our hearts" The funeral service will be held at the Parkside Church, 717 Smithfield Road, Edensor Park on (Thursday November 18, 2010) at 10.30 am. No flowers. A donation for Charity can be made at the Church.
Michael Kreltszheim from the Rugby Photo 1967 Captained by the Late Dr. Shee Hung Yu
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Rugby 1st XV Team - 1967
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From Raymond (Ray de Run):
My memories of you with that affable smile and nature will always remain. We shared a desk together at school and most importantly we shared some wonderful times indulging in each other’s tall stories. Those days on the rugby field and at your home playing cricket with Mark and Errol will never be forgotten. I named you the “gentle bear” got rid of many of your challengers with that bear hug. Some of those names I used to tease you with like (Lipper) that Bunny and some others would remember caused so much laughter, but you never got angry. The hallmark of a great friend and someone that will be hard to forget, till we all meet again to scrum down. Adios old pal and keep that happy smile. Thanks for the memories R.I.P.
From Frederick (Erick Forster):
Michael I just got your phone number 1 month ago, but now I cannot talk to you anymore. I'll always remember the days at school and on the rugby field, you were a great prop and I enjoyed playing with you in our rugby team and will never forget the swap we had you gave me a pair of cricket boots and in return you took my dad's rugby boots. They became a proud pair of boots when you played and also the great times when I visited you at home to eat your guava fruits from your tree. My condolenses go to the entire family. Farewell may be one day we will meet again.
From Bunny (Sextus) Taylor:
Michael, I am honoured to have been your friend, classmate and team-mate. I have some wonderful memories of you. Especially in our Tower room class, on the rugby field and the time I took you to a Dansal during Vesak, that still puts a smile on my face. Thanks for the memories.
Farewell till we meet again.
Photo: Michael Kreltszheim
An endless mile; a bus wheel turning
A friend to share the lonesome times
A handshake and a sip of wine
So say it loud and let it ring We are all a part of everything
The future, present and the past Fly on proud bird You're free at last
Michael was a gentle giant indeed, when we were in the second or third form many of us started to display our personalities, some quiet and docile, some studious, some active in sports and some rough and tumble, like myself. Michael fitted in the middle somewhere. Although he was a big and strong guy, he was quiet and docile. The rough and tumble guys would try to take him on because of his size. He was not agile but for his build, but was very quick in reacting. If he sensed someone was behind him he would turn around like a bear ready to strike. But when someone tried to have a go at him, he would walk away. However if they persisted he would turn around and grab them, shake them twice and drop them and that would be the end of the challenge. Ray de Run, Fredrick Forster and I thought this was hilarious and would have a good laugh; Michael would put on his stern face and walk away. He was so gentle that he could not bring himself to punching anyone's lights out although he easily could. He carried this attitude on to the rugby field, which did not help. So I devised a plan that would make him aggressive on the rugby field.
Michael my Rugby Team-mate
I recruited Michael into the Rugby team as a prop forward for his strength and size.
I was the hooker with Roger Koch the other prop. But I had a hell of a job trying to hold on to these props as they would pull away and the scrum would collapse or we would get pushed back.
I thought of a plan to get the front row to be more aggressive as both props were very gentle guys. I had to get them angry enough so they would go in hard and push the other team and that was to punch my own props as we went down. After a few punches Michael would say to me "Secky, someone punched me" I would encourage them to go in hard and push the buggers … By now they were angry enough they could push a freight train, and we won every scrum.
One day we were playing at Campbell Park and Michael caught me punching him. He felt so betrayed that he walked away from the game, when Bentley Barsenbach and LAFA asked him what the hell he was doing walking away from the game while it was still in progress, He said… "I can't play anymore, Taylor is hitting me". Needless to say they chased him back on to the field.
At half time Michael and I were pulled out by Bentley Barsenbach and LAFA. When I told them the reason for my actions, LAFA was not amused and I was marked for a caning after the game. Bentley Barsenbach on the other hand thought it was a cleaver plan although he reprimanded me and I had to apologise to Michael and when I explained why I did what I did, he too understood. He was as aggressive as he could possibly be after that.
Michael never backed down when he was right.
Michael Kreltszheim, Fredrick Forster, Ray de Run, Adrian Parsons, Derrick Schokman, Quyn (never knew his first name), Derendran Perera, Mickey Kitchilan, Azahim Mohamed, Brian Batstone and myself were all in the arts class located in the tower room (opposite the library). We had joint Art, English and Sinhalese with the Sinhalese Arts students such as Asoka Jayawardane, Roger Perera, Nimal Rodrigo and a few others. For our Art class we had to come downstairs to a classroom beside the College hall usually occupied by a Tamil class.
One day as usual we went downstairs for our Art lesson, it was a Friday so Brian Batstone, Derrick Schokman, Mickey Kitchilan were playing cricket (they were in the 1st X1 team). Goodness knows where Azahim Mohamed was. On that particular day the Sinhalese boys were also missing. We finished our class and returned to our own class room, when we were all summoned to LAFA's office - Michael Kreltszhiem, Fredrick Forster, Ray de Run, Adrian Parsons, Quyn, Derendran Perera an myself, as we were accused of making a mess of the class we used for our Art lesson. Apparently there was water all over the class. We did not cause any mess, but these Tamil boys wanted to get us into trouble, maybe due an incident with Ramanathan (the Maths teacher) and myself. The rest of the class was just collateral damage. Although we protested our innocence LAFA was not buying our story and we all got caned, except when it came to Michael's turn, he would not accept the punishment. Although we pleaded with him to take the punishment and we would exact revenge on the entire Tamil class for framing us, he would not give in. Eventually LAFA let him go and was going to investigate the matter further. A few days later, Michael was vindicated, but the rest of us got another caning for admitting to an offence we did not commit. Needless to say the Tamil students paid for it.
Strangely enough when I was talking to Edmund Dissanayake abut 4 years ago, he brought this subject up and said how he admired Michael for standing up to his rights.
Michael's first Vesak
Michael lived a sheltered life and did not get up to any mischief like the rest of us "hooligans". As the time of my immigration to the UK was fast approaching, I got up to all kinds of mischief with my close friend Cassim Cader and wanted to share the fun with Michael. I remember the fun we (Shanthi McLelland, Cassim Cader, I and the late Rando Crutchley and Shee Hung) had with him, taking him on his first Vesak jaunt and visiting that posh Dansala by Liptons, where food was served on plates and not the traditional banana leaf.
We all started eating and enjoying the food when I noticed that Michael was not touching his food. I thought he did not want to eat, as he might be worried about the hygiene although this Dansala was like a posh cafe. When I asked him what was wrong he said he was waiting for a Fork & Spoon. I replied in traditional foul language ..."eat with your fingers". He did not know how to. I was not good at it either but I asked him to copy what I was doing. He made a total mess and we had a great laugh.
We then went on our way to see the pandals, I somehow had a safety pin with me, and while amidst the crowds I would prick the females standing directly opposite Rando (he was a huge guy that could not speak two words of Sinhalese). They would turn around and scold
him in Sinhalese and all he could say was "mame ney". Michael would just smile and enjoy the fun of getting Rando in to trouble, but was so nervous as it could have lead to a fight.
Last contact with Michael
The last time I saw Michael was in December 1970 when I was on holiday in Ceylon, I was at a dance, when I bumped into Michael and Jeremy who were there with a bunch of their friends, I think it was a farewell do for a friend of theirs (I think her name was Ellis Solomon) who was immigrating to Canada in a few weeks. I took to the floor with this girl and wound up making out with her for the best part of the evening and could not fully enjoy Michael's company. I telephoned him about 4 years ago and gave him quite a shock. We were so happy to hear each others voices and reminisced about many things and the fun we had.
Shanthi McLelland, Cassim Cader and I were regular visitors to his place behind the prisons. They had guava trees with delicious fruit and his Mum would always have passion fruit and meringues (we called them kisses in Ceylon) that would melt in your mouth. We were such greedy buggers; one could find us wherever there was free food.
I have so many fond memories of Michael and our crazy bunch of friends. His tragic passing has come as such a shock. Rest in peace my friend and I will treasure the fond memories of those happy times in our youth.
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......................................................................... ......................................................................... ......................................................................... Without seeking such a mantle Jai Lameer had come to be seen by all those who knew him in the United Kingdom and all his relations and friends in his native Sri Lanka, as the embodiment of kindness, generosity and compassion. His recent demise was an unbearable loss to his family and all who knew him. The Sri Lankan community in Greater London in general and the suburbs of Croydon and Purley in particular have lost a true friend who was larger than life – a void that would be difficult to fulfil. His loss will reverberate amongst countless Sri Lankans and particularly the many less privileged parents in Sri Lanka, whose very young children were literally saved from certain death due to the tremendous work carried out by the Guy’s Mercy Mission to Sri Lanka of which he was the chief co-ordinator during the past eight years. Mohamed Zaheer Mohamed Lameer ‘Jai’ to all those who knew him, was born on 4th of July 1944, the son of Mr A.M.M Lameer and Mrs Nona Laila Lameer. He was educated at Wesley College Colombo; a prestigious and premier Methodist School that was a stone’s throw from his family home. He grew up in the carefree ‘sixties’ and performed creditably in his studies and sports in particular Rugby. Immediately following his secondary education at Wesley like many adventurous youngsters of his generation, he set sail to the United Kingdom in 1964. Upon arrival in 1964 he joined Trembath Refrigeration and Air Conditioning as a trainee, qualifying as a Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning Engineer in 1969. In between this period he met and married Jayanthi Kodikara and set up home in Beckenham, Kent. Shortly thereafter he moved with his family to Solihull in the West Midlands having taken up employment with Climate Equipment. Following his stint in the West Midlands Jai branched out on his own in 1977 and set up his own company Freezeway Limited with Jayanthi, a Company that flourished throughout the 1980’s and 1990’s. He had a very wide clientele spanning the length and breadth of the United Kingdom, including Northern Ireland. His clientele included some prestigious and fashionable establishments in London’s West End. It was about the busiest period in his life, but he never used it as an excuse not to assist any friend or acquaintance in need of his advice or assistance. It was also most commendable that although a devout member of the Islamic faith he was one of the main supporters of the Thames Buddhist Vihara in Croydon from its fledgling days right up to the turn of the century. The time, energy and resources that he put at the disposal of the Thames Buddhist Vihara during this period were phenomenal and legendary. He also founded the Wesley College Old Boy’s Association in the United Kingdom, which he served many years with distinction in various capacities including that of the President. A fiercely loyal Wesleyite he was held in high esteem and respected by the school’s main Association in Colombo. The continuous and gruelling work that also had to be completed to schedule as he was dealing with high street businesses exclusively did take its toll on Jai. In 2000, Jai was compelled to undergo a heart by-pass operation, which he faced with his usual courage and optimism. It was a complete success and that was the prelude to a most remarkable and fruitful relationship with his consultant Cardiac Surgeon Mr Conal Austin of Guy’s and St. Thomas’ Hospital. Mr Austin himself had a great affection for Sri Lanka having visited the island during his medical school days and in 2003 he assembled a crack medical team comprising his friend, colleague and Cardiologist Dr John Simpson and some outstanding and eminent Anaesthetists, Technicians and Nurses etc, to spend ten to twelve days of their own time operating on extremely sick children in Sri Lanka. The whole venture was co-ordinated by Jai in his inimitable and efficient style (also assisted by Dr Mohan Jayatilaka consultant Cardiologist in Colombo) leaving no stone unturned and using his best endeavours to make the team’s work and stay in Sri Lanka as comfortable and tolerable as possible. The work of the Mission continued making a further seven visits to Sri Lanka resulting in over one hundred babies and very young children being saved, and are now leading healthy and normal lives. The work of the Mission has now reached legendary proportions especially in and around Galle and the Karapitya Hospital. The writer is personally aware of the ground work and behind the scene work Jai did in organising the Sri Lankan side of the Mission’s work as he was conscientious and most determined not to let Mr Austin and his colleagues be unnecessarily inconvenienced. The Mission, its’ success and its continuity was his passion. Sadly Jai showed signs of deteriorating health from about mid 2008 but he did not let it hamper or affect his normal life or work. By this time he had cut down on his Air Conditioning Business, although he did attend to the needs of his long-standing clients. He continued with all his activities including one of the most important things in his life – The Mercy Mission to Sri Lanka. He was not a well man when he co-ordinated the last Mission in September 2010 (against the advice of his family friends and the personnel of the Mission). He was firmly determined to see it through and nothing would stop him. The Mission was as usual a success but it appeared to all those who were close to him that he was not well. In spite of this he strove to lead a normal life going about his business until he just could not carry on any more. Jai was a man who never troubled anyone but was always prepared to put himself at the service of others. He loved, looked after and protected his family passionately and with great devotion. Equally important to him were his friends and their families. His joy and happiness at the success of his friends’ children was overwhelming and had to be seen to be believed. The number of youngsters who Jai knew throughout their lives and who were at his bedside during his last few hours in Brompton Hospital in London was ample testimony. The large gathering that assembled at Thames Buddhist Vihara, barely twenty-four hours of his passing, at a ceremony to bestow blessings upon him and the even larger gathering at his funeral was clear evidence of the high esteem this larger than life man with an equally large heart boundless energy and enormous enthusiasm was held by all. Georgina Christina Rossetti's famous words; He lived his life in the epitome of a verse by J.Keble in his familiar hymn: And on this road for his family, his country and his friends Jai walked that extra mile. I remember Jai at Wesley. He had several brothers at school and one of them was in my class. Another brother who qualified as a doctor was in my year at medical school.They lived in a large house in Dematagoda Jai played Rugby for the school in the 1st XV in 1959 and 1960. He was a quiet lad well liked at school.
He was a stalwart of the Wesley College OBU(UK). I have met him many times at the OBU meetings. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I wish to thank Jai for his immense contribution to the life of the school. Derrick passed away on Thursday 6th January 2011 after a long illness. Derrick was at Wesley in 1945 and represented the College at Cricket and Tennis. He was a long standing member of the Wesley College OBU UK and was very supportive in all its activities. Funeral took place on Thursday 20th 2011 at 11am after service at: .......................................... GRANT HIM O LORD ETERNAL PEACE ..........................................
Mohamed Zaheer Mohamed Lameer, "Jai", Passed away on Saturday 8 January 2011. He was at Wesley from 1949 - 1963 and represented College at Rugby. Jai was a founder member of the Wesley College OBU UK and did all the initial work to get the Union together. Jai was the first Secretary of the Union.He was the 3rd President of the Union from 1996 -1998. and also, served as its Treasurer. Jai was very actively involved in Charity work and formed a very successful Charity "Mercy Mission".Which he led with a team of medical doctors and nurses, to operate on deprived children with heart conditions in Sri Lanka.
Rugby 1st XV Team - 1959
Rugby 1st XV Team - 1960
Jai Lameer by Harish Nilaweera
Sing no sad songs for me;
Plant thou no roses at my head,
Nor shady cypress tree:
Be the green grass above me
With flowers and dewdrops wet;
And if thou wilt, remember,
And if thou wilt, forget.
Jai has left us - gone beyond the ken of human consciousness. In keeping with his direct and matter of fact approach to life his twilight thoughts knowing him as I have done for more than thirty four years would have been typically echoed by
If thou wilt, forget.
Would furnish all we need to ask
Room to deny ourselves, a road
To bring us daily nearer God.
Jai Lameer died peacefully on 8th of January. He is survived by his wife Jayanthi his daughter and son, Soraya and Shahan respectively and his grandchildren Ayesha and Cyrus.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
To Allah we belong and to him is our return
Memories of you come our way.
Though absent, you are always near
Still missed, loved and always dear.
Lawrence's Roman Catholic Church
The Green
Feltham
Middlesex TW13 4AF
Kindly sent to me by Aubrey Melder
31/01/2011
Eardley Melder was a College prefect and talented musician and sportsman when he died, drowned at sea at Mt. Lavinia in July 1966. At the time of his death he was vying for the ‘opening position’ of the cricket first XI (refer team photo for 1966). He captained the under 17 rugby side and was playing at the ‘fly half’ number 10 position in the first XV rugby team. His untimely death brought a terrible sense of loss to his family, class mates, friends and fellow Wesleyites. His funeral service was held at the general cemetery at Kanatte, Sri Lanka and was attended by a vast crowd, consisting of family, relatives, friends, and staff and pupils of the school. Arrangements at the cemetery were coordinated by then Vice Principal Mr. L A Fernando and Eardley’s cousin Edward James Melder (Eddie). In the same year he had obtained one of the few distinctions in the Island for English stenography at his O/L examinations, and was awarded the class prize at the annual College prize giving ceremony. Eardley was the son of Allan Luther and Beatrice Mona Melder and the younger brother of Aubrey.
In loving memory of their beloved son Mr and Mrs A.L Melder donated the Eardley Melder Challenge Trophy for the Inter-Bank Six -a Side Cricket Tournament held Annually in Colombo.
Happy memories come to mind
Of one we loved with all our hearts
And will till the end of time.
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The information of her demise was kindly sent to me by Yohan Ferreira. I am grateful for his efforts to obtain a photo from Mrs Bhadrani Jayawardene's daughter. It is with much sadness I announce the passing away of Mrs. Jayawardhane, teacher of O/L English Literature during the late 1990s at Wesley.
Her obituary appears in today's Daily News 9th March 2011
Hope many Old Boys can pay their last respects and attend the funeral this evening.
Ranjith was a popular, transparently honest, decent lad at Wesley College in the 1950’s. He travelled to school daily from Kolonnawa with his 2 brothers who were younger to him . He was recognized as a tough guy as he was a keen body builder and looked muscular. He impressed his peers by his stamina and strength. Despite those looks he was a modest gentle soul and never got into trouble with the strict rules and discipline at Wesley College. He was a good natured, quiet, kind lad. Although I remember his wit humour and laughter Ranjith was a shy student and remained rather an elusive figure at school.
Ranjith was a Sea Scout with the likes of CS Chen, Shanthi Perera and Daya Perera and was a fine swimmer. The Organisation was established in 1932 by Founder W.F Abayekoon Under the name of 1st Port of Colombo SEA SCOUTS. Their Head Quarters, is situated on the banks of the Beira Lake where they rowed their boats. Once during a Sea Scout function Ranjith was thrown overboard during a boating manoeuvre. He, sadly, drowned wearing his heavy Sea Scout gear. This was a tragic loss to his family, the Scouts and to his numerous friends at Wesley. This tragedy had a devastating effect on the organisation and all who knew him. In our lives we cannot banish dangers and much depends on our own destiny.
During the late 1950's my parents lived in Kolonnawa. On some days I have walked with the Kottachchi boys to school and back. We were all shaken by this tragedy. I remember his terribly sad and grief-stricken family. I was then a teenager and distinctly recall visiting his home to pay my respects. I remember the sadness that filled my mind. The thought of a young person dying was almost too painful to comprehend. I felt it was so unfair to see a young person with all their life ahead of them die before older generations who have lived their life. I had in the past regarded death as something in the far distant future, and yet this loss of a young life was a tragic reminder that nobody is invincible, no matter their age.
Ranjith was a loving son and brother who was treasured by his family. We fondly remember his happy smiling face. Ranjith left us in 1959. He had much to give and was too young to leave this world. But he went whilst doing what he enjoyed most, being surrounded by his friends, the Sea Scouts.
As they say "Only the good die young"
Uppajjitva Nirujjhanti – tesam Vupasamo Sukko.
Transient alas are all Component things
Subject are they to birth – and then decay
Having gained birth to death, the life flux swings
Bliss dawns when unrest dies away
The Buddha
May he attain the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
My thanks go to Lakshman Kottachchi and Lalith Wijesinghe for their efforts to send me a fine photo of Ranjith to be included in the Double Blue International.
A champion of commerce who was witness to the Ceylonisation of trade by Jagath C. Savandasa
With the death of Owen Reginald Kreltszheim, aged 89, in mid-January 2011, we have lost a gentleman of a rare breed. I had known Owen for more than three decades, but closely only for a few years. His life and times, especially the way he guided the destinies of an export house and emerging Ceylon business and plantation interests in the early 20th century, deserve mention.
The middle of the last century marked the beginning of an uncertain future for the Dutch Burgher community, a community that had been somewhat privileged under both the Dutch and the British. The official language policy after Independence made many members of the community consider an alternative homeland. The majority departed our shores.
I believe many of Owen’s relatives were among those who left the country.
But Owen chose to remain in the land of his birth.
The Burghers had left an indelible imprint in both the public and private sectors, not to mention the professions and sports of this country. The Burgher community was distributed over all parts of the island, but many lived close to the city of Colombo. Nugegoda was much favoured among the community. The Burghers interacted and mingled easily with the other communities. Nugegoda’s cosmopolitan mix since British times suited them perfectly.
Owen lived in Melder Place, named after his wife’s family. Melder Place and Raymond Road were two parts of Nugegoda that were long associated with the Burghers.
After completing his education at Wesley College, Colombo, Owen joined E. B. Creasy and Darley Butler & Co. Ltd, the leading British firm. The pre-Independence era saw the rapid rise of Ceylonese business interests. Apart from the tea, rubber and coconut industries, the three principal revenue earners, Ceylonese businesses rapidly expanded into the maritime provinces, giving rise to a new breed of planters and business leaders.
As soon as Independence was achieved, there was a strident cry from the indigenous business leaders for the Ceylonisation of trade that had long been in the control of British and Indian interests. The government introduced momentous legislation, eliminating trading by British and Indian-owned firms. This resulted in the closure of Darley Butler’s export department, where Owen was employed.
Owen had arrived at a decisive juncture in his life.
Among the main suppliers of cinnamon to Darley Butler was Darsin de Silva & Company, rubber and cinnamon planters and transporters based in Ambalangoda. Darsin and another cinnamon planter, Hector Fernando, had developed a friendship with Owen over the years. It was their influence and vision that led to the formation of Intercom Ltd, with Hector Fernando as chairman, Owen Kreltszheim as managing director, and Darsin de Silva and C. Muthukumaraswamy as directors.
When Hector died in the mid-1980s, Owen took over as chairman. Many attribute the rise of Intercom Ltd to the pinnacle of the cinnamon trade to Owen’s total dedication to work. He burnt the midnight oil to make the company a success.
It was also in the early 1980s that Owen took on the role of Honorary Secretary of the National Chamber of Commerce of Sri Lanka, which had pioneered the Ceylonisation of trade. The Chamber of Commerce had a substantial membership of emerging business leaders. Significantly, many of them were originally from the Southern coastal belt. Their rise brought about vital socio-economic changes, resulting in private sector expansion, employment generation, and enhanced export earnings.
Owen also served the Church. He was Warden of SS Mary and St. John, founded more than 150 years ago. He was also an active member of the YMCA of Nugegoda. These were two life-long attachments. Owen was also a keen tennis player at one stage of his life.
As Honorary Secretary of the National Chamber of Commerce, Owen distinguished himself by his meticulous attention to the tasks assigned to him. It was during this period, in the early 1980s, that I came to know him closely. He impressed me as a calm, unruffled and principled individual. He was indeed one of the last of the Mohicans.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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From Kumar De Silva:
Former Wesley College teacher Mrs Isla Perera passed away yesterday. Burial was this morning at Borella Kanatte. Will always remember her as an excellent teacher of English, of which I was a rich beneficiary--
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
I Remember Mrs. Isla Perera who was our art teacher in the Primary Classes. She was a kind person who served Wesley College with great distinction for over 25 years. We thank her for her services to the school and the many generations of students. We remember her with much gratitude. The brotherhood of Wesleyites send our condolences to her family.
From Clarantha Perera (Mrs. Isla Perera's son)
I Would like to thank The Principal & The Vice Principal ( who were my mothers students)..the Staff (past & present), the clergy, the Old Boys , the Present day Boys & The Prefects ( who did an excellent service)..for their kind presence & prayers at the funeral of my beloved Mother & Teacher.. Mrs Isla Perera
GRANT HER O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
By Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
We remember most fondly Ranjith Kularatne who died in October 2011 and Chandra who passed away a few years back. They were an integral part of the Wesley Community at Karlsruhe Gardens. We are thankful for their contribution to the life of the school in the 1950's.
I remember Chandra being 2 years my senior in the 6th Form. He was full of good humour, jokes and kindness but remained a quiet soul. His diminutive stature was transcended by a gregarious charm which left its imprint on all who knew him and proved to be a priceless skill throughout his life. At Wesley he was invariably surrounded by a posse of friends. We shall always remember his broad smile.
Asoka, their brother and their sister Sita were at Wesley too. In those days there were girls in the school upto Std 3. Asoka now lives in Sydney Australia where he has been a Committee Member of the OBU of that great city.
Unblamed through life and lamented in the end”.
‘Vivit post funera virtus’ - Virtue lies beyond the grave.
We note the passing of Ranjith and Chandra with much sadness and send our condolences to their families.
Uppajjitva Nirujjhanti – tesam Vupasamo Sukko.
Transient alas are all Component things
Subject are they to birth – and then decay
Having gained birth to death, the life flux swings
Bliss dawns when unrest dies away
The Buddha
May they both Attain the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
I thank Nizar Sappideen for this information and also obtaining a photo from Asoka, to be included in this appreciation -- The Editor
Passed away peacefully in the UK on 25/06/11, aged 67 years. Noel was the eldest of the six Jansz brothers that attended Wesley College. Noel completed his Schooling at Arethusa College Wellawatte. Noel is the Brother of Allan, Emile (Chris), Travice (deceased in Sri Lanka 1972), Ray and Tyrone and sisters Dawn and Romanie. To his family and friends we extend our sincere condolences.
The Comfort and Sweetness of Peace
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after the winter, the spring,
after the shower, the rainbow,
for life is a changeable thing.
After the night, the morning,
bidding all darkness cease,
after life's cares and sorrows,
the comfort and sweetness of peace
Passed away after a lengthy illness. He will be sadly missed by his beloved wife Poppisha and loving daughter Aasti, beloved brother of late Seenar Packir, Hajiani Muzeena Oumar, late Zaheer Surahei Wijewardene, Thajudeen, Hajiani Sreema Babanoor (France), Suheera Nazimmuddeen (USA), Zareena Thaha(Canada) and Mohamed Kaim. Funeral took place at Jawatte Muslim burial ground on July 13, 2011. To his family and friends we extend our sincere condolences. (To many of us at Wesley he will fondly be remembered as our friend Baboon. May his soul rest in peace!)A Tribute by Bunny Taylor
He was a few years junior to me in college; he was a classmate and close friend of Cassim Carder who was my Judo Sparring partner in the YMCA and a very close friend.
I got to know Raj through Cassim (more fondly known as Kalu Carder), we used to hang out after school, mostly to eat Mangnokka (tapioca) We used to collect money in during the lunch interval for this purpose and arrange to meet all the contributors at the back gate after school where we would purchase, cook the stuff and eat it.
None of the contributors ever thought of how we were going to do this after school. Anyway since the rendezvous was at the back gate, we (Cassim, Raj, Akbar Musafer and myself) would sneak out of the front gate with the funds.
Then we would hurry up to Borella Junction where we would purchase the Mangnokka (tapioca) and take it to Akbar Musafer’s house in Poulingham place, which was just around the corner. His mother would cook it and make a sambol while we waited outside messing around.
On Occasion Mrs. De Jonk (Fredrick Forester's Grandmother) would see me outside and entice me with a barbath (tripe) curry and ask me to get half a loaf of bread and she would have the curry waiting for me when I got back.
I would temporarily ditch my mangnokka gang and get the half loaf of bread and go to Mrs. De Jonk's kitchen where she would have a bowl of curry waiting for me, as I was tucking into the bread & curry she would lecture me about hanging around aimlessly and getting into trouble and of course the religious lecture. I just agreed to what ever she was saying
And as soon as I had finished I would rejoin the mangnokka gang. By this time the mangnokka was almost ready, we would eat the stuff and have a good laugh about tricking all our contributors and concoct a story that we waited for 15 minutes at the front gate and since no one turned up we reluctantly left without them.
Of course the next morning when we were confronted by the contributors to our Mangnokka fund as to what happened we all had the same (sort of half believable story) and we got away with it, and of course the next time we would switch gates and this scam went on for a very long time. Raj was the initiator and mastermind who organized the entire scam.
He would initiate spontaneous scams like this and the rest of us went along with it if it was not Mangnokka it was thosai where we would eat and run off without paying, we would return to the same restaurant a few days later and would not be recognized by the staff and we would do it again, all this for a good laugh, mind you we could eat a horse at that age and still go home like angels and have our dinner.
Raj due to his spontaneous nature would sometimes land him self in trouble and would be under the threat of a good beating, Carder and I were the muscle in the group and as soon as we showed up the trouble was all over and everyone parted friends, we almost never got into any physical altercations as our reputation as Judokas frightened the would be aggressors. This was also a chance for a good laugh, but Raj would do it again as he knew he was protected and would never get into any physical harm.
The Nawalapitiya saga, Raj invited Akbar Musafer, Cassim Carder, Asoka Jayawardane and myself to visit Nawalapitiya. Although we thought it was an opportunity to have some fun, Asoka, Cassim and myself could not make it as we had an upcoming Judo exhibition and had a lot of training to do before the event.
Raj nagged us daily and convinced us that we could do our training at Nawalapitiya, as there were judo mats available for our use. This convinced us that it would be okay to make the trip as we could train while up there.
When it was time to depart we all met at the Fort railway station, except Asoka he did not show up. Raj had gone ahead of us to prepare things for our arrival, so Cassim Akbar and myself proceeded to Nawalapitiya and was met by Raj who took us to his sisters home where we were well looked after.
If memory serves me right the following evening we (Cassim and myself) were going to the railway institute to train our routines for the up coming exhibition. We had a great day and when it was time for our training session we proceeded to the institute only to find the place full of people.
Cassim and I were wondering how we would train while there was a crowd gathered. Unbeknownst to us Raj had organized a Judo exhibition and did not tell us about it, that was his reason for going ahead of us. When we found out we were mortified and angry that we were deceived.
Had we had known his plan we would have flatly refused as the YMCA was very strict, They were so strict that if one missed 3 sessions of training they would take the Judo kit away from you and you would not be able to train without a kit, unless you had your own kit. Only two people in the YMCA owned their own kit, I was one of them.
Now we were terrified that if we go along with Raj’s plan and the YMCA found out that we performed an unauthorized exhibition we would be kicked out for sure, kit or no kit. But Raj had this persuasive nature about him that he guaranteed that no one in Colombo would find out and that it was too late to back down now as he had sold tickets.
We were faced with a huge dilemma, what should we do, it was too late to catch a train back to Colombo and get out of this mess, So we decided to go ahead and practice our exhibition act, no one would know that in reality we were not performing for the crowd but just practicing in front of an audience.
Raj said that we should include him in our practice as he had told everyone that he too was a Judoka, because we were so mad at Raj we allowed him so that we could inflict some pain on him and teach him a lesson for getting us into this mess.
Instead of Judo mats he had a bunch of mattress’s and they were too soft to move around on but it helped Raj to lad softly each time we threw him, He could have got hurt very badly as he did not know the art of falling although we gave him a quick lesson.
I remember his sisters were sitting in the front row and every time we threw him they would gasp, feeling his pain; we just wanted to inflict a little pain on him and hopefully not injure him. I think we did this for about an hour and then ended the fake show.
Now after the show was over, Raj comes up with a bucket full of money, which were the takings from the show. Cassim and I would dare not touch that money as we believed that if cash passed through our hands for this performance although it was a fake one, we would become professionals, I guess we were too naive to know any different.
We just wouldn’t even look at the bucket full of cash we wanted Raj to hand it back to the audience, but by now the hall had cleared and to be honest we never knew what happened to all that cash.
While we were walking back home cursing Raj for the position he had put us in and he was profusely apologizing, we heard a bunch of big made guys walking behind us.
We sensed that there was trouble brewing and Cassim and I were planning to attack the biggest guys in the crowd by mounting a surprise attack and thereby hoping the others would back down and end this situation.
Raj stops us and said he would handle the situation, Cassim and I thought he was going to get beaten up and foul our surprise attack and we (Cassim and I) would have to fight this small gang. Which would probably get us hurt, as we were well and truly outnumbered.
Raj walks up to these guys and his actions seem to be animated and we thought all hell is going to break lose any minute now and we would have to rush these guys and get Raj out. But suddenly they all turned around and walked away. Cassim and I were really surprised as we were expecting a confrontation of some sort.
When Raj rejoined us we were curious as to what had just happened. He then proceeded to tell us that he told the guys that he was our instructor and the he alone could take them all on and beat them but if all three of us took them on he would guarantee that all of them would wind up in hospital with serious injuries. Once again he bluffed his way out of a potentially violent and dangerous situation. He just had the knack for it. Needless to say Cassim and I were dumbfounded and had to admire his guts. That was another good reason to have a laugh about that situation.
The last time I met Raj was when I was on a quick visit to Ceylon. I was in a taxi with my cousin, snarled in traffic at Borella junction, suddenly the door flung open and Raj hopped in. We were shocked that someone got into our taxi. Lo and behold it was Raj.
He had spotted me in the taxi and got in. we just had a quick chat and I continued on my journey. He sure was a spontaneous character.
All who knew him will sorely miss him
May his soul rest in peace
From Him do we come and unto Him do we return
Nalendra hailed from the deep south where his father was a successful and respected General Practitioner in Galle. He started schooling in Colpetty at St Thomas’ Preparatory School with the hope of attending St Thomas Mt Lavinia like his two elder brothers. His brothers distinguished themselves as academics one becoming a Crown Counsel and the other an eminent Neurosurgeon. Nalendra preferred sports to academia. By a quirk of fate he joined Wesley College and started as a boarder in 1953.
His talent for sport, in particular football and cricket, soon became apparent and the school encouraged him. He was the finest all round sportsman at Wesley in the 1950’s since Louis Adhihetty. With his fine competitive spirit and superlative hand eye coordination very soon he was selected to play cricket, soccer, rugby, tennis and hockey. Nalendra went on to represent Wesley College and win his school colours in all five sports. During those years Nalendra had a high profile and where ever he went he was recognised to the point of adulation. It was a token of the respect and affection all Wesleyites had for him. Despite his immense popularity he was soft spoken and kind and his modesty shone through. In those glorious years his charisma and his sporting prowess captured the hearts of all Wesleyites, young and old.
Nalendra was ambidextrous, a great asset for any cricketer. He bowled and threw the ball with his right arm and batted as a left hander. The peak of his achievement was captaining the school 1st XI cricket in 1958 and 59. He was a valuable and adaptible batsman with strong forearms and hit the ball with great power. Being an instinctive cricketer his record as a all rounder was impressive. Primarily an attacking batsman Nalendra was undaunted by the state of the match or the quality of the attack. There were times he lacked the determination to bat on to a big score and seemed to lose his wicket in his 50's. He was a fine medium pace bowler with enough swing and turn to surprise even the best of batsmen. His best figures were in 1958: 6 for 53 Vs Ananda, 5 for 43 VS Prince of WaIes , in 1959: 5 for 39 Vs Richmond and 5 for 65 Vs St. Thomas’. He could field in any position. Nalendra was a fine fielder with a good throwing arm and never gave up the chase to the boundary. He remained an inspirational captain and was largely responsible for the success the school enjoyed when he was the leader. Nalendra's cricket epitomised the best traditions of the school game. Not simply the breathtaking power and technical excellence of his batsmanship, but also the way he conducted himself, both as a cricketer and as captain of Wesley.
Nalendra was a part of the immensely successful soccer team coached by Neville D Abeygunawardene in the 1950's. He was a skillful, athletic and versatile winger. His fast and furious runs along the sidelines and accurate crosses gave the forwards many scoring opportunities. He was elegant and confident in possession. As an exceptional header of the ball he had a healthy knack for scoring goals. Neville Abeygunawardene paid a glowing tribute to his match winning teams of 1958 and 59: " Let me add a few words of appreciation to every member of the senior and the junior teams, of that period who excelled in the sport and brought honour to their Alma Mater. Lou Adhihetty, Gunasekera, Wimal Goonetilleke, Upali Samararatne, who skippered the "Double Blues" then, were excellent in leadership, apart from their individual performance. I may hasten to say the O.K. Hemachandra, now Deputy Inspector General of Police, Michael Fernando, Upali Samararatne, Nalendra Abeysooriya, Terrence Goonawardene, Rajah Athukorale. Samidon, Razark, and Lou Adhihetty could have donned National jersey, if only if they had pursued with the sport. In Hemachandra there was a very crafty player whose mid-field manoeuvres were.' the base of the team's success. Upali Samararatna's dare and dash and Terrence Gunawardene'.s safe hands were no mean contribution to the glory of Wesley Soccer. The sheer speed and control of Abeysooriya in the wings, and the deft and droit foot work of Michael Fernando, Samidon, Rajah Authukorale, to name a few were a delight to watch. These were then the days when the "Double Blues" bloomed and blossomed at Soccer! " There can be no greater tribute to this fine team.
He was trusted by his teachers to uphold the rules and laws of the school. He was made a Prefect for his services to sports at Wesley College. Nalendra carried out its onerous tasks without fear or favour and with great sensitivity and earned the respect of fellow sudents.
As a student he was one of us and joined in the mischief fun and laughter which was ever present in school and also in the boarding. What struck me most about Nalendra was his tremendous enthusiasm for life as a student. He was wonderful company, indefatigable, modest and touchingly brave. He left school after the GCE O' Levels to become a professional upcountry planter after which our paths never crossed. His move to Dickoya removed his chance of playing for a high profile cricket club in Colombo and perhaps also to play for his country. He remained a successful Planter and a popular figure in the profession for several years. His lifestyle took its toll and his health suffered irreparably. I was deeply saddened to hear Nalendra passed away at the young age of 44 years in October 1983. His sudden and unexpected departure was a great shock to his many friends and a grievous blow to his young family.
Nalendra was happy in his marriage to a beautiful and gifted lady. To him, the family was a source of the greatest happiness and pride. His son and daughter and their welfare meant much to him. He was wonderful company, a marvelous friend and a magnificent person. Polite, courteous and well mannered he had none of those negative aspects we sometimes associate with sportsmen. He was a great sportsman in the true sense of the word.
Nalendra made many friends in his short but eventful life and created an unprecedented impact on those who came into contact with him . He will be held in enormous and enduring affection by those who played with him and against him in the inter school matches of the 1950's. He will be long remembered for the energy and enthusiasm he showed for the game of cricket. Nalendra touched so many people with his inspirational spirit, warmth and kindness. Nalendra was a genuine and honest person with a terrific sense of loyalty. We will miss his mischievous pranks, cheeky grin, kind ways and warm friendly smile. He will continue to live in the hearts and minds of all who knew him.
As we say for cricketers - May the turf lay lightly on him.
1st XI Cricket Team 1958
Standing LtoR: Senthil Sinniah, PS Rodrigo, R Athukorala, Kabir Ismail, Neville Perera, Olkie Edema, D Kodituwakku, A Palihakkara, M Bulner, BS Batuwitage
Seared LtoR: W De Kretser, U Samararatne, Mr PH Nonis, N Abeysuriya, Mr Lanerolle, Mr Fred De Mel, SM Rajasingham
Uppajjitva Nirujjhanti – tesam Vupasamo Sukko.
Transient alas are all Component things
Subject are they to birth – and then decay
Having gained birth to death, the life flux swings
Bliss dawns when unrest dies away
The Buddha
May he Attain the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
It is with deep sadness I note the passing away of a school mate of the 1950's. He was a quiet decent Wesleyite who enriched our lives with his company and presence. Daya hailed from Udahamulla and was a regular train commuter from Baseline Road on the famous narrow guage KV Line of old. He played cricket for school in the 1st XI 1958/59 as a successful left arm spinner. The exact date of his demise is not known but it is believed to be approximately 15 years ago. We remember him for his contribution to the life of the school.
Uppajjitva Nirujjhanti – tesam Vupasamo Sukko.
Transient alas are all Component things
Subject are they to birth – and then decay
Having gained birth to death, the life flux swings
Bliss dawns when unrest dies away
May he Attain the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
Capt. L. B. Lanka (Wilbawe) Jayaratne
It is very sad to learn the demise of an outstanding gentleman with sterling qualities. A medical practitioner (anaesthetist) by profession, Dr. Gamani Attygalle hailed from the well known Attygalle family, his elder brother being the late Desamanya General Don Sepala Attygalle who was a former Army Commander and Defence Secretary.
Educated at Wesley College, Dr. Attygalle excelled in his studies, sports and other extra curricular activities at school and was later a member of the tennis team of the Health Department Sports Club. He took his MBBS (Ceylon) degree from the Ceylon Medical College, Colombo and specialized in anaesthetics taking the FFARS (UK) in England. He served in several Provincial Hospitals and the Colombo General Hospital and was well known for his kindness to patients. Dr. Attygalle was a member of the team that did the first kidney transplant in Sri Lanka.
He married Kalyani, daughter of Don Walter Wijewardene and Mrs. Anula Wijesinghe Wijewardene of Sedawatte, Kelaniya, a very well known family. Their son, Dhammika Attygalle, is a Director of the Upali Group of Companies founded by his uncle, the late Phillip Upali Wijewardene.
The late Dr. Gamani Attygalle did social, cultural and religious services to the community and his son, Dhammika, continues the tradition serving the Kelaniya Raja Maha Viharaya as Chief Basnayake Nilame.
Dr Attygalle’s grandson, Duminda, will be leading the Royal College Rugby team this season.
May he be born among us till he achieves Nibbana in his Journey in Sansara
Uppajjitva Nirujjhanti – tesam Vupasamo Sukko.
Transient alas are all Component things
Subject are they to birth – and then decay
Having gained birth to death, the life flux swings
Bliss dawns when unrest dies away
Malik Jahn was a great Wesleyite who excelled in sports and education in the seventies and early eighties. He came in an era where sportsman in Sri Lankan schools weren’t showing much enthusiasm in education. He captioned Wesley College Colombo hockey and badminton teams and was a great athlete. Malik Jahn was adjudicated several times in the field of sports and education at Wesley with prizes and trophies for his performances. There were not a single prize giving or colours night in the school which does not have his name on the prize receiving list. After colourfully passing the Advanced Level exam with all ‘A’ passes on all the subjects he offered then he entered the University of Ceylon and did a Bachelors degree in engineering.
Apart from Representing the school in Hockey, Badminton, and Athletics he also went to represent the National team in Hockey and Badminton. Once when I asked to name few heroes in his life he introduced few persons and unfortunately I can remember only two of those they are Mr. Suppiah and Mr. Kalupahana along with his parents and one of his uncle, the other was most probably the then Hockey Coach of Wesley College. Malik Jahn came from a sport enthusiastic family and his brother Mansar Jahn too a fantastic hockey player later captioned the Sri Lankan Hockey team. The Demise of Malik Jahn in 1983 is a great lost to the Community and the Country.
For many Wesleyites of 70s and 80s Malik Jahn was a friend, hero, compatriot, humane and a person to follow. Even for many younger generations to come by in Wesley he was an idol to follow. Nowadays there is prize given on his name at the annual prize giving and colours night at Wesley College which brings his name at least once or twice in a year back to the memory. Some years back most probably in 1984 a year after Malik Jahn died when the announcer called his name to give a prize in his memory every person in the stage and hall got up as a respect to his great contribution to Wesley College sports in numerous ways.
From Him do we come and unto Him do we return"
Remembered by Dr. Nihal D Amerasekera
Hilary was a Prefect at Wesley College and the winner of the Hill Medal in the early 1950's. He entered the Arts Faculty of the University of Peradeniya after which he held a position of great authority in the Sri Lankan Foreign Service and also as a Director of the Browns Group of Companies. Hilary De Alwis passed away in August 2009. We acknowledge his passing with great sadness.
DE ALWIS - HILARY (H.R.H.) Safe in the arms of Jesus. Dearly beloved husband of Chitra, loving father of Dilky and Devika, father-in-law of Michel Saelen, beloved grandfather of Natasha and Anushka, brother of Audrey Sharp, late Mavis Gooneratne, late Joyce Perera and Shirley Deheragoda, brother-in-law of Jeanne Nethsinghe, Nimal Breckenridge and Chandrika Wijeyaratne. Cortege leaves 2C, Jeswell Place, Mirihana, Nugegoda at 2.30 p.m. for service of thanksgiving at the Kollupitiya Methodist Church at 3.30 p.m. on Tuesday 18th August. Cremation at the General Cemetery, Borella at 5.30 p.m.
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Cecil Ancel d'With Barbut passed away on the 27th of January 2012. Cecil's body was cremated in Negombo and the ashes were sent to his family in Melbourne. The Ashes were buried in the family grave in Melbourne, which contain the remains of his dear mother and father. The Memorial Service was held at 3PM on Friday 17th February 2012 at St Andrew's Presbyterian Church in Clayton where Cecil's family lived on arrival from SL. The Service was well attended with around 70 people including Langston Joseph, Glen Reimers, Lucien Fernando, Keith de Kretser, Ben Nathanielsz & Brian Wijeyekoon.
Eulogy for my big brother, Cecil Ancel d’WITH-BARBUT 13/12/1940 – 27/01/2012 By Arthur d’With-Barbut
Memorial Service, St Andrew’s Presbyterian Church, Clayton, Victoria, Australia, 17th February, 2012.
My big brother Cecil was born three years earlier than me. I quote from my late mother’s diary, “Cecil Ancel was born on Monday 2nd December 1940 at 2.26 A.M. Dr Ratnam & Dr Karunaratne were with me, and Cecil’s Ma, and my Ma. My darling Cecil was outside on the veranda. Cecil Ancel was a 7 lb baby when born. He was very pink and his little ears were close to his head. Very little hair, more at the back of his head, but now he is changing already. I do not feel well as I was suffering very badly with Malaria while I was expecting him. He is now hardly 2 months old but smiles away so knowingly. He was baptised on the 28th December on our 9th Wedding Anniversary.”
After kindergarten at St Paul’s, Milargiriya, Cecil attended Wesley College, Colombo, first as a day student, but in 1953 we both joined the Boarding School at Wesley, as my father continued to work in the country. Cecil was then 13 and I was 10. At the end of each school term we would catch the train for the 200 klm trip to our home in the hills of Diyatalawa. Cecil honed his big brotherly skills by ensuring I pulled my head in from the window to ensure that I did not get ash in my eyes from the steam train engine! We enjoyed the holidays immensely. Our parents were so pleased to have us home. We spent hours playing Table Tennis and Carom at the Survey Sports Club next door. As Cecil grew older, he would play a lot of tennis with the big boys and ended up captaining Wesley at Tennis.
Cecil arrived in Australia with my sister Kathleen and her husband Gerald in 1959 at the age of 18. He began his working life by becoming an Insurance Clerk with the State Insurance Office in Collins Street. Cecil was intelligent and industrious. He was aware that he could not go far in Australia without further study. Cecil then began many years of part-time study at night to gain further qualifications. He did studies in insurance, eventually attaining a fellowship in insurance. But Cecil was not done yet. He set his mind on studying law, and began a part time law course in Melbourne.
Years of part-time study were rewarded when he was admitted to practice as a Barrister and Solicitor of the Supreme Court of Victoria. My parents were so proud of his achievements that they threw a big party to celebrate, at a reception centre here in Clayton.
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Cecil’s first work as a Solicitor was in the Legal Section of the State Insurance Office. After some years he rose in the legal profession and began working in the Victorian Crown Solicitors office which is now called the Department of Public Prosecutions.
Despite being happy and secure at the Crown Solicitors office, Cecil had a deep desire to run his own legal practice. A successful businessman has no fear of risk taking, for better or worse. Cecil was a born risk taker. He resigned from the Crown Solicitors office and started his own legal practice, here in Clayton. The business was doing very well. It wasn’t long before he opened another office in Alexandra. His favourite holiday spot in Eildon had led him there. He loved Eildon and the surrounding countryside and so he spent most of his leisure time there.
Cecil made friends easily and friends were easy to find in the days when he had plenty of money in his pockets, and he had a booming legal practice. However, nothing lasts forever, boom times inevitably come to an end.
Around this time Cecil was approached to start importing a new Sri Lankan product with great potential called “Coir Peat”. It was a fertiliser made from the husk of coconuts. Cecil was convinced of the merits of Coir Peat and soon began importing the product in large containers by sea to Melbourne. He set up a large warehouse here in Clayton which became the base of his operations. In 1994 he left for Sri Lanka to facilitate the shipment of the Coir Peat to Australia. Sadly, we know today, he was never to return to our shores.
Cecil had the ability when setbacks occurred, to dust himself off and start again. He had some wonderful entrepreneurial ideas, and one in which he wanted me to be the Australian link, was in the export of hearses from Melbourne to Colombo. Thankfully this one did not get off the ground.
Dark clouds began gathering on the horizon, his health was starting to fail. First his eyesight. One botched cataract operation in Colombo cost him the sight of one eye and the sight in his other eye was very poor. Then in the early 2000’s came the sad Parkinson’s disease diagnosis. Glenys and I visited him then. Cecil, in typical entrepreneurial fashion, had prepared a big list of business plans for my visit, business ideas I should explore, and business people he had arranged for me to meet. One was a furniture manufacturer, another, a tea grower, all offering starry but risky proposals.
We took him on a trip with us to the cool hill country of Sri Lanka, where we had grown up and spent many happy times as children. The highlight was going home to the Survey Camp at Diyatalawa, where we were guests of the Surveyor General of Sri Lanka and were taken on a conducted tour. It brought tears to our eyes to see our father’s name on the Honour Board in the Surveyors’ Sports Club, more than fifty years after we had left Sri Lanka.
Cecil’s Parkinson’s disease grew steadily worse. He needed full time care and was admitted to the Nightingale Nursing Care Centre in Negombo in 2005. He was well cared for and remained here until his passing on the 27th January, 2012. The matron rang me a few nights ago to tell me that the nurses miss him and his friendly banter. He was brave to the end. I would ring him up and in all the seven years that he was there, he never complained of his lot in life, not even once. I would start off by asking him how he was, and the answer was always, “I am good.”
In the weeks prior to Cecil being admitted to Nightingale in 2005 he had been looked after by some relatives. They were a devout Christian couple who had a devotional time each evening in their home. At one of these meetings Cecil recommitted his life to God. He looked forward to the devotional time and as the CD was playing “Light of the world” he would sing, as in the old days in the Wesley choir under Maxwell de Alwis, and wait expectantly for the prayers to commence.
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Eulogy for Cecil Ancel d’With-Barbut by Gerald de Zilwa 17th February 2012
Cecil was a good humoured man and by nature he was easy going and did not take life very seriously. He enjoyed whatever de did and he did many things. His life was full of variety and many different experiences. His hobbies ranged from cooking, camping, hiking, trail bike riding, fishing and a few more. He was endowed with a generosity of spirit that was almost a fault. When approached by friends for assistance he never refused. Even if he was short of cash he would always issue a cheque. He was a keen supporter of the Magpies and with his brother attended many matches. He grew up in a Christian family and was always interested in the church. Along with his parents he attended the Anglican Church and taught in their Sunday School. His philosophy in life was to be of help to his fellow man, and to this end no task was too much trouble for him. He had an engaging attitude with people and often found himself in the midst of happy or sad occasions in their lives.
He had long-standing connections with Wesley College in Colombo, both as a day scholar and a boarder, and he participated in many of the school activities. When the school principal of his time (Mr.C.J.Orloff) visited Melbourne, he felt that all Old Wesleyites in Melbourne should gather together to greet him. After all, they were bound by one fraternal band, band of double-blue. This was the source of inspiration that made him the prime mover in gathering old Wesleyites together. This object was achieved with his brother Arthur contacting old boys. Then with the assistance of Keith and Rodney de Kretser and a few others an Old Boys Union in Melbourne was formed. There was an inaugural meeting with Cecil serving as its President and he continued in that role for some years.
Meanwhile he was employed in the State Insurance Office and developed an interest in that work. He took up studies in Insurance, passed the required exams and obtained a Fellowship of the Institute. Whilst thus engaged he became attracted to the law. He found it very challenging and took up part time legal studies. Cecil worked very hard passed the necessary exams and was admitted to practice as a Barrister and Solicitor of the Supreme Court of Victoria He became a Deputy Commissioner in the Legal Section of the State Insurance Office
Cecil moved around in the community and his interest turned to Scouting. Friends and interested parents invited him to take a leadership role in the 4th. Oakleigh- Monash Scout troop. With hard work and fund raising a new scout hall was built that served .the community well.
It was not surprising that Cecil was conscious of migrants to this country and their problems. He followed his father in joining and working very hard for the Australia-Ceylon-Fellowship. He worked on some of their committees and on various projects for the Fellowship. He saw the need for a clubhouse or home for the Fellowship as its members were growing in number. He resolved to try hard to establish a gathering place for members. With the support of many members he promoted the idea of forming a Co-operative to buy land on behalf of the Fellowship and develop suitable premises for Fellowship activities. Funds were raised by holding several functions and social evenings. Many men and ladies of the Fellowship worked tirelessly by donating time, labour and funds to achieve this aim. However, there was considerable scepticism and opposition to this project, but by using his powers of persuasion and optimism, the scheme became a reality. A property with a house on it was purchased and developed over the years as a clubhouse for the ACF. It stands today and is located in Clarke Road, Springvale. It is called Ceylon House. Cecil was awarded Life Membership in the Fellowship in 1985.
Meanwhile his interests in the law and other associated work continued, but he resigned from his position with the State Insurance and took up private practice. His practice grew and expanded quite a bit. He worked hard and attracted a large clientele. He then ventured out of Melbourne and established a branch office in Eildon. This became . successful but he could not keep up with the workload of two practices and he had to close the branch office
Around this time some business contacts advised him to go to Sri-Lanka and set up an export business. A new product made out of coconut fibre was manufactured for use in fertilising agricultural crops. He was quite interested in this enterprise. It was successful and he invested a lot of money in this business, but he was ill –advised and lost heavily because of labour and shipping problems. However, being Cecil he was not to be deterred and set up a tourist hostel for use by short-term tourists to Sri-Lanka. He was quite successful for a while but problems developed outside his control, and once again he lost funds. Business was never his cup of tea.
Unfortunately he became ill with severe eye problems and had unsuccessful eye surgery. For the rest of his life he suffered from reduced vision. His health began to decline further and he found himself afflicted with Parkinson’s disease. He had to retreat from all activities and was admitted to a nursing home in Sri-Lanka. Over the years he grew worse. His condition deteriorated. He lost his mobility and was confined to a wheel chair.. Death claimed him on the 27th. January thus ending a life of varied and multiple experiences, -and so
Earths joys grow dim. Its glories pass away
We can only give thanks to God for his life and pray that his soul rests in perfect peace.
My Tribute to Cecil d'With-Barbut by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Cecil was a close friend of mine and a fellow boarder at Wesley College in the glorious 1950’s. It was with great sadness I received the news of his demise from Arthur when he phoned me on the 27th of January around 11.00 GMT. Cecil was one of the most respected and well-liked students during my time at Wesley. Courteous, decent and utterly dependable Cecil was never known to swear and never spoke ill of others. He was identified as a young man with potential. He wrote elegantly and spoke fluently. By his polished performances he entertained the audiences as a member of the school debating team. He had the intelligence, vocabulary and the turn of phrase of a Barrister. I am so pleased to hear that Cecil qualified as a Barrister and enjoyed a lucrative practice in Melbourne. Sadly, his restless spirit made him move away from the legal profession.
Cecil was an entrepreneur without that important ingredient for success "the killer instinct". If he was successful in making his millions, as he wished, the school and his many friends would have benefitted more than Cecil, of that I am certain. He was a trusting gentleman who did business on a handshake without much concern for the manifold shortcomings of the human race. Cecil was not made for the cut and thrust of trade and commerce. His friendly affable nature was not suited for the complex and labyrinthine world of business. Neither did he have the good fortune to ride over hard times. We live in an unforgiving world.
At school Cecil had a warm personality and was most generous to his friends. He was genuinely honest and helpful and had a wicked sense of humour. I remember his pranks and the mischief and usually had a twinkle in his eye. Cecil wrote with wit and style colourful accounts of those happy times with his family. I recall with much nostalgia the letters he wrote to me and many others during the school holidays describing his fun filled days at the Survey Camp at Diyatalawa. For him, those long August holidays stood out as a sort of apex of happiness with tennis, hikes, cycling and table tennis with parties in the evenings.
Cecil's heart was always in Sri Lanka and in the hills and valleys of Diyatalawa where he had grown up. He was quite at home with its seasonal rhythms, wildlife and rural customs. He related evocative stories of its people and places. He had great empathy for those who toiled in all weathers in that inhospitable terrain with the driving rain, mist and cold. He took pleasure in exploring the rugged and beautiful countryside from an early age helped by his many Scouting friends. Cecil considered that Sri Lanka had all the landscapes, sporting pursuits and climatic features that any sensible person could desire. For Cecil that was home. That was the place he loved most dearly and it was there he spent his final years.
His parents were an uncomplicatedly loving and highly motivated family with modestly ambitious plans for the future for their children. Cecils father, Mr. C A d'With-Barbut who was an old boy of Wesley College, resigned from the Survey Department when he was 53 years old to emigrate to Australia for the welfare of his children. He was then an Assistant Superintendent of Surveys in charge of the Survey Training College, now a Faculty of the University of Sri Lanka. Had he remained in Sri Lanka until retirement age he may have been the Surveyor General.
He was a fine tennis player. Cecil played cricket and soccer in the small park like the rest of us, not very well, but enjoyed it immensely. He relished and defended his commitment to the many extra curricular activities of the school at the expense of academia. There are some images of Cecil that would remain with me for ever and one such image is his animated, loud vocal support for Moscrop House in the interhouse Sportsmeet. I have captured him in many moods — being happy and playful, pensive and sad, just a cross section of life in the boarding. One image which, surely, must endure is his triumphs at Table Tennis in the boarding and his extreme modesty when he had won the tournament against fierce competition. In the 14th Colombo Scout Troop he was an inspiration. As a Choristor he was willing to put in the hours of practice to make it a success. As a School and hostel Prefect he earned the respect of the students and staff alike. Although his ashes were interred besides his parents in Melbourne his voice must echo in the corridors and classrooms of the school he loved in Karlsruhe Gardens.
Cecil d'With Barbut was the prime mover in setting up the Australian OBU prior to Mr Oorloff's visit to Australia circa 1978. There were several others who helped to contact old boys for the inaugural meeting including Keith and Rodney De Kretser. The 4th Oakleigh-Monash Scout Hall in Keeley Park, Clayton, was chosen for the first meeting because Cecil was the GSM of that particular scout group.
Cecil remained an influential figure in the Union and remained its President for 11 years. Throughout his life he was close to Wesley and its past students.
In the 1970's without Government help the School needed financial support. Mr LA Fernando was Cecil's mentor at school. Cecil had a great affinity and an enduring love for Wesley. He contributed funds generously during those difficult days when Mr LA Fernando was the Vice Principal. This helped enormously to keep the school afloat. Institutions and people have short memories. I only wish the school will recognise his financial help when Wesley had fallen on hard times. Cecil made a tremendous contribution to the life of the school which I hope the old boys will recall and remember.
I spoke with him on the phone two years ago at the Nursing Home. His voice was feeble and his health was failing but he recognised me and we spoke briefly of the happy days of our youth. I am so pleased I was able to make contact with Cecil after so many years. Although he never complained I wish he had a better life at the end. Cecil indeed deserved better. He received good care at the Nightingale Nursing Care Centre in Negombo where he spent his final years. Cecil had a wonderful and supportive close family. They made certain Cecil received the best medical care and attention.
I will always remember Cecil as I saw him last, just 18 happy and smiling. He was singing lustily his favourite hymns and reading a lesson at the Maradana Methodist Church with great eloquence, panache and style.
He was proud of his family. Cecil will be missed by many who knew him but by none more than Arthur, Glenys, Kathleen and Gerald.
Of all the years of Bible reading and listening at Wesley two verses stand out "Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged!" and "Let Him Who is Without Sin Cast the First Stone". These have remained good lessons for life for nearly two thousand years and will remain so for many thousand years to come. Yet, we have much to do to change attitudes and dissolve prejudice. I wish we can radiate back to Cecil his sense of forgiveness and generosity of spirit which he had in great abundance. Despite all this it is wonderful to know there are many who genuinely feel privileged they knew him.
Cecil will be remembered by those who knew him in his personal life for his positive outlook and ready smile. He died as he had lived, hoping that better times lay ahead. His woes are behind him and his journey is at an end. May his Soul Rest in Peace.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Azahim Mohammed has kindly informed me of the passing of Rev RW Pile( age 96 years). Brian Mack and Azahim Mohammed attended the funeral ceremony at Dale Street Methodist Church, Leamington Spa, in Warwickshire.
Rev Wilfrid Pile was one of the Methodist Church’s best known and most gifted priests and Missionaries; as a preacher and Chaplain he had few equals, his pastoral skill was widely acknowledged. He will always be remembered by those Wesleyites and others who came to know him.
From Azahim Mohamed
It is with sadness that I have received this message from Rev Pile's daughter Jenny Moir informing the death of Rev Wilfred Pile Patron of Wesley College OBU UK..
Ora et Labora
Azahim Mohamed
An email from Jenny Moir:
Thank you and others for your kind thoughts and prayers. You will be sad to hear that our father died on Monday 6th February. He died quietly in his own bed at Homewood and my sister Dorothy was with him. He was very tired and was ready to leave this life so it is a comfort to us to know that he is now at rest and at peace. He was a remarkable man who lived a remarkable life and it is good to know that despite his long life there remain people like yourself who remember him as he was in his prime and who respect and value the life that he lived.
The funeral is to be at Dale Street Methodist Church, Leamington Spa, at mid day on Wednesday 22nd Feb - we do not of course expect you to attend but hope that if you can pass this information to those who knew him then perhaps your thoughts could be with us on that day.
With good wishes
Jenny
The script from the Double Blue Souvenir 1996
Born on 13th March 1915 passed away 6th February 2012
Rev Robert Wilfrid Pile, the only son of Robert Pile, and an active Methodist was born on 13th March 1915 in Plymouth Devon. He had his education at the Salisbury Road, Primary school Plymouth where he successfully obtained the school certificate at the age of fifteen. In 1931 at the beginning of his first year in the sixth form his father died after a short illness. As a result, he had no alternative but to leave school on the day of his father’s death in order to keep the family grocery business in operation.
In 1932 the grocery business was sold and he gained employment as a salesman in a furniture store for a short time. Thereafter, he joined local government service a s trainee inspector of weight and measures where he remained until he secured the post of Wages officer for the City engineers Department in 1936, a change which brought more remuneration though with limited prospects.
His father’s death resulted in a deepened personal Christian faith mediated through the fellowship of the Church and a call to the Ministry developed. In 1938 he entered Richmond College, Surrey which was formed part of London University as a Theological student. In 1942 due to the closure of Richmond College as a result of the commencement of war, he was transferred to Wesley house a part of the Cambridge University complex and graduated a year later having passed the London Bachelor of Divinity. In 1943 he was appointed as Assistant manager, East Ham Central Hall, London with responsibilities for youth work and officiating Chaplain RAF to crew of 60 Barrage Balloons.
He married on 28th December 1944 to Joan Select (who had served as a sister in the National Children home) in a small Methodist church on the outskirts of Plymouth.
In 1945 he moved with his young wife to Hunan, China as a missionary, where their first two daughters Dorothy and Jenny were born. A period of intensifying civil war from Kuok Min Tang to communist rule took place. His wife Joan returned to the UK with their two young daughters, leaving him behind under communist rule for a further period of fifteen months. On his return to the United Kingdom in 1950, he was based at the headquarters of the Methodist Missionary society in London, where his duties were to carry out deputation work and assist in the preparation of education material for the church, His daughter Hilary was born in September 1952.
He arrived with his wife and three daughters at Wesley College Colombo in October 1952 and had to share the bungalow occupied by the Principal Mr Cedric Orloff and his wife. He was the college Chaplin and taught such subjects as Christianity, English Language, English Literature and Philosophy in the sixth form, gently making us aware of the facts of life.
He revived the scouting movement and was Group Scout Master, he also, headed the Student Christian Movement activities in College. Dorothy and jenny attended the lower school for three years. He and his family left school in 1956 and moved to Wellawatte. He took up a position of Secretary to the All Ceylon Methodist Church. During his stay in Ceylon he also, was the officiating Chaplin to the RAF from 1953 to 1958 both at Katunayake and Colombo.
On his return to the UK. He was Secretary to the Methodist Society responsible for home affairs from 1958 to 1965 and SE Asia and Pacific from 1965 to 1973. He visited Ceylon in 1964 and again in 1969. His fourth and the youngest daughter was born in March 1959. From 1973 until his retirement in 1980 he was the superintendent Minister of the Cheltenham Methodist Circuit.
Rev Pile his dear wife Joan and eldest daughter Dorothy attended the 1996 Double Blue Ball as our Chief Guests.
Rev Pile was the Vice patron of the Wesley College OBU for many years and agreed to be the patron in November 2010, during the last ten years Rev. Pile lived in a care home in Leamington Spa.
Rev Pile was 94 years, at the time of this death. Wesley OBU UK conveys our deepest sympathies to his family. May He Rest in Peace...Amen!
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
Adrian played hockey for the Wesley College 1st XI like his elder brother Sarath. He was a fine sportsman and a gentleman who contributed generously to the life of the school. He was a few years younger to me and remember him well coming to school with his brother all those years ago. I never met him since leaving school but Sarath always gave me information about Adrian that he was happily married and was leading a comfortable life.
Former Wesley Sports Star Adrian dies
Source: Daily News 26th March 2012
Former Wesley College sportsman and well known sports administrator in the 80s and 90s Adrian Wickremaratne died last Friday morning, aged 67 years.
Coming from a sporting family where his brothers Sarath and Rohan were also keen sportsmen, both at Wesley and at club level.
Adrian excelled at cricket and hockey. He was instrumental in the revival and running of the hockey section at Colts C.C. Where he also led the 'Daily News' cricket team in the 70s.
As a administrator, he was the Hony. Secretary of the Ceylon Hockey Federation, President of Colombo H.A. and Life-Member of Colombo H.A. He was also a first-class hockey umpire and officiated in matches at all levels, especially taking the game to the outstations.
Later he was in Sepak Takraw and managed their National Team for the World Cup in Malaysia in 1990 which incidentally was the first international tournament for the team.
He leaves behind his wife Carrol, son Shane, granddaughter Selina, brothers Sarath and Rohan and sister Kanthi.
The funeral will take place today at Madampitiya Cemetery at 5 pm.
May the turf lie light on him
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Wesley College Cricket Team 1947
(Standing): V. Dias, B. Perera, D. Vantwest, C. Bartholomeus, D. Ramanayake, N. Prins, N. Jayasundera and W. Mottau.
(Seated): P. Mendis, A. Ratnarajah, Rev. J. Cartman, Edmund Dissanayake (Captain), J. L. F. De Mel (Master), H. Matthysz and W. Abeywardene.
From the OBU-UK: It is with sadness that we received the news of the death of Peter Mendis the oldest Wesleyite in London. Peter’s last wish was to listen to the College song. Which the Old Boys Union (UK) was able to arrange. Azahim Mohamed represented the union at the funeral. We convey our deepest sympathies to the family.
From Nihal D Amerasekera: Pete contributed an article to the 125th Wesley College Souvenir written in his own inimitable style: I first came across his name in the OBUA when he wrote a message in the Guest Book. I tried to contact him but to no avail. He played cricket for the 1st XI team at Wesley in 1946 with Edmund Dissanayake when they beat Royal and St Thomas' in the same year. He was a true Blue Wesleyite all his life and followed the fortunes of the school with great interest and affection. We thank him for his contribution to the life of the school and the hostel and send our condolences to his family and friends.
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125th Souvenir Editors Note: Pete A. Mendis apart from his keen interest in Cricket was also involved in many other activities of the school such as the Histographers Society, and was a rumbustious Hosteller, though pint sized! He is the only son of the Late Rev. George Mendis, a one time Chairman of the Methodist Synod. He is married and now lives in London, England
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Transcribed from an article by Elmo Rodrigopulle
Accident at Galle Road
Radley Claessen recalled the accident at Galle Road, when a drunken driver crashed onto the motor bike ridden by Bryan with Herman as the pillion rider. The brothers were returning after a late night show at the Regal when the accident occurred which killed Herman when he was just 18 and with a wonderful cricketing career ahead of him.
Herman was a clever left-arm spinner and was tagged the Ernie Toschak. Toschak was Australia’s number one left-arm leg-spinner at that time. His early demise took away a bowler who could have reached great heights.
Addendum by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Herman Claessen was a young all round cricketer who played for the 1st XI team in the 1955/56 cricket season. Herman impressed more as a bowler. He was a fine left arm-spin bowler and a very useful batsman. In that era of so many good spinners in schools he was up there with the best of them, if not the best. He was a tall bowler who had tremendous success in the games he played for Wesley. Herman had the spectators enthralled with his craft and guile. With his height he bowled faster than the usual left armers. A highly intelligent bowler, he was always ready to vary his bowling to suit the conditions and his opponents. Without that customary loop his variations and turn provided enough deception to mesmerise the batsmen. Yet his subtle variations of pace and spin never compromised his accuracy. As a batsman his strong physique generated awesome power, even with a short backlift. It was Senthil Sinniah (Cricket Captain 1960) who reminded me of a six Herman hit with a straight bat right on to the pavilion. What a talent and What a loss.
In the 1956 season:
H. G. Claessen ... 6 --59 Vs St. Thomas’
H. G. Claessen ... 5 --39 Vs Royal
H. G. Claessen ... 5 --116 Vs Kingswood ...
H. G. Claessen 5 --40 Vs Trinity
H. G. Claessen ... 6 --60 Vs St. Joseph’s
As both his brothers Radley and Bryan captained Wesley with great success a cricketing career in the same school was a difficult act to follow. But he did so with great style, dignity and confidence. Herman possesed that same grit, determination and skill as his elder brothers. He had a Brylcreamed look just like Radley.
He was a kind and friendly Wesleyite despite the adulation . I recall the funeral at the general Cemetary Kanatte which was attended by many school boys, teachers and cricketers. Mr LA Fernando lead the procession from Wesley College. Herman was sorely missed when he left our midst so young.
As we say for cricketers
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Fondly known as Frank, Who Passed away peacefully in Melbourne aged 64
years 
Devoted husband of Dorothy Loving father of Murray, Maryse and Shehan Cherished brother of Dawn, Brian (dec.) and Everard. We extend our sincere sympathies to the family, their relatives and friends.
A Memorial Service for Frank was held in Colombo.
Wesley Cricket Team 1st XI 1966
J Jayasekera, C De Alwis, B Batston
Memorial Service for Francis Schoorman by Lalith Wijesinghe
This is to inform all Wesleyites that a Memorial Service will be held on 31 March 2012 at 5.30pm at Christ Church, Galle Face, Kollupitiya for Francis Schoorman who passed away in Australia in January 2012. The Schoorman family members will be visiting Sri Lanka to attend this.
Both Francis and Everard ( past captains) represented Wesley at Cricket.
It will be appreciated if this message is passed on to those who knew and associated the Schoormans and past Wesley Cricketers.
Message from the Principal- Shanti McLelland
Francis was one a wonderful Wesleyite, remembered by many who enjoyed his company and great friendship. May he rest in peace and our prayers are for him at the General Assembly on Tuesday February 21st.
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A Teacher at Wesley 1948-1984
A Tribute from Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
I remember Mrs Dulcie De Mel as the Music Teacher in the Primary school at Wesley College. Her career spanned 5 decades and saw through the good times and bad and stayed on at Wesley until retirement. She never lost through those years her enormous enthusiasm for teaching music, her bubbling optimism and her unfailing sense of fun. She always wore a smile and was a pleasant kindly teacher. I will always remember her as a tall elegant lady who treated us kids with great kindness. She enriched our repertoire and inspired several generations of Wesleyites to sing and appreciate music. There was an air of resonant calm during her lessons which we all loved. Above all I will remember her for her evocative smile that lit up the busy day..
When you have gone
Will color all our dreams
And light the dawn
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From the Sri Lanka Sunday Observer 29/7/12
Delivered to the hands of the Lord on Wednesday July 25th 2012 in Melbourne Australia. Beloved son of the late Vyramuttu Palanasan Gnanakone and Florence Arimalar (nee Chellappah), devoted husband to Ranee (Angeline nee Lawrence), loving father of Christina, Natalie and Valentine, fond father-in-law of Jeremy and Paul, and cherished grandpa of Luke, Zach and Caleb, adored brother to Jayantha, Suvi and Vasanth (all USA). Funeral in Melbourne on Monday 30 July for cremation. Forever in our hearts, safe in the arms of Jesus 37 Rutland Avenue Mount Eliza, Victoria Australia 3930 +613 97753102. A special thanksgiving service to celebrate the life of Capt. Charles Gnanakone will be held at the Methodist Memorial Church Boswell Place, Colombo-06. Sri Lanka on Monday 30th July 2012 at 5.30 p.m.
From Ranjit Aaron - New Zealand:
It was was with sadness that I read the Obituary of Charles Gnanakone in the Sunday Observer of 29th, July, 2012. Charles and I were class mates from Standard 3. We studied in the Tamil stream. We played cricket together with some other boys in the class. At the strike of the school bell at 12.00 Noon, indicating it was a lunch interval. We ran to Campbell park with our bat & cricket ball for a hurried game of cricket. Charles & I got on very well in school and were very close friends.He was a very mild in character and often volunteered his suit case to be used as the wickets. He carried his school books in a suit case, which was neatly covered in Kahaki material. On reaching form 1, after the 1958 ethnic riots he left Wesley College to continue his schooling in Jaffna. Since his leaving school in 1958 I never got another opportunity to meet him.
May his soul rest in peace.
From Nihal D Amerasekera
I received the news of his demise with great sadness. Charles was a boarder at Wesley College and I remember him as a pretty fine student. He joined in the sports and the fun which was inherent in the hostel. He had an unmistakable loud squeaky voice. Charles was a good friend to all. I never met him after he left school and am told he joined a ship to be trained as a Captain. This he did and worked for many shipping companies with great success. Controversy followed him in later life but at school he was a respected boarder and a good friend to many.
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From The Nation Newspaper of 29th July 2012
Cricketer who opened doors for the lesser-privileged
One of the greatest off-spinners produced by Sri Lanka in the pre-Test era Abu Fuard passed away yesterday at Durdans Hospital at the age of 75. Recently Fuard suffered from breathing problems and was in and out of hospital before the final call came from his creator.
Fuard has not been in the best of health since he underwent a kidney operation in 1997 and was confined most of the time to bed at his residence at Fifth Lane. Colpetty. The strong drugs he took after the operation affected his eye sight and made him blind.
But even from his sick bed being the doughty fighter he was he fought for the betterment of Sri Lanka cricket until the end. Till his last breath he was looked after lovingly by his dutiful wife Fowzia who attended to all his needs.
There was no role in cricket that Fuard had not fulfilled. He was a brilliant all-rounder opening the batting for his school Wesley College, clubs Moors SC, Colts and CCC and for his country Ceylon and bowled his heart out with his off-breaks that made him one of the finest spin bowlers produced by the country. He played for Wesley from 1951-54 and for Ceylon from 1956 to 1971 before getting into cricket administration in 1973. There he performed in the role of coach, manager, national selector (being chairman for three years) and curator, and was made a honorary Life Member of the CCC for the services he had rendered to the game.
“My entire career was fighting against severe odds,” Fuard once told The Nation in an interview. “I was fighting for the cause of the underprivileged. I used to always move with the underprivileged people and I used to enjoy their company not the whisky-soda fellows. I had no time for them.”
It was Fuard who broke the Royal-S Thomas’ monopoly at national team selections.
“If you ask me what has given me the greatest joy and happiness in my career I would say it is opening the doors for all the lesser affluent cricketers to play cricket. I gave them a place in the sun,” Fuard said. “Today when I listen to the cricket commentaries nothing gives me more joy than to hear the number of remote outstation cricketers playing for the national team. None will understand it because they don’t know what it is all about.”
In actual fact Fuard gave his life for cricket. He undertook the task to build the Asgiriya Stadium to fulfil one of the promises Sri Lanka had given to the ICC when they were granted Test status in 1981 to build the infrastructure and grounds and this exposed him to the dust which affected his kidneys.
It was Fuard who convinced the late Minister Gamini Dissanayake to become the president of Sri Lanka Cricket, a move which paved the way for Sri Lanka not only gaining Test status but also taking a great leap forward in the game.
Fuard was manager/coach of the 1975 World Cup team and assistant manager of the 1979 side when they became the first non-Test playing country to beat a full member country India. Under Fuard’s management Sri Lanka also won the under 19 Ali Bhutto trophy twice and beat England Under 19 to win the Agatha Christie trophy. In 1985 he was manager and coach when Sri Lanka recorded their maiden Test victory over India at the P Sara Oval in 1985 and also won their first Test series 1-0. The following year they beat Pakistan in a Test at the CCC and also won the Asia Cup.
Fuard and his brothers Ansar, Mohideen and Dr Harris followed in the footsteps of their father AM Fuard (who captained Wesley in 1915) and played cricket for Wesley in the fifties. Fuard left Wesley in unfortunate circumstances when he was deprived of the captaincy.
His funeral takes place at Kuppiyawatte Muslim Burial grounds at 9 am today. (ST)
From the Sri Lanka Times
Former Sri Lanka cricket player and administrator, Abu Fuard passed away yesterday. Regarded as was one of Asia’s best off-spinners, Fuard was 75-years-old when he passed away. He was known to be a brilliant all-rounder, opening the batting for Wesley College, Moors SC, Colts and CCC.
He represented Ceylon during a first-class career that spanned from 1956 to 1970. His off-breaks made him one of the top spinners produced during the early era. He played 19 first-class matches and claimed 51 wickets with career best figure of 6 for 31. As a batsman Fuard had scored 406 first-class runs in 32 innings. Fuard was well known as an efficient cricket administrator of Sri Lanka but during the recent years he was confined to his residence in Colombo due to his ailing health condition.
He played for Wesley from 1951-54 and for Ceylon from 1956 to 1971 before turning out as a cricket administration in 1973. Fuard then continued his love with cricket as coach, manager, national selector and curator. He headed the national selection committee at thrice occasions. He was manager cum coach of the Sri Lanka team that debuted the international stage in the 1975 World Cup. He also was the assistant manager of the 1979 team which finished fourth, beating India. Fuard was instrumental in convincing former BCCSL chairman Gamini Dissanayake, a UNP MP and a lawyer, to become its head. Dissanayake later helped Sri Lanka gain Test status in 1981 which gave Fuard an immense task of turning the Asgiriya cricket ground into an international cricket stadium. During the period of construction Fuard fell sick and later it was diagnosed as a kidney failure. He underwent two surgeries.
Just before he passed away he had difficulty in breathing. His janaza will take place at the Kuppiyawatte Muslin Burial Grounds at 9 am today.
From Him do we come and unto Him do we return"
Links to further reading
- Abu Fuard Asia's best off-spinner and king-maker by Premasiri Epasinghe
- Fire brand Abu Fuard turns the tide
- Fearless Abu Fuard - a Legendary Cricket Legionnaire Sporting personalities with Ken de Joodt :
- Abu Fuard - One time Asia’s Best off spinner and Fine Cricket administrator by Premasara Epasinghe
From the Sunday Times 31st January 2010
Saybhan Samat is a musician different from many others in his trade. His band which calls itself ‘Saybhan and the Society Band’ plays a special brand of therapeutic music designed to provide relief to mental patients, sickly people, depressed prisoners, injured soldiers and alcoholics.
The band plays especially for children living in orphanages, residents in elder’s homes, school children and also at social occasions such as weddings and get together.
The band includes Louise Anandappa, daughter of the inimitable and immortal Gerry Crake herself a very talented musician, Roy De Silva, a very talented musician and a key board specialist and guitar specialist as well as the outstanding Darlen Perera on guitar and vocals.
Saybhan and the Society band : A 'revelation' in music by Karel Roberts Ratnaweera
Saybhan Samat needs no introduction to light music lovers in the island - but perhaps he needs a reintroduction to them and to a new audience; Saybhan, this time around, is using his talents as a musician in a good cause.
This of course does not by any means mean that his earlier music was not in a good cause. As an entertainer, his earlier dance band was top of the pops with those whose tripped the light fantastic.
But Saybhan is a deeply religious man; as a devout Muslim he disbanded his group, Saybhan and the Tempo and went into a period of contemplation that lasted for some years while all the while he was holding down a responsible job by which he looked after his wife and young family.
Now Saybhan is back - not to entertain partygoers but to bring some joy into the lives of those who do not party. He came back into this fresh field last year and is doing good work in his new chosen vocation.
In May 2001, he formed Saybhan and the Society Band - a clever name because it is not the kind of society he once entertained, although some may think his Tempo band has gone upmarket and is playing for high society! Saybhan and the Society Band play for the joy of society's marginalised folk - those in prisons, homes for the mentally depressed, sunshine homes and the like.
This turn of mind in Saybhan came like a flash from the Almighty he so fervently believes in, and he decided to try therapy through music to try to make life less dreary and less of a burden for these people.Since the formation of his new, conscience-raising band, Saybhan has accepted several invitations to play for the socially deprived, the sick, the depressed and the lonely clapped in prisons with little to look forward to. One such engagement was at the Sumithrayo Drug Demand Reduction Program at Mel Medura, Colombo 07.Last July the band played at a sing-along session at the Cancer Society gathering and at the Friend-in-Need Society in Kandy.
From June this year they have been featured every Poya morning to play at the Sumithrayo Drug Programme at Mel Medura.
Saybhan and his band provide musical therapy every two months at what is described as Sri Lanka's best-known Halfway House, Sahanaya. In July of this year, the group presented 'On Wings of Song,' part proceeds of which went to the oppressed people of Palestine - a cause very close to his heart. For this year, the band's engagements include playing at the 5th anniversary Sing Along of the 'Y' Men's Club at the BMICH in October.
Future plans include adding trumpets to the Society Band to give the authentic Latin sounds, while popularising Ricky Martin's singing style in Sri Lanka.Saybhan hopes to start work on an ambitious fusion of Arabic, Sinhala and Tamil music, with Western music as well, on the occasion of Women's Day to celebrate the birthday of the Lady Fatima. This will be at the BMICH.
The group will also be playing at Prison Day at Bogambara Prison Kandy, and at the Pallekelle Open Prison.
A one time member of the legendary Jetliners, Saybhan's new band comprises Johar Mustafa, who is a trained vocalist, Darlen Perera, (guitar), Azeeza Samat (organist and pianist) and Saybhan himself switching between clarinet and saxophone.
To commemorate the occasion of the Holy Prophet's Birthday, the group played at the Muslim Orphanage, Ratmalana.
Himself once a victim of depression, Saybhan attributes his recovery to his faith in his religion. 'Music,' he says,' can in some cases can do what medicine cannot.'
From Dallas Achilles
Saybhan was very much senior to us. He was with Mike Siebel in Thurstan and they both joined Wesley at the same time. They started Boxing together and he was Mike's sparring partner. They represented College at several Stubbs tournaments. My associaltion with Saybhan started post College days when he and Sam (Nihal Samarasinghe) invited me to join Sam the man, & the Gaylords.
From Rob via Victor Melder
This is very sad news indeed. I have always counted it a pleasure and a privilege to have known and played music alongside Saybhan Samat. He was truly one of nature's gentlemen, apart from being a supremely talented musician who specialised on clarinet and alto saxophone.
I first made Saybhan's acquaintance in the mid-to-late 1960s soon after he and his then partner in music Nihal 'Sam the Man' Samarasinghe had left The Jetliners. Sam and Saybhan, as the duo were known, had made a name for themselves playing sax and clarinet in the style of Billy Vaughn and Acker Bilk. It was a huge thrill for me when the pair began playing for Leonard Francke's Manhattans dance band for which I used to play the piano accordion whenever either regular Manhattans pianist Arlene Peck couldn't make it or if a piano was not available at the gig venue.
At the time I was in my late teens, still in school, and not a 'big name' muso, but Saybhan was always very generous to me while we were performing - ensuring that I was given a solo break during each number, indicating that it was my turn with a brief nod of his head after he and Sam had finished their duet. Occasionally Saybhan - without Sam - would toot his 'licorice stick' alongside me in another band, The Cuban Combo, that used to provide music almost exclusively at Muslim weddings, engagements, and even circumcision parties.
While 'taking five' between brackets, Saybhan and I would enjoy chatting together. It was during those conversations with the softly-spoken Saybhan that I discovered his intelligence, shyness, gentle humour, and decency as a human being.
Later, I would say hello to Saybhan whenever I met him in Sri Saranankara Road, Dehiwela - where he lived - when I was visiting friends whose home was along the same road.
Saybhan's passing is a huge loss to the Sri Lankan music community past and present. May he Rest in Peace with his Maker.
From Dr.Nihal D Amerasekera:
Saybhan Samat: SSC - 1956, College Boxing Team 1953-57, Boxing Colours 1955, College Rugger Team 56-57,
Spencer Hardy Scholarship for the best student in Form III - 1954
Saybhan Samat was a boxer at Wesley and a good one, during the successful LV Jayaweera(Coach) era. After leaving school he took up a career in popular music playing the saxophone and the clarinet for Sam The Man and also the Jetliners. He enjoyed much success in the music scene and was greatly respected by the Malay community for his charitable work.
Reverend A.C.H Rosa -
A Tribute by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Rev Christie Rosa was an old boy of Wesley College and hailed from the Methodist enclave of Kurana Katunayake. A total renovation of the Kurana Katunayake church was effected in 1962 for the Diamond Jubilee of the church. This was held during the time of Rev. A. Christie Rosa. The whole project of renovation was steered under his supervision. He will indeed be fondly remembered at Kurana Katunayake for his efforts and the wonderful outcome.
I remember him from my days in the Hostel when I attended the Methodist Church at Maradana where he preached. Small of stature and rarely without a mischievous twinkle in his eye he was a brilliant teacher. He had all the gifts necessary for a Minister– warmth, friendliness, caring and fun combined with the devotional seriousness of a priest in the Methodist tradition. His approach to the Bible was essentially conservative, though he was open to new, sophisticated interpretations of the scriptural text. As kids we loved his sermons. The stories were full of true life situations and we were enthralled by his interesting narrations. He had a brilliant, alert and inquiring mind and was an outstanding investigator of the New Testament.. His clever stories, exemplary storytelling, sharp humour enthralled a generation of hostellers particularly in the 1950's and 60's. We thank him for his services to the Methodist Ministry and Wesley College.
Rev. Fr. A.C.H. Rosa by Rev Premasiri Fernando
A servant of the Lord
The Rev. Fr. Alfred Christopher Henricus Rosa who hailed from Kurana in Katunayake was born in the year 1922 and was brought up and nurtured in a home where the spirit of Methodism was strong. He was the second in a family of three sisters and two brothers and was found to be a brilliant student at Wesley College, Colombo where he had his initial education.
After passing the Junior and Senior Cambridge Examinations he offered himself to the Ministry and proceeded to the Theological College at Bangalore in India, where he obtained a second class in the Bachelor of Divinity from the Serampore University. After service at the City Mission as well as in the Kandy circuits he went to the United States of America for higher studies and read for his Master of Arts Degree in the University of Colombia in New York.
The reverend father's down-to-earth unpretentious and humble bearings enabled people to relate to him, and his realism and willingness to talk about what really matters brought help to many people in times of need. His sense of humor came across in both pastoral work and preachings. Blessed with a high level of intelligence and academic ability, he nevertheless had a gift for making profound truths simple. At the same time he also took a keen interest in ecumenical and inter-faith matters.
He married Joyce Vimalawathie Chinniah in 1951 and enjoyed 36 years of marriage and family life. They were blessed with three daughters, Christine, Priyadharshini and Kumudhini. His wife Joyce was a source of strength for his pastoral ministry. Though quiet in nature, Joyce was a caring and faithful wife till she passed away in 1986. All their three children are married happily and Rev. Christie Rosa found great delight to be with his grandchildren and great grandson.
Rev. Rosa was a brilliant preacher both in the Sinhala and English languages. Sometimes people from even Moratuwa came to listen to his sermons in Colombo. Young people loved to hear him preaching and teaching at youth camps and seminars. He was well-versed in socialist literature, and had a passion for social justice.
He preached several times on the special May Day services conducted by the Christian Workers' Fellowship. He derived much from Karl Barth and a Dietrich Bonheoffer who were his favourite theologians. He felt strongly that politic concerns went hand-in-hand with his belief that the 'Good news of God's love and justice' is for all, and his preachings were given a freshness and realism due to his every day engagement with people.
He enlightened his congregations by his thoughtful expository preachings, moved them by his reverent administration of Holy Communion and consoled them in days of adversity and sorrow by his calm reverent presence and wise counsel. He was a loving husband, a caring father and grandfather. He was first and foremost 'A people's person', very approachable and with a great sense of humour.
Christie Rosa's life and work were deeply rooted in his faith in Christ, always trusting the One who sustained him through many different experiences. He kept up his reading and had an alert mind almost till his very end. He stunned the Methodist Conference with his wide knowledge of world affairs, and biblical scholarship. People listened to him with rapt attention. He captivated the audience with his characteristic style of speaking. His favourite hymn was 'Be Thou My Vision' and he sang with passion. He enjoyed singing John and Charles Welsey's hymns. He worked in the circuits of the City Mission of Kandy, Kalmunai, Maradana-Colombo South, Kurana, Badulla, Moratumulla and Mount Lavinia.
Rev. Rosa was not concerned much about church politics of his day. He was elected as the Deputy Secretary of International Peace Conference whose Headquarters was in Prague, Czechoslovakia. He travelled to many countries preaching the 'Good News of Jesus Christ'. Like John Wesley he could have said the 'The world was my parish'. After retirement he came to settle down in Nugegoda.
He was not building up churches but was building up people. His preaching was biblical and touched many people. He was a good colleague, a wise counsellor, a friend and a servant of the Lord. Whatever happened over the years, he knew that God was in control. He never worried about the future because he knew his life was in God's hand. He firmly believed that there was something far more wonderful beyond this life.
This great servant of the Lord passed in that faith on August 9, 2012 in his 89th year and after serving 64 years in the Ministry of the Lord. We thank God for his life and service. The words of St. Paul aptly suits him;
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Natty Passed away peacefully On Aug. 26, 2012 Aged 84 years Loved husband of Margot (nee Cameron). Dearly loved father of Elaine, Colin and Tina. Rest In Peace. We extend our sincere sympathy to the family and friends.
An Appreciation of Natty Prins by Gerald de Zilwa, 31 August 2012.
Friends –
We have come together to give thanks to God and to celebrate the life and times of our dear friend Nathaniel James Prins, known to us all as “Natty”. He was once described as a tall, dark and handsome guy with a mischievous smile lingering on his face. Oftimes he was ready, willing and able to participate in any daredevil activity that challenged him.
His early education was at Arethusa School in Colombo and his secondary education at Wesley College. He was first a day scholar and then became a boarder and lived in the school’s dormitory. He participated in many of the activities of the school, both indoors and outdoors. He took to sports keenly, playing cricket and hockey for Wesley. He was a house captain and a school prefect. As a boarder at Wesley he was confined within the school boundaries. This was hard during the weekends. Sunday offered an opportunity to explore the world and walk with friends down a long road that led to the Methodist church. Here there was music, people and girls, and God was so good. Some of his contemporaries at Wesley were Harold Matthysz, Norman de la Harpe, Harold van den Driesen, Harry Tytler, Harry de Vos, Brian Nagel, myself and many others.
He was employed as an administrator of the Lady Lahore Charity Fund and was of assistance to many people. After some time he became a Manager of the Trust Fund and served them well.
He was also a member of the Burgher Recreation Club (BRC) in Colombo and played cricket and hockey for the Club. Some of his contemporaries there were Hugh Aldons, Vivian de Kretser and Ken Joachim. There were many social activities at the club and Natty supported them. He loved people, popular music and dancing.
In the course of events he was the Best Man at our wedding.
He later met and married Margot Cameron and migrated to Melbourne in 1967. They enjoyed a happy married life for 47 years and had two lovely children, Elaine and Colin.
In Melbourne he worked for Australia Post and later joined the Public Service and served n the Education Department. He enjoyed his work there and made many friends. He was able to maintain those friendships even after he retired.
He was also a member of the Wesley College OBU and supported them by attending functions whenever he was able to do so. The spirit of those meetings and luncheons was warm and friendly and Natty always enlivened the atmosphere and joined Harry de Vos’s group in lustily singing many songs, especially the “Band of Double Blue”.
As the Melbourne summers became warm and the temperature high and climbing, there was a need for coolants and what better than a refreshing cold beer at the Waltzing Matilda. There were a few friends who sometimes felt the same need.
At other times he worked in the garden and sometimes played golf.
He unfortunately met with a motor accident which set him back quite a bit. He became quite ill and never fully recovered. On medical advice he was sent to a nursing home where he spent a few years and was cared for lovingly till the end came.
And it is now with a sense of sadness that the time has come to say goodbye to a sincere old friend. May his soul rest in peace.
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Wilbert joined the Ground Staff of Wesley College in 1920, at the age of 15 years. He served the School devotedly for 48 years, until at the age of 63, because of feeble health he retired from service. He passed away on the 23rd of April 1968.
Wilbert's greatest problem was how to fend for his family of live. The good father that he was, he endeavoured to provide the bare necessities for his family by sacrificing his mid-day meal. How many are aware that he often partook of only a plain cup of tea at lunch-time? He was greatly devoted to his Children. It is fitting that in 1967, he had the satisfaction of seeing his Son pass the G. C. E. "0" level (science) with five credit passes.
Cricketers who passed through Wesley, had the highest regard for Wilber t. He had a good knowledge of the game; he would even suggest the composition of the team, and very often, his opinion was shared by the authorities too. Umpires Who came to the Wesley Ground were full of praise for Wilbert's accurate marking of lines. Really it was not necessary for any Umpire to check that aspect before a match.
Wilbert had great faith in Wesley. At death's door he told his wife that she need not worry about his funeral expenses, for Wesley would not fail him. Indeed the Old Boys of Wesley have rallied round magnificently by, launching a Fund to help his family of five. By the end of December 1968, the Fund had realized Rs. 2686/80.
Wilbert's devotion to duty, integrity, loyalty, sense of responsibility and quiet efficiency, are unparalleled. Men of his calibre are very rare indeed.
Uppajjitva Nirujjhanti – tesam Vupasamo Sukko.
Transient alas are all Component things
Subject are they to birth – and then decay
Having gained birth to death, the life flux swings
Bliss dawns when unrest dies away
The Buddha
From the Wesley College archives
We regret to announce the sudden death of Mr. C. V. Honter, Our Headmaster, on March 10th. Mr. Honter continued his work until Friday evening and appeared in his normal state of health. But he was taken ill suddenly on Saturday evening and passed away with startling suddenness. There was no school on Monday, as a mark of respect. At the opening assembly next day, the Principal, who was I deeply moved and seemed to feel the blow very keenly, referred to the loss the College had sustained and paid a high tribute to the life and work of Mr. Honter.
The funeral took place at Kanatte Cemetery on Sunday evening March 11th. The Principal conducted a short service at the residence in Karlsruhe Gardens and officiated, along with the Rev. A. E. Restarick at the graveside, where the Maradana Church Choir led the singing. The funeral was largely attended by Old Boys, present boys and friends, and numerous wreaths were placed on the grave.
The Principal, the Rev. A. Hutchinson, conducted the Memorial Service which was held in the College Hall on Sunday morning, March 18th. The Vice Principal. Mr. Dalby read the lesson in the Hall
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Added 14/9/2012
From the Wesley College Archives
One must have great endurance to do the same job for several years in succession, lf it is a job which calls for little work and more pleasure it is still more difficult. That was the job of Mr. S. S. Silva one time lab-boy had. Mr. S
Silva had served Wesley College for more
than fifty years. During these years he had been loyal and devoted to the college. He retired only when his physique broke down. A number of eminent men of Wesley had gone through during his time. The first Ceylonese Governor of Ceylon, Sir Oliver Goonetilleke was one of them. Mr.Silva proudly remembers those day even now.
It is a great pity that such a devoted lab-boy would stand near the college gate everyday waiting for the lunch interval to collect the leftover meals of boys for his sustenance. The College pays him gratia allowance of Rs. 25/- per month.
Both Mr. and Mrs. Silva are sick I hope the old boys of Wesley College and wellwishers will come to know about the diffuculties of Mr. S. S. Silva through this article and whatever possible will be done by them.
(Silva passed away in June 1969)
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
This caricature of Silva was drawn by MB Wickramasinghe for the 1958 School magazine. MBW went on to complete an honours degree in Zoology at the University of Ceylon.
Physics Silva was part of the physics scene since I joined. He wore thick-rimmed small circular spectacles. He brought his ancient bicycle to work every morning and looked after it like a Rolls Royce. He rode it like a circus clown - pretty upright and in straight lines. Silva parked his bicycle just outside the lab and sometimes inside. He had a foul temper and would have frightened even the boldest. By the time I used the labs in the 6th form he was ancient like the equipment but he took great care of the stuff in the lab which was fit only for the scrap heap. He was a kind man and helpful when doing the Physics practicals. He was one of the few in the school who knew how to use the infamous "post office box" used in practicals. No one can fault his dedication to duty and his loyalty to the school.
I have the greatest respect for the support staff at Wesley during my years at school. It is unlikely any of them are alive today.
Uppajjitva Nirujjhanti – tesam Vupasamo Sukko.
Transient alas are all Component things
Subject are they to birth – and then decay
Having gained birth to death, the life flux swings
Bliss dawns when unrest dies away
The Buddha
From Keith de Kretser
Dear Friends of Wesley
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I wish to inform you of the sad news of the passing last morning in Colombo of Mervyn Peiris or Uncle Mervyn to many of the younger generation of Wesleyites who knew him. He was a much loved gentleman respected by many, a proud Wesleyite who served Wesley in various capacities long after he passed through as a student. A most gracious, generous and gentle person who would willingly help anyone in need.
His funeral is on Saturday in Sri Lanka and his remains will be at Raymond’s Funeral parlour from Friday. On behalf of the OBUA and the fraternal brotherhood of Wesleyites the world over we extend our sympathies to his family, especially his sons Nihal and Ravi both Old Wesleyites at this sad time. May his soul rest in peace.
Ora et labora
May he have Eternal Peace
From Keith De Kretser
Dear Wesleyites
It is with regret that I inform you of the passing of Douglas Claessen one of the famous Claessen brothers who were distinguished Old Wesleyites. Radley is now the only surviving brother and he lives in Adelaide .
On behalf of the OBUA and the Wesley brotherhood world wide we express our condolences to the family and friends at this difficult time.
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Chaplain to the Bishop of the CSI Jaffna Diocese - Passed away on the 25th of September. He is the son of the late Mr N.P. Sivasubramaniam formerly of the House of Representatives and the late Mrs Enid Sivasubramaniam of Wesley College, loving husband of Jayanthi (nee Jesudas) and beloved father of Andrew (London) and Priya (HSBC). He is survived by his brothers in Sydney, P. Sivasubramaniam, S. Purushothamar (Kuchchi), Illatharasan (Kuruni), Chevanayagam Sivasubramaniam (Patta), (Manila Philipines) and Yogendran Sivasubramaniam (Bokka). Funeral arrangements as follows : Viewing at A.F. Raymond’s Borella on Friday 28th of September from 08.30 a.m. to 8.00 p.m. and will continue at 08.30 a.m. on Saturday 29th at the CSI Church No. 17, Frances Road, Wellawatte. The Funeral Service will commence at 3.00 p.m. Cortege will leave at 4.30 p.m. for Burial at General Cemetery Kanatte (General Christian Section).
From Keith De Kretser
It is with regret that I inform you of the passing of Rev S Ariaratnam (old Wesleyite) son of the late Mrs Enid Sivasubramaniam and loved brother of Ponna, Kuchchi, Kuruni and Patta who were all Wesleyites and Bokka (a Royalist). The OBUA and the fraternal brotherhood extend sympathies and prayers to his family at this difficult time. May his soul rest in peace.
From the Editor DBI
Ariya was a fine athlete. Many would recall most vividly and with much nostalgia his superb performances at the Public School Athletics Meet. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Ariya for his immense contribution to the life of the school.
Ora et Labora
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From Keith De Kretser
Dear Wesleyites
Once again it is my sad duty to inform you of the passing of John Christie, brother of Wesley cricketing character Peter Christie in Colombo The OBUA and the Wesley fraternity extend our sympathies and prayers to his family and friends at this time. May his soul rest in peace.
Ora et Labora
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A Tribute to Kodda by Senthil Sinniah
A thoroughly decent human being.
It was only two months ago, that I was talking and reminiscing of our schooldays with dear Kodda-----at the re-union dinner and Eighty Club - September 2012. To-day, Kodda has gone to a better place. Needless to say, I was devastated when L.C.R rang to give me the sad news. I still am devastated.
Kodda and I played cricket for the U16 and U19 teams (1956-60). He was the Vice Captain 1960 and captained the team in 1961. He also played hockey for college and was the Head Prefect in 1961. He was always a fiercely loyal team member. He had no malice in him, kind and gentle but with a quiet authority. I found his humour very infectious. He loved his family and doted on his two grand-children.
I want to end by sharing this poem with you all.
Farewell my Friend
I have no regrets, whatsoever, save the pain I'll leave behind.
Those dear hearts, who loved and cared for me.......
And the strings pulling at my heart and soul.......
The strong arms that held me up, when my own strength let me down.
At every turning of my life, I came across good friends,
Friends who stood by me--even when the time raced me by,
Farewell, farewell, my friends---- I smile and bid you good-bye.
No, shed no tears, for I need them not--- all I need is your smile.
If you feel sad, do think of me, for thats what i'll like.
When you live in the hearts of those you love,
Remember them---you never die.
The last time I spoke to Kodda was on the morning of September, 10th 2012 just as I was leaving the hotel to go to the airport, to catch my flight back to England. He wished me a safe journey----typical Kodda.
Farewell, my friend, May you Rest in Peace.
Prefects 1960/61 sent by Dallas Achilles
Back row L to R: Dallas Achilles, Dalkin Samidon, MH Marrikar, Harold De Alwis Jayasinghe, Rohan Wijesinghe, Milroy Bulner, TS Wanigatunge
Seated L to R: Daya Perera, Mr PH Nonis, D Kodituwakku (Senior Prefect), AC Wijetilleke, Mr LA Fernando, Sheriff Fallil
Yesterday evening a sombre farewell was given to our dear friend Dharmaratne Kodithuwakku ( Kodda ) by his family and friends.From Lalith Wijesinghe
The monsoon weather prevailing in Colombo held up to enable the funeral formalities to be concluded without interruption.
The mortal remains of Kodda were cremated at the General Cemetery,Kanatte at 6.00pm amidst a large representative gathering.
A funeral service as per Buddhist customs was held at his Rajagiriya home prior to departure to Kanatte. The Prefects of Wesley College, were in attendance beside the bier in the home.
The Pall bearers were members of his family and friends from Wesley which included several former Wesley Cricketers who were his team mates. A short funeral oration was made by his grand daughter as a concluding event. This is a very brief account of the very simple but touching formalities which took place yesterday when we gathered to pay our respects to Kodda who left this world in a very unexpected and abrupt manner. We will miss seeing his familiar tall frame at Wesley events in future.He was a very fiercely loyal Wesleyite. May he attain eternal peace. From Afghar Mohideen
I was not able to be present to bid farewell to Kodda yesterday as I am in London and will return after the cruise only on 21 dec. When Kodda captained college I was in the fourth form and only knew him as a tall smart cricket captain and admired him for his cricketing prowess whenever I watched a college match and of course he was also head cop.
I only got to know him closely in the last few years when I meet him at the various get togethers organized by you where we all had a good time and listened to his good humor all over a few drinks from the golden waters of Scotland
May his soul rest in peace and attain nibbana
From Bill Deutrom
It certainly is a sad day for Wesley and for all of us who had the pleasure of knowing Kodda. I missed being in his team, but watching him from the sidelines, one could not help being impressed with his leadership and style. He will be sorely missed at the gatherings and I am grateful that Lalith organised the great reunion where we could meet our heroes and fellow cricketers and classmates. Kodda was a hero to all those who knew him and we are grateful for his contribution to Wesley and for the friendship he had with so many Wesleyites. May he rest in peace.
D. Kodituwakku Remembered by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I first came to know Dharmaratne Kodituwakku when I joined Wesley in 1950. He was a year ahead of me and in Standard 3 with Mr Bharathasinghe. He was tall for his age and stood out as a gentle but a determined student. “Kodda’s “ parents owned a furniture shop in Maradana which I think was called Albert and Company, 615 Maradana Road, Colombo 10. He had two younger brothers and a brother elder to him who sadly died tragically in the Kelani Ganga in Kaduwela while still in the Primary school at Wesley.
Academia never impressed him. 'Kodda' came into prominence as a cricketer from an early age and rose to become the Cricket Captain of the 1st XI team in 1961. He was quiet, thoughtful and tactically astute and also a man of exemplary modesty and integrity. Behind his unaffected modesty lay a stern determination and ambition . Kodda handled his team with skill, style and success. He had little taste for publicity, and his team mates admired his thoughtful, methodical approach which brought good results on the field. As a leader he was a great motivator. As a wicket keeper and batsman he blended artistry with pragmatism, a rare talent for a schoolboy. For a wicket keeper one may say he was too tall but he did a damn good job behind the stumps. There were more eye-catching batsmen in the team but there was a fluency and flow to his play which gave us confidence. Above all he was unfailingly good-humoured and friendly on and off the field. 'Kodda' batted superlatively to score 151 against Kingswood in 1960 when Wesley made 348 runs in the 1st Innings. In 1961 he made 103 runs against Carey College and the school amassed a massive 353 for 5. Kodda was the captain of the team when Errol Smith Scored a brilliant 199 against Richmond at the Esplanade in Galle and Wesley reached a total of 361. That was indeed a fine year for cricket at Wesley.
His annus mirabilis was in 1961 when Dharmaratne Kodituwakku became the Senior Prefect of the school and also Captained the 1st XI Cricket Team. As the Senior Prefect he earned the respect of his teachers and students alike. As a teenager I respected him enormously and admired his authority, humour, gentleness and firmness. He was a young man with a strong sense of fair play. In the manner he carried out his duties as the Head Prefect he brought dignity to the entire Prefects Guild. His fellow Prefects paid him glowing tributes when they heard the sad news of his demise.
After leaving school he spent many years in Scotland finally returning to Sri Lanka in his retirement. With his characteristic enthusiasm, Kodda remained a perennial presence at the OWSC at the gathering of friends returning from overseas. The warmth of the reception he received at the Club speaks volumes for his popularity. One often got the impression he never spiritually left Wesley. Although he wasn't into school politics he had firm opinions and his views were inevitably delivered with charm and a twinkle in the eye. Kodda was not afraid to speak his mind and believed in the more traditional values of impartiality and integrity. It was an environment in which he felt comfortable . Mostly, as a reserved and essentially kind and thoughtful man, he disliked causing offence. He remained hugely popular and greatly admired. His warmth and enthusiasm gave him significant powers of persuasion.
Kodda was omni-present at the last Great Reunion of September 2012 when I had the wonderful privilege to catch up with him. He walked upto me and asked “ ND can you remember me?" That was the extent of his modesty. Who wouldn’t have known the Cricket captain and Senior Prefect?? With a glass in hand he was a live wire at Senthil Sinniah’s dinner at the 80 Club and that was the last time I saw him. Although it is a time for sorrow and sadness, it is also a time for all of us to give thanks and to be grateful that we were able to have him as a part of our lives.
Kodda was lively, happy, confident and uncomplicated and retained a great loyalty to Wesley College. Thus his natural buoyancy and optimism were easily sustained. He led a life that was far from empty. He was respected and held in great affection by the Worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites both for his personal qualities and his unassuming but substantial contributions to school life. His defining characteristic was his concern for others. He was able to reflect with great satisfaction his many years of cricket at Wesley. His comments that those were "some of the best years of his life" still ring in my ears.
His health has been a matter of contention for a few years. It raised eyebrows, but he continued to live life the way he wanted. Kodda's final illness, however, came as a shock to everyone. It was sudden as it was quick. Although Dharmaratne Kodituwakku is no more he lives in the minds of all who knew him. As for me I will always remember his sincerity, modesty and his charming friendly smile. Who can forget his warmth as a human being and the generosity with which he assumed and carried his fame. He will be long remembered at Wesley as a generous man with a big heart and an Icon of his time.
The love of his family and friends remained with him to the end.
As we say for cricketers "May the turf lay lightly on him"
Uppajjitva Nirujjhanti – tesam Vupasamo Sukko.
Transient alas are all Component things
Subject are they to birth – and then decay
Having gained birth to death, the life flux swings
Bliss dawns when unrest dies away
The Buddha
BOWLES. - Christopher Gillmary Passed away on Nov. 9, 2012 As a result of a small plane accident. Aged 57 years. Incredibly loving husband of Donna and most perfect father of Ryan and Jordan. Family and friends from all over are welcome to join us to celebrate Chris's life, that touched and changed so many, in the Christian City Church, 5 Queensbury Ave, Currumbin, on SATURDAY (Nov. 17) commencing at 10 a.m. (Qld.) and 11 a.m. (N.S.W.). Followed by a Private Burial
Dear Wesleyites
It is with regret that I inform you of the passing of Chris Bowles known to many of us as Gilmory. He died under tragic circumstances and I attach a message from his sister informing friends of his passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends as they mourn his loss. Gilmory was a classmate and fine chap. He recently attended the Class of 68 – 72 Re-union.
Below is the message from his sister: Kathy Kunz(Nee Bowles)
Dear Friends,
I lost my best friend, mentor and brother Chris Bowles at 10.20 am Aussie time on the 9th yesterday Friday in Lismore(NSW) in an aviation accident . He was with his best mate and instructor flying as they always do for pleasure when his plane went down suddenly. We are yet to know the circumstances and will not know for a long time. He was in Ceylon with his beautiful wife to attend the Wesley College Celebrations and I am glad that he was able to meet all his school friends for the last time. He had a wonderful time back home and we were planning a family holiday around Sept. of 2014.
He leaves behind his wife Donna of 29 years , and two sons Ryan 23 and Jordon turning 20 in a months time . We are shattered and trying to make sense of all this and know that God has his hand on us and will carry us through at this terrible time. Would appreciate if someone out there would let Roger Koch know so that all his friends are notified .
Emails and messages have been pouring in so if I do not' reply promptly it is because I am so shattered but will get back to each and everyone of you at a later date. We thank you in advance for your thoughts and prayers and appreciate that at this stage that we are allowed to grieve in private. If I have missed out on sending this to someone , please accept my apologies and trust that this will be passed on by one of you .
As always and with love and gods gracious blessings
Kathy Kunz(Nee Bowles)
Keith de Kretser
From Braden Koch
Dear friends.
Most of you may already be aware... that unfortunately, one of our batchmates [Chris Gillmary Bowles], is no longer with us. He left this world as a result of tragic plane crash in lismore last friday [9/11]. his funeral is on saturday [17/11] in curumbin, gold coast. Chris [and his wife Donna] attended the ‘Wesley - Class of 68-72 ReUnion’ on 15/9 [in colombo] and is present in many of the photos.
I was in absolute shock & filled with emotion & extreme sadness when i received the tragic news [from keith dek]. My immediate reaction was... someone please tell me that this is NOT true. but unfortunately I then received an email from Kathy [his sis] that confirmed the sad news.
I used to mix with chris & his siblings in Sydney during the early 70s. We were family friends as well. our families lived in Nawala, in the 60s. we travelled together sometimes by bus & sometimes in my dads mini minor. We then lost contact for 30+ years but the Wesley Reunion brought us back together again. Chris loved cars & was fondly referred to as the CAR NUT. He later chose to Christen his own business with the same name.
I am so glad that i was able to bring this Reunion to his attention/notice personally. This was more by a chance/fortunate meeting rather than good management. i was so happy that Chris chose to attend & participate. He was not in the early email loops, but he did not take offence. he received very short notice, but he simply jumped at the idea [to my surprise] & made an immediate commitment to attend. That was great support indeed, and that was the character of the gentleman !!!. Chris & donna also made a very generous $$$ contribution towards the school hall project.
Chris [and donna] certainly enjoyed all the Re-Union Celebrations & they took back many many wonderful memories. it was clearly evident that he was having a great time. they were so happy to have participated, and explained it as one of the best times of their lives. I cannot count the number of times that chris & donna thanked me [personally] for having invited/informed them of this event. they were also very appreciative of roger koch assistance with all their SL travel arrangements.
Yes it was a wonderful & memorable day for all of us, and chris was so happy to have had the opportunity to meet many of his friends/batchmates again. Chris was nervous that most would not remember him, but he was washed away by the emotion, camaraderie, and the euphoria of the day. We take some comfort that he was able to share in that glorious day with all his friends/batchmates before his departure from this world. such is life !!!
Chris was a wonderful, decent, humble, gentlemen. I became close to Chris & Donna during the re-union planning, and we also spent a lot of time together at the functions in SL. I will treasure those special moments. Chris shared with me the tremendous support he had received from Donna over the years & also how happy & proud he was of his 2 boys. he was enjoying the fruits of his labour & was looking forward to retirement. We had many common interests & we planned on meeting regularly into the future. Unfortunately, this will not happen with chris, but I will continue to support & comfort the family in whatever way I can.
Chris has now left us forever... but we will continue to remember him with fondness & love !!!
Goodbye my Friend... Thanks for the Super Memories... Rest In Peace.
Trust this will also serve as a warning for those of us who take life for granted. Life is obviously very precious and we must try to make the most of each moment of every day. Time just passes by....
Note: It was great news to hear that our ‘Wesley - Class of 68-72’ will be represented at the funeral by our local brisbane old boys Carlyle WP, Chris Harvie, and others. good on you guys. chris funeral will be held on the gold coast, Queensland [1000 km from sydney, 2000 km from melb].
We walk down memory lane,
There we see your smiling face
We talk with you again,
And as we wander slowly back
We seem to hear you say
Don't grieve. don't worry my friend
We'll meet again some day.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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The photos were kindly sent to me by Mervyn's daughter Jo Ann Asirwatham
Mervyn Hamer Remembered by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Mervyn Hamer passed away peacefully at the age of 68 after a prolonged illness. Smart and fair-haired, Mervyn came from a family of Wesleyites. His father was an old Boy of Wesley and a respected cricket umpire and charismatic Soccer referee. Mervyn was the brother of former All Ceylon wicket-keeper batsman Russell and also of Granville who was a fine cricketer in his own right. So Mervyn had a natural buoyancy and optimism as he came from a family well-rehearsed in the challenges and disciplines of sporting success. Great things were therefore expected of Mervyn and he lived up to it.
At Wesley I remember him as a friendly and affable junior with a captivating twinkle in his conversation. Mervyn was entranced and fascinated by cricket since his early childhood. He was an aggressive and stylish left hand opening batsman with plenty of natural talent. His first instinct was to attack. At his best Mervyn could make any attack seem ordinary. Perhaps his finest moment at the crease was when he scored a career-best 232 against Kingswood College at Randles Hill in 1964. He carried his boyish enthusiasm for the game well into maturity. Mervyn played for the Burgher Recreation Club (BRC), Nomads and the Maharaja Organisation. Mervyn was a man of boundless zest. His easygoing, genial ways made him a popular figure in the players' dressing room. He must have had some wonderful memories of his golden years of cricket for school and clubs. It seems, sadly, a football injury that forced him to give up competitive cricket, the game he loved so much.
Latterly his health seemed to fail. Mervyn's many friends worldwide gave him their support and most generously. To each of them he wrote personally showing his gratitude and appreciation. Throughout his life he remained a popular lad and a loyal Wesleyite reminiscing his schooldays with great nostalgia. Mervyn had strong support from his close family all through his long illness. He earned the respect of all who knew him and all who cared for him. He showed much courage and resilience right to the very end and left this world with great dignity.
As we say for cricketers
From L.C.R Wijesinghe
I regret to inform you that Mervyn Hamer passed away last night. He was ailing for quite a long time. His body will lie at AF Raymond's parlour from 2 pm onwards commencing today. The cremation/burial will take place either on Monday 21 Jan or Tuesday 22 Jan. It is sad that many past Wesleyites and Cricketers of our vintage are leaving us one by one.
From Peter Casie Chetty - Mervyn Hamer an old boy Wesley cannot forget
Mervyn Joseph Hamer is someone I have to thank for whatever I did since a dull day in February 1964 brought me the headlines in the national newspapers two days “running”. The papers described us as being a combination that would be the downfall of many school-boy batsmen. He was the brains in the combine.
His flat baggy Australian style cap at a cocky angle “Salmon” as Mervyn was called would walk; take his stance then belt a lot of new balls past and over ropes. He was stylish and what people did not understand was that he was an “instinct batsman” and his way of playing could not be curbed in any way. Coaches and captains from other schools seemed to have worked him out; after all he was part of the school cricket first XI team from 1961. Somehow he did not make the hundreds everyone expected him to do for that was what his talent should have provided.
He joined Wesley midway in 1957 – sat with Robin Riemers, Bashu Musafer, cousin Tony Musafer, Bill Deutrom, Layton Vanderput, and Joe Gunasekera a.k.a “Goluwa”. Mervyn was at home at Campbell Park throughout the year representing the cricket, the soccer and even the rugby team. He was a “must” to include and never let anyone down.
In 1963 I was the youngest of the team led by Milroy Muthuvaloe. In those days the seniors and juniors did not mix. We formed two blocks and Mervyn was our link. He did what he could to welcome us and was re-assuring when the dreaded “rag” was about to come about after the Saturday night dinner at Chinese Restaurant at Ward street. Although younger than the other seniors he was instrumental in seeing that everything went without too much incident and when I returned shivering from the cold showers he was the first one to see if all was “aw rite”.
I felt that moving to the lower sixth I moved up the ladder socially speaking. I was now a friend of the gang that had Bill Deutrom, the late Robin Perera and Mervyn Hamer. I spent a lot of time in the library irritating the poor librarian. Mervyn would then shoo me down. Billy was involved but as all three were prefects I had to take the cosh once in a while. If ever they caught me late to school, I was reported. No favours then. I missed out sitting in the 1964 photograph because I said out loud “Amen” when ‘Walking Bible’ de Saram was praying like a chugging slow train with his arms outspread for everyone and everything. I had not completed some Sinhalese homework and each minute wasted on the prayer meant I was going to be found out by “Ravula” Felix Premawardena. That would have been “torture by pinch”. Mervyn glared at my irreverence and later I was summoned to the prefects guild and “given the works”… by my friends. This lesson is not about a betrayal but about fairness. I did wrong and no matter what or who I was; I had to answer.
Mervyn left school and was employed as were many other good cricketers by the local authorities having to represent them at cricket. There he wasted his talent – in fact all those who represented Nomads CC did then. It was the employment. Sportsmen with less talent and qualifications were employed as “creepers” with knowledge that they would be planters and run their estates. But the tight knit family they were, Granville and his two older sons chose the Municipality. Chances of getting to the top were minimal and when that episode was over they joined another company where success was equally compromised.
I visited Mervyn in hospital when his health started to deteriorate. Seeing the sturdy man turn to a skeleton I appealed to the Old Boys and there was limited response sadly. It seems that many people had forgotten that the school song talks about; “past and present kindly meet, each the other proudly greet- fraternal bands”. Were these just only words?
My friendship with Mervyn Hamer continued after his illness worsened and it was heart rendering to see him or even get news of him. I last visited him in July 2012. He did not limber up any more. He was in shorts and his legs showed more bones than muscle. But he was cheery and chirpy. He swore he was on the mend and I believed him. He had a few less teeth than he had before but his smile and his crackling laugh was still evident. I planned to get him a ticket for the dinner so he could meet all those cricketers who were there before and with him. I called him once and he was delighted that many of Wesley’s iconic cricketers had taken the time to visit him. It was just so simple to please the man and I was happy for him. Then I got his daughter Jo-Anne’s emotional message to say “Dad died today”…..
Gone… Brian Claessen, Abu Fuard, Lou Adhihetty, Nalendra Abeysuriya, Upali Samararatne, Daya Koddithuwakku, Robin Reimers, Rodney Perera, Tyrone Maye, Daya Koddithuwakku, Francis Schoorman, Donald Thurairatnam and now Mervyn Hamer… Wesley will never ever forget these names. They are star dust; they are golden.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
P.S Rodrigo Remembered by Rohan (RL) Wijesinghe
I got to know ‘PS” at Wesley College mainly through playing badminton. He was once our captain. Together with my two brothers and I, we formed the Wesley College Badminton Team. Mr. Wilfred Wickremasinghe was the Master in Charge. PS was also a Tennis and Table Tennis player of no mean repute and with the knowledge and experience from all three racquet games he had superior court craft and experience. Nimal, my elder brother, PS and I played the three Singles matches in inter-college tournaments while I partnered him in doubles and my two brothers, Nimal and Prasan formed the other doubles pair.
In those early years (1957-58) when Badminton was considered a new competitive sport, our school did not have adequate funding to promote inter-collage tournaments. But a few years before, those who were interested in the game had been able to get permission to use the college hall to play the game. When tournament play began the team usually with the help of a minor staff person had to clear the space in the hall, sweep and set up the court for play. Although much of our energy was already spent we managed to do fairly well in these tournaments.
In 1958 both PS and I entered the YMCA Novices Badminton Tournament. PS was seed No.2 while I was unseeded. I had an extremely good run and by defeating several seeded players I reached the finals and faced PS for the crown. It was an all Wesley Finals. Mr. Edmund Dissanaike, Prefect of games and Mr. Wilfred Wickremasinghe graced us with their presence. Before the match they spoke to PS and me and encouraged us to play our best and show everyone what “Wesley College” is made of. PS was confident as he was a superior player and I tried hard to find a way of defeating him. The entire gymnasium was full of people for the event. Then I remembered that PS’s only weakness was that he is a crowd pleaser. As I was in very good form I let PS win the first set by allowing him to dominate and play all manner of exhibition shots. Very soon, he had the entire crowd cheering for him. But he was getting tired quickly. I won the other two sets easily. Being a true sportsman he was magnanimous and gracious in defeat. Such is the spirit of a true sportsman. That tournament helped us form a strong bond of friendship and mutual respect.
Daya Perera, Sarath Wickramaratna, Lakshman Jayasinghe and I were in the sixth form science medium and PS pursued studies in the Commerce medium. Daya, Sarath, Lakshman and I had already become close friends and PS was introduced to this circle and we then called ourselves the “Big 5.” Sarath, Daya and PS being residents of Colombo shared an interest in the entertainment and social life Colombo offered. I cherish the fun and friendship we shared as good friends. PS was fun loving, light hearted and enjoyed life. PS had a wide circle of friends and was quite popular because of his excellence in other racquet sports as well.. PS also had a reputation playing the card game Bridge and later participated in the National Bridge Championships.
I met PS again in 2006 when I visited Sri Lanka. He still had his easy going, fun loving nature about him. Distance of sea and land and years had not diminished a warm bond of friendship I had with PS. His mischievous laughter continues to ring in my head even now.
I salute PS as a good friend and as a sportsman of no mean repute!
From Nimal Wijesinghe - Former Badminton Captain at Wesley - in the late 1950s
PS was a fun-loving person. As I recall, PS was more a Tennis player than a Badminton player but his skill with racquet games enabled him to give a good account of himself at Tennis, Badminton and Table Tennis.
I know that PS was excited with Rock n' Roll music (Rock around the clock/Jailhouse Rock/etc.) when it hit the charts! The piece that really got PS going was 'Giddy-up a ding dong'!
I met PS once after College days. That was in the Survey Department building in Narahenpita. PS suddenly appeared from one of the halls and I was surprised to see PS there as he was to see me. He had stepped out for a change of scene after a game of Bridge. He was participating in the National Bridge Tournament which was being held at the Survey Department building. I do not know if PS and his partner won the tournament, but PS appeared to be quite enjoying himself.
Post Script: Nimal Wijesinghe was a popular student at Wesley in the 1950's and captained the school badminton team with success. He has retired from a successful and rewarding career related to Oceanography. Quite early, Nimal found the faith that would transform his life. With his brother Rohan, they were stalwarts of the school Student Christian Movement. He is now a lay preacher and lives in Glenmavis, Airdrie, Scotland. Rohan is a retired Pastor in Toronto Canada. Nimal, Rohan and I have been friends since 1950 when we 1st joined the school and travelled daily by train from Nugegoda to Baseline Road. ----- The editor NDA
PS Rodrigo remembered by Lalith (L.C.R) Wijesinghe
P.S. Rodrigo known as “P.S” to all of us was at least 2 years my “senior” at Wesley.
He was an extremely talented allround sportsman and excelled at Badminton and Tennis and would have reached National standards in the former if he pursued it with intent.
My association with him commenced whilst playing Cricket for Wesley. “P.S” was a member of the 1st XI Cricket Team of 1959 Captained by Nalendra Abeysuriya where I too played as a “fresher” in the majority of the fixtures. I recall him being a very enthusiastic , focussed and determined cricketer. He was a right arm leg spinner and right hand batsman who wielded a straight bat.
“P.S” played in the team more for his bowling and fielding rather than his batting. I must confess that fielding was his special talent ,specially close – in having pulled off many a stunning catch in more than one College cricket match at his favourite position of “gully”. Uncanny anticipation in the field was a special trait he possessed.
The cricket match where he and I played against Richmond in 1959 at the Galle Esplanade ( now a Test Cricket Venue) was one which P.S. had great success with his right arm leg spin and googlies capturing 3 or 4 wickets. The Richmondite batsmen could not “pick “ his googly and were completely bamboozled.Two incidents which occurred during this outing are indelibly imprinted in my memory. One was how Upali Samararatne who was the Vice-Captain was “hit” by a Richmond batsman’s bat off P.S’s bowling whilst keeping wickets close up, and was concussed.
The other was how most of the cricketers in the team shared some fun at P.S’s expense in exploiting his “ over enthusiasm” regards his special performance at the match. This event took place at the dinner hosted by Dr Abeysuriya (Nalendra’s Father) at his elegant home in Galle. The seniors conspired to present a “bogus” trophy to “P.S” for his performance at the match with the connivance of Dr Abeysuriya. After the dinner “ P.S” was presented this “ bogus” trophy to the concealed amusement of everyone present ,except ‘P.S” who was oblivious to everything ,being still “ up in the clouds”, bowled over by his own performance.
Later in his life, “ P.S.” became an excellent Contract Bridge player and was a member of the National Team for several years.
I am happy that I was able to “reconnect” with “P.S. “ after my college days on account of the “Cricketers Reunion” held last year. I was in regular contact with him by letter and telephone for a period of over 8 months. Since falling ill he was quite optimistic of his condition and informed me that he was on the road to recovery. Alas it was not to be. From a very affluent family background “ P.S.” has had his share of misfortunes. He faced them with courage and was looked after by a devoted and dutiful wife.
“P.S.” was a loyal Wesleyite. We have lost yet another past cricketer from our vintage before he could run the full race.
May he rest in peace.
1958 School Tennis Team
Seated LtoR: PS Rodrigo, Mr PH Nonis, Mr C Yesudian, N Abeysuriya
Standing L to R: Sheriff Fallil, RB(Rex) De Silva, Senthil Sinniah
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1958 School Badminton Team
Standing LtoR: Rohan Wijesinghe, Farouk Sikkander, SK Seneviratne, Fahmy Sikkander
Seated LtoR: Nimal Wijesinghe, Mr PH Nonis, PS Rodrigo (Capt), Mr Lanerolle, Mr Wilfred Wickramasinghe (Master in Charge)
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1958 1st XI Cricket Team
Standing LtoR: Senthil Sinniah, PS Rodrigo, R Athukorala, Kabir Ismail, Neville Perera, Olkie Edema, D Kodituwakku, A Palihakkara, M Bulner, BS Batuwitage
Seared LtoR: Warwick De Kretser, Upali Samararatne, Mr PH Nonis, N Abeysuriya, Mr Lanerolle, Mr Fred De Mel, SM Rajasingham
A Tribute by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
PS Rodrigo joined Wesley in the middle school in the mid 1950's. That was the golden decade of sports at Wesley. He soon became a popular student being a fine badminton, table tennis and tennis player. With his fine coordination, agility and quick movement he was a master of the racquet games. He was a dauntingly formidable opponent whatever game he played. He realised while at school what an exceptional talent he possessed. PS together with the Wijesinghe brothers, Nimal and Rohan, the school had a fine badminton team. He captained the Badminton Team in 1958 and made a significant contribution. The unmistakable elegance, panache and style with which he played the game became his hallmark. PS Rodrigo anticipated well and seemed to sense the speed and trajectory of the shuttle faster than most players. They won many coveted trophies for the school including the YMCA Championship Tournament. They performed superbly in the ever popular and fiercely competitive inter school games with much success. Many appreciated his wisdom and commitment to the sport. PS was a talented tennis player with fine technique and a full range of powerful strokes. Tennis is a confrontational, duelling sport for which he was well suited. He remained the best player in the school until he left. . He was quick around the court and volleyed well. For a tennis player PS wasn't tall but he had quick reactions and represented the school with much success. PS played for the 1st XI cricket team as a wily leg spinner in 1958 and 59. In all his pursuits he was extravagantly gifted and flamboyant sometimes to the extreme.
PS Rodrigo came from an affluent background and retained an air of confidence. He was proud of his talents and spoke out without fear. Disappointment and failure never entered his mind. He lived in 27, Pendennis Avenue, Colpetty and cycled to school with Sheriff Fallil.. Like all sportsmen he enjoyed the celebrity cult status at school but managed to keep his feet on the ground, well, most of the time!! He wasn't impressed with academia but his passion for sport grew during his time at Wesley. We remember him as an affable and loyal friend with an omnipresent boyish grin. Although reserved,, we treasured his dry surreal sense of humour. I can still smile when I remember his sly mischievousness when we met in the long corridors of Wesley College in the good old days.
He had a circle of close friends (the gang of five) at Wesley including Daya Perera, Rohan Wijesinghe, Lakshman(LS) Jayasinghe and Sarath Wickramaratne. They were inseparable. PS Rodrigo's forthright opinions added much spice to life. He gave full vent to his teenage passions in those distant days. PS loved the good life. Music, dancing and partying was never far away from his thoughts. With his cheerful disposition he was a delightful person, just great fun to be with and became part of the fabric of life at school.
After leaving school, sadly, our paths never crossed and I never met him. He remained enviably fit into his seventies and was never tired of tennis which was his first love. From time to time I have read on the internet his success in Tennis and National Bridge Championships, the last being his games for the SLTA Inter Club Tennis Championship for the over 55's in 2010. PS was in the Sri Lankan Bridge team that played Tamil Nadu in October 2002 held in Chennai, India. I sincerely hope he has had a good and rewarding life.
He wasn't free of the storms of life. Due to events beyond his control he moved from the Metropolis to suburbia in Kelaniya. PS remained an inveterate biker all his life cycling to work from Kelaniya to Colombo all through the mayhem of heavy traffic until his health failed. At school and after leaving Wesley he remained close to Sarath Wickramaratne.
Displaying his customary spirit he arrived back at Wesley for the Great Reunion of September 2012. Many of us were so pleased to see PS. For me seeing him after 50 years was a blast from the past. He showed courage, loyalty and love for his alma mater when he walked up to receive his award for his contribution as a sportsman. His presence at the assembly despite his debilitating illness and walking up the steps with a stick he won the affection of everyone who had gathered there. PS Rodrigo received the award amidst much cheering and a generous applause. On the stage he seemed to bid farewell to everyone there. The greatest accolade is to be recognised and remembered by one's own schoolmates. He was a much loved and valued friend and we will all miss his smiling face, his kindness and his warm friendship. PS was so much a part of life at Wesley his voice and laughter must swirl in the ether of the classrooms and corridors of the school.
Now he is free of the pain and burden of life
May he find Eternal Peace
We are sad to inform the sudden and untimely death of old boy Suresh Nithiyananthan who passed away on Saturday night. Suresh played hockey for College and was a key contributor during the construction of the OWSC building around the carriage. He was also a Vice President of the OWSC not so long ago. His remains lie at his residence
No. 24/3, Charlemont Road, Wellawatta. Cortege leaving residence at 12noon on Wednesday 22nd May for Cremation at General Cemetery, Borella (Hindu Section) at 2.00pm.Former Wesley Hockey Player Suresh Nithyananthan no more by Jeremy Brohier
As the sun began to rise on Sunday the 19th Of May 2013, the shocking news on the demise of our dear friend Suresh Nithyananthan began to filter amongst the old boy fraternity of Wesley College.
Shocked and in a state of daze as we were it was indeed a day of sadness amongst his close friends who associated with him since his school days and thereafter. Suresh who was better known as “Niththi” was a very passionate old boy who loved his school as much as anyone did. He was a very popular hosteller and a superb hockey player who belonged to an era of some of Wesley’s finest hockey players as well as great champion teams. He was also good athlete excelling in the short distance events. Suresh played an integral part in the affairs of the the Wesley College OBU and was a Vice President of the OWSC some years.
Since the Old Wesleyites Sports Club was revived in 1990 Suresh has been involved with the club participating in many of its projects. Recalling the years when Suresh was fully involved with the Sports Club he use to always be there when the call was sounded for any of its events.
In 1994 an ambitious project to build a club house was undertaken by a committee of dedicated past Wesleyites. With barely any funds in the kitty, Suresh the philanthropist that he was readily agreed to do the electrical work of the entire complex free of charge. That was Niththi, a man who gave his heart for his school. In fact that was one of the many contributions he made towards his alma mater. More interestingly he even created history by being the only Wesleyite to celebrate his daughter’s wedding by hosting a reception at the Old Wesleyites Sports Club.
Niththi who enjoyed life to the fullest was always game to have fun at any time. Remembering his wife and him to be champion baila dancers there was a time when he and his wife were requested to be judges at College Dances just to ensure that they did not participate since they almost won every baila competition. Strangely enough Niththi breathed his last while on the dance floor at a function last Saturday and knowing him he would be only too happy to leave this world that way.
Suresh leaves his loving wife Claudette who was always there by his side, his two daughters Megan and Sesha, his son in law Shatrugan and granddaughter Navyarare.
As the busy world is hushed and his work on earth is complete may Niththi’s Soul Rest in Peace
“Friends are forever; you might loose them but never forget them”. Wesleyites will miss their good friend Niththi.
They roll down the river and slip out of sight.
Too many times we do what we ought.
Put off 'til tomorrow what we'd really rather do tonight,
And later realize:
At the drop of a tear, they're gone.
Let's do what we dare, do what we like,
And love while we're here before time passes by.
May he find Eternal Peace
Remembered by Keith De Kretser
It is with regret that I inform you of the passing away of Harold Matthysz after a brief illness. He was an all-round sporting legend in the late 1940's. An elegant batsman, a skilful wicket keeper and a great athlete who was successful in many Public School Athletic meets. He won the discus, javelin and pole vault in 1947 and Captained the Wesley College Athletics team in 1948
Harold was an Engineer by profession and was married to Esther and had two children - a daughter Christine and a son Michael. He had a distinguished career as a Freemason and was President of the Ceylon Masons in Australia Association. I was his Secretary on the Committee and succeeded him as President. During this period when we served on the Committee we exchanged many anecdotes of our experiences at Wesley even though we were from different generations. His peers always spoke of his sporting prowess but Harold's humility kept his achievements under wraps. His sister Winifred also attended Wesley when she was a young girl and later married a Wesleyite the late Lt Col. Roy de Zilwa.
Harold was a simple man of simple faith. He was unpretentious and did not seek the trappings of wealth but was a gentle, genuine, sincere and caring person.
As time moves on we have seen in recent times the demise of many Wesleyites who have left an indelible memory of their ability be it in Mart or Hall or with Bat and Ball as a legacy for future generations.
We extend our condolences and prayers to Esther and the family at the loss of their loved one.
A wonderful innings has come to an end. Farewell Harold and may you have eternal rest.
From the Archives - by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It permeated through to succeeding captains, from Harold Matthysz (1947 - 48); W.P.S. Abeywardene (1949); Derek Mack (1950- 51); Radley Claessen (1952) and then Bryan Claessen in 1953, when Wesley remained unbeaten - Bryan Claessen
Some of the 1947 players flit into mind like Harold Matthysz, D.T.Ramanayake, Piyasiri Abeyewardene, Vivil Dias, Denis Van Twest, Clive Bartholomeusz, Natty Prins, and Orville Mottau- of course there were others too who played their part for Wesley.
Many recall Edmund stepping down from Captaincy to give Harold Matthysz a chance.
In 1946, in the match between Royal and Wesley, Harold Matthysz of Wesley was given out to a catch that went off his boot. Mahes Rodrigo the Royal skipper, recalled Harold to the wicket. Shortly after, Mahes played for All-Ceylon.
In athletics, while still schoolboys Mohamed Sheriff, Harold Matthysz and Ian Campbell, competing with the cream of Ceylon's athletes, secured Ceylon titles in long jump, the javelin throw and high jump events, respectively.
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Donations may be made in memory of Mr. Dunstan Fernando to the Wesley College Scholarship Fund. Mailing address for correspondence c/o Mrs. Dunstan Fernando, 35, Devananda Road, Navinna,
Links to further reading
- Dunstan Fernando - from the Centenary Souvenir - Double Click
- Celebrating 125 years of Wesley College by Dunstan Fernando - Double Click
Dunstan Fernando was Principal at Sri Palee College Horana
From the Sri Palee College website
Principal Mr. Dunstan Fernando certainly created a bright and a dignified “change” to Sri Palee’s outlook. Mrs. Fernando was a western music teacher and infused western music to Sri Palee students in such a smooth manner, there was no negative feedback but a positive appreciation right through. Her piano classes were very popular among the girls and she conducted the sessions in an inherited passion for western music. She saw to it that Sri Palee concerts were catered with a contribution of western music.
Mr. Fernando as a principal had the authority but he never threw the authority back at students but displayed rich quality and magnitude of his education. He had been a principal of few schools before coming over to Sri Palee.
He organized sports activities in a more methodical manner. He introduced a batch of prefects to Sri Palee in 1957. The first batch of Prefects at Sri Palee was a very novel experience for prefects, students and the teachers. It was a simple supervision exercise to infuse discipline and the behavior among the student population of the school. It too introduced basics of leadership building and strategies for supervision. The experience gained as a prefect in the student period will certainly act as a catalyst in your adult and professional life. I am ever grateful to Mr. Dunstan Fernando and other teachers for selecting me to be among the first batch of prefects. I can certainly confirm that this background helped me in my personal and professional life to attain more goals.
The unique way Mr. Fernando conducted English and Mathematics was with an unusual motivational package. Let me tell a long story in short : Mr. Fernando will write out a mathematical problem in the blackboard and request students to try the problem individually in their books. If anyone completes the excercise, you have to put up your hand to show that you have completed it. Then he will come to your table, check the working step by step – and if it is right : proclaim in loud voice “Amaratunga has done it! – Anyone Else ? Anyone Else?”. And he will wait for another student to answer. All the students are now working hard to complete the problem. Afterwards, he will work out the problem in the blackboard and complete a successful mathematical session. This motivation outlook was unique for us at that time.
Mr. Fernando was always attired in a light cream coloured suit, and was one of the well attired personalities at Sri Palee in that era. I can remember he had two kids and used to travel up and down in a Hilman Car. He introduced the basics of public speaking – by ice breaker exercise in arranging the prefects to speak in the morning at the school assembly / ”upasanaya”. Sir you have done an immense contribution for Sri Palee at large. In your period, education at Sri Palee was never dry. All students recall this as a bright period. Thank you very much.
In mid 2008, couple of us (old boys) had the fortune of visiting Mr. & Mrs. Fernando at their Lunawa Residence for the birthday party of Mr. Dunstan Fernando.
Dr. Jayaratne, Janaka Kumara, Gamini Jayasundara, Ranjith Senanayake and myself had an enjoyable evening as Mrs. Fernando introduced us to the other old pupils from different schools and their family members. We cut out a fine figure among the “other students” as we had a team from Sri Palee. Mr. Dunstan Fernando took several minutes to recall our names after Mrs. Fernando’s several clues. Thank you Mr. & Mrs. Fernando. Both of you are in our precious memory.
Dunstan Fernando was one of our teachers during the 1950s at Richmond College. He married Chinthamani who studied at Southlands, Galle and taught at Southlands during the time my sister Viola was teaching when the Principal was Miss Ridge. Dunstan Fernando, I remember him as a teacher who was a very strict disciplinarian and I vividly remember him punishing and reprimanding my elder brother Elmo who always opted to defy orders which he thought was unreasonable and unfair. It was the time we had drill on the grounds and the commander was a teacher whom we had nicknamed ‘Patholaya’ - Mr. Perera. Dunstan Fernando supervised it to ensure that none were ‘fudging’. He spotted my brother wearing a cap and he ordered him in a loud tone “Elmo de Alwis remove the cap”. He was stubborn and defied his orders. Dunstan Fernando came up to him addressed him in a stern tone and removed Elmo’s cap and placed it on the ground. As soon as Dunstan Fernando reached his original position along side Mr. Perera, Elmo wore his cap again. It happened twice and Dunstan Fernando was naturally furious and my brother was hauled up before the Principal, F.R. de Silva and he was meted out the normal punishment.
He also did not tolerate unpunctuality and several of us suffered the consequences. The most erratic was my very close friend and classmate Ranjan Rajawasan who was ordered out of the class. However, though Dunstan Fernando did his best to instill punctuality he succeeded with many but failed miserably where Ranjan Rajawasan was concerned.
Another point of his was singing and training students in Drama and Singing which he did succeed ably supported by the then Vice Principal Shelton Wirasinghe, Vincent Goonewardena, our English Teacher Miss Grace Batholameusz and my sister who was teaching at that time - Fidelia better known as Mrs. Jayawardane.
Dunstan Fernando was always neatly attired with a tie to match the shirt and trouser and had a very commanding voice. Though he was strict, he was a very kind and lovable character. He never harbored any anger or grudges and was explicit in whatever he said and was candid in whatever he had to say. He loved and enjoyed singing and training the choir. His voice was a very strong and I felt he had a good “base” voice and a baritone too.
He had an ambition of becoming Vice Principal at Richmond when Shelton Wirasinghe succeeded E.R. de Silva as Principal. Unfortunately, he missed it and he was disappointed. That disappointment led him to leave Richmond and join Sri Pali, Horana as Principal. I suppose he decided to take this step as he was also growing old and did make this decision in his best interest in pursuing his teaching career. His achievements as Principal of Carey College and lastly at Wesley College nonetheless proved that he would have been an asset to Richmond if he was appointed Vice Principal.
Dunstan Fernando has been a great example of a teacher of his era when commitment and dedication and dignity of this profession was greatly displayed. His wife and his children always stood by his decisions and that I am sure made challenges in his profession easier. Many Richmondites paid their respects to him at the Methodist Church Kollupitiya and Wesley College. We met the children and they did not appear to know his close association with Richmond. Our deepest sympathies to them. Destiny showed that Dunstan Fernando had to be Principal of Wesley, Carey and Sripali and it reminds me of a saying, ‘destiny is not a matter of choice, it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved’.
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From Sajeeka Abeynayake (sent 9th August 2013)
Sunil Rupesinghe who is an old boy of Wesley has passed away last evening. His three sons also old boys captained and played rugby for college. Shalan was 88' Rugby Captain, Hirosh was 90' Rugby Captain, Ruwan also played 1st XV
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Asoka Cooray (N.A.L) joined the Kindergarten at Wesley College in 1946. I remember Asoka as a quiet student a year ahead of me. Asoka was not a shy man but had a reserved nature and a twinkle in his eye. Underneath a rather stern exterior, he was a knowledgable, cultured and erudite person. He always had an air of sophistication and confidence. His younger brother Ranjit too was at Wesley.
Asoka left school after the GCE, in 1959, to resume his studies at Richmond College Galle. He entered the Engineering Faculty of the University of Peradeniya in 1962 and qualified in 1967 with a BSc.
Asoka worked in the PWD as an Executive Engineer from 1967-71. He proceeded to the UK in 1971 and became a Member of the Institution of Civil Engineers in London. On return, his career path settled on track with a succession of immensely demanding posts in Sri Lanka.
After serving several years in the Ministry of Irrigation Asoka was promoted to the prestigious position as Principal Engineer at the Mahaweli Authority where he served for many years. He spent a brief spell in Fiji before becoming the Deputy General Manager of Nippon Koei Co Ltd Colombo where he served until his untimely demise after a brief illness. He never married but his work and profession became a lifelong preoccupation and joy.
Despite the massive brain drain of the 1960's and 70's Asoka decided to remain and serve his country. As a respected Engineer he leaves behind him not only the record of someone who did the country considerable service, but also, for his family and friends, indelible memories of a life well lived.
I never met him again after Asoka left Wesley, but I was lastingly impressed by his courtesy and unforced charm which he showed for many years as a loyal Wesleyite.
P.S: My thanks to Lalith (L.C.R) Wijesinghe and Ranjith Cooray for providing the photo and the information from which I drew much inspiration for the above account.
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From Ravi Peiris
Dear All,
This is to keep you informed of the passing away of our beloved master Mr. E.L. Rodrigo last evening. Mr. Rodrigo was much loved and respected and apart from teaching he was also the Cub Master, Hunter House Master and in charge of the college Bookshop. The unofficial and unconfirmed information I have is that the body will be brought home to PRIYADHARSHANA, MUKALANGAMUWA ROAD, SEEDUWA, this afternoon and the funeral service at his home will be on Saturday at 3.00 p.m. and there after burial at Methodist Church Seeduwa.
A tribute to a legend at Wesley by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Mr EL Rodrigo has passed away after a long and vigorous life. He belonged to the old brigade of dedicated teachers of whom we had many in the post war period well into the 1960’s. He administered discipline with a capital “D”. Those who fell foul of the school rules felt the full force of his palm. Despite this he won widespread respect being never bitter or acrid.
Teaching and Wesley was his life and he gave his all to the profession he joined for honourable and idealistic reasons. At Wesley, Mr Rodrigo was a vivid presence. With his curly black hair and short stature, dressed in brilliant white, he was an instantly recognisable figure walking the long corridors of the school. He was honourable, hard-working and well-informed and we all benefitted from his wisdom and common-sense. He took pains to encourage students and colleagues. He was dedicated to improving education and the lives of students at Wesley.
With Mr Wilfred Wickramasinghe he withstood the stifling heat behind the cubby hole of the bookshop. I can still picture them bathed in sweat selling monitors exercise books and Dreadnought instrument boxes. They served diligently for many years as the caretakers of the school bookshop.
Mr Rodrigo came to us from Seeduwa which was a strong Methodist enclave and remained a faithful servant of the Lord all his life. Retirement in Seeduwa, did not mean slowing down. He then became fully involved in church work and local life in his hometown. People will remember his wry sense of humour and unshakable Christian faith.
His other loves were the 14th Colombo Cub Pack and the School Hostel. To both he gave his all. The Cub Pack was managed by the inseparable duo Wilfred Wickramasinghe and EL Rodrigo. They were both strict. I personally couldn't hack it with them and left the pack for a more entertaining life playing cricket in the small park. In the hostel he was strict but his pastoral care was exceptional. He truly cared about the hostellers' welfare knowing well we were far away from home and our parents. Mr Rodrigo remained a stickler for the hostel rules and at times irritatingly so. It must be said at times we found him to be a rigorous taskmaster. Most teachers of that era were strict and life at school was never a bed of roses. Perhaps it prepared us for the future and toughened us to endure the trials of life and obey the laws of the land.
I came to know him more closely after leaving school. He was not a prickly and humourless person. Mr Rodrigo was charming beyond recognition. On my visits to the school I was often whisked away by him to the Tuck shop for a cup of tea and a chat. We then spoke more freely about the many aspects of life from politics to healthcare and the decline in moral values in a rapidly changing world.
I have been briefed that in the staff room Mr Rodrigo was held in high esteem as an affable and helpful colleague. His teaching career spanned well over 30 years and he served beyond the call of duty. We will always be grateful for his services to the school and value his dignity, enthusiasm and commitment to duty.
Mr. Rodrigo married a teacher from Methodist College and they had 3 daughters. In his final years he lived with a daughter in Katunayake. Due to his immobility and poor eye sight he was unable to attend the successsful Reunion held at Wesley College in September 2012.
He died in Katunayake where he spent his final years, and in the town which is a Methodist enclave whose intellectual and community life he celebrated and graced.
On behalf of the worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites we celebrate his life. To all of us who came to know him, it is the end of an era. But we are comforted by the memory of his long, full and inspiring life and so proud of his devotion to helping others as he sought to change our lives for the better. To those Wesleyites who never came across Mr. E.L Rodrigo his dedication and diligence will remain a beacon for future generations in Karlsruhe Hill. His voice will resonate in the ether of the class-rooms and corridors at Wesley forever.
Links to further reading
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Kirubai Dwight by Richard Dwight
He was a fine cricketer
As the hearse bearing the remains of Kirubai Dwight began moving slowly on the driveway of his home at Wijerama Mawatha to be laid to rest at the Kanatte General Cemetery, a pleasant breeze blew over, with a mild drizzle falling for awhile - an omen of the passing away of a good and much loved human being. Kirubai, as he was affectionately known, began his life with adversity. For when he was an infant of nine months, he was stricken with pneumonia and almost dying. The family with other relatives and a prayer group kept on praying. The doctor then rushed back to advise them to feed him with water in a spoon every 15 minutes. With this and the prayers of many, he was miraculously healed.
As a lad he attended the Kollupitya Methodist Sunday School and its church, not forgetting the charismatic Catholic churches. He had his secondary education at Wesley College, blossomed out as a fine cricketer and did well as a batsman in Mercantile cricket tournaments.
He soared to great heights at the Saracens Sports Club by scoring many a fifty and a century to boot. He was very much liked by the Macan Markar brothers who organized the club. He gave up his cricket and remained just a member of the CCC after he bought a coconut estate off Kurunegala. It did sadden him much to sell the estate two years later.
He was never aggressive but calm and collected, and lent a helping hand to the underprivileged. God did see to it that he did not suffer. He is survived by his wife Yvonne, sons Sean and Angelo, daughter-in-law Pushpika and grandsons.
Farewell dear brother, may the choirs of angels sing thee to sleep!
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The news of Frank Samaraweera's demise came to me while reading the "Appreciations" of the Times of SL on the 29th of December 2013. I still do not know when he passed away or the circumstances. Despite the passage of years there was a certain pang and a feeling of loss. As the dust of the day settled there was time for reflection of a time now long gone. Living in the Northern hemisphere December is the time for winter storms and long nights. As the dawn of the new year approaches I wind down, reflect and take stock before the calendar turns. I remember those who were here a year ago but who will not be tomorrow, when we, the survivors, start anew.
I came to know Frank when I was a boarder at Wesley College in the 1950’s. He had the proverbial good looks - tall, dark and handsome with a warm and ready smile. Frank was 6 years my senior and I remember him as a reserved, tolerant and kind person. With his gentle, friendly manner he got on well with everyone. Frank was a fine scholar and won many prizes and awards at the annual prize giving. At school his interests were broad. He was in the school choir with Mr Maxwell De Alwis at the helm and took part in the Operettas – Aladd-in-and out and also Robin Hood which had rave reviews when we played in Kandy and Colombo. I recall with much nostalgia the Carol Services at the Maradana Methodist Church and the Festival of Nine Lessons and Carols at the Great Hall at Wesley College with the endless hours of preparation for these events despite the pressures of the end of term examinations. Frank took all this in his stride. Being an accomplished singer he played an active role in the choir. The clear harmonies produced by the Wesley choir influenced a generation of school choirs in the 1950's.
His passion for acting took him to the school Drama Society. This was the golden age of drama at school. Plays were then directed and supervised by Mrs. C.E Oorloff who was the Principal’s wife. She was a keen producer of plays and herself trained by Prof EFC Ludowyke at the University of Peradeniya. Frank's polished performances and distinctive voice will be remembered by many.
Frank was widely respected as a reliable and keen student and was appointed a school prefect. As I distinctly recall whatever he did at school bore a certain stamp of elegance, which was his hallmark.
Frank played cricket and football in the small park like the rest of us and enjoyed the camaraderie in the hostel. He used his height to play a good competitive game of basketball.
He left Wesley in 1955 to become an undergraduate at the University of Peradeniya where he read English under the tutelage of Prof JLC Rodrigo. They were undoubtedly the halcyon days of University education at the picturesque new campus when Sir Ivor Jennings was the Vice Chancellor.
His balanced views, loyalty and wisdom were greatly appreciated and well rewarded. Frank rapidly rose to hold positions as Director and then Managing Director of many high profile companies in Sri Lanka. Over the years, as insight developed, Frank became the voice of good judgment, invaluable in listening to ideas, then rendering a cool and objective opinion. He was also well connected and an astute spotter of talent and recruited the best for his Company. He was an inspiration to all. In this harsh and fiercely competitive world he lived by the principles he espoused with courage and integrity. However, behind his formal, calm and always courteous exterior, lay a keen business brain. He graced those positions with sincerity and warmth, and above all, his immaculate presence.
Frank always had a strong moral and civic sense and worked abroad for the United Nations. He will be remembered as a good human being, someone who brought happiness, hope and reflection into life and into this world.
He never really lost touch with his roots. At Wesley College Frank became the Vice President of the Old Boys Union. During the tumult that swept across the organisation, although a formidable task he steered the OBU safely through those tough times. Frank had been blessed with a formidable intellect and great depth of knowledge. He managed to achieve his goals by persuasion. His calm presence and astute judgment was essential during the many crises. Frank inspired respect and affection as a man who understood the Old Boys psyche. He could also defuse awkward situations with dry one-liners and a twinkle in his eye. There were many happy times too. Frank loved the work, found his assignments unfailingly intriguing and also entertaining at times. In the process he developed a lasting affection for Wesley and many of the Old Boys. As a distinguished Wesleyite he personified the spirit of the founding fathers of the school.
Frank drew the warm affection and admiration of a wide range of friends. He was a close friend and confidante of Dr NAB Fernando who was a boarder at Wesley with him. They both joined the Arts Faculty of the University of Peradeniya and stayed together at the Marrs Hall of residence. He was a regular visitor to the Principal’s Bungalow at Wesley when Dr NAB Fernando was the Principal. Such meetings would have evoked great nostalgia. He wrote moving appreciations when his school mates, BJ Karunatilleke and NAB Fernando passed away.
Frank was unable to attend the Grand Reunion of September 2012 at Wesley College due to ill health. Towards the end of his life his poor health made him a recluse. Frank, who belonged to the old school is almost the last of his ilk. I would have loved to see him as we never got the chance to meet since 1955. Personal communications with his friends helped me to compile this meagre tribute. I have paid a high price for living in exile in the UK.
After all, any life that inspires and encourages so many others is a life that was well lived.
Links to further reading
- Dr NAB Fernando, remembered by Frank Samaraweera
- B.J.Karunatilleke remembered by Frank Samaraweera (Was known as JBW Karunatilleke at school)
A loving tribute to a special friend and man of many talents - Frank Samaraweera by Anthea Senaratna
From the Times of Sri Lanka- 29th December 2013
A man whose parents were stalwarts of the Salvation Army, whose two sisters were Priya, a renowned counsellor, and Swarna, a teacher of repute; a man who was into the arts, enjoyed acting and was involved in the theatre from schooldays to adulthood; who had an excellent singing voice; an honours graduate in English from the University of Peradeniya, and the holder of degrees in marketing and business management; a man who reached the pinnacle of his career with jobs attached to the UN. Indeed a man of many talents.
But most importantly, a kind and caring person; this, in a capsule, is a description of our beloved friend, Frank Samaraweera.
I first met Frank when he brought his fiancée Kamala Fernando to our house down Milagiriya Avenue. We were immediately drawn to them both. Kamala stayed with us for over two years while she was teaching at Visakha Vidyalaya. This was around 1959. Frank was employed as a teacher at Carey College – they had both just graduated and these were their first jobs.
A keen and versatile actor, Frank played the role of Rama in Iranganie Serasinghe’s production of ‘Rama & Sita’. I also recall his mellifluous tones singing ‘Green Sleeves’ at our place. My parents and I loved them both and my mother (who was an excellent cook) often saved a portion of Polos curry (one of Frank’s favourites) for Frank when he visited Kamala in the evenings.
Frank visited Kamala almost daily. I remember well the day he got his first private sector job at Lever Brothers. He visited Kamala as usual and casually mentioned that he had had an interview with Levers a few days earlier. Later that evening – after Frank had left, it began to rain heavily and through the thunderstorm we heard our doorbell ring – this must’ve been around midnight. My father went to the door and was alarmed to see Frank standing there — by this time all of us had gathered fearing the worst. But Frank was smiling — and he told us the good news. He had on returning home found a letter from Levers informing him that he had got the job!
We laughed and cried (in joy of course!) and hugged him before he finally was given the chance to have a few quiet words with Kamala and leave for home.
The next surprise we had was when Frank turned up in a green Ford car a few weeks later! I am sure he would have liked to have taken Kamala for the first ride in his car but did he have a chance with me (a teenager at the time), my neighbour from down the road, and the little boy who lived next-door (both constant visitors to our place)! We leapt into the car and demanded he take us for ice cream. He did as he had no other choice. When we returned I well recall my parents telling us to get down from the car and give ‘this sweet couple’ just two seconds to themselves – we must have been incorrigible to say the least!
In a few years, Frank and Kamala were married and when Aruni and Asitha were born they became devoted parents and took on the busy role of running a house and family. When I married Sriyantha (Simon) I was delighted to learn that he had known Frank and Kamala at the Peradeniya University.
Frank continued to rise up the mercantile ladder. From being a senior manager in the marketing division of Lever Bros., he moved to Darley Butler and Company, then on to Reckitt & Coleman where he was appointed marketing director and later managing director. He held this position for over fifteen years and was also an independent director of Taj Hotel.
He then joined Shaw Wallace and Company as MD and was there for several years. He was awarded the Eisenhower Scholarship and soon after took on an overseas assignment with the International Planned Parenthood Federation aligned to the UN. In this line of work he was posted to Jordan, Pakistan, the US and Kenya. On returning to Sri Lanka in the mid 1990s Frank was invited to join a few companies as an independent director while undertaking some consultancy assignments.
In addition Frank was a member of the Steering Committee that founded the Sri Lanka Institute of Marketing in which he served as an office bearer and also as president.
We spent an unforgettable holiday with Frank and Kamala while they were in Nairobi, Kenya — exploring the magnificent game parks, touring the lakes and other areas of interest. We also enjoyed the somewhat unusual experience of attending a dinner theatre which was absolutely superb. We travelled with Frank and Kamala in their vehicle — it was such great fun.
Once they returned to Sri Lanka they were always a part of our family. We shall always treasure their love and friendship. Dearest Frank, Simon and I will always remember you. Now that you are reunited with your beloved Kamala may you be blessed with true happiness and peace!
Memorable anecdotes by Lalith (L.C.R) Wijesinghe
I still remember Frank Samaraweera coming for those OWSC Club Nights organised at the Old Pavilion during JCP Wickramanayake's time. (I too was involved with him being the Asst. Sec. of the OBU,)
JCP used to bring two bottles of arrack which was kept at his home for these events.. This was sold from behind the bar counter by Wilson ( groundboy) and he making notes of the drinks and short eats sold. Nihal Wijestunge, JBW Karunatilleke, Cecil Fernando , Afghar Mohideen,MAP Fernando, RM De Silva were some of the regular attendees at these once a month events. Frank used to love listening to Nimal Sureweere singing in his lovely tenor voice at these nights (of course having imbibed the spirits that cheer) Frank could take his liquor well. We used to play bridge till late on certain club nights. Paul Senaratne, MAP Fernando , Frank and myself, I was on the staff at Wesley ( this was in the late 60's) As Frank was the Managing Director of Reckitt & Colman he was trying to find me something more lucrative ( my salary was Rs 350 per month) than a teaching job. I recall very vividly being interviewed by him at his plush office in Fort,
The position was for a Medical Representative !! ( with a car provided !!) He asked me if I knew the meaning of the word " Analgesic". Would you believe that I failed to answer the question and so blew the chance of becoming a Medical Rep. and maybe visiting you Nihal to peddle my products !!!
I must also mention that once JCP instead of bringing 2 bottles of arrack for the club Night had one bottle of coconut oil in the parcel, which was discovered when it was about to be opened. It was a catastrophe. Somebody was rushed on a motorbike with a JCP scribbled note to his wife, asking her to handover 1 bottle of arrack.
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Harry De Vos passed away in Melbourne.
A Private Family Funeral Service was held, for Harry, at the Springvale Botanical Cemetery, Victoria, Australia on the 26th of November 2013.
Harry's generous spirit reached out to all and was one reason of many why, at any gathering, people were drawn to him. His wit and bonhomie also played their part. He was a man of great charm and elegance, a force of nature and a bringer of fun and joy. His enthusiasm for friendship was infectious.
He will be sorely missed by his family and fondly remembered by Old Boys of Wesley College. Harry was an honoured and respected member of the Seniors Group of the OBU, Melbourne, where he was well known for his lusty singing of the School Song. He fostered a strong sense of belonging in all he did. We are grateful for his support and friendship over many years. Harry was a gentle cultured person and a good friend, considerate and kind. We will miss his warm smile and wicked sense of humour.
Kindly sent to me by Keith de Kretser
Harry Flottiland de Vos
Husband to Heather
Brother to Joy, Maureen, Jean, Neil and Hilary
Father to Ken and Frans
Grandfather to Caitlin, Callum, Cara and Joel.
Dad was born on 5th January 1929, in Colombo, Ceylon.
He was educated and studied at Wesley College until 1945, where he excelled particularly in mathematics...
From 1950 he held the occupation of marine engineer and spent many years at sea.
Dad was married on the 29th July 1961 and Ken was born in November, 1962.
In 1966 the family moved to Australia where he worked as a mechanical engineer and Frans was born soon after in February, 1967.
After obtaining his degree in the mid 1970s dad worked for the Port of Melbourne Authority up until 1985 where he was second in charge of Dredging.
Dad took early retirement at the age of 57 in 1986.
During his 27 years of retirement dad had many hobbies and interests..
Most notable was the time he spent on his inventions..
These included amongst others; the string hopper machine, lawn mower edger, hopper machine and the Acquimiser water saving device.
His love of singing and music was also well served as leader of the “True Blue Minstrels” a band which had origins back to the 1950s with the influence of Al Jolson, Dean Martin and Frank Sinatra.
Watching Cricket and hosting regular parties was dad’s other love where he celebrated right up until to his recent 80th birthday obtaining an OBE (Over Bloody Eighty).
Dad was a father, mentor and counsel to myself and will be fondly remembered for his dedication, discipline, strong principles and love for his immediate and extended family...
Dad passed away peacefully at Lifeview aged care centre on 21st November, 2013, aged 84. He truly had a good life.
A voice we love is still.
A place is vacant in our hearts which no one else can fill.
After our lonely heartaches and silent tears, we will always have beautiful memories of the one we loved so dear.
Servant of God well done!
Rest from thy love employ.
The battle is fought, the victory won.
Enter they Master’s Joy
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Standing (L-R) :- H.S.W. Jayasekera, J.V.B. Perera, R.C. Bartholomeusz, N.de la Harpe, D.R. Vantwest,W.O.C. Mottau, L. Abeywardene.
Seated (L-R) :- V.R. Dias, Mr. M. Sathasivam (Coach), H.L.A. Matthysz (Captain), Rev. J. Cartman (principal),W.P.S. Abeywardena (V.Capt), Mr. J.L.F. de Mel, N.S. Jayasundere.
Lucky was in the Wesley College 1st XI Cricket Team in 1948 Captained by H.L Matthysz. He is remembered for scoring an elegant 101 against St Joseph's College. Bertus Perera with L.Abeywardene were in the Combined Colleges Cricket team which played against the touring West Indies side in 1950. West Indies team was captained by John Goddard and included Jeff Stollmeyer, George Headley (Black Bradman), Clyde Wolcott, Everton Weekes, C. A. Mcwatt, W. Ferguson, George Carew. The match was played at the Colombo Oval (Saravanamuttu Stadium). After leaving school he played for Bloomfield Cricket Club and helped them to win the coveted Saravanamuttu Trophy in the 1963/64 season.
As we say for cricketers "
May he find the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news of the demise of MAM Sheriff who was an outstanding athlete for school and country. He represented Ceylon in the British Empire Games (Now known as the Commonwealth Games) held in Auckland New Zealand in February 1950 where MAM Sheriff was placed 7th in the order of merit in the Long Jump clearing 21ft 6 inches. This was a great achievement in a strong field of British and African athletes. Duncan White, an old Trinitian, won Gold for the 440 yards Hurdles at the Empire Games in 1950. He had won Silver at the 1948 Olympic Games in London.
As an athlete MAM Sheriff's natural stamina, ambition and determination were clear. His achievements speaks volumes of his tenacity and perseverence. He was the Senior Prefect in 1949 during the Cartman era. MAM Sheriff brought a depth of understanding, a great deal of courage, a joyous charm and boundless charisma to his tenure as Senior Prefect. He was an iconic figure at Wesley. As a boarder at school he won the coveted Lydia Senaratne Memorial Prize in 1946 for the best all rounder in the hostel. His excellence in sports, affable nature and smart demeanour gave him an unmistakeable profile at Wesley and earned the respect and admiration of students and staff alike.
M.A.M Sheriff continued his studies at Oxford University where he won an Oxford Blue in Athletics.
Results of the 1950 Empire Games in Auckland - Long Jump
| Position | Name | Country | Result |
| 1- Gold | Neville Graham Price | South Africa | 24ft |
| 2- Silver | WBK Hough | New Zealand | 23ft 7 inches |
| 3- Bronze | D Dephoff | New Zealand | 23ft 3 inches |
| 4. | K Forsythe | New Zealand | 23ft 3 inches |
| 5. | H Whittle | England | 22ft 8 inches |
| 6. | KAB Olowu | Nigeria | 22ft 8 inches |
| 7. | MAM Sheriff | Ceylon | 21ft 6 inches |
He never lost his love for his alma mater where he made lifelong friends. MAM Sheriff visited the school on his many trips back to Sri Lanka. When Rev Cartman's daughter Mrs. Christine Weaver visited Wesley College in March 2002 MAM Sheriff was present for the official and unofficial engagements to celebrate her visit in Memory of Rev Cartman who was a legendary Principal at Wesley College.
I understand he was from Sammanthurai in the Eastern Province. At Wesley we had a large contingent of students from Sammanthurai who played an important part in the life of the school. Thereafter they became prominent citizens of Sri Lanka and the wider world.
MAM Sheriff was domiciled in the USA and passed away while on holiday in Sri Lanka. He was 85 years.
1950 Ceylon Team for the British Empire Games held in Auckland New Zealand
L to R: M.A.M.Sheriff, Albert Perera, J.R.de. Silva, A.I.Obeyasekera, Mrs. H.N.P.Perera (the manager's wife), Somapala, Oscar Wijesinghe, K.Edwin, Douglas Arndt, K.Duraisingham, Clifford Jansz, Shelagh Gaddam, Vivien Blaze, Summa Navaratnam, John de Saram, Harry Nightingale (swimming coach), Edward Gray and Duncan White.
"Inna Lillahi Va Inna Ilaihi Rajioon"
"From Him do we come and unto Him do we return"
Links to further reading
Bill Deutrom's Appreciation
I am honoured to have been asked to say a few words about Ronald Henderling as I knew him. I am representing the Wesleyites present here to farewell Ronald and all those Wesleyites around the world who cannot be here today.
The Principal of Wesley College has asked me to pass on his sympathies. He met with Ron in September along with Haig Karunaratne who taught at Wesley and we were taken to lunch by Ron at his favorite Thai restaurant in Springwood. I think he really enjoyed the meeting even though he was not feeling too great.
Ron was an excellent hockey player and was appointed Vice Captain of the Wesley team. In this role he coached the juniors and I was one of the recipients of his coaching. This is where I first met Ron.
Ron was a good sportsman representing College in Hockey and Rugby. He was also a part of the Passmore house 440 yards champion relay team along with his cousin Maurice Mortier who lives in Melbourne and is unable to be here today. Maurice tells me that Ron was very pleased when he was sent up to collect the trophy.
We had a former master Fred Abeysekera visiting Australia some time ago. I was preparing to arrange his transport and accommodation to Brisbane and I rang to tell Ron about the visit. Ron told me that as usual I was a bit late in telling him about Wesley matters as he had already bought their tickets and was hosting them at his house. I managed to get him to agree to come over with the visitors for lunch. He looked after them and gave them a wonderful Brisbane experience in his usual relaxed manner. He was a generous friend and importantly a true Wesleyite. On another occasion we were planning a lunch at my home and I asked Norman de La Harpe to inform Ronald. Off course Ron immediately told Norman to tell me if I wanted him to come I had to call him which I did. There were no short cuts in dealing with Ronald!!
I am told by Fred Abeysekera that he has a room with items from Wesley. Maurice tells me that in the last couple of weeks his sister Esther had spoken to him by phone and told him to not give in. His reply was that a Wesleyite never gives in, and he demonstrated that spirit right through these difficult weeks, never losing his sense of humour and enjoying my pathetic jokes about his string of girlfriends, the trips we were going to do together and the thrashing that his English team was getting in the cricket.
I left Sri Lanka in 1965 straight from College and did not meet with Ron until I came to Brisbane from Sydney in 1988. However once we caught up we used to meet at various Wesley functions which he always attended. College was important to him as it is to all Wesleyites. However there was nothing more important to him than his daughter Fiona. During his stay in hospital he always brightened up when she was there which was pretty well all the time. Ron was very blessed to have a daughter like Fiona and he was immensely proud of her.
I had the pleasure of seeing Ron's extended family in hospital. Patricia was a constant visitor and Jeremy seemed to be there all the time. He was a real help to Ron and the food that he prepared for him was very tempting Unfortunately he never offered me a share of my friends gourmet lunches. The support that Ron had from his family helped him to endure a very trying time.
On behalf of his school friends our sympathies to Fiona and the family. We will miss our Wesley mate who had strength of character which he displayed over the last couple of years and was an inspiration to all who saw him. Ron has always been a straight shooter and once he made up his mind he did not deviate. A true gentleman and a great friend. We will miss him and may he rest in peace.
Remembered by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
As I look at his photo above how much his face has changed since those years at school. But when I read Bill's account of the man his personality hasn't changed much and neither has his passion for Wesley.
I came to know Ronald when I joined the Primary School at Wesley College in 1950. He was in my parallel class. Those were the glory days of the school. He was a smart lad, rather quiet, thoughtful, kind and reserved. Ronald was a fine sportsman even in those early years. He was great fun to be with and loved the open air, outdoor events and the camaraderie. Cricket then was his passion. During the intervals Ronny was often seen playing in the small park in the blistering sun.
Ronald came from a cricketing family. His uncle Bertram Thomas Henderling, was a fine cricketer and captained Wesley's 1st XI Team in 1942. He is now the oldest living Wesleyite to Captain Cricket and lives in Sydney, Australia. Ronald's father, Samuel Edward Henderling, played cricket for Wesley. He passed away in 1968.
With his winning smile Ronald was delightful company. I remember his dry sense of humour and the ability to see the lighter side of everyday events. He was known for his impish giggle, and his tendency to goad others on occasion. I well recall at times he could seem inattentive, distracted, as though his mind was elsewhere.
In those days of innocense we travelled together by the narrow guage KV train from Nugegoda to Baseline Road and back with the rest of the crowd including Rohan and Nimal Wijesinghe, WAK Silva, Ranjit Kulatunge, Godwin and Godfrey Roberts and a host of others. Those were happy years and it was fun all the way. When there were cricket matches being played at the Railway Grounds by the Baseline Road Station we all watched the game until the train slowly came to a halt at 3.55pm. Missing the train was a disaster as the next one was due at 4.20pm. That was a tremendously exciting regular pursuit which I recall with much nostalgia.
Wesley Rugby XV April 1959 - Sent by Michael Christoffelsz
Back Row: L-R: Ron Henderling, Darlan Perera, Trevor Gunasekera,Rodney de Kretser, Sheriff Fallil, Lameer
Middle row: L-R: S.R.Sinniah, Sin Sen Chang, Lameer, Daya Perera, Neville Ludowyk, Ronald Asirwatham, Nalendra Abeysuriya, Marice Weeraperumal, Jayantha De Silva
Front Row L-R: Bunny Saldin, Lisk , Mr.PH Nonis, NE Fernando, Mr.Dabrera, Shanthi Perera
Ground:- Mike Christoffelsz
Wesley Rugby XV April 1960 - Sent by Michael Christoffelsz
Back Row- L to R: Russell Schockman,Lameer(Jnr),Beverley de Neise
Middle Row:- L to R;- C. Sin-Sen, Ron Henderling, Lameer(Snr), Haig Maloney, Glen Reimers,Trevor Gunasekera, Mike Christoffelsz, Errol de Silva, Rodney De Kretser, Sherriff Falil.
Seated:- L to R: Darlan Perera. Principasl Mr P.h. Nonis, B.saldin (Capt), Mr. A.D D'Arbrera, Daya Perera
Ground- Robin Reimers.
In the Senior School Ronald became a regular in the 1st XI Hockey Team as Vice Captain. He was a fine athlete for Passmore House and played Rugby for the 1st XV. Ronny accepted the risk and the adrenaline of Rugby with relish. With his defensive qualities and attacking flair he became a useful member of the team in those early years of Rugby at Wesley with Danton D'Abrera as our coach and mentor. He was happiest in the playing fields of Wesley and Ronald wasn't impressed with academia. After the GCE Ronald left Wesley and settled in Brisbane, Australia where he spent all of his adult life. I flew in the opposite direction to the UK and sadly we never got an opportunity to meet again. Although I did a tour of Australia in 2009 and touched down briefly in Brisbane I never knew Ronald lived there. That would have been a golden opportunity to reconnect and remember those early years.
Ronald was not in the best of health in the past 2 years. He faced his final illness with dignity and courage and was most lovingly cared for by his daughter, Fiona, supported by the rest of his family. Ronald passed away peacefully on the 26th of January 2014.
At school he was a friend to many. Ronald had a heart of gold and was a gentleman throughout his life. In all the years he remained a true Blue Wesleyite. He was a wonderful human being and the world will be a poorer place without him.
I was informed: At the funeral the church was packed to capacity. There was a large gathering of Old Wesleyites to bid farewell to Ronald. The coffin was draped with the school colours. Ronald received the 'War Cry - Zam Zam Zacky...' as the coffin was lowered. I am certain he would have been rightly proud of this vocal last farewell. He will be dearly missed by all those who knew him. On behalf of the Worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites I send my hearfelt condolences to his close family. The funeral was a proper celebration, a thanksgiving, and we saw genuinely who he was.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
An Appreciation by Lalith (L.C.R) Wijesinghe
Ralph was my classmate and dear friend until his untimely death two days ago.
When I sit back and reflect on the relationship we shared for nearly 60 years, all past events and encounters with him tell me that it was a privilege to have him as a friend. We have never shared a moment in anger even once over these long years, which exemplifies his character.
He was kind, generous and understanding. He was brought up at 42, Daya Road, Wellawatte the
youngest in a family of 3 brothers and 3 sisters and was called “ baby” by all his siblings.
Whilst at Wesley he was a member of the prestigious School Sea Scouts Troop and had the distinction of travelling to England for a scout Jamboree as a schoolboy, which was quite a feather in his cap.
Having progressed up to the O’Level classes he decided to leave school and subsequently joined the Merchant Navy to see the world. This was a surprising move by him as he led a very protected and sheltered life at home, being the “baby” in the family. Also his gentlemanly ways and family background provided an ill-fit to the career he had chosen in the Merchant Navy which comprised of hardened,tough and worldly types. His easy and friendly manner helped him to make many loyal friends in the Navy. I recall with nostalgia those several occasions where he and I shared a “ beer” at the Seaman’s Club in the Fort when he used come “onshore” in Colombo after tiring voyages at sea.. Ralph had a penchant for his “beer & smoke” from a young age due to the influence of his work environment. Of his school friends as I recall Kabir Ismail, Dharmaratne Kodithuwakku, Neville Perera and Fahmy Sikkander comprised one set.. OKHemachandra, Dalkin Samidon,Kenneth De Silva, Upali Perera and I comprised another. During our young days prior to marriage a favourite pastime of ours was frequenting all the popular “watering holes” which existed in the 1960’s and 70’s in Colombo. Ralph was a member of the Havelock Sports Club and many were our “ gatherings” at this popular club, often till closing time. Ralph liked ballroom dancing. Going for Colombo dances,scrambling for “partners” and making plans to escort them were some of the interesting and exciting times we shared during those early days.
As we got on in years most in our circle got married and each of us pursued our careers and gave more time to our young new families. Ralph remained a batchelor for quite some time till he met Norma who was his neighbour at the Walukarama Flats at Wellawatte. He married Norma and proved to be a sober, devoted and dedicated husband. Norma was his soulmate. During her illness prior to her passing away last year, Ralph showed extreme devotion and took excellent care of Norma. This burden too had it’s toll on Ralph. He was in poor health from the beginning of this year and finally succumbed resulting in his passing away on 15 March 2014.
Ralph was a very dear and close friend to a few of us who cherished his qualities and friendship.
You deserve the best resting place my dear friend. There are not many like you.
Remembered by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Ralph was taken ill suddenly. The severity of his final illness came as a shock to us all. Lalith Wijesinghe most kindly kept me informed.
I came to know Ralph as a fellow boarder when he joined the School Hostel in 1954/55. Although his parents lived in Wellawatte they felt it was prudent to keep Ralph in an environment conducive to study to help prepare for the all important Senior School Certificate (SSC) .
In those days life in the boarding was uncomfortable to say the least but it broadened our childhood and outlook. We were inspired enormously by our dedicated teachers. In the boarding I remember Ralph as a quiet, thoughtful boy. Although he was a quiet person was sociable with a good sense of humour and numerous friendships blossomed. He showed patience and kindness to his fellow students. Ralph took part in the usual activities in the hostel with much enthusiasm and made friends easily. He was never a great sportsman but immersed himself fully supporting the cricket and football that took place in the small park and Campbell Park. Whenever he was in a spot of bother his weapon was a smile which had the effect of disarming even the boldest. I still remember with nostalgia his playful sense of fun. Amidst all this, as I recall, Ralph remained a very private person all through the years at school.
Ralph left the boarding in 1957/58 and left school soon after. When he entered the big wide world, sadly, our paths never crossed. I never met him again.
His experience in the boarding and the Scout Troop must have come to the fore in the Navy where much resourcefulness and resilience was needed. His career prospered and Ralph became a successful Naval Officer and a part of that community. I hope he had a rewarding and interesting life.
Ralph was a popular figure in the extended community of old boys and had a great love and loyalty to Wesley.
His most endearing qualities as a young man was his good manners and charm. He was dignified and had compassionate ways. He will be remembered for his personal kindness and thoughtful generosity. In the boarding we enjoyed his company enormously. In later life to his close family he was irreplaceable. To his innumerable friends his demise was a tragic loss.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Sharm de Alwis passes away (Island Newspaper) April 30, 2014, 9:32 pm
Born in Kandy on 17th March 1934 to Duwadisawage Victor Vincent De Alwis (better known as Captain De Alwis) and Pearl Wijesinghe, he was the first born of his siblings thus inheriting the respect and adoration as "Aiya". Having attended both Wesley College and Trinity, he recalls his fondest memories at Trinity the school he also served as secretary of the OBA for over three years.
He was in the Trinity boxing pool even though he was not able to represent the College and when in Wesley together with his mate Babu Ahamath they managed to coax boxing in to the sports curriculum.
His big break in boxing came when he captained Shell Company in 1954 to ’56 and went on to win the Cup in the Pin and Fly weights at the Mercantile Intermediate Boxing Meet (1955). He also held the cup for the ‘Best Boxer’ for three consecutive years and remained an unbeaten boxer.
His boxing career stood at a standstill when he left for England where he studied Advertising, Market Research, Marketing and Public Relations at the London University for four years. While in London he travelled around Europe for three months on his Llambretta scooter bringing back both souvenirs and tales which were enjoyed by his children and grandchildren.
On returning home, after many successful years in advertising & marketing at William Biscuits, J.W. Thomas, Grants, Senarathne and Don Carollis, in 1972 with the birth of his third daughter whom he considered ‘lucky’, he made a giant leap and pioneered his own company ‘Kangaroo Packing & Shipping’ which he steered with the help of his wife Loretta. He is also a freelance writer on sports, travel and social comments.
He leaves behind his children and grandchildren who will miss him very much.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
A veteran journalist and scribe, Sharm, was a well respected old boy of Trinity and Wesley Colleges. Although not a fulltime journalist he remained one of the most accomplished and prolific writers of his time. He could effortlessly reel off streams of school anecdotes capturing the humour with consummate ease. His energetic style was much admired and his quality and versatility was greatly appreciated. Sharm was proud of the achievements of both schools and wrote his memories of his schooldays and friends with great passion.
His vivid and colourful descriptions of his school life and exploits was his hall mark.At Trinity College he remained a legend becoming the President of its Old Boys Association. He maintained its rich archives and history for posterity. He was never afraid to correct injustice and put the record straight when that was needed. His pen always did the talking, fluently and in great style. He wrote about Rugby, which was famous at that school, with great authority. Sharm combined its interesting anecdotes and controversies to write elegantly which I am certain will remain with the school forever. His knowledge of school cricket and its personalities was phenomenal having a remarkable memory for facts and figures. Sharm's expert contributions on the Wesley-Trinity Cricket matches will continue to jog our memories of those halcyon days.
Boxing was his forte. Sharm had the courage and skill to represent Wesley, Trinity and then the Shell Company with great distinction.
During his four year stint as an undergraduate in London University his taste for adventure led him to a trip round Europe in a Lambretta Scooter which he has recounted in his own lighthearted and inimitable style. Sharm was a cheerful, self-confident man with a mischievous sense of humour and a passion for life. He was an amusing and humane companion, but his seriousness of purpose was always evident.
He had the indefinable presence in any gathering and enjoyed a successful career in Marketing and Shipping. Sharm had no intention of retiring and putting his feet up. He worked right to the very end at Kangaroo Packing and Shipping at Galle Face Terrace. He managed it with great skill and expertise since 1972. Sharm lived with his close knit family in Kiribathgoda.
It seems to me that Sharm came closer than many of us in achieving his aspirations. On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his journalistic contributions over many years. We will miss him.
Island Newspaper May 3, 2014
Sharm de Alwis’ sudden demise leaves a blank space in the columns we so eagerly read in the Island. And we will miss them as we shall his caring humanity, his effervescent sense of humour and warm friendship.
Death comes to all of us and over time even memories of friends who have crossed the great divide fade away through eternity. Not so, however, with widely read columnists whose inky trademark and keyboard imprints will remain in the history books and archives, available to generations to come.
Sharm was a stylish sports writer. He belonged to a yesteryear class whose alumni are alas so few in these times. He wrote often for the Island, and occasionally to the Daily News, and The Leader about sportsmen and sportswomen and of men and mice. There was much about rugby, some about cricket and then about boxing where he had a track record of being an irrepressible pugilist. He also shared many a personal anecdote of which there was a classic about being a jail bird…more on that later.
He wrote with a flourish with brightly coloured anecdotes and vignettes that gripped our attention. There was a time when I cautioned him that his writings were more about Trinity that readers may find it difficult to ingest drawing from criticism leveled against this writer. And his response was an unapologetic yes, adding "that is what I know best and I cannot hide my fancy, and others have the liberty to write about theirs!’’
To be fair though, we read his columns for the style that was unique and for the engaging literary flourish that made good reading and for the variety of his coverage.
In his own reminiscence he traced his writing style to a curious chain of events that evolved from at attempt at Kandyan dancing that grew into prose and poetry: I had been destined to be tutored in Kandyan dancing by the best in the world - Nittawela Gunaya Gurunanse. And here was I, during the vacations, worshipping every robust movement of a supple and masculine frame and also the limpid movements of his protege, Vajira….that I did not have the fluidity of Kandyan genes to perform in the ‘eloquence’ of Dance, I turned my attention to the limpid poetry of Byron, Keats and Shelley et al.
Through those beginnings the cocktail that he offered in his writings was shandied with a host of anecdotes and spiced, I would add, with full blooded sparkling wine
There was a time when he reported back after a male dominated Trinity social event and wrote about ‘females in gorgeous plumes who were mercifully brought into the enclave rather than be left to waft their loveliness in the wilderness of another room. Their presence brought about a fake suck-in of our (his) bellies and a false air of bravado. I did fetch courage to impose: "I am Sharm de Alwis. Can you remember who your husband is?" They all got full marks but if the day extended, the husbands would have fluffed the QA!’
The exclamation marks in his writings had special appeal and an engaging twist. For instance referring to his choice of a dream Sri Lankan Rugby XV he justified it by graphically adorning his selection with vivid expressions of such giants as Y. C. Chang as a Chip of the Great Wall of China who with Hadji Omar were a team of battering rams; of Hisham Abdeen, the Crown Jewel, who defied description; of Mike de Alwis who was the finest hooker ever to be in local rugby and sacrificed his front teeth and ribs for the game; of Lanil Tennekoon who felled opponents like a lumberjack, the bigger they came, the harder they fell; of Thajone Savangam and Jeff de Jong two who played together for club and country and understood every move the other would make, inseparable at the base of the scrum or at the bar; of S. B. Pilapitiya who remains the ‘Prince of scrum halves’ even though there have been many pretenders. He would be airborne in feeding his threes and could not, therefore, be tackled. In a five yard scrum, he would leap over the defence to plant tries at will; of Nimal Maralande who remains the best in the position adding that Mohan Sahayam, ‘the Smiling Assassin’ sold dummies like he was selling ‘waday’ and would plant the try and hold the uprights as he laughed into the wind; and of Viper Gunaratne (Snr), safe as Horatio on the Bridge when try plundering opponents descended like ‘the Huns from the hills his tackles hospitalized his adversaries.’
On Boxing he wrote about Britain’s Heavyweight Boxing champion of the 60s who had put Cassius Clay on the deck in their first bout, Henry Cooper steadfastly refused to indulge in rugger, "There’s too much going on in them scrums and I am not in a position to reciprocate."
What goes on in the rugger fields is more an extension of unpolished street fighting he wrote. The pomp and majesty of street fighting was displayed by Kalu Abay and Podi Mahattaya of Dehiwela. It was Podi Mahattaya who introduced me, he wrote, to three superlative exponents of the black eye trade who had been fellows of Watupitiwela’s Borstal town and had been discharged for good behaviour when their boxing skills were honed by coach de Silva who also had had a hand in turning out crisp boxers from Christ Church, Kotte. The three from Borstal town were crowned the champions in the All-Ceylon Boxing meets of the late 60s in the categories of Bantam, Feather and Light weights.
On to cricket, he wrote that the pace and the rhythms of cricket inspire more good writing than any other sport. Next to opera and music, the literature on cricket waxes most eloquent and to pay homage to the game and to the players is a galaxy of worthy writers
And with glee and humility he wrote about his three days in Welikada’s remand prison: I was a remand prisoner in Welikada’s high security jail 21 years ago and if my term was to be only three days, it possibly was due to the poetic licence that "fish after three days begins to smell." I went in on a Friday afternoon and came out on Monday but in those three days I met a clutch of some swell guys who were incarcerated only because the milk of human kindness flowed freely within them that they fought another’s cause to uphold the dignity of fair play.
My first night was in the ‘dorm’ and as none in my family knew of the requirements I slept in the sack cloth the prison authorities had given me after they took my clothes and belongings and gave me a number. I was prisoner 134. That was my identity. A kind inmate warned me to be careful of my shoes and my spectacles because anything is booty within the dungeon.
I was imprisoned because of a motor mishap in which I had accidentally knocked down a policeman. Why I was given special treatment by my fellow prisoners was explained to me: "Sir, kochchiyekuta wadek dhunna nisai". Information had got around faster than in the Bush even without smoke signals. If I were to sing of my experiences rather than cringe it has been explained by Evelyn Waugh when she wrote, "Anyone who has been to a public school will always feel comparatively at home in prison."
Three days were a romp for me and if I did not ask for my term to be ended sooner it would have been sustained by St Augustine’s confession, "Give me chastity and continency - but not yet".
In one of his recent columns he signed off with a somber prescience: I trust I have filled your cup of joy. Mine overflows.
Indeed you have Sharm!
Links to further reading
- Just my Lambretta and me… Down memory lane with Sharm De Alwis By Marisa de Silva
- The day I shot the Queen by Sharm de Alwis
- Inimitable ‘Kuiya’ Herath by Sharm de Alwis
- Trinity Wesley Cricket encounter is the 3rd Oldest cricket fixture by Sharm de Alwis
- Abu Fuard - the 'stormy petrel' of Sri Lanka cricket by Sharm De ALWIS
- An over-view of the Trinity-Wesley cricket encounters By Sharm de Alwis
- A chat with legendary Wesley cricketer Edmund Dissanayake by Sharm de Alwis 21/7/2013
May he find Eternal Peace.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
A Tribute by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Terrence cut a distinctive figure as a tall, well-built teenager at school. With his charm and poise he commanded much respect as the Senior Prefect in 1958 . I can still picture him standing by the door closest to the stage at the great hall at Wesley College, the place reserved for the Head Prefect. As a schoolboy he spoke softly, threw no tantrums and dressed elegantly.
Terrence also was the Soccer goal keeper during 1957/58 and his courageous keeping helped the school to maintain a successful unbeaten season. Terrence won countless fans on the football field with his skill and sportsmanship. Honourable and modest, he often played hard but fair. His gutsy approach to the game was his hallmark.
He left school to join the Royal Ceylon Airforce where he appeared to breeze through life making new friends and advancing his career with an ease that left others spellbound. No single moment better encapsulated the character, talent and sheer charisma of Terrence Gunawardene than his meteoric rise to become the most powerful Airman in Sri Lanka when the country was at war. We could have predicted he would one day be a high ranking officer of the Armed Forces even while at school as he was a born leader, brave and fearless and had impeccable credentials. He had the enthusiasm, wisdom and friendship of a person meant for high office. Many who got to know him appreciated his empathy, ebullience and sense of fun.
He wore his polished uniforms and glistening medals with great pride. His country meant a lot to him. Although a dire necessity, to lead the Airforce during the war was a thankless job. He was also a patriot and an optimist who saw more clearly than many of his peers. In all this, he did not worry too much about what people thought of him, so long as he was convinced of the correctness of a course of action. Terrence took on the most demanding job when his country needed him most and was ever willng to do it to the best of his ability. As a strategist he took critical decisions to win his battles. His far-sighted persistence sleepless tact, immovable calmness and patience gave him a tremendous advantage. In the Forces he was a witty, kind-hearted, inspiring figure which gave him much respect. His courtesy and tact earned him the confidence of all ranks.
Throughout his career he abhorred publicity and was rarely seen in the media. Terrence was the very antithesis of the high-profile commander of the Armed Forces. He was fearless, forthright and dogged in his belief in the rule of law. Terrence had the guts, determination, stamina and the energy to carry out his mission in life. But his high moral values, ethics and principles made him retire early in 1994 with the comment "I am tired of bloodshed and will seek a spiritual way of life". He spent his later years in meditation which brought peace and contentment to his life.
The death of his son Kamal earlier this year was a hard blow from which he never fully recovered.
He was also warm, witty and compassionate, and touched the lives of innumerable people. Terrence was a great leader and will always be remembered for his loyalty, dignity and humanity as one of the finest Air Chief Marshalls we have had. Despite a long and distinguished career Terrence declined a Military funeral.
Sunday Times of Sri Lanka:
There was of course a good deal of public indignation, both local and international, about the work of the Airforce. Evidently the Airforce Chief was himself uncomfortable about what was going on and asked for early retirement. Air Marshal Terrence Gunawardene told the Sunday Times (16/1/94) that he was ‘tired of bloodshed and will seek a spiritual way of life.’ According to circles close to him, he had not wanted to carry out bombing operations where civilians would be the likely targets, but the government had insisted contrary to his wishes.
From the Sri Lanka Airforce Archives:
On the 1st of August 1990 Makalandage Johnny Terrence De Silva Gunawardena took over as the eighth commander of the Sri Lanka Air Force, having being promoted to the rank of Air Marshal.
Groomed in the early days of his life at Wesley College Colombo, Terrence Gunawardena joined the Air Force on 31st December 1959 and was commissioned in 1961. Referred to, within close circles, as ‘Terry’, he served as a squadron pilot in many squadrons. He was also a pioneer in the early jet era flying Jet Provost and MiG 17 jets.
His rise through the ranks was made colourful by the training that he received at the RAF Staff College, Bracknell UK and the National Defence College, New Delhi, India. Prior to being appointed as the Commander he held the appointments of Commanding Officer No 2 Squadron and Commandant Air Force Academy China Bay among many other such key appointments. He took over duties as Chief of Staff in March 1986 from where he rose to the pinnacle of his career.
Wesley College Prefects 1957
The Wesley College Soccer Team - 1957
Air Marshal Terrence Gunawardena was instrumental in reviving the fighter jet capability of the Sri Lanka Air Force – an aspect that had long been forgotten and neglected. Under his concept the SLAF acquired the Chinese F 7 which spawned a new generation of men and machines. The Argentinian FMA IA 58 Pucara and the Mil Mi 17 were two other notable acquisitions to the SLAF during his tenure. Both the F 7 and Mi 17 proved to be invaluable during the campaign against terrorism. He also introduced the zonal concept which was used in administration of the Air Force.
Air Marshal Gunawardena was awarded the Vishista Seva Vibushanaya in recognition of a distinguished career with the SLAF. He handed over command on 16th February 1994. He was promoted to the rank of Air Chief Marshal upon retirement.
May he find Eternal Peace
May he find the ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
Engineer Charles J. A. Gunasekara passed away on 23 April, 2014 at the age of 78 in Florida, USA..
Born to relatively wealthy parents resident in Kotte, Charlie was the youngest among six other siblings - five sisters and one brother. He had his early education at Wesley College Colombo from where he entered the University of Ceylon to pursue a course of studies leading to the B. Sc. Degree in Civil Engineering. Having graduated in June 1958, he worked for a short period as an instructor in Civil Engineering at the Faculty of Engineering, University of Ceylon and joined the Irrigation Department in April 1959 as an Irrigation Engineer. In this position he gained very valuable experience in the investigations, design, construction, operation and maintenance of major and minor irrigation and drainage projects. During this period, he also studied for and obtained his London Charter as work experience was necessary to sit for this exam. He was also involved in the project formulation and the preparation of a feasibility report for a Groundwater and Lift Irrigation project to be funded by the World Bank. His participation in the preparation of the feasibility report of the Three Basins Project covering the river basins of Kalu, Gin, and Nilwala, by the Engineering Consultants Inc., Denver, Colorado can be considered one of the highlights of his career in the Irrigation Department. On this project, he was responsible for the administration, collection of all statistical data pertaining to various aspects of the project, execution of all topographical surveys, all field work such as location of dam axis and spill sites for proposed reservoirs.
It was while doing such field investigations that he lost his way in the Sinharaja forest and had the frightful experience of having to spend a night there all alone.
Charlie was assigned to work six months in the office of the Consultants, Denver, Colorado, U.S.A., engaged in the completion of plans and proposals for the project. On completion of his assignment with the Consultants, he returned to Sri Lanka in 1967 and continued to work in the Three Basins Project office in Colombo. It was during this period that I returned to Sri Lanka after my post-graduate studies in the U.K. and met Charlie, then a junior colleague of mine. We became very good friends.
In 1969, he was transferred to Pimburaththewa as the Engineer in charge of the Pimburaththewa reservoir construction project. Instead of complaining about the arduous life he had to live in that undeveloped jungle environment, being a lover of nature, he began to appreciate certain good aspects of the natural environment. I very well remember him describing how he wakes up early morning to listen to the bird orchestra. He was so enthralled with it that he invited me and my family to spend a holiday at Pimburaththewa and share this rare experience of listening to the music of birds. We did accept his invitation and indeed it was a wonderful experience!
While discharging his responsibilities as a construction engineer of a major reservoir project, there was an occasion when he had to step out of his normal area of operations in order to maintain the peace and harmony in the locality. A criminal was selling "Kasippu" in a place close to his construction camp. Those getting drunk with the illicit brew were creating a nuisance of themselves to the other inhabitants of the area. When Charlie could not tolerate this any longer, he walked into the "Kasippu" den and ordered the man to close down his illegal business. Though he had promptly complied with the order, he certainly would have borne a grudge against Charlie and waited for an opportunity to take his revenge.
The evening Charlie was leaving Pimburaththewa on transfer to Colombo, he was ambushed on a lonely stretch of the Manampitiya-Aralaganwila road. While driving his car he heard the report of a gun and felt that he was fired at. Fortunately, the gunshot missed the target, but made holes in the fender of the Holden and punctured the right front tyre. Realizing that stopping in the car would be certain death for him, he had driven as fast and far as he could go from the scene of the attempted crime with a punctured tyre. When he could not proceed any further, he had stepped out of the car with much trepidation, replaced the damaged wheel with a spare wheel and proceeded to Colombo. Charlie could not think of any other suspects other than the Kasippu dealer whom he had antagonized, to make an attempt on his life.
I have witnessed Charlie displaying admirable human qualities of his character - humility and generosity. In one instance, I remember accompanying him to meet one of his neighbors to discuss a problem regarding encroachment of his land. In the course of the discussion, a child present there addressed Charlie as uncle. The father promptly corrected the child and asked her to call him "Hamu Mahaththaya." Charlie quickly responded by saying he was honored to hear the child call him uncle and not any other form of address. The encroachment problem was solved by engaging a surveyor to survey the area encroached, preparing a plan of same, and asking the encroacher to come with his lawyer to write a deed of transfer to regularize the encroachment. Can a man be more generous? Many solved such problems by resorting to acts of violence or many years of litigation.
In April 1971, Charlie resigned from the Irrigation Department and left for Sierra Leone to serve as a Senior Executive Engineer Water Supply in the Ministry of Agriculture and Natural Resources. In one of the World Bank funded projects he was assigned to work on, he had to instruct farmers at grass root level how to control and issue water for production of rice. While working in Sierra Leone, one evening he was returning after a hard day's work in the field when his driver fell asleep at the wheel and the vehicle ran off the road and plunged into a ravine infested with crocodiles. Fortunately, the vehicle had come to rest on a rock in the bed of the stream, and saved him from drowning or being a victim of a crocodile attack. However, Charlie and the driver suffered several injuries and had to be hospitalized for treatment. The villagers who came to their rescue while helping them to get out of the river had robbed them of their belongings. Charlie was flown to London with serious head injuries and was treated by specialists at London Clinic. He went back to Sierra Leone when he recovered and completed his work.
In 1978, Charlie left Sierra Leone for service in the World Bank in the capacity of Senior Rural Irrigation Engineer. Prior to his departure for Washington D.C., he returned to Sri Lanka with two chimpanzees he was keeping as pets in Sierra Leone and donated them to the zoo.
Charlie's tenure of office in the World Bank lasted nineteen years. His performance during this period was brilliant. He became an important player for projects in Philippines funded by the World Bank. Senior management in the bank had no reservation when recognizing him as an excellent all round Irrigation Engineer. In fact, one of his supervisors who had a high regard for his capabilities did not hesitate to state that as an engineer dealing with rural projects there are no better in the Bank. It was also observed that he was “a ‘people’ person par excellence with a much better instinct for what rural individuals and institutions are capable of doing and the rate of which change is possible than is the case with many Bank Staff.” It is a fact that several Bank units interested in how to implement popular participation studied Charlie and his work in the Philippines as examples of how to put the rhetoric into practice.
Having listened to descriptions of his work experience in the field and how he was tackling the various problems involved, I thought he was doing a great job and that he enjoyed doing it. I genuinely felt and suggested that he should write a book on his work experience as a professional Irrigation Engineer along with the anecdotes in his life. But he never accepted my suggestion seriously; perhaps he underrated his abilities in this area. For the draft reports prepared by Charlie on one of the Irrigation Projects in the Philippines was considered to be more clear and comprehensive than many others of its kind routinely seen by the boss.
Besides the several W.B. projects he was handling in the Philippines he had also participated in W.B. missions to several other countries, namely North Yemen, Tanzania, Brazil, Mauritius, Vietnam, Laos, India, Nepal, Kenya and Indonesia.
After his brilliant career in the World Bank, he retired in 1997 and shifted his residence from Virginia to Florida where he thought the climate was more favorable. When I visited him with my family at his new residence in Florida, he made it a memorable holiday by taking us in his speedboat in one of the lakes with alligators swimming around.
During the last few years of his life, his health deteriorated, and he made frequent visits to his doctor. He was also hospitalized for surgery. He suffered two strokes and fell seriously ill in April 2014 and passed away on the 23rd of the same month.
Charlie will be sadly missed and fondly remembered chiefly by his wife Manel, son Chrishan and daughter-in-law Amali, and his dear relatives and friends.
G. J. P. Gunawardane
Charles Gunasekera was the Senior Prefect of the school in 1955. He was a deeply principled and independent-minded person, respected and well-liked by students at Wesley. He left Wesley to follow a course in Engineering at the University of Ceylon in Colombo. He qualified with a BSc in Engineering in 1958. During his working life he showed tremendous courage to work in developing countries under difficult circumstances and dangerous situations. Throughout his life he had a strong moral commitment and refused to compromise. Charles succesfully steered his projects with great dignity, expertise and wisdom. He retained to the end of his career the reputation of a dedicated and clear-minded Civil Engineer. When people criticise and pour scorn on human failings they should remember there are decent and honest hard-working men like Charles Gunasekera who have made this journey through life. After a stint in Virginia, Charles retired to live quietly in Florida, USA which he did successfully for many years. He will be greatly missed by his family and many friends in Sri Lanka and worldwide. The Brotherhood of Wesleyites thank him for his contribution to the life of the school. GRANT HIM O LORD ETERNAL PEACE Photo - Spencer in 1989 A Service of Thanksgiving was held at St. Peter's Anglican Church, on September 11, 2014 commencing at 2:00pm
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
SPENCER EDMUND MACK By Keith de Kretser
Photo - Spencer in 2014
On an overcast spring afternoon, the Service of Thanksgiving for the life of the late Spencer Edmund Mack took place at St Peter’s Anglican Church, Boxhill in Melbourne on Thursday 11 September 2014. A devout Christian, Spencer and his
family had worshipped regularly at St Peter’s for many years. So it was fitting that his final farewell was at a place where he sought solace and spent time in contemplation and worship. The packed church graced with the presence of many members of the local congregation at St Peter’s, Old Wesleyites and friends, joined the “Mack “clan to celebrate Spencer’s wonderful life.
The parish priest, the Reverend Derek Jones in his introduction stated that the news of Spencer’s death was a shock to everyone as he was hale and hearty the day before he died when he had attended Wednesday Morning Mass. In his personal tribute he stated that Spencer was a kind, generous and caring individual who lived by the principles of his faith and was a popular member of the parish community. He quoted the following as testimony to Spencer’s life as a son, brother, father, grandfather, great grandfather and friend …”Your talent is God’s gift to you. What you do with it is your gift back to God” - Leo Buscaglia Spencer gave of himself to everyone that needed a helping hand. His talents were many, always obliging when someone needed odd jobs done around the home such as electrical work, plumbing and carpentry.
His son Christopher spoke glowingly of his father’s fine qualities of patience, encouragement, honesty, integrity, humility and love for his family. Especially the sacrifices Spencer made when the family migrated to Australia in 1964 with three young sons and worked hard to provide for his family.
His father’s death was so sudden, that for someone who was never late, it was difficult getting accustomed to the term “the late Spencer Mack”. The Service was punctuated by Spencer’s favourite hymns - How great thou art!, The 23rd Psalm,
Amazing Grace and What a friend we have in Jesus which were sung with gusto. As the vicar expressed, “Spencer would have been pleased with the singing.”
Spencer was a keen sportsman and played cricket for Wesley under his brother Derrick who was captain in 1950 and 1951. He also loved tennis and in later years golf. Spencer and his brother Derrick returned for the Cricketers Re-union held in 2012. The Mack brothers have been active supporters of the Old Wesleyites alumni associations in Melbourne and Sydney. Whenever Wesley’s call sounded, Spencer and his brothers were always there to tender their support. Spencer was a thorough gentleman and his presence will be sadly missed.
Spencer joins his wife Marlene who predeceased him. Marlene is the sister of George and Mike Siebel, a truly Wesley connection. We extend our condolences to the Mack clan and pray that his soul rests in peace.
when you rest upon it,
and may it rest easy over you when,
at the last, you lay out under it,
And may it rest so lightly over you
that your soul may be out
from under it quickly,
and up, and off,
And be on its way to God.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
It is with deep sadness I received the news that Spencer Mack has passed away. He was an active member of the Wesley community at Karlsruhe Gardens and represented the school in Cricket in the 1st XI team. A loyal Wesleyite, he was a lively member of the Seniors Group of Old Boys in Melbourne for many years. Spencer will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
The Brotherhood of Wesleyites thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Ivan Passed away peacefully on the 4th of September, 2014. Aged 89 Years. Beloved Husband of Lois, Father and Father-in-Law of Randy, Romayne and Michael Lewis, Debbie and Gary Cronan, Grandfather of Sasha and Jayden, Brother of Harry (dec'd) and Gerry (dec'd). Family and Friends are invited to attend Ivan's Funeral Service to be held in the Garden Chapel, Albany Creek Memorial Gardens, 400 Albany Creek Road, Bridgeman Downs on Thursday, 11th September, 2014 at 10.30 a.m.
The Brotherhood of Wesleyites thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
From the Birmingham Post Newspaper
Tribute to race relations fighter and 'bon viveur' Ted Ratnaraja
Tributes have been paid to a man who arrived in Britain having worked a passage in a cargo ship - and went on to become an RAF pilot and key figure in the race relations movement.
Edward Ratnaraja, who was also a prominent figure in the Midland Liberal Party, died at the age of 74.'Ted' as he was known, was born in Alutgama, Ceylon, in 1940 and worked his passage in 1959 as a cabin boy.
In 1960, he joined the RAF, becoming a pilot officer stationed at RAF Waterbeach, Cambridgeshire, marrying his then wife Lalitha in 1965.
He was based at a number of RAF bases until 1973 when he retired his commission as squadron leader, including RAF Gutersloh in Germany, where his eldest children Edward and Lara were born, his youngest daughter Natasha being later born in Sri Lanka.The family then moved to Shirley and Mr Ratnaraja joined the Race Relations Board as principal conciliation officer, working all over the country advising on the enforcement of the Race Relations Act.
He helped organisations develop effective equal opportunities policies and strategies enabling companies and individuals to counter inequality.It was a subject close to his heart and at the same time he became active within the Liberal Party. In 1980, he moved to Birmingham where he set up a management consultancy, designing and directing the first women in management courses in Britain and the first Afro Caribbean and Asian managers' courses.
In 1991, he became senior tutor consultant for the Engineering Employers Federation, specialising in employment law until 2001 when he partially retired.
He was also a popular after-dinner speaker and his family described him as "a larger than life man who enjoyed life to the full and was renowned for his razor sharp wit".Friend and Daily Express columnist Carole Ann Rice said: "Edward was like a character in a book that you couldn't quite believe existed and Birmingham was so lucky to play host to this most irrepressible bon viveur, poet and old school gent. In short, he gave the Second City style."
Blair Kesseler, who first met Mr Ratnaraja at a Liberal Party conference in the 70s, said: "He was instrumental in the formation of my attitude to racism and discrimination. Like most white liberals I firmly believed I had no prejudice in me."Ted made me face up to my hidden feelings and change from knowledge. I remember him addressing a Liberal conference and telling them in that authoritative voice that 'racism isn't my problem, it is yours!'.
"He leaves a legacy of changed attitudes. He made a difference."Avis Lees-Roper, one of Mr Ratnaraja's women in management trainees, said: "His passionate belief that nothing prevented women from fulfilling their potential, except themselves, was the cornerstone of his teaching. His wise words, support and tremendous insight shaped my life in so many ways."
Mr Ratnaraja died peacefully in his sleep on August 20 and is survived by three children and four grandchildren.
His funeral takes place at Robin Hood Crematorium in Solihull on September 18 at noon.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
I was informed by Donald Ratnaraja that Edward sadly passed away in Birmingham, UK on the 20th of August 2014. At school we knew him as Lakshman. He was a former Squadron Leader in the RAF and has been living in UK since 1959. He was a student at Wesley College from 1948 to 1956. He was a member of the school boxing team and won his weight at the Stubbs Shield Inter schools boxing competition
The Brotherhood of Wesleyites thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
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ETERNAL PEACE
From Nihal D Amerasekera:
Palitha was a popular figure in the Colombo Jazz scene. Here is a excerpt from the Island Newspaper of 28th February 2012.
Loon Tao, the popular beach restaurant at Mount Lavinia,has come up with a novel idea to appease jazz lovers. Palitha Sureweere, who is the boss of this happening scene, told The Island's "Scene Around" that "Jazz on the Beach" will be introduced to jazz lovers, and the public in general, every last Sunday of the month. The inaugural session took place last Sunday (February 26th, 2012), and the musicians who did the needful were Shamistha De Silva (vocals), Ashane Bernard (keyboards), Basil Paiva (bass), and Diren Sabaratnaam (drums). Palitha went on to say that the "Jazz on the Beach" scene at Loon Tao will be full of activity, from 11.00 am to 4.00 pm. And, in addition, there will be all the usual mouth-watering Loon Tao dishes for you to tuck into while enjoying some great jazz music, he said. Palitha also added that they have made arrangements to provide guests with changing facilities - for those who would like to take a dip in the sea during "Jazz on the Be
He loved the good life, fun and music.
It is with great sadness I received the news that Palitha passed away tragically after a fall from a height at home while repairing his water tank on the roof. The Sureweere brothers - Nimal, Malik and Palitha were Wesleyites in the 1950's and 60's and lived round the corner from the school in Campbell Place. They all possessed a talent for music which they have inherited from their father Mr. Neville Sureweere. Palitha was kind, considerate and unfailingly polite. The fun and innocent mischief of those years will always be remembered with much affection. Enthusiastic and outgoing, Palitha was a popular lad at school and beyond and will be sorely missed by all who knew him. He was an active member of the school community, a regular at the OWSC and a loyal old boy.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Palitha for his contribution to the life of the school.
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the Master's plan,
a step on the road to home.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
From Dr Shanti McLelland:
Malik was my classmate at Wesley. He was a very lovable and friendly Wesleyite who used to laugh and be happy all the time. Malik used to visit me and I used to see him at his place very often. But most of the time I would see him at Campbell Park training for the hurdles event. He was an outstanding athlete. He loved to hurdle and was the school 110m hurdle champion at that time. I used to support him to train by jumping over the hurdles while he glided over the hurdles without any effort. Once he invited me to travel with him to his uncle’s coconut estate. We enjoyed our three-day stay. Eat a lot of Guava’s and drank a lot of Thambili. The last I saw him was when he visited me at home and said he will be back on his way home, but that was not to be. Good bye my friend, you be with me all the time.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Added 22nd November 2014
Hi Nihal
I was going through my archives and found this tribute on Basil Mihiripenna
who passed away last year.
He taught us at Wesley from the mid-sixties or earlier and I was taught by
him even though I was in the English stream. I am sure many students of the
60's and 70's would remember him.
Warmest regards
Keith de Kretser
A Tribute by Daya Samaranayake
Two weeks ago Rupavahini flashed the demise of Basil Mihiripenna. One year ago his indomitable teacher Premakumara Epitawela also passed away. It is my duty as a dedicated pupil of the former Guru to recall his achievements which boosted national dance forms in their adaptability to ballet.
In ‘Ranketiputha’ the vigour and vitality of Low Country dancing was best expressed in the words of the famous Indian novelist Mulk Raj Anand thus: "The attempt to weave a ballet with Sri Lankan folk dances is indeed inspiring. May the fire of the ballet dancers in Ranketiputha burn the deadwood of the island and may it enable its youth to produce works that bear its positive stamp." Indeed as one who participated in ‘Ranketiputha’ I could still recall the fury and impact of the devils and the intensity and tempo of low country dancing.
In his next production, the innovative prowess Basil zoomed to a new high. The essence of kolam dancing initially used to deride the British bureaucracy was fully exploited with Hetuwa the laughing stock of the village, his romantically inclined wife and the cowboy (brilliantly depicted by Basil). They ultimately combine to shut the wife out of the house. Despite differences of opinion on the morality of this action the performance of the trio displayed the mirth and splendor inherent in kolam.
The solo dances of Basil were far flung but memorable. The peacock dance is a masterpiece. The tender yet beautiful sidestepping, evocative glancing of the eyes and tactile pecking of the food were excellent. This dance is fascination itself, but needs great effort and my late master performed it to perfection. This was a presentation that won 2nd Prize at the World Youth Festival in Moscow in 1957.
Another solo was the role of ‘yakadaya’ in ‘Diyasena’ symbolized the revolt against the entrenched and decadent power of the UNP. Done in kathakali it is a dance form ideally suited to the virile, manly and masculine might in its aesthetic splendour
Finally serious note should be taken of the radical re-orientation envisaged by Premakumara Epitawela. In all his ballets, he categorically dedicated his trail blazing work to the people, the masses. Not to those who wish to retreat into ‘an enchanted realm.’ Therefore the national revolutionary ballet that stormed the post independence stage must be fostered; and alien influences checked, to promote a vibrant patriotic movement in ballet.
May the samsaric journey of my esteemed Guru be brief and the movement for taking ballet to the people move ever forward.
The dance of life -From Sri Lanka Sunday Times.
The Princess Unborn by Dr. Basil Mihiripenna is his own story- the story of a dancer’s journey through life. Dr. Mihiripenna comes from a family steeped in traditional dance, ballet and musical theatre.
He grew up with artistically gifted siblings - his brother was a flautist and his sister a dancer, both of whom influenced his love for dance and theatre. During his schooldays, he was detached from the academic side of school life, instead involving himself in extra curricular arts activities in school and eventually bagging the best musician’s prize.
The book details his journey to Kerala, India, during the 1970’s as a young adult to pursue his dream of becoming a professional dancer. For many years Dr. Mihiripenna nurtured a passion for the traditional dance of Kerala- Kathakali and soon became well versed in it.
It was during this time that he met a princess of Kerala. She was enthralled by his Kathakali and requested a duet with him, to be performed at the palace. Soon this relationship grew, and the humble dancer had fallen for a young girl who was bound by royalty.
But reality intervened and he wrote his princess a farewell letter and returned to Sri Lanka to live a simple life.
The last he heard of his princess was that devastated by his sudden departure from her life she had become a Buddhist nun.
Today Dr. Mihiripenna has created over 20 ballets in his 50 years of dance. His creative work in the field has led to his ideology and understanding of dance as being an expression of emotion and revealing a character through movement.
The book is now complete and he welcomes any sponsors to see it being published.
Married and a father of two children, he hopes the story could be even brought to the big screen one day.
Dear Wesleyites
News reaches me of the passing of Rohan Dole in SL brother of Hashim Dole(NZ). The brothers were students in the 1970's. On behalf of the Wesley alumni across the world we extend our sympathies to the family.
Ora et Labora
Keith de Kretser
From the editor Nihal D Amerasekera:
I remember the Dole brothers who were much junior to me at school. Their father was a Senior Supdt of Police and was an old boy of Wesley College with my father Douglas Amerasekera. They remained friends for many years. BR Dole (sr) passed away in 2004.
From Keith de Kretser
Word reaches me of the passing of a great Wesley sportsman Dennis Ebert in Melbourne yesterday - 18th January 2015 . At this stage funeral details are not available. He is one of 5 brothers, the eldest being Ryan, Aubrey(dec.), Lorensz and Jeremy. Ryan, Denis, Lorensz and Jeremy attended Wesley. Onbehalf of the Wesley alumni we extend our prayers and sympathy at their loss.
Ora et labora
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
Very sad to hear that Dennis has passed away. As a good & honourable servant we salute his extraordinary commitment to public life in Sri Lanka with his long and distinguished years of service in the Police Force. Dennis was a decent and lasting friend. He will be sorely missed. We thank Dennis for his immense contribution to the life of the school
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ETERNAL PEACE
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera:
Ernest Viswasam was at Wesley from 1945-50.The period soon after World War II was a difficult time for the school and the country with food shortages and rationing. The school was moved to Kittiyakkara during the war and was being gradually moved back. This process took place under the watchful eye of Rev James Cartman. Despite the hardships Ernest had a tremendously successful school career winning many medals and awards. With his quick intellect, bon vivant charm and dry sense of humour Ernest was a popular student. He left Wesley in 1950 the year I joined the school in (Primary School) Std 2. Hence our paths never crossed. During this time the Faculty of Engineering of the University of Ceylon had not yet been opened. So he joined the Colombo Commercial Company as an Engineering Apprentice. Ernest worked diligently to gain experience and impressed the management. He was sent to England to qualify as a Chartered Mechanical Engineer. On his return to the company within a few years he was selected to become a Director of the Organisation. Despite his entry into the exclusive club of Directors at a young age he had his feet on the ground. In his high office Ernest showed great humility, kindness, and loyalty to his staff.
The 1960's and 70's were a turbulent time for the country. There was political unrest with a coup d'etat and later an insurgency. Ethnic troubles raised its ugly head. With import restrictions and strictures on foreign travel the country became isolated. The educated middle classes in Sri Lanka bore the brunt of these changes and were the worst affected. Thus, they began their mass exodus from the country which was euphemistically called the 'brain drain'. Ernest emigrated to NSW Australia in 1974 the same year I left Sri Lanka to seek my fortune abroad in the UK.
Ernest settled with his family in New South Wales and continued working in Mechanical Engineering. With his wide experience he was much valued as a hard working colleague. He retired in 1995. He had many friends and was well loved and greatly respected in the community. Despite some setbacks and misfortunes he lived a happy and dignified life in Australia. I never knew his funeral was taking place in Sydney on the 21st of February 2009 when I was visiting that great city. If I knew I would have paid my respects as a member of the brotherhood of Wesleyites.
I am grateful for his contribution to the life of the school and for the love and respect he showed Wesley as the Vice President of the OBU Colombo.
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From Keith de Kretser
I wish to inform you of the passing of Gladwyn de Silva in the UK. Gladwyn and his brothers were Wesleyites. To the deSilva family we extend our condolences.
Ora et labora
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From Rev. Rohan L Wijesinghe
Hello dear friends,
Pardon me for not writing individually just now. Thank you for your expressions of sympathy and condolences. Some of you shared specific memories of Nimal - Thank you!
Indira and I and our son Rajeev were able to be in Scotland for about 8 days. Nimal's funeral was at the Airdrie Baptist Church. It was attended by over 240 people incuding the local MP and members of several churches, far and near, where Nimal had preached, There were several friends and relations from all over England.
Pastor Alan McKnight, a close friend of Nimal, conducted the service and the three grandchildren and I also took part. In my presentation I was able to include a few memories some of you shared with me - thank you! The Burial was at the Monkland cemetery which is walking distance from Nimal & Celia's home. A reception was held at the Tudor Hotel in Airdrie. At the same time of the service in Airdrie, (April 21 at 1.00 p.m.) a memorial service was held at the Nugegoda Baptist Church in Sri Lanka (6.00 p.m. same day). This service was attended by over 150 persons. It had also been a very moving service.
Celia, Neloni and Dilini are coping satisfactorily. But the three grandchildren already miss their beloved Grandpa! Thank you for uplifting us in your hearts, thoughts and prayers.
Rohan
The Appreciation I shared with those who attended Nimal’s Funeral service at the Airdrie Baptist Church, Scotland, on April 21, 2015 at 1.00 p.m.
Nimal, my older brother and more…
Thank you Rev. Allan, McKnight, for this opportunity to share with all here some memories of Nimal. Some of these have been contributed by my younger brother, Prasan, and by some of our cousins and friends.
Good afternoon! I am Nimal’s younger brother, Rohan. Younger to us is Prasan, who unfortunately cold not join us today as he is in Sri Lanka. He has organized a memorial service for Nimal, which has begun just now, at the Nugegoda Baptist Church in Sri Lanka where Celia & Nimal, My wife and I and Prasan grew up and began our spiritual journeys.
At the very outset I need to say that we were 47 1st cousins. Most of us lived in the same town not so much as cousins, but more as brothers and sisters. Our maternal Great Grandfather (Rev. D.B. Lewis) was a Baptist Minister. Our maternal grandfather was a Baptist lay preacher, and while in retirement Nimal was a Baptist Lay Preacher, my brother, Prasan and I became Baptist Ministers.
I must also mention how close our mother was to her six sisters and brother. They were so close that they shared all family news with each other, so much so, that we referred to them as the BBC – Balasooriya (Mother’s family name) Broadcasting Corporation!
Nimal was strong in resolve, clear in thought and bold in his decisions!
When only 6 years old Nimal broke his right arm in a fall while playing with me. Several surgeries failed to give mobility to his elbow.
From a very age Nimal displayed good leadership qualities. I like to refer to our spiritual formation at the Nugegoda Baptist Church, (a suburb of Colombo) in Sri Lanka. He became one of the youngest Sunday School Teachers, undisputed Youth Leader and spokesperson and Choir Director, while yet a teenager!
On several occasions the Deacons’ Committee invited him to discuss future plans for the church and especially youth ministries!
Nimal was a Visionary Organizer. At the Nugegoda Baptist Church Nimal led a successful campaign to let the Youth Fellowship conduct a monthly Gospel Service on a Sunday Evening, which would be completely different to the formal Sunday Morning services. These were well attended, mostly by people in the neighbourhood, some of whom were of other faiths!
Our mother was the last of her siblings to die. Soon following that Nimal gave the vision and leadership to get the BBC cousins and their families together – creating a BBC Digest, BBC Historical Record and a Commemorative Book. He organized with other BBC cousins the Inaugural Service which took the form of a Memorial Service of all our parents, and Nimal preached the message.
Nimal also took steps to bring together the cousins and their families on our father’s side. In recent years with each visit to Sri Lanka he further strengthened his efforts.
Just now as we give thanks for Nimal’s life, all our cousins on our mother’s and father’s side have got together and are having a Memorial Service for Nimal at the Nugegoda Baptist Church!
Nimal quietly helped many who were in need. Our father died suddenly when he was 42 years old. Nimal was 13 years old and I was 11 and Prasan, our younger brother, 09. That devastated us and thrust us into severe years of hardship.
This experience affected Nimal so deeply that when he began to have an income Nimal began to financially help a growing number of families, especially the fatherless; these were mostly children with their schooling. Nimal did not want anyone to know and got those families and persons to make pledges of secrecy. This was in keeping with the teaching of Jesus to not let the right hand know what the other was doing! However, immediately following Nimal’s demise, those whom Nimal had helped in this way began to let my brother Prasan and me know how grateful they are for Nimal’s help. Nimal had also helped some others find employment.
Now I am learning that there are several persons, here in Scotland also who have been helped by Nimal in several ways.
Nimal, the sacrificial older brother.
Nimal was the better student, but he pushed Prasan and me forward to complete our educational goals, while he stopped his education for a while. Prasan and I became Baptist ministers while Nimal financed his own education and became a surveyor!
Nimal was the better cricketer and badminton player; but Nimal promoted Prasan and me to gain names for ourselves in the national Badminton arena! I have never been able to defeat Nimal at any time. Prasan went on to become a National Juvenile Triple Crown Champion! I did well in more senior level national Badminton Championships.
To Prasan and to me Nimal was more than an older brother. He was a “father-figure,” an anchor, counsellor, sounding board and friend. Through good times and bad, Nimal always stood with us - strong and tall!
Nimal had a rare courage to undertake very dangerous assignments! In 1958 Sri Lanka has major floods and much damage was done throughout the island. Nimal with two others (Sene and Spencer Berman) set out on bicycles on a tour around them island to see for themselves the havoc that had been created as a result.
As a hydrographic surveyor his training included jumping off a helicopter into the ocean! Early in this job he would dive deep into the ocean floor in a midget submarine with the sub captain. Once, when off the Shetland Islands the propellers of the submarine got entangled in underwater cables. After several desperate efforts the captain managed to free the submarine. After that Nimal used robots to do the work on the ocean floors.
Then there was that time when he headed a UN mission to clean the Iraqi harbour of sea mines and other debris following the end of the Iran-Iraq war. One miscalculation would have ended many lives including his!
His last assignment too was most dangerous. It was in the Sudan. Every time Nimal set out to the Oil fields to do his work, he had to be accompanied by an entire platoon of soldiers.
Nimal’s thirst to proclaim the Gospel knew no bounds.
It was when Nimal was a teenager that Nimal first felt called by God to preach the Gospel. He partitioned the varanda to make a room for himself. He was in the habit of reading the bible and being in prayer late in the night.
In more recent years Nimal promoted his passion for Bible Studies. In fact in his last visit to Sri Lanka he not only preached but also conducted Bible Studies in several places. (Sene)
Having retired from Pastoral ministry I often have wondered how Nimal could find the energy to do what he was doing. He had such a heavy preaching agenda. Every month he sent me and a few others his preaching schedule asking us to pray that the Gospel would be proclaimed powerfully. I believe the Holy Spirit himself must have set him on fire to proclaim the Gospel of Jesus Christ!
Nimal – In a lighter Vein: Nimal was a Rotarian. My son and I are wearing our Rotary pins today to honour him as a fellow Rotarian.
When Nimal was the Choir Director at the Nugegoda Baptist Church suddenly he began to go for choir practices one hour before the appointed time for choir practices. We wondered why. When it dawned on me that Celia was then the organist, I remembered something he had told me recently when we were walking past St. John’s Girls’ High School where Celia studied. He asked me who was the most beautiful girl in the world? I made several suggestions citing famous film stars. He said “No” to every suggestion. The when I asked him to tell me, he said: “Celia! Celia!!” So, I then knew why he went for Choir Practices so early!
Nimal regretted not being able to spend adequate time with Celia, Neloni and Dilini during his working days in the High Seas. It was tough for them too. After retirement he tried very much to catch up on that precious family time that they had all lost!
Nimal had much pride and he took great delight in his three grandchildren, Alanki, Emmi and Ben. And they loved him too!
Our friends had a badminton court in their garden. There was a certain guest who had beaten almost everyone who played there. He bragged about it claiming what a superior player he was. Something had to be done. So our friends called Nimal to do something about it. Nimal offered to play with that bully … Nimal defeated him soundly: 15-0, 15-0! Our friends say that they never saw that man every again!
We give them back to you, O Lord, who first gave them to us;
and as you did not lose them in the giving, we do not lose them in the return.
Not as the world gives do you give, O lover of souls.
For what is yours is ours also, if we belong to you.
and the boundaries of this life are but an horizon,
and as horizon is but the limit of our vision.
Strengthen our faith that we may see beyond the horizon.
as you have promised,
prepare us also for that happy place;
that where you are we may be also,
with those we have loved, forever.
Bede Jarrett, O.P
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Nimal was a popular student at Wesley in the 1950's. He was an outstanding Badminton player and captained the school team in 1960 with much success. Both Rohan and Nimal were fine all round sportsmen and played under 12 and under 14 cricket for Wesley and took part in Athletics. With his brothers Rohan, and Prasan they were stalwarts of the school’s Student Christian Movement. Nimal, Rohan and I have been friends since 1950 when we first joined Wesley College and travelled daily by train from Nugegoda to Baseline Road. Those were the days of coal fired steam trains with dust everywhere. As the slow KV train chugged along the narrow gauge we had a great time chatting. Nimal's father passed away when the boys were very young and he took on the responsibilities at home, quite early in life. At Wesley he was well liked. He treated everyone with courtesy, respect and discretion. Nimal left Wesley after the Senior School Certificate. A few years after leaving school he got married and emigrated to Scotland where he had a rewarding career as a Consultant Hydrographer. He started his own Company N. S. W. (CONSULTANTS) LIMITED in Scotland where he was the Managing Director. Nimal and Celia had two daughters and lived in Glenmavis, Airdrie, Scotland.
After his retirement, he found the faith that would transform his life. He became a popular lay preacher and a member of the Scottish Lay Preachers Association. His gifts as a communicator led to his great success as a preacher. Nimal combined a regard for tradition with a liberal open mind. His well-ordered worship and thoughtful preaching was greatly appreciated. This characterised his entire journey as a preacher and won him many admirers and friends. His two brothers, Rohan and Prasan, are both Priests. Rohan is a retired Pastor in Toronto, Canada and Prasan is in active service in Sri Lanka.
Nimal and I have communicated by email for many years until he suddenly went silent quite recently. The only time I met him after leaving school was at the General Hospital Kurunegala where I worked as a junior doctor in 1969. He popped in to say 'hello'. I have many happy memories of those days at school and feel deep sadness in losing a friend for whom I have always had the greatest respect and regard. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I send my condolences to Nimal's immediate family, Rohan and Prasan.
From L.C.R (Lalith) Wijesinghe
Nimal and I were classmates and and in later life were neighbours for a short period when living down Chapel Lane, Nugegoda when my parents rented one of their houses( Celiya's). The last time I contacted him was in 2008 prior to the reunion when I invited him to join. Unfortunately he could not do so due to a family reunion which was to take place in 2009 in SL. Nimal did well in later life when working for Shell. He had some assignments in SL too whilst resident in Scotland. I recall meeting up with him at the OWSC with some others when he happened to be in Colombo. This was my only meeting with him in recent times.
1958 School Badminton Team
Standing LtoR: Rohan Wijesinghe, Farouk Sikkander, SK Seneviratne, Fahmy Sikkander
Seated LtoR: Nimal Wijesinghe, Mr PH Nonis, PS Rodrigo (Capt), Mr Lanerolle, Mr Wilfred Wickramasinghe (Master in Charge)
1959 School Badminton Team
All of Nimal’s emails carried this stanza.
I cannot think of a better epitaph for this fine gentleman and genuine good Christian.
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From Nihal D Amerasekera:
I received the news of his passing with both shock and sadness. He bore his final illness with much courage and had the love and care of his close family. As I write this many images and videos flash across my mind of our many years together. Another piece of our childhood has dissolved and disappeared leaving us with a heap of memories.
From Mohan Thambyah:
I am sorry to hear about Ranjit. I too lived in Railway Housing Estate in Dematagoda at the same time as Ranjit, Carnie and Ivan Bowen. So were Lou and Vincy Adihetty in their uncles house and a few houses away from mine I too went to Wesley and was in the same class as Ranjith. I was in Wesley College from Jan 1955 to Dec 1957.
I remember you but I doubt you will remember me, as I was neither famous or notorious. I knew Ranjit and his family pretty well. They used to force me to play the piano. Ranjit and I passed the SSC 1956 at the same time. That year 1956 was called the Daily News headlines. SSC massacre. Only 4% passed in the whole Island. Despite 4% , ID Raymond and AK David had 1 st Div and Ranjit too should have gone to Medical School like Gunasekera, Farook Sikkander. However I left school and lost touch.
The only Wesleyite I am in contact with now is Upali Perera. MUJA. I appreciate your yeoman services to WCC DBI in keeping us old people in the know. My deepest sympathies to you and Nissanka.
From the Editor DBI
We thank Ranjith for his contribution to the life of the school.
He was much loved by his friends and family. He loved Wesley College.
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From Nizar Sappideen
Ishan Saldin: Last year I visited my brother Binhur in Melbourne. At a family dinner, I met Bunny Saldin's daughter and was sad to hear from her that Ishan Saldin had passed away at Wattala, Sri Lanka, in July 2013.
Ishan was in class with me from 1953 to 1959. He was one of the best groomed students at that time. He was immaculately dressed, sporting a stylist hairstyle with a small curly bumpy on his hair. He was most adored at class due to his amiable ways. He was a shy boy. This attracted much teasing(I was one of the tormentors.) He never got angry with these mischief makers, but greeted their pranks with a cheeky smile. He and Errol Jayawardena, used to sketch brides dresses during their spare time in class, this led to more teasing. Both of them, however, had the lastlaugh, as both ended up as popular designers of ladies clothes in Sri Lanka.
Ishan was one of the good students in class, who did not pursue higher studies. Many clever students during my time struggled with the second language, which dampened their chances of academic achievements. Most, however, ended up doing well in life, with good careers. Ishan, retired as a popular English teacher at Royal College, Colombo(Pl. see attachment.) Apart from Ishan, Sayban Samath and Fareed Ahamath(all deceased) were the other Malay boys in my class. Unlike his younger brother Bunny, Ishan did not participate in any sports. He was an artist. The Saldin family is related to our family through marriage.
RIP Ishan.
From the Sri Lankan papers: Ishan Saldin
A Tribute to Capt. Anwar Dole by Bunty Dole
Our loving father Captain Tuan Anwar Dole passed away peacefully in Sydney Australia at the age of 94 on the 27th of April 2015 surrounded by his family and friends. An old boy of Wesley College he was an outstanding sportsman and represented the school in Cricket and Hockey. With the outbreak of the 2nd World War Captain Dole’s academic career was cut short as he decided to join the Army. While serving in Singapore with the British Forces he was awarded a Kings Commission.
Coming back to Sri Lanka he joined the Ceylon Army and was one of the founder members of the Sri Lanka Singha Regiment. Captain Dole retired from the Army after 23 years of service. He would relate stories of his time in Trincomalee during the Japanese bombing. He was privy to be a member of and take an active part of many outstanding organisations including Ceylon Light Infantry Association and the Ex-Servicemen’s Association.
His civilian career saw him join the Malaysian High Commission in Sri Lanka, where he spent the next 22 years. For meritorious services rendered to the Malaysian Government he was awarded the PPN (Pingat Parkuan Negra).
Being a proud Malay, Captain Dole was involved in many Malay organisations including being a founder member of the Sydney Malay Association.
The last few years he spent at St Dominic’s Nursing Home he successfully introduced activities such as table tennis and sing along to lift the spirit of the residents and bring more fun. He also promoted inter faith understanding between the various groups of people in the Home by inviting the local mosque clerics for talks. Our father leaves behind a legacy of very high standards. With the vision and wisdom he has provided to his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren this will surely be carried on. May Almighty Allah grant him Jennathul Firdouse.
From Nizar Sappideen:
Anwar Dole's sons Bunty and Binky Dole were students at Wesley. I was associated with Anwar since the formation of the Sri Lankan Australian Malay Association(SLAMA) on 19th Sept. 1998. SLAMA was formed by Sri Lankan Malays and their families domiciled in NSW, Australia. I was the founder President. Anwar was a very lively member of SLAMA and helped draft the Constitution of the Association. As an Army Officer, he was very methodical in his ways and made sure that all members strictly adhered to the rules. Having a good knowledge of Malay culture in Sri Lanka, he was the driving force behind many successful cultural events conducted by SLAMA in Sydney. His passing away is a great loss to our Association. May Allah grant him eternal rest and heavenly bliss!
From Dallas Achilles
So sad to advise you that Ralph Maas, extraordinary Sax & Clarinet player of the fifties & sixties passed away a few days ago. His funeral service will be held at St Luke's Anglican Church, 59-61 Police Rd, Mulgrave at 11 am on Thursday 4 June 2015. Private cremation to follow.
Ralph was a great muso who enjoyed his music. Loved to improvise on the jazz and swing standards. He was a big fan of introducing different tune titbits from other well known songs whilst improvising on a 'standard'. He played with several leading bands in Ceylon including The Morton Cole Combo, The Joy Ferdinando Combo, Adrian Ferdinands and The Sharps. He was ever ready to help the budding young muso and I relished the time he spent helping me when I started to learn the trumpet.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Tytlers in Ceylon were upcountry tea planters. Gordon Tytler was in the hostel from the late 1940's to mid 1950's. I still remember his quiet and kind ways. As a senior hosteller he was greatly respected as a prefect. Gordon took part in the fun and games that were endemic in the boarding. I recall Gordon playing cricket and soccer in the small park like the rest of us. He wrote a fine tribute in the 125th Anniversary Souvenir to Ranis, who was a senior member of our ancillary staff.
After leaving school he joined the British Embassy in Colombo. He kept in touch with the school and with his close friends. Gordon was the photographer at Neil Gallagher's wedding in 1960.
Gordon toured Europe in the 1970's and visited his friends from his hostel days. He stayed with B.C.R.N Fernando in Denmark and with N.A.B Fernando in the United Kingdom. Sadly I am reliably informed that alcohol played a part in his early demise in the 1980's.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank him for his friendship and his contribution to the life of the school.
I thank Russell Firth in Yeovil, Somerset, UK for bringing to my attention this important information and to Neil Gallagher in Colombo for the knowledge of the sad circumstances of his demise.
Links to further reading
- Some Photos of Gordon kindly forwarded by Russell Firth -
- K.P.Ranis-- Remembered by Gordon Tytler -
- In Memoriam - Ranjit Fernando (BCRN) Inserted 24th September 2017
- In Memoriam - Neil Gallagher 9th November 2019
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Norman de la HARPE.
Eulogy by Norman's daughter Michelle at the funeral
Dad’s Eulogy
Our dad who you all knew as ‘Norman’ was born Justus Norman Richard de la Harpe. He was also referred to as, Papa, Grandpa, Uncle Norman and Pootha.
He was born in Ceylon, now known as Sri Lanka to Clarence and Mildred de la Harpe. Dad had a younger brother Beltram and for a short while had a foster brother Peter, a Singhalese boy who tragically died as a teenager. Dad grew up in an area of Colombo known as Mount Mary, he always spoke very fondly of his childhood in Mount Mary. Our Nanna and Papa sent dad to Wesley College to be educated. He often spoke of the adventures he had when he was a student. As many of you know as do my sister and myself, once a Wesleyite, always a Wesleyite. His bond to his school lasted throughout the rest of his life, even the distance across the Indian Ocean didn’t affect this relationship. Whilst at school dad was an all round sportsman, excelling in all the sports he competed in. He held the public school record in high jump and was also an excellent hurdler but his first love was cricket. Dad joined the Colts Cricket Club and had great success as a fast bowler, he played in the Gopalan Trophy which was a leading cricket tournament where the team toured internationally.
His Captain and life long friend, Pat Kelly, had this to say about dad’s cricket, “I first met Norman in 1953 in Colombo at the Colt's Cricket Club. He was one of the two fast bowlers we had. He was the more aggressive one. He would always bowl his heart out for his team and possessed a very competitive streak. He was the ideal fast bowler with an uncanny ability to read batsmen and produce the sublimely unplayable ball to the very best of batsmen. Quite a few batsmen were rather scared of his bouncers and were only too happy to get out quickly, usually rather abjectly. He was astute and analytical, an asset to any captain. He was the epitome of the loyal team member. He was a joy to play with and I was very lucky to have him as a member of my teams at the Colt's and later at South Melbourne. At the latter club he headed the bowling averages quite often.”
Dad discovered he possessed extraordinary culinary skills whilst on a shooting trip in the Jungle. A deer had been shot and dad wanted a venison curry, we believe this was the first meal he cooked and he obviously rated it very highly as for the rest of his life he preferred his cooking to everyone else’s, everything dad cooked was ‘bloody beautiful’. We will miss his curries, his lime pickle but most of all his Love Cake, sorry if I insult anyone here but our father made the best Love Cake in the world.
Dad’s family were railway men and dad joined the railway as a driver, he remained as a driver until he moved to Melbourne Australia with his mum and dad in 1959. Dad had several jobs in Melbourne, he was an accounts clerk at BP and General Motors Holden, he even had a part time job doing security to help make ends meet when we were very young. Dad met and married our mum, Jean in 1962, I was born in 1964 and my younger, more beautiful sister Linda was born in 1966.
Mum and dad were both immigrants to Australia and initially struggled financially. Dad held down two jobs to assist the family. In dad’s early years in Melbourne he joined the South Melbourne Cricket club and played with international cricketers a lot younger than himself. That in itself is a testimony to his skills. After dad realised that his body was getting too tired for cricket he found a new sporting love, golf. Dad was a member of Huntingdale Golf Club in Melbourne and when he moved to Brisbane in 2002 became a member of Keperra Golf Club. In fact only less than one month ago, dad was in the newspaper for being the runner up in his Division for the Keperra Monthly Medal.
Dad always loved the social side of life, his commitments just didn’t end with his sporting clubs. He was a staunch Freemason in the Ceylon Lodge, the Melbourne Grand Lodge as well as the Ceylon Masonic Lodge in Melbourne. We remember many mornings waiting for dad to leave the bathroom as this was where he would rehearse and practice his masonic prayers and affirmations. Dad was also a Member of the Australian Ceylon Fellowship, Regularly attended charity events and in Brisbane joined the Silver Fawn Club, a social and sporting club. Dad also won the golfing trophy for many years at the Silver Fawn Club.
In 2002 dad moved from Melbourne to Brisbane to be near his immediate family and to be able to spend time with his grandchildren whom he smothered with love and affection. Whenever he visited he we would regularly have to chastise him for sneaking chocolate frogs to the children but it never worked and we gave up.
During the past week my sister was spending time with dad’s dear friend Lesley Ephraims fondly known to us as Uncle Letcho, Uncle Letcho pointed out that dad was a walking genealogist for the Sri Lankan community. He not only seemed to know everyone, he would also know their grandparents names, uncles, aunts, cousins, neighbours and their neighbours relations. Uncle Letcho also wanted to emphasise what a wonderful joke teller dad was. He not only told wonderful jokes in English, but the jokes he recited in Singhalese were also brilliant and risqué. In fact as children we always knew a dirty joke was coming as he would default to Singhalese which was greeted with great gusto and laughter. Six years ago Dad met a lovely lady named Toni, who became a dear friend and companion to our father. Toni and Dad travelled together and shared a great love of golf, cricket, music and dancing. We would like to say thank you to Toni for always being there for Dad and bringing love and happiness into his life.
Dad was a big man in every sense of the word, quick tempered but generous to a fault. He had a fierce loyalty to his family and friends. This was accompanied by enormous warmth, love and concern for his family, friends and loved ones. He was always helping friends. A true Master Mason to who service to others came naturally. Over the years he had many illnesses. He bore them all with stoicism and courage and would always look toward tomorrow and another game of golf.
The matches are all over but the team is no longer the same without our dad. A good man a great dad and an exceptional grandfather.
Rest gently dad and know you will always be loved and never forgotten.
From Keith De Kretser
I first met Norman in 1970 when I migrated to Australia. He was my brother’s neighbour and I met him quite often. My first impressions was of this giant fellow who told me he attended Wesley College and he was keen to find out how the College was doing and mentioned some of his cricketing achievements. He was still playing Sub-District Cricket in Melbourne at the time. His stature was complimented by an engaging personality and he was up to date on the goings on in the ex-pat Sri Lankan community in Melbourne and always had a joke or two to lighten the conversation at the time. He still retained a remarkable fluency in Sinhalese and a form of “Pidgeon English” which a few people spoke back in Sri Lanka. That first meeting led to many more though he was much senior we enjoyed each other’s company socially, on the golf course and Wesley College functions.
Norman was one of many Burgher boys from families working for the railways who lived in Mount Mary that attended Wesley College. He had a brother Beltram who also attended Wesley. He joined Wesley in 1935 and had a glorious sporting career at Wesley by the time he left in 1948. He played cricket for Wesley in the champion side of 1948. As an athlete, Norman was placed first in the High Jump and Putt Shot events at the Public Schools meet. He excelled in Cricket and in particular Athletics where he won the Wilton Bartlett Challenge Cup for the outstanding performance in the AAA meet of 1951/52 and later that year also won the prestigious G. K.Thornhill and C.C.Dissanayake trophies as the outstanding athlete of the Government Service Athletic Meet. He was selected to represent Ceylon at the Asian Games in 1953, in New Delhi, in the High Jump event.
He played cricket on leaving school with the Colts Cricket Club where he and fellow Wesleyite Tita Nathanielsz spearheaded their pace attack. He was also selected to represent the CCA in India. He also represented the Railways where his bowling feats were many. He was not a bad late order bat, where his height advantage meant that he could step forward to meet the ball on the full or half volley and then despatch it to the boundary for a four or a six. Many a six landed on Baseline Road I gather when he played at the railway ground in Dematagoda. On arriving in Melbourne Norman played for South Melbourne in the District Competition and Malvern at Sub-District level. A number of the champion team of 1948 – Harold Matthysz, Clive Bartholomeusz and Natty Prins were also domiciled in Melbourne. It was inevitable that they would meet and reminisce of the good times at Wesley. In the late seventies a quadrangular cricket tournament was held in Melbourne which involved a combined Joe-Pete, Trinity-St Anthony’s, Royal- Thomian and a Wesley-Kingswood team. Norman who had hung up his boots took the field in his crisp flannels and off a short run-up bowled good line and length. He had not lost the flair to move the ball around.
Norman’s other great sporting passion was golf where which he relished and had a single figure handicap. Golf was his main interest particularly after he retired and it gave him much pleasure until his illness prevented him from playing. He was a member of the prestigious Huntingdale Golf Club where the Australian Masters is played. Before the C J Oorloff Trophy between Wesley and Trinity, the Wesleyites played St Thomas’ n golf. Norman turned out for Wesley in those fixtures. On leaving school it was a natural progression that he should join the Ceylon Government Railways (CGR) as his father Bunny was a Guard at the time. Norman was a diesel Engine Driver till he migrated to Australia in 1958. Norman joined General Motors Holden and worked for them till he retired.
Norman married and had two daughters Michelle and Linda whom he adored. The daughters on completing their education chose the freedom to pursue their own careers in Queensland which resulted in Norman moving to Queensland to be nearer to the girls and their families. Norman adored his grandchildren and spoke about them whenever we met. Norman had many strings to his bow. He was a great cook and would turn out tasty curries and sambols when he entertained. His love cake was delicious and many sought his recipes as the food prepared by Norman was so tasty. He also could play the piano and read music.
Though not regularly playing from time to time he would find solace playing in private or for a sing song around the piano. He was involved with many of the local Sri Lankan Associations – The Australia Ceylon Fellowship, The Burgher Association, the Silver Fawn Club and the Ceylon Masons in Australia. He joined Free Masonry in 1963 with Lord Carrington Lodge No. 111 where he was a member for fifty two years and rose to the rank of Past Junior Grand Warden. Wherever Norman went he left an indelible impression. He was straight forward and did not suffer fools easily. He would be the life of the party with his jokes in English, Pidgeon English and in Sinhalese. He was well travelled and had a good memory for remembering things. He would relate stories of his exploits on his visits to Sri Lanka where the locals thought he was a foreigner. Little did they know of Norman’s command of Sinhalese which shocked them leaving them squirming in embarrassment.
Norman was a proud Wesleyite and was Secretary of the Old Boy’s Union Australia Branch. Meetings were interesting as Norman would relate many anecdotes about Wesley, former teachers and former students which kept us entertained. He was forthright and if there was something he did not agree with he would say so and go to the extent of saying “over my dead body”. He patronised most of our events till he moved to Queensland.
On a personal note, my children adored Norman when they were small as he would pick each one up over his head and they thought they were on top of the world when they touched the ceiling. To this day they have fond memories of those happy days. When he was in Melbourne last year on seeing the kids he stated …”come and give uncle Normie a kiss or I will give you a kannay and two kicks to the pukkay”. Norman was king of the kids where ever he went. His stature did not intimidate them as Norman would quickly gain their confidence with little tricks or comments and then they would all be at ease.
Norman’s battle with cancer began many years ago and after quite some time in remission flared up again recently. When he came for lunch to my home in November last year, he was not looking the best and shortly thereafter began a number of health issues which punctuated the last 10 months finally resulting in his demise. When I would ring him in Brisbane, he would always answer with warmth “How are you Sonno?” The vagaries of his illness had taken its toll on this giant of a man and the once statuesque figure was no more.
Norman had a wide circle of friends and those who met him for the first time would have a lasting impression of him. He was engaging and his personality was one you could never forget matched by his physical presence. He was kind and caring and was a true friend. He had an active mind till his demise which was the repository of many anecdotes, jokes and historic events of Wesley, Sri Lanka, his friends and his life which made him such an interesting and special character. Norman’s time at the crease has come to an end. Norman will be sadly missed. He lived a simple, active and exciting life and he is now resting peacefully.
Not what did he gain, but what did he give?
These are the units to measure the worth
Of a man as a man, regardless of birth.
Not, what was his church, nor what was his creed?
But had he befriended those really in need?
Was he ever ready, with word of good cheer,
To bring back a smile, to banish a tear?
Not what did the sketch in the newspaper say,
But how many were sorry when he passed away.
To his partner Toni, daughters Michelle and Linda and their families my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Norman’s remains were laid to rest on Friday 4 September 2015 in Brisbane. One of his last requests was that his coffin be draped with the Wesley College flag. A Wesleyite to the fore! A good gathering of Wesleyites residing in Brisbane attended the funeral and farewelled Norman’s remains with the College war cry.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Wesley College 1st XI Cricket Team - 1948
I met Norman last at the Grand Reunion of 2012 at Wesley College Colombo when he was given pride of place on the stage at the Great Hall to hand over awards. It was a memorable handshake as I went up to receive my award. This nearly crushed my metacarpals. It was a great pleasure to speak with Norman about his days at school and his memories of friends and teachers. With a glint in his eyes he spoke most warmly of his schooldays. He rarely spoke about his own considerable achievements in cricket and athletics. Tall and athletic his aptitude for cricket was such that he could bowl genuinely quickly as a schoolboy. He was a free-scoring late order batsman with devastating hitting power. He was never one to give less than his best and played the game with passion, integrity and joy.
Norman was a good friend to many. He had a deep affection for Wesley. I am saddened to hear of his passing and feel ever so proud to have known him, a gentleman to his fingertips.
As we say for cricketers "May the turf lay lightly on him"
From Dr Shanti McLelland
It is with deep grief that I write this mail to remember the wonderful fellowship and kindness of Norman de La Harpe a proud, loyal and dedicated Old Wesleyite.
I wish to thank those who sent me the sad news a few days ago. In particular, Keith de Kretser, Neil Harvie, Daya Winslow (Germany), and Kuiya,P.B. Herath (Sri Lanka). Many around the world think of Norman as a wonderful friend and a straight forward Wesleyite and a Loyal Sri Lankan.
Norman visited Wesley last during my time as Principal. I am sure he experienced an enjoyable time with all his friends, both old and new young friends he made while he was here during the get together. I noticed he had not changed his manner of speech, it was typical Sri Lankan. He proudly wore his school blazer with the Wesley Crest. It was a historic moment for him and all the others who attended the well patronized event organized by the Old Boys Union.
I am glad to have met him and talked to him on and off the events functions. He acted as if he was still a school boy and yet brought about a glorious double blue feeling. He spoke from his heart and gave the students and the old boys a feeling of being strong, loyal and dedicated Old Wesleyites and a proud Sri Lankan. We were proud of his achievements while as a school boy. The public school high Jump record in particular and his cricket career afterwords in general. It is sad he was not in Sri Lanka physically although his body and mind was present as a Old Wesleyite all the time. I will miss his proud moments and his warm and generous friendship as an Old Wesleyite.
I am sure he enjoyed his stay in Brisbane and with the Old Boys over there. I visited him in October 2014 in Brisbane with Bill Deutrom. He was the same Wesleyite with a warm heart. We spent sometime talking of the good old days and had a cup of tea with him. We bid farewell knowing that it may be the last time we will physically be together. But the memories are still fresh, still warm and wonderful.
We are glad Bill was able to make Norman to come to be at Wesley and cherish his memories of the wonderful time he had while he was in Sri Lanka. We will have Norman in our sweet memories forever and remember his 6'6" personality and his good heart always. we know you will miss him more and the memories will be sweeter. We wish him peace and rest. God be with him forever.
From the Daily News - Sri Lanka
Kindly sent to me by Nizar Sappideen
Norman de La Harpe, the 'giant' of Wesley passed away in Brisbane few days ago.
De La Harpe was an outstanding sportsman, standing 6 ft 6 ins in height, who excelled in cricket and athletics, but he had more than one string to his bow, as he also played hockey, tennis, and was a promising pugilist. He played cricket from 1946-48. His enormous height naturally made him a genuine fast bowler, arguably the fastest schoolboy pace bowler in 1948. He was a member of the famous Champion side of 1948, and vividly remembered the 'big' match against the powerful Royal College side. Norman captured 4/40 and N.S. Jayasundera 3/32 to dismiss the Royal side for a mere 136 runs.
After school he played for Colts Cricket Club where he spearheaded their attack with another Wesleyite and pace bowlerand the CCA.
Norman was enrolled as a student of Wesley College Colombo in 1935. He received his entire education atWesley and was privileged to be a pupil under the Principalship of the Reverends Dalby, Izzet, Holden, Cartman and C J Oorloff. Norman proudly claimed that he was a "born and bred Wesleyite".
As an athlete,Norman was placed first in the High Jump and Putt Shot events at thePublic Schools meet.
Norman won the Wilton Bartlett Challenge Cup for the outstanding performance in the AAA meet of 1951/52 and later that year also won the prestigious G. K.Thornhill and C. C.Dissanayake trophies as the outstanding athlete of the Government Service Athletic Meet. He was selected to represent Ceylon at the Asian Games in 1953, in New Delhi, in the high jump event.
Representing Wesley at the Stubbs Shield Boxing meet in 1947 - Norman was awarded the best loser's trophy in the heavy weight division, it was quite a remarkable achievement, as Wesley did not regularly participate in boxing.
Norman alludes to the great sporting spirit that existed between St Joseph's College and Wesley. At a Public School's meet, Norman who had trouble with his "spikes" accepted Shirley Perera's offer, a Josephian, to jump in his "spikes" resulting in Norman winning the high jump event. At the same Public School's meet. In school Norman was trained by Dick Honter in high jump.
Norman immigrated to Australia in 1958. He lived a full life, played golf off an enviable handicap, and enjoyed the activities of the WCC OBU. He was closely associated with the Australian Ceylon Friendship (ACF), the Burgher Association and the Ceylon Masons. Norman de la Harpe was a former Melbournianwho later resided in Queensland.
Norman, however visited Melbourne later and in his inimitable style kept the ladies and gentlemen entertained with stories of his exploits at Wesley and life. He was a regular at all the OBU(Australia) events.
Norman visited Wesley during the Principalship of Shanti McLelland and he proudly wore the school blazer with the Wesley crest. He acted as if he were a schoolboy and yet brought about a glorious double blue feeling.
He spoke from the heart and gave students a feeling of being strong, loyal and dedicated Old Wesleyites and a proud Sri Lankan. We will always have Norman in our hearts forever and remember his 6 foot 6 inch personality and his good heart always.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Mrs. LYNETTE DE SILVA -
From Keith De Kretser
I inform you of the passing of former teacher Mrs Lynette de Silva (affectionately remembered by many as “papaw seed”). Her son Ruvan was a student at Wesley. We express our sympathy and prayers to her family and friends from the Wesley alumni community. Another dedicated and loyal servant of Wesley College has been called home. Rest in peace.
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GRANT HER O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Remembering Mr Edmund Dissanayake by Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I write this note. Mr Edmund Dissanayake was my teacher, uncle and friend for 63 years. In all my years of association with the school I cannot think of a more loyal Wesleyite. I had the great privilege of meeting him with his bosom pal Shelton Peiris at the Grand Reunion of 2012. I will always cherish those memories.
As the Wesley cricket captain in 1948 he was renowned for his elegant strokeplay and also for being an astute tactician. I am reliably informed he was essentially a front-foot player and his cover drive, executed from a high back-lift and with perfect timing, was a special delight. He was determined to enjoy the game and, in doing so, he gave enjoyment to others.
Mr Edmund Dissanayake coached the 1st XI cricket team in the 1950's and 60's. He inspired, coached, cajoled and encouraged a generation of cricketers at Wesley with his impish charm, enthusiastic personality and outstanding ability. He realised the importance of the Under 14 and Under 16 cricket to have a good 1st XI team and worked tirelessly to improve standards. "Catches and good fielding win matches" was his manthra.
Mr Dissanayake Loved cricket and loved to talk about the game. He was a gentleman cricketer and taught Wesleyites good old fashion values and discipline on the cricket field. He wanted cricketers to respect the rules of the game. He wanted the players to accept umpires decisions without question and respect members of the visiting teams. But there was no question he always encouraged his team to play to win. Although wounded, Mr Dissanayake received the bad results with all the same honesty and dignity as the good results. There was a relentless drive for improvement and an abiding belief in hard work during cricket practices at Campbell Park. Good fielding was his passion. Above all he had a remarkable ability to engender confidence among his team members to bring out the best in them. As a player, master-in-charge and coach he upheld the traditional values of the game and served Wesley with great distinction. The range of his involvement in the game made him a unique figure, one who brought vast reserves of energy to his roles as master-in-Charge and Coach.
He loved teaching. Even in those days when corporal punishment was used to correct and discipline students, he never used the cane. He cared for those who did not thrive at school – the wayward, the bored, the damaged and late developers. He was kind to pupils, especially to those who were struggling with school work. As a teacher he was patient but questioning and firm. At the same time he never tolerated any nonsense. He had the rare gift of analysing a topic in a way that revealed its essential nature in simple terms. For him punctuality, discipline, due preparation and full attention at class were essential qualities. He taught us mathematics to a useful level which helped us enormously in later life.
During his years as a teacher, in the realm of teaching, university degrees and high personal profile seemed to be the only things that impressed the school management. It is indeed easy to overlook the more solid virtues of natural teaching ability, compelling sense of duty and the capability and skill to lead by unselfish example which Mr Dissanayake had in great abundance. Mr Edmund Dissanayake was an outstanding teacher and spent more than 25 years in the staff at Wesley. He often said those were his happiest years.
In later years Mr Dissanayake developed an interest in the intricacies of the justice system and qualified as a lawyer. Persuasive and articulate he built up a lucrative practice at Hultsdorf Courts. Despite his busy schedule he held various important positions as a Governor, in the School Welfare Board and the Old Boys Union. He played a significant role in helping to tide over Wesley's many financial crises. The school benefited greatly from his wisdom and determination.
During those turbulent years of in-fighting in the OBU, although exasperated Mr Dissanayake remained the voice of reason. The intrigue, skullduggery and the feuding was a shattering experience for many associated with the school. Even during those awkwardly fractious times people appreciated his frank, fair and firm attempts to end the hostilities. He played a key personal role in reshaping and restoring the botherhood at Wesley.
Like in the film "Goodbye Mr Chips" Mr Dissanayake was so much a part of the old school. As a master he was devoted to his boys as they were to him. For many years even after he left teaching he kept in touch with cricketers and students from many different generations. Bryan Claessen who emigrated to Australia in 1957 was one such person who sent him a calendar every Christmas for nearly 50 years until ill health put a stop to it. Mr Dissanayake took a generous interest in the welfare of the school community. Of the boys whom he taught or played cricket for Wesley he knew of their careers and also about their lives. This was one of his most endearing qualities. He treated everyone with dignity and without malice and wished them well. He was a kind, gentle and deeply thoughtful man - but at the same time he had huge courage and resolve
Even after he retired from all work he continued to attend the functions at Wesley. He made an effort to meet and greet old boys at the school and at the OWSC. Loyal old boys from all parts of the world when they arrived at Wesley always asked for Mr Dissanayake wanting to meet him and he did. He remained the well loved, silver haired avuncular figure until the very end.
His life beyond Wesley and cricket was rich: He adored his wife Amara and his children Gaithri, Danesh and Eyanthi. They meant the world to him.
Amusing and affable he was a most remarkable person. I remember his fine memory and the ability to recall events with such great clarity and accuracy. Cricket scores and results seemed to be imprinted in his brain. When he was around humerous anecdotes from life, teaching and cricket flowed freely. He had the great gift to hold an audience spellboud with his stories. With his quiet charm and gentleness he made friends easily. All through the years he remained a gifted communicator and a prolific writer. He wrote about cricket and the school. Many of his articles were published in the Daily Newspapers and school publications.
It was indeed a great pleasure to meet him after he had fully retired. With his slim frame and thinned hair he was a repository of the school's history and traditions. Mr Dissanayake, despite his increasing physical frailty, maintained a thoughtful serious manner and his ideas were always well-articulated. He discussed issues like a lawyer. His insistence on the Unity amongst Old Boys still rings in my ears. Wherever he went he was recognised to the point of adulation.
He was a student at Wesley since 1933. He captained the 1st XI Cricket Team in 1948, the same year he was appointed Senior Prefect. We thank him for his enormous contibution to the life of the school as a student and a teacher.
Mr Dissanayake lived a full life and was adored by his family, friends and the thousands of students who respected him beyond measure. During his lifetime he received the recognition, honour and respect he richly deserved.
A large number of people turned out to pay their respects at his funeral which was a celebration of his outstanding achievements in life. Clifford (CT) Rodrigo paid tribute on behalf of the old boys. NSW De Silva expressed his appreciation and gratitude representing the College staff. Premasara Epasinghe the former Nalanda cricketer and writer conveyed most eloquently Mr Dissanayake's contribution to society on behalf of the cricketing fraternity and the general public. Many who gathered at the cematorium paid silent homage to a wonderful life.
His first wife Beatrice (nee Weerasekera) predeceased him in 1962. She was my maternal aunt.
Wesley has lost the most loyal Old Boy of the post war period. He is gone but will be fondly remembered by the many who knew him.
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From the Daily News Sri lanka
Edmund Dissanayake of Wesley was one of a kind. Hitherto the oldest living Wesley cricket captain (skippered in 1946 and 47), he passed away recently. Wesley enjoyed success in those seasons against Royal, S. Thomas', and St. Benedicts (beat them by an innings). Edmund hailed from Hambantota.
Edmund was also an illustrious teacher at Wesley. He was not just a born educator. He understood youth better than others. He was fondly referred to as 'pigeon'. His tenure as teacher lasted from 1949 to 1980. He was the prefect of Games and Deputy Principal. He later lectured at Sri Jayawardenepura University and Aquinas.
Edmund was born one of nine children in 1927. Edmund was sent to live with his maternal grandmother, Mrs J. Amerasinghe in Karlsruhe Gardens, adjoining the school. The caring Mrs Joyce Leembruggen was his first teacher.
Edmund skippered the Wesley side in 1946 and scored a century against Royal. Royal was captained by the mercurial Mahes Rodrigo, who later played for All Ceylon. Edmund in fact carried his bat through the innings. In 1947 Wesley did not have a coach and Edmund had to take the team practice as captain.
He was an astute leader. Wesley defeated S. Thomas at Mount Lavinia where Edmund suffered a severe injury fielding at silly mid on. He was as brave as Brian Close. Strangely both passed away within a few days of each other.
Ronnie Weerakoon, brother of Bradman, struck a full toss on the leg side right into Edmund's forehead and he fell unconscious. His injury was life threatening. 'Only a miracle could have saved him. He survived but couldn't play club cricket again. In the first innings, he had STC in trouble with 6 for 14, with his medium pacies. Even though Edmund was injured Wesley went on to win the match by 112 runs.
As coach, Edmund instilled orthodox coaching styles to his under 16 charges, and paid a lot of attention to fielding, even threatening to drop Lucky Goonatilleke, the best left arm fast bowler Wesley had. When batsmen walked out they were equipped with most strokes from the book! Edmund later became a lawyer in 1980. From 1980-2005 he worked at the Magistrate's Court.
His only son, Danesh, followed in his footsteps with seven centuries in his school career, five of them coming in one year. He had the unique record of scoring two centuries against Royal.
So, this was a Father and Son, who both skippered Wesley and did their alma mater proud.
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A Tribute by Lalith Wijesinghe (L.C.R)
Mr Edmund Dissanayake of Wesley is no more. He was a legend at Wesley and was one person whom I held in high esteem. I came in close contact with him when I started playing 1st XI Cricket at Wesley in 1959. He was the Coach cum Master in Charge of 1st XI Cricket. Mr. Dissanayake overall was a very fair person and recognized ability and talent at Cricket when he spotted it. He virtually ran Cricket at Wesley during this period though Mr Nonis and latterly Mr Wirasinha were Principals at Wesley with Cricket Pedigrees. As long as I can remember Mr Dissanayake lived in the Wesley Flats and hence was an ever present figure at Campbell Park. He was a brave and fearless personality. I distinctly remember an incident which occurred during a cricket practice session during that time. Unlike now Wesley did not have exclusive use of Campbell Park and the ground had to be shared with the footballers of the area who used to commence their practices around 5pm. Though they were supposed to use a corner of the ground many were the occasions when they encroached into the cricket practice area. This particular day I recall Mr Dissanayake instructing us to be near the Pavilion vicinity when he strode across the ground to confront the footballers totaling about 15. They were quite a rough and intimidating lot. We did not hear the words exchanged but only saw him gesticulating to them to leave. To our amazement all of them left the ground without any fuss. It was a fearless act where he showed much bravery and leadership. It could have ended in an ugly incident if not handled with tact.
Mr. Dissanayake had much foresight and made sound cricketing decisions. Many are the times when he alone, had to decide on timely declarations. During our era it was the responsibility of the coach to make decisions on who would bat first after the toss, batting orders and their changes and declarations. Mr Dissanayake handled all these with great aplomb. I also recall this incident after Wesley’s victory against St Josephs’ College at Darley Road in 1961. It was an unpredicted victory made possible by St Josephs’ untimely declaration. During this period cricket matches of leading schools were well patronized and the crowds and fans were many and some from unimagined quarters. St Josephs’ too had their supporters, many who were ordinary folk from Maradana who used to take wagers backing their favourite team. After Wesley’s victory there had been an imminent threat to the safety of the Wesley players by the dejected St Joseph’s supporters. Cricketers during these times were provided transport for away matches by loyal Old Boys who had motor cars and Messers J.C.P Wickramanayake, Paul Senaratne and Dannister De Silva were three who volunteered for such duties on a regular basis. As soon as the match was over Mr Dissanayake organized Mr Wickramanayake’s car and one other vehicle ( I cannot remember whose) and bundled all the cricketers into these vehicles and made a quick getaway through the Darley Road Grounds gate near the Pavilion into safety. Thus a potentially dangerous situation was avoided due to his quick thinking.
Mr Dissanayake was an excellent raconteur and had an extra-ordinary memory of past events.Having left school I joined the tutorial staff in 1966 and succeeded Mr Dissanayake as the Master in Charge of Cricket in 1973 and had to accompany the Cricket Team to Galle for the Richmond fixture. Mr Dissanayake and Prasan Wijesinghe too accompanied the team on this outing. I still recall how Mr Dissanayake kept us awake till 4 am with his anecdotes.That is how he could keep his audience spellbound !!
Mr Dissanayakes loyalty to Wesley saw no bounds. He was above all the politics and factions that did emerge from time to time within the Wesley fraternity. He attended most Wesley functions even subsequent to the unfortunate accident he had, which resulted in a badly injured leg. He was a Guest of Honour at the reunion of Past Wesleyites held in 2008 in which he participated with great relish and delivered a stirring speech at the Assembly held in the Highfied Hall and was prominent at the gala dinner at the Galle Face Hotel. He also attended get-togethers when both Radley Claessen and Arthlow Chapman were in Sri Lanka on holiday. He was always accompanied by Amara his devoted and loving wife who was a tower of strength to him specially during his latter years.
I had the great fortune of spending some time with him before he was hospitalized and lost his ability to speak. Mr Dissanayake was a true gentleman and an icon of Wesley. We truly will miss him. May he attain Nibbana.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
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A Tribute and Appreciation to the late Mr. Edmund Dissanayake By Senthil Sinniah
Mr. Dissanayake, Sir, was my form master, when I joined Wesley College in 1951, as a shy eleven year old!! He was a kind, understanding, patient and helpful form master.Students who tried to be disruptive, were firmly put in their place. He never resorted to using the "ruler" as a form of punishment. A stern rebuke and stare was his "modus operandi" ----and it worked.
He encouraged discussion in class-----in all the subjects he taught. Expression sowed the seeds of confidence, in myself and many other students in my class.
As I progressed through my school career, I became aware of Mr. Dissanayake's exploits, as a schoolboy cricketer. He captained Wesley College in 1946 and 1947 and was an outstanding all-rounder. Sadly and cruelly, his cricketing career was ended in 1947, when he was hit on his head by the ball, while fielding very close to the batsman. I wont dwell on this sad episode, as much has been written on it. He never returned to the game as a player.
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However, he was not lost to the game entirely, as he was appointed Master-in Charge of cricket and spent a lot of his time coaching the Under 14 and 16 teams. This was the beginning of a long cricketing association with Mr. Dissanayake, re. my cricketing career at Wesley. He did not tolerate "sloppy fielding". His mantra at fielding practice was "keep your eyes on the ball, pick it up cleanly and throw it into the wicket-keeper's gloves, over or by the bails." Batsmen were implored to play with a straight bat. No "cross-bat" or (pol addi) shots over the mid-wicket ropes.This was a No. No, to Mr. Dissanayake. Off and on drives were encouraged and applauded. He always found the time to encourage and cajole players who were going through a bad patch.
I left school in 1960 and came to England to complete my education. Mr.Dissanayake was one teacher, who left a deep and positive impression on me.He was a humane and understanding gentleman. A gifted speaker and writer---with a fine command of the English language. His thoughts on the game of cricket, its values and traditions----- always respect the Umpires and uphold the sporting spirit of the game. These "old fashioned" but admirable qualities remained with me throughout my cricket playing days in England. Happily and proudly, I have passed these values on to my three grandsons---- one proud legacy of Mr. Dissanayake.
These words I have written about Mr. Dissanayake, is my way of saying "Thank You, Sir, you were a great influence on me." I last met Mr. Dissanayake in 2012, at the Grand Reunion Dinner, in Colombo. He was frail, his voice softer, but he made a commanding speech (while seated down) at the Special Assembly in the College Hall. He had not lost the art of public speaking.
Addendum from the Editor Dr Nihal D Amerasekera :
To those who do not know Senthil he was the 1st XI cricket captain of 1960, a very successful year. He was a popular hosteller and also a day boy at college. He emigrated to the UK in the late 1960's where he had a very successful and rewarding career in Banking. Senthil is one of life's gentleman and a product of the Oorloff-Nonis years when the school produced exceptional men of grit and industry. It has been a pleasure to be associated with Senthil when he was the President of the OBU (UK) when he resurrected the Union from its very depths. Since then we have served in the Committee of a fine and thriving OBU(UK). Our friendship has blossomed and we have been close. He now lives in a lovely English Cottage in Devon surounded by green hills and a loving family. I recall with great joy the time we have spent together in Devon and also watching cricket at Lords. I wish him a long and happy retirement.
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Edmund Dissanayake - A Tribute by his Grandchildren
Your name will be long lived and cherished in our hearts Edmund Dissanayake, fondly known to his grandchildren as ‘Sudu Seeya’ was true to his name stark white and would make his grandchildren, with the exclusion of all but two, envious of his complexion which quite sadly was not inherited by his other four grandchildren.
While he was prone to walk enthusiastically down memory lane, reliving anecdotes and memories of his years gone by, he often recollected two incidents to his grandchildren, which I believe he treasured most.
One being, the S. Thomas’ College vs. Wesley College match 68 years ago where cricket was a game played without helmets and other protective gear. Ronnie Weerakoon, brother of Bradman, struck a full toss straight into Sudu Seeya’s forehead while he was fielding at short leg, rendering him unconscious and leaving medics uncertain of his life for three months.
Yet, the highlight of this story to ‘Sudu Seeya’ was not the fact that he experienced his first near death experience but rather, he found it amusing that people mistook an obituary of another E. Dissanyake to be himself and people sent floral tributes, telegrams, had memorial services and made visits to pay their respects.
The other memory that he often recited was the fact that he was privileged to witness the first independence celebrations firsthand as the Head Prefect of Wesley College on February 4, 1948.
‘Sudu Seeya’, I believe was a very lucky man. No one gets to decide when one dies, but ‘Sudu Seeya’ cheated death not once, not twice but thrice! The second incident again, took place in the cricket pitch when he was umpiring a match. The cricketer’s bat flew into the air all of a sudden hitting the umpire on his head. The third time he cheated death was on the road, on his way to buy ‘uguressa’ for his grandchildren. A three-wheeler knocked him down, and the lasting impact of this incident came in the form of rendering his ability to walk agilely for the rest of his life. It was ironical that as an avid cricketer in his youth one day he would actually have a ‘short leg’! Having one leg shorter than the other would generally leave a person sullen and sulky, yet he moved on with his battle scars to the best of his ability.
‘Sudu Seeya’ never pressurised us to be an embodiment of himself nor did he try to live his dreams through us. His tears of joy when he heard one of his granddaughters will be following the same profession as he did towards the latter stages and would have someone to pass his books onto is proof of the above. However, I would like to believe that his success story passed onto us, and made each of his grandchildren strive to do better and become great sportsmen and sportswomen, student body leaders and follow our dreams for we too possess some amount of the same DNA as he.
His quirkiness, sense of punctuality and the memories we have created will forever be with us in every step of the way and he will truly be missed at every milestone we achieve. Your name will be long lived and cherished in our hearts. May he attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana! His grandchildren,
Devmini, Dilmini, Sashini, Gemunu, Eshana and Samadhi
1st XI Cricket Team 1947
Standing -V.Dias, B.Perera, D VanTwest,C Bartholomeisz, D Ramanayake, N.Prins, N Jayasundera, W Mottau
Seated - P.Mendis, A Ratnarajah, Rev J Cartman, Edmund Dissanayake(Capt), JLF De Mel (Master in charge), H Matthysz, W Abeywardene.
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From Nihal D Amerasekera
Former Wesleyite Dyon Bevis Pieris passed away peacefully in his home in Boston, USA. My thanks to Sheriff Fallil and Dallas Achilles who brought this information to my notice. Bevis was in my class in the 4th and 5th Form at Wesley in 1957 and 58. As I recall he was generous and kind and had a fine sense of humour. He left school after the O'levels and emigrated to the USA. Bevis Peiris was president of the Massachusetts-based Sri Lanka Association of New England in 2004. Then he called many of the group's 200 members and put together a shipment of food and clothing for Sri Lanka for Tsunami Relief. In Boston Bevis had an interest in theatre productions and drama.
Although he couldn't quite place me from schooldays we communicated by email from time to time. Bevis developed a condition of his spine which later made him use a crutch. He lived on his own in a condominium complex in Boston. Despite his medical problems he tried to maintain a near normal life and was always cheerful. He remembered his time at Wesley with much nostalgia.
From L.C.R Wijesinghe
Here is an email L.C.R received from Bevis on October 9th 2011 which is a fine account of his life
Hello Lalith,
Why I certainly remember you very well although I don't recall ever addressing you anything but L.C.R. Over the past many years whenever I visited SL I tried to find out about you from old school mates such as Sheriff Fallil (who moved to Australia and now in Sabah) and Dalkin Samidon with the hope of meeting you. There are a very few people I remember from that time but strangely you are one that kept popping up. Thanks for the complement as referring to me as 'bigger' not fat and you were lanky and a very good bowler.
A couple of years ago Nihal Amerasekera from UK sent me an email out of the blue and mentioned that we were at Wesley and invited me to put my particulars on Wesley OBU website. I had to admit that I could not recall him at all anyway it helped me to reconnect with Sheriff and now with you. The only other Wesleyite I keep in touch is with Ivor Perera (his brother Robin was on Radio Ceylon and died early in life due to effects pertaining to polio). I also keep in phone contact with Ivor DeSilva, do you remember him he taught English and was choir master. He lives in this state but far away and at 86 still teaches a few English classes at a state college.
My father was Deputy Commissioner in the Income Tax Department and on retirement from government service was managing director of Mackwoods. We lived on Palmyrah Ave in Kollupitiya and my parents lived there until their deaths in 1990 and 1991. I stayed with them at this address on my many trips to SL. While I was at Wesley I went to UK in 1958 for an orthopedic operation and returned to school a year later - never fitted in again and left Wesley. I went up to Haputale and worked at a transport business left to my mother by her father for about 2 years. In September 1964 I emigrated to USA and have been here now for 47 years. Until my parents death I started making trips back to SL every 2 years starting 1970 after I got my US citizenship. Since 1991 I have made about 4 or 5 trips last being 2009. Each trip has seen me visiting various part of SL and during the two trips to Jaffna (during ceasefire) Trinco and twice to Batticaloa. More on these trips elsewhere in this email. I also visited Anuradhapura last time as I support two family units at the S.O.S. Village.
Unlike you I never got married although I did come close twice when I met very nice women but I guess marriage was not in the cards for me. I was employed by a very large financial company and first worked with securities and transferred to property management and construction and ended up director of the accounting department. I retired early from this company in 2001 at age 60 after 37 years and live quite comfortably on company pension and US social security income. I took early retirement as I have had spine problems and have had 3 operations which has left with me with walking disability and have to use a crutch but other than that get about life OK. I do drive a lot visiting places and unfortunately drive fast well over speed limits and luckily not got a speeding ticket.
One of the reasons I may have opted out of marriage is that I turned out to be a workaholic and too involved with social causes that I find very full filing. From the moment I arrived in the US I got involved in the anti-Vietnam movement and with civil rights and women's right movement. I am still involved in these causes but now more in a less strident way due to my physical limitations. On one of my early trips to SL when Mr. Lanerrole was headmaster he know of my involvement with civil rights and invited me to speak to some students - I did not know I had to address full assembly.
In 2001 I sold my townhouse and moved into a condominium complex due my physical limitations. I was elected to the Board of Trustees and served as treasurer until this year and now am the chairman of the board. Complex is 3 residential buildings of 24 units each for a total of 72 units + a clubhouse.
Until 1998 I did not have much contact with Sri Lankans here as most of the people I associated were those related to my work. Then in 1998 a small group of recently arrived Sri Lankan's formed an association to promote culture and to do charitable work in SL. Thus the Sri Lanka Association of New England (www.slaneusa.com) was formed and I was asked to help prepare financial statements. I ended up first as treasurer, then president and now again treasurer. We support the pediatric patients at the Maharagama Cancer Hospital, hard of hearing children at YMCA's Valvosai school in Batticaloa, Scholarship at university grants commission, tsunami aid and scholarships for students in Jaffna schools, to name a few. It is on behalf of this that I made trips to Batticaloa.
Oh yes, I do have a companion - a very mischievous cat Shanthi - keeps me on my toes every day. I am attaching a photo of Shanthi & friend (see if you can recognize the friend) and of the condo complex so that have an idea where I live.
Let's keep in touch. With my regards to you, your wife and your sons and their families. Bevis
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ETERNAL PEACE
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GOONERATNE - MICHAEL, passed away peacefully on 21st April 2016. Beloved husband of Delrine, dearest father of Lisa (Walkers Tours), son of late Mervyn and Mavis, brother of Sonia, Sondra and Wende, brother-in-law of Christopher Pereira and Stephen Hall, nephew of Audrey Sharp. Service at home at 2 p.m. on Sunday 24th April. Thereafter cortege leaves No. 70, Anderson Road, Kalubowila, Dehiwela at 3 p.m. for burial at the General Cemetery, Borella at 4 p.m. on the same day (General Christian Section).
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ETERNAL PEACE
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JEBARAJAH - JOHN MILROY. Formerly of Forbes & Walker & Sri Lankan Air Force. Son of late John Samuel & Esther Flora Jebarajah, brother of late Mervyn (ex-Ceylon Navy) & Ranee Kanagarajah (ex-Bank of Ceylon), brother-in-law of Kumar Kanagarajah (ex-Bank of Ceylon), beloved uncle of Dhushy & Ramana Thambipillai & Dhilip Kanagarajah. Affectionate grand uncle of Akshay, Sanjay and Anjali, passed away peacefully in Canada.
From Milroy's sister Ranee Kanagarajah: I am deeply saddened to inform you that my dear brother John Milroy Jebarajah passed away peacefully on April 26, 2016.
The Eulogy by Dhushy Thambipillai
Dear family, friends
At various times in his life, he has been known in different circles by different names, which may be familiar to some of you…. Milroy, Milly, Jeba, Jebs and more recently as John, but I think what describes him best to us is that he was annan (brother) to my mom, Milly to my dad (his brother-in-law), mama (that is uncle) to my brother, Ramana and I and thatha (grandfather) to Akshay, Sanjay and Anjali – and it is a glimpse into this facet of the life of John Milroy Jebarajah that I would like to share with you today.
Much has been spoken over the past few days about John Milroy, the Wesleyite schoolboy, high achieving cricketer, sportsman, flying officer in the Air force, true blue friend, dedicated employee and even as somewhat of a Casanova; but to me, he was simply mama, a second father even and probably one of the few people who I can say has known me since the day that I saw light. Even into our adulthood, mama always spoke in wonderment of the times when he used to hold us in his arms as newborns; needless to say, my brother and I were the apples of his eye. One of my earliest childhood memories is of mama taking me around in his scooter. He was often my transportation to school and extra-curricular classes which often translated to stops for treats along Galle Road. Mama genuinely delighted in the childish antics and speech of my brother and I and it was something that carried over in his interactions with my own children in later years. He was the coolest uncle that a kid could ask for – he introduced me to the pop culture of the day, especially the music of ABBA and love for music of that era is something that I carry with me to this day because of him. A news aficionado, mama was well versed in world politics and I remember as an 8 year old listening to him regale us with stories such as the hostage rescue during the 1972 Munich Olympics, the Cuban missile crisis or the war over the Falkland islands….he opened my eyes to a world beyond the tiny island that we then lived in.
Later, as the political situation in Sri Lanka forced our family to split and us to move, our happiest times were when he along with his brother, my uncle Mervyn would visit us in Madras. Fast forward a few more years as we immigrated to Canada, mama followed us here to share in the care giving for our grandfather. Not many kids this side of the world would be able to say that they grew up in the same household with their uncle, but Dhilip and I were blessed to have mama with us for a great part of our childhood and young adulthood. A proud Canadian, you could count on him to fill you in on the politics of the day from everything municipal to federal. Despite his emerging health concerns, mama had a fighting spirit and work ethic that served as an example to all of us – even with the challenges that he faced with his mobility, hearing and sight, he was determined to keep working, stay independent and contribute to society to the best of his ability. Although his mental agility had started deteriorating by the time my children came along, he was truly the most happiest when surrounded by them and enjoyed their childish banter with him. In his latter days, he would eagerly await their visits to the nursing home and would especially ask after Anjali, who became a household name with everyone there. As you know, mama spent the last 8 years of his life at a nursing home and we are thankful to the staff at Extendicare Mississauga for the care that they provided.
Mama was always supportive of the respective paths that we chose to take in life, never judged and was extremely proud of all of us. His most endearing quality as has been attested to in recent days is that he was unassuming, down to earth and someone who was comfortable in the limelight just as he was out of it; a true gentleman. Mama, as we say good-bye to you, we hold fast to the memories that you leave with us and take solace in the words of May Fenn:
For love goes on
And you will find the evidence
Long after I have gone.
The books we read together,
The laughter in the pages,
Will continue to give pleasure
To you throughout the ages.
So do not mourn my passing
You are not left alone,
You’ll always find me waiting
In the places we have known.
The bond that grew between us
Will not abate with time,
It will go on for always,
I’m yours and you are mine.
Thank you.
A Celebration of the Life of John Milroy Jebarajah
The Order of Service
Prelude
Greeting
Prayer of Gathering
Hymn – Rock of Ages
Scriptures
Psalm 23 (read by Akshay Thambipillai)
1 Corinthians 15:50-58
John 14:1-6, 18-19, 27
Hymn – What A Friend We Have In Jesus
Eulogy – Dhushy Thambipillai
Meditation – Rev. Steve Boose
Choir Anthem – At this point, we will proceed to graveside for the committal of John’s remains to the ground. The family thanks you for your presence, support and prayers today and invites you to the Visitation Centre following the interment to share time, stories, and memories.
- Author Unknown
John Milroy Jebarajah was born in Sri Lanka on October 21, 1944 to Esther Flora and John Samuel Jebarajah. He was the middle child of the family with an older brother, Mervyn and younger sister, Ranee. He spent his formative years in Manning Town, Borella until his family moved to Quarry Road, Dehiwala.
Milroy or ‘Jeba’ as he was known in close circles started his schooling career at Royal Primary and represented the school at cricket. He then moved to Wesley College where he shone in both wrestling and cricket. He was an excellent student, especially in English but cricket was always his first love. He cut his first eleven cricketing teeth in 1961 under D.D.Kodituwakku and in the next two years under L.C.R Wijesinghe and Milroy Muthuveloe under whom Wesley won the Lifebuoy Trophy. His last year was in 1964 under Everard Scoorman. He first started off as a wicket-keeper and opening batsman, but later gave up the gloves and moved down the batting order.? His first stint in club cricket was for the Tamil Union in the Daily News Trophy under Rex Breckenridge where he scored five centuries and played the occasional game for the first string. Later when his old school mate and captain Schoorman took over the reins?at BRC, he moved to the Havelock Park Club and played regularly in the Saravanamuttu trophy tournament.? Here?he teamed up with two other former Wesleyites of his vintage, Mervyn and Russel Harmer. Some of the others were Jerry Wouterz, Anton Benedict, Vernon Vambeek, and Malcolm Berenger. During this period, the BRC was one of the leading cricketing clubs and some of his best performances for them?was 95 against NCC, 55 against Saracens and 64 versus Bloomfield.?? His final stint in Saravanamuttu Trophy cricket was for the Adastrians in 1969/70, where he played with Brian Obeysekera, Tony Opatha and Ajith Jayasekera. He always maintained that his greatest thrills were playing for his Alma Mater and later when he was chosen to represent the Board eleven in 1972 against the visiting Indian Universities team that included M.L. Jaisimha, Sunil Gavaskar and Budi Kunderam.
It was at a match against St Peter’s that? Milroy walked off the pitch of his own volition before the umpire’s verdict, and for this honesty, he was later presented with a bat at the school assembly by the Umpires Association for his sportsmanship. It was a reflection of the honesty and integrity with which he lived his life.
Milroy’s first job was at Forbes and Walker. Thereafter he began volunteering for the Sri Lankan Air Force as a Flying Officer. Milroy worked for Air Lanka for many years before the political upheaval in 1983 forced him to seek greener pastures as a naval officer in the Sultanate of Oman.
An image that is well itched in the minds of all who knew Milroy is that of him on his red?and white Vespa scooter?which had given rides to many a friend and relative. Milroy never married but was a loving father figure to his niece and nephew on whom he doted.
In 1991, Milroy immigrated to Canada to join his sister and family to share in the care giving for his father. He embraced life in Canada and worked very hard to establish himself in his newly adopted land. A proud Canadian, he was an avid follower of all world news but especially Canadian politics from federal to municipal.? Despite his emerging health concerns, Milroy had a fighting spirit and an incredible work ethic that saw him determined to keep working and stay independent. He spent his last years at a nursing home. In spite of his?declining health, he fought the good fight with few complaints. The silver lining in his later years was indeed the pure joy he experienced in the company of his grand nephew and niece.
An unassuming and down to earth person, Milroy was someone who was just as comfortable in the limelight as he was out of it. He had friends from all walks of life and his easygoing and fun loving approach to life endeared him to many.
Milroy will forever be remembered as a loving brother/brother-in-law, dotinguncle and grand uncle and wonderful friend. He is greatly missed by all whom he touched and his legacy lives in the hearts of those he has left behind.
Milroy was a fine cricketer and was an integral part of the unbeaten team of 1962 lead by L.C.R Wijesinghe. We thank Milroy for his friendship and kindly ways and his immense contribution to the life of the school on and off the field. Wesley College 1st XI Cricket Team 1962
Standing L to R: Seated L to R: ............................................................................ GRANT HIM O LORD ETERNAL PEACE ............................................................................ ABEYESEKERA - FRED Deceased on 27th April 2016, cremated on 28th April 2016. Son of Mr & Mrs D.A. Abeyesekera of ‘Andabel’ Hali-Ela, husband of Indrani, father of Dushy, Stubbs (Victor) and Rukmani Anne, grandfather of Dwayne Gyan, Chamil, Navini, Anya & Divya, brother of Daphne Rosemary and Patricia. A service will be held at St. Paul’s Milagiriya at 3 p.m. on Saturday 30th April 2016.
It is with deep sadness we received the news that Fred passed away last morning. He had an inoperable tumour on his liver discovered early this year and went downhill very fast.
............................................................................ Fred Abeysekera had an inestimable impact on the school as a student, teacher and a distinguished old boy. To summarise his long life and association with Wesley is a near impossibility. He was always a part of the school.
I have known Fred Abeysekera since my very early childhood being a family friend living in Nugegoda. We were a bunch of schoolboys travelling on the steam trains of the KV line from Nugegoda to Baseline Road and back. Then as a school prefect and thereafter as an English teacher.
Fred was orphaned at a very young age and was brought up by a kind relative who looked after him and his sisters. Fred started school at Kingswood College Kandy and joined Wesley in the middle school during the Principalship of Rev James Cartman. He enjoyed many of the extra-curricular activities. Fred captained 1st XI Hockey at Wesley and took an active part in Scouting attending Camps and Jamborees as a Troop Leader. He studied the arts and won several prizes and awards at the school Prize Giving. I remember him as a Prefect standing to attention in the Great Hall and receiving much respect. Fred was a brilliant student and was successful in the difficult University Entrance examination at the first attempt.
Fred graduated in English from the University of Peradeniya where he came under the tutelage of Professor EFC Ludowyke. Soon after he joined the staff at Richmond College Galle. After a few years Fred returned to his old school as a teacher when he taught me English. There he inspired students to spell correctly and write grammatical English. He encouraged us to read the classics to improve our language skills.
This was the era when the teachers kept their distance. Fred was an outstanding exception, as a stream of his more notable former pupils will testify. He got the best out of the students by showing he cared for their welfare. He was a superb teacher and I learnt many tips and skills of Engish essay writing. Fred made English interesting. In addition to the classic text "Treasure Island" he introduced us to the many aspects of poetry using the famous "On Freedom's Way" which had some of the most famous English poems from Wordsworth to Longfellow and from Milton to Keats and Shelley. Fred's insight into the various nuances of the poem by Samuel Taylor Coleridge "THE RIME OF THE ANCIENT MARINER" still lingers in my mind. After I left Wesley I have met Fred many times. Always the welfare of his beloved school was foremost in his mind.
Fred was a rather sensitive human being and was easily upset. He didn’t much care for the limelight. While teaching at Wesley there were things about office politics he did not approve. He did not wear his principles on his sleeve but he stuck to them with uncompromising certainty. Fred became increasingly disenchanted with the school administration and left Wesley but remained a loyal old boy supporting the OBU and the school. Fred was not after money or a lucrative job. He just wanted to teach and do it well.
When I was a medical student, one evening, saw him at the bar at Queens Hotel in Kandy. I have had a few drinks and avoided him by ducking and diving when he came and tapped me on my shoulder. We had a long chat about Wesley and mutual friends and teachers. He was charming and attentive. The combination of formidable intellect, irrepressible often acerbic sense of humour made his company a delight. Fred was a fine raconteur. With his vast repertoir of jokes, satire and anecdotes kept me entertained deep into the night. That memory has remained with me all my life.
Always soft spoken and kind I will remember him as an excellent teacher and a good friend. Fred Abeysekera kept in touch with his students and school friends in Sri Lanka, Canada and Australia where he spent time during his long and rewarding period of retirement. Despite the difference in years he had the remarkable ability to treat his students as friends. Through his undoubted charisma he was well liked by all who came into contact with him. We thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
Fred was supported and sustained for over 60 years by Indrani – a lady of distinction in her own right. It would be hard to imagine a closer or better-matched partnership. It is sad to hear that she is in a nursing home suffering from dementia.
His banter always had an appealing mischievous streak but his kindness and compassion always shone through. He remained a devout Christian and his faith sustained him right to the end.
At his Memorial Service at St Paul's Church Milagiriya Mr.Haig Karunaratne gave the Eulogy. He summarised Fred's life recounting many stories and anecdotes from University and Wesley. It was a wonderful celebration of a life well lived.
When Fred was a student his literary skills were recognised and he became the Editor of the Annual school magazine, The Double Blue. Fred was a prolific writer and wrote extensively about Wesley, its teachers, principals' and friends in his own inimitable style. He wrote generously and sympathetically, sometimes tongue in cheek!! Here are some of his classics many of us will recall.
............................................................................ It is with great sadness that I report the passing of Fred Abeysekera – Old Boy, former teacher, Master in Charge of Hockey and a delightful gentleman that lived the Wesley legacy, its history, tradition and values to the end.
Fred has had close contact with the OBUA as his two sons live in Melbourne and we have hosted him when he has visited Melbourne. He had a very close teacher-student friendship with the late Robin Reimers. We have lost four Wesleyites this week. To Fred’s family we extend our sincere sympathy and prayers.
............................................................................ ............................................................................ GRANT HIM O LORD ETERNAL PEACE ............................................................................ Veteran politician and former Speaker M.H. Mohamed died yesterday morning at the age of 95.The Janaza was held last evening. Born in 1921, he served as the 14th Speaker from March 9, 1989 to June 24 1994.He was also elected as the first Muslim Mayor of Colombo and served from 1960 – 1962.
Mohamed was an exemplary politician loved and respected by all communities. He rendered a yeoman service to the country and all communities, while being Mayor, Transport, Labour, Urban Development and Muslim Affairs Minister and holding the position of the Speaker in the Parliament. His political life spanned nearly seven decades.
Before I commence my tribute to this great man, let me briefly explain how I came to know him. Although I had heard his name I first came to know Mr M H Mohamed just prior to the UNP election campaign of 1977. I had been arrested by the CID for allegedly publishing a cartoon booklet entitled “The Family Tree – The Seven Years Curse”. It was highly critical of nepotism and despotism of that time.
Together with my arrest my passport had been impounded and I was prevented from returning to Australia where I was then teaching at Monash University. at that time, both Mr J R Jayawardene and my brother-in-law the late Mr Gamini Dissanayake introduced me to Mr M H Mohamed to learn a little more about the “tricks of the trade” in conducting political campaigns. I learnt much from this seasoned campaigner and since that time we became good friends. I kept in touch until a few years ago and he always welcomed me in his Borella home.
M H Mohamed occupied a prominent political position in a time which some describe as the ‘golden era’ of Sri Lanka’s politics. Competition was fierce yet within reasonable bounds; vitriol was sharp but non-defamatory. And politics was still a decent profession the final purpose of which was the service of the masses. It is hard to put that era in a time capsule, but with the advent of the 1960s, with the dramatic entry of the ‘common man’ into the fray, politics and politicians took an irreversible and sharp turn from which Sri Lankans are still struggling to extricate themselves.
M H Mohamed, a household name in Colombo politics, a former Speaker and onetime a stalwart member of the United National Party, entered into politics and remained in that enterprise during that ‘golden era’. After entering the Colombo Municipal Council in 1947, after his father Proctor Haniffa bade adieu to his lively political career, M H Mohamed contested the same Ward, Maligawatte that his illustrious father represented up to then. After a vigorous campaign for which Mohamed had built a fairly reasonable reputation, M H Mohamed was victorious as an independent candidate and entered the exalted corridors of power in the prestigious Colombo Municipal Council.
One would think that, given the family background and the esteemed positions he had held in the United National Party (UNP), Mohamed’s political career would have been moulded and defined by the right-wing politics of the day. Yet few of today’s generation know that his real political baptism took place in the cradles of left-leaning politics of Sri Lanka. Although he did not obtain membership in any of the left parties of the day such as the Communist Party (CP) and Lanka Sama Samaja Party (LSSP), M H Mohamed was an avid attendee at the speches given by Dr. N M Perera, Dr. S A Wickremasinghe and Peter Kuenman. This original baptism at the altar of left-wing politics might have shaped his thinking which was reflected as he grew to be a seasoned politician and became popular and acceptable to the working man of the day. In fact, when he contested the Borella seat, one of his strongholds was Wanathamulla, which to date remains to be inhabited by the working masses in Colombo.
Mohamed’s empathy with the poor man went far beyond politics. His close friends and associates bear witness to that. M H Mohamed has assuredly given credibility to Rudyard Kipling’s famous poem in which he describes what ‘Man’ should be in ‘walking with Kings whilst not losing the common touch’.
Mohamaed’s political achievements are simply unique. From a mere Member of the Colombo Municipal Council to end up as the First Citizen of Colombo (Mayor) and then go on to win a parliamentary seat and hold many Cabinet portfolios under both Dudley Senanayake and J R Jayewardene and then end up as the Speaker of the House of Parliament when R Premadasa was the President of the country are no mean achievements. Only those who have so succeeded know how difficult the road was! By any conventional standard, Mohamed was an overachiever. But the humility with which he accepted all accolades and praise held him good stead in good times as well as in bad times.
As the Speaker of Parliament, the exemplary manner in which he undertook to handle the “infamous” impeachment motion against the then President Premadasa will go down in our parliamentary history as the landmark conduct of an intricate element of parliamentary proceedings. Although the impeachment motion never saw the light of day, Mohamed’s conduct as an impartial arbiter of the country’s highest legislative body stood tall despite some ill-advised innuendos and vitriol by some interested parties at the time. Always bent on maintaining a delicate balance between opposing forces, Mohamed also managed, almost all the time, to strike the right bargain.
When conducting political affairs, first as an ordinary Member of the Colombo Municipal Council, then as Mayor, Parliamentarian, Cabinet Minister and then the Speaker of the House, his beloved constituents took the pride of place. Never ever making a cheap political speech or a meaningless political bargain, Mohamed conducted himself with utmost dignity and decorum. He treated politics as a supreme service to the masses that he represented with vigor and vibrancy. Although his family matters and business affairs had to take a secondary place, next to politics, his devotion and loyalty first to his family and then to his staff and to his business affairs was no matter that any of his political foes could pinpoint in criticism.
Indeed, we miss “statesmen” like M H Mohamed today. Politician are plenty but forthright and farsighted Statesmen are an endangered species today and in an era in which close henchmen control the politicians the likes of Mohamed are fondly missed. Being a devout Muslim, he did not wear that badge on his sleeve when serving the people. Equality among all men was his creed and service of the downtrodden masses was his principal virtue.
Sincerely will miss him greatly. I am honoured to pay this tribute to him.
Prof Ismail’s led research was credited for the Global Control of Filariasis. Prof. Mahroof Ismail, M.B.B.S., D.T.M& H., M.D, PhD.,Emeritus Professor of Parasitology, had his entire primary and secondary education at Wesley College from 1935 to 1950.
He was twice winner of the Hill Medal, and carried away the class prize each year, in addition to other prizes. After graduating from the Medical College, he joined the Medical Research Institute where he had an outstanding career, and finally became the Director of the Institute in 1983.
His association with Wesley, first as student, then as an Old Boy, and has been a Member of the College Governing Board has been long & exemplary. He was the founder President of Old Wesleyites Sports Club upon its revival and infused new life into its activities, as well as enhancing the facilities available. In addition to the many academic accomplishments, Prof Ismail also had the time and inclination to participate in Hockey and Badminton both at College and the University, where he won his colours. He is an accomplished Pianist, and has been the accompanist at several school functions. He was honoured by the school for his outstanding achievements when he was invited to be its Chief Guest at the Prize giving in 1991, as a distinguished Old Boy.
Prof Maharoof’s janaza (final journey) will leave residence at 7.30pm today to Kupiyawatte Muslim Burial Grounds.
Another true blue, stalwart and fine gentleman leaves us.
Rest in peace Sir!
To narrate the life, evoke the personality and assess the historical significance of someone who passed away only a day or so previously is no trivial task. Prof Mahroof Ismail passed away in Sri Lanka. The country has lost a fine and dedicated Medical Educationist and researcher and Wesley College a most loyal Old Boy and one of its finest products.
Prof Ismail wore his academic brilliance lightly. He was a distinguished professor of parasitology who will be remembered for unravelling some of the mysteries of Filariasis. By his research he broadened the understanding of the condition. Despite this he was self-effacingly modest. When he was the Director of the Medical Research Institute he was an insatiably inquisitive investigator who paid meticulous attention to clinical detail from which he was able to draw profound insights. He bridged the gap between the laboratory and the ward. Prof. Ismail was a gentle, compassionate physician, conscious that his breakthrough moments as a scientist were always rooted in clinical experience. He never did private work.
I remember Mahroof as the Senior Prefect at Wesley. He was tall, broad-shouldered and articulate. He was a proficient pianist.
As a distinguished old boy he contributed immensely to maintain the school as one of the foremost institutions in the country. As a vocal member of the Welfare Board, an enthusiastic Governor, a founder member of the OWSC and President of the OBU his contribution to Wesley is huge and legendary.
I had the good fortune to meet him at the Great reunion of 2012 and also to be in email contact with him over several years.
His marriage to Jezima, was conspicuously and enduringly happy.
Urbane and gracious, Prof Ismail was a gentleman in every sense of the word. He was a private man not always apparent behind the public face. He was a very warm hearted man, tough yet kind, modest yet courageous. We will remember his kindness, good humour and his generosity. They broke the mould the day he was born. We will not see the likes of him again.
On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites Worldwide I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school as a student and an Old Boy.
He was a true blue Wesleyite and will be greatly missed.
Mahroof was unfailingly self-effacing, and no task too menial for him. At the same time he was a dedicated academic. And like all good academics, he did not relish bureaucracy. One reason he was happy to move from his position as Director of the MRI was because he was tired of “chasing up the officers concerned to pay the gas bill in time so that the work done by him and his colleagues could be carried on uninterrupted.” And as Dean of the Medical Faculty, he hated the turf battles being constantly fought as to who was to teach what, who was to go on sabbatical, and the countless committee meetings and the like – feelings I greatly empathise with. A great void has been created by the departure of such a noble human being, and we are so much the poorer for it. If I might be so bold, Wesley has lost the greatest scholar it has ever had the privilege of producing. The tribe at Wesley who sit and reflect on its past, present and future, will forever miss you.
In Jezima, he had a splendid wife, an accomplished lady in her own right. Together, they were a dream couple, who among other things dedicated a good part of their time to educating the underprivileged especially in the Eastern Province. They were exceptionally generous human beings, and extraordinary hosts. Mahroof was also a phenomenal cook. A pride of his was his biryani and Tom Yum soup which we had the pleasure and privilege of sampling on many occasions. In return he loved my mother’s manipittu and chuka beef curry.
BLACKER. Anton Lucien. Much loved husband of Ina. Father of Vivian and Romanie, Gillian (dec. ) and Graeme, Paul and Mandy. Papa to Rory, Cassie, Sharnika, Brodie, Nalini, Rukshi, Charin and Nilaan. Great Papa to Atlas, Izidore, Matilda and Paris. Thank you Jesus Christ
Dear Wesleyites
Mr Blacker was proud to be a Wesleyite and we would look forward to speaking to him at the OBUA functions which he attended with his wife from the start of our association. He never missed our seniors lunch and even though he had health issues, he attended the seniors lunch last Christmas where he cracked a joke or two and enjoyed the festivities. Another member of this generation is no more and we are grateful that we had the opportunity to meet these respected gentlemen, admire their loyalty and listen to their experiences and stories about our beloved alma mater Wesley. We extend our sympathy and prayers to Mr Blacker’s family at this time. A great innings has come to an end, May he find eternal rest.
Mrs Blacker informed me that the funeral will be held next week and that details will be in the newspapers.
Ora et Labora
GRANT HIM O LORD ETERNAL PEACE BARTHOLOMEUSZ - Helen Margarite Departed this world on July 26, 2016 Dearly loved mother of Lorraine (Sri Lanka), Diana and Adrian. Dearly loved mother-in-law of Marina and Tissa (Sri Lanka). Loving grandmother of Jerome, Dirk and Amy. Beloved sister of Langston. Resting peacefully in the arms of Jesus
A grand innings has come to an end and we give thanks that the grace of God took care of Helen at her darkest times and has called her home where she is at rest.
Ora et Labora
GRANT HER O LORD ETERNAL PEACE KUO SEIN CHIANG - Members of the family of late Kuo Sein Chiang wish to thank all relations and friends, school friends of Wesley College and of Royal College who attended the funeral and helped in numerous ways.
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He was my cousin and we became very close when he worked as Assistant Superintendent of Kabaragala Estate under Mike Wijenayake where I was a frequent visitor. I once collected Rs. 60 during the Sinhala New Year from the gifts given by parents and relatives. I was short of Rs. 25 to pay Lionel Learners to learn driving. Padmasiri Aiya generously gifted me the money.
From Kabaragala Estate he joined Geekiyanakanda Estate, Neboda. Though he was an elder cousin and we looked up to him, he was always ready to join our pranks. Often his cousins namely Deva Rodrigo, Chandrasiri, Ariyapala, my brother Chitrasena and other friends went to “Singing Mount” (Geekiyanakanda) to spend the holidays.
He chose me as his best-man when he married Iranee de Silva, the daughter of lawyer M. W. R. de Silva, former MP for Gampola. After working mainly in Badulla in the seventies he came on transfer to Glen Devon Estate in Ragala, where he obtained the highest yield in the area, with a record yield of 2300 kgs tea per hectare. My friendship with him continued to deepen at that time with frequent visits being made by my wife Janakie and me to their estate. After he retired from planting from Thannahena Estate, he settled down in Kandy.
Thereafter he and Iranee Akka managed their own “Hillway Guest House” until his demise. He loved his friends and relations and no visitor was allowed to go without a meal. When my son was admitted to Trinity College he and Iranee Akka were very helpful. Practically every weekend we were at Hillway Guest House with our son, enjoying his lavish hospitality. He was a person with a large heart and open house and he and Iranee Akka loved to entertain and she was a wonderful wife loving and supportive to him. He loved to chat and always gave sound advice if and when so requested. Medical advice regarding food he never followed but enjoyed his life to the fullest. He was a tower of strength to us at every step of our way.
Iranee Akka and the family will miss him but can take comfort in the fact that he led a fruitful and rewarding life.
I remember Padmasiri as a boarder in the 1950's. He was a quiet unassuming lad who was a keen sportsman playing Tennis and Badminton. Padmasiri often partnered Cecil D'With Barbut in the doubles at Tennis. They remained great friends all through the school years. He was an enthusiastic supporter of our great cricket teams of those years. It brings me great sadness our paths never crossed and I will not see him again but I am glad to note he has had a long and rewarding life.
JANSZ Charles Adriaan 22.2.1947 - 6.8.2016 Dearly loved son of Clarence and Phyllis Jansz (both dec. ). Brother and brother-in- law of Sylvia and Brian vander Hoeven and Linda and Ian Treeby. Cherished and respected uncle and friend of Rochelle, Matthew, David and Amy and their families. Now resting in peace Uncle Adriaan Remembering a kind man and respected uncle to Rochelle, Tony, Madeleine and Emily Howden. Resting Peacefully now All our love . ..
Ora et labora
GRANT HIM O LORD ETERNAL PEACE YOGESWARAN (YOGAN) SATHIANATHAN - OAM and JP. Loving husband of Dr. Vino and father of Dr. Haran, father-in-law of Sasha, grandfather of Mia, son of late Daniel Sathianathan and Mercy Sathianathan, brother of Lalitha Niles, Rajan and late Dr. Inpy, brother-in-law of Navan, Sunethra Sathianathan, Suganthi Sathianathan, Abraham Vivekanantha and Shanthi Vivekanantha, passed away peacefully in Darwin, Australia on 10th August 2016. Funeral will take place on 15th August in Darwin.
It is with great sadness I heard that Yogan Sathianathan has passed away on the 10th of August in Darwin, Northern Territory,Australia. Transparently decent and mild-mannered he was refreshingly free of bigotry. Yogan was a gem in a world of pebbles. I will miss him.
An excerpt from my memories of Australia- 2009.
I came to know Yogan Sathianathan in Form IV. He was a gifted mathematician who had the dedication to work with astonishing single-mindedness to improve his skills. Being a mathematics whizz kid he was in great demand and he gave his expertise most generously. Yogan was a quiet lad from Wellawatte, a stalwart of the SCM and the Methodist Church. He didn’t much care for the limelight. There was also a strong seam of melancholy in his life while at school.
We proceeded together into the 6th Form and remained close friends before parting company in 1962. Yogan entered the Faculty of Engineering at Peradeniya as I went into Medical College Colombo. For many years I have asked numerous old boys about Yogan. The last they heard of him was when he was an engineer at the Uda Walawe Scheme in Sri Lanka.
With the rising political and social unrest the security situation in Sri Lanka worsened. Yogan felt increasingly beleaguered. He and the family left for Australia. They settled in Alice Springs and lived in the harsh, arid region for 4 years before moving to Darwin. Paul David gave me a clue that he was in Darwin, Northern Territory Australia which helped me enormously to track him down. The internet did the rest. I phoned Yogan a few weeks before my travel to Australia. He insisted we meet at dinner. Yogan and his wife Vino gave us a fine dinner in a plush restaurant in Darwin. Here we reminisced and recalled those happy but uncertain times in the 6th form and before, our careers and family. We talked about the troubles in Sri Lanka and the futility of it all. Yogan did reveal that he had some health problems but did not wish to dwell on it.
He is now a Tax Consultant and a JP. He has immersed himself fully in providing a service to his local community. Yogan has retained his youthful slim figure and remains a quiet unassuming gentleman. Time passed quickly and we hugged and said goodbye at the hotel car park. As I watched them disappear into the night wondered if we would ever meet again.
At Wesley he was charming, kind to his friends and generous with his knowledge. We appreciate his contribution to the life of the school.
MCNT is sad to farewell one of our long-term friends and former president, Mr. Yogan Sathianathan. Yogan passed away on Wednesday night, surrounded by family and friends in Darwin following a long battle with a heart condition.
Yogan gave more than 2 decades of his life in Australia to the service of our diverse multicultural community, and has no doubt left a lasting mark. Throughout the years, he served as President, Treasurer and Secretary in the MCNT's management committee. He also served in various roles in a number of other community organisations in the NT, including two of our constituent members, the Sri Lanka Australia Friendship Association and the Tamil Society of the NT. He inspired us all with his quiet and unassuming leadership, and his legacy will continue.
Community members are invited to pay their respects to the late Mr Yogan Sathianathan at his wake and funeral, the details of which are as follows:
The wake will be held on Monday 15 August at the family’s residence at 56 Gumungwa St, Lyons between 10:30am and 12:30pm.
The funeral service will follow at 1:30pm at the Casuarina Uniting Church, 45 Vanderlin Drive, Wanguri.
MCNT wishes to convey our heartfelt condolences to Yogan’s family and friends.
GRANT HIM O LORD ETERNAL PEACE To his family and friends I extend on behalf of the alumni our sincere condolences.
Garrick Beverley Sandy O’Neil was born in Colombo Sri Lanka on the 18th of April 1951. He was the first child of Sandy and Bianca O’Neil. Garrick had one sister Astrid.
He grew up in Colombo, and undertook all of his schooling at the Wesley College. He enjoyed his time there especially the rugby he played. One of his most treasured achievements was when, a few years ago, he was awarded an order emeritus for bringinghonour to Wesley as an old boy.
Garrick was a mad Beetles fan at the time of meeting my mother Merriel. He was 18. He fell in love and they were married in 1970. I, Warren, his only child, was born in 1971, when he was twenty.
His first job was selling asphalt and then he moved into selling stencil machines for the Gestetner Corporation. Thereafter he entered into the industry that became his passion for many years, being the car trade.
Our family arrived in Australia on the third of November 1976. Garrick, two days after arriving here found a job and immediately started his first job at Suttons Motors in Homebush. He always felt an affinity with Suttons as we would often drive past and he would comment about the good old days. The way Suttons made you feel like you were part of the family. This was also the way he worked with his own employees. All who joined Garrick in his endeavours were always considered by him as part of the family.
Around 1980, Garrick commenced a partnership with his two great mates Russell Johns and Mike Worseley. Sometime later he went out on his own. He was self-employed for the rest of his life.
Apart from movies and music, Garrick enjoyed reading. In his later years, he would read many books every week. He loved spending time with others. He liked horseracing and loved to have a beer with his mates. His personality was very engaging. He could tell a wonderful story and loved to chat and catch up with all his relatives and friends both young and old. Once you met Garrick, and spent a few hours with him, he instantly became a dear friend.
Garrick had one true obsession in his life. It was his family. From doting and caring for my mum, through to constantly being an integral part of my entire life, he was most happy spending as much time as he could with his grandchildren. They trumped all. My wife Joanna came into our family in 1990. Garrick considered her much more than a daughter in law, but a daughter as well. Garrick leaves behind five grandchildren. They are David, Lara, Shannon, James and Jordan. He revelled in their successes, and was always by their side in their times of need. He will be dearly missed by them.
Garrick was a member of the Hills Bowling Club. He loved dropping in for a quick one, or four, and a chat with his mates, on his way home. He often would relate stories to me that made me feel I was there with him. I could not have asked for a better, more loyal and true friend than my father. He was more than just my father, he was my mate, my business partner, and my life mentor. He always knew what to say, and what we should do. However, he always supported my decisions, if I did not listen to his advice. When I succeeded, he cheered. When I failed, he laudedme. I never once heard “Ï told you so”. This is what I will miss most about him.
I remember our early days in Australia and how hard he worked to make a good life for us here. Due to the roster he worked, he would have time off during the week and I enjoyed the one on one time we shared. He would collect me from school and it was always “fun day” when he was around. We went to the movies, Denny’s restaurant in Parramatta, or Pizza Hut, among others.
My dad was always so much larger than life to me, growing up. I looked up to him so much. There was nothing he wouldn’t do for me.
As he got older, he, like most of us, seemed to understand much more of how the world worked. This insight that he shared with me has helped me so much in my own life.
Garrick got sick around three and a half years ago. None of us knew what to expect. He stood strong and told us he was going nowhere just yet. Once again, he came to the fore. He battled with his illness and outstripped all the expectations of his carers. He suffered with little ado. Anyone who met him always commented on how well he managed his illness and how well he looked. I know how badly he suffered and how hard he tried to keep it to himself. He always presented a brave face.
On the 16th October 2016, my hero died. He died peacefully, surrounded by his family, and with the dignity he had hoped for. My life will never be the same, but I will do my best to honour his memory.
Good bye my deer father and friend. May we meet again someday and as always, I know you will welcome me in your arms once again.
GRANT HIM O LORD ETERNAL PEACE
Wesley College Cricket Team 1972 Standing: E Solomons, S.A De Silva, R Devadason, D Sellamuttu, A.Wickramasinghe, W.Vandort, R.Kern, A.Wijayasinghe
Seated: Mr.A Wirasinha, G.Harmer, A.H.A Cader & T.Jansz (Captains),O.Dissanayake, G.S.Peiris, Mr Edmund Dissanayake (Coach)
During this time his wife Bernadine has been a pillar of strength, courage and compassion as she watched over his demise and nursed him through the many challenges he faced. To those who knew her she was truly an angel who watched over him to the end. It would be fair for me to say on behalf of all the alumni scattered across the globe who knew Tyrone, a Big Thank You to Bernadine and may the Grace of God Bless you abundantly in the years ahead and may his Spirit be by your side as you endure the difficult days ahead.
To the family of Tyrone we extend our prayers and sympathies at this time.
We have lost a terrific and decent bloke, but we will hold very precious memories of Tyrone and his time with us forever.
Ora et Labora
He made his first XI debut in 1968 and went on to spearhead the Wesley attack. In 1971 he was deemed the fastest bowler in schoolboy cricket as he hurled down thunderbolts that had the batsmen ducking for cover in fear of being hit. In 1972 he shared the Captaincy with A H A Cader. He was one of only 2 players selected to represent Ceylon Schools (with Roy Dias) in the famous all island double wicket tournament in 1972. On leaving school he played cricket for the Colts Cricket Club. I am referring to the amiable and gentle character Tyrone Jansz. Tyrone was not the tall well built paceman but of slender build and youthful good looks and fair complexion. He was popular with his friends and admired by hundreds of schoolboys of that era who looked up to him as their sporting hero. His charm and smile was a big hit with the girls as well and was the cynosure of all eyes at Wesley’s nearest neighbours All Saints Girl School. Tyrone’s sporting ability was not restricted to the cricket field as he was fleet of foot and took part in Athletics and Rugby in the off-season.
Tyrone migrated with his family in the early seventies. Like most new migrants, he took his time to settle in to the new environment and find his feet. He soon fitted in to the lifestyle and challenges of a new city. He continued to play a bit of cricket and also renew acquaintances with many of his Wesley friends who had also migrated to Australia.
Tyrone had also shown early signs of renal disease which was not life threatening or serious at the time but had the potential to escalate very late in life to pose concerns.
One day when returning home after work on the train, for his bad luck he was targeted by some youths who were looking for another victim to rob and assault. That was a fateful day which changed his life. He was severely beaten up and left in the car park which was dimly lit.
He was rushed by ambulance to hospital. Tyrone survived but the trauma and injuries had a lasting impact after he was released from hospital. Life after this incident brought a host of medical complications none more serious than it aggravated his renal function to the extent that renal failure was now a reality. Through this whole ordeal his wife Bernadine was a pillar of strength as were some of his dear friends. Very soon after that Tyrone commenced dialysis which meant that he was now reliant on a machine to keep him alive. Coupled with a host of other medical conditions as a consequence of the assault he battled on, never wavering in his efforts to enjoy a reasonable quality of life under the circumstances.
A search for a donor kidney began in earnest. At the time Bernadine offered one of her kidneys but it was found to be unsuitable. Members of his family and many spirited friends volunteered to donate a kidney but the screening process is so rigorous that many failed at the last hurdle. Seven years went bye and Tyrone began to feel it was not going to happen as donor kidneys from cadavers was also subject to patients needs, compatibility with the recipient and medical priorities. Bernadine was again subject to screening based on the advancements in the procedure and treatment over the past seven or more years in non-compatible kidney transplantations. His faith and prayers were answered when he received the good news before Christmas 2010 that Bernadine’s kidney was suitable and it was all systems go for a transplant. What a Christmas present!
On January 12th, Bernadine and Tyrone both underwent surgery and are recovering slowly. Tyrone’s new kidney is functioning and each day presents a new challenge after such major surgery Tyrone has new challenges to face but he regains his freedom from being hooked up to a machine every other day and can look forward to a life as close to normal as possible. There is the possibility of risks along the way as the immunosuppressant’s that he has to take for the rest of his life means he is vulnerable to infections and potential complications. However he has much to look forward to and is hoping that all things being well he could play the odd game of cricket. I know that Tyrone will face the challenges head on as he has done in the past and looks forward to a new and brighter future.
Bernadine’s priceless gift of love will make a difference to the one she loves. Many would consider this act of kindness at the significant end of the spectrum for giving. To each and every one of us it demonstrates how we can make a difference – “ring the bell that we can ring” to change someone’s life. It does not need to be as significant as this but it will go a long way to help someone. We wish Bernadine and Tyrone good health as they enter a new dawn in their life together.
Keith de Kretser
Addendum 2016
Since this article in the Double Times of January/February 2011, Tyrone’s good fortune was short lived. In about a year’s time he was diagnosed with a brain tumor and tumors elsewhere. He was operated and as a consequence of the brain surgery his movement in his limbs and memory was severely impeded. He underwent months of rehabilitation and was mentally in a bad place as he was such an active person and was now so restricted. He progressed with rehabilitation therapy and his movement improved as did his memory and his confidence returned. He was restricted to a wheelchair and could hobble a short distance but there was always the risk of him falling down. So it was to be that he fell in his home and hit his head and his situation was further aggravated. Progressively his memory and movement diminished and he was finally shifted to a high care home where he could get the nursing and care he needed. As he lingered for the last few years, he finally passed away peacefully in his sleep on Tuesday when God called him home.
GRANT HIM O LORD ETERNAL PEACE One of my first bosses,Dr.A.Samad Ismail. Veteran Family Physician in Kandy. Past away today.
This tribute to Dr. A. Samad Ismail is presented to appreciate the enormous services rendered to the Kandy City by way of his sports promotion and profession as doctor with the magic hands of cure. Well known senior citizen of Kandy, he is respected among all communities, elders and youth and sports bodies in the hill capital as 'Lion King'. His contribution for sports, social service, and in his medical field should be weighed in Gold. He is the one who introduced hockey to the Ceylon Air Force, during that time known as the Royal Ceylon Air Force. He is a versatile sportsman and a dedicated spots promoter.
Dr. A. Samad Ismail
Many seem to have forgotten the past glorious moments of Kandy hockey, but there are still a few who remember the part played by promoters. One such person is Dr. A Samad Ismail who promoted the game in the right way with the true sense of the sport where everyone who took up the game contributed with enthusiasm at their own expenses mainly because the game was presented to the players with lots of love for the sport.
It was Dr. Samad Ismail who introduced Hockey while he was at the Royal Ceylon Air Force and this game flourished. Later the Royal Ceylon Army and Royal Ceylon Navy took to the game. He led the Airmen at hockey, and also took the game to every camp where the Airmen were housed. He was also the long time chairman of the Combined Service Hockey, which is now called the Defense Services. After leaving Royal Ceylon Air Force, he took up practicing in Bandarawela for about three years.
Dr. Samad Ismail is a gentleman to his fingertips. He is a man who stand for what is right. In the field of Social service, his left hand did not know what his right hand did. He is one of the long standing Kandy Lions Club members where he has contributed well towards the club. After coming to Kandy, he was invited to promote Hockey, and at that time people who were in the hockey federation were late P.T.Rajan who introduced the game to Kandy, it is he who invited Dr.Samad Ismail to promote Hockey in Kandy, then there was M.S. Jainudeen, Lesley Hadunge, George de Saram, E.L. Fernando, Bobby Jayaweera, P.Thangavelu, Roy de Silva, D.R.Rajalingam with him in the committee.
During his time, hockey flourished in Kandy. It is said that two or three teams visit form India and play matches here, they also gave a big hand for the National Championship for school hockey, the game which went places in Kandy. He was also one time president of the Kandy Association Football League and held the post for nearly ten years. It was Hockey and Football he loves so much and gave a big hand to both sports.
He was the President of the Kandy YMMA, where he promoted outdoor and indoor sports like - Football, Hockey, Table Tennis, Badminton, Carom and the cue sports in a big way. He was a key figure in the Association and contributed heavily towards its uplift man. One time he was the president of the Jinnha Memorail Hall, a famous meeting place (Masoora) for Muslims at one time, they had at one time the best Soft ball cricket teams.
He is the son of late Mohamed Ismail who was the first Muslim Sergeant at Arms. Dr. Samad Ismail will be celebrating his Birthday on January 23. Together with all those in Kandy we rally round to wish him a very happy birthday and many more birth's to come with good health, prosperity and lots of love from all citizens from Kandy.
He came to Kandy in 1961 and married Shiyana Ismail daughter of the Late M.Ismail. He started his private practicing down Peradeniya road in Kandy, which he is still continuing, now at Wadugodapitya Mawatha and is the most senior doctor in Kandy. A sportsman philanthropist, a social worker and above all a trusted and loving friend of everyone. He was nevertheless a reasonable and understanding leader who genuinely cared for the well-being of the public and made sure they received every cent worth of their money by his services. His image was only to be feared during working hours, however, off work he had a great sense of humor, was a great poet, loved cooking, music and a walking encyclopedia. To his loved ones he has always been a doting parent and grandparent.
As a doctor, he is to observer the Hippocratic oath in its spirit and to the very letter. He is available every day and night for treatment. No rules or other technicalities could stand in his way if a patients consult for their needs and services.
He was also the President of the Sri Lanka Cancer Society for many years, for year on the New Year day, he makes the fist visit to the Cancer Home. where he was instrumental in upgrading the facilities and widely spreading the concept that Cancer patients and their facilities should be a vital call and this must be promoted for the benefit for the have not's. We are proud to report that this society is in good hands and the proposed 700 million Hospital is been built with both State, Corporate sector, International Organizations and public funds. In 2012 when former rugby captain Shafi Jainudeen of Trinity College died of cancer just before the 1st Leg Bradby his team mates organized a day out at the Cancer Society to provide lunch for the 55 inmates in his memory. Dr. Ismail was invited as chief guest, and he presided at this function with an excellent address of the deceased with a sermon in Arabic and translated to English for the benefit of those who did not understand. All present there duly appreciated the sentiments expressed on behalf of shafi Jainudeen which came from the blues.
He has four daughters, all happily married and grand children. One of his daughters is married to Prof. Kamal Deen who shown well as an rugby inside three quarter for Trinity college, during that year Trinity was unbeaten and he was awarded Rugby colors for his outstanding performances, later he represented the Combined schools and Kandy Sports club as well before buckling down to his doctorate.
Dr. Samad Ismail, a leading General Practitioner in Kandy passed away a few days ago at the age of 93, and his mortal remains were laid to rest at Katukelle Muslim Burial grounds on Wednesday the 8th of this month. If a person’s popularity could be assessed by the number of people who attended the funeral there is no doubt that he was such a person. There were people of all ethnicities and social classes attending the funeral and no doubt that his immense popularity was carried right up to his grave. He in fact worked until about 2 months before his death, and was able to treat his patients effectively and efficiently as he was able to keep his mental faculties intact.
He was born in Passara where his father was an Inspector of Police. He later enrolled n Wesley College, Colombo from where he entered the Colombo Medical Faculty .Dr. Ismail passed out from the Colombo Faculty 1943, and after a short stint in the Ministry of Health he joined the Royal Ceylon Air Force and was later sent to the Royal Air Force in UK for further training. He obtained the Diploma in Tropical Medicine and Health (DTM&H) while in UK. He served the Sri Lanka Air Force for a period of 8 years in as the Medical officer in Charge. In the early eighties he commenced a general practice along Peradeniya Road from where he shifted to a place in front of the Kandy Police Station, where he practised till his demise. His long stint as a general practitioner enabled him to even treat four generations of the same family. His services were well sought after by the citizens of Kandy and peripheries.
He belonged to a highly eminent clan of general practitioners in Kandy such as the late Dr. Nihal Karunaratne, Dr. Nadesan, Dr. Rajendra and Dr. C.D.L Fernando. Patients of all walks of life and ethnicities were by him as a model general practitioner, kind and dedicated in his service to patients.
Dr. Ismail was an indefatigable social worker with hardly a single institutions engaged in social work in Kandy where he was not the president or a committee member. These included the Kandy Friend in Need Society, Kandy Lions (where he was once the President), Organisation of Professionals in Kandy, the Organization for Religious Amity, A Director of the Kandy Nursing Homes Ltd, and a pioneering member of the Central Province Family Practitioners’ Association(CPFPA).The incumbent president of the CPFPA) Dr.W.P.Somasiri unveiled a plaque in his honour during the monthly meeting held in September, but Dr. Ismail unfortunately could not attend the function due to illness. However the lasting monument of his social services is the Kandy Cancer Home situated adjoining the Kandy Hospital, where hundreds of terminally ill cancer patients are treated.
He was an extremely devoted family man and was married to his beloved wife for nearly seven decades. They were blessed with four daughters one of whom is married to the eminent surgeon in Colombo, Prof. Kemaldeen. He adored his 7 grand children and the 3 great grand children. He was very attached to his wife who predeceased him exactly a year ago, which would have somehow contributed to his demise.
LASANTHA (L.P.)FERNANDO - From his very young days Lasantha was a colourful character. He was freedom of spirit personified. His outrageous arguments, defiance of the rules and his sense of mischief were often well received. He was instantly recognisable from his distinctive voice, intense self-belief and fondness for Wesley. Lasantha was held in sufficient regard that even his critics usually found some aspect of his life or career to praise. What he lacked in interpersonal skills he always more than made up for with his energy. This was applied with equal zeal to everything he did. The urge to question and challenge authority made him who he was and remained stubbornly self-confident to the very end. Lasantha had the rare ability to recover from events that went against him, the kind of stamina rarely seen. Welfare of the school was always his concern.
Lasantha left Wesley for a job as an upcountry Planter. He climbed the ladder fast to become a succesful manager in the Planting Industry. Later he moved on to become an entrepreneur and a wealthy businessman.
After leaving school, Wesley was always on his mind. He remained a vocal supporter of the school through his beloved OBU. Lasantha became the President of the OBU Colombo 2009/2010 during the Principalship of Dr Shanti McLleland. Lasantha was an effective leader during those difficult times of infighting and power struggles. He steered the OBU through the rapids. More recently Lasantha retreated from the spotlight due to failing health.
The Brotherhood of Wesleyites appreciate his immense contribution to the life of the school and the OBU.
My dear friend Lasantha Fernando, fondly called as “Lassie”, passed away on November 10, after a brief illness. He was an individual with exceptional qualities. His unexpected demise was an irremediable loss to his family, relatives, dear friends and the planting fraternity.
Lasantha joined George Steuarts as a creeper in the early sixties and later on managed some of the best up-country tea estates over a long period of time. He had the capability and the talent to excel as a planter. During the period the plantations were nationalised in the early ‘70s, he was cho sen for a high post in the Janatha Estate Development Board (JEDB). Here too, he executed his duties with distinction.
His was a life full of selfless care for others. He was a tower of strength to his friends, relatives and family. His gentle and amiable demeanor, his agile mind, religious zeal and sense of duty and responsibility were par excellence. His sense of humour, warmth and humbleness were the symbols of his personality.
In the early 80’s, he and few others formed the Ex-Planters’ Association and he held the post of its President and afterwards was elected as a Trustee of the Association. He did a yeoman service to the ex-planters, especially relating to their welfare activities.
The exceptional feature of his character was his calm and cool temperament. He took everything with a smile, be it hard or jubilant times. He was never nervous or perturbed during any situation. His friendly and cordial manner was admired by everyone.
Lasantha also became a proprietary planter some years ago owning and managing an up-country tea property. His knowledge in the field and experience set into operation, saw his private tea estate being recognised as the best managed in the up-country. He was awarded a coveted trophy in recognition of his achievement by the then President.
Later on in his life, he ventured into business with his brother Rohan and showed his ability to be a highly successful businessman. At the time of his demise, he was a Director of Kelani Tyres Plc, Ceat Kelani Sri Lanka Companies, Silverstock Holdings (Pvt) Ltd, Silverstock Ltd and Wheels (Pvt) Ltd. He was held in high esteem by the business fraternity.
He was an elder statesman to many social organisations, apart from being one time President of the Old Boys’ Association of his alma mater, Wesley College, Colombo and Chairman, Board of Social Responsibility of the Kollupitiya Methodist Church.
Whatever he did, he accomplished successfully through commitment, hard work and dedication. He was bold enough to point out whenever there was wrong. He had the courage to abide by his principles however hard it was and whatever consequences he had to face. His extraordinary kindness, close interaction with friends and relatives, hospitality, cordial approach, generosity towards the needy and simplicity touched the hearts of all those who associated him. I am one of those friends fortunate to keep close company with him and his family. We went on trips to many places together and his company was looked forward to by our family and the gang of friends. During this long period of association, I witnessed his amiable and courteous qualities, his generosity, hospitality and sincerity.
Lasantha, to his wife Sriyanee- was a magnanimous husband, a caring father to his two sons Eraj and Chandev, a considerate father-in-law to Rebecca and Priyanganie, and a benevolent Seeya to his grandsons. Here is a man who has lived his life to the fullest. His name will always be inscribed in our hearts and minds.
The first death anniversary of our beloved Lasantha, Lassie to some, fell on November 10. His unexpected illness and sudden death shocked his friends and loved ones as he was such a dynamic, active and lively personality.
He hailed from Moratuwa and was the eldest of a family of five. He had his education at Wesley College, Colombo. Lasantha loved his Alma Mater and did a lot for it, assisting the school in many ways, especially in the construction of the school chapel. He was elected the President of the Old Boys’ Association and his final wish was that his funeral service be held at the chapel, which he assisted in building.
Lasantha, followed his father, a reputed senior planter, E.T.Fernando’s footsteps and took up planting in 1965 at the age of 20. He joined a reputed British owned company, George Steuarts & Co. as a “creeper”. He was trained under a strict disciplinarian Manilal Abeywardane, Manager of Rosita Estate Kotagala. Having worked on several estates as a “Sinna dorai”, he got his promotion as a “Periya dorai” on Bogawana Estate, Pundalu Oya.
After the nationalisation of estates, he was appointed the Deputy General Manager of the Janatha Estates Development Board (J.E.D.B).
He left the J.E.D.B to form a consortium with the help of some leading businessmen to take over the privatised Tyre Corporation, and formed Kelani Tyres PLC where he was a Director. He was appointed to the boards of several other subsidiaries of Kelani Tyres PLC.
Lasantha married Sriyanee, the only daughter of Dr. Colin and Maureen Gomes from Moratuwa. They were blessed with two handsome, smart sons, Eraj and Chandev. Lasantha was proud of his family, and often spoke fondly of his wife, sons, their wives and his four precious grandsons.
The icing on the cake for Lasantha was the formation of the Association of Ex-planters. He and two others, Raja Attygalla and Wilhelm Balthazar were considered founders of this association. Lasantha realised the need for an organisation for retired planters. The association has its own medical scheme and death donation fund. Lasantha is greatly missed at all events organised by the association as he would not only actively participate in its activities but generously contributed towards the expenses of the events as well.
Lasantha donated large sums of money for two Memorial Funds that the association opened on his request, the “Raja Attygalla Memorial Fund” to which he made the initial donation in order to honour Raja Attygalla, a co-founder and the other the “Mr & Mrs E.T Fernando Memorial Fund” to honour his parents.
He had a large heart and was generous in giving. Many a time he paid the annual subscriptions of members who had defaulted in paying membership fees. He also lavishly contributed towards the functions organized by the Association.
To honour him, the Association elected him its Trustee. He came from his hospital bed to attend the Annual General Meeting in 2016 just before his demise. He was honoured once again as the Association elected him the Chairman- Protem at the AGM. This year, we invited his wife, Sriyanee as a Guest of Honour.
One of his last wishes had been to adorn him with the association tie when he died!
Lasantha had a special place for the Association of Ex-Planters,in his heart and the Ex-Planters owe him so much.
Let us thank and praise God for the life of our dear friend Lasantha !
May his soul rest in peace!
GRANT HIM O LORD ETERNAL PEACE
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room.
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little – but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared,
Miss me – but let me go.
For this is a journey that we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the Master's plan,
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds.
Miss Me – But Let me Go!
A Gentleman Cricketer passes away in Canada by Peter Casiechetty
From the Editor - Nihal D Amerasekera
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
From Keith de Kretser
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It is with sadness we received the news of the death of Hon MH Mohamed. He was a true Blue Wesleyite and supported the school through thick and thin. He has served the OBU in various capacities with great distinction including President and Secretary. His 5 sons are all Wesleyites. We remember him for the part he played in getting Campbell Park for Wesley.
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M H Mohamed – a Muslim icon of a bygone era by Dr. Wickrema Weerasooria
A Tribute by Richie Sappideen
It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Prof Maharoof Ismail – a distinguished, loyal and one of the finest & outstanding products of Wesley College.
Remembered by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
As the Dean of the Faculty of Medicine in Colombo, his warm, friendly manner, his ability to sum up a situation quickly and his capacity for working with people whose outlook differed from his own, proved to be of the greatest value to the institution, staff and the students. He made all aspects of student training his concern,
A personal appreciation by Professor Razeen Sappideen
I have lost a great friend and role model; Wesley has lost an icon; Sri Lanka has lost a great scholar; and the world has lost a great human being.
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From Keith De Kretser
I received a call last evening from Mrs Ina Blacker to inform me that her husband passed away on Monday night after a short illness. Mr Blacker was the oldest Wesleyite in Australia at 96 years old. He was a student and then a teacher at Wesley. In Melbourne he taught at Mentone Grammar. The Blacker family had strong links with Wesley with his sister Miss Iris Blacker one of Wesley’s iconic teachers in the 1950’s and 1960’s.
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From Keith de Kretser
It was a bleak winter day with overcast skies with the sun appearing from time to time to brighten up and warm the mourners who had gathered to farewell Helen Margarite Bartholomeusz. A good gathering of family and friends were in attendance to celebrate the life of a remarkable lady, a mother, a grandmother, a sister, an aunt and friend. Helen was born on 24 June 1920 to Albert and Netta Joseph (the latter was a teacher at Wesley in the 1930-1940’s at Wesley). Her only sibling was her brother Langston. Helen showed her talent as a pianist at an early age. She was guest pianist at the Royal College of Music celebration in Colombo, playing before Sir Roland Stubbs Governor of Ceylon. She also was the winner of the coveted gold medals from the Royal College of Music, London, and the Trinity College of Music, London. Helen also excelled as a Church Organist at Regent Street Presbyterian Church Colombo, The Church of the Servant Lord Colombo, and Glen Iris Uniting Church Australia. Her skills were not limited to the piano but she also conducted choirs and provided advice to amateur stage productions, taught at Ladies College and Wesley College, the latter for a short period and was well known as a pianoforte tutor in Colombo.
Helen married Lorensz Bartholomeusz and had three children Lorraine (SL), Diana and Adrian (Australia). At the age of twenty eight her world was to change when her husband Lorensz passed away. Lorraine was six years old, Diana (2yrs) and Adrian an infant. Though grieving for her loss, she courageously confronted the many challenges she faced. In the tributes made by her children, grandchildren and brother, they spoke of this amazing women of strong Christian faith who used her God given talent and skills to provide for her family, to give her children a solid education at good schools, to ensure they also developed an interest in the arts – dancing and elocution and also a love of music. She was the classic “single mum” we hear about today but she was not one who went cap in hand seeking assistance from the State but worked hard teaching the piano at her home and away from home to provide for her family, she rode her bicycle or caught the bus on these occasions.Her faith, her resilience to the challenges and her resolute inner strength carried her through these tough times. We heard of her excellent skills as a cook making traditional Burgher favourites like Love cake, Bolda Figado, Breudher, Christmas Cake and the authentic traditional Lamprais which has been carried on by her daughter Lorraine who supplies the DBU in Colombo. Her faith, her resilience to the challenges and her resolute inner strength carried her through these tough times.
She loved entertaining guests and her home was one where love and fellowship was abundant. As we watched a photo collage of her life from the attractive young lady to her later years, it was fitting that two of her favourite musical pieces played in the background – Handel’s Largo and Beethoven’s Moonlight Sonata.
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From Keith de Kretser
From - Janalal Rodrigo
Padmasiri was born on October 2, 1937 to Dr. James Silva and Charlotte Rodrigo from Panadura. He studied at Wesley College, Colombo and excelled in sports, playing tennis and badminton for the school. He started his planting career at Kabaragala Estate in 1960.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
From - Keith de Kretser
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Multicultural Council of the NT Australia
From Keith De Kretser
News reaches me that Garrick O’Neill passed away earlier today. Garrick was at Wesley in the 60’s and he was fair, tall and had a wisp of long hair that fell across his forehead constantly. He was popular with the students and many would hold fond memories of him. I remember very vividly that at one of our College fete’s in the early 60’s, as a fund raiser there was an auction of a Rudge bicycle in the small quadrangle near the office. The crowd had gathered and bids were in progress. I was standing in the driveway leading up to the hall and Garrick was not far from me. The next minute he put his hand in to a bag and threw this missile which hit the pillar near the auctioneer and exploded. It was a dashing cracker. Garrick did not show any reaction that would have drawn the attention of the people. Little did he realise that LAFA had spotted him and walked right up and landed him a slap across his face and escorted him off the campus. Garrick lived in NSW and was in business. I never had the opportunity of meeting him to remind him of the episode at the fete.
A Tribute to Garrick O’Neil
From Keith De Kretser
In the early hours of this morning around 3 a.m. Sydney time, a much loved husband, step father, brother and friend breathed his last breath releasing his spirit and soul from pain and the shadow of his former self. Yes, Tyrone Jansz after battling the many challenges that fate dealt him in the past decade is finally at rest. Tyrone was a lovable larrikin with boyish good looks, fair complexion and a fun loving and mischievous streak. He was a hit with all the girls at All Saints and elsewhere as his good looks were a magnet for the girls. In the heady days in the late sixties and the early seventies, he was the toast of the students at Wesley and schoolboy cricket as he earned the title of the fastest bowler in school cricket. Life however was unkind and in the past twenty years bowled him a barrage of bouncers which unlike his deliveries took its toll on his physical wellbeing, reducing him to a shadow of his former self. The once great all-rounder who also played Rugby and took part in Athletics was restricted to a high care home to spend his last days. He has fought a long and arduous battle, never giving up hope that one day his condition may improve but it wasn’t to be. As the text from 2 Timothy 4.7 in the Bible states, “I have fought the good fight, I have won the race, I have kept the faith”. That was Tyrone to the end.
A Priceless gift of Love by Keith De Kretser
Dr. Samad Ismail started his schooling at Badulla Convent, from there to Uva College, when his father got a transfer to the Galle Police, he had to go to St. Aloysius College, from there to Wesley College, Colombo where he excelled in hockey as his pet game, Cricket and Athletics. He was at Wesley College from 1933 to 1941. While at the University he continued his sporting actives and played hockey, cricket and also was a fine Athlete. After passing out as doctor, he joined the Royal Ceylon Air Force, where he served up to 1958, he was a doctor cum pilot officer, and one of the most popular doctors of that era.
From Dr. Upali Illangasekera
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news that Lasantha Fernando passed away this morning. Lasantha was at Wesley in the 1950's and also in the boarding during my time. His father was a Planter and an old boy of the school, a personal friend of our distinguished old boy and former Governor General, Sir O.E.Goonetilleke.
Appreciation by Asoka Wijetilleka
He gave his best to the Ex-Planters Association
From Russel Nathanielsz
Ronnie our eldest brother has been called from this eathly life and we pray that he is now in the presence of our Heavenly Father!
Eternal Rest grant unto Ronnie O Lord and may his Holy Soul and the Holy Souls of all the Faithful departed through the Mercy of GOD, Rest in Peace.... AMEN
In the Peace of Christ and his Blessings!
From Karl Cedrick Basco, ABS-CBN News
Ronnie Nathanielsz, one of the Philippines' most recognizable and divisive sports media personalities, died in San Francisco, California early Saturday morning. He was 81.
Nathanielsz's family pulled him off life support days after rushing the sports broadcaster to a hospital days ago, where he was under intensive care.
He was in the US and was expected to join a TV broadcast panel covering Manny Pacquiao's fight against Jessie Vargas on November 5, when he felt chest pains on the way to Las Vegas.He later suffered cardiac arrest.
"He's loved and respected by majority of sports fans because of his contributions in boxing journalism, although I do understand that there are significant people who don't like him because of his history with the Marcoses," said ABS-CBN sports broadcaster TJ Manotoc. "He'll be a big loss."
Nathanielsz wrote a column for the sports section of the Manila Standard-Today newspaper and the Philippine Daily Inquirer, and was involved in several sports promotions, particularly in boxing.
He worked on camera covering the Philippine Basketball Association games in the 1980s and early 1990s, but reporting and providing analysis in boxing were his bread and butter.
His break came in 1975 when he was appointed by Ferdinand Marcos to act as liaison officer between the government and the organizers of the fight between Muhammad Ali and Joe Frazier, dubbed "Thrilla in Manila." "It was a memorable time in our life and we got close enough for (Ali) to call me 'brother,' while I called him 'champ,' " Nathanielsz wrote in a column paying tribute to Ali, who died in June.
When Pacquiao rose to fame, Nathanielsz was one of the first local media personalities to refer to the world champion as "a national treasure." He became a go-to pundit by TV and radio shows whenever Pacquiao or any Filipino boxer was up for a major bout.
Nathanielsz was respected by his peers in boxing and basketball media circles, but drew occasionally irrational scorn from sports fans. His staunch loyalty to the Marcoses was a thorn in his reputation.
In a column titled "My Filipino Heart" that he wrote for the Standard-Today last month, Nathanielsz said he was offered by his father to work in Australia where some of his family was based, but that wasn't where his heart was. "I declined much to (my father's) annoyance so much so that he pointedly asked me why I was so much in love with President Marcos," Nathanielsz wrote. "I told him then that Marcos has bestowed on me the cherished right of citizenship, for which I would be eternally grateful because being accepted as a Filipino was the highest honor one could receive."
Nathanielsz, who was born in Sri Lanka, was granted Filipino citizenship by Marcos in May 1973, citing his "long and continuous service to the Filipino people in the field of journalism."
His unabashed allegiance to the Marcoses was in full display — and journalistic virtues challenged — when as host of the "Face the Nation" talk show in the late 1970s, Nathanielsz was taken to task by Ninoy Aquino for his loyalty to the dictatorship.
Boxing expert and lawyer Ed Tolentino said critics went after Nathanielsz for being a Marcos loyalist "when they have nothing else to throw at Ronnie." "The thing with Ronnie is that he doesn't mix his dual personalities," Tolentino said. "When he talks sports, it's all about sports. Politics? He knows there is another forum for that."
When Nathanielsz expressed his opinion, Tolentino said he was "firm but fair." "What makes Ronnie a great boxing commentator, broadcaster is simple: He is not beholden to anyone," Tolentino said.
"He is not just another voice in the wilderness of Philippine sports. He freely spoke his mind about every issue and offered more than the proverbial 10 cents' worth of opinion. He cared about every athlete, particularly boxers as boxing is very close to him."
In his last tweet, Nathanielsz blasted the leadership of the Philippine Olympic Committee for the way it handled the election of its leaders. In the Standard-Today column, he said he had aspired to become a boxer but he was diagnosed with an irregular heartbeat in his late teens, which essentially derailed his ambitions of becoming a fighter.
Nathanielsz said he took pride in working as a "broadcast journalist," and alluded to having lived his life to the fullest. "I may not have reached the heights of success I desired," he wrote, "but it was never for want of trying." - with a report from Dyan Castillejo, ABS-CBN News
From Around the World
Fellow members of the media, boxers and followers took to social media to express their condolences to the family of Nathanielsz.
“Rest in Paradise Ronnie Nathanielz. You were always a big supporter of mine and will miss the days we would just sit and talk boxing,” Brian Viloria said in a tweet.
“What a sad day. My dear friend Ronnie Nathanielsz just passed #RIPRonnie,” said national team coach Chot Reyes.
“Woke up to sad news of Ronnie Nathanielsz’s passing. Ran into him a few times last month while covering Pacquiao’s training camp at Elorde (Mall of Asia) and was on board last September for an interview when I dropped by the training of another fighter in Caloocan. Enjoyed his narratives about the old, old days of boxing. Sad to hear…” said another veteran boxing scribe Nick Giongco of the Manila Bulletin in a Facebook post.
“I will miss you so much Ronnie. Thank you so much for everything you taught me and most of all for being a friend of the family since I was 12 yrs old. The family will have a funeral in SFO and later his remains will be flown to Manila,” posted sports broadcaster Dyan Castillejo on Instagram.
“RIP Mr. Ronnie Nathanielsz . you were one of my favorites growing up in the PBA. Condolences to the family,” said former PBA player and now commentator Ali Peek.
ABAP executive and fellow sports broadcaster Ed Picson also paid tribute to Nathanielsz in an Instagram post: “I had my differences with Ronnie-some of them major ones-but he never took them personally. He would still call me his “good friend” and would manage a convivial conversation even when at odds about an issue. Gone at a ripe age of 81, but still too soon. One thing many didn’t know about him-he was a darn good singer! And when asked to belt one out, invariably he would croon- “It’s a Sin To Tell a Lie”. Rest well, my friend.” Celest Flores-Colina
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
DR. SHEIK - MOHAMED FAHMY SIKKANDER.
From Dr Farouk Sikkander
Fahmy had almost his entire education at Wesley College Colombo. After an illustrious school career he entered the University of Ceylon in 1962 to follow a course in Veterinary Science. After qualifying as a Veterinary Surgeon in 1965 he worked for the Department of Agriculture in Polonnaruwa, Kegalle and Kurunegala . He then worked for the Colombo Municipality before joining Bairaha Farms at Kotaramulla. He retired at the age of 70. Fahmy was a fan of Country and Western music and had a huge collection of records and disks which gave him immense pleasure. Professionally he was greatly respected as a Veterinarian and remained a loyal friend and colleague to many. People will remember his kindly soft spoken manner and his wonderful wit and humour
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Fahmy was a year senior to me at school. He played Tennis and Badminton at school and represented the school at cricket at junior levels. He became a Veterinary Surgeon and worked for the Government and the Private Sector where his work was greatly valued and appreciated. I recall he too was with me working in Kurunegala. He loved his profession and worked diligently and had the steely resolve to get things done. We all appreciated and remember his quiet diplomacy and friendship. He made friends easily and was always chatty and genial. Fahmy lead a wonderfully fullfilled life and made a huge contribution to society in a multitude of ways.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Fahmy for his contribution to the life of the school.
1958 School Badminton Team
Standing LtoR: Rohan Wijesinghe, Farook Sikkander, SK Seneviratne, Fahmy Sikkander
Seated LtoR: Nimal Wijesinghe, Mr PH Nonis, PS Rodrigo (Capt), Mr Lanerolle, Mr Wilfred Wickramasinghe (Master in Charge)
Dr.Azad CADER,
From Dr Errol Baptist, Rockford, IL
Dear Josephine and family,
Azad was my very good friend from Medical School. He was a very honest, sincere, kind, soft-spoken, and gentle person. Above all he was God-fearing and deep in faith.
I was happy that I was able to talk with him since the time he fell ill. It is with great sadness that I heard of his passing away. Of him, we could say with St.Paul, "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."
My wife Rosemary and I send his family our sincere condolences. May God bless you all and keep you in His care.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It was with great sadness I received the news that Azad Cader passed away on the 1st of November 2016. He and his brothers Hilmi, Nizar and Iqbal were all at Wesley. Azad was always a quiet person very thoughtful and kind. Being rather studious he was the recipient of many awards and prizes at the school Prize Giving. But such recognition did not affect his personality and always remained self-effacing and unassuming. He would never seek the limelight. Azad was a keen tennis player.
At Medical School he was a year junior to me and sailed through the strenuous and demanding 5 years with consummate ease. Azad was often seen in the common room in deep thought playing contract bridge.
After internship Azad emigrated to the USA and settled in Richmond, Virginia. Dr. Cader was a Pediatrian and Specialized in Pediatric cancers and leukemia. He was the Director of Medical Services for Henrico County, State Director for Infectious Diseases, Immunizations and AIDs. He was the medical consultant for the military and Social Security. He remained an avid tennis player.
During his time in Virginia he remained a virtual recluse. Many of his friends when contacting him found him a rather changed Azad Cader but as always he remained polite and courteous. In truth, they knew very little of that warm but reserved person he was all along. It must be said there aren't many who are thoughtful and generous like Azad.
I spent a fortnights holiday with my family in the historic town of Williamsburg Virginia in 2001 and never knew Azad was just an hours drive away from me in Richmond VA. I would have loved to meet my old friend to reminisce the good times of long ago. We had so much in common. Sadly this was not to be as I never knew Azad's contact details and where he lived. A great opportunity was missed by the awesome forces of destiny.
In the past 4 years he suffered from a progressive debilitating neurological condition. He bore his final illness with courage and fortitude. In all the ups and downs of his life he was superbly supported by Josephine his wife of 42 years.
He lived his life with great dignity and was hugely respected by his patients, their families, his work colleagues and his own family. We will miss his sense of fun, good humour, warmth and his thoughtful kindness. On behalf of the brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank him for his contribution to the life of the school. His genuine smile and cheeky grin will be a lasting memory for us all.
Personally the thought that I will not see him again brings me great sadness.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
YU - Dr. MA HUNG - The Yu family would like to notify friends of
Dr. Ma Hung Yu, former GP at Chalfont Road Surgery, London, UK of his untimely death on Sunday 8th January 2017. Husband to Zakia Yu, the late Dr. Rukhsana Majeed, father to Marium Yu, son of Chin Win Yu and late Shum Mei Yu, brother to the late Dr. Shee Hung Yu, Dr. Koa Hung Yu, Nan Hung Yu, Lar Hung Yu and Sai Hung Yu. Funeral will take place on Monday January 16th, starting with a viewing (11 am) and prayers (1pm) at Edmonton Islamic Centre. Final graveside funeral ceremony will commence from 2.30 p.m. at New Southgate Cemetery. More information can be obtained from Edmonton Mosque
From the O&G Magazine
Dr Ma Hung Yu was born in Sri Lanka in 1950. He undertook his schooling and undergraduate medical training in Columbo, where he graduated MBBS in 1976.
He then travelled to the UK where he worked in a variety of hospitals in England and Wales, gaining his Diploma and Membership of the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (RCOG) in 1983 and 1988 respectively.
In 1991, he travelled to New Zealand, where he worked as a senior registrar at the Waikato Women’s Hospital. He became a Fellow of the Royal New Zealand College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (RNZCOG) in 1992 and moved to Invercargill to take up a full-time position in the department of obstetrics and gynaecology. For a short time, he did have a limited private surgical practice. His work in Invercargill involved a teaching role with the University of Otago Medical School.
Following the amalgamation of the Australian and New Zealand Colleges in 1998, Ma Hung became a Fellow of RANZCOG. In 2002, he moved to London where he joined his brother, also a doctor, and worked in general practice.
Ma Hung married Dr Rukshana Majeed, an O&G with whom he worked with in Invercargill. The couple had one young child, Mariam, to whom Ma Hung was very devoted. Tragically, Rukshana died after a short illness with a brain tumour. Ma Hung later married Zakia, a teacher from Pakistan.
Ma Hung had a keen interest in sport, especially rugby, soccer and cricket. He had represented the Columbo University in rugby and rowing. He also had a surprisingly wide general knowledge covering many subjects.
He was a quiet and diffident man who was always punctual and well presented. His overall clinical competency was very good, his surgical work and academic knowledge sound, and he was well organised. He was diligent in maintaining his ongoing education and was an efficient administrator.
Ma Hung died on 8 January 2017, and is survived by his wife Zakia and daughter Mariam.
Wesley College Rugby XV 1967
Radley Lorenz CLAESSEN
From Prof.Justin Labrooy - Adelaide, Australia
Radley Claessen: An Appreciation
June 25, 2017 Justin Labrooy
In January this year, Radley Claessen, a founder member and past President of ASLA, passed away peacefully at home after a full and active 85 Radley and Brian years. The first twenty seven years of Radley’s life were spent in Colombo. He distinguished himself at his Alma Mater, Wesley College, where he was Senior Prefect and Captain of a Wesley cricket team which carried all before it in 1952. Radley’s prominence in sport led onto a career in journalism with The Times of Ceylon where he subsequently became Night Editor. He married Angela in 1954 and the eldest of their children, Desiree, was born in Colombo. In 1958 the family migrated to Australia, leaving a country undergoing rapid political change to a new life and the challenges of establishing itself in a new environment.
After a brief spell at the iconic “Eagle on the Hill” service station owned by another Sri Lankan expatriate, Bruce Collette, Radley moved to the Hospitals Department. In 1963, he was appointed Publicity and Promotions Officer in the Highways Department of South Australia where he was able to utilise his previous experience as a journalist. He continued in this position till he retired in 1985. He was highly regarded by his many colleagues and friends in the Highways Department.
His impact and contribution in the wide world outside of work were also significant. Radley and others of his generation were among the first wave of migrants from Sri Lanka to settle in Adelaide. The Claessen clan, which was a micro-community in itself, was active in reaching out to others who came later and were trying to find their feet in a new country. Radley and Angela were founder-members of ASLA which came into being in the mid-1970’s. ASLA rapidly became a venue for new migrants, others who had an affinity with Sri Lanka, and for their families, to get to know each other at ASLA functions such as the annual Christmas party and New Year’s Eve Dance. Radley was President of this Association for 2 years in the 1980’s. He was appointed as the first Honorary Consul for Sri Lanka in South Australia around this time. He was also a Justice of the Peace at Campbelltown Council for over 30 years.
My first awareness of Radley dates to 1952 when I read of him and heard of the exploits of the Claessen brothers, Radley and Bryan, on the cricket field. My first meeting with him and Angela would have been at ASLA in 1976, following which we developed a life-long friendship. I had the privilege of providing medical care for them through serious health challenges and got to know much about them and their family. I learnt even more about their lives at the beautiful commemorative service held for Radley after his death in January this year. At this service, members of his family eloquently described aspects of his early life, how he met and married Angela, their devoted marriage, and the loving nurture and support given to his children, Desiree, Patsy, Debbie and Russell and their families. This was reciprocated by all of them, particularly in the last years of Radley’s life when he resolutely continued to live on, after Angela’s death, in the house he had built for her many years before. His life as a committed Christian was also highlighted.
I will end with a brief cricketing verse which epitomises this gentleman who greatly enriched the lives of those of us who knew him:
To write against your name,
He writes not if you won or lost
But how you played the game”.
From Keith de Kretser
Dear Wesleyites
It is with profound sadness that I inform you of the passing of Radley Lorensz Claessen the last of the Claessen brothers – Douglas, Hector, Bryan and Hermon (all decd.) who passed away peacefully at home on Sunday evening 22/01/2017. The Claessen brothers strode the corridors of Wesley College and the turf at Campbell Park with distinction during the late 1940’s – 1950’s. A distinguished innings has come to an end.
On behalf of the world wide alumni community I extend our prayers and sympathy to his family on their loss. May his soul enjoy eternal rest.
A CRICKETER'S LAST BOUNDARY By Michael Ashby
For the cricket ball writ with a noble name
A team of ten, which had once been eleven
Would never be the same side again
Since this wicket had fallen some days ago
And as the bowler delivered to the lone batsman
The hushed crowd willed a six to go
The sweet smell… of freshly cut grass
The cricketer… crossing the last boundary
To a third innings that would forever last
Photos from Upali Perera
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| Upali Perera,Ranjit Alwis,Warwick De Kretser,Errol Smith, Radley Claessen and Everard Reimers |
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| Radley with his daughters and son - Desiree, Radley, Patsy, Debbie and Russell |
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| Warwick, Upali, Radley,Ranjit and Errol (dinner at Warwick's house) |
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| Radley Lorenz Claessen |
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I received the news from Upali Perera in Melbourne that Radley Claessen passed away peacefully at his residence in Adelaide, Australia. It is the end of a long and colourful innings.
Radley captained the unbeaten Wesley College Cricket Team in 1952. Tall, wide-shouldered and strong he was built for the game. In the cricket field he was an astute leader, a powerful, accurate bowler and a stylish and elegant batsman. In 1952 St Thomas' was captained by C.A Barrow who won their "Big Match" against Royal College by 8 wickets when Royal was captained by L.Hewavitharne. In 1952 St Josephs was captained by Ken Serpanchy and St Peters by HIK Fernando. The Josephians won their "Big match" by an innings. With such strong cricket teams Wesley College did remarkably well to remain unbeaten.
The 1950's were the Golden era of cricket at Wesley. They are remembered by old boys with great nostalgia and have now entered the folklore of the school. Not only have we enjoyed those performances, as schoolboys we have remembered them all our lives. Campbell Park was our amphitheatre. To watch the games we assembled under the massive "Mara" trees that surrounded the grounds. "Zam Zam Zaky" and the school song broke out spontaneously. We beat the drums, waved the flags, sang the bailas and danced unashamedly. To us those years have been one rich gift.
The likes of Radley Claessen have raised the bar and set the benchmark for others to follow. To uphold those values and maintain those rich and healthy traditions will be the best tribute to Radley.
(For the heroes of cricket, like others, must die),
Our bats we'll resign, neither troubled nor vex'd,
And give up our wickets to those that come next.
1952 was a remarkable year for Radley when he was appointed the Senior Prefect of the school. As the Head Prefect Radley was reserved but charming and dignified and earned the respect of both the students and staff alike. He was scrupulously knowledgeable of the ways and procedures of this high office and conducted himself with great distinction.
After distinguished career at Wesley Radley Claessen left to become a journalist at the Times of Ceylon where he remained for five years before emigrating to Adelaide. In the beautiful city of Adelaide Radley worked in the Department of Transport. He enjoyed his work but retired at the age of 54 due to ill-health. Radley continued his Public Service as the Honorary Consul for Sri Lanka in South Australia and also as Justice of Peace. Radley regarded good civic sense as both a virtue and a duty. He believed not only in the principle of public service but its power if one worked hard enough, to affect events and get things done. As expected he was never a pushover and fought for what thought was right.
At home Radley was a devoted family man and thought a world of his wife, son and daughters
Radley embraced technology and was a regular emailer. He never failed to reply emails when the journalist in him resurfaced. He wrote with great flair and frankness recalling events of the past bringing them back to life.
Radley continued his Public Service Commitments while caring for his family. Time passed relentlessly. Many times he had postponed his visit to Sri Lanka due to health issues. Then came the irresistible desire to see his old school again, meet his friends and see Campbell Park where he played his cricket. He knew this would be for the last time. In 2013 he travelled to Sri Lanka with his daughters. There at Wesley he walked the long corridors, visited the classrooms where he once sat and saw the Great Hall where he stood to attention during assembly as the Senior Prefect. Radley metup with his many friends wining and dining at the Old Wesleyites Sports Club at Campbell Park. This was a most memorable get-together. Speeches were made and glasses were raised in toast. The Wesleyites welcomed and entertained Radley and his family most lavishly. Then came the time to part. The Old Boys were sad to see the Claessens leave as Radley was to say goodbye to Wesley and his friends for the last and final time.
On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites I am immensely grateful to Radley for his huge contribution to the life of the school. We wish to pass on our condolences to his immediate family.
Much has been written about Radley and his years at Wesley which are now available in the Double Blue International. It is a nostalgic trip down memory lane and I hope you can create time to read through, to revisit those halcyon days and pay your respects to an extraordinary and exceptional Wesleyite. His legend will live on.
Please Click on the links below for access.
Links to further reading
- Radley Claessen - A Tribute by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
- Radley Claessen's visit to Wesley College - April 2013
- Radley Claessen returns for last farewell to Sri Lanka By Kenneth de Silva
- Cedric Oorloff by Radley Claessen
- Wesley's Royal Command Performances (1950 - 1953) By Bryan Claessen
- When the Claessen brothers were big news By Elmo Rodrigopulle
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ETERNAL PEACE
Ronald Mack De Kretser
A Service of Thanksgiving in celebration of the life of Ronald Mack De Kretser will be held at the Dandenong Christian Reformed Church, cnr Outlook Dve and Gladstone Rd, Dandenong Nth on SATURDAY (May 13, 2017) at 5.30 p. m.
From Brian Azoor - Secretary Australian OBU
I wish to notify you of the passing of Ronald Mack De Kretser, who is one of our fraternity and on behalf of the alumni, I extend our sympathies to his family & friends on their loss. May his soul rest in peace.
From Mike Siebel
So sad about Ron but he was suffering and it is a blessing really. Ron & I started schooling together at Royal Primary when we were 5. We then continued at Wesley and continued till we left college.
From the Editor of the DBI
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Ronald for his friendship and contribution to the life of the school.
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ETERNAL PEACE
NATHANIELSZ. Russel
From Keith de Kretser
Dear Wesleyites
I sadly report the passing of Russell Nathanielsz known as Gulba to his friends after a brief illness. His brothers were also at Wesley - Ronnie(dec.) and Tyrone. Further details regarding funeral arrangements will be forthcoming.
On behalf of the Wesley alumni our sincere condolences and our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.
Dear Wesleyites
Further to my previous email, I have provided below the funeral details and the family death notice in the local newspaper.
Russell lived in the northern suburbs of Melbourne and for many years operated a Sri Lankan grocery store to serve the SL community in the northern suburbs. Russell was a devout Catholic and spent most of his spare time doing charity work for the poor and displaced in Sri Lanka under the banner of Combined Charity
I received a lovely email from Russell Firth (UK) which stated the following of how Russell received the nickname of “Galba”. “Hello Keith,
I was sad to hear of Russell Nathanielsz's demise. For all these years he has been rather quiet .I never knew what he did or his subsequent career.One thing of interest to you….In the Latin class I gave him the nickname of ‘GALBA’, after the Roman Emperor of that name. Galba was short individual, and only lasted for 7 months as Emperor before being killed by his guards. Russell too was a short guy and had similar features as the Emperors portrait bust. The name was apt, and stuck!!! God rest his soul.” ………….
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ETERNAL PEACE
From Wihelm VanDort, President Wesley College OBU Colombo
This is to inform the Wesley fraternity of the sad passing away of Distinguished Old Boy Mr. Jehan Cassim who has done yeoman service for Wesley College and the Grounds. He was the former Chairman of the Bank of Ceylon, Mr. Jehan Cassim is the father of Mr. Farman Cassim President of the OWSC, / Vice President of the OBU and Dr. Kaleel Cassim Consultant Rheumatologist at Sri Jayawardanepura Hospital.
Janaza will leave residence at Karlsruhe Gardens Borella at 5.00pm today Saturday 15th to Kuppiyawatte Burial Grounds.
From AHM Azwer
After attending a glittering wedding ceremony of my niece Huda, in Scarborough, Ontario, I received an SMS from my good friend Omar Kamil (former Mayor of Colombo) giving me the sad news of the demise of Jehan K. Cassim. I felt a profound pang of sorrow. It was quite recently that I visited Jehan with my good friend F.A. Yassin, (former President of the Sri Lanka Football Federation), another close friend of Jehan, at his residence down Lake Drive in Rajagiriya. He had been bed-ridden for a long time and showed no sign of recovery, although his beloved wife was meticulously attending to his medical care.
I came to know Jehan about 50 years ago, in the company of some great Muslim leaders at that time at the All-Ceylon Muslim League. His father and uncle – Kamar Cassim and Senator Shums Cassim, were close associates of Dr. T.B. Jayah, Dr MCM Kaleel, Al Haj Falil, A. Caffoor, Jabir A. Cader, MACM Saleh, great stalwarts in the independence movement. Jehan followed the footsteps of his elders and the Muslim League leadership in all social, religious and political spheres, which inspired him in later life to work in the cause of Sri Lankan Muslims.
Jehan always stood for national unity and amity among all sections of the people. Not only did he build up a sense of great brotherhood with the learned Ulemas of Bahjatul Ibrahimiya, a seat of higher Islamic learning in the South (Galle) – the place where even Mamoon Abdul Gayoom graduated in Arabic – but also established a close rapport and friendship with all the Sinhala leadership including learned Buddhist monks, like Ven. Elle Gunawanse Thera and leaders of other religious communities. He was a true protagonist of reconciliation and a bridge builder of peace and unity following the principles and philosophy of the national leader, Dr T.B. Jayah.
Jehan threw in his lot with President Premadasa, and was a tower of strength to the President in his forward march of development. He gave immense support to his Gam Udawa programmes, joining hands with B. Sirisena Cooray to make it successful. Jehan indeed followed Sirisena as the Chairman of the newly created Common Amenities Board.
The success story of Jehan saw him appointed as the Chairman of the Bank Of Ceylon. The international Muslim factor also drew the attention of Jehan. He backed me to the hilt whenever I approached President Premadasa to close the Israeli Interest Section working in this country at that time. Jehan was the happiest man when Premadasa declared that all inimical forces against the interest of Sri Lankan Muslim population would be closed down.
Jehan was also an encouraging factor in the establishment of the Ahadiya school at the Sucharita Hall parallel with the Budhhist Daham Pasala. He urged us to encourage the President in the establishment of a Fund for Muslim widows with Sheriffdeen, (later Ambassador to Kuwait) as its secretary.
During my political career, Jehan always prompted me towards social welfare activities. The Sri Lanka-Arab Friendship and Economic Association which he founded elected him as its President. The late A.A.M. Marleen (later Ambassador to Saudi Arabia), Omar Kamil and I were Vice Presidents while Ifthikar Aziz was Secretary and FA Yaseen among others played an important role to broaden Saudi and Arab relationships.
Jehan possessed superlative qualities – he was soft spoken, polite, kindhearted, forthright, humble, trustworthy, dedicated, and utterly devoted to the task assigned to him. He was an utmost patriot who loved his country dearly. In all sense of the words he was the most gentle gentleman I have come across in public life.
From the Editor DBI
On behalf of the brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Jehan Cassim for his contribution to the life of the school and for his achievements and accomplishments for the greater good of the country.
Gerald de Zilwa (1929 to 2017)
A Service of Thanksgiving for Gerald de Zilwa will be held at St Andrew’s Presbyterian Church corner of Clayton Road and Shandau Avenue, Clayton on FRIDAY 4 August 2017 at 1:00 p.m. Following the service the cortege will proceed to Springvale Botanic Cemetery 600 Princes Highway, Springvale for burial in the grounds at approximately 2:45 p.m. Flowers welcome. However donations may be made to the Heart Foundation.
From Keith de Kretser
It is with sadness that I inform you of the passing of Gerald de Zilwa. Gerald was at Wesley during the pre WW II years and during the war. He married Kathleen the sister of Cecil and Arthur d’With-Barbut (both Wesleyites). Gerald was an inaugural member of the OBU Australia Branch and served on the committee. He was a regular participant in OBUA activities for many years and last attended a Senior Members lunch. Gerald was one of the pioneers in the formation of the Australia Ceylon Fellowship, a social club that was formed to serve the ex-pat Burgher community in Melbourne in the late 1950’s. On behalf of the alumni I extend our heartfelt sympathy to Kathleen and the family at this sad time.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I received the news of the demise of yet another true blue Wesleyite with deep sadness. It was such a great privilege to meet Gerald and Kathleen in February 2009 in Melbourne when the OBUA most kindly arranged a meeting and a dinner for me. The old Wesley smoothness had rubbed off on him and he was such a cultured gentleman in every sense of the word. I consider it a great honour to have been in email contact with Gerald. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I send my condolences to Kathleen, Arthur and Glenys and the rest of the close family.
I thank Gerald for his friendship and contribution to the life of the school and for his support for Wesley and the OBU right through from its humble beginnings. The Seniors have lost a genuine friend and Wesley a faithful and devoted old boy.
Gerald gave a fine Eulogy for his brother-in-law Cecil
Links to further reading
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ETERNAL PEACE
From the Daily News Sri Lanka
Thursday, August 10, 2017 - 01:00
Senior journalist, sportsman, musician, culinary expert and raconteur, Peter Christie passed away last Thursday in London after a brief illness. He was 71.
A colourful, multi-talented figure, there was never a dull moment when Peter was around in the news rooms of the Daily News where he had his last stint as a journalist before migrating to Old Blighty. He could keep an audience regaled by his anecdotes which were invariably of his own making and had his own brand of swearwords which were the stock in trade in Kotahena where he resided most of his life.
As a journalist, Peter was in a class of his own and garnished his copies with a vocabulary which only he was capable of conjuring, especially as parliamentary lobby correspondent, where he brought forth his talent in ample measure.
When Peter was around, the corridors of Lake House always reverberated with his loud mouthed banter, bringing peals of laughter in those at the receiving end of his peculiar brand of humour displayed with little or no finesse.
Peter will be missed by his colleagues in all the newspaper houses he worked for and which he enlivened, as only he was capable of. - Rodney
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From the Daily Mirror of 8th August 2017
Peter Christie (Casie Chetty) — a well-known cricketer, veteran journalist, international chef and musician among other talents— passed away last week at Liverpool in Britain. He was 71.
Peter William Sinclair Christie, he later took his mother’s name Casie Chetty, was one of the leading cricketers at Wesley College where he emerged for many years as the highest wicket-taker in school. One of his most notable achievements was a hat-trick against Trinity College. He later played for the Bloomfield Sports Club and Burgher Recreation Club (BRC) in first division cricket.
Peter Christie or Casie Chetty took to journalism as a sports reporter for the Daily News in the 1970s. Being enterprising, innovative and wanting to specialize in other fields also, he went overseas to France, Britain and other countries.
Later in life he came back to journalism and worked for several years at the Daily Mirror with his knowledge of sports and imaginative writing style being widely acclaimed specialize in other fields also, he went overseas to France, Britain and other countries. Family members say one of his great achievements was as an international chef, making dishes that were as tasty as his spin bowling and writing style.
Though he suffered many illnesses, Peter was known for his laughter and good humour, forgetting whatever trials or tribulations he may have been going through.
May his soul rest in the peace of God.
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From Keith de Kretser
Dear Wesleyites
It is with sadness that I report the passing of Peter Casie Chetty aka Peter Christie. He had not answered his phone for a couple of days when his sister Rachel had rung him. So she had a friend check up on him and found that Peter had passed away in his sleep.
Peter rang me on Wednesday this week at about 11;30 a.m. Melbourne time which came as a surprise as it was 3;30 a.m. in Manchester, UK and his death comes as quite a shock to me though I am grateful he passed away in his sleep and his soul is resting peacefully. We had a long chat and he told me that recently he had been having a number of falls due to his neuropathy in his feet due to Diabetes. He was also labouring in his speech and rang me to somewhat apologise for the recent spate of emails on the subject of “Blazer fabric”.
Peter was a lovable rogue who expressed his “views” without fear or fervour in colourful language unbecoming of a gentleman. But that was Peter. Love him or hate him for his caustic views on the Church, religion and the pretentious people in our society, he always spoke his mind. Some of us were offended by his commentary on various subjects and elected to reject his emails. But I know that deep within his soul was a kind and generous person but a troubled man whose character had been moulded by his life experiences that he had endured which created such strong views. “The voice” of the Wesleyite alumni community is finally silent. He will be missed.
I have spoken to the family and I have been informed that his body will be cremated in the UK and that his ashes will be interred in Sri Lanka. When I get further news, I will pass it on.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rain fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May GOD hold you
in the palm of His hand.
Rest peacefully my dear friend.
Ora et Labora
Keith de Kretser
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From the OBUA Newsletter 2012
Peter Christie in Australia
Peter Casiechetty or as he was known at College as Peter Christie was on a whirl wind tour of Australia. Peter who has been domiciled in the UK has always wanted to visit OZ and he began his tour in WA where he caught up with friends and then stopped along the way in Melbourne, Sydney and Brisbane doing the same before returning to the UK via Colombo after attending the Cricketers Re-Union. The wily off-spinner has grown a beard and no longer looks like the “Hungry Cow Poke” he once was. Trevor Collette and Keith de Kretser joined Peter and his cousin Raj Gnanamuttu for dinner when he was in Melbourne.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
A voice of honesty and integrity for all matters about Wesley has gone silent with the passing of a dear friend, Peter Casiechetty. Although he antagonised some with his rhetoric he was a good man and had a heart of gold. Despite writing about many controversial issues about school over so many years not once have I had any verbal duel with Peter. There were times we agreed to disagree like Wesleyites should.
Peter was an honest man and no one doubted his intense loyalty to Wesley. He carried these traits with him all through life in an uncompromising way. Although I disliked the language he used at times there was some truth and a lot of sincerity in his arguments.
Death is the great reminder that this life is limited, and that it may not be the end. For most of our lives, we behave as if this is not so. Many of us know that Peter was an outspoken atheist and of his hostile views on religion but deep down he believed in the teachings that were drilled into him all through school. This surfaced unknowingly to him in times of crises.
On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Peter for his contribution to the life of the school. His contribution to cricket on and off the field and his well publicised disagreements and battles by email will pass on to the folklore of the school.
The myriad of Wesley Old Boy's emails that surf the ether and reach our homes will never be the same again without Peter's colourful expletives and profanities. He kept us on our toes!!
Away from the unparliamentary outbursts Peter was a fine journalist with a good command of the English language. He has contributed numerous interesting and informative articles to the Sri Lankan newspapers and to Wesley College Websites. Here are some he has written for the Double Blue International.
Links to further reading
- Chandran Perera and the 1962- 1964 seasons by Peter Casie Chitty
- Golden oldies on show at Wesley six-a-side by Peter Christie
- Ananda-Wesley revive cricket ties by Peter Christie
- Darrell Maye -- the first Wesleyite to win School Boy cricketer
- Edmund Dissanayake and Wesley's Cricket By Peter Christie
- The Hamers brothers and Wesley College
- Down Memory Lane - Cricket Photos sent by Peter Casiechetty
- The good,bad and great days of Wesley Cricket by Peter Casie Chetty
- MN Samsudeen - The Cricketer and a Gentleman By Peter Casie Chetty
- In Memoriam - Norman ARMSTRONG
- In Memoriam - Donald W.Thurairatnam by Peter Casiechitty
- Wesley College is an institute reputed for racial harmony
- Wesley College - 140 years by Peter Casie Chetty
- Robin - Blubber by Peter Casiechetty
There are many who genuinely feel privileged they knew him.
I will miss Peter's cheeky grin and friendly smile.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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KENNETH HONTER
From Cumar Rodrigo
Kenny had a stroke some years back and recovered well enough to drive to work at Sarva Advertising opposite BRC on Havelock Road. He was formerly at CWE Advertising Dept. Kenny played First Eleven Hockey in 1964 & 1965. Kenny’s wife was a well-known songstress Noeline Mendis.
Kenny's colleagues Tyronne Maye, Shari Musafer and recently Peter Christie pre-deceased him.
isn’t having to say goodbye,
but rather learning to live without them.
Always trying to fill the void,
the emptiness that’s left inside your heart when they go.”
Hi. ALL,
Paid my respects on behalf of you all last evening.
According to his wife Noeline, Kenny had, had a fall in the wash room, knocked his head on some ceramic fixture and gone into a coma for two months. The surgery performed had not been successful.......sadly.........and so closes the life's chapter of one of the most colourful, but yet unheralded Gentleman- Wesleyites.....he was an all- rounder ......offering his relative prowess into academics, sports, extra- curricular school work, .......an unsung hero, but it was to both profession and camaraderie he did go over board - personally I could testify.
Sava Advertizing Group which he headed from inception, had put a very colourful emphatic half page message in today's Daily Mirror.
.......hope to see a fair Wesley representation at the service and funeral this evening.
Regards.
Cumar
From the Editor DBI
On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank Kenneth for his contribution to the life of the school and for the tremendous loyalty he has shown as an old boy.
Ora et labora
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Leonard Haig Lister MALONEY 14.3.1944 -18.9.2017
From Keith de Kretser
It is with sadness that I report the sudden passing of Haig Maloney brother of Bryan and Patrick. Haig was with me last Friday at our weekly choir practice. He passed away peacefully on Monday afternoon after mowing the lawns and was called to his eternal home whilst having a rest. Our thoughts and sincere condolences are with his dear wife Jill and children, brothers Bryan, Patrick and their families as they cope with his sudden passing.
May he enjoy eternal rest.
From the editor Double Blue International
It is with great sadness I note the passing of Haig Maloney. He was a polite gentle soul with a wonderful sense of humour. He lived in Borella close to the YMBA near the General cemetery. I recall collecting money from his parents on 'Chip a job week'. Haig played for the school Rugby XV in 1961.
On behalf of the worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
Ora et labora
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ETERNAL PEACE
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Ranjit's brother was Mr.NAB Fernando, our former Principal of Wesley College.
I was a boarder with Ranjit in the 1950's which is considered as the Golden years of that great institution. He was a few years senior to me but as we were together in Maxwell De Alwis' school choir I got to know Ranjit well. We took part in the Christmas carols, Lenten music and the Operettas. With his charm, charisma and humour he lit up the place where ever he went.
He left Wesley after the Senior School Certificate. I then lost contact with Ranjit until many years later when I received an email from him. He was then in Copenhagen, Denmark and I was in London. We kept in touch with phone calls and emails. He was then happily married to a Danish girl and had a family. We often reminisced of the good old days and of the mischief and laughter which was endemic in the boarding.
He told me of his battle with kidney cancer which was in remission for many years. Finally the disease caught up with him and he was able to describe his battles with his usual humour. His wife passed away suddenly just before Christmas last year. He was heartbroken but fought on attending hospital appointments and continuing treatment.
I had the last call from him in July 2017 when he said the situation wasn't good and he was receiving care at home. He received wonderful care and support from his children who lived near him. Amazingly he was able to make fun and laugh about it all. I did feel at the time this was his last goodbye but he didn't want to say it. Then the phone went silent for several weeks until I heard yesterday from a fellow Wesleyite, Rohan Amarasinghe, living in Copenhagen, that Ranjit passed away in July.
I have lost a wonderful and genuine friend and Wesley has lost a loyal old boy. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
Links to further reading
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Lt-CMDR Derrick Basil Clive Mack - RAN, Retired. 16.5.30-2.10.17
Devoted husband of Bernice for 61 years. Beloved father and father-in-law of Garvin & Michelle, Karen & Glen, Janine, Brett, Darren & Michelle. Adored Papa of Charlyn, Alicia, Justin, Julia, Corinne, Isobel, Jaiden, Caitlin, Joseph & Lola. A cherished brother to Vivian, June, Douglas & Peggy.
Sadly missed & admired by all who knew him. Aged 87 years.
Relatives & friends of the late Derrick Mack are invited to attend his Funeral Service on MONDAY (October 9th, 2017) to be held within Mary Immaculate Catholic Church, 110 Mimosa Rd (Entry off Restwell Rd), commencing at 12 pm.
Following the Service the Cortege will proceed to Rookwood Catholic Crematorium for 2 pm.
From Keith de Kretser
Lt Commander Derrick Mack – passed away peacefully in Sydney last afternoon aged 87. Derrick was 1st XI skipper in 1950 and 1951. He was one of four brothers that attended Wesley College being Douglas, Vivian and Spencer (dec.). His younger brother Spencer also played 1st XI cricket. Derrick was an active member of the OBU New South Wales Branch until recent times.
On behalf of the alumni community I extend our sympathies and prayers to both families as they grieve the loss of their loved one.
May they find eternal rest.
Ora et Labora
From Bashur Musafer
Derrick Mack graduated from the University of Peradeniiya and was a teacher and coached the junior cricket teams at Wesley for a short time. He later joined the Royal Ceylon Navy and when he migrated to Australia joined the Royal Australian Navy. I think he retired in the rank of Lt Commander in the equivalent rank of a Major in the Army. Another Sri Lankan naval officer who joined the Royal Australian Navy was Alan Henricus a rugger player of repute. He was on board an Australian warship when Australia joined the war in Vietnam and as he was only a permanent resident at that time he was made an Australian Citizen immediately with the blessings of Canberra. These two officers had the benefit of being in the Royal Ceylon Navy and transferred to the Royal Australian Navy in one rank lesser to that held in the RCYN. Royal Connections of being in the Commonwealth!
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with sadness I received the news of the demise of yet another stalwart of my time at Wesley. Derrick captained cricket 1950/51 and was the Senior Prefect in 1951. I can still remember Derrick as a tall and handsome figure standing at attention as the Senior Prefect in the Great Hall during school assembly. He was kind as he was firm. It was then a rare feat for cricketers to proceed to University. Derrick studied the Arts at the University of Peradeniya and briefly was a teacher at Wesley. At school I remember Derrick as a reserved dignified leader. He was a fine cricketer, a successful captain who gave us such great pleasure watching the team at Campbell Park.
It was a pleasure and a privilege to see Derrick with his brothers at the Grand Reunion at Wesley in 2012. He used a stick to get about but moved around freely speaking to friends and reminiscing. This showed his love and loyalty for his old school.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his immense contribution to the life of the school.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
BAKELMUN - ROGER KEITH.
From Keith de Kretser
Dear Wesleyites
I received the news of the passing of Roger Bakelmun in Sri Lanka. He is the brother of Ron and Adrian who were all at Wesley in the 1960’s before migrating to the UK. I extend prayers and sympathies to his family on behalf of the alumni community.
Ora et Labora
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ETERNAL PEACE
Graham DISSANAYAKE
From Keith de Kretser
Dear Wesleyites
I am saddened to report the passing of distinguished Old Wesleyite Graham Dissanayake, father of Mahendra and brother of Edmund. On behalf of the alumni community we extend our sympathy and prayers to his family and loved ones.
Rest in Peace.
Links to further reading
May he attain the ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
Sheran DE ALWIS:
A Tribute to Sheran De Alwis (Sheriff Fallil, 1942-2017) by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I received the news today that Sheriff Fallil passed away after a brief illness at his home in Perth, Australia. To me this is an end of an era. As I write this on a cold wind swept winters day in London I can hardly contain my emotions as a myriad of images flash through my mind. We Joined Wesley College together in Standard 2 in 1950. He went to the English stream and I to the Sinhala but we were both in the boarding which brought us closer together. I recall the many cricket matches we played in the blistering heat and the soccer in the driving rain in that dust bowl we called small park. Our quarrels raised the temperature, but our bonds always remained strong. I remember so well his father who was a Police Inspector visiting him in the boarding with his mum and five pretty sisters.
Sheriff was a studious guy and won prizes every year until he left the boarding in 1958. His parents then lived in Hampden lane, Wellawatte. . He always dressed well in brilliant white and turned out impeccably groomed with his Elvis Presley hair. Sheriff cycled to school everyday with a happy band of Wesleyites including Senthil Sinniah and Mohan Seneviratne. After leaving the boarding there was a sea change in his attitude to academia. Sheriff lost the focus on school work and preferred to enjoy the good life attending parties and going to the cinema with his many friends. At the GCE he got the necessary 5 credits to move to the 6th form and apply to enter medical school. We were together in the 6th form and that was without doubt the best years of our lives. As many of us were prefects we had the privilege of going in and out of school at will. We often sloped off to roam the streets, chase girls, go to the matinee, and enjoy a thosai feed at Saraswathy Lodge. Sheriff was a prefect (1960-62) and a good one whom everyone respected. He was a fine sportsman and captained the school Tennis team. He played 1st XV Rugby and was vice captain to Daya Perera. Sadly, his good life caught up with him and he didn’t get the grades to enter University.
Sheriff left Wesley in 1962. His father was keen for him to go into medicine although his heart wasn’t in it. He joined Acquinas College for another attempt at the university entrance examination without success. He then chose to be a planter and Joined Whitall Bousteads as a trainee in 1964. Sheriff now had found his calling in life. He became a General Manager at the age of 27 and a Visiting agent at 37. He had a meteoric rise in the profession to become a Senior Director in the Agriculture Development Authority under the late Mr. Ranjan Wijeratne Minister of Plantations. The trouble and turmoil in the plantation sector in the 1970’s was unsettling. Many planters left the profession. Sheriff weathered the storm for some years but found it was a futile struggle. He left Sri Lanka in 1982 accepting an appointment in Sabah Malaysia where he worked until 1986. He moved again this time to Perth, Australia and took Australian Citizenship in 1988. Then he returned to Asia doing plantations management working for a large international conglomerate based in Indonesia as Director of Operations with the Forestry Division of Sinar Mas Group.
Sheriff married a Sri Lankan Singhalese girl from Havelock Town and divorced after 30 years of marriage. He has a son and a daughter from his first marriage. They both live in Perth with their families. While working in Sabah he met Mui Lan, a Malaysian Chinese, when she was a teacher in a local school. They soon got married. She survives him with his children from his first marriage.
After Malaysia Sheriff wanted a change. That was typical of the man. He wanted to experience Africa. He started work in Ethiopia and then moved to Liberia. After a few years he decided to call it a day. Sheriff’s final rest was Perth. He was fond of the social media like Facebook, WhatsApp and email. He sent some interesting and amusing stuff – some naughty but nice and others deeply philosophical and religious. We often communicated using WhatsApp chatting about the world we live in and reminiscing those halcyon school days in old Ceylon. He was always good fun. Whenever there was a terrorist attack in London he was the first to call me to ask if I was ok. This was the same kind and considerate Sheriff I knew from school days.
Bringing up families and caring for them, while managing our careers, consumed our time. We seemed to have lost contact until I caught up with him in the new millennium when he was managing a plantation at the foothills of Kota Kinabalu in Sabah, East Malaysia. Sheriff asked me to stay with him but I was still too busy with work and never made it. He bought a plush pad by a golf course in Perth and asked me to use it whenever I could. Sheriff was generous to a fault. He still loved the good life of visiting night clubs and enjoying himself. When I called him he related his most recent exploits in vivid detail.
I heard of his illness at the end of October 2017. When I spoke with him on 1st of November he indicated he wasn’t ready to go yet and would fight it all the way. His last words still echo in my ears “Nihal please pray for me”. He was terminally ill. Although the doctors wanted him to move to a hospice he preferred to be with Mui Lan and end his days at home. She was his strength and love who cared and looked after him all through the illness. I send her my condolences at this most difficult time.
Of one thing I am certain, he lived his life to the full right through school, his professional life and retirement. He was fun to be with. When Sheriff was around there was never a dull moment. He was a fine raconteur and the life and soul of any party. He had a tremendous store of amusing anecdotes which he related with such verve and vigour. I have lost a genuine friend. The world will be immensely poorer without him.
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Wesley College Tennis Team of 1958:
Seated from L:R - P.S Rodrigo, Mr PH Nonis, Mr C.Y Yesudian, Nalendra Abeysuriya
Sadly none from this tennis photo are alive today
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Tennis at Wesley in 1960
At the Public-School Tennis Tournament and in the Senior Singles and Doubles. The Wesleys 3 member team comprised Sheriff Fallil (Captain), M.H. Cader and Fahmy Sikkander.
Sheriff Falill's Singles match lasted over 2 hours against Peterite M. de Rozairo. This was declared a new public schools record.
[Sheriff lost to Rozairo - (6-8), (7-5), (7-9)]
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
My thanks to Dallas Achilles for his input and inspiration to put together this appreciation.
Memorable Images
Back Row- L to R , Russell Schockman,Lameer(Jnr),Beverley de Neise
Middle Row:- L to R ;- C. Sin-Sen, Ron Henderling, Lameer(Snr), Haig Maloney, Glen Reimers,Trevor Gunasekera, Mike Christoffelsz, Errol de Silva, Rodney De Kretser, Sherriff Fallil.
Seated:- L to R- Darlan Perera. Principals Mr P.H. Nonis, B.Saldin (Capt), Mr. A.D D'Arbrera, Daya Perera
Ground- Robin Reimers.
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ETERNAL PEACE
By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I received the news that MNG Perera, whom we fondly called Manja, passed away yesterday. MNG and Upali were brothers in the boarding. MNG was a couple of years my senior. As there were just a hundred students in the boarding we all became close friends. He joined in the fun and the mischief which was endemic in the hostel. I recall most fondly playing cricket in that dustbowl we called Small Park and the soccer games in the muddy pools. MNG was a quiet, generous and friendly soul who treated everyone with kindness and courtesy. After he left the boarding we spoke whenever we met on the long corridors. He was at school from 1950-62. I never met him after leaving school but knew what he was up to from friends and also his brother, Upali. I trust he had a happy and rewarding life. I send my sincere sympathies and condolences to his family.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
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ETERNAL PEACE
An Eulogy – H. Shelton Peiris (1924-2018) From the Memorial Service held on 26th of May 2018 at the Wesley College Chapel. Read by Neville Shelton Weerasekera
The Hon. Principal of Wesley College, Mr.Avanka Fernando, The Chaplain Rev Kadirgama, Staff Members of Wesley, Old Boys of Wesley and Present Boys of Wesley, Ladies and Gentleman.
We are gathered here today to remember and to celebrate the life of Shelton Peiris, who departed this life on the 9th of May. Shelton surely had destiny with Wesley College because he was born on the 2nd of March, which is also the Founders day of Wesley College. His birthday and Wesley’s was celebrated simultaneously. A school holiday for him on each of his birthdays.
My first encounter with Shelton Peiris was in 1946, when I entered Wesley having transferred from Kingswood in Kandy. Those were happy days when one could by oneself gain admittance, and I just walked into Wesley having met the gracious Rev.James Cartman. Shelton was the Senior Prefect at the time and he cut an imposing figure in immaculate white tussore suit and tie at Assembly. One look from him through his bottle rimmed glasses instantly demanded the required level of behavior of any student. He was ably assisted by his lifelong companion and friend Edmund Dissanayake . It was the dawn of the Cartman Era a golden period in which Wesley shone in sports and academia. Shelton and Edmund were worthy lieutenants to the Rev Cartman, whose huge task was to rehabilitate Wesley having just emerged from the wartime occupation of its buildings.
Shelton had a lifelong destiny with Wesley and he played many roles in the course of time. First as a student, Senior Prefect, then a Teacher, a Scout Master, a Member of The Governing Board, and as loyal and energetic Member of the OBU. He was a Life Member of the Wesley OBU, and was its Secretary for a period. He regularly attended and participated in its meetings and was moderating yet outspoken voice. At the College Annual Prize giving in 1974 the Chief Guest was Hon. Sirimavo Bandaranike, Prime Minister, and it was Shelton Peiris who delivered the vote of thanks.
One of Shelton’s outstanding contributions was being the Editor of three Wesley’s Anniversary Souvenirs, the 75th Year, the 100th Year and lastly the 125th year. For the 75th year Souvenir he collaborated with Rev. Cartman, the 100th Year Souvenir was almost by himself, except all the typing was done by his daughter Therese. It was for the 125th Year Souvenir I came into the picture, as the Principal Mr.N A B Fernando nominated Shelton as the Editor, and Edmund Dissanayake, Fred Abeyesekera and myself as part of the team. It began for me a period of very close collaboration with Shelton and in the six odd months of its gestation we met almost on a daily basis. It was indeed a proud achievement to publish a Souvenir worthy of Wesley’s 125 year existence.
As a part of the 125th Year celebrations Shelton also wrote the script for a Tableau entitled ” From Dam Street to Karlsruhe”. This tableau was superbly by choreographed by Mrs. Ranjani Fernando, ( In Shelton’s own words) and was staged successfully to appreciative audiences in many locations culminating in a performance at the BMICH at which the distinguished Guest was the Chief Justice G S P de Silva. The tableau which was in ten sets, comprised the major milestones in Wesley’s History from 1874 to 1999. From the modest beginnings in Dam Street with 12 students, to its march forward to the imposing mansion at Karlsrhue was graphically demonstrated. Rev Highflieds “ 300 Days of Begging in the Tropics” which produced the funds for the edifice at Karlsruhe was prominently featured. Shelton indeed displayed his outstanding gifts as a playwright and directed the Tableau production closely.
Shelton maintained a long and endearing relationship with Rev. James Cartman and his family. His daughter Christine was at Wesley in her early years, and whenever she visited Sri Lanka, in 1999, 2002, 2011 and 2014 mostly for Wesley College celebrations, their unfailing host was Shelton Peiris aided by Edmund Dissanayake. Therese told me how later on in life Shelton, in 1985 he had stealthily visited the Cartman family in England after a visit to the Holy Land unbeknown to his own family. Shelton was a man of many parts, he was Teacher at Wesley and Christian College , Kotte.
He was a Warden of Christ Church in Mirihana and Kotte, and a lay preacher who entranced the audience by his wit and charm and above all by his deep commitment as a practicing Christian.. He worked in the Ports Commission as a Personal manager.
He became for a time the President of Gideons International. He was full time Secretary of the YMCA ( Religious Work & Membership). He gave freely of his time to help others in distress, and did not hesitate to dip into his pocket when needed. His funeral was widely attended and was a testimony to his life and work.
Shelton was fortunate to a have a very happy family life. A devoted wife, Dolores ,a doting daughter Therese, and dedicated son Peter. It must have given Shelton a lot of pleasure that his son Peter and grandson have followed his footsteps at Wesley. The demands of geriatric persons when they cross 90 years can be daunting, but the love and affection showered by his daughter Therese, shared by Peter and Dolores, made his life in the latter years more than happy.
Shelton Peiris was a devout Christian, and a dyed in Blue Wesleyite and a loyal and law abiding citizen.
We will miss his engaging conversations and the wit and laughter that he could always engender.
I have many fine memories of working with Shelton.
May Shelton Peiris’ soul Rest in Peace.
A Tribute to Shelton Peiris by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I feel greatly honoured to write an appreciation for the life of Shelton Peiris whom I respect enormously. Credits are also due to Shelton’s longterm friends, Mr Neville Weerasekera and Mr. Edmund Dissanayake from whose memories I drew much inspiration to compile this eulogy.
It is with great sadness, and an enormous sense of loss I heard the news of the demise of our dear friend Shelton. He has a legendary status at Wesley where he was a student from 1934-46. He was the Senior Prefect in 1945 and 46 and then became a Teacher at his old school. For a tall man Shelton was surprisingly soft spoken. As a leader he could be impatient and liked to get his own way, but he was witty and charismatic with a vigour and energy that were contagious. He got things done. After leaving Wesley he joined the OBU and was enrolled as a life member in 1947 where he remained an active member and an official for many years. With the passage of time Shelton bowed out gracefully from the hot seat of running the affairs of the organisation. He left the OBU to the younger old boys without any recrimination, hard feelings and sniping. This has enhanced his reputation as one of the most loyal, genuine and competent old boys of his generation. He was never ambitious for power or fame. Shelton had a genuine desire to serve Wesley. His commitment, honesty and dignity touched all those with whom he worked. The eruption of nonsense that ensued in the OBU in later years shows the inherent complexities and problems in running the organisation. Shelton is a gregarious and affable personality who had no interest in grumbling and complaining about people. This enhanced his popularity as a person.
Combining his genuine loyalty and a fine writing style Shelton became a prolific writer about the school, its legends, its history and its people. These have been published in the daily newspapers, School magazines and the many websites including the Double Blue international. His deep knowledge of Wesley's history benefited from Shelton's inexhaustible curiosity. He edited the school's Centenary Souvenir with great distinction. Shelton's time at Wesley during the war years, the move to Kitiyakkara and its many hardships have now been well documented. His anecdotes and of course its inevitable fables have been recounted in graphic detail in his writings. It’s still lovingly remembered, and chuckled over, decades later. His writings will remain as a lasting tribute to a lifetime of service to Wesley. He speaks volumes of the great Cartman era and the resurrection of the school from the doldrums of the War years. It was Wesley's great good fortune to have a Principal of the calibre of Rev James Cartman to revive the school. Shelton became the 'historian of the school'. He was held and cherished as the guardian of the history, the archives and the principles of its founding fathers.
Shelton had a wonderful way with words and was a great debater at school. There are many stories of his debating methods and skills. Once he had debated in sarong to stress a point. As a student his poems and lyrics became popular which thrust him into the limelight. It was Shelton who spearheaded the Wesley "War Cry" at Cricket matches "Zam Zam Zakay Zam Zam Zay, Ishuba Ishuba Ooh Ah Eh! As a part of the 125th College Anniversary celebrations, a tableaux “ From Dam Street to Karlsrhue” was staged with Shelton as the playwright. It was successfully performed at the BMICH to an appreciative audience. He also composed a 125th Anniversary Anthem which is set to music.
With his long years and avuncular style Shelton became an integral part of Wesley and as they say "part of its furniture". He had legendary status at Wesley, which is indeed very well deserved. Despite his years and infirmities Shelton never failed to attend its many functions. I had the great good fortune to meet him again at the Great Reunion of September 2012 with Mr Edmund Dissanayake who was his friend and confidante. Even then he was passionate about the school and also quietly confident it would emerge from its well publicised decline. Such attachment and loyalty to an institution is a rarity nowadays. The overwhelming focus has now shifted to acquiring power and wealth. I hope Wesley will continue to produce people like Shelton who are willing and able to show loyalty and gratitude. At present some students leave their loyalty behind the school gates as they start their careers. It is increasingly harder to get old boys to be a part of the network.
Shelton and his wife Dolores have been a part of Wesley and all its functions. They are blessed with two children, Charles Peter who is a Wesleyite, who was an active sportsman and athlete in College, and daughter Therese Rosanna, who is an old girl of Methodist College. She did much of the typing and secretarial work for Shelton when he was the Hony Secretary of the OBU. We thank the Peiris family for their support for Wesley over the years.
Shelton showed the new generation what it means to be a Wesleyite. We all admire his quiet and reserved personality, sense of duty and integrity, courteous manner and sense of humour. He had passion, determination and simple human decency in greater measure than any person I have ever known. He was an inspiration to work with, and a joy to be near. Shelton was the most wise of counsellors, the most loyal and supportive of colleagues, and the best of friends. In the end, what gives a life meaning is not only how it is lived, but how it draws to a close. Shelton had a quiet and peaceful end to his life. If one can have a beautiful death Shelton had one. He would live in the hearts and minds of everyone who knew him. He remained a fiercely loyal Wesleyite right to the very end.
Links to further reading
Our Sympathies go to his family
May his Soul Rest in Peace.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
SRILAL PRASAN WIJESINGHE (Nov.02, 1945 – April 27, 2018)
By Rohan Wijesinghe
Prasan was the youngest of us three brothers, Nimal, Rohan and Prasan. Prasan began schooling at the Royal Primary School and then joined Wesley College in Grade 6 (Form 01). All three of us were greatly encouraged into sports by our father, who died earlyin life. From his youngest days Prasan developed a deep insight into life. He had an affectionate personality,and a strong understanding of right and wrong and the courage to live by his convictions!
At Wesley College, all three of us excelled in Badminton and were members of the college Badminton team. The next year a Junior Badminton team was established with Prasan’s leadership. Earlier Prasan also excelled at the Junior National Badminton Championships by becoming it's Juvenile Triple Crown champion, a very rare accomplishment!
Prasan was an outdoor adventure lover and many have been the expeditions he had embarked on to explore the hidden beauty and places of Sri Lanka. In particular one that was memorable was a tour he made of the hill country and especially to Nuwera Eliya on a motorbike with his son.
Prasan became a trained teacher and taught at Wesley College and Trinity College and then worked at the U.S. Educational Foundation and at the U.S. Embassy. After that he became a Baptist Minister, trained in the Philippines, and served at the Mattakkuliya and Kandy Baptist Churches. During this time Prasan engaged in the study of Buddhism which enabled him to develop a deeper and more profound understanding of his own Christian faith.
Prasan then served in the Galle Arch-diocese of the Anglican Church. The compassion with which he cared for the poor earned him their respect and love and they referred to him as “Father Prasan Devikenek!” He then went on to teach English at the Royal Institute and at The Inter Cultural English Education Centre in Eldeniya , Kadawata. Again his compassion and genuine care for students was such that they also said of him, “Prasan sir Deviyek.” Before long his expertise in teaching spoken English was recognized by some businesses and Prasan accepted many contracts that were offered by certain Banks, Toyota Sri Lanka and even the Sri Lanka Baptist Sangamaya (Union) itself to teach spoken English to their employees.
Suddenly his health began to fail and his journey of life ended a few months later. At the age of 72 years, Prasan, saying that he has lived a good life, embraced death with peace, tranquility and profound faith.
From Nihal D Amerasekera
Prasan's photo brings him back to life. I remember him at Wesley with his brothers, Rohan and Nimal, who were fine badminton players representing the school. Prasan was a quiet, thoughtful and kind person at school. Our paths never crossed and I never met him after leaving Wesley.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
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ETERNAL PEACE
ABEYDEERA - EARDLEY RANJIT
From Nihal D Amerasekera
Ranjit was at Wesley in the 1950's and played rugby for the Ist XV. He was a fine and fearless rugby player. On leaving school he captained the SLAF rugger team. Under his leadership - the Airmen were a formidable side. With all the vicissitudes Ranjit always stood by his Old School. We thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
May he find the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
A Tribute from Patricia Kulatunga
Ranjit was a very Intelligent, Kind, Gentle, Humorous person. He was very well read and could talk eloquently on any subject. Keeping his audience enthralled and entertained for hours.
Whoever met Ranjit and spoke to him always took a great liking to him. He was very good hearted. Always willing to advise and help anyone who asked him.Generous in spirit with no envy nor malice towards anyone.
He was in employment both in the Civil Service and in the banking sector.
He was a great cook whoever ate whatever he cooked really loved it. He enjoyed cooking and feeding people. Friends talk about his tasty meals to this day.
Ranjit had a lovely personality and kind ways. He was well loved by my family and his sisters Anu, Ranee families and Brother Vernon. Sadly Ranjit suffered with very poor health during the last years of his life. He is very much missed by daughter Christine and myself.
May his soul RIP with Jesus and the Holy Mother.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Ranjit was at school in the 1950's when he lived on the hill in Railway Avenue, opposite the Nugegoda Railway Station. His parents George and Blanche were family friends and well known to my parents. I remember with great nostalgia visiting him on Saturday mornings to play cricket in their front garden joined in by Vernon. Their parents were so very kind to me offering me sweets and Lanka Lime. He and his brother Vernon were regular travellers on the KV line train to Baseline Road station with a happy band of Wesleyites including yours truly. I recall we walked in a group from the Baseline Road Station to Wesley College and did the same after school retracing our path. There was Fred Abeysekera, Neville Weerasekera, Godwin and Godfrey Roberts and their uncle Edward Roberts, Ranjit and SK Seneviratne, Rohan, Nimal and Prasan Wijesinghe, WAK Silva and his brother Ranjit and several others.
At school I recall Ranjit playing cricket with his friends in the Small Park during the lunch break and the friendly banter and the tiffs that ensued in the heat of battle.
Ranjit and Vernon were devout Christians and attended the Anglican Church of St Mary and St John in Church Street Nugegoda. Vernon sang in the Church choir. As I lived with my grandparents opposite the Church saw them often go in and out of the Church.
Ranjit did not take to academic work and left school after the Senior School Certificate in 1956. He was contemplating on a career in estate management and planting. He started as a "creeper" at Etana Estate, Warakapola where my uncle was the Superintendent. I spent many holidays at Etana Estate and met up with Ranjit again. I played cricket with my cousins and Ranjit joined in too. We were all teenagers then and enjoyed the good life. I remember the laughter that was endemic at Etana Estate. Ranjit was then a jolly person full of fun and had a playful sense of humour. He made fun of some family members, without any fear of the fall-out, keeping us roaring with laughter. Ranjit had a gift for jokes and was a born comedian. He had the remarkable ability to make up funny stories which kept us in stitches. We played tennis every evening and the games were intensely competitive. Weekends were spent in the Planters Club at Kegalle playing billiards, drinking beer and creating mischief. I recall the family trips we made together to Anuradhapura, Sigiriya and Wilpattu and the fun we had with my cousins. On those trips Ranjit had a lot to say about the Skoda car he travelled in, much to the chagrin of its owner. He said it was easier to climb Sigiriya than travel in the Skoda!! We all appreciated the humour. There were never any lasting hard feelings. As I remember Ranjit loved people and people loved him. Those days were a rich gift.
Ranjit felt the demanding estate life was not for him and gave up. This surprised us all!! Ranjit and his brother Vernon emigrated to the UK in 1959. It was then that I lost contact with Ranjit for many years. Some friends told me Ranjit had passed away and I made an entry in this website. Reading this, one of his relatives from Canada emailed me to say he was very much alive and gave me his telephone number. Ironically he was living just half an hour away from me. I was deeply embarassed but phoned Patricia, his wife. I then made a trip to see them at their home in Edgware, Middlesex in 2015. Although he recognised me he was very unwell. We had so much in common but sadly we couldnt reminisce and walk down memory lane. I wish we could have retraced our lives back to those good old days over a pint.
He was bedevilled with poor health in his final years and was lovingly looked after by his wife, Patricia. His brother, Vernon, passed away in England many years ago.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank Ranjit and Vernon for their contribution to the life of the school.
Ranjit's funeral was held on the 29th of June at All Saints Church Queensbury and the final rights were at the Golders Green Crematorium London.
Links to further reading
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1959 School Badminton Team
Photo taken at the Gala Dinner, Galle Face Hotel in 2012: Some of the 1960's successful 1st XI Cricket Team.
From Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I record the death of Derrick Ingram who was at Wesley in the 1950's and 60's. He was a fine cricketer and represented the school 1st XI in 1960. I have fond memories of meeting him at the Grand Reunion of 2012 at Wesley College along with Senthil Sinniah who captained in 1959. Senthil was specially pleased to see his former team-mate when they reminisced at length about the old times. Derrick was rather subdued compared to his ebullient self at school. We thank Derrick for his contribution to the life of the school.
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From Keith de Kretser
It is with sadness that I report the passing of Dr Risien Bartholomeusz aged 95 in Adelaide, South Australia.
He had two sons, Dr Chiron and Dr Dylan Bartholomeusz, both brilliant scholars and products of Wesley in the late sixties. He also had a daughter Delyse the youngest in the family.
The Bartholomeusz family was one of many Burgher families that had successive generations attend Wesley College. Dr Risien had 3 brothers, Lister, Lorensz and Ridley (all deceased) Ridley captained Wesley’s cricket team.
Dr Dylan and I were in class together and we were family friends since our school days. Uncle Risien was an interesting character who loved singing in choirs and solo and loved singing “O Solo Mio”. He was also a Magician and still a member of the Magic Society of South Australia. He received an award recently from the American Magic Society for being one of the oldest magicians plying his craft. He would perform at birthday parties when we were kids.
Uncle Risien was a Dentist and was enlisted with the Sri Lankan Army.
On behalf of the alumni community, we extend our heartfelt sympathies to Aunty Evelyn (92) Chiron, Dylan, Delyse and families.
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From Paul David
It is with great sadness I write to inform you that my brother Alfie David ( whom most of you know well) died this morning in Sri Lanka. He went this morning to Kollupitya Methodist church as always and later during his lunch collapsed and died on route to hospital.
Alfie’s three daughters, Ami and I are currently making arrangements for the funeral which is likely to be after the 24th July in Colombo. We are also making our arrangements to travel to Colombo.
Alfie represented Wesley in Athletics , Rugger and Cricket before entering the University of Ceylon in 1959. Then he represented the University of Ceylon and Havelocks in Rugger. After completing his degree he taught at Wesley for a year before being selected for the Sri Lanka Diplomatic Service. He served with distinction as an Ambassador and High Commissioner for Sri Lanka in several countries.
He was a sincere believer in "Ora et Labora” and a loyal member of the "Band of Double Blue"
From Professor Razeen Sappideen
Alfred Kulendran David was known to my two older brothers Nizar and Anwar; his brothers Paul and JN were my classmates at various stages of my life at Wesley; Charles was a few years junior to me. When they lived in Maradana (next to the Olympic cinema) I used to visit Paul and JN, and got to know their mother and sister quite well. Later on, Paul (an engineering student) and I were Roommates at Marrs Hall (Room No. 22), Peradeniya campus. Consequently, I knew the Davids and got to know quite a lot about Alfie. While the Davids were an outstanding family of Wesleyites, Alfred led the pack.
Alfred was my House Secretary (Passmore) in his final year at School, entering the Faculty of Arts of the University of Ceylon, Peradeniya Campus in 1959, from which hallowed institution he graduated in History. Such was his devotion to Passmore House that he came over for the School Sports meet and to barrack for us. When some parts of Wesley were in shambles without any dedicated teachers (this was the period when assisted Schools were given the option of becoming fully State controlled, or totally fee levying and autonomous) I was fortunate enough to obtain a set of his notes in British and European history, which were of immense help to me and for which I remain very grateful.
Alfie was a very good track and field athlete, and he also played Rugby for Wesley. He later played Rugby for the University. He was a natural leader, and a senior I looked up to. His entry into the Foreign Service (much more coveted than the Civil service in that period) did Wesley proud. Without a doubt, he was the most outstanding Wesleyite of my era in the true Greek ideal of cultivated mind and body. Of the Wesley that I knew, he alone bears comparison to my other icon of Wesley, the late Professor Mahroof Ismail.
The death of Alfie’s wife at an early point of his exceptional career was sadly a cruel twist of fate, striking a blow to a career that would have been even more outstanding. So let it be.
May he rest in peace.
A Life Remembered by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Alfred started life at Wesley in 1952 in Form 1 with the kind but strict Mr Felix Premawardhana as the class teacher. He was a brilliant student and I remember him carrying away prizes every year at the prestigious Annual Prize Giving Ceremony . He won the coveted Mary Highfield Essay Prize twice in 1956 and 58. His Essay on the ‘Brotherhood of Man’ was widely acclaimed as a great piece of writing. All through his time at Wesley he was a fine sportsman captaining the school’s athletics team. He represented Wesley with great distinction at the Public Schools Athletics meet held at the Colombo Oval. He specialised in the sprints, 100 and 220 yards and also the 100 X4 relay .
Alfred's father was keen he should concentrate on his athletics and not play rugby to prevent injuries. Alfred's speed on the wing was a great temptation for the master-in-charge, the enthusiastic and irrepressible Mr Danton Dabrera, to include him. And so he played Rugby for the school in 1958. Alfred was in the Wesley College debating team with Senthil Sinniah, Cecil D’With Barbut and Upali Samararatne making it a formidable force against all opposition. I recall listening to one of those fiercely combative debates held in the Great Hall. He was a fine public speaker, never resisting an opportunity to display his oratorial skills, punctuated by dramatic pauses, flourishing hand gestures and a strong, modulating voice. Being a brilliant scholar and a sportsman, Alfred was a shining light and positively influenced a generation of students during my years at Wesley. Above all we admired his supreme confidence, poise and dignity. As a school Prefect he had the trust of the teachers and was greatly respected by the students.
Alfred entered the University of Peradeniya in 1959 to study the Arts. There he remained a stalwart of the Student Christian Movement, just as he was at Wesley. After a brilliant university career, in 1963 he returned to his Alma Mater to teach the sixth formers for a year.
Thereafter, Alfred joined the Foreign Service as a career diplomat. Personal communications have given me a good insight into his professional life. In the Diplomatic Service he held a number of senior posts and served Sri Lanka with great distinction. He was energetic in discovering the cultures of the countries in which he was posted. Alfred became skilful at making contacts that were invaluable. His flexible intelligence served him well. He showed tremendous loyalty and carried out his duties with great honour. In his high office he considered pragmatism a virtue, believed in selfless public service and was always kind,honest and courteous. Alfred was very much one of the Old School that have now vanished. It is such a pity that there are so few of his calibre or integrity in office or politics now. I remain humbled by his achievements.
Alfred was deeply involved in the school management Committee when it needed a person with passion, experience and determination to drive it forward. During his tenure he guarded the interests of the school with an intransigence that was highly principled and unwaveringly zealous. Behind his charm was a steely determination. His influence lives in the dignity and order he brought to the proceedings of the school management committee. His love for Wesley was ever present when I met him last with LR Goonetilleke, Ranjith Dassanayake and Neville Weerasekera in a plush restaurant in Colombo. With his dry wit and a multitude of anecdotes he was excellent company. There was scant trace of the High Commissioner he was when in office. I distinctly recall we talked about an iconic teacher of our time, Mr LA Fernando, and his sad and sudden decline and demise after having the world at his feet as Vice Principal. We have learnt to describe these inexplicable twists of fortune in many different ways calling them God's Will, destiny, fate, kismet, karma or providence. Alfred and I had a long and interesting chat about life much of it personal and will always remain private. Alfred was a true gentleman, with fine principles and doesn't deserve the sad calamities that befell him which haunted him to the very end. Destiny had indeed dealt him a cruel hand but he found comfort in the Church and its teachings. He remained as always kind and generous to all.
Alfred was a true blue Wesleyite and remained passionate towards his school to the end. When it comes to writing about the school no one did it better than Alfred. My sincere thanks go to Alfred David for this most comprehensive and complete account of the history of the school written with such great accuracy, panache and style.
On behalf of the Worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his immense contribution to the life of the school.
He was truly blessed to have so much love and support from family and friends. All through his life he remained a committed Christian. The world is a poorer place without him but as it is said in the scriptures he has returned to his Maker.
May his Soul Rest in Peace.
Memorable images of 1959
Links to further reading
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I heard the news of the passing of a dear friend Raja Peiris. We spent many happy years in the hostel together. Boarders were 24X7 Wesleyites. In all that time I have never seen Raja lose his temper. That was saying a lot as we were all raucous kids then. The small park was our amphitheatre where we played cricket and football in the blistering sun and in the monsoon rain. Although Raja was a quiet lad he joined in all the mischief that went on in a quiet sort of way. Whether it was play time, meal times or study time we knew how to make the best use of the hours. I can recall so vividly the fun we had and the laughter we enjoyed. Those were our most memorable formative years. How time has flown!!
I met him once in Fort in the 1970's when he had that confidence of youth. He was then a busy Attorney at Law putting the world to right. We reminisced the good times. I am certain he enriched the profession with his honesty and integrity. Raja was modest as always and had no airs.
Few years ago I phoned him at his home in Kotte and had a long chat about the good old days. As we chatted the years just melted away. Last of all I saw him at the Grand Reunion of 2012 held at Wesley College. He was still that affable chap I knew all those years ago.
Highly sociable he relished the company of friends. Raja showed tremendous loyalty to Wesley all through the years and was a regular at the OWSC. He was always present at important functions. We thank him for his contribution to the life of the school
May he find the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
A Life Remembered By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I came to know Wickrema when he was in the boarding in the early 1950's. He was a decent and jolly lad who joined in the fun and laughter that was endemic in the boarding. This was the golden era of education at Wesley with CJ Oorloff as Principal, Rev Wifred Pile as Chaplain and LA Fernando as the Senior Hostel Master. Wickrema was well respected in the school by his peers and teachers alike. He was appointed a school Prefect and was greatly admired. Like fellow boarders, Robert Coburn and Clinton Rodrigo, Wickrema left school to be a 'creeper' in Hayes Group, an Upcountry Tea estate, in 1954. He was greatly appreciated in the profession for his diligence, hard work and astute management skills. Wickrema rose up the professional ladder with consummate ease. He served in many fine tea estates including Bogawana, Kotiyagalla, Great Western and Kirkoswold working with some of the finest tea companies. Wickrema has trained many tea planters during his long and distinguished career. They pay him glowing tributes for his patience, kindness and generosity. Those trainees remember him with affection, regard and esteem. Wickrema was always elegantly attired. He served the plantation industry until 1999 when he retired as a Director.
Wickrema's honesty and gentlemanly demeanour meant that he was trusted by his superiors and colleagues, several of whom became close friends. I am informed by Personal communications that Wickrema weathered the storms and turmoil of the nationalisation of the estates, the industrial disputes and strikes in the plantation sector with skill and courage to become one of the most respected planters of his generation. His role models were his former bosses. He defended the age old planting traditions, within reason, and passed them on to his apprentices called 'creepers'. Few taught by Wickrema, however, will forget his ability to teach the tricks of the trade. Tactful, but firm he was not afraid of making unpopular decisions. His long career in the industry was guided by his sharp intelligence both in argument and his astute assessment of others. In his discussions he could be forthright but always fair.
It seems a great pity I never met him since he left school. I too spent my early childhood in Bogawantalawa although much before his time. I still cherish those memories of the lush green mountains and the fast flowing torrents of the Kehelgamuoya. I would have loved to visit the area, meet Wickrema and relive the past.
I am reliably informed he loved Wesley. Perhaps being far away in the hill country when communication was difficult keeping in touch wasn't easy. As a confirmed bachelor he was wedded to his planting career. Briefly, in the 1970's he gave his support for the Kandy Branch of the OBU with W. J. F. La Brooy as President and superbly organised by Fred Abeysekera. On behalf of the brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
May he find Eternal Peace
An Appreciation By His Excellency, Somasunderam Skandakumar, Sri Lankan High Commissioner, Canberra, Australia
October 22, 2018
The curtain came down on the life of Wickrema de Alwis on 21st October at four score and seven, leaving friends and family to reflect on the qualities of a man that made him not just one of the finest Tea Planters the Industry had known but also a true Gentleman in every sense of the word.
My association with Wicks as he was fondly known goes back to the mid-seventies when as a young Executive at George Steuarts, then renowned for managing Plantations , I was assigned the awesome task of handling the desk of the Company's most prestigious charge viz ' The Standard Tea Company " which comprised of six remarkable Estates, three in Uda Pussellawa and the balance in Bogawantalawa / Lindula.
Wick was Superintendent of one of them, viz Kotiyagala Group in Bogawantalawa, a highly profitable property with a popular selling mark which he took great pride in . His leadership was by example, combining the highest level of Integrity with a " No Nonsense " approach to work and ethics that were impossible to surpass and yet worthy to emulate.
Not surprisingly every young Planter who served under him went on to reach great heights in their own careers thanks to a foundation of Integrity , Commitment and Accountability instilled by their strict disciplinarian" Peria Dorai" Boss !. Here lies yet another story of what exemplary leadership can do for a succeeding generation no matter what the field !
Following the nationalisation of Plantations in 1975/76 Wick was appointed to Chair a Regional Board by the Government where his expertise and high standards benefitted a cluster of Estates and with that the numerous personnel who served on those properties.
He became a much sought after Visiting Agent and it is common knowledge that the bushes flushed green and the tea prices soared on every mark he visited !
His official residences had beautifully manicured lawns surrounded by exotic roses while his impeccably maintained homes were a joy to visit . Their walls were studded with photos of the many pedigreed handsome canines that surrounded his life ; relationships of love and care may well have inspired the likes of Barbara Cartland to even greater heights !.
In retirement he lived initially in rented accommodation in Watapuluwa off Kandy, and I have fond memories of our weekends together enjoying our long walks reminiscing on the positive and negative sides of life and humanity.
He followed our nation's cricket with a passion and was quick to put pen to paper whenever he felt that something in that field needed correction. The media respected his wisdom and often published his views.
He was blessed in his domestic Saveria , a faithful " Man Friday " of almost forty years whose loyalty and respect for his master remained unwavering throughout that period....a rare occurrence indeed and yet a reflection of a large and caring heart that Wick hid under a strict and exacting exterior. Kalimuttu , his driver of shorter duration was equally devoted but less disciplined as his refusal to give up smoking much to Wick’s anger and dismay eventually took toll of his lungs and Life.
Needless to say that Wick reciprocated this loyalty by ensuring that the children of his carers were put on career paths that opened doors to greater opportunities. Sadly the collapse of the Golden Key Finance Company where he had a major part of his life savings, cruelly devastated his Life and took inevitable toll of his health .
He was compelled to move to a retirement home in Bolgoda where he spent his final years in decline.
His meticulous planning for a contented retired Life that he so richly deserved was shattered by the inexcusable irresponsibility of an Institution he trusted. Though miles away Wick, you are very much in my thoughts. May you find " Peaceful Rest " as you deserve.
May he attain the Supreme Bliss of Nirvana !
From Anura Gunasekera (2018)
My friend Skandakumar, former Chairman of George Steuart's and presently our ambassador in Australia, in a moving tribute to the late Wickrema de Alwis, has quite rightly described Wickrema as a Gentleman Planter Par Excellence. That is the best definition of Wickrema, in my mind one of those rare industry professionals who could be described as a planter's planter. I did not know Wickrema well and our interactions, for many years, were limited to brief exchanges at occasional meetings. However, over the last few years I have had several conversations with him on the infrequent articles I used to write. Both the content and the points of view seemed to find a resonance within him and I was very pleased, as he was a man of sound judgement and unquestionable probity. He was also fascinated by the History of Ceylon Tea (HOCT) website, on which he had many questions.
Wickrema de Alwis My last meeting with him was about three months ago, when I accompanied Bathiya Jayaratne to Wickrema’s Madapatha home and spent a very interesting morning with him. One purpose of the visit was for me to show Wickrema how to navigate the HOCT website, so as to get the best of its information lode. As is customary in rest homes of that kind, he was restricted to a single room with a verandah which served as the visitor's area. Despite the space restrictions, the precise arrangements within, which catered to all his immediate requirements, was a clear reflection of the disciplined, highly methodical approach that contributed to his success as a professional planter. Bathiya and I were greeted and entertained with the same decorum as if we had visited him in his estate bungalow.
There was an amusing incident during our meeting which, to me, accurately reflected Wickrema's compulsive sense of order. Towards the end of the meeting his faithful retainer, Saverian, produced the visitors book for our signatures and comments. Wickrema immediately took the book from him and explained to him, in precise Tamil, that the book had been submitted at the wrong moment as the visit was not yet over, and that it should be the last item on the visit agenda! The book itself was meticulously maintained, a reflection of Wickrema's continuing passion for method despite the diminution of his life-style.
To the planters of my era and those of a decade earlier as well, Wickrema set exemplary standards of excellence. Kotiyagala estate, Bogawantalawa where, over a period of about 12 years he established a body of work and benchmarks unlikely to be surpassed, undoubtedly represents the best of Wickrema the planter. He gave the impression of a highly controlled man with a low-key, unpretentious personality, who let his achievements speak eloquently of his competence. Last year, in one of the events which celebrated 150 years of Tea in Ceylon, Wickrema was awarded a recognition as one of the Ten Best Planters; undoubtedly, a well-deserved acknowledgement of the contribution made to the industry by a very modest man who never sought recognition.
An Industrious planter by K.T. Shanmugam, Attorney-at-Law
I was deeply saddened when I learnt of the passing away of Wickreme de Alwis, the former Chairman of Sri Lanka State Plantation Corporation's Board I, from an article of appreciation that appeared in a newspaper recently. I worked with him at the Regional Board Office at Glencairn, Norwood, when he was its chairman and also at the Hingurugama Office Complex on Pasara Road, Badulla.
I came to know of him in the mid-70's, when I visited the Kotiyagala Estate to form employees' councils. The concept of employees' participation in the management of estates through elected employees' councils was conceived, nurtured and promoted by the united left government that was in power during the early 70's. Dr. Colvin R. De Silva was the Plantation Industries Minister at the time. He was enthusiastic in the formation of employees' councils at plantations. The task of going around the estate meeting employees and getting them elected was assigned to me under the designation of Employment Relation Officer of the Sri Lanka State Plantation Corporation.
It was during one such visit that I came in contact with Wickrema de Alwis at the Kotiyagala Estate at Bogawantalawa. After his long stay there, de Alwis was transferred to the Strathspey Estate at Upcot, an equally-large estate that was however, running at a loss as there were numerous complaints made by the staff. However, within a short period he transformed the place for the better. I asked him as to how he managed to make it possible and he said that all he did was grant the correct overtime payments to the factory's staff after finding out the cause of their dissatisfaction.
He was a member of the Nuwara Eliya Golf Club and was also a lover of nature. He visited national parks regularly and all through out his life, he had pet dogs around him.
Wickrema de Alwis was a unique and iconic planter of his age. He trained a number of planters who hold key positions in many companies and his contributions to the field were immense. His working life ran through three epochs: the pre-nationalisation period prior to 1970, the post-nationalisation period from 1972 to 1992, and the post-privatisation period till the birth of the new millennium.
At the time he joined the Malwatta Valley Plantation as its Managing Director, the company was initially incurring heavy losses, but by sheer hard work and prudent administration, together with the cooperation of his colleagues, he converted the company into a money-spinner. When regional companies were offered on a long-term lease basis, the Malwatta Valley is said to have fetched the highest price.
After de Alwis left the plantation, he continued to serve a number of estates as a visiting agent.
His relationship with trade unions was cordial and smooth. Though he was firm in his decisions, he showed flexibility and did not allow the unions to go empty-handed after discussions. He always respected senior trade union leaders.
May his soul rest in peace.
Malcom Perera – An Appreciation by Percy Batuwitage
It is with great sadness, we report the passing away of Malcolm Perera, an old Wesleyite. Malcolm was a keen athlete during his time at Wesley (1950/60’s). He was a member of Hillard House. In the Under 19 Inter-House Athletics Meet he won both the 100 yards and 200 yards events, running barefoot. Malcolm also represented Wesley in the 100 yards in the Inter Colleges Meet (Public Schools Athletics Meet held the the Colombo Oval) where he reached the Final. He was a quiet, unassuming gentleman and will be sadly missed by all his family and friends.
From the Editor
Ananda Percy (A.P)Batuwitage played 1st XI Cricket for Wesley and was in that unbeaten teams of 1952 and 53 captained by Radley and Bryan Claessen respectively. He emigrated to the UK in the 1960's and now lives in Purley, Surrey. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we wish him well.
We thank Malcolm Perera for his contribution to the life of the school.
May he find Eternal Peace
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I saw the obituary of S.R.N (Ranjit) Perera who was a boarder in the 1950's. He hailed from Panadura and remember his father coming to see him in the boarding. He took part in the cricket and football in the small park behind the school and contributed to the fun,laughter and mischief that was endemic in the boarding. Ranjit was a tall lanky guy who was a fine athlete and made an impressive contribution to the 440 yards and the 440X4 yards relay for Moscrop house and the school at the Public Schools Athletics Meet held at the Oval.
Gentle and warm-hearted, Ranjit was a kind soul who was a quiet, sensitive lad respectful of others. As he was a sportsman he was a popular figure. He received the adulation with modesty and humility, a rare attribute at that young age.
After leaving school Ranjit started life as a Public Health Inspector but later trained to become a successful and well respected Priest. He started his ecclesiastical career as the Priest in the Anglican Church at St John's in Panadura, his home town. Rev Father Ranjit served with great distinction for 10 years at St Luke's Church in Piliyandala. A combination of enthusiasm, hard work and personal charm enabled Ranjit’s ministry to prosper. it was not long before his reputation had been established and his work flourished. A truly exceptional Reverend, he will be remembered for his dedication to his Parish and to the Diocese. Rev Fr Ranjit will be greatly missed. He was a humble servant who prayed for so many and with wisdom and grace, gave hope and guidance to generations. He was truly an inspiration to all.
Every organisation has its pioneers and its heroes and so does St Paul's Church in Padukka. There, Fr.Ranjit laid the foundation for the great work that would follow. His loss would be felt for decades after his direct involvement in St Paul's has ended. His legacy of love, support, strength and integrity will resonate in the Parish for years to come
Through personal communications I have learnt Fr Ranjit has maintained a high standard of pastoral care in the parish in the best tradition of Anglican ministry. His sermons were inspiring, affirming and challenging. Personally I am profoundly grateful to God for the life and ministry of this good and faithful servant of the gospel; by his example he challenged all Christians to lead a goodlife.
Although his health was in decline for the past 4 years he continued his ministry and worked tirelessly to provided a helpful service to the church and his family.
In the 1950's it was the trend to maintain an autograph book. Many school leavers wrote in mine. I recall with such clarity what S.R.N Perera wrote in my autograph book despite the passage of many decades.
The roadway twists and bends
We meet with strange companions and unexpected friends
Who walk with us a short way and move out of our sight
So find some fellow traveller whom you can love and trust.
How very true and how very prophetic as we parted company and went our separate ways, never to meet again.
Our sincere sympathies and thoughts are with Fr Ranjit's wife, family and friends at this exceptionally difficult time. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites, I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
The only memorial that would do him justice, is the application of his values in the way we live our lives and showing kindness, love and compassion to all. Let us give him that.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Recollections on the death of a classmate By Fred Abeysekera
We met in our formative years - at Wesley College - in 1946 as classmates, and over a short period of time became very special friends - and remained so, for life.
We both lived in Nugegoda in our early youth, along with two other classmates - Archibald Singham and Neville Weerasekera - and we became inseparables. We went on ceaseless rambles across hill and dale, discovering short cuts to every possible place, criss-crossings the length and breadth of Nugegoda (then a small town) and its environs. Such treks were more often than not across private property and never without excitement. Falling into streams and shallow, unprotected wells at dusk, chased by irate owners of private property, outrunning dogs (who joined their owners in the chase) getting bogged down in paddy fields, barely scrambling to safety; and ending up laughing. It was always side-splitting laughter....these were the tumultous days of youth.
Our daily journey to school and back was by train - the notoriously slow, narrow-gauge railway - the Kelani Valley line. To be in time for General Assembly (a daily ritual in those days when the entire school met in the college hall), we had to catch either the 6.55 a.m. train or "the 7.17" at the Nugegoda Railway Station. The Station Master who knew all of us by name was Mr. R. Poulier, and he had a fatherly eye on us. These journeys, however, were always fraught with totally unwarranted risks; much excitement, fun and frolic - with us ending up in school with tell-tale signs of having travelled on the footboard; in open bogeys (which were sometimes loaded with coal) and only occasionally, seated in a second class compartment of Archie Singham's choice (which had more than the average sprinkling of pretty school girls) putting to legitimate use our season tickets for which we paid the princely sum of Rs. 4.00 for a month's travel! When school ended at 3.15 pm each day, we ambled along to the Baseline Road Railway Station when we were not required to be present at Campbell Park for athletics practice, hockey, cricket or basketball. We always went down Karlsrhue Gardens (via Mount Mary - a Wesley-Josephian stronghold) buying chocolate or "bullto" from the "Thambi Kade" at the corner - on rare occasions encountering an adventurous prefect exuding smoke from his nostrils, ensconced in the bowels of the ill-lit interior of the boutique. Like England's hero, Nelson, we turned a collective blind eye in such instances - and sprinted the rest of the distance, only to be admonished the next day for not walking down Baseline Road, as people usually do! Edward was not the fastest runner in our group and was invariably identified - consequently all four of us being roped in and lectured to on road safety - or, the hazards of going off the beaten track.
I recall a particular incident which caused us much raucous laughter at the time, and on recollection, much merriment. Norman Mailer's Naked and the Dead had been banned in Sri Lanka as our prudish politicians (the self appointed custodians of "public" morality) were of the opinion it was totally unsuitable for "young minds" - which in effect meant that the book was not available to the reading public at large. A copy of the book turned up at Wesley and our group of four took turns to read it, with a specially devised brown paper cover bearing the legend "English Grammar by Nesfield", to disguise it effectively. Edward had drawn No. 3 and it was his turn to read the book. The book was handed over to him at the Nugegoda Railway Station by Neville Weerasekera who had completed reading it. It had been securely wrapped by him in a myriad layers of brown paper, with stout twine and sealing wax complete. Edward was cautioned not to open the package until bedtime. It is reported that his brother George (with whom he lived) had been informed around 9.00 pm that Edward had a severe "stomach disorder" which was to serve as adequate cover for his night-long treks to the toilet! (where the book was to be read). About midnight Edward had successfully torn out the last of a layer of covers the book was secured in to find to his dismay that it was a familiar school text-book - Chemistry by A. J. Mee! Thus dramatically ended Edward's voracious appetite for reading, as well as his chronic stomach disorder.
Edward had the capacity to radiate love and concern for people particularly those close to him - his wife Anula and his children Dushan and Dushanthi and his buddies from Wesley. We were always welcome in his home with his elder brother George giving him all the support he needed to generate spontaneously the warmth and fellowship of hospitality. One of Edward's desires - expressed a few months before he died on January 18th, 1999 - was to spend a relaxed evening at The Old Wesleyites' Sports Club with his family and classmates and their respective families. This, unfortunately, did not materialise. He stoically endured a long and protracted illness, spanning two decades with great courage and fortitude. His sense of humour never abandoned him at the worst of times. Edward will be greatly missed at Wesley's 125th anniversary celebrations next month by all those who knew him and came to love him and very specifically by his old classmates.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
25th September 1969 – 25 January 2019
From Kumar de Silva
It was exactly half a century ago, this month, January 1969, that Nirmali de Silva came into my life. I was a 07 year-old impressionable little brat at Wesley College Colombo and she was our beautiful 23 year-old, Grade 2 class teacher. My father Justin, also her colleague on the teaching staff at Wesley, had told me that ‘Nirmali Teacher’ was a distant niece to him. That made her my distant cousin. Wow I felt proud and privileged but kept that secret all to myself without ever revealing it to my classmates.My earliest recollections of her are that of an all-enveloping maternal figure. You wouldn’t expect a 23 year old single young woman to be that maternal at that age but Nirmali de Silva was all that and more. She literally spread out her large wings and took us under them – teaching us, guiding us, nurturing us, comforting us and protecting us. Even as little children we felt the tangible largesse of her heart. And we, in turn, loved her deeply from the depths of our little hearts.
I remember how overjoyed we were when she came back again as our Grade 3 class teacher the following year. We couldn’t have asked for more. Those two years spent under her tutelage formed a deep and lasting impression in my mind. I admired and adored her as my teacher and class teacher. I loved her as much as I did my own Mother. Nirmali de Silva was My quintessential Mother at my Alma Mater.
I remember hearing from the grapevine that our Grade 04 class teacher was going to be a horrible and nasty old spinster who had a long standing reputation of lashing children with her tongue and unmercifully hammering their buttocks with her pet little black umbrella. We dreaded her and hated her. Having her for one full year was absolutely unthinkable.
Towards the end of the Grade 3 year, out of sheer panic and desperation, I summed up whatever courage I could muster, crawled to the Principal’s Office all the way from the Primary Block and pleaded with Shelton Wirasinha saying, “Sir can we please have Nirmali Teacher next year also and not Miss XX”. The diplomat he always was, the Principal smiled and said, “Let’s see Putha”. Karma played a trick on me and we had one full miserable year of Miss. XX and her tongue lashing and buttock bashing.
I now understand how very, very impressionable a child’s mind can be. Those early memories, good and bad, are deeply etched in one’s memory for life.In later adult years I often wondered how this 23 year old could be so very maternal. Talking to her family at the funeral parlour that night, the how and the why dawned on me. Anil her brother is four years younger. But Minoli her sister was born thirteen years after Nirmali.“The very day I was born, Akki wrote me a letter saying that she would look after me and take me under her wing and that is precisely what she did”, a tearful Minoli recalled. Minoli was Nirmali’s doll and playmate and even her bridesmaid at her wedding. “Akki extended that same love and caring even to my children right throughout her life”.
Nirmali de Silva was born on 30th March 1946 to a family with a very strong and abiding Methodist lineage spanning generations. Her father Rev. Denzil de Silva was the President of the Methodist Conference from 1970-1975.
Prior to that, his older brother Rev. Fred de Silva went on record as being the first President of the Methodist Conference. Her other paternal uncles Rev. Roy de Silva and Rev. Lynn de Silva were also Methodist ministers.
Her paternal grandfather, Rev John de Silva and his father (her great grandfather) were also Ministers of the Methodist Church. On the other side, her maternal grandfather Rev. George Senaratne was the first Sri Lankan Chairman of the Methodist Church. The Methodist Church was thus an integral part of the de Silva family. The two girls Nirmali and Minoli understandably attended Methodist College Colombo, my sister school.
Her husband Hemal Fernando has been the rock of her life since their marriage on 25th September 1969. They were blessed with two children Dimantha and Shaneli and five adorable grandchildren. If she were still alive today, they would have celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary this year. What a joyous occasion that would have been.
My mind vividly goes back to 1969. We were very jealous of that tall, young and handsome Hemal Fernando who suddenly appeared from literally nowhere … or rather that’s what we thought. He was going to marry her and take our beloved teacher away and so we hated him with our little hearts. He came to help her at the end-of-year concert at the College Hall. We plotted to ‘accidentally’ trip him and incapacitate him for life. But our plans went awry and they lived happily ever after.
The couple knows this story. I recalled this story again when I visited her at home in Talawatugoda last November. Even though breathing with the help of an oxygen concentrator she laughed heartily … this story is now a family joke. I never thought that would be the last I saw of her.
Nirmali Fernando taught at Wesley College for an eventful thirty eight years, from 1964 to 2002. It was also during this time that her father was the President of the Methodist Conference. She came to school from the Methodist headquarters in Kollupitiya.
I remember Daddy telling me that never ever did she flaunt her father’s position, nor did she expect any privileges. She behaved like just another teacher at Wesley College. Such were her simplicity and humility. Similarly, being her colleague’s son I was never a privileged student in her class. I was treated just like any other child. She was fair by all. BUT I knew that deep down there she loved me a little bit more than the others and that was perfectly in order.
Years later she must have been very disappointed when she learnt that I had converted to Buddhism (after years of being a Christian) but not once did she ever mention it. She just smiled. I was proud to have Hemal and Nirmali at my wedding and what a co-incidence it was years later when it was she who interviewed my son Rahul for admission to Grade 1 at Wesley College.
Nirmali Fernando had this uncanny ability to see the world through the eyes of a child. This gave her great insight and perception and she often took the side of the child. She touched the lives of 38 successive batches of Wesleyites with her love and gentleness. The outpouring of their collective grief at her demise on social media, via text messages etc was moving and tearful. I single out two of her students whom I know well … former Head Prefect Dilshan Boange and former Prefect Rumesh Perera. They were shattered in as much as I was.
That night at the AF Raymonds Funeral Parlour was sad. It was a horrible and empty feeling. The grief stuck like glue at the pit of my stomach. To me it was like seeing my own mother in that coffin. Nirmali de Silva was My quintessential Mother at my Alma Mater.
I grieve. I keep consoling myself that death was a release. At the end I’m told she had wanted to go … the pain and physical suffering were too much to bear. And as her mortal remains lay there, there was peace on her face.
I still grieve … but Nirmali Fernando now continues on her journey through Sansara.
My only wish for her is that that journey be speedy.
May she one day attain the Supreme Bliss of Nirvana.
And may the Blessings of the Triple Gem be with her Family.
Educated in Wesley College, Colombo Kingsley Obtained the National Diploma in Technology in Mechanical Engineering in year 1975 from the University of Moratuwa, Katubedda campus. He started his career as a Mechanical Superintendant at Ceylon Ceramics Corporation and served few years in the Corporation, subsequently joined the Sri Lanka Air Force as a
Commissioned Officer in the rank of Pilot Officer. During his service career, he has held several Command and NonCommand appointments and after having borne the brunt of the branch responsibilities, he reached the pinnacle of his career to the rank of Air Vice Marshal and also became a member of the Sri Lanka Air Force Board of Management. He is a Graduate of the Defense Services Command and Staff College, Mirpur, Bangladesh. He is a FELLOW of the IIESL and served as a Council Member for a considerable period of time and was elected to the post of President for the session 1998/1999 and also elected as one of the Co-Chairman's in the SAARC Diploma Engineer's Forum in the same year. At present he is the General Manager of two reputed Construction Companies
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank Kingsley for his commitment to Wesley College and his contribution to the life of the school. We are immensely grateful for his work in the SLAF.
Raja Athukorala Cricket Umpire and Coach - No More
From Gunasiri Hallalaarachchi Cricket Umpire Gampaha
Raja Athukorala, the veteran Cricket Umpire and coach par excellence passed away at the age of eighty years.
After one’s mother and father, it is the teacher who is to be revered as a God. Raja Athukorala was the person who found Hashan Tilakaratne and Asanka Gurusinghe at the tender age of nine years, they were unpolished gems when he first met them. Seeing the hidden cricketing talents of these two, he started coaching them the finer points of the game and made them a world class cricketers. These two alone would give evidence to the world what a great cricket coach he was.
Who is an ideal teacher? A teacher is one who imparts knowledge to another. He shared the knowledge he had gained through study and experience. But this teacher (Raja) imparted not just knowledge or just the skills and techniques or acquiring knowledge, but such things as values, principals and norms that govern human conduct.
After introducing those two brilliant cricketers, Hashan and Asanka, in late seventies he joined the Association of Cricket Umpires Sri Lanka as a qualified cricket umpire. Owing to his unmatched knowledge of this noble game he became a competent umpire who did all grades of matches without a blemish until his retirement. At the very beginning in the early 1980s he was attached to the then the Board of Control for Cricket Sri Lanka as a division III Umpire but he had not an idea of hitting the top in this field so he left the board and did full time umpiring for the ACU.
He was fluent in English and it was an education to listen to his fruitful conversations, I often admire his English proficiency. After leaving school he joined the ‘Times of Ceylon’ and worked some time there and left in mid sixties, because he needed some liberty and free life.
He received his primary education at St. Thomas College, Gurutalawa and one of his class mates was Mr. Nanda Matthew (Former Sports Minister).
For his secondary education he joined Wesley College, Colombo. He was talented enough to get first eleven school colours on four main games, Athletics, Cricket, Football and Hockey. The century he scored against Kingswood College, Kandy in 1958 still can be seen among the list of first eleven centurions on the wall of the Wesley College, Pavilion.
Though he was an extraordinary sportsman he led a very simple life. He was a bachelor until his demise. He never thought of tomorrow although he was from a well to do family. He led an exemplary life.
Raja Athukorala played 1st XI Cricket for Wesley College in 1957 and 1958
1st XI Cricket Team 1958
Standing LtoR: Senthil Sinniah, PS Rodrigo, R Athukorala, Kabir Ismail, Neville Perera, Olkie Edema, D Kodituwakku, A Palihakkara, M Bulner, BS Batuwitage
Seared LtoR: W De Kretser, U Samararatne, Mr PH Nonis, N Abeysuriya, Mr Lanerolle, Mr Fred De Mel, SM Rajasingham
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I remember Raja Athukorala as a fine sportsman at Wesley in the 1950's. We remember most fondly his good humour and humiity. He was a jolly lad always with a smile and ever ready for a joke. I was deeply saddened to hear of his demise. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
May he Attain the Ultimate Bliss of Nibbana!
A Tribute from a younger brother Mervyn Kodituwakku, Scotland
Newton Kodituwakku - Ever honest and humble
Newton Kodituwakku, one of my late elder brothers, was a courageous, gentle, generous, caring, fun-loving and affectionate brother. Numerous incidents come to my mind instantaneously as I reminisce about these unique qualities and the joyful times we shared. Newton was my second elder brother. He was educated at Wesley College.
Although siblings, all five of us brothers were more like friends during our teenage years. My eldest two brothers were Dharmaratne and Ranjith. Big brother Dharmaratne was a popular cricketer at Wesley College and was often the opening batsman. Both he an Ranjith predeceased Newton. We all used to go out for movies and dinner together until I migrated to the UK in April, 1967. My brother was given the nickname Raththaran (gold) by his peers. Newton had a knack for cooking, similar to our mother, who always loved preparing delicious meals for us.
His passion for cooking led him to making many dishes, especially desserts such as caramel and bread pudding. In the 1960s, we used to love visiting the Fountain Café and Bake House. And even though I have travelled to several countries, rarely have I tasted puddings of the taste and texture as the ones we tried back then. Newton had four close friends who sometimes joined us in our outings to theatres and hotels: ‘Jardi’, ‘Sin-Sen’, Fuard, and D.B. Perera. We also frequented dinner dances, at which my brother learnt dances such as quickstep, cha-cha-cha, jive, and the twist. This was also the time when The Beatles emerged. I remember how my brother Newton used to often practise the twist at our Maradana house. Newton also wanted to travel to the UK to pursue higher education, but our father wanted him to continue the family’s furniture business: Albert & Company. The business soon flourished to unprecedented heights under Newton. In 1980, he built a house designed by him at Talakotuwa Gardens. By that time, I was already in Scotland.
Newton longed to own a British car at the time, so I bought him one, which he thence forth kept in prime condition. Another thing I remember about him is that he used to purchase ingredients from Elephant House to produce non-alcoholic beverages using fruits such as oranges, pineapples, and passion fruits. Newton also made the youngest in our family, Nimal, his partner in handling the shop.
Newton suffered from strokes in the past, yet with sheer determination he continued to work, driving his car from the Talakotuwa Gardens to Maradana everyday.
But, unfortunately, the last stroke he had paralysed him. It was our sisters Lalitha and Kamani who looked after him afterwards. If not for them, he would not have lived as long as he did.
The strokes also affected his kidneys and eventually, they had to surgically remove one of them. This made him much weaker, but he was adamant to attend our niece Initia’s wedding at the Mount Lavinia Hotel, in mid-January, this year. I used to visit him three times a year to check how he was doing. Newton was loved by all his nieces; Shalini, Ruchini, and Initia, who are in Australia; as well as his nephews; Dilusha and Rajive, who are in New Zealand. They, too, never failed to visit him when he was sick. Newton loved them like his own children and helped them however he could.
My brother assisted all his siblings when it was necessary; he shouldered a lot of responsibility and was a real gentleman, ever humble and honest. When one of our sisters needed help setting up a house, he did not hesitate to help. He also helped the Buddhist clergy in many endeavours, and several monks in the area praise his efforts.
It is hard to believe that my brother Newton is no more. To me, this loss is irreparable—a void that cannot be filled. May he attain the Supreme Bliss of Nirvana!
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Newton was a year junior to me at school. I knew his elder brothers Lionel who was excellent at drama but sadly passed away tragically in a drowning accident in the Kelani river at Kaduwela. Dharmaratne (K.D) was a year senior to me. He captained the 1st XI Cricket Team in 1961 the same year he was the Senior Prefect. I was so pleased to see him at the Grand Reunion at Wesley College in August 2012 when we chatted about cricket and old times. He too passed away in late 2012. Newton was a quiet lad always well dressed, well-mannered and polite. During his time at Wesley College he developed many enduring friendships. Newton stood with pride alongside his brother. After leaving Wesley he managed the family furniture business, Albert & Co, in Maradana. While he was no extrovert, Newton was a workaholic with a single-minded focus on his business. Newton was well regarded in the business world and was honest and courteous in his dealings. That will remain a great legacy for his company. All through his years he skillfully retained a strong order book and managed and maintained a profitable company.
He was ever present at class reunions and school events and was well respected by all. Newton will be long remembered as a true gentleman, a good man and for a life well lived.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank Newton for his contribution to the life of the school
May he Attain the Ultimate Bliss of Nibbana!
1st XI Cricket Team 1969
From Wilhelm Van Dort
I write to inform you of the sad passing away of Past Wesley Cricketer, Hariharan Jeganathan last morning in London. Hari was in the Champion Cricket side of 1969 and was a Hockey player as well. He was an International Hockey player, and was the twin brother of past Sri Lanka Test Cricketer Late Sritharan Jeganathan.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Hariharan Jeganathan was a fine sportsman and a passionate Wesleyite. He was one of the loyal old boys who was responsible for initiating and establishing the Wesley College Colombo OBU in the UK. Hariharan served in the first committee of the organisation with loyalty, dedication and devotion. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank Hariharan for his contribution to the life of the school
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A Tribute from Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Brian Mack 1935-2019
It is with great sadness I received the news of the demise of Brian Mack,one of the most loyal and senior Old Boys of Wesley College. He passed away on the 24th of March 2019 after a prolonged illness. We last saw him at the OBU-UK Annual General Meeting in Harrow in January this year. He was visibly unwell and left the meeting early.
Brian was a student at Wesley during the principalship of Mr.C.J Oorloff. He was a relative of Mr.W.E Mack, the famous teacher at Wesley of the Highfield era. (It is on record that Mr. W.E Mack joined Wesley College in the Pettah in 1884 and served the school for 40 years being its Headmaster in his final years.) I remember Brian at Wesley College in the early 1950's when he played the piano for the Christian service at the Great Hall. He was with Radley Claessen in school and kept in touch with him until Radley passed away in Adelaide, Australia.
Brian left Ceylon in 1954 and settled in the UK. After qualifying from the Royal Academy of Music in London he was widely recognised as a fine Viola player. He was greatly respected in the world of opera and classical music and a much valued member of the London Symphony Orchestra. Brian spoke warmly of his association with the prestigious London Symphony Orchestra. He was brilliant at what he did, playing the viola and was regarded as great company by his colleagues, on and off the concert platform. As we know so well Brian was unflappable in any situation, a great gift for a high profile musician.
Brian was proud of his long family association with Wesley College Colombo. He attended the OBU-UK meetings until recently. Brian greatly respected the School Chaplain of his era, Rev Wilfrid Pile (1952-56). Brian visited Rev Pile when he was in a home for retired Clergy in Leamington Spa near Birmingham. Each time Brian took a present for Rev Pile on behalf of the OBU-UK. I recall travelling to Leamington Spa in Brian's car with Senthil Sinniah. Genial and gregarious he was excellent company. His views, sometimes controversial and occasionally quirky were delivered with his usual affable friendly smile. He had a wonderful sense of humour. We stopped for a pub lunch on our way back and Brian entertained us with some hilarious anecdotes about famous people he met in his busy professional career as a member of the elite London Symphony Orchestra. I am reminded of his wit and wisdom from Saddler's Wells circa 1983 "You nominate the drink and I'll nominate the quantity".
Brian with his good looks, dapper cream coloured suits, distinguished hair and charming manners, cut a dashing figure. His aristocratic diction commanded respect. He brought a certain style, polish and elegance to the meetings he graced and we were all uplifted by it. The OBU meetings have the ability to disintegrate into never ending verbal duels. At these meetings he insisted on old fashioned discipline and decorum bringing sanity to the proceedings. Brian wanted tranparency, honesty and integrity in the affairs of the OBU. We will miss his wise counsel.
After retirement Brian moved away from London to live near to his son and family in Chesham by the Chiltern Hills, Buckinghamshire. From there it was more difficult for him to make his presence at our OBU meetings. Nevertheless as the years passed, Brian kept up his enthusiasm for his old school. In 2017 he visited Sri Lanka with his son and family. There he met with the Principal of Wesley and several senior Old Boys. Brian made a pilgrimage to Wesley College and once again walked its long corridors and saw the Great Hall, for the last time. I'm certain it brought back many happy memories of his schooldays. After his beloved wife passed away, Brian largely retreated from society.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school and for the long years of loyalty to his alma mater and the Old Boys Union in London.
Brian Mack is the last of a long line of distinguished old boys of the early 1950's. The funeral ceremony for Mr. Brian Mack took place at the Milton Chapel, Chilterns Crematorium, Amersham, UK on Friday 5th April 2019.
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It is with deep sorrow we note the passing of Keith Benjamin. He was at Wesley College from 1992-2005 and was a respected prefect. After leaving school Keith Joined the British Council in Colombo as the Customer Services Officer and rose to become the Assistant Manager, English Language Training (ELT) Projects. Keith and his wife were at Shangri-La Hotel in Colombo when the bomb blast took place on Easter Sunday, 2019. Keith was a happy and bright person who was always willing to help others. His was a life cut short in its prime by a pointless act of wickedness.
May he Rest in Peace.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank him for his contribution to the life of the school. We remember Keith and his wife and pass on our heartfelt sympathy and support to his family and friends at their tragic loss in this very sad and difficult time.
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PERERA - LEENIYAKUMARAGE CHANDRAN WALTER (Wesley College).
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I was informed by Sarath Wickramaratne of the demise of a fine cricketer and a true blue Wesleyite who passed away recently. Chandran Played cricket for the Ist XI at Wesley ffrom 1962-64 and made a valuable contribution to those most successful years for cricket at Wesley. That was the golden era and the glory days of cricket at Wesley of the early 1960's. Chandran was a useful all rounder who shone with the bat and the ball. He wasn't flamboyant but an elegant batsman. He took wickets at crucial stages of the game becoming a match winning bowler. Peter Cassiechetty has written, with his usual flair, a fine tribute to Chandran. Perhaps the cricket fraternity and the pundits of the game at Wesley didn't give Chandran the glory, kudos and the honour he richly deserved.
After leaving school Chandran worked for the Railways until retirement.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
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DHARMARATNE - D.M.D.
From Keith de Kretser
I wish to inform you of the passing of Mr Dharmaratne affectionately known as “Waduwa” who was a teacher of Geometrical and Mechanical drawing for over two decades at College. His son Wajira was a student at Wesley and was the official photographer at College events. On behalf of the alumni we extend our condolences and prayers to his family and friends.
May his soul rest in peace.
From the Editor DBI
We thank Mr Dharmaratne for his many years of service to the school as a respected teacher. He belonged to the old school and many remember him for his deep concern for the welfare of his students. For him teaching was more than a job with a monthly wage. Teachers of his ilk are sadly no more. Many of us remember him with deep respect
From Wilhelm VanDort, President Wesley College OBU Colombo
I write to inform you of the sad passing away of Old Boy Duminda Kariyawasam, from the Batch of 93' He was an ardent supporter of Wesley Rugby, and was in the Rugby Committee from 2004 -2006.
The Funeral of Old Boy Duminda Kariyawasam will be held on Friday the 1st of November, The cremation will be at the Buddhist Section of the General Cemetery Kanatte at 4.45 pm. It is appreciated if Old Boys can be present preferably in College Tie to pay our last respects to an ardent Old boy and die hard Double Blue.
Let us uphold his family in prayer.
May he rest in eternal peace.
From the Editor DBI
We thank Duminda for his many contributions to the life of the school. We are immensely grateful for his support for his alma mater after leaving school. He was a distinguished old Wesleyite
From Wilhelm VanDort, President of the OBU, Colombo
Dear Members of the Wesley Fraternity,
I wish to inform the Members of the Double Blue Fraternity that former Wesley Cricketer Neil Gallagher, passed away this morning in Colombo. He was a member of the 1954 First Eleven Cricket Team of College. Funeral arrangements will be notified later.
May His Soul Rest In God's Eternal Peace.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I first came to know Neil when I joined the boarding in 1952. He was many years my senior but being a fine cricketer he was well known to everyone at school. I remember him as a kind and helpful senior being very modest and not affected by the adulation and the back slapping. He was an immensely popular figure.
Neil joined Wesley during the Cartman era and showed a marked talent for the game of cricket. He continued to play for the school when Mr CJ Oorloff became the Principal. He was part of the legendary unbeaten teams captained by the Claessen brothers, Radley and Bryan. In 1952 the team was captained by Radley when the only loss was to St Thomas’ , after our cricket season had ended. From 1952-53 were the glorious years of cricket at Wesley when Neil Gallagher was an integral part of the unit. He was an important cog in the fabulous team of 1953 captained by Bryan Claessen that finished unbeaten. Fair-skinned and handsome, Neil stood out from the crowd. On the pitch he possessed the panache and the courage to match his competitive spirit. Off it, he was unfailingly good-humoured and friendly.
| Neil while at Hong Kong Bank | Neil at the Reunion Sept 2012 |
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Throughout his school career, on and off the field, Neil had a relaxed and calm demeanour which earned him many friends and a string of vocal supporters who showed off their colours at the cricket matches at Campbell Park. He was also a quiet man off the pitch and in the boarding. Neil and Arthlow Chapman were the best of friends in the boarding and it would be fair to say they were inseparable. They played cricket together and also joined in the practices at Campbell Park together. I cannot recall any instance when Neil got into trouble with the strict rules of the school or the boarding. Academia never suited him. He remained a principled and dignified student concentrating on sports.
Neil was a handsome and stylish cricketer at Wesley. Tall, fair skinned, broad with curly black hair, Neil looked down the pitch from a neat, upright and perfectly balanced stance. This perhaps gave promise of the range of stroke play at his command. As I recall, despite the theory at the time, he remained very much a back-foot player. Neil seemed to have all the time in the world to play his shots. He made his mark as a reliable and effective batsman. His on-drive was of the highest calibre. Neil never gave away his wicket cheaply. As well as his prowess with the bat Neil was an excellent fielder, either close to the wicket or on the boundary where he was known for the strength and accuracy of his throw. Although Neil never scored any centuries he made half centuries on many occasions at important matches during crucial stages of games.
Neil left school to join the Hong Kong and Shanghai Bank. He played cricket for the bank and rose to become one of its trusted executives.
He travelled to Australia in 2003 to see his former schoolmates and also old colleagues from Hong Kong and Shanghai Bank now resident in that country. George Roberton who was his classmate has written a fine account of his meeting with Neil Gallagher. This must have been a wonderful opportunity to relive those glorious years in Ceylon.
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Neil lead a happy life in retirement in Hendala. It was recently that illness struck a cruel blow. Neil is a fighter and he had recovered well when we saw him at the Grand Reunion of September 2012. He still has a tremendous love for Wesley. When I saw him with Arthlow Chapman it was like those good old days in the boarding when we all were young and carefree. I was sad to hear that lately he retreated into solitude. His recovery from a stroke in 2011 was slow but he was able to enjoy some of the pleasures of life. He is now free of pain and hardship
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From Christine Winslow Wijakumaran Wijaratnam
It is with deep sorrow that we announce the death of Daya Winslow Wijakumaran Wijaratnam who passed away on the 12th January 2020 aged 73 years. After a short, severe illness, a life that has been lived to the full has been cut too short. His funeral will take place at: St.Bartholomäus Church, Monschau-Mützenich, Germany on Friday, 7 February 2020 at 1:00 pm. Daya was born on January 28, 1946 in Manipay/Jaffna. After completing his education at Wesley College Colombo, in 1972 he went to Germany for his studies and training in the International Hotel Business. Daya worked and gained valuable training and experience in several renowned International hotel chains in Germany, Switzerland and Saudi Arabia. With his innate wisdom and the practical experience he had gathered, Daya had the confidence and ability to manage a Restaurant and Hotel on his own in the beautiful Eifel mountains in Germany. He married Christine in 1975. Daya and Christine are blessed with twins, son and a daughter. The daughter is a High School teacher and the son a Consultant Anaesthesiologist. Daya loved nature and enjoyed hiking and walking. He believed firmly in the oneness of humanity and that there should not be any distinction between people regardless of race or colour. He wanted them to have equal opportunities and treatment.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news of the passing of Daya Winslow Wijakumaran Wijaratnam. He was at Wesley College in the 1950's. He had early ambitions to be a up-country planter. On leaving school Daya was in planting for a couple of years. During this time he got a lucky break to enter the Hotels Industry and to be trained in Germany. He accepted this with open arms as the country was in political turmoil. After his training he remained in Germany, married and raised a family. Daya told us he was happy and grateful to the country of his choice. He lived and worked close to the picturesque Eifel mountains of Germany
Daya contacted me after seeing the Double Blue International online. He sent me articles about his family connections to the school. Daya helped me enormously to obtain old photos and stories about Wesley and its staff and old boys. He remained passionate about the school and came to join the Old Boys in London on a cruise on the River Thames around 1997. It was lovely to meet him then and talk about old times. Subsequently he made many trips back home to Sri Lanka and to Wesley College.
In his retirement Daya looked back fondly of his time in Sri Lanka and at Wesley and also spoke warmly of his years in Germany with his extended family
Our grateful thanks go to Christine and the family for providing the information about Daya's life in Germany. On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites I wish to pass on our sincere condolences to Daya's family at this time of grief.
As friends we will remember Daya for his simplicity, fun and good humour. He was warm-hearted and the most loyal of friends. He had a strong sense of right and wrong and showed great kindness to people. I will miss his emails and his wisdom. He has left a void that cannot be filled. We thank Daya for his contribution to the life of the school
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Wesley College 1st XI Cricket Team 1972
Wesley College 1st XI Cricket Team 1973
From Wilhelm Van Dort, President of the OBU Colombo
It is with great sadness that I inform you of the sad passing away of Granville Hamer - Past Vice Captain / Wicket Keeper of the Wesley Cricket Team, of 1973. Granville was also the Curator of the College grounds and Coached the Junior side of Wesley.
His mortal remains will be lie at the Supreme funeral Parlour (adjoining Jayaratne) Borella from 11.30am 1st of March (Sunday)
May His Soul rest in God's Eternal Peace.
From Braden Koch
Very very sad news indeed. Granville was a special product of Wesley. A good natured soul, brother & a very likeable character of the 60s and 70s. Fond memories will remain & my heart skips a beat... as another good friend leaves us for the never never. all of us pass this way but once... any good that we can do... any happiness & kindness that we can share... we must try & do whilst they are alive... for when they say goodbye to this world... they are gone forever. May his Soul Rest in Peace.
Kind regards & deepest sympathies...
From Mahendra Dissanayake
Big loss for Wesley Cricket fraternity and OBU.. He was a great personality like his brothers. May he RIP..
We had Fuard , Classen, Adihetty, Jeganathan brothers. In my opinion we have never had three brothers of such talent in cricket at Wesley during our 120 year cricket history, the second oldest cricket playing school in Sri Lanka.
From Reggie Goonewardene - Island Newspaper 2003
The Hamer family is enormoulsy respected by the cricket fans in Sri Lanka. The elder and the father of the family was Granville (Senior)
Umpire Granville Hamer(Snr) celebrates his ‘Diamond Jubilee’ of wedded life Reggie Goonewardene in Moratuwa Granville Hamer (Snr.), a former Sri Lanka Cricket Umpire and Coach celebrated his ‘Diamond Jubilee’ of wedded life on October 30, 2003. His wife Blanche, three sons Mervyn, Russel and Granville (Jnr.) seven grandchildren and four great grandchildren too joined the celebrations.
Granville a leading allround sportsman represented the Prisons Department and the Government Services Sports Teams in cricket, soccer, boxing and athletics from 1936 to 1964 until he retired prematurely at the age of 47.
Having commenced umpiring in 1955, he chose to devote his full time to both umpiring and coaching. He was thus engaged upto 1986 and gave off his best to children especially of lesser known schools in training and guiding them in the sport. A greatly respected umpire, his presence on the field was both a source of encouragement and confidence to the players of both teams. His knowledge of the rules, both written and verbal, provided him with the confidence to officiate even in the most difficult of matches.
Granville’s confidence, and fairness to the sport earned him the reward of officiating, in a few international Matches towards the end of a satisfying career. He was amongst a dozen senior umpires who were feted recently for their past services, and Granville remains as the oldest surviving umpire today.
Granville’s sons, Mervyn, Russel and Granville (Jnr.) all proved to be competent wicket keeper batsmen. They represented the Government Services and Mercantile sectors and also leading clubs in the country’s premier tournaments. Russel represented Sri Lanka at Test level as an enterprising wicket-keeper batsman. Russel and Granville (Jnr.) have followed their father’s footsteps in conducting coaching classes on a full time basis.
Granville and his wife Blanche are both congratulated on this memorable occasion and together with their family are wished many more happy years filled with the blessings of The Almighty.
From the Editor of the Double Blue International
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I would like to thank Granville Hamer for his contribution to sports at Wesley College and to the life of the school over many decades
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Ifthikar Ismail was a student of Wesley in the late 1940’s until mid 1950’s. He had a brilliant academic career at school winning many prestigious awards at the Annual College Prize Givings. Ifthi was a formidable Badminton player and captained the school Badminton Team. He was also a College Prefect. He entered the University of Ceylon and proceeded to a degree in Chemistry obtaining the Bsc(Hons). Ifthikar was awarded a PhD at St. Andrews University, Edinburgh UK. Ifthi joined the Lever Brothers, as it was called then. Through diligence and hardwork he rose to become the Vice Chairman of Unilevers. His wisdom and commonsense were an enormous help to the organisation. There he showed formidable passion for his work and a strong determination to carry out what was best for Unilevers. The staff remember his kindness and generosity. Slim and quietly spoken, Ifthi had a natural air of authority. He also possessed a highly analytical mind. Many fondly recall his engaging sense of humour. Thus he had all the qualities and attributes needed for a successful career in High Profile Management. Ifthi remained remarkably active well into his final years.
All of Ifthi's uncles, cousins and nephews went to Wesley College. His brother Mahroof Ismail was an outstanding student at Wesley and became the Senior Prefect. He later proceeded to medical school. After a distinguished academic career Mahroof become the Director of the Medical Research Institute and also the Dean of the Faculty of Medicine in Colombo. He passed away in 2016
It is a disappointing that Ifthi had little or no contact with Wesley College since leaving school. He was disillusioned by the disunity in the Old Boys Union. Ifthi received a wonderful all round education when the school had two of the finest Principals in Rev Cartman and Mr.Oorloff. The school would have welcomed and appreciated his support
Ifthikar Ismail became the Principal of Zahira College for a year in 1998. At the time of his demise he served as Director of APIIT Lanka, Amana Bank Limited and Amãna Takaful PLC. Ifthikar has also held Chairmanships of the Board of Sri Lanka Business Development Centre, Board of Governors - Symphony Orchestra of Sri Lanka and the Colombo District Scout Association. He was the patron of the Photographic Society in Sri Lanka and has held memberships of many reputed associations in Sri Lanka.
For those of us who knew Ifthi at school another of the lights that lit up our lives has gone out. Ifthi lead an amazing and also a privileged life. His was a good life, well lived.
The burial took place at Kuppiyawatte Muslim Burial Grounds at 7.15 pm on 22nd of February 2020.
On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites Worldwide we thank Ifthikar for his contribution to the life of the school and society.
From Keith De Kretser
Dear Wesleyites
It is with sadness that I report the passing away in Melbourne of talented Wesleyite Sumith Premachandra brother of Milinda(Canada) and Sajith(Dubai), a victim of the Corona virus. Sumith’s talents were many. He was a gentle giant with a big heart and a kind, generous and caring nature. On behalf of the alumni community in Australia we extend our condolences to his family and friends on his passing. Thinking of you and wishing you peace and comfort as you remember Sumith.
May his Soul Rest in Peace.
Ora et Labora
From the Editor Double Blue International
Sumith Premachandra was an old boy of Wesley College Colombo during the Shelton Wirasinha era. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school. We appreciate his care and consideration for the less able in society.
From a Daily Newspaper in Melbourne, Australia
The 55-year-old who died of coronavirus is being remembered as a loving family man and dedicated frontline healthcare worker. Sumith Premachandra died at Dandenong Hospital on Sunday, becoming the youngest Victorian casualty of the virus sweeping the world. The disability nurse, who suffered from chronic illness, is being mourned by his wife and ex-wife, two daughters and two grandsons.
"Dad was so charismatic," his daughter Sharyn said in a statement. "He lit up a room ... [and] made everyone laugh. "Our lives will never be the same." Mr Premachandra's family said he was a dedicated healthcare worker who loved his career. When he was in self-isolation, he wrote that he was heartbroken that he could not see his grandchildren
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From Ravi & Sureshmie Fernando
Mrs. Nalini Swineetha Fernando
She sadly passed away on the 11th of November 2019 after a brief illness. A private family service of celebration and funeral was conducted expeditiously as per her wishes. She leaves behind her son and daughter, Ravi and Sureshmie, daughter in law Varuni and son in law Eomal, grandchildren, Charith and Joseph and sisters - Priya, Manel, Shanthi and Lalani.We are thankful to all who gave of their valuable time and love to Ammi. We will have a Thanksgiving service on the 15th Of January 2020 at the Cathedral of Christ the Living saviour, at 5.00 pm to celebrate her amazing life of love, prayer and sacrifice. We look forward to a celebrating her life with those who loved and cared for her to thank God for the precious gift of her sacrificial love and life.
From Dr Shanti McLelland
Remembering Mrs. Nalini Fernando as an Astonishing Lady
Prem de Mel was a very pleasant and a wonderful friend. He was the youngest child of Mr & Mrs. Fred de Mel. Prem always had a very pleasing smile, very trustworthy, and with innocent mannerism. He played cricket for the school. Mr Fred de Mel was the Head Master at Wesley before he retired after a long spell of over 25years in the Primary school. Later, he volunteered to help the Welfare Society to collect money to run the school. He was a gentleman and a wonderful teacher of Latin. He was a scholar of the language. Mr & Mrs de Mel had six wonderful and kind daughters who attended Methodist College. They were kind and helpful individuals.
I got to know them as they lived at the Wesley staff quarters next to the Tennis Courts. Mr & Mrs Felix Premawardane and their children Dr. Kuwera and Kuweni Accountant at Sri Lankan Airways, Mr & Mrs Wilfred Wickramasinghe and their son Athula, Mr & Mrs Edmund Dissanayake and their son Dinesh lived in the quarters. The quarters were sold to raise money to run the school when the government stopped all aid to Wesley.
I started my school life in January 1953. My mother Erin McLelland was a teacher in the primary school at Wesley. She retired when Ranjit, Mohan and I was in the Primary School. The Lower Kinder Garden teacher was Mrs. Weerasuriya. The only thing I remember well was that she gave Ice Cream to all the class kids end of the year. I remembered this and made sure that the whole school got Ice Cream each year I was Principal at Wesley. This was supported by a parent Mr. Maithri Withange who was a member of the staff of Elephant House who made sure we were given the best discount. The Upper Kindergarden teacher was Mrs. S.G. Perera who was a very kind teacher and always inquired how I fared in the class until I finished my Advanced Level. We used to go to her place and sometimes have lunch with them. Her husband and daughter were very friendly and wonderful to take care of us as students of Wesley. Mr. Sivanayagam was the master-in-charge of Mack House. He always encouraged with a motivational word that I can win if I try my best. Of course it did happen later on in the upper school. Mr. E.L. Rodrigo was the grade 3 teacher who was very strict. But, he gave me the best training when I helped him at the Book Shop. Later, he was the Scout Master and was a wonderful friend and teacher. He encouraged me when I was the Principal. Mr. Wilfred Wickremasinghe was the grade 4 teacher. Later,he was the Head Master of the Primary school. I had a very understanding and kind teacher Mr. Paul Perera as my grade 5 class teacher.
Ms. Nalani de Mel as an adorable teacher in the Primary at Wesley. Later, she joined S.Thomas’s Prep School. Kollupitiya. I used to go to their house after school to play snakes & ladders or Ludo. I was always treated with some snack or drink. I used to watch the teacher play Tennis sitting under the Jam tree. Mr. Frank Jayasinghe who was the Hostel Master, Mr. Thevarokiam, Mr. Wilfred Wickramasinghe, Mr. Premawardana, and a few others were the players. Also, there was another dynamic player. Mr. L. A. Fernando.
Mr. Aelian Lancelot Fernando studied for the BSc at the University of Colombo and was the Hostel Master at Wesley. Later he studied in the United States and completed his Master’s degree in the United States. Mr. L. A. Fernando (Vice Principal, Wesley College) married Ms. Nalini de Mel, daughter of Fred and Mrs. De Mel in December 1957 at St Luke’s Church, Borella in December 1957.
Mr. Aelian Lancelot Fernando was an excellent teacher specially in Mathematics and Chemistry. His skillful teaching is still remembered by many. He took the responsibility for hockey in 1966 and was a keen supporter of the game and motivated the players to the hilt. He also led the cheer group for the cricket team and was there with the athletes to do their best. He was the treasurer of the Sri Lanka School’s Hockey Association. He was affectionately known as LAFA and every student who was a student during his time remember him as one of the best teachers Wesley had and think of him as the virtual Principal of the school. He left and joined the American Field Service as the Chief Director of the organization. He helped me a lot to motivate me with athletics and field hockey. He was privileged to be with me at the All Island Relay Carnival to help me to win the Pentathlon Championship. I remember Mrs. Nalini Fernando helping me with a astonishing problem. Mr. Haig Karunaratne, my friend who was in England and was holidaying in Sri Lanka Sextus Taylor and myself all agreed to spend the evening at Mr. Karunaratne's place at St. Mary’s Rd, Bambalapitiya. Later all agreed to have dinner at the Sapphire Hotel. So we walked there and had a wonderful dinner. Of course all thought the other will have the money to pay for it. But, when the bill was presented we realized that none of us had the required amount of cash. So, we decided to stay there and I was to go to Mr. L. A. Fernando’s place and borrow the money. Mr. Fernando lived at Kinross Ave. When I went there it was past mid-night the gate was locked. I tapped at the gate door but there was no answer. I was desperate and made a last minute solution to jump over the back wall and ring the bell. Mrs. Fernando came out and she gave the money after I told her the story. The wonderful thing was that she did not wonder how we would pay it. She was a kind lady who will always help anyone and treat anyone who visited their home. When I was a student, we used to go to meet the Vice Principal, sometime for punishment, sometimes to discuss something else, and she will always offer something to eat and a cup of tea while we waited.
Sureshmi completed her BA degree at the University of Peradeniya. Sureshmi worked at WV Sri Lanka and WV Canada when she immigrated and then joined the office staff at her church. Sureshmi remembers her mother as a beautiful, kind, hospitable, a great cook and an amazing seamstress making me beautiful dresses. Ammi was a woman of prayer. That was her strength. She also treated her guests with lots of adoration, affection, and shared with a lot of happiness.
Dr.Ravindra Fernando completed his doctorate in Switzerland. He studied at Wesley College and later he joined S.Thomas’s College Mt Lavania and completed his Advanced Level at Royal College. He excelled in Cricket, Athletics, and Hockey. He was awarded Public School Colours in Athletics. He started his working life at Brown and Company and was a Senior Executive. Ravi is a director of 6 companies and worked as a Development Manager at MacWoods Winthrop and as MD of Rickett & Coleman. Dr Ravi FERNANDO is an Alumni of the University of Cambridge having completed a Post Graduate Certificate in Sustainable Business in 2008 and a Master of Studies in Sustainability Leadership in 2014. He holds a Doctor of Business Administration Degree from the European Business School in Switzerland 2016. He was an Executive in Residence at INSEAD from 2010 to 2019. He is a Visiting Faculty member of the INSEAD Aspiring Director Program since 2018. He also holds a Master of Business Administration (1991) from the University of Colombo and is a Fellow of the Chartered Institute of Marketing (UK). He is the Chairman/CEO of Global Strategic Corporate Sustainability Pvt.Ltd, which operates in Vietnam and Sri Lanka. His career with Multi-nationals spanned 1981-2007, Unilever, Smithkline Beecham International & Reckitt Benckiser covering Africa, Middle East and Asia in CEO/Business Development positions. He was the first CEO of the Sri Lanka Institute of Nanotechnology 2008-2011 & Operations Director of the Malaysia Blue Ocean Strategy Institute 2011-2016. He was the first UN Global Compact Focal point for Sri Lanka 2007-2011 & set up the Local network in 2010 and has served on the Board since then. Currently, Ravi working with the Institute of Directors in Luxembourg where I created a ‘21st Century Board Leadership Model’ & they will be offering it as a certificate course. Ravi’s wife Varuni studied at Ladies College. His son Charith completed his BSc in Biology, 2016 in the United States of America.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Mrs. Nalini Fernando - An Appreciation
She was in my life throughout my school career from 1950-62. At first I knew her as the daughter of our revered Headmaster, JLF De Mel. Nalini De Mel then lived with her parents at the Wesley College Flats. No doubt she was inspired by her illustrious father. He was affectionately called "Papa De Mel" a father figure to all the students. After teacher training she went on to earn the respect and affection of her pupils and colleagues. Always impeccably dressed in her trademark saree, she rose to the challenge with verve and determination. Then, endlessly charming and vivacious she walked the long corridors of the school as a teacher. We saw her every morning at assembly bright and beautiful as ever. She dressed attractively and carried herself with great poise and dignity but had the wonderful ability to remain simple and down to earth . I do recall their long courtship and her marriage to Mr L.A Fernando. When he was appointed the Vice-Principal they moved to the VP’s house opposite the Principal’s residence. That beautiful house didnt look finer with their presence.
I remember with great nostalgia their presence and support at the many functions and events of the school. They both were a tremendous asset to Wesley College over a very long period of time trying to remedy some of the financial repercussions of the endless changes to education made by the government. Their helpful services and guidance was much valued. This was indeed an extremely difficult and uncertain time for the school. With JLF De Mel too in the thick of it collecting funds for the school this all seemed like a family affair!!
I was reminded by Radley Claessen that Nalini was a student at Wesley when they both joined Mrs. Joyce Leembruggen’s Kindergarten together. Mrs. Nalini Fernando has had a long and distinguished association with the school. I was deeply saddened to hear that Nalini passed away in November 2019. I last met her when Mr JLF De Mel was seriously ill and was admitted to my ward at the General Hospital Colombo in 1974. I kept in touch with her while she was in Toronto but lost contact after her move to Colombo.
Mrs Nalini Fernando was a gentle soul always kind and helpful. As I recall she was always cheerful and lead a true Christian life. She was so much a part of Wesley of the 1950's and 60's that her demise heralds an end of an era. We will miss her and remember her with great affection.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Mrs. Nalini Fernando for her contribution to the life of the school
We pass on our condolences to the family.
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From the Editor Wesley College OBU (UK)
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I received the news of the demise of BGR Fernando with great sadness. I was a boarder at Wesley College from 1952-58 and I remember the three brothers NAB, BCRN and BGR Fernando. BGR was indeed the quietest of the three. He was well respected both by the students and teachers and he was soon appointed to be the Senior Prefect of the Hostel. In 1955 he became the Senior Prefect of the school.
On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites Worldwide we thank Geoffrey for his contribution to the life of the school.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news of the demise of Derryck de Silva. As the news sank in, a video of our long association played in my mind’s eye of school, medical school and the long years as a medic.
Derryck had his entire education at Wesley College Colombo in the 1940’s and 50’s. There he had an impressive academic record. He was an enterprising and lively Boy Scout and a member of the 14th Colombo Scout Troop. For his duty and commitment he won the prestigious Queen’s Scout Award. It is the highest youth award achievable in the Scouting movement in the Commonwealth including the United Kingdom. Scouting taught him to be self reliant a quality that stood him in good stead in later life.
Derryck was a keen rugby player and represented the school in the 1st XV. There is no greater honour for any schoolboy than being the Head Boy of the school. He was appointed the Senior Prefect in 1957. Smooth and self-confident, Derryck held this position with flair, style and swagger.
In 1960 Derryck was successful in the University Entrance Examination and won a place in the Faculty of Medicine in Colombo. He was a popular medical student with a penchant for fast bikes, arriving for his lectures in a big, loud NSU Motor Cycle. This had huge cult status. It was his pride and joy and the envy of many. The dashing young Derryck with his fun-loving and cheery disposition enjoyed immensely the bohemian life style of being a medical student. His popularity grew in the Faculty. He had an ebullient, unguarded manner, a talent for friendship, and a charisma that sprang from genuine interest in people. Amidst fierce competition, in 1964 he was elected the President of the Medical Students’ Union. The moment was emblematic of Derryck’s popularity and status in the faculty. He was always impeccably mannered and well dressed. His thank you speech and the party that followed in the Common room are memories to cherish. Derryck was ever present at the many raucous evening functions at the Mens’ Common Room of the Faculty when drinks and music flowed freely and the students let their hair down. He continued with his sports playing rugby for the Faculty and the University and captaining the University Hockey “B” Team. He sailed through the difficult medical examinations and qualified as a doctor in 1965.
Post qualification Derryck worked at the General Hospital Kurunegala. When I started my Internship at Kurunegala in 1967, he was a Senior House Officer in Obstetrics and Gynaecology. The House Officers Quarters was a great place of fun where laughter was endemic. His loud trademark guffaw radiated from his room at all hours of the day and night. Despite his fun, wit and humour Derryck was much respected as a hardworking and conscientious doctor. Those were carefree days of wine and roses and of tremendous youthful exuberance. I recall with much nostalgia the annual Kurunegala Law-Medical match, the many parties and the sing-songs that brightened up our lives. There were shindigs at weekends with plenty of music. On those fun-filled evenings his well-schooled baritone voice reverberated in the stillness of the night. It’s impossible to convey adequately the sheer fun of his vitality, his naughty sense of humour and his roguish charm. Those indeed were the Swinging Sixties. I recall most fondly Derryck with a posse of doctors attending the dances at the Upper Club and thoroughly enjoying themselves until the wee hours of the morning. Moonlight picnics at the Batalagoda Tank and climbing the Elephant Rock in the blistering heat of the day are memories to cherish. He continued to enjoy the good life for 3 years. Meanwhile his work ethic and commitment to his staff and patients was acknowledged by all.
Derryck was so much a part of the Kurunegala scene when one day, from out of the blue, he announced he would be resigning from his job to start General Practice in Tissamaharama. We received the news in stunned silence. His colleagues gave him a farewell fit for a King. There was plenty of backslapping and tears on that fateful day.
Derryck stuck to his task of establishing himself in his new environment. Within a short time, fuelled by enthusiasm and energy, he developed a roaring general practice. It was indeed a testament to his resourcefulness that so soon he was able to open a satellite surgery in Hambantota. Those walking into his surgery appreciated his wonderful bedside manner, warmth and humanity. In this rural idyll Derryck enjoyed a distinguished and varied life and became a respected member of that community. I visited him with friends on several occasions. He took time off his busy schedule to be our generous host and entertained us most warmly. The joy of being with friends never left him. There were times Derryck got on his heavy BMW Motor Cycle and travelled several hours to visit his friends in Kurunegala. This was indeed a glorious success story. But then Derryck had a restless spirit. He had the drive and the aspiration to better himself.
After four years of service to the rural community, in 1974, he sold his practice and left for the UK to pursue a career in Radiology. He worked in the prestigious St Mary’s Hospital in Praed Street, London. I knew Derryck at school but got to know him more closely when we were Senior Registrars together at the Maida Vale Hospital for Nervous Diseases. We both served two of the best Neuroradiologists of the time, David Sutton and Brian Kendall. It was an exciting time in Radiology with the emergence of computerised imaging. Although the work was difficult and demanding being with Derryck was such a great pleasure. His generosity with his time and his indefatigable work ethic made him fun to work with. Derryck’s forthrightness and sense of duty stood out and he was well liked by all. When the need arose, he could be tough and combative. Wherever he worked he established a formidable reputation as a strong and decisive leader. He never shrank away from speaking his mind and knew where to draw the line. We all remember the time when a hospital porter called him ‘Derrick’ - he said firmly but with a smile, “call me Dr De Silva”. Derryck’s wit and humour helped us to overcome the tough and tedious work of that institution. With Don Anthony and Anand, the Sri Lankan radiographers who worked with us, there was plenty of spirit and togetherness. The way we stuck together made us a happy team that enjoyed our Radiology providing a fine service that was much valued. He was someone whose commitment would surpass many.
Like most Sri Lankans, Derryck was an inveterate cricket fan. Maida Vale Hospital was a short walk away from the Lords Cricket Grounds. We often drifted to the Home of Cricket after work and at weekends to enjoy the game and the Champagne. Even now when I watch cricket at Lords I'm reminded of those happy times.
It seemed as though there were more hours in his day than in everyone else’s. In his youth Derryck was an entrepreneur. Despite the hard work and the onerous routines of Radiology he continued with his business interests dabbling in the lucrative travel industry and buying and selling upmarket luxury cars. He spoke very little of his burgeoning business empire!!
When he qualified as a Radiologist Derryck’s wandering star resurfaced. Many of his peers and tutors were astonished when he decided to leave the UK. He moved to Essen in Germany where he learnt the language and continued to build his career working in General and Neuro-Radiology. Resourceful as ever, for Derryck, this heralded a period of great success and achievement. The family were living their dream when tragedy struck. The death of his first wife, Chitra in 1997 to illness was a shattering blow. There was much sympathy but the road ahead was a difficult one. He cared and supported his children to give them a fine education and a good start in life. His son and daughter both qualified as doctors. They now live and work in Colombo. Derryck spent a great deal of time in Sri Lanka with his wife Renate and the extended family.
We have been friends since schooldays. What stands out is his honesty, unimpeachable integrity and the ability to take life in his stride. Derryck's ability to bring people together is simply unique. My enduring memory of Derryck is his love for sing-songs when he sang the famous spiritual “Down by the Riverside “ standing around a piano. He knew all the words and its multitude of parodies. This image captures the spirit of the man perfectly.
When Doctoring and healthcare changed beyond recognition over the years Derryck remained a part of the ever decreasing number of medics who worked to embody the spirit of Hippocrates. Derryck had conducted himself in a manner that reflects the highest traditions of the profession. Retirement meant little to a man whose zest for life was huge. Not long ago when I phoned him he was renovating an old “Walauwwa” in Panadura.
More recently his own health has not been at its best. Derryck dealt with these issues with enormous courage and characteristic indomitable spirit. He remained cheerful and his enthusiasm for life never waned. This wonderful attitude to adversity is a beacon to us all.
When Derryck knew he was terminally ill he attended the funeral of a dear friend and colleague from Kurunegala. Derryck asked his friend's wife if there were any messages for her husband as he would be meeting him soon!!!
Derryck remained a loyal true blue Wesleyite all his life. When we were both medical students and the Old Wesleyites Sports Club (OWSC) was in its infancy we often drifted to its bar for a drink to be with our old school pals and appreciate and enjoy the atmosphere. I recall the many times we met at the London Old Boy's meetings that ended in a dinner in a local restaurant. Whenever we met or chatted on the phone we reminisced our time at school and enquired about mutual friends. Such was the strength of feeling for his old school. This is indeed an end of an era. We remember Derryck with affection and respect.
On behalf of the Worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank Derryck for his commitment and contribution to the life of the school.
A life long practical joker his was a life well lived. He was well educated, well travelled and enjoyed all the good things in life. Despite the years he never lost his sense of fun and adventure and we remember most fondly his 'joie de vivre'.
We pass on our condolences to his wife Renate, son Rohitha and daughter Nilmini who gave him their love and care always and all through his final illness. Nilmini has made a gift of a Scholarship at Wesley College to be presented annually in Derryck's name.
His was a life well lived - Rest in Peace my friend
I seek the wisdom of the Roman Poet Horace:
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Today I was speaking with Ranjit Alwis. He was with me in the boarding and also in the 6th Form at Wesley and now lives in Adelaide, Australia. During the conversation I asked about our mutual friends. He mentioned that T.S. Wanigatunga who was with us in the boarding has passed away a couple of years ago, after a prolonged illness. This sad news brought back, a flood of pleasant memories of the man I knew and respected. School friends of the calibre of T.S Wanige are fast diminishing. I admired then his friendship, spirit and courage.
T.S Wanigatunga, “Wanige”, as we called him was a confident lad who joined in the fun and the mischief that was endemic in the boarding. He first set foot in the school with his elder brother in the early fifties. Their father was a Post Master at Horana and his mother taught at the famous Sri Palee School. T.S Wanige matured into a well-mannered, capable and responsible pupil. His brother D.S Wanigatunga was several years his senior and was in the boarding too. D.S Wanige entered the Faculty of Medicine from Ananda College but never qualified as a doctor and left the Faculty to proceed to a different career.
I recall most fondly the cricket and football we played day after day in the small park. In football he was a brave defender and a ruthless tackler. We were competitive in those days. I remember with much nostalgia the tiffs and the arguments that ensued. There was also a game called " Thachchi" which was played in the Badminton courts in the front of the school. T.S Wanige was a fine exponent of that game. His favourite sport however was basketball which he played in the school team from 1959-63. I remember Wanige being rather physical and very vocal playing basketball every evening at Campbell Park, next to the tennis courts. There was intense loyalty to the hostel. All the Hostellers were in Moscrop House which brought a great degree of unity amongst the boarders. These surfaced at inter-house matches and the annual sportsmeet.
Wanige was tenacious, competitive and single-minded. He knew what he wanted and did what was necessary to achieve his goals. His determination never faltered. Once he had an idea in his head, there was no letting go of it. He is often frank and candid and this attracted controversy. In any argument he was persuasive. Wanige was never a push-over and fought his corner to the very end. Perhaps these are characteristics of competitive sportsmen. Despite all this, he was charming, helpful and kind and was well-liked. He was a popular lad liked by the students and the teachers alike.
There is no greater honour for any schoolboy than being selected to be the Head Boy of the school. For his leadership qualities he was appointed the Senior Prefect in 1963. A very prestigious and important role at school. Self-confident but never flashy, Wanige held this position with a strict air of detachment in keeping with the authoritative face of the Prefects Guild of the era. As the Head Boy Wanige was well known for his approachability, compassion and fairness. While standing to attention during Assembly at the Great Hall Wanige's unruffled composure made us feel this had all been done before
After leaving school in December 1963 he joined the Ceylon Ceramics Corporation. There they recognised his ability and he rose rapidly up the ranks to become its General Manager. He held this position with pride,honesty and dignity. Wanige always walked with his head held high earning the respect and confidence not only of his superiors, but also his peers and subordinates. After a long, successful and rewarding career he retired to his home town in Uduwa near Horana. I do not know from first hand how life treated him as we never met after leaving school. From what I've heard it seems his was a good life well lived. I recall giving him a call few years ago while he was in Horana. We talked a lot about old times, friends and teachers. He had the full collection of school magazines of his years at Wesley which brought him, in his retirement, wonderful memories and a good insight into life at Wesley of our time. Wanige spoke volumes and most warmly of his time at school and the boarding. We spoke of the Annual Hostel trips and the mischief there was.
As we spoke Wanige said his health was not at its best but life was still good. We did promise we will keep in touch. But living in London with the time difference and the vast oceans that separate us this wasnt an easy task. I do regret this.
Yet another school friend has crossed the vale. This brings me great sadness but feel we were so fortunate to have spent time together in those memorable formative years.
Fifty years on, those of us who were there at school and in the boarding reminisce fondly of a memorable time. On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites Worldwide we thank T.S Wanigatunga for his contribution to the life of the school. We thank Wanige for the memories and the laughter of those happy school years. Our Brotherhood would be poorer without him. Parting does brings great sorrow.
At this time we also remember his brother D.S Wanigatunga who is now no more
May they both find the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
It was with deep sadness the death was announced of Mr.Sam Gnanadurai a few days ago in Canberra, Australia. He has been unwell for some considerable time.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
After a prestigious First Class Honours degree in Mathematics at University Of Ceylon, Colombo Mr Sam Gnanadurai started teaching at Wesley in 1958. He was only a few years older than some of us in the 6th form. He was a fine teacher of Physics and Maths for the GCE and University Entrance classes. He was softly-spoken,kind and modest and was a quiet private man who got on with the job of teaching. Mr Gnanadurai's enthusiasm for his speciality generated a great deal of interest in the subject. I learnt much from him as there was a dearth of good maths and physics teachers at Wesley during those years.
I am indeed grateful for his efforts which helped me enormously to get through the difficult entrance examination to the Faculty of Medicine. At least for some of us number crunching didn't come to us naturally.
What I remember most of all is his patience, kind ways and his great efforts to make us understand the principles of Mathematics and Physics.
He left Wesley after 4 years when he was awarded a Government Scholarship to study Engineering in the UK. On his return to Sri Lanka he joined Telecommunications Department. After some years he emigrated to Papua New Guinea where he served as a Telecom Engineer. When he retired Mr Gnanadurai settled down in the beautiful city of Canberra.
Mr Gnanadurai's commitment to teaching during those 4 years made a great deal of difference to many. This is an appreciation for a teacher who made a lasting impression in the classroom and had a positive influence.
We appreciate his contribution to teaching and the life of the school. Mohan Thambyah who lives in Canberra has remained in touch with him and our grateful thanks to him for this journey down memory lane.
From Mohan Thambyah
Sam Gnanadurai who passed away on the 9th of January 2021 was laid to rest on the 15th. There was a church service conducted in the Baptist church which he attended. The eulogies were given by members of the family. His eldest son David mentioned his time as a teacher at Wesley, and the tribute that you paid him for his services in mathematics & physics. Your tribute was circulated among the members of the family, and they were very appreciative of your efforts for taking time after several decades.
In view of the Covid situation there were only 50 attendees at the church, and also for the wake that followed.
Mohan
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From Felix Berman, Melbourne, Australia
I have got some information on Boris to share with you, which we got from his wife.
Boris migrated to Australia in 1984. He married Melanie Coomarawel in Australia.
While in Sri lanka he worked for Darley Butler. He was a Sales Representative. Then started his own business in Tea.
In Australia he worked for the Tramways and Railway.
He passed away on 2.10.1992 at the age of 52. He suffered from an Aneurysm.
With best wishes for 2021.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
The lovely photo of Boris Schrader brings him back to life. I have fond memories of Boris who was in the boarding with me at Wesley College Colombo from about 1950 until about 1958. He was a year senior to me but we remained friends as we played cricket and football in the Small Park and Campbell Park. Cricket was popular and played with great interest and intensity. He was a fine fast bowler with the popular tennis ball cricket we all played at the time. Everyone wanted Boris on their side due to his fine bowling skills. His long run up to bowl was intimidating. Although he took cricket seriously Boris never wanted to go beyond playing for fun with friends. I am convinced with some encouragement and coaching he could have played for Wesley.
Boris was always a kind soul, rather placid and never got involved in the arguments, tiffs and bullying that was endemic in boarding houses. He was a quiet lad. Boris had connections with the Salvation Army in Slave Island and there were people from that institution to visit him regularly. He remained rather religious and God fearing all through his school career. I have a faint recollection he was in the ever popular school choir managed by Mr. Maxwell de Alwis
I left the boarding in 1958 and lost contact with Boris and often wondered how life panned out for him. Through personal communications I understand Boris worked for Darley Butler and Company in Colombo. Founded in 1848 on a partnership between Edward J Darley and Samuel Butler, the company was reputed for being a primary exporter of tea and local produce, as well as the island’s first recorded exporter of coffee.
I tried to get further information through school friends but none was available. Finally I tried through Victor Melder who helps to bring people together through his emails. This worked as you see when Felix Berman very kindly has gone out of his way to get information. An Old Wesleyite, Ron Abeydeera too contacted me about Boris for which I am immensely grateful
I am greatly saddened that he died young as I'm certain he had much to offer the country and the community where he lived.
On behalf of the Brotherhood of Old Boys worldwide I thank Boris for his contributions to the life of the school. Although belated we pass on our condolences to his family.
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Wesley College 1st XI Cricket Team - 1960 Captained by Senthil Sinniah
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By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Senthilnathan Rajendran Sinniah - A Portrait of a Gentleman
Senthil was born in Colombo in 1940. He attended several schools before finally settling down at Wesley College in January 1953. It is on record that he won the best speakers prize at St Thomas’ Preparatory School in Colpetty in 1952.
Senthil had two serious setbacks quite early in life. His father died suddenly in 1947, a heart-rending tragedy. He adored his father and his world fell apart. He recalls being taught by his father how to read the cricket scores. He remembers most fondly receiving his first cricket bat from his dad which marked the beginning of a lifelong love affair with the game. In 1950 Senthil contracted Diphtheria, a potentially life threatening and debilitating disease. In those days only a few survived the infection. He owes his life to Dr L.O. Abeyratne, the famous child specialist of that era, who took great care of him during those traumatic weeks in hospital. These two events had a lasting effect on his life. Loss of a parent in chilhood is the biggest blow to any child. On looking back trials in life provide great opportunities too; the lessons we learn coping with the loss make us better prepared for life and hardships ahead.
Senthil said the following about his spell at Wesley College: “As I look back, I owe a great debt to Wesley-to all my teachers who taught and influenced me. The sheer personality of Mr. Oorloff, the Principal and the softly spoken but firm Mr. De Lanerolle, the Vice Principal. I enjoyed my education at Wesley mainly due to the wonderful teachers and the wide circle of school friends I had. I entered into the life of the school and its activities loyally and held posts of responsibility and trust. I was a Prefect at school, House Captain of Hillard House, Leader of the Senior Debating Team and a member of the English "Spelling Bee" team, which won the Inter-School contest in 1959. I captained the College Cricket Team in 1960. We had a very young team---Koddituwakku, Lucky Goonetilleke and myself were the only "Coloursman" but the youngsters were immensely talented. I also played in the Rugby XV in 1958-60 and College tennis team. Played Doubles with Nalendra Abeysuriya and reached the quarter-finals in the Public Schools Championships in 1959. Member of the Colombo Schools Combined Cricket Team in 1960 and played for the Colombo Schools Rugby XV in 1960. I observed the rules of the school but was caned by Mr. Oorloff in 1955 for talking with Nalendra Abeysuriya, in the library. We were talking about the Australia Vs England test match and got two strokes each. I never broke that rule again. I am greatly indebted to Mr Edmund Dissanayake who remained my mentor throughout my school career. I learnt much from him about the technical aspects of cricket but above all he taught me to respect it laws, players, umpires and the game itself".
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Wesley College Tennis Team of 1958:
Seated from L:R - P.S Rodrigo, Mr PH Nonis, Mr C.Y Yesudian, Nalendra Abeysuriya
Sadly none from this tennis photo are alive today
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At Wesley Senthil was 2 years my senior. But I remember him well as he was a fine all round sportsman and captained cricket. Senthil was a naturally gifted cricketer. He was a batsman of rare polish and a fine, astute leader. He was prolific with the bat and ball in the 1960 school cricket season. The effortlessness and style of his batting was a pleasure to watch. As a bowler he had an easy rhythm and a sharp brain and took many wickets. During his captaincy the emphasis was on sharp fielding, positive batting, accurate bowling and high standard of behaviour. As the captain his quiet wisdom and gentle humour kept things in perspective. He was popular with team-mates and opponents alike. Senthil lead an exceptional team in 1960 that included LR Goonetilleke, who went on to represent Sri Lanka. He also had spent a year in the boarding.
Speaking of the 1960's, to be a 1st XI cricketer at Wesley was a great honour. Wherever he went, students wanted to shake his hand or simply shout out his name. He always responded with a smile. Cricketers were placed on a pedestal and received much respect. Despite their teenage years they received this adulation with poise and dignity. Conceit grows imperceptibly and the person who is afflicted is usually unaware of it. Fortunately the hard knocks of our lives at school and those in the cricket field were enough to tone it down. The effort to suppress one's feelings and behave well in public continuously must have been a great strain. Many of the cricketers managed to keep their feet firmly on the ground and be aware of the ephemeral nature of fame. Much has to be said about the discipline and training at Wesley which helped to groom such men of modesty and valour. I must say, I looked at them with some envy and respect.
Cricket was all consuming and he had little time for academia. Senthil’s first affection was for English literature, and as was the fashion of the time he committed to memory great cataracts of poetry, which he would still recite with perfect recall.
He dressed elegantly and moved with the upper crust at school. He delighted in debate and was never a push-over. Even in those days of our youth he was talented, stylish and erudite. He was always a gentleman in the finest sense of the word.
When he was 18 he turned down a job to become a tea-taster, a lucrative post, in a famous company in the tea industry. The rejection was a stroke of fortune as it turned out later.
Senthil left school in 1960. In his own words: “After school, I was hoping to enter the Law College to qualify as a Solicitor but unfortunately, I had to obtain a credit pass in Sinhalese (Senior School Certificate). This was legislation introduced by Mr SWRD. Bandaranayake---when he became the Prime Minister. I decided, much against family wishes, to leave for England in September 1960. On reflection, this was the best decision I had made even though it broke my heart to leave my mother and sister”.
He travelled to England by ship round the Cape of Good Hope. Senthil has many stories of the camaraderie of the Sri Lankans who travelled with him. There are some interesting anecdotes of his few days in Cape Town during the Apartheid era. He had a close encounter with the law for joining the "Whites Only queue". In London Rev James Cartman found him a place at the Methodist International House. He was most surprised to see the "No Coloureds and No Blacks" notices hanging outside some guest houses and hotels. His steely determination helped him to overcome these barriers to complete his education with great distinction. He was never short of courage or determination and he successfully negotiated the obstacles that were placed before him. Senthil supported himself with a series of summer jobs. This adaptability and willingness to talk to people and involve himself in their world regardless of their background profoundly shaped his approach to life.
The permissive sixties was the era of sex, drugs and rock and roll. Every radio played the music of the Beatles and the Rolling Stones. The complex and intoxicating world of the Hippies influenced and attracted many who wanted to be free. Senthil was barely out of his teens when he first saw the bright lights of London. But he had the strength of character to maintain his focus on further education and to achieve his goals despite the great temptations around him. His achievements are a glowing testimony to his ability and tenacity.
Senthil found himself thrust into a world altogether different to the one he had grown up in, and with time made himself at home. He worked for the National Westminster Bank from 1962 and completed his Banking examinations to become one of its trusted Managers. He worked with intelligence, imagination, courage and character with a desire to make a better life. He was self-confident, sophisticated and, frankly outspoken. He demanded high standards from those who worked with him and was not afraid to shake the hierarchy above when the need arose. During his long and successful career in the City Senthil became a role-model for a younger generation of Bank managers.
In October, 1965 he Married Norma Turner-Wright, an English Nurse, from Devon. This created quite a stir in his family but he stood firm. Senthil and Norma have 3 children - Son, Rohan --born in Colombo Presently working and living in Manhattan, New York. Twin daughters Naomi and Melanie both married and living in Devon. He has five grandchildren--3 boys and 2 girls. (Isaac, Reuben, Carrick, Orla and Poppy). He is truly proud of his close knit family.
Senthil: “In 1983 I visited Sri Lanka with my family. Sadly, we arrived on the day the race riots broke out. Fortunately, Nalendra Abeysuriya was at the airport and arranged for us to travel to our hotel in two army jeeps. Nalendra and I had kept in touch since leaving school. He was a wonderful friend and I was devastated when he died in October, 1983”.
Senthil continued to play cricket and had many successful season with the Chesham Cricket Club (1970-92). He had a shrewd cricketing brain. Underneath his equable temperament the competitive fire still burned strongly within him. The club established in 1848 has a fine reputation and play their games in the Thames Valley League. It has remained a leading club in Buckinghamshire for over a century. The Club has supplied players to representative cricket at national, regional, county and district levels since its inception. For a self-made Sri Lankan cricketer, he ended his career with the Chesham Cricket Club in pretty good company. In the community of cricketers he was as popular as they come.
He retired from the NatWest Bank in 1992. From 1994—2005 he worked on a part time basis as a Consultant at the Share Centre in Aylesbury. He was respected and admired for his wealth of experience which he always dispensed in a calm and courteous manner. As always he was highly dependable and scrupulously accurate and honest. He kept apart from the drinking culture and the fiercely competitive atmosphere so prevalent of the era, yet was highly respected.He has many outside interests which retirement gave him the time to enjoy to the full. He plays and coaches cricket, loves to travel, enjoys hiking and rambling and is awfully fond of good food and fine wine, to mention just a few of his interests. He also loves a flutter on the Stock Exchange keeping a regular tab on the FTSE 100.
Retirement has also given him the time to pursue his interest in charitable work. Many have admired his sympathetic nature. Senthil has concentrated on helping poor families in Sri Lanka who were hit by the devastating Boxing Day Tsunami of 2002. He has visited Ridiyagama in Hambantota to help 2 destitute families to give them moral and financial support. These acts of friendship gives him great comfort and joy. He makes special mention of LR Goonetilleke who ferried him from the airport on his many visits to Sri Lanka and also on occasions took him to Hambantota. Senthil is most grateful for these acts of kindness. He still keeps in close touch with Wesley College cricketers of his era many of whom are now retired and living in Sri Lanka. He is grateful to the school for his wonderful all round education from which he has benefitted enormously. In return whenever the school needed funds he has dipped deep into his pockets.
The 30 year civil war in Sri Lanka divided and alienated its people. A generation of Sri Lankans grew up in this most unhealthy milieu created by the bitterness that arose from the conflict. This polarised the communities. In all the years I have known Senthil he never took sides but worked hard to build bridges and bring the communities together. He still considers himself a Sri Lankan and yearns for a peaceful country where all the communities can live in harmony and without fear. I wish his dream will come true in our lifetime. Senthil was creased with grief when the Tsunami struck Sri Lanka with the loss of so many lives. His desire to help the Sinhalese families made destitue by the tragedy showed his disregard for the politics of narrow-mindedness and prejudice. Those liberal views and his generosity are a beacon to us all.
When the Wesley College OBU-UK was in serious crisis Senthil stepped in to become its President. As the "boss" he had an arresting presence. He cleared the mess and brought the organisation back to its feet again. His ability as a good and honest leader helped us enormously. His impact on the OBU can never be overstated as he rebuilt the self-confidence of the organisation. To balance the books and keep it clean he was a fund of shrewd advice and penetrating comment. Senthil maintained a dignity, authority and modesty that won him a large measure of affection. It was recognised during his tenure that anyone at whom his acerbic tongue was directed generally deserved it.
I came to know Senthil when we both served in the OBU-UK Executive Committee. Since then we have kept in close touch and have watched cricket together at Lords Cricket Grounds with plenty of time to reminisce and recall those happy years at school. He fondly remembers the many colourful characters, students and teachers, that passed through the gates of Wesley College during our time. Senthil now lives in North Devon in a little village called Landkey. His cottage is in an idyllic setting surrounded by lofty green hills, away from the dust and grime of the city. It is his paradise. Living in a small community has many benefits. There is a sense of belonging, a safe environment and lots of local support. Cricket still remains a part of his life. In his spare time he continues to plays some games for a local Club and also does some coaching for youngsters.
I spent a few days with him in Landkey, which has the gracious atmosphere of a village of the Old South-West and enjoyed the surroundings and his company enormously. By nature he is a private person. Senthil is determined that retirement does not necessarily mean fading quietly away. He is full of energy and huge fun to be with. He has a great gift for entertaining and is charming, witty and urbane. His kind and generous ways made us at home. We had warm sunshine throughout the week and it turned out to be one of our most memorable holidays. He is still the dignified honest gentleman I knew at school. Despite his achievements Senthil remains modest and unassuming. He reflects philosophically on the ironies, successes and disappointments of his life. The years have made him wiser. One of the advantages of growing older is that the emotional climate grows calmer. Contentment replaces ambition. Warmth and affection replace burning desire. Companionship and tolerance replace agony and despair. He now spends his time tending to his lovely little garden, feeding the birds that visit him regularly and seeing his grandchildren grow up to become useful citizens of this wonderful world.
He often describes how his character has been shaped, during his childhood, by his close knit family and his school. He is a gentleman and one of great sensitivity, charm and good humour. He is also exceptionally thoughtful. His love of history, geography, nature and the outdoors is infectious and I got to know it well as we went on a tour of South America in January 2011. That was a fortnight well spent amongst friends. We had much in common to discuss and to reminisce and we laughed a lot. During the trip despite its trials and hardships Senthil was dependable, generous and witty. He had a fine selection of distinctive hats his favourite being a colourful inca hat which he wore with great pride.
He is a resolute humanist and a libertarian. Having witnessed deep poverty across the continent the trip awoke his social consciousness and political convictions. Ever-thoughtful, there was in him an ethos of compassionate concern for the downtrodden and exploited Inca people to whom he gave generously. He was always able to strike up an instant and instinctive rapport with the people he met. He saw a strong connection between the suffering he witnessed over the years and the joy and desire of all people to live, love and laugh together.
With his gracious smile he was indeed a great asset to the well being and unity of the whole group. Climbing the steps of Machu Picchu, the stunning views of the Iguazu Falls, the sheer artistry of the Tango in Buenos Aires and the awe-inspiring statue of Christ the Redeemer in Rio de Janeiro were the highlights that come easily to mind. It was indeed a most memorable journey that we will cherish forever. I will remember the charm of his company for many many years.
I can never remember him as being overtly religious at school although he took part in the Sunday Services like the rest of us. He now finds comfort in the Church and its teachings and has strong convictions about the integrity of Christian truth. Senthil has learned from his long experience the need for the Church to deal with the more important questions of life and death, rather than with the ecclesiastical trivialities and divisions that claimed so much of its attention. He recognised also the experiences and value of other faiths. In his own life he moved from being a Methodist to embrace the Church of England. He now lives in the shadow of St Paul's Church in Landkey , which the locals believe, was founded by Sir Francis Drake in 1586 as a settlement to escape from the Spanish Armada. Senthil is now an integral part of that Church community being a useful member taking part in its many activities.
In his retirement Senthil remained a man of regular and moderate habits, of elegance and charm, of wit and wisdom, of inner peace and spiritual contentment.
Senthil was above all a true Blue Wesleyite and was always proud of it. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school
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On January 10th, 2010, a party of nine of us---which included Nihal, his wife Chiu and myself-- left Heathrow Airport on an exciting trip to the continent of South America. We were visiting Peru, Bolivia, Argentine and Brazil. As none of us had been to these countries, this was a trip of a lifetime.
I have been fascinated by South America---ever since my schooldays. I well remember my geography master (Mr. Ivor de Silva) talking about the Andes mountain range and the Argentinian " Gauchos." At school, Nihal was two years my junior. I well remember him as a very smart lad who never gave the teachers or the Prefects any problems.!!! Little did we know that we would be visiting South America to-gether---some 56 years later.!!!
Our first stop was in LIMA (the capital of Peru) where we spent two days and thence to CUZCO-- 14,000 feet above sea level and the former Inca imperial capital of Peru. We were warned about altitude sickness being a problem to some travellers. I never gave it a thought---having never been at such a high altitude. In Cuzco, we spent the day visiting Sacsayhuaman---the Inca ruins. We returned to our hotel in the evening and freshened up to attend a
concert featuring local Inca singers and dancers. While I was having a shower, I began to feel unwell---my breathing being erratic. However, I decided to attend the concert.
At the concert, I took a turn for the worse and decided to return to the hotel and have an early night. Nihal saw me and insisted on accompanying me back to the hotel. I tried to dissuade Nihal and asked him to stay behind and enjoy the evening but he insisted that he should take me back to the hotel -----"True friends are those rare people, who ask how you are, and then wait to hear the answer."
On returning to the hotel, Nihal helped me up to my room on the fourth floor. At this stage, I was really fighting to breathe and Nihal asked me to lie down to see whether my condition would improve. I knew I was in a bad way but it was so re-assuring to have Nihal with me. As my condition worsened, Nihal said " Senthil, you need a doctor. I will go to the Reception Desk and summon a Doctor." While Nihal was away, I thought my time was up, so I said a little prayer---"Please Lord, dont let me die here---so far away from my family."
I was relieved to see Nihal back and soon after the Doctor appeared---- a Peruvian doctor, who spoke good English, which was a relief to me. Having examined me fully, he said that my oxygen level was alarmingly low ---69, a critical level. The normal oxygen level being 90-100. I was taken to the Clinic----which was about half a mile from the hotel---and spent the night there. I have nothing but praise for the Peruvian doctors and nurses who took care of me---language was no barrier as most of the hospital staff spoke a bit of English.Nihal accompanied me to the Clinic and returned to the hotel at around 10.00pm---"the most precious possessions that comes to a man, in this world, is a true friend -------." I was released that evening.
I am writing this article to say "Thank you" and as a tribute to a very distinguished, un-assuming and urbane Old Wesleyite--- DR. Nihal Douglas Amarasekera. Nihal is reluctant to talk or write about this life saving episode. As a retired eminent consultant----he strictly observes the patient/doctor confidentiality rule. I am certain that were it not for Nihal's presence in my hotel room that January evening, I would not be writing this article. In this cynical world, Nihal is a man of immense moral stature. I am so glad that late in my life and some forty five years since leaving college, I have met and be-friended Nihal and his gracious wife Chiu. "There are big ships and small ships but the best ship is FRIENDSHIP.
I will be in Nihal's debt for the rest of my life and my family join me in saying a sincere "Thank You."
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By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news of the demise of my life long friend Senthil Sinniah. The funeral took place on the 19th of February at 11 am in Landkey near Barnstaple in North Devon where he spent his retirement close to his family whom he adored.
Senthil passed away in January 2021 at the height of the Covid epidemic. During this period there were severe travel restrictions. Gatherings of people were discouraged. Hence I was not able to attend his funeral which was held in North Devon, 5 hours journey away from me. I have deep regrets in not being able to say thank you for the many happy years of friendship and bid a final goodbye to my friend.
Although we were together in the school boarding, I came to know Senthil more closely in 2006 when he phoned me, from out of the blue, asking me to join the Wesley College OBU-London and be in the committee. At the time I was busy with my commitment to hospital. After much thought I agreed and there began a close friendship that lasted until his demise. Senthil was a man of principles and dedication. Independent minded, his versatility and poise were invaluable assets in his position as the President of the Organisation. Senthil’s honesty and daring fearlessness stood out. He called a spade a spade and spoke his mind. Wherever he turned up, he brought an extraordinary energy and ability.
He was generous to a fault and whenever we were out wining and dining he was the first to pull out his purse saying “ this one is on me”. Senthil was a free spirit and had a streak of stubbornness which we all learnt to accept. Whatever advice that was given to him be it medical, financial or anything else was like water on a duck’s back. He disagreed politely, courteously and respectfully. He just went on and did what he had planned to do. I fondly remember some of his other quirky ways too. He disliked public transport as he didn’t like being seated next to smokers and smelly people with bad breath. Senthil kept his house and garden immaculately clean.
When I connected again with Senthil in the UK he lived in a delightful little two bedroom bungalow appropriately named "Periwinckle Cottage". It is in a beguilingly attractive small village called Landkey in North Devon. My wife and I made many visits to North Devon which was nearly 5 hours drive away from us. We stayed at ‘Periwinckle Cottage’ where Senthil spent his retirement. He kept the house and the garden immaculately. In the evenings when the sun was bright his conservatory was warm as Sri Lanka of our childhood. I recall with much nostalgia our evenings in his lovely cottage seated in the conservatory talking of old times. He was a fine raconteur, charming, courteous and funny. With an endless supply of stories he told many a good anecdote. We chatted into the night reviving old memories and exchanging stories of Wesley. Senthil controlled his emotions perfectly except after a glass of wine when we talked of school, friends and cricket. He dipped into his memory to recall some of those memorable events. That is when I noticed his eyes well-up and his voice breaking with emotion. There were times he broke down and wiped a tear.
He was a man of sober habits. All through his life he never drank excessively, Never smoked and believed in the old adage "early to bed and early to rise ......". Even if he had Royalty at home, Ten O'Clock at night was bedtime for Senthil.
Cricket was his passion. Quite early on in his life, a competitive side began to manifest itself. We often spoke at great length of his cricketing days at Wesley. He recounted many stories of the matches he played, of his team mates and his erstwhile opponents. One that cropped up often was his 96 runs scored against a very strong Ananda College side when he was needlessly run out. In those days as our school cricket captain Senthil had a spring in his step. He was full of energy and fizzing with the joys of life. Although a cliché it is so true that sport reveals the character. He was smart, intelligent and honourable with a great sense of sportsmanship. But there was also a reckless streak from which he would not budge. Although kind, gentle and most understanding Senthil did what he felt was right whatever the advice, obstacles or problems.
There are several common attributes that unite good cricketers: high levels of talent and skill; an unquenchable competitive spirit and never-say-die approach; and total self-belief. Senthil was blessed with all those attributes and more. The cricket establishment at Wesley recognised his potential making him the captain in the 1959/60 season. He was always grateful for the faith and trust placed in him. As the captain he loved the strategy and the tactics and used them to good effect. He believed playing cricket and being captain was good preparation for life. The school cricket engendered much camaraderie. He was able to recall with great clarity many of the games and the friendships that ensued. Convivial to a fault Senthil spoke warmly of those times and with much emotion.
Senthil had a tremendous love for the game and also possesed the stamina for the hard work and the regular practices required to become a good cricketer. This made him a brilliant fielder, a very good and reliable batsman and a probing and dependable bowler. In his bowling he varied his pace intelligently, used the bowling crease to his advantage. Typical of the man, he always had a plan in mind. On the topic of cricket he was opinionated and yet introspective, staunchly loyal, fiercely patriotic and unfailingly competitive.
Watching school cricket in those days was pure theatre. Cricketers were held in high esteem. Despite his young age he had a liberal and progressive mind. Senthil dealt with the fame, attention and the adulation with good grace. When I look back I can say with all honesty, there were no airs about him. Senthil achieved many things as a schoolboy cricketer of my time that brought smiles and happiness to many. We thank him for those good times.
Senthil was a valued member of the school debating team. There were many interschool debates some of which were held in our Great Hall. These were well attended and very popular. I can still remember with such clarity Senthil fighting his corner fiercely amidst the cheers from the audience. Senthil carried with him the debating skills he had learnt and used them sensibly all through his life. We saw it in action when he was the President of the Old Boys Union in the UK when the organisation required some firm handling of sensitive situations. He cleaned up the Union from the petty rifts and squabbles which had taken root for several years. Senthil was a dignified gentleman and wanted honesty and courtesy at all times and got it. His tenure as President of the UK- OBU will be long remembered for his fine oratory, friendship and the camaraderie he promoted in the organisation and for the many dinners and dances that brought us together. Those who worked with him would remember his affable ways, and also his quirks and eccentricities.
He loved Toyota cars for their sleek designs and reliability. He owned a sporty Toyota Celica while working in London. Although he sold it prior to moving to Devon, Senthil regretted this very much and bought another Celica around 2014. This was his pride and joy. He took great care of it and kept it in fine order.
On my many journeys with him in Devon and in South America I realised how genuinely he cared for the poor and the less fortunate. Empathy is one of the best qualities in a human being. There’s so much that’s out of our control, but we can control our ability to be good and thoughtful people. He never failed to give money to the many poor families he came across in Peru and made generous donations to charities in the UK and in Sri Lanka. After the Boxing day Tsunami in 2004 he supported an affected family in Hambantota and paid for the education of the children. He visited them to make certain the money was used wisely and according to his wishes. Senthil embodied the best in genuine philanthropy expecting nothing in return.
Senthil didn't think much of politics and politicians. His leanings were towards the Liberal party as it stood for democracy, personal liberties, human rights, racial equality, secularism and gender equality. Senthil was an independent-minded, libertarian and scrupulously honest. He was against Brexit and wanted UK to be a part of larger Europe with closer ties and integration. It was pure coincidence that one of the famous leaders of the Liberal Party, Jeremy Thorpe, lived and died in North Devon a short distance away from Senthil's home. Jeremy Thorpe's wife is remembered at Cobbaton Hill by a tall memorial. This was one of our favourite haunts on our daily walks.
He spoke warmly of his childhood growing up in Kirillapona with his mother and sister. After the death of his father the extended family stepped in to support them. Senthil remained his mother's favourite. He played a lot of cricket with the kids in his neighbourhood. Senthil had a memory box full of stories of growing up in Ceylon and when in the right mood he related them in such graphic detail, warts and all.
Leaving Ceylon at the age of 18 was something he remembered very well. Being an only son his mother tried her best to persuade him to give up the idea. Even at the last minute at the Colombo Port his mother said to him ”It is not too late to give up the idea”. Senthil was near to tears when he spoke of his love for his mother and the deep regrets he harboured not being with her over the years to help and support the family. Not being there in her hour of need at the very end of her life did upset Senthil immensely. He took great comfort in speaking to his sister on the phone which he did often. Senthil had the ability to distance himself from those harsh memories of leaving his mother but erasing their psychological imprint was much harder to do.
Senthil was proud of his roots. He planned to visit Sri Lanka with his grandchildren to show them his old school and the old haunts. Senthil wanted them to see the beauty of the country which was once his home. Sadly his illness and the Covid pandemic prevented him from making any firm travel plans.
While I was in Devon, during the day we walked for miles around in the little town of Landkey, where he lived. The town is surrounded by many green hills and beautiful valleys with fast flowing streams. The landscape was stunning. I particularly recall our visit to Cobbaton Hill and being seated on a rock in the summer sunshine enjoying splendid views of the Landkey town and the surrounding countryside. The Exmoor National Park was a short drive away and we spent a day at Simonsbath, a delightful village that lies in the heart of Exmoor’s moorland. I recall most fondly enjoying fish and chips and cool beer in the local pub after our long trek.
After his divorce, he never married again but was dedicated to friends and family. Senthil remained a gregarious person all his life. His enthusiasm to meet old friends and also the desire to chat with them on the phone never waned. Senthil lived alone in his cottage and was determined to remain active in retirement. He learnt to prepare his own food and enjoyed cooking. He ate healthily, but he had a sweet tooth and loved his cakes, sweets and desserts. This wasn't his doctors advice. When I spent time in Devon my wife cooked and he loved the Chinese cuisine. He was so impressed with stir fried food he got my wife to buy him a Chinese Wok.
We often went to his favourite ‘SQUIRES’ fish and chip restaurant in Barnstaple. I haven’t had better fish and chips anywhere else in the UK. Senthil was a member of the National Trust, as we were, and took the opportunity to visit many of the famous houses gardens and parks in Devon. They were wonderful trips to enjoy the history and opulence of those mansions and the beauty of the lovely gardens and parks so well maintained.
I remember our trip to Lynton and Lynmouth. We spent a whole day walking by the sea and taking the Victorian Cliff railway. As always we talked a lot about life, politics and invariably of old friends and old times. Once we went to a place called Rock Park on the North Devon coast. It had beautiful views of the sea and the coastline. What caught Senthil’s eye was the quaint pavilion and the lovely village cricket grounds. He was keen to walk into the pavilion and walk around. There was nothing Senthil loved more than cricket. He played in the Thames Valley league well into his 50’s. He was a trained cricket coach and while in Devon he coached school children and his own grandsons. Although visibly ageing he was full of good cheer and wisdom. He was an advocate of the classical game. Senthil was someone who loved batsmen to play with a certain style and elegance. He didn’t enjoy slugging. Senthil taught the children to play orthodox cricket and to play with honesty and integrity, typical of the man we all knew.
As mentioned before, Senthil loved cricket and it was a love affair that never ceased. He always kept in touch with the game. At his home Senthil had a library of cricket books many about famous international series of yester year. His vast collection included biographies of famous cricketers. Senthil watched cricket on the TV and never missed a game. He often went with his grandsons to watch important county games at Taunton. Whenever I phoned him he gave me a run down of the last game he saw. He recalled with great enthusiasm the ups and downs of the game just like John Arlott, the famous cricket pundit and commentator he adored.
He trained as a professional cricket coach. The popular Filleigh Cricket Club in North Devon was keen to have him as their coach for the under 13 cricketers. First established on the grounds of Castle Hill estate in 1923, Filleigh Cricket club is now one of the premier clubs in North Devon. Teaching young cricketers orthodox cricket brought him great pleasure. He taught them the gentleman’s game he learnt at Wesley College as the 1st XI Cricket Captain. Senthil wanted the youngsters to play hard but play fair and to have respect for their opponents. Senthil was a strict disciplinarian and coached young cricketers to obey the rules of the game and to accept the umpires decisions at all times. In the modern game honesty and discipline are a casualty of the huge stakes they play for. Young cricketers are quick to learn the bad habits they see on TV. His young cricketers were trained to play proper cricket strokes before moving on to the wild unorthodox swings of the T20 games. I have had the good fortune to watch his team play on a fine summers day at the beautiful Filleigh grounds surrounded by stunning scenery. Senthil umpired the game. As an astute leader and manager he dealt appropriately with the pushy parents who tried to interfere with his team selections. He continued to enjoy coaching until his health began to fail.
For many years I had a season ticket for all the games at Lords. One of my abiding memories of Senthil is when we sat in the front row of the Edrich stand at Lords Cricket Grounds watching International Cricket. It was Champagne all the way as we enjoyed the game. We reminisced and recalled old stories and anecdotes and remembered mutual friends. There was never a dull moment being with Senthil and we laughed so much. He visited me on many occasions when I lived in Letchworth Garden City in Hertfordshire which was an easy drive away to watch cricket. My wife and I enjoyed his company immensely and it was such a pleasure to have him. The Manor farm was a large estate a short walk away from my house. The landscape was flat as a pancake and we could see for miles. Senthil and I walked into the fields and sat on a bench to enjoy the scenery as we chatted. These are simple memories of our time together that I cherish.
Senthil loved nature and very conscious of his responsibilities to keep the environment clean. He loved birds and had several bird feeders in his garden. He filled them regularly and had special feeders for the smaller birds and also for the squirrels. Senthil was able to identify the many birds who came to his feeders.
He was brought up in a strong Christian family and was a deeply religious man of enormous faith. His belief and faith never wavered. When he moved to Devon, Senthil was a short walk away from the local Church. He had a fiercely independent mind. When he joined the congregation Senthil was displeased with their archaic rules and edicts. He reluctantly stopped going to church. Being a man of deep prayer and spiritual wisdom he joined like minded Christians and enjoyed fellowship and prayers in their homes.
Senthil was an inveterate gardener. He devoted his energies to the upkeep of the small resplendent front garden. It was full of flowers and colour all year round and a haven for bees and butterflies. He loved visiting famous gardens. One of the most memorable trips we made was to Marwood Hill Gardens in Barnstaple. It is a magical 20 acre private garden hidden well away from the town. We both enjoyed walking and appreciating the impressive collection of plants, shrubs and trees and took the time to sit down on the wooden benches and chat mostly about our lives now and long ago.
Senthil had a tremendous loyalty to his old school. He felt much of what he achieved in life was due to the training he received at school and its playing fields. When a Grand Reunion was organised at Wesley College for 2012 we both felt we should attend. We met up in London and travelled together to Colombo. On the flight we chatted away until we dozed off. Our stay was at the plush Cinnamon Grand Hotel in a leafy part of the city. We travelled together to the many events that were organised by the school. It was a wonderful time to be at Wesley as many of the old timers from our era converged on the school from all over the world. They walked the long corridors and saw the old class rooms and the Great Hall. There was an Old Boys Vs Present Boys cricket match at the hallowed grounds of Campbell Park. Senthil stood out as he played in style with his cream coloured cricketing gear. At the Grand Dinner at the Galle Face Hotel Senthil went round to each and every table to speak to friends, typical of the man. On looking back I am so pleased we made that trip together.
Senthil organised a dinner at the posh 80 Club in Colombo for his school friends and some cricket colleagues. Sarath Samarasinghe, Nanda Senanayake and Michael Dias from Royal were present. It was a wonderful occasion very well attended. The food was typically Sri Lankan with hoppers and string hoppers which everyone enjoyed. The booze did flow freely. This was a most memorable gathering many will remember for a very long time.
I gave a dinner at the Cinnamon Grand for L.R Goonetilleke, L.C.R Wijesinghe and wife Pamela which Senthil attended. It was so wonderful to be together with friends.
While we were in Sri Lanka Senthil overheard that the Wesley College Cricketers were short of cricket bats, balls and sports bags. Senthil promptly put his hand up to donate money for this purpose. He asked L.R Goonetilleke to buy it for him. That was typical of his generosity and the strength of feeling he had for the school.
After all that socialising and meeting friends the time came for us to say goodbye. It was a long journey home with a head full of memories and more than a tinge of sadness not knowing if ever we would meet again.
After the Reunion dinner-2012
Photo: L to R: Front Row:
Back row:
Right at the back is Senthil Sinniah
Some Wesley College 1st XI Cricketers of Senthil's era
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Front row: D.Kodituwakku, Everard Schoorman, Derek Ingram,L.R Goonetilleke, Senthil Sinniah behind him is the head of M.N Mihlar,Kenneth De Silva,Muthuvaloe, Warwick de Kretser,Ana Thevathasan, L.C.R Wijesinghe
Seated in front is Mr.Edmund Dissanayake, standing next to him is probably Nigel Christoffelsz
Back in the United Kingdom around 2015 Senthil developed symptoms of coronary artery disease that needed a by-pass graft. Since then his health went on a spiral of decline. He lacked the energy to entertain friends. Senthil lived five hours drive away from me. Hence I could not visit him and neither could he make the journey to see me. Meanwhile I downsized and moved to London in April 2015. We kept in touch by weekly phone calls. Latterly there were times I realised he tired easily and the calls too became less frequent. In the summer of 2019 the Cricket World Cup was held in England. His friend fellow cricketer and team mate L.R Goonetilleke came over for the cricket.
Senthil decided to visit London staying with an old boy of the school - Ramakrishnan. We met up at Ramakrishnan’s for dinner with Douglas (I.D) Raymond and several others. We had a most enjoyable evening. The next day I invited Senthil and Lucky Goonetilleke for lunch at a Lebanese restaurant in South Kensington. That was a wonderful reunion as we had some wine and chatted away about our time at school, cricket, mutual friends and the ups and downs of our own lives. That was the last time we met Senthil.
He was truly one of a kind, an enigma to those privileged to share his life. True to his nature, he kept spirits high and maintained his quick wit until the very end. You don’t realise how quick life passes you. He was selflessly brave to the end. He represented the very best of human qualities. It is a salutary reminder of how easy it is to take what you’ve got for granted.
His humour and laughter will leave us inspired to live life to the fullest, just as he always did
Senthil with his usual modesty may have a chuckle reading this narrative, wagging his finger at me. He was a gem in a world of pebbles. His was a long life well lived. I am grateful for his friendship. To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die.
Senthil, I will always remember you for your friendship, presence and strength. No words can describe my loss adequately. I have lost a very dear friend. Rest in Peace.... Until we meet again.
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A Tribute to Senthil Sinniah by Lalith Wijesingha (L.C.R)
Senthil Sinniah was my 1st X1 Cricket Captain in 1960, which was my second year playing for the Wesley first team.
I cannot claim that Senthil and I were friends in 1959 and 1960 though we happened to play cricket together representing Wesley. He was my senior by two years and that was a great deal when we discuss seniority, specially during college times. Seniority was respected and we knew to keep our distance. I always felt that Senthil was someone to be admired and respected from a distance. He was far above my league and was always in elite company. Being in the College English Debating Team and spelling Bee were achievements Senthil took in his stride.Some us only aspired to these and never could realise them. I recall Senthil being a very astute Captain, stylish right hand opening batsmen,wily offspinner and a reliable, smart fielder. His allround abilities made many an impact on several 1st X1 cricket matches that we played during 1959 & 1960.
I had lost contact with Senthil and we went our separate ways since leaving college. I recall meeting him with Afgher Mohideen and Lucky Goonetilleke during one of my visits to Srilanka in 2006,I believe. It was a very brief but pleasant evening . Senthil seemed to be such a friendly and humane person and not the distant and aloof personality I imagined him to be. From this time onwards I did get to know him more through email missives and discussions with Nihal Amerasekara,who was a dear friend of Senthil’s.
Since returning to reside in Srilanka permanently I had the pleasure of meeting Senthil in November 2009 at the OWSC with many cricket team members of 1960 - his Captaincy year- to celebrate his 69th birthday. ( a separate account on this appears on the website) It was a joyous and happy occasion. What was most significant for me was the closeness I felt towards Senthil and the reinforcement in my mind that he was truly a sincere person with a broad and mature outlook. We have been in regular contact with each other,discussing mutual matters of interest with Wesley it’s past, and future taking pride of place.I was honoured to be his friend.
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From Keith de Kretser, Melbourne, Australia
It is with deep sadness that I announce the passing of former President Mr. Senthil Sinniah (1940-2021)
Past President of Wesley OBU (UK) - 2007-2008,Captain of Wesley College 1st XI Cricket team in 1960.
Played in the Rugby XV in 1958-60 and College Tennis team. Played Doubles with Nalendra Abeysuriya and reached the quarter-finals in the Public Schools Championships in 1959. Member of the Colombo Schools Combined Cricket Team in 1960 and played for the Colombo Schools Rugby XV in 1960. A Prefect at school, House Captain of Hillard House, Leader of the Senior Debating Team and a member of the English "Spelling Bee" team, which won the Inter-School contest in 1959.
He lived alone and passed away in his sleep 31st Jan at his home in Devon, UK.
On behalf of the Committee and Members of the OBU Australia I extends it's heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.
May his soul rest in peace..
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Colts Cricket Club - Trophy Winners 1966
Senthil returned to Sri Lanka on and off to see his mother and sister. During those visits he played cricket for Colts Cricket Club. He was in the Colts Trophy winning team in 1966
This was a victory in the Daily News tournament. It was a one-day knockout tournament for third division teams. The following press clippings chart the team’s journey towards victory. The players were extremely motivated and there was plenty of esprit de corp.
From the Daily News
Colts to meet Adastrians in 50-over cricket final
The Colt Cricket Club will meet the Adastrians In the N.C.C 50 over cricket final to be played on the N.C.C. grounds Maitland Place (matting wicket) On Tuesday September 11. Play will start at 10am
The N.C C. did a good Job in organising the Cecil Horan Memorial Trophy Tournament for first division clubs and this one-day knock-out tournament for third division clubs, when the CCA tournament came to a grinding halt last year owing to a court injunction.
The final on Tuesday, should provide interesting fare with the accent on fast scoring as only 50 overs have been allocated to an innings. The Colts have some promising youngster in their ranks for this final. In twitting they will have former Josephian Polycarp Wijesekera and onetime Peterite opener Charitha Goonesena while Darrel Maye, Trevor Jansz and Harris Per cm have had enough experience in big time cricket
To hackle this batting lineup the Adastrians will depend on Sarath Fernando and left arm Inswinger Dharmarajah. There is also H Hettige (off-spin) leg spinner. N. Mendis and medium pacer K. Nelson.
The Adastrians batting lie on the capable handy of Sarath Fernando. Norbert Fernando. A D. Perera and Hettige. They will however, have to keep a close watch for the pace bowling of Wijesekera and Maye and the off-spin bowling of Trevor Jansz.
The Colts defeated the Adastrians by 4 wickets.
Back Row (L to R): Charlie Goonesena, Eardley Lieversz, Polycarp Wijesekera,Vimal Jayanetti, Darrell May.
Middle Row: Senthil Sinniah, Navaratnam Thavaneetharajah, Jeffery Mortimer,Wayne de Silva, Cornel Warne.
Front Row; Garrick de Soyza, Trevor Jansz, DWL Lieversz (President),Harris Perera, Eddie Melder (Cricket secretary).
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The dinner was hosted by S.Ramakrishnan at his home in Harrow - London 2019
By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
The 2019 ICC Cricket World Cup was held in England. When L.R Goonetilleke arrived to watch the games Senthil was keen to spend some time with him. Ramakrishnan kind arranged for Senthil to stay with him and he organised a lavish dinner for several old boys in London. It was a lovely meeting with plenty of laughter recalling old memories of friends and former teachers. Layton Vanderput kindly offered me a lift home.
The day after the dinner Senthil, L.R Goonetilleke and I met up in South Kensington. I recall Senthil and I waiting by the underground station at South Kensington. We had a long chat about our time at Devon and watching cricket at the Edrich stand at Lords. With LR we all went to a Lebanese restaurant nearby and continued our chat recalling nostalgic memories. We knew we will never meet again and took the opportunity to spend a long time together. When LR said his goodbyes and parted, Senthil and I too went our separate ways. Although we kept in touch by telephone I never saw Senthil again. This is a fond and emotional memory that will remain with me forever.
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Photos kindly sent to me by Michael Christoffelsz from Sydney, Australia
From Left to Right: Michael Christoffelsz, Nihal Amerasekera, Senthil Sinniah, Nigel Christoffelsz, Reg Bartholomeusz
From Left to Right: Senthil Sinniah, Neville Perera L.R Goonetilleke, Nihal Amerasekera, and Michael Christoffelsz in the background
In 2012 during the Grand Reunion, Senthil enjoyed playing cricket at Campbell Park. This was the grounds he learnt the game and also represented the school as the Captain of the 1st XI team of 1960. He did tell me later how much he enjoyed being there.
From Left to Right: Reg Bartholomeusz, Peter Casiechetty, Michael Christoffelsz, Nihal Amerasekera, Senthil Sinniah,
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By Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
The night after the formal dinner (8th of September) which was held at the Galle Face Hotel Colombo, Senthil Sinniah hosted a dinner for the cricketers and friends at the 80 Club, Colombo7. The Club was started by 80 members of the British Raj and has remained an exclusive institution ever since. Despite its location, with its green lawns, sweeping driveway and imposing edifice it still has a country-club feel of old. There was the familiar figure of Mr. Edmund Dissanayake, the doyen of Cricket at Wesley. He spoke warmly of the 'pain' and pleasures of being a teacher at school. We admire his flair for remembering so many cricket stories in such great detail. Michael Dias, Nanda Senanayake and Sarath Samarasinghe who are Royal Cricketers of the late 1950's contributed to the fun and the laughter. At this informal occasion we had the great privilege to speak with and listen to Allan J Pathmarajah, who was also the guest-of-honour at the formal dinner at GFH. Behind his unaffected modesty lay a stern determination and ambition. He reminisced about his days at school and in the hostel. He spoke warmly of the long family association with Wesley where his father was a teacher and his brother also a student. The function was well attended and was a happy occasion with a delicious buffet of spicy curries with rice, hot hoppers and a tempting dessert of "Watalappan". Drinks flowed freely as did the conversation and friendly banter. The renewal of 'ancient' comradeship was visibly moving and joyous. Our thanks to Senthil Sinniah for inviting us and Afghar Mohideen for choosing the venue and organising the event.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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From Keith De Ktretser
I received the sad news this morning of the passing of Cassim Cader overnight in Tokyo, Japan. Cassim has been ailing for the past few months from cancer We kept in touch via WhatsApp from time to time. He was in remission after being diagnosed and treated successfully two years ago but the cancer returned towards the latter half of last year and spread rapidly. When I spoke to him a couple months back he was resigned to his destiny and decided not to receive any treatment. As the weeks passed his condition worsened and when I last spoke to him he was struggling to breath and speak as the cancer had affected his throat. He was also very weak and he was upset that his wife had to assist with his movement. I said good bye knowing that his end was nigh. Rather than waiting till he was quite unwell, I promptly sent him a text expressing my sentiments and gratefulness for his friendship. It was my personal good bye to an icon of College from the late sixties. His wish was to die in Sri Lanka where his brother Abdul and his sister live. Sadly it was never to be as his condition worsened and he was placed in Palliative care. He peacefully slipped away in the early hours of this morning.
SOME IMAGES OF M C A CADER IN HAPPIER TIMES
Marriage
With wife and daughter
Cassim joined Wesley in 1956 in the LKG. Cassim was tall, athletic and had an imposing physique. He stood out among the students because of these attributes. If you needed someone to settle an old score he was the man. However, behind this imposing exterior was a gentle, sensitive guy with a mischievous nature. He was well known for his success as a Judoka with schoolmate Asoka Jayawardene who was also a Judoka. Between them they won many National and Local awards at the Judo championships which was unique as Judo was not a regular sport at College. Cassim represented College at the Public Schools Athletics Carnival in the Field Events – Shot-Putt, Discus and Javelin. He also stood out as a flanker or No. 8 in Rugby captaining the team in 1970. His Judo background was a bonus as he tackled his opponents with a full hit to the body and then dumped on the turf with force. In tandem with Asoka who was Cassim’s skipper the previous year, they were a formidable combination against their opponents. He would give other sports a go when the need arose. As Rodney “Buster” Harvie recently recalled, he played as goalie in a hockey match for College not wearing any footwear. He was fearless. He was proud to be a Wesleyite especially when representing College in the sphere of sport.
After leaving College, Cassim went to Japan- the home of Judo where he married a Japanese lady and settled down. He had a daughter (not aware of other children) and was a proud grandfather. The fearless tough guy finally met his match, leaving us with fond memories. I am confident that in the days ahead many stories of Cassim’s feats and achievements will circulate amongst his friends. Cassim Cader is a “Legend” of his time at College. Rest peacefully my friend and thanks for the memories.
On behalf of the alumni in Australia I extend our sincere condolences to his brother Abdul, his sister and Cassim’s family on their loss.
Ora et labora
From Jeremy Kreltszheim
I remember Cassim Cader for his gentle nature and mild manner around the school yard but largely for his fearless exploits on the rugby field.
A thoughtful, strategic player, you could almost hear the cogs whir as he calculated his next move, which invariable involved an element of judo. In fact he taught me a judo move just over five decades ago that has stayed with me all these years and which I recently passed on to my nine year old granddaughter.
He also taught many of us the art of the ‘break-fall’, a very useful skill on (and off) the rugby field. This might sound amusing but I have found this technique of breaking a fall very useful over the years. For example if I were to trip, a Cassim inspired break-fall still kicks in to minimise injury.
A break-fall did result in misfortune for Cassim once however. It happened when Cassim, ball in hand and clear of the defense, loped to the try line, launched himself up into the air to execute a spectacular break-fall which resulted in not only a try, but unfortunately a broken collar bone as well!
It was a pleasure knowing and taking the rugby field with you Cassim Cader. Taken too early my friend, may you rest in peace.
From David Hills
To say that Cassim Cader was a loving friend is surely an understatement, for I have known him for the better part of six and a half decades. Our first meeting was on the 5th of January 1956, at the little Nursery of Wesley College, which was situated opposite the Ladies Staff Room and by the Hostel staircase. Our teacher was the late and loving Mrs. Elna Wickremasinghe. Cassim was always the gentle giant amongst us all and other bright sparks at Wesley, thought twice before bullying us, well knowing that we had in Cassim our capable shield and defender. I am sure I echo the sentiments of all of us Wesleyites who were in that class. The few that come to mind were Bryan Wijeyekoon, Roger Christiansz, Ronald Baines, Fazli Wahab, Nazmi Ziard, Arif Hamin, Rohan Classen, David Herath, Tuan Camball, Dole, Faris Khalid and Ejoy Sinnen.
Yet another interesting tale of the Cader/Hills relationship was when I discovered that the late father of Cassim and Abdul (Mr. Leo Cader) and my late father (Mr. Bertie Hills) were classmates at Wesley College. The discovery was made when I was walking past Queens Studio in Fort with my Dad, many years ago; when this huge burley gentleman came charging out of Queens Studio to greet my Dad and guess who came running behind him; none other than our dear Cassim.
Cassim was one of the greatest sportsmen that Wesley ever produced and together with his erstwhile buddy Asoka Jayewardene they took Wesley to amazing levels of achievement and honour in the fields of Rugby and Judo. As our College song reverberates they were men of grit and industry that brought Wesley to the fore! Farewell Cassim till we meet once again on that far distant shore.
A note from Keith de Kretser about David Hills
He is the grandson of Headmaster Joseph LEMPHERS after whom the Lemphers House is named and the son of Berty Hills Who ran the Tuckshop in the late 1960's with MR ALFRED MAYE AND MRS SELA
From Times of Sri Lanka 28th February 2021 written by Keith de Kretser
M.C.A. Cader - Great sportsman who brought Wesley to the fore
M.C.A. Cader, Cassim to his friends, was one of Wesley’s most gifted sportsmen. Cassim passed away on February 9 in Tokyo, Japan after a prolonged battle with cancer. Cassim was tall, muscular and had a great physique which meant he stood out amongst his peers and students at Wesley College. He represented Wesley at Cricket (2nd XI), Athletics and Rugby being awarded Colours for both Athletics and Rugby in 1968. He captained the Rugby Team in 1969. His sporting talents did extend beyond representing Wesley College as he represented the YMCA Basketball Team in a tournament in India in 1966.
His sporting honours were in Judo. He began learning Judo at the YMBA and then moved to the YMCA to pursue his career as a Judoka. He won many Provincial (Western Province) and National titles in the Novice, Intermediate and Open Divisions. He represented the YMCA Judo team with success and won the Japanese Ambassador’s Award in 1968. He won the National Championship and National White Belt Championship in 1969. He trained in Japan and represented the Daiton Doju Team in Japan. He returned to Sri Lanka and participated at the National Judo Championship held at the Central YMCA Fort in 1980. He showed fine skills to win the Open Championship. He represented Wesley at the Public Schools Athletics meet in the Shot Putt and Discus. He played as No.8 or a flanker in the Rugby team using his strength and agility to break through the defence of opposing teams. He was a fearless tackler using his Judo skills to break his fall. He was strong, tough and fearless. Stories about his fearless exploits are many but two occasions standout. One was when the College Hockey team were short of a goalie, Cassim volunteered to keep goal barefoot which he did for the whole game. Another was when Wesley were playing St. Joseph’s at Longden Place, when Cassim broke through the defence and tried to break his fall going over the try line. Unfortunately the ball got in the way and he hurt his shoulder badly. Though in pain, this did not deter Cassim and he continued to play on.
After completing his schooling he went to Japan to work. He settled into the lifestyle and soon decided to pursue his Judo rankings. At the time of his passing he was a Black Belt (2nd Dan). He married and settled down in Japan and leaves behind his Japanese wife, two daughters, a son-in-law and three grandchildren (see picture).
To quote one of his classmates – “Cassim was always the gentle giant amongst us all and other bright sparks at Wesley thought twice before anyone bullied us, well knowing that we had in Cassim our capable shield and defender.” Cassim was one of the greatest sportsmen that Wesley produced. He took Wesley to amazing levels of achievement and honour in the fields of Athletics, Rugby and Judo. As the College song states, Cassim was “a man of grit and industry” who brought “Wesley to the fore”!
From the Editor DBI
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I Thank M.C.A Cader for his contribution to the life of the school.
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Randolph Ranjit ALWIS, AM - (22/07/1942 - 13/02/2021)
Passed away unexpectedly and peacefully. Loving husband of Lakshmie (Laki). Much loved father of Suranie and Rajita and father-in-law to Abbasi. Much adored "Seeya" to his precious granddaughter Sonali.
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From Keith de Kretser - Wesley College OBU Australia
On behalf of the Wesley College Alumni, I extend our sympathies and prayers to Ranjith’s family at this sad time. May he enjoy eternal rest.
Ora et Labora
Keith de Kretser
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I received the news of the passing of Ranjit Alwis. Ranjit joined Wesley College and the boarding in 1954 and we were classmates until we left school in 1962. Although not overtly ambitious he was hard working and knew what was needed to get through the difficult examinations. I well remember Ranjit was good in mathematics and helped those like myself who were not too good and struggled in the subject. After he completed his degree at the University of Peradeniya Ranjit taught at Trinity College Kandy for a year. Ranjit had the strength of character to maintain his focus on further education completing his accountancy qualifications. His achievements are a glowing testimony to his ability and tenacity.
He was a keen spectator of cricket at school and was ever present at the 1st XI Cricket matches at Campbell Park cheering the school. Ranjit did play cricket and football in the boarding and enjoyed the rough and tumble of sports. At school being tall he had an arresting presence. He had a keen sense of right and wrong and fought for what he felt was right. Ranjit maintained a dignity, authority and modesty that won him a large measure of affection.
In 1962, the year Ranjit was successful in the University Entrance examination he won the prestigious award, the Lydia Senaratne Prize, for the best all round student in the school boarding. His name now adorns the famous board of distinguished scholars.
Ranjit was honoured by the Australian Government: Randolph Ranjit ALWIS, St Georges, South Australia. For service to the development of multiculturalism in Australia as an advocate and lobbyist, and to the community through the promotion of indigenous reconciliation.
When we toured Australia in 2009 the long journey ended in Adelaide. As I entered our hotel room there was a message from Ranjit Alwis to phone him. He was with us in a flash and then on until we left Adelaide we remained their guests. Ranjit and Laki were generous hosts and took time to show us the beautiful city and its surrounds. I well remember our visit to the Adelaide Cricket Grounds. He has a great gift for entertaining and is charming, witty and urbane. His kind and generous ways made us at home.
Ranjit remained a true Blue Wesleyite all his life. We met up again at the Grand Reunion at Wesley College in 2012 when many old boys converged on the hallowed grounds from all over the world. Spread over a week it was indeed a happy get together and we did meet and recall the good times.
Ranjit became a regular visitor to London to see his daughter. He never failed to make contact and meet up. He made several visits to Letchworth in Hertfordshire where I lived. I remember the many glasses of whisky that helped us to recall those wonderful memories of school and the boarding. He was not a person for too much sentimentality but was deeply caring. Ranjit had a fine memory for past events and was a wonderful raconteur.
After I moved to London he visited us again 3 years ago when we enjoyed a lunch at the Lords Cricket Grounds, euphemistically called the home of cricket. We both went for the Sri Lankan curry and rice that was on offer which lacked the chilli power of home cooking. When we said our goodbyes I asked him "is this the last time we will meet as your daughter is moving back to Adelaide". He said not at all I will be back. That was the last time we met but I'm left with some beautiful and nostalgic memories of times past.
I phoned him 6 weeks ago and had a long chat about life and friends.
It was, and will always remain, one of the great privileges of my life to have known him. I send my condolences to his family on the passing of a fine and talented man
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From our meeting in Adelaide in 2009
I remember Ranjith Alwis well both in the hostel and in the 6th form. He was a gentle and decent Chap (well, most of the time anyway). He had the right mix of good fun and hard work. He has brought honour to himself, the family, Sri Lanka and to all Wesleyites. Well done for a very great achievement. I recall the wonderful times and the mischief in the boarding and feel proud of him as a friend. Our very best wishes to Ranjit from all of us in the OBU (UK) and from the Double Blue International Website. On my visit to Adelaide in March 2009 as I entered our hotel room there was a message from Ranjit Alwis to phone him. He was with us in a flash and then on until we left Adelaide we remained their guests. Ranjit and Lucky were generous hosts and took time to show us the beautiful city and its surrounds. Ranjit and I were hostellers together since 1954 and parted company in the sixth form in 1962. He is now a chartered accountant in Adelaide and a Managing Director of his own company. He has received an award from the Australian government for his services to the ethnic communities. Deep into the night we recalled events of our lives at Wesley and thereafter. He has a fine memory for his schooldays and speaks warmly of his association with Wesley College. What amazed us both was the closeness we showed despite the gap of 50 years since we last met. We were both sad to say goodbye to Ranjit and Laki and vowed to meet up again when they visit their daughter in London sometime soon.
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From Ranjit's daughter - Ragita
I am so incredibly grateful and happy that I can stand here today and tell you that I have had all this and much, much more with my dad. I feel so lucky to have been part of your life and been present in a lot of what everyone has talked so far.
You were not only a Dad but mentor to me. I remember being 10 and watching you build the practice from our house at inverness avenue to offices on Glen Osmond Road and then finally Greenhill Road in Eastwood. You had a dream that Akka (Suranie) and I would work with you after our practice. Uni holidays was working with you at the office. You were the boss – you had your ways of doing things and Akka and I just had to suck it up. Akka and I collectively spent a good 6 years in total working with you as early teens before going out on our own career journeys. You went onto running your practice for 20 years, not showing any signs of immediate retirement but giving subtle hints to Akka and I how good it is to have your own practice. In 2014 without any planning and just through changes in circumstances I joined the practice in 2014. Akka came back from London in 2017 joined then. This was all unplanned however you finally got your dream of us working together. You had your difficulties with stepping back and making changes, because this time there were three bosses, but I can see in the last 2 years you have seen the practice evolve and our quite proud of what the practice has rebranded and become.
The practice was one of your happy places. You enjoyed the relationships with your clients-a large number you worked with for over 30 years. During the last 2 weeks we have received so many messages with some excerpts I would like to share: Randolph was a person who just wasn't doing a job but would want to help you with any problems you told him about, that's how the working relationship became a friendly relationship. It was never we are going to see our accountant rather we are off to see Randolph today he will sort us out. It has been a long relationship way back when I would see Laki before our appointment have a chat and ask how are the girls and compare notes about our children, then Randolph would break it all up because it was time for business. Another message
I am so sad to hear of Randolph’s passing – I started with Randolph when I was a young man on Glen Osmond road – he guided me into the world of private practice and the accounting set ups I would need. Both myself and my wife had such a high opinion of Randolph as an accountant/business adviser but also his gentle and kind persona – he really did care and know about my family, my kids and every year I would leave his office thinking – how does he remember what is happening in my family and he cares whats happening in my family. An amazing man – he was my favourite professional I’ve seen over the years by a long streak !!
The practice was your happy place any you never let it go. You could relate to people from all walks of life. Your were an empathetic man and valued character over pedigree. You looked for the good in each person – and usually found it. You worked in the practice up never cut ties. You still dropped in here and there and sat in meetings with clients and had your chats. The last 3 years has been a special time for our family. The arrival of my daughter Sonali brought up the soft and gentle person you were. It was a shining moment for our family and brought us so much more closer You adored Sonali so much and wanted to be with her all the time. You loved seeing her everyday and didn’t want to miss any of her milestones. When I starting coming to work you wanted SOnali there as well and said you would look after her. That involved napping with her in the office, particularly in the afternoon when you would nap as well. Mum started looking after Sonali and that made took you away from the office as you wanted to be home with Sonali and Mum. You took her on walks and sat outside with her with water time. She knew that you were the only person that would give in and when she wanted something she would go straight for you. She spoilt her so much, she would always say “Seeya,come on, come here and secretly whisper to you want she wanted. You would come and help bath her, cut pears for her to eat after dinner and when we would leave at night you would carry her to the car. She would look up at the sky with you and spot the moon.
You loved mums food and enjoyed the special occasions with people coming over for parties and drinks. You had your spot at the head of the table. For special occasions like birthdays and new years we would always have kiribath (milk rice). The last meal you had at home was for Sonali’s 3rd birthday just over 3 weeks ago. You ate your favourites Kiribath and luno miris for lunch and dinner that day. I feel so grateful that over the last 9 years I have spent so much time closely with you. Working in the practice and then with Sonali in our lives. I have spent almost everyday with you for the last 9 years and am grateful I have had that time with you. Sadly 13 days ago you left us with all of us around. The office has a feeling of emptiness without you around. The dining table has an empty spot at the head of the table.
Dad, the day has finally come that you must travel separately. Thank you for all you have given us, the hard work you have done and all the opportunities you gave our family, the laughter you gave us, end even the tears, will bring us warmth and strength.
Good by Dad we love you.
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From Ranjit's daughter - Suranie
In Gampaha, a town north of Colombo Sri Lanka, on 22 July 1942, Don Solomon De Alwis and his wife Trissa welcomed their first child. So over joyed was Don Solomon with his first born that he did not notice that the birth certificate had the last name for his precious son written down incorrectly. And so, Randolph Ranjit, my father, was bestowed a last name of only Alwis, which was missing the prefix – D. E. (De) and this distinguished him forever different from the rest of the family.
I am assuming that because he was the first born, it was decided to send him to Boarding school in Colombo and in 1954, at the tender age of five, Dad joined Wesley College Colombo as a boarder. I cannot imagine how he felt during this momentous change in his life, but I believe it was during this time that his determination to succeed and overcome any weakness of will became entrenched into his psyche.
According to Dr Nihal Amerasekara, a fellow boarder and classmate, Dad was hard working and knew exactly what he needed to do to pass his exams. He loved and excelled at Mathematics and would always help those who struggled to comprehend the subject. I remember Dad saying to Rajita and I, while we were in primary school, that Mathematics is so important and if you can do Maths, you can do and understand anything in life. His prowess in Mathematics won him the P.H Nonis Mathematics prize for University Entrance Students at Wesley College. Dr Amerasekara also recalls that Dad had a tall, arresting presence and a keen sense of right and wrong. He fought for what he felt was right and just and maintained a dignity, authority and modesty which won him a large measure of affection. After the kind words of condolences from all of you these past two weeks it is evident that he never lost these traits of character.
These characteristics, together with his studious nature, won him the Lydia Seneratne Memorial Prize for the best all-rounder at the Boarding house Wesley College.
After Wesley, Dad went to Peradeniya University, near Kandy in Sri Lanka where he studied for a degree in Physical Science. It was here, in the cool lush grounds of the Peradeniya campus sheltering from rain under the Science faculty porch, that he met a young Lakshmie Wijesuriya. And that’s all I can tell you about that, because trying to get any information about the romantic lives of my parents is like trying to get blood from stone. I can hear Dad now, “Laki, this is not something to share with the children” and it is something he would say now, despite his children being over forty! I had heard a story about Dad trying to sneak to the women’s Halls of Residence to try and speak to Mum after curfew, but this may be just a scurrilous rumour.
After graduating with a Bachelor of Science, Dad taught Physics and Mathematics briefly at Trinity College before undertaking his articles to become a Chartered Management Accountant.
Dad’s pursuit of Mum continued after university, however, my maternal grandfather did not initially give his consent to the love marriage. Mum decided to leave Sri Lanka and stay with her sister in Perth and Dad followed. Consent was finally given and they married in Cottosloe, Perth in September, 1973. Dad struggled to find employment in Perth due to un-enlightened attitudes about a migrant’s ability to do work and he eventually was given an opportunity to work as management accountant at Clark Shoes in Adelaide. It was here that Dad met a young Ian Hunter and so began a lifelong friendship and the eternal entwining of the Alwis and Hunter clans. You will hear more about that later.
After Rajita and I were born, Dad left Clark Shoes and worked in state government, first in the Treasury department and then at the Department of Housing and Construction. Here, he became frustrated with the lack of progress in his career and this cemented his desire to change attitudes to better the migrant experience of building life in Australia. It was also when he decided to supplement his own skills and start his own accounting practice. One of my earliest memories is of Dad sitting in the lounge at night with a large piece of chipboard perched on two arms of his chair, writing on workpapers, while smoking a pipe. And this is where my eulogy stops for you will hear more from others. Dad may have felt something missing in his life without the De attached to Alwis, but in my heart I know that it doesn’t matter because my Dad is:
Randolph Ranjit Alwis – “De” maestro of Mathematics;
He is Randolph Ranjit Alwis – “De” champion of justice and all that is right;
He is Randolph Ranjit Alwis – “De” university sweetheart of Laki;
He is Randolph Ranjit Alwis – “De” hard wording advocate for all migrants in Australia;
But most importantly, me is Randolph Ranjit Alwis – My father, who I love and will miss so much.
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From Deepika Weerakoon
On an average day, the topic of death is not a subject we yearn to talk about. However, at one point or another, death and dying must be reflected upon. If able bodies that once performed great deeds now lie bereft of movement, then one wonders what the purpose of life truly is.
However, if we choose not to see death as an isolated incident, but rather as an inevitable conclusion to our time here, then death can become a key that unlocks the value of life. It is only by acknowledging it in this way that we can come to terms with the purpose of life.
Such reflections have the capacity to bind us together in friendship as we travel through life alongside one another. Speaking of friendships, the Alwis family were one of the first families I got to know soon after I migrated to Australia in the mid-eighties. During my fifteen years in Adelaide, their household was like a second home to me. Ranjit became a trusted senior friend. I am sure he fulfilled this role not just for me but for many new commers to Adelaide.
Even after I moved to Sydney almost twenty years ago, if someone asked for a reliable contact in Adelaide, Ranjit Alwis was always the first name I mentioned. Ranjit provided invaluable counsel and guidance. He was my number one go to guru for anything to do with charity and social work, accounting, finance and political opinions.
This wisdom was just one of his admirable qualities – there are many more I can recall. Ranjit did not suffer fools. He wouldn’t alter or water down his ideas to please his audience. If he believed something was worth standing up for that is exactly what he did. It takes confidence and a conviction to do this. But hiding behind Ranjit’s assertive personality was a kind hearted individual who did not look away when someone was in need of help. Ranjit made significant contributions to the community. He was well ahead of his time in building valuable cross-cultural links.
In the eighties the Sri Lankan community was just emerging in South Australia. The number of Sri Lankan households were few and far between. After the black July riots in 1983, the civil war was just beginning in Sri Lanka. Ranjith believed the Sri Lankan community living in this blessed country had a responsibility to support Sri Lanka in her hour of need. He was instrumental in setting up a community group dedicated to promote peace in Sri Lanka. This was way before 9/11, when the west did know much about terrorism, Ranjith believed Terrorism is not a behavior to reason with or to negotiate with. In the mid-nineties, when the social media was not around Ranjith helped the Sri Lankan community to establish our own community radio, he said being able to listen to and speak in Sinhala will make the distance between Sri Lanka and Australia shorter for the Sri Lankans.
In 1998, Ranjith helped the Sri Lankan community to successfully apply to a community grant to promote the Sri Lankan history and the culture. As a result, a photographic exhibition named Sarabhumi was held in the city of Adelaide during the month of February to celebrate 50 years of independence to Sri Lanka. When the Sri Lankan Buddhist Vihara started in Adelaide, the committee made a wise decision to buy a property and stop renting. At that time it looked impossible. Ranith was not even in the committee, but I approached him about this, without batting an eyelid he said to arrange meeting with the committee and a senior credit manager from my then employer. He said in this country relationships and integrity means everything, he said if you win the confidence, the bank will approve a loan even though the temple is a new entity without regular income. That is exactly how it worked in this case. The temple was successful.
Come to think of it , these are massive achievements for any community. With the passage of time, his contributions may have faded from memory without due appreciation from the wider community, however the long lasting benefits of his farsighted leadership will not fade away.
After the Asian Tsunami Ranjith helped us to facilitate a collaboration with the Federation of Ethinic Communities Council otherwise known as FECCA to adopt fifty children who lost their families in Sri Lanka.
Ranjit also provided assistance when we were formalizing the legal structure of SuttaCentral.net, an open-source website which host Buddhist scriptures. He voluntarily prepared the trust deed and duly arranged the registration of the trust.
Ranjth did not seem to be fazed by any stumbling blocks along the way, challenges seemed to motivate him to work harder to achieve what he had set out to do.
I guess being an early bird helped him maintain this productivity. The best way to contact him was to call his home phone around 5.30am, but even then sometimes Lakshmi would answer and inform me that he had already left for his morning walk. He was early to bed too - I still find it funny when I remember Ranjit power napping at a gala dinner table, his face almost in his soup bowl. These are just some of my reflections on Ranjith and his memorable attributes. Thank you dear friend for the great memories and friendship. We will miss your presence during our time here. Travel well and find lasting peace from your aspired destination.
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EULOGY-MR RANDOLPH ALWIS AM FECCA CHAIR 1997-2000
I am deeply honored to have been asked by the Alwis family to provide this personal eulogy on my close friend Randolph Alwis AM whom I have known for over 35 years since we became the Presidents of our respective State and Territory Multicultural Communities Councils in the early 1980’s and as a consequence Deputy Chairs of Australia’ peak community body FECCA-the Federation of Ethnic Communities Councils of Australia. At that time both of us were the ‘young guns’ at the forefront of Australia’s multicultural movement and became closely involved in working with Commonwealth, State and Territory governments in the initial introduction of culturally and linguistically appropriate services for migrants and refugees Australia wide.
This involved being part of regular delegations to meet with Prime Ministers, Ministers, as well as State/Territory Premiers and Chief Ministers to convince them to provide sufficient funding in their respective budgets (which they subsequently did) to ensure that English language tuition was offered to both migrants and refugees currently living in Australia and those having recently arrived. That was only the first step and there were other policies strenuously pursued to benefit multicultural communities and finally supported by the former Fraser and Hawke governments followed soon after by the appointment of Federal, State and Territory Ministers for Multicultural Affairs.
By the end of the 80’s Randolph and I believed the organisation needed changing due to FECCA becoming somewhat stagnant and having the Chair at that time only elected from NSW. We decided it was time to change this practice and the Federation’s direction thru the introduction of some important reforms and adopting proactive policies in addition to enhancing FECCA’s media profile aimed at projecting its national position on culturally diverse policies with governments and the Australian community at large. To ensure this came about Randolph and I lobbied State, Territory and Regional Councils to have a non NSW candidate lead FECCA which resulted in myself being the first person from the ACT elected in 1992 (not from NSW) with Randolph from SA then succeeding me in 1996. In being elected as FECCA Chair Randolph also succeeded me on the Prime Minister’s National Multicultural Advisory Council. With both our terms completed by 2000 it was during these past 8 years that FECCA undertook the most dramatic changes since it was formed in 1979 beginning with its move from its temporary home in Sydney to a permanent building in Canberra with its official opening taking place in October 1994 by Prime Minister Paul Keating and the then ACT Chief Minister. To celebrate the 25th anniversary of the opening of FECCA’s national office the current FECCA Chair Mary Patetsos agreed to celebrate this significant anniversary in December 2019 with the current Prime Minister’s representative doing the honors which included the unveiling all the photos of past FECCA Chairs in the boardroom-much to Randolph’s delight.
After Randolph’s term concluded in 2000 we continued to play a part in FECCA’s development by being instrumental in candidates from other states being elected as Chair particularly in electing a woman the first being Voula Messimeri AM from Victoria and now Mary Patetsos from SA. Having by now given the game away we continued to keep in contact on a regular basis sharing the many good times we spent at FECCA conferences held in each of the State and Territory capitals. One of Randolph’s most profound statements that he made as FECCA Chair which one still recalls was that “CULTURAL DIVERSITY IS HERE TO STAY WITH OR WITHOUT GOVERNMENT SUPPORT-IT IS A FACT OF AUSTRALIAN LIFE.”
Two years later I had no hesitation in strongly supporting Randolph’s nomination for an award in the Order of Australia honors announced in 2003. In the following year in November 2004 I was particularly pleased when Randolph and the love of his life Laki were able to attend my 60th birthday celebration in Canberra. It therefore came as a huge shock to me and my wife Margaret when I heard of Randolph’s unexpected passing earlier this month as we were intending to get together again if COVID became manageable with the rollout this year of the vaccine.
Besides serving with distinction as FECCA Chair Randolph was also a member of a number of notable organisations such as the Ausflag Board, the Overseas Qualification Board and the Defence Reserves Support (SA Branch) in addition to being a long serving member of the Rotary Club of Adelaide West becoming President of the Club from 2010-11 and then recognised three times as a Paul Harris Fellow for his distinguished services to Rotary. For his many accomplishments in Australian Multiculturalism and Indigenous Reconciliation at the national level, and in South Australia as well as his tireless service to the Australian community Randolph Alwis was deservedly awarded an AM in the Australian Honors List in 2003 with the citation reading:
“FOR SERVICE TO THE DEVELOPMENT OF MULTICULTURALISM IN AUSTRALIA AS AN ADVOCATE AND LOBBYIST AND TO THE COMMUNITY THROUGH THE PROMOTION OF INDIGENOUS RECONCILIATION”
Randolph was highly respected revered by Australia’s multicultural communities and especially his beloved Sri Lankan community but he was loved most of all by his devoted wife Laki and his dedicated daughters Suranie and Ragita telling me over many years that his love for them was eternal and any success in his life could not have been achieved without their unreserved support.
This month on 13 February 2021 I lost not only a close friend but a person I always thought of as a brother that I never had. As I recall the words of a famous person we both admired -Randolph should be “remembered as a good and decent man who saw wrong and tried to right it, saw injustice and tried to remedy it. Everyone who loved him and take him to his rest today will hold many cherished memories of Randolph as he will always remain in our hearts-we will never forget him as will Laki, Suranie, Ragita and the rest of his family in Australia and within Sri Lanka. I will miss Randolph (especially our regular chats on the phone) and acknowledge his inspirational community leadership and a person who never shirked the various responsibilities he had as a father, a husband, a community leader and a businessman. I also greatly valued the friendship we shared for over 35 years and thank him for being such a good and loyal friend to me. I have lost a good friend in Randolph Alwis AM but Australia has lost a true champion against racial inequality and injustice. Rest in Peace my brother Randolph as you have earned your rest and in time I hope we can meet again.
Victor Rebikoff OAM (Former FECCA Chair 1992-96)
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From the Editor DBI
On behalf of the Worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Ranjit for his commitment to Wesley College over many years and his contribution to the life of the school
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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DE SILVA - REX BONNIFACE - At Rest with Jesus. Beloved husband of Chandra Rohini, precious father of Richard and Charith, beloved brother of late Patrick and Maxwell and sister of Norma and brother-in-law of Amara and late Lalith, father-in-law of Krishni and Tania, loving grandfather of Dinuka, Cassandra, Tashya and Joshua. Remains lie at Jayaratne Funeral Parlour Borella from 12 noon on 5th October. Service 10.30 a.m. on 6th October 2019 and Cremation thereafter at Kanatte at 11.00 a.m
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Rex was at Wesley College in the 1950's. His father worked in the Prisons Department and he lived close to the school. His brother Maxwell (R.M) was a popular student. He captained 1st XI Cricket and was the Senior Prefect in 1956. R.M (Maxwell) captained the school cricket team in the Michaelmas Term. Rex's sister Norma was a teacher at Wesley for many years and stayed on until retirement.
Rex was a talented sportsman and a popular player during the golden era of sports at school. He played in the 1st XI Cricket Team under the captaincy of H.L Juriansz in 1957 and Nalendra Abeysuriya in 1958. Rex was a fine hockey player and represented the school in the 1st XI. He was also in the school tennis team.
Rex was well known at school because of his sports. I remember Rex who was 2 years my senior as a friendly, decent and kind person. He was a jovial guy with a pleasant smile.
Tennis Team 1958
Front row:
P.S.Rodrigo, Mr PH Nonis, Mr. Charles Yesudian, Nalendra Abeysuriya
Back Row:
Sheriff Fallil, Rex De Silva, Senthil Sinniah
On behalf of the Worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Rex for his commitment to Wesley College over many years and his contribution to the life of the school
May he find Eternal Peace
Waldo Hindle was born in Kandy, Ceylon and died peacefully at Rockyview Hospital in Calgary. Born the youngest of 6, he came to Canada at the age of 20 to learn about agriculture and work on a Dairy Farm. Waldo was supported to continue his education at the University of Waterloo where he became a teacher. Until retirement, Waldo taught Geography for 31 years throughout the Ottawa area. He found particular joy in coaching both boys & girls volleyball during his career.
In retirement, Waldo enjoyed being a greeter and volunteering at the YMCA in South Calgary. The very kindest of men, Waldo enjoyed helping anyone in need and was always happy to do so.
Waldo is survived by his wife Ruth of Calgary, son Michael and family in Vancouver as well as a daughter, Moselle in Texas, & nephew Christopher in Ottawa. He has many extended family members around the globe including Sri Lanka, Australia, the UK and Colorado and Wyoming in the US. Locally, he will be missed by his step-children Lisa, and Michael and his family. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Heart & Stroke Foundation.
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On behalf of the Worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Waldo for his commitment to Wesley College and his contribution to the life of the school
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
The photograph brings back wonderful memories of a great and wonderful teacher at Wesley, Mr. Jayantha Premachandra. Mr. Premachandra joined Wesley College, Colombo, Sri Lanka in 1966. He served as a teacher in the upper school. He was the Art teacher to classes from grade 6 to grade 11. He is well remembered for his wonderful presentations that made the Prize Day very special. He designed a beautiful picture that covered the door at the back of the stage. The stage itself was a beautiful work of Art that was over 125 years old and made of Burma teak wood. Those pictures were really colourful and eye catching and one was be a captive admirer during the Prize Giving.
Mr. Jayantha Premachandra was respected and loved by all students as he was a quiet and very friendly teacher. He helped the students whenever they wanted. He transformed some students to do their art work as professionals. However, he left Wesley in 1974 to take up an appointment in Paris, France. The students missed his absence.
Anyone who has been a student may write his memories to his daughter who is collecting articles to publish a book about Mr. Jayantha Premachandra and his work that will certainly has great collectors value around the world.
His photograph was sent to me by Old Wesleyite Mr. Kumar de Silva who was a student at Wesley at that time. He requested that any articles about Mr. Premachanda to be sent to Ms. Nilanka Nilaweera. nalanka.chin.nilaweera@gmail.com
From the DBI editor :-
Memories of Sin Sen Chang
Memorable Images
Wesley Rugby XV April 1959 - Sent by Michael Christoffelsz
Back Row: L-R: Ron Henderling, Darlan Perera, Trevor Gunasekera,Rodney de Kretser, Sheriff Fallil, Lameer
Middle row: L-R: S.R.Sinniah, Sin Sen Chang, Lameer, Daya Perera, Neville Ludowyk, Ronald Asirwatham, Nalendra Abeysuriya, Maurice Weeraperumal, Jayantha De Silva
Front Row L-R: Bunny Saldin, Lisk , Mr.PH Nonis, N.E Fernando, Mr.D'Abrera, Shanthi Perera
Ground:- Mike Christoffelsz
Wesley Rugby XV April 1960 - Sent by Michael Christoffelsz
Back Row- L to R: Russell Schockman,Lameer(Jnr),Beverley de Neise
Middle Row:- L to R ;- Sin-Sen Chang, Ron Henderling, Lameer(Snr), Haig Maloney, Glen Reimers,Trevor Gunasekera, Mike Christoffelsz, Errol de Silva, Rodney De Kretser, Sheriff Fallil.
Seated:- L to R:Darlan Perera. Principals Mr P.H. Nonis, B.Saldin (Capt), Mr. A.D D'Arbrera, Daya Perera
Ground- Robin Reimers.
Trevor Collette - Melbourne, Australia
I vividly remember Sin Sen as he was a “larger than life” figure during our time at Wesley. Sin Sen’s family ran a Dental Mechanics business in the Pettah. From memory the name of the business was “Lee Kwan Fat – Dental Mechanic”, and the premises were next door to K.D. Jayaratne’s the tailoring establishment from where the cricketers purchased their uniquely striped blazers.
Sin Sen played rugby or rugger as we then called it for Wesley from an early age as his solid build made him an excellent prop forward. Though he tipped the scales at 199 pounds he was very light on his feet and proved to be a good ballroom dancer having attended Carl Cooke’s school of dancing which was situated next door to “Batcha “ Fuard’s at the top of 5th. Lane Colpetty.
He captained the rugger team in 1962 and the team included Bashur Musafer, Reg Bartholomeusz, Nigel Christoffelsz, Hemaka Jayasekera, the Chang brothers C.S. and C.F., Jadi Silva, Hans Jonklaas, Roy Oorloff, Darrel Maye, Trevor Collette, Haig Maloney ,Beverley De Niese to name a few I remember.
One match under his captaincy was against Trinity captained by Noel Brohier. The match was played in the pouring rain at Bogambara. Prior to the game Sin Sen introduced the Wesley team to Mr. C.J. Oorloff the Trinity Principal who knew most of us having being the Principal at Wesley two to three years earlier. In response to a question from Mr. Oorloff as to the possible outcome of the game Sin Sen replied “Wesley will win 30—Nil.” Famous last words – from memory Wesley lost 36-03! Towards the end of the game Captain Sin Sen was heard encouraging his team at a line out-“More Fire, Wesley –More Fire”. A lone voice from the rear of the line out called out –“Fire gone out too much rain”; Sin Sen spent most of the return bus trip to Colombo trying to find out who the as he put it “traitor” was.
Sin Sen had many talents and one of his interests was photography. He revived the nearly defunct Camera Club and along with a few others such as Gerald Wright and Ranjith Aaron spent time developing their work in the little dark room under the stairs outside the Physics Lab. A little known fact is that Sin Sen is responsible for the group photographs of teams such as the rugby team, spelling bee and Do You know contest teams and other groups such as Prefects and clubs in 1963 when Wesley had no budget for an official photographer.
In addition to captaining the rugby team in 1962 Sin Sen’s leadership was recognised when he was appointed Senior Prefect in 1963.
While still in School Sin Sen displayed his head for business and we could count on him to have electronic equipment and imported shirts available at a reasonable price. On leaving school he commenced his working life managing the “Nectar Café” in the Fort. However he soon opened his own shop “Mod Spot” in Keyzer Street, Pettah and built it up to be a very successful business. Due to import restrictions prevalent at that time electronic equipment, kitchen blenders, pressure cookers etc. were difficult to come by but Sin Sen was able to get them for you. I spent quite a few hours on my trips to Colombo at Mod Spot chatting with Sin Sen about our school days while his assistants attended to the business.
A few friends have committed their memories of Sin Sen to paper:-
Russell Firth - United Kingdom
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| Russell at Wesley | Russell 2015 |
I can tell you something about SIN SEN. When the first Rock and Roll Film was shown in the SAVOY CINEMA in Wellawatte. About 1956. Bill Haley and the Comets were the stars. SIN SEN attended EVERY showing, that’s the morning show, and two shows in the evening. I think the film was showed for about a month! A veritable attendance record!
SIN SEN was quite a bubbly guy full of jokes and laughter. A pleasant companion. He loved Western Music and films. I remember when we visited Wilpattu Wildlife park…he was one of the class that sang all the way there.
Bashur Musafer - Sydney, Australia
Sad indeed that a school mate has also succumbed to Covid in SL like so many friends and relatives. You will recall that you and I were both prefects when he was the Senior cop and also played under him when he captained the rugby side and can relate many a yarn reflecting back to those schoolboy days.
I was at my eye specialist this morning when I heard of Sin Sen’s death. Soon after there was a Chinese looking gentleman who I thought could not speak English seated by my side (socially distanced of course. He broke the ice by asking me from where I was from to which I replied from SL. He told me he was from India and married to a Sri Lankan Chinese. I told him that I had just received an email that a Chinese schoolmate had died and his name was Sin Sen. He replied in an instant that Sin Sen died a few days ago. He continued to tell me his name was Mo and he was Sin Sen's brother in law. What a shock and coincidence it was. He told me that Sin Sen's wife died a few years ago. May they rest in peace!
Ranjith Aaron - New Zealand
It was Sin Sen Chang who invited me to take to Rugby. I got my first opportunity to play for the college 1st XV under his captaincy. He was a great team player and marshalled his players with great enthusiasm. He was very vociferous on the field, but mild as a Lamb outside. He was such a friendly guy and then it was he who invited me to join school Camera Club. Other than playing rugby, I could not interact much with him, as he was several years senior to me. After leaving school I frequented his Electronic shop down Keyzer Street, Pettah and had long chats.
Lastly in 2007, just before I left Sri Lanka for New Zealand, on my daily morning walks I crossed him several times down Kalubowila Road and spoke mainly about our School days. Then the last time I met him was at the 50 years of Wesley Rugby dinner, held at the Ramada Hotel in Colombo. It so sad that he is no more.
May his Soul Rest in Peace
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Lucien Fernando - Melbourne, Australia
Sad to get news of Sin Sen’s death. He was my class mate and ended up being a very successful business-man. There was a senior school event held in the College Hall and Sin Sen sang Rock-around the clock on stage. That was something!! It was after the movie was first shown at the Savoy Cinema. I recall his visit to Melbourne and the catch up and him giving us a gift of a sarong. He had a shop in Pettah and you only had to mention the ‘Pita Kotuwe Cheenage Sappuwa’ and every trader in town knew of him. I also believe he was very generous and helpful and assisted people living in his local area.
Dr. Jackie Carnie – Melbourne, Australia
That’s sad. I remember him very well as I bought several items of electronic gear from him when I was working in Colombo.”
Upali Perera - Melbourne, Australia
Sin Sen was my class mate and one of my dear friends in college. Wesley College was blessed to have students like Sin Sen who had the honour of captaining the Rugby 1st XV in 1962 and held the prestigious position of being the Senior Prefect in 1964, he was regarded as a loyal, decent student and friend.
In 1963 whilst in College I was requested to do something out of the ordinary for the College Fair by my Vice Principle having given me a free hand to do something good and exciting. I organised a team of my friends, Sin Sen, Trevor Collette, C T Rodrigo, Sarath Wickramaratne, Milroy Muthuvelu and a few others to help me in producing a show or feature called the “Chamber of Horrors”. For this to be a success we needed a coffin (From Upali Samararatne’s father who owned a funeral parlour), Skeletons (from Medical College) and most importantly Horror Music. The man for this was Sin Sen as he was the only one that I knew owned a decent Tape Recorder. The two of us went to the Majestic Theatre where it was showing the First Horror Movie Show, spoke with the Manager who recorded the horror music from the movie. This helped us to create “Chamber of Horrors” a very popular and successful event.
I had the privilege of knowing Sin Sen’s family where they had a business / residence in Pettah, Colombo. The dental mechanic business that Sin Sen’s mother ran was a very successful one in which Sin Sen was also a keen worker helping his mother during his spare time. I constantly visited Sin Sen’s place during Saturdays and holidays around mid-day very well knowing that his beloved mother would prepare a fabulous lunch where I would participate very happily.
On a few occasions, sitting in their front visitor’s room awaiting Sin Sens arrival having helped his mother, I noticed many Chinese sailors arriving in full attire and leaving after a short time in their Shorts, Singlets and slippers. Having witnessed this process a few times I asked Sin Sen as to what’s going on! My friend was very happy to say that the clothing and shoes they wearing were brand new and was left behind for sale as there were foreign exchange restrictions, pertaining to overseas purchases placed by the Government during that period.
I knew then that my friend had all the ingredients of becoming a very successful businessman. In his later years he did become a very successful businessman dealing with electronic equipment which continued until his passing. He was famously known as “’Cheena Mudalali”’ in Kalubowila, Dehiwela where he lived very comfortably.
It was about 12 years ago that I last met up with Sin Sen when I received a surprise call from his nephew to say that Sin Sen has come down under to see his friends as his health was failing. I promptly went to see the Big Man and had wonderful afternoon. I was also surprised and touched by his gesture in giving me a sarong as a gift and his words were….. ‘’ thought I will bring some sarongs for my dear friends
Our lives were blessed through your friendship. May you find blessings in the next life, dear Friend.
From Bill Deutrom
Sin Sen Chang, Senior Prefect and Rugby Captain in 1962 passed away on 25th August. He was a great Wesleyite and supported the College and the OBU dances with gifts for many years. I was in his team in 62 as a fresher and this was early days in Wesley Rugby. Sad to see us losing our leaders of the past. We should not forget them.
May he Rest in Peace.
A Tribute from Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Confucius that great Chinese philosopher was traditionally considered the paragon of Chinese sages. I recall one of Confucius' famous quotes whose wisdom I'm certain Sin Sen was taught by his parents. Sin Sen used it wisely in the rugby field.
It is with deep sadness I received the news that Sin Sen passed away after a prolonged battle with Covid-19. He was a couple of years junior to me at school. I can still recall with much nostalgia his terrific flair for life and for rugby. His heavy, stocky build and broad shoulders was ideally suited for the game he loved. Known for his ruthless tackles, Sin Sen thrived on the adrenaline of the rugby field, a sport which he captained with much success. With his fine kicking, courageous tackling and heavy pushing he was regarded as one of the best prop forwards we've had. His preference was to push his weight at the heft of the scrum. Those who played with him recall most fondly his intelligence and knowledge of the game. That year he captained rugby he wore his rugby jersey with pride and became a local celebrity at school. He was an affable, popular and gregarious student who was fun to be with. Sin Sen had the wonderful ability to remain calm in a crisis. He was known for his chirpy jocularity. Sin Sen's great sense of humour and incredible modesty were his most endearing features. Bespectacled, blessed with a round impish face, unmistakable physique and a broad smile he was easily recognised in the long corridors of the school. My abiding memory of Sin Sen would be of him being boomingly vocal while pounding the grass at Campbell Park during the heat of a rugby match.
Being Chinese he was in a racial minority in the country and in school. But of course in those days no one realized there was anything such as racism. We all were a brotherhood of Wesleyites. During my days at school, the Prefects were nominated by the teaching staff subject to the approval of the Principal. Most of those nominated were students who had contributed significantly to the success and prestige of the school through sports and leadership. Sin Sen was greatly respected by his teachers and peers alike and was appointed Senior Prefect in 1964. There is no greater honour for any schoolboy than being the Head Boy of the school. He held this prestigious position with great dignity, honour and pride.
After leaving school he reinvigorated his family business. His legacy extended well beyond his years at school. Simple and yet subtle his was a style brimming with generosity. I am reliably informed he was a most loyal old boy and a great benefactor donating generously to the school over many years.
When his health was declining Sin Sen made a trip to Melbourne and Sydney around 12 years ago to meet his old school pals and rugby mates. He took to each of his friends a sarong, that iconic Sri Lankan dress. They had plenty of time to catch up the lost years. Many recall with much nostalgia and great warmth the good times had on his visit to Australia. Everyone was visibly moved by the trips down memory lane and the old stories that were retold with so much feeling. They all remember the sad goodbyes when he left.
On behalf of the Worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Sin Sen for his commitment to Wesley College and his contribution to the life of the school. At this time of grief, our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. Sin Sen was so much a part of our lives at school, he will always remain in our memories. His long years of loyalty to Wesley College is a beacon to us all.
I end my tribute with special reference to John Donne's poem Meditation 17.
Donne was approaching death. Hearing a church bell signifying a funeral, he observes that every death diminishes the large fabric of humanity. We are all in this world together, and we ought to use the suffering of others to learn how to live better so that we are better prepared for our own death, which is merely a translation to another world.
every man is a piece of the continent,
a part of the main..
Any man’s death diminishes me,
because I am involved in mankind;
and therefore never seek to know for whom the bell tolls;
it tolls for thee.
May he find Eternal Peace
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I am deeply saddened to hear the news of the demise of Clinton Rodrigo, an old boy of my time in the school boarding. He was several years my senior and I remember him as a gregarious lad with a passion for cricket, Volleyball and all-things sporty. He was so much a part of boarding life during those years and one of the most recognisable faces of the 1950's. Of course he was omnipresent in all the activities in the boarding like drama and the Hostel union meetings. Clinton was a colourful character and well known for his wit and humour. I can recall as if it were yesterday his last day at school when he spoke a few words at his final lunch with us.
I know he went into the plantation industry and made a tremendous success of it rising to the top of his profession. Clinton had played a considerable part in improving, transforming and promoting the tea industry. His expertise and contribution was duly recognised by his peers and employers alike. Clinton retired from the profession with much respect. All through his life he retained an undiminished capacity to enjoy life and contribute generously to society.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school. We will always recall and cherish many memories of those happy years at school.
A Tribute from Dilshan Rodrigo
My father hailed from a family where he was the youngest of three brothers. He had virtually no recollection of his father who passed away when he was just 2 years old. His mother had to take over responsibility of managing the huge ancestral estate in Eheliyagoda, comprising over 1,000 acres of rubber plantation. Subsequently, the family retained no more than 200 acres with nationalisation that took place following the Land Reclamation Act in the 1970s.
My father joined his brothers at boarding school at Wesley College where he completed both his primary and secondary education. He had fond memories of boarding school life and used to relate many funny and interesting tales of his experiences to my kids. It was just a week before his demise that he asked my daughter to read his school leaving certificate, which he had proudly laminated and retained on the mantelpiece at home: “Clinton has been a student of Wesley College from January 1946 and throughout this period, he has been in the school hostel. He was an ideal hosteller, who contributed a very large share to the spirit and tone of the place. “There was no activity in the school or hostel in which Clinton was not in. He represented us in more or less all the spheres of activity – in games Athletics, Cricket, Tennis, Hockey, Volley Ball and Table Tennis, he excelled; in the latter games he was both school and hostel captain. His record of activities can rarely be equalled. He has held the post of secretary in the following clubs and unions: Hostel Literary Union, Indoor games club and house sports club. As an amateur actor he is a class by himself and in all school and hostel dramas, Clinton had a main part to play.” The certificate ends with the comment, “With the greatest confidence I recommend him as one of our very best products.”
He joined the prestigious profession of planting at the time after completing a degree in agriculture from the university of Peradeniya, in the immediate post-colonial era just as the country regained Independence. He was a member of the Finlays agency house and built a strong network among the upcountry plantation fraternity over the years. As a child I remember moving residence from sprawling plantation bungalows in Nuwara Eliya to Hatton to Kandy finally to the Head Office in Colombo as he steadily rose from the ranks to ultimately becoming Chairman and Board Director of JEDB and a member of the Tea Board.
He went through many setbacks, from a molotov cocktail thrown into the master bedroom in the middle of the night at Watagoda, which miraculously didn’t explode, when I was about just a year old, to prematurely having to retire at the prime of his career due to political reasons. In his early fifties he commenced his own plantation management consultancy practice whilst taking an active interest in managing our own ancestral properties in Eheliyagoda. He was extremely diligent in his work and took pride in the many accomplishments he gained along the way. As a kid I have memories of his tea tasting, listening to his many speeches over the years being equally adept at communicating in English, Sinhala and Tamil and comfortable with people from all walks of life at different strata of society. He took great pride in the fact that plantations under his oversight were consistently top of the league in performance rankings and retained all his records in a separate cabinet to this day diligently filed and indexed over the years.
He represented the country in many international tea forums and presented many papers on agriculture. He was a regular contributor to newspapers sharing his technical knowledge well in to his retirement. He was highly respected by the upcountry planting fraternity and would often follow the progress of his contemporaries and juniors with great interest. I remember when a group of senior planters invited him to dinner soon after his 80th birthday and awarded him with a plaque recognising his contribution to their careers, how much he was overcome with emotion! His crowning moment, however was when he was awarded a special plaque for his outstanding contribution to the tea industry by the Wayamba University of Sri Lanka at the international tea conference in 2017.
He took great pains in educating me and introducing me to many of his relatives based in Colombo in the area of accounting and finance who were my mentors. As a kid despite his busy schedule he made time for me, he made a great effort in knowing my circle of influence at work, my superiors, teachers and friends. He would make an effort to cultivate friendships with everyone that mattered both in his as well as my life. He had a vision for me, outside his comfort zone to excel in the corporate world and left no stone unturned to make it happen. Being a government servant almost all his life, with meager savings he was able to somehow ensure my sister and I got the very best of education locally and overseas.
In the latter years his devotion to family extended to his grandchildren, cousins, relations and his neighbours taking a personal interest in their lives and was a constant source of encouragement and advise. He was an active member of both the Rodrigo Friend in Need Society Panadura and UJ family Moratuwa and participated in all their activities and get togethers. He took great pride in presenting the vote of thanks every year making an effort to research and recognise all the family accomplishments at these annual events. Although he was a Methodist by birth he was a close devotee of Mother Mary.
My mother was a Roman Catholic and both my sister and I were baptized Catholics. When he was asked by a close friend to assist Gonapinawala convent in Hikkaduwa, a school for mentally challenged children, well in to his retirement, he took on the project with great zeal to cultivate cinnamon in their lands which ensured their financial independence for years to come.
He built a great relationship with the mother superior of this institution and made numerous visits with the family participating as a guest in their many events and activities for well over two decades. His greatest disappointment by far was losing my mother eight years back. She was his erstwhile companion, the wind beneath his wings. It was sad to see how the lion lost his roar after her demise and would often say he would trade all he had if he could bring her back.
My father was a unique personality, a visionary, who rose from the ranks to reach the top of his profession through integrity, hardwork, discipline, exceptional commitment and a genuine commitment to people he interacted with.
I am happy to knowing that whilst there are numerous challenges and setbacks which he overcame, he was blessed with a loving family, travelled widely, enjoyed the best of food and drink, a massive network of relatives and friends, and undoubtedly lived a good and productive life. His mind was active until the very end and I was privileged to be by his side when died peacefully at his home in Colombo 5, at the ripe old age of 87. Thank you Thathi, for being a wonderful role model, you may be gone from my sight but you are never gone my heart.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news of the demise of Ishan Ali. He was a fine rugby player starting his career playing for the 1st XV as prop forward at the tender age of 15 years. He rose up the ranks rapidly to lead the team as the captain in 1983. He had fine qualities as a player with the the ability to give and take a pass, put a supporting player in space and read the ebb and flow of a game. This was greatly appreciated by all.
After leaving school he created for himself a successful life in California. Ishan Ali was far too young to leave this world as he had so much to offer.
On personal communications I understand he was tall, well-spoken and friendly. He was proud and dignified and made friends easily. Ishan Ali loved the discipline, the structure, the camaraderie and the sense of belonging that existed at Wesley. Being a most influential and beloved sporting figure of his time he never lost his love of Rugby.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I send our deepest condolences to the family on their loss. I thank Ishan Ali for his immense contribution to the life of the school. He will be fondly remembered at Wesley.
Wesley College Colombo First XV Rugby Team - 1983
Standing L to R:
Seated: L to R:
ISHAN ALI (Old boy of Wesley College/Rugby Captain 1983)
Links to Further Reading
Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Raajioon.
Verily we belong to Allah and verily to Him do we return.
From Keith de Kretser
It is with sadness that I report the passing of Mahadeva Wijemanne(Wesley College then at D.S.Senanayake M.V), fourth son of Mr D.S. Wijemanne(Wesleyite and Manager of the Tuck Shop 1950-70's) in Colombo. His brothers are Palitha (Wesley then STC), Jayantha, Parakrama and Channa(Wesley then Ananda). Jayantha and Parakrama are the only ones that completed their education at Wesley. On behalf of the alumni in Australia, we extend our sympathies and prayers to his family. May his soul rest in peace.
His remains lie at “The Respect”, Borella on Monday 15th November 2021 from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m.. Cremation will follow at 4.30 p.m. at the Borella Cemetery New Crematorium.
Ora et labora
From the Editor DBI
We thank Mahadeva for his contribution to the life of the school
Links to further reading
From Keith de Kretser
It is with sadness that I report the passing in Melbourne overnight of Lasath Algama surrounded by his family. Lasath was diagnosed with Cancer in March 2020 and he dealt with his diagnosis with a positive mindset, dignity and courage. He was a fighter to the end. He leaves behind his wife Savitri, daughter Lakni and son Anuk. He has two sisters in Melbourne and in Sri Lanka, his elder brother Sarath also a Wesleyite and two more sisters.
On behalf of the alumni community in Australia, I extend our sincere sympathies and prayers to his family as they grieve their loss of a husband, father and brother. No more pain and suffering and may his soul find eternal rest. He will be missed.
A person in a suit and tie. Description automatically generated. My memories of Lasath go back to College days. Lasath was two classes ahead of me in the Sinhalese stream. Lasath was also a boarder. Lasath is best remembered by his time in charge of the PA system for Assembly around 1966-1968.His older brother Sarath was also at Wesley.
His family owned the DIMO Agency in Sri Lanka, Agents for Mercedes Benz Motor Vehicles. Lasath obtained a Cadetship to study at Mercedes Benz HQ in Germany as a Mechanic. After graduating he went back to Sri Lanka before arriving in Australia. His first job was working for a garage which he later took over. This was the start of a successful career, finally operating a Mercedes Benz Service Centre, Restoration of vintage Mercedes Benz vehicles and a showroom for the sale of Vintage Mercedes Benz vehicles and second hand Mercedes Benz Cars under the name of Pro Star Motors. Lasath’s work ethic was akin to our motto “Pray and labour on” in a different context. He worked hard and his business grew due to his excellent vehicle service record and customer service. Pro Star Motors has operated for over thirty years and even after his diagnosis, he would still be at work making sure the service standards were being maintained. It was only in the past couple of weeks that he ceased attending the business as his condition made it impossible to do so.
Lasath was soft spoken and a very humble person, never flaunting his success and acquired wealth but just being “one of the boys”. Lasath not only had Pro Star Motors but had a high end property portfolio of Real Estate that included the fine Italianate mansion that he lived in. He had a sharp business brain and always looked for opportunities to better himself.
Lasath was proud of his Alma Mater and a staunch supporter of the OBU Australia Branch. He made sure he attended all the OBUA functions with his friends and batchmates from College. Lasath was a sensitive, compassionate and caring person with a generous spirit to help others in need. He supported the OBUA with generous sponsorship for over twenty five years which was gratefully received and acknowledged. The Committee did not have to ask him for sponsorship rather it was Lasath who would contact the Committee and say “How much do you want?” His support and sponsorship will be sadly missed.
I would like to relate a story about Lasath. On the 29th February 2020, last year, Lasath invited my wife and I to dinner at his home with a number of Wesleyites and their partners to celebrate Parakrama Wijemanne’s visit to Melbourne. As I am in a wheelchair, I rang Lasath a couple of days before the dinner to let him know that I was a non-starter as I had to negotiate a number of steps to enter his home. He said ”Badda you have to come and I will fix it”. After quick consideration I agreed with some trepidation. When I arrived at his home he greeted us with a smile and confidently remarked “I have fixed the problem”. I alighted from the car and sat in my wheelchair. As I approached the entry, I was blown away by what I saw. Lasath had purchased two Motorcycle ramps so that I could be wheeled in to his `home. It reinforced my view of Lasath’s kindness and generosity. It was a fabulous evening with members of the Wesley brotherhood, many memories of College life were rekindled. It was a great dinner party and a lovely time of fellowship.
The happy memories of the get-together were dampened, when a couple of weeks later we received the bad news that Lasath had been diagnosed with Stage 4 Cancer. Lasath was aware of the treatment and challenges he faced and approached his situation with a positive mindset. He declared that he was a “fighter” and he was going to beat it. Being stage 4, the months rolled by with the usual treatment and Lasath showed no signs of deterioration in his health or appearance, no weight loss usually associated with cancer patients even though the Cancer had spread. However, his condition began to deteriorate in the last few weeks. There was no more treatment they could give him. His hard fought battle was drawing to a close. He spent his final days at home with his loving wife Savitri, daughter Lakni and son Anuk. His wife Savitri was a pillar of strength for Lassath during this harrowing time. May she be blessed abundantly for her dedication, patience, support and loving care.
A kind and generous life has been taken too soon. A loyal member of the Double Blue brotherhood, he was grateful for the education he received at Wesley College and was a fine Ambassador for Wesley’s values. Lassath will be sadly missed. Rest in Peace my friend till we meet again.
From Tissa Fernando
I write this with great sadness after the passing away of my childhood friend, Lasath Algama.
I came to know his early battles with cancer early last year and he spoke to me in length about his situation. He fought a brave and strong battle for a long time and had a strong will to beat it. But as you have seen, the cancer would not allow him to get better. He took each day in stride, always telling me that he will never give up and will fight to the end. I know he did his best. Lately, he was feeling more tired, and he knew that the treatments would finally end. He was prepared for whatever the outcome. This was a hardworking, courageous man all round, inside and out. He was a wonderful friend to me.
It was over sixty years ago, one afternoon on the 8th of January 1961 when I first met Lasath at the Baby Dormitory at the Wesley College Colombo boarding house. It was the first day for both of us at college. My bed was in between Lasath’s and Ebey Joseph (who later became the head of The Methodist Church). Shortly after my parents left me, I came to my bed and it did not take long for me to feel the loneliness. Tears were flowing down my cheeks, and I started sobbing. After a while, I noticed that the fair skinned boy sitting on his bedside next to me was looking at me. I did not know what he was thinking about. After few minutes he got to his trunk, opened it and took out a box of Cadbury Chocolates and pointed at me to take some. I kept on looking at him. He said, “Don’t cry, I am your friend. Take these chocolates”.
Yes, we were great friends throughout our school days.
Lasath was an academically bright student during his primary and early secondary school years. He was always at the top three in our class, however, he was not the quiet, bookish type, or the guy who writes poetry as a hobby. He was a rascal who got in to trouble more than a few times with the teachers and senior students! Throwing eggs at the children playing opposite the hostel dining hall during lunch interval was a joyful time for both of us. We took great satisfaction in hitting targets and spoke and laughed about it after the action. However, one day we hit the wrong target. I saw an egg hitting a senior student. When I told him who he had hit, his eyes opened widely and he popped his head over the balcony wall! I am not writing beyond this. That was the last day of that activity by us... There are more funny, enjoyable and (sometimes) painful activities undertaken by us during our time at Wesley College. Along with our other friends, we also enjoyed doing fun activities outside school during those days and during school hours. I have fond memories of us going to 10:30am movies at the Ritz and Lido cinemas, exploring the Colombo zoological gardens, the museum and other interesting sites around Colombo. Although he was not particularly interested in school sports or extracurricular activities, Lasath had his own interests. Coming from a family background with automobiles, he was a car enthusiast who knew about all type cars, models and their shapes and styles. The direction of his life was seen at an early age.
I think Lasath left college after his O/L in 1969. I met him twice after that and lost contact maybe around 1971. Later on, in 1979, I met Lasath’s father at the Colombo airport where I was working and came to know that he had migrated to Australia. Although we drifted apart, our paths were destined to cross again. When I migrated to Australia in 1988, my first task was to find Lasath and we met at his house at Eltham. That was a very happy reunion. I did not see much of a change in his physical appearance since he left college. Since then, we have kept in close contact and he has helped me personally in various circumstances. Lasath also helped and sponsored many community activities that I have led. Furthermore, he has been a part of contributing to the Wesley College Sports Club in Colombo and was a dedicated supporter and a sponsor of the Wesley College OBU in Melbourne.
In Lasath I saw an intelligent, hardworking, loving and caring individual. I am not sure if he ever missed a working day, always ready and willing to work. He never stopped going to his repair centre even during the times of sickness. Being at work, meeting his customers and supporting them was his passion. He was a loving husband to Savithri and a wonderful father to his two children Manuk and Lakni, laying a strong foundation for them. During their early childhood, Lasath was caring, protective and always spoke about their future and the type of citizens he hoped they would become.
During my friend’s illness, I know that there were three things that kept him going: His family, his commitment for work and hope. I believe that the strength of his mind, and believing that his sickness will not overcome him, prolonged his time with his family and friends. If not, to face another day would have been very tough for him. He always kept his sense of humour, never failed to bring laughter around the table, and kept the conversation going. However, whatever the circumstance, it was noticeable when he had his thinking cap on. That was clearly reflected on his face!
His strong spirit will live on through his children and Savithri, and they will always know how much he loved them. He tried with all his strength and heart to stay for them, but God’s plans are different, he was called back.
Goodbye my friend, my good friend for over sixty years, my first friend at Wesley College, Colombo. We will meet again. Until then, may you rest in peace.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It brings us great joy to know that Lasath had a most successful career in the motor industry and a happy life. The tough business environment nowadays requires hard work, an acute mind and a great deal of good fortune. Lasath has had all these in good measure.
I was a boarder at Wesley from 1950-58 and remember Sarath Algama in the boarding. I vaguely recall the name Lasath Algama. We recognise Lasath's immense loyalty to the school and appreciate his friendship. The Wesley fraternity will always remember Lasath for his unwavering support. His place in the annals of the OBU Australia will always be secure,.
On behalf of the worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Lasath for his contribution to the life of the school and for his support for the Old Boys Association in Australia.
For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the
mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
From Keith de Kretser
It is with sadness that I report on the passing of Roger Gunasekera younger brother of Trevor(Golu) Gunasekera in Melbourne. Please refer email below from his daughter Anne with details of his funeral. Roger got COVID last Thursday week. On behalf of the alumni in Australia I express our sympathies and prayers to his family. May he rest in peace.
From Roger's family
It is with a heavy heart that we are announcing that our dearest father, Edward Roger Gunasekera, passed away on Thursday 20th January 2022.
The funeral service will be held on Wednesday 26th January at 1pm at The Boyd Chapel, Springvale Cemetery followed by the burial at 2:15pm.
We thank you for all your support and condolences through this very difficult time.
"Love you always and forever Daddy.You are finally reunited again with Mummy."
Judy Gunasekera, Anne, Deo & family
From the Editor DBI
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Roger for his contribution to the life of the school.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Links to Further Reading
From Keith de Kretser
Rest In Peace, dear brother!! We will miss you.
Wesley College 1st XV Rugby Team 1978
Standing from L to R:
Seated from L to R:
From Nizar Sappideen
Very sad news of the passing away of Glen this morning. Glen also captained the College Athletics team. He was not only an ardent supporter of NSW OBA, but also helped our College in Colombo financially and in many other ways. A very passionate Wesleyite
From Allen (Raj) Gnanamuttu
It is with great sadness that I heard this morning the passing away of Glen Wambeek. He is the son of Mr Vernon & Marie Wambeek brother of Beverly and Collin all of Sydney. Glen leaves behind two sons the eldest currently serving in the Army and Cameron a businessman.
Glen was in Class of 1975/76 was a sportsman, Wilkin House, played rugby first XV. He migrated to Sydney Australia in 1978. His Dad Vernon Wambeek played cricket for BRC.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera, Editor DBI
Glen was a sucessful property developer in Sydney, Australia. Established in 1993 by Glen Wambeek, the 21st Century Group Pty Ltd. became industry experts in building and developing successful property investment portfolios for a range of different budgets and specifications. They offerred a first class service and was a well respected company in a competitive field.
Glen played tennis, hockey and rugby for Wesley College. He has acquired the Sporting prowess from his father, Vernon Wambeek, who played cricket for Richmond College and also the Burgher Recreation Club in Colombo.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Glen for his contribution to the life of the school and his immense support for the Wesley College OBA NSW, Australia.
A Tribute to our beloved son and one of a kind human being – By Marie Wambeek
Vernon Glen Wambeek was our eldest son, named after his father Vernon however everyone knew him as Glen. He studied at Wesley College in Colombo where he ended up becoming a prefect. He was into various sports including Rugby, Cricket and Athletics, in addition to being a Judo National Champion. He also took part in school plays; his most memorable role was when he played Julius Caesar in a Shakespearean Drama Competition which he ended up winning.
Glen moved to Australia in 1977 and started his career in the hotel industry, eventually opening up his own restaurant in Crows Nest known as the ‘Rangoon Racquet Club’. It was voted one of the top restaurants in New South Wales.
Glen married and became a father of 2 sons; Glen Junior and Cameron who he loved dearly. Glen grabbed every opportunity and was the proud Managing Director of the investment construction management business that he started in 1993. His business grew due to his astute judgment, intelligence and expertise. He was professional in the way he managed his business and was loved by both his staff and customers. Glen loved the finer things in life, he spoilt not only himself but was generous to family and friends. His charm and ability to converse combined with his sense of humour were what contributed to his success in his business. His down to earth nature of communicating with his clients made them feel comfortable with him while he walked them through purchasing a property with him. The many testimonials on his company website will attribute to the ease in which he managed his business.
Glen, along with his brothers, father and I, loved visiting Sri Lanka. He particularly enjoyed catching up with his old friends, and those friendships always picked up where they left off. Glen always made time to visit his grandparents’ gravesites to pay his respects no matter how hectic his schedule was.
My son was a hard worker; he worked tirelessly to build his company over 29 years. He also wanted to pay it forward, which involved enrolling in a mentor program at a local school. While he gained much satisfaction from his work and achievements, his pride and joy were his 2 sons. Losing Glen 2 years ago is a heartache that my husband Vernon and I have to bear. We will hold on to our memories of our kind, generous and loving son. We will miss him every day for the rest of our lives.
I would like to end this tribute with a quote written by Robin Sharma that my son Beverly shared.
This quote truly reflects Glen. All his dear relatives and friends sadly miss him but he is fondly remembered always.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Mr.Bandula Welarathna passed away on the 11th of April 2022 at his residence in Kirulapona. The Burial took place at the General Cemetery Kanatte on the 12th of April.
Shanti McLelland: He was a teacher at Wesley for a long time. He was at the Teacher Training College with me for training to teach Mathematics. That was nearly 50 years ago at Teacher Training College Maharagama. He acted as a Vice Principal at Wesley. Sadly he will be missed.
An Appreciation by Hari Parameswaran, Ottawa, Canada
Mr. Welarathna, Mathematics Teacher for all Wesleyites!
One of the teachers who positively affected my attitude toward Mathematics during my wonderful college days at Wesley was none other than Mr. Bandula Welarathna. Although he taught Maths in the Sinhala stream, he was always willing to help students in Tamil and English streams as well. Being in the Tamil stream, I had the privilege of having some of the best Maths teachers in Colombo and was fortunate enough to have been helped by Mr. Welarathna at times. He always addressed me as “Putha” and took the time to stop and talk to me about my schoolwork whenever we ran into each other.
Additionally, he gave me confidence in my ability to do maths as well as easy methods to use in the future. I believe he has positively affected my attitude towards education because he is an example of a good teacher who has helped all Wesleyites to improve their mathematics skills.
Welarathna Sir! Thank you for being my mentor at Wesley and those wonderful memories will always be part of my life.
From Wasantha Kasthuriarchchi
It is not certain when Mr Welarathna joined Wesley to teach. Mr Welarathne taught me in grade 6 in 1974. After moving to Poland and then to Nigeria to teach he returned to Wesley in 1977. He remained at Wesley College until retirement in 2012.
From the Editor DBI
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Mr Bandula Welarathna for his long years of service to Wesley College. We greatly appreciate his contribution to the life of the school. My personal communications with his students reveal Mr Welarathna was an inspirational maths teacher and excelled in his ability to teach with clarity and simplicity. His teaching methods were as unforgettable as they were effective. Mr Welarathna helped several generations of Wesleyites to achieve their dreams. He will be long remembered by his students for his thoughtful ways and kind demeanour.
When each of us thinks about our careers, chances are, we can do it because of a teacher. Behind every exceptional person, there is an exceptional teacher. Today, we need great teachers more than ever. We must always remember, Teachers Matter. Personally, I remain grateful for some wonderful teachers at Wesley during my time to whom I owe so much.
MAY YOU ATTAIN THE ULTIMATE BLISS OF NIRVANA
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Wesley College Basketball Team 1956
Wesley College Basketball Team 1959
From Nizar (M.N) Sappideen
I am very sad to hear of the passing away of my good friend Razark. He was a well known figure at College in the late fifties.
I was the Vice Captain of the College Soccer team when he was captain in the year 1959. About 6 years ago when I visited College, Razark, O. K. Hemachandra, Dalkin Samidon, L. R. Goonetilleka and M.S.K. Perera came to meet me and we had a drink and dinner together. We had a pleasant chat about the good old days at College. Although he was small, he excelled both in Basketball and Soccer at College. As you mentioned, he was a good student, unfortunately did not enter University.
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From Bashur Musafer
Thanks for circulating the sad news about the passing away of M A Razak whom I remember as a strict Senior Prefect of college and captain of the soccer and basketball teams. He was also in the college 'Do You Know' team and a permanent panelist on the Maliban Quiz show together with Hisni Marrikar. He was a very talented All Rounder and inspiring leader whom I expected much from after he left college. However I did not hear anything about him after he left college.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
M.A.M Razark and his elder brother, Ameer Ali, came to the boarding at Wesley in the late 1940’s. They hailed from Sammanthurai in the Eastern Province, close to Batticaloa. They both soon became stalwarts of the vibrant school boarding. I remember with much nostalgia the many games of Cricket and Soccer we played as hostellers in the 'dust bowl' we called the Small Park which was behind our school. This was sadly sold to property developers and was lost to Wesley College in the 1960's.
Razark was an integral part of boarding life and joined in the fun, wit and humour that was endemic in that great institution. In the 1950's Wesley had 1200 students of whom 110 were boarders. In the boarding we were one big family. The boarding then was a large part of school life. Over the years the boarding became less popular and was gradually scaled down. At present there is no school boarding. Many of us have wonderful and nostalgic memories of boarding life. The friendships that ensued and the support and care we received from the teachers and the Matron remain fresh in our minds.
In the boarding in the 1950's there was a strong contingent from Sammanthurai. We had the brothers, Ameer and Hakim Ismail and also a boy called Mohideen. Ameer became the Chief Justice in Sri Lanka and was a Chief Guest at the school's Annual Prize Giving. Hakim emigrated to the UK qualifying as an accountant. He did the accounts for the Wesley College OBU(UK) for many years. M.A.M Mohideen became a Post Master in the Eastern Province in Sri Lanka and passed a way recently.
Razark was a fine speaker and was a stalwart of the debating team. He was a useful member of the school Spelling Bee Team. Razark was also a Maliban Quiz Kid (Maliban Quiz was a popular general knowledge competition on Radio Ceylon in the 1950's).
With his self-confidence firmly in place he was a voice to reckon with at the Hostel Union Meetings where Razark held high office as its President. His opinions, were expressed in an elegant style. He conveyed his feelings and sentiments with the greatest of ease. He had tremendous good fun too voicing his viewpoint and inviting reaction and debate. The Principal and the teachers recognised Razark's contribution to the boarding and the school. He was appointed Senior Hostel Prefect and subsequently in 1960 appointed the Senior Prefect of the school, a most prestgious position for any schoolboy. As the Senior Prefect he commanded respect and received it. Smooth and self-confident, Razark held this position with flair, style and swagger. In 1959 Razark was awarded the prestigious Lydia Senaratne Prize for the best all rounder in the hostel. His name now appears on the board that hangs prominently by the stairs to the hostel.
Razark was a skillful soccer player and captained the Wesley College 1st XI. Slightly built he had superb close control, tremendous grace and fine dribbling skills. He went past defenders like a knife through butter. Under his captaincy coached by the famous Neville Abeygunawardene, Wesley had a most successful year playing a distinctive brand of attractive attacking football. Despite being rather short he was also a good basketball player and captained the team. Although small in stature he never lacked courage. Razark was a fast moving robust figure. He was quick thinking and scored freely. He was both an outstanding shooter and dogged in defense.
He was a couple of years senior to me. Beyond the glories of his many achievements on and off the sports field I remember him as a kind soul, caring and conscientious. He was a gentle person well liked by all.
It was a tradition in those days at the boarding to own an Autograph book. We got it signed by friends and those leaving the school or boarding. I left the boarding in 1958. As was the ritual I got the great and the good to sign my autograph book. I remember Razark wrote the aphorism:
"Ars longa vita brevis" (skilfulness takes time and life is short).
How very true!!
He studied the Sciences proceeding to the 6th Form at school. Although academically bright he never was able to find a place in the University of Ceylon for higher education. He became a teacher at Zahira College and later was a Manager in a Garment Factory. In retirement he lived in Wellawatte until he passed away. I met him briefly on a visit to Zahira College in 1961 to watch a game of cricket. We spoke of mutual friends and our time together at Wesley.
He never attended the Grand Reunion of 2012. Did he join the OBU? After being such a huge part of school life in the 1950's I just wonder how close he was to Wesley College as an old boy. Razark, however, kept in touch with his school pals as we heard from Nizar Sappideen.
Although Razark studied the sciences his exam results show he never posessed a scientific mind. He was a truly great man for the arts. Razark's general knowledge was extensive. He was a fine orator, spoke fluently and wrote elegantly. Razark would have shone brightly as a fearless journalist. With his excellent command of the English language and those oratorical skills he would have made such a fine a Attorney or solicitor. His impeccable honesty, dignity and civic conscience would have made him a fine politician.
Destiny had other plans for him. Vivian Jayaweera informs me that Razark was at one time the Chairman of the CTB in Batticaloa. This is indeed wonderful news. By his competence I can assume he enjoyed considerable success in his assignment. I'm certain he would have done a marvellous job in the CTB to provide a good and efficient public bus service to the people of Batticaloa.
As an intelligent student he has the right to be disappointed not to achieve his full academic potential. He did not fulfill his dream of higher education or a university degree? We will never know how much this affected him in the real world. He had the all round ability to shine whatever he did. I just hope he had a good life. It is a consolation to know that Razark was a man to count his blessings rather than harbour regrets.
Razark was a prominent figure at school and the boarding in the 1950's. Just like me, many thought very highly of him. Despite his many achievements his modesty and humility stood out.
I regret very much not having made an effort to meet him on my trips back to Sri Lanka over the years.
He was such a remarkable talent, embracing all manner of activities large and small, he made a distinctive and distinguished contribution to school life. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his immense dedication and contribution to the life of the school.
A long life, well lived I wish this be a fitting obituary for a kind and decent man. Razark will be long remembered as a truly great all rounder from the 1950's.
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Valete from the Double Blue Magazine 1961
Mention must also be made of 3 prominent Wesleyites who left us. Mohammed Razark our Senior Prefect till the end of 1960 left us after an astonishing career at school. He was the very 1st Wesleyite to serve on the Quiz Kid’s Panel sponsored by Maliban Biscuits at Radio Ceylon and was easily the star among all the kids. Many were the times when the Quiz Master stated: There isn’t a single question that stumped Mohammed. Razark showed his prowess at sports as well and captained the College Soccer and Basketball teams. We wish all the best in the future life.
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From Lalith (L.C.R) Wijesinghe
Shantha was my elder brother. He passed away on 18 April 2022 at a Care Home in Surrey, England, after ailing from cancer for nearly 6 years. He was 80 years old at the time of his death.
Shantha and I joined Wesley in 1952 from Christian College,Kotte where we had our primary education. He had a circle of close friends whilst at Wesley, whom I remember were Lucky Goonetilleke, Upali Samararatne, Bandula Caldera and Nandalal Gunawardane.
Having completed his Ordinary Level Examination at Wesley he left for England in 1963 to study Cost and Management Accountancy. After working as an Accountant in the UK initially he branched into doing various Business Ventures in the UK and Channel Islands, very successfully. He was living in London, Jersey and finally in Cornwall, England.
He was married with a daughter, four grandchildren and great grandchildren, all living in Tasmania, Australia. Shantha lived for a certain period again in Srilanka, where he built a home by the beach at Wadduwa.
As brothers with an age difference of one year, had a close relationship. He was a source of great help to me personally in my early years when I was struggling, to become what I am today. I will miss him truly. May his soul Rest in Peace.
From the Editor DBI - Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I received the news of the demise of Shantha Wijesinghe with great sadness. His photo brings him back to life. I remember him well from the schooldays as a friendly lad always with a smile. He was often seen with his friends in the long corridors of the school at the intervals making fun and enjoying himself. Shantha was a regular at Campbell Park watching cricket and supporting his brother.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school. We pass on our condolences to Lalith and his close family.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Charles Frederick Swan - Obituary 2008
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
The Prestigious Hill Medal Awarded to the Best Scholar in the School
It is with great sadness I have received the news of the demise of Charles (Charlie) and his brother Arthur Swan. They both were at Wesley in the 1950's. The Swan family were family friends of ours since my grandfather's generation. Their father worked in the Ceylon Government Railways (CGR) and lived in Jayanthipura, Battaramulla in his retirement. Their mum and dad were a kind, gentle and hospitable couple whom I remember with much affection.
The photo brings Charles back to life. As a school boy Charles was reserved and studious. He had the intelligence, dedication and discipline to perform well at examinations. He was a bright student and carried away many prizes at the Annual School Prize Giving. He won the prestigious Hill Medal in 1955 and entered the Engineering Faculty of the University of Ceylon. He qualified as an Engineer. Charlie and Arthur emigrated to Australia in the 1960's.
Charles qualified further as a Chartered Engineer. He started his illustrious career as a Mechanical Engineer with the Civil Aviation Department in Sri Lanka. To work in Sri Lanka as an engineer one had to be creative, resourceful and ingenious. He served the department for 9 years with great distiction. He married Felicia in 1965 and had a son and a daughter. They built a beautiful 4 bed room house in Ratmalana. The family held a respected position in society and led a distinguished and comfortable life until they left for Australia. Subsequently, Charles worked as a United Nations advisor in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia and worked there for 12 years. I'm sure he found life in Arabia thrilling and also perplexing, as I did. Charles and Felicia lived in London for a few years after completing his stint in Saudi Arabia. They finally returned and settled back in Melbourne. In Melbourne Charles remained a charming and valued member of society. By his very nature he was courteous, gracious and thoughtful. Charles was greatly appreciated, honoured and loved by all.
Charles suffered from heart disease and had his first heart attack in the year 2000 aged just 63 yrs. He was at the time on a family holiday travelling in Bosnia. In that country the healthcare was poor and Charles did not receive the urgent care which was required. After a few days he was moved to Rome in Italy, where quadruple by-pass surgery was performed. It took him 3 months to recover from the surgery and return to Melbourne. Charles passed away in 2008, just 4 days after his 71st birthday. Despite his early demise Charles had a good life well lived. Charles was immensely fortunate to see his two grandchildren before his demise. He was ever so fond of his grandchildren. The boy was named Charles after him. His passing was a great loss to Felicia and the family and to their many friends.
Arthur suffered from mental health problems from school days. I remember him as a gentle soul often lost in thought in his own world. Arthur's mental health was a source of great concern and worry for his loving parents. I remember them most fondly. I too lived in Jayanthipura, Battaramulla with my parents at the time. Whenever I visited the Swans on an evening we talked about life, politics and the railways. They often discussed their worries and concerns with me. After Charlie's father passed away Arthur and his mother moved to Melbourne and then to Sydney as the climate was warmer. Arthur's two sisters lived in Sydney. Arthur and his mother lived in a Nursing Home and she passed away age 94. Arthur was well loved in the Nursing Home by the carers and the residents. I am reliably informed Arthur had a fall and sadly passed away in August 2021.
It is indeed a matter of great regret that our paths never crossed and I never met Charles and Arthur after they left school. As I left for the UK in the early 1970's I lost contact with the Swan family. Building a career, the onerous routines of hospital work and bringing up children took precedence. The time passed relentlessly. It was only after my retirement I made several attempts to make contact with Arthur and Charles, but without success. Amazingly no one seemd to know their whereabouts. Trevor Collette tried his utmost. It was Bryan Werapermall, a cousin of the Swans, who most kindly gave me the contact details for Felicia. Her generous and kind intervention provided the information for this tribute
I still yearn for the innocence of schooldays and those lost years with much nostalgia. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Charles and Arthur for their contribution to the life of the school. We pass on our condolences to their families.
GRANT THEM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
He died in his sleep 15/05/2022 at 9:28am due to cancer that spread from his liver, spine, and lungs. His decline was fast at the end and he was not suffering.
A brief final message from Bunny:
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news of the demise of a charismatic Wesleyite, Bunny Taylor. The school has lost a phenomenal friend. He was a loyal Wesleyite with a tremendous love for the old school and his many friends. He supported all things related to Wesley College and a source of great inspiration. From Toronto Canada he managed the website for Wesley College OBU(UK) for many years. I recall meeting Bunny at the funeral of one of his school buddies, Shee Hung Yu, in 2008 when he travelled all the way from Canada for the funeral held in London.
Bunny played a prominent role in the social life at Wesley and enjoyed all events and occasions to the full. We will always remember his humanity, humour and passion. His exuberance and enthusiasm is a happy memory for all his friends. On behalf of the Worldwide Botherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his friendship and loyalty for his alma mater and his tremendous contribution to the life of the school. He will always be part of the Wesley family.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Born in Badulla, Sri Lanka March 19, 1952. Passed away in Adelaide, South Australia on May 23,2022, Aged 70 years. Beloved husband of Anne-Marie, loving father of Lorenz and Nelson. Much loved brother of Dylan and Delyse.
Brother-in-law of Lynne and James, Kelly, Kym, Evelyn, (both deceased), Gill.
Adored uncle of Marcus, Jasmin, Luke, Hannah, Serena, Ramon, Elana and Brandon.
A life dedicated to compassion, care and healing. Sadly missed by family, friends, colleagues and patients.
From Keith de Kretser
I am sad to report the passing of Dr Chiron Bartholomeusz; aged 70yrs, in Adelaide this morning. He was getting ready for work and collapsed. He had shown no symptoms and it came as quite a shock. He leaves behind his wife Anne Marie , sons Dr Lorensz and Nelson. He is the son of Dr Rizien Bartholomeusz(Decd) and brother of Dr Dylan Bartholomeusz. They all attended Wesley College. He was planning to retire on 30th June.
Funeral details will be notified later.
On behalf of the Alumni I extend our heartfelt condolences to the family at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with them.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Chiron was greatly respected as a Consultant Physician in Adelaide. His clinical acumen was much appreciated by his patients. They speak volumes of his care and professionalism. He was also an excellent teacher, much loved by his junior staff and students. His devotion to his patients was a wonderful example for many young doctors. Chiron will be sorely missed for his innate care and concern for his patients. We are saddened that after a long career in medicine Chiron was unable to enjoy his well earned retirement.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I offer his family and friends our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers will be with them at this time of grief. We thank Chiron for his contribution to the life of the school
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
CHARLES SELVARATNAM DAVID - Age 73yrs 
Husband of Puvaneswari (Rani), much loved father of Prishan, Nishan, father-in-law of Anita, adored grandfather to Maya, Alisha, beloved brother of late Alfred (Alfie), Sarojini, Joseph (Joe), Paul, brother-in-law of late Ranjini, Indran Nallamanickam, Rohinie, Ami.
Funeral to take place in Sydney on Monday 6th June
From Nizar Sappideen
Born on 18th January 1949, Charles was the youngest son of late Moses and Mabel David of Colombo. He had 3 brothers and 1 sister, being late Alfred (a classmate of mine,) Sarojini, Joseph and Paul. Like his brothers, Charles attended Wesley and was in Passmore House. At school he played cricket and rugby.
After Charles left College, he worked at Ceylon Silks, Colombo, where he met his wife Rani Thuraisingham. After marriage on 8th of September 1973, the same month, the newly married couple moved to London, where Charles commenced to study Civil Engineering at London South Bank University. After completing his degree, and 8 years in London, he moved to Australia in 1981 with his wife and two sons.
Charles first job in Sydney was as a Prison Guard in the NSW Corrective Services. Shortly after, he secured an engineering role within the NSW Corrective Services that aligned to his education. He finally ended up as a Senior Project Manager at the Department.
Charles was a pioneer member of Wesley OBA in Sydney and actively participated in all activities of our Association. I did not know Charles at College, as I left Wesley in 1959. Charles was a cheeky guy, loved by all, who was always cracking jokes and laughing. He was also a very caring and generous person and towards the latter part of his life he spent some time in Sri Lanka helping others. Using his engineering skills, he started a project of building wells in the Sri Lanka to bring clean water to the villages in Sri Lanka. Many villages benefitted from his generosity.
He is survived by his wife Rani, his two sons, Prishan and Nishan and two granddaughters – Maya and Alisha.
Photo Taken at the cemetery L to R: Darrel Maye, Nizar Sappideen and Vivian Jayaweera
The following past pupils of Wesley attended his funeral in Sydney:
From Ranjit Aaron - in New Zealand
I read the above obituary in the Ceylon Observer of 29th, May, 2022.
Charles is the youngest brother of A.K.David, Joe and Paul (U.K). All four boys are old Wesleyites.
May his soul rest in peace.
From Bashur Musafer- Sydney, Australia
Charles was the Secretary of the OBU(Sydney) in 1998 when I was the President. He continued to support the OBU much long after that. As the rest of the David family he was a loyal old boy of Wesley College. May he Rest in Peace
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
At school Charles was much junior to me. I knew of his connections to the vibrant Wesley OBA in Sydney. He was a Civil and Structural Engineer working for the New South Wales Government. I received the news of his sudden demise with great sadness.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I offer his family and friends our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers will be with them at this time of grief. We are grateful to Charles for his contribution to the life of the school. A life greatly lived and movingly shared. Thank you.
The Good Lord has granted you rest from your labours.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
Claude Ivor De Silva (1923-2022)
A Tribute by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Despite the passage of years I received the news of his passing with great sadness and an aching sense of loss. The school and the boarding was so much a part of my life the news brought back many memories of growing up at Wesley in Karlsruhe Gardens.
Mr Ivor De Silva Joined Wesley in 1954 and left in 1957. He was the Senior Hostel Master for some of that time and enjoyed a particularly stable and fruitful period in his teaching career. I was a boarder then and appreciated his gentle manner and kindness. He left the boarding to get married.
Mr Ivor De Silva loved music. He had a fine singing voice and led the singing in the hostel chapel and the school assembly. Soon after Mr Maxwell De Alwis left Mr Oorloff, the Principal, asked him to take charge of the school choir. He provided an excellent service to the choir and music of the school and encouraged students to delve deeper into the music he loved. Mr Ivor De Silva became its conductor and motivational director and brought about a huge expansion to the repertoire of the choir . He taught us to make music of thrilling and uncompromising beauty in four part harmony when the choir sang at school, at the Maradana Methodist Church or at the Nine Lessons and Carols during Christmas.
Mr Ivor De Silva was an inspirational teacher. He taught History, Geography and English to 6th formers and at GCE level. He was a fine teacher of the old tradition. Mr Ivor De Silva truly inspired everyone he taught through his passion for his subject and his dedication. His lessons were interactive which heightened everyone’s interest in the subject. Everyone enjoyed his lessons, they were something we looked forward to and he always encouraged us to strive for success. He was soft spoken and treated the students with kindness and respect, a rarity in those days. Mr De Silva genuinely cared for his students and showed interest in their welfare.
He taught us swimming taking us to the Otters Pool every Wednesday afternoon. I remember the patience he had to teach me to swim to save myself and save others.
Mr Ivor De Silva came from a strong Methodist background and I remember his sophisticated and conservative interpretations of the scriptural text. His religious faith was strong. He took an active part in the SCM and also in Drama at school.
After a his years as the Vice Principal of Richmond College he accepted an appointment at a Quaker school in Providence, Rhode Island, and proceeded to teach at various schools in the USA for nearly 50 years. Around 2016, Ivor de Silva and wife relocated to his wife's ancestral home in Wellawatte. They were both very feeble, they had a small house which was packed full of memorabilia. Although he lived in Colombo he remained close to Richmond College, where he was revered, until the very end.
Although Mr Ivor De Silva was a teacher at Wesley for 3 years. His presence had a tremendous impact on the life of the school and the lives of the many students who came into contact with him. He was indeed a very special teacher who we will remember with great affection.
From the Double Blue Magazine 1958
Mr. lvor de Silva has left us to become Vice-Principal and also Acting Principal of Richmond College, Galle. He served Moscrop House as the Senior House Master and was responsible for many of Moscrop's successes. He also did useful work in the Hostel, during a critical period and made many improvements. Mr. Ivor de Silva was a discoverer of talent.
The present senior hostel master for instance was brought to the stage as "An Adana race-book seller". This was drama at its height! Mr. Ivor de Silva took a very great interest in the Music and Drama society. He helped in producing the operas "Aladd-in and out" and "Robin-Hood". The College choir owes much to him. for throughout his stay in the school he was the live wire of the choir. Mr. de Silva was also the master in-charge of the college swimming club. The high standard maintained in swimming and life-saving are solely due to his efforts. As senior Geography master in the Sixth and Fifth Forms, he instilled in students a love for the study of Geography. He maintained a very high standard in the teaching of Geography.
Finally, the greatest contribution he made was to the spiritual life of the school. He was keenly interested in the activities of the S.C.M. and was able to witness effectively by leading a life of example. At the end of last year he led the Ceylonese delegation to the S.C.M, Triennial Conference held at Guntur, India. We wish him all success in his new walk of life.
Photo: Mr and Mrs Oorloff with Mr. Ivor De Silva taken at Horton Cottage, Kandy where the Oorloffs lived in their retirement.
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The Good Lord has granted you rest from your labours.
GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news that Percy passed away peacefully surrounded by his family. He was many years my senior at school. Percy's younger brother was in my year in medical school. I had information about Percy from his family and phoned him last year. We decided to meet in London and we were both most enthusiastic about reminiscing our time at school. But the Covid restrictions made this impossible. I have fond memories of our phone conversation. The Cricket Captain of 1960, Senthil Sinniah remained in contact with Percy for many years, in London. But Percy was unable to attend the Old Boy's meetings due to his work commitments and distance. He remained a loyal Wesleyite all through the years.
Percy was a fine cricketer in the most successful 1st XI team in 1953 captained by Brian Claessen. Many of that team have now passed on. Arthlow Chapman and Patrick Schokman live in Australia. B.N Jurangpathy and M.N Samsudeen live in Colombo.
1st XI Cricket Team 1953
We thank Percy for his immense contribution to the life of the school.
May he attain the ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
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Adrian ’Keith’ DE KRETSER (19/09/1954 - 27/06/22)
Celebrating a life lived well
Anglican Parish of St Stephen and St Mary
383, High Street, Mount Waverley
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I heard the news with deep sadness that our true blue Wesleyite from Melbourne, Keith De Kretser passed away peacefully at the Monash Hospital.
Keith's father attended Wesley College during the Principalship of the revered Rev Henry Highfield. Keith joined Wesley College in 1959 in the Lower Kindergarten where Miss Norma De Silva and Mrs Dulcie de Mel were teachers.
Keith was many years my junior at school. I do not remember him from my years at the Karlsruhe Gardens. So I am unaware of his prowess and skill at Rugby nor his pranks and mischief as a schoolboy. I first came to know Keith when I started the Double Blue International website in 1997. From then on we have been in close contact. He wrote profusely and with much emotion about his years at Wesley. He had many interesting stories about our teachers, humorous anecdotes about his friends and fascinating reminiscences of sports at school. His passion was for Rugby. At Wesley Keith began developing the persona that would become so familiar in his later life. In all his writings there was strong emotional thread. In 2015, together we started the Double Blue Links, a Newsletter for Wesleyites. Keith wrote with great panache and style. It was published in the DBI and also sent to all Wesleyites by email.
I spent most of my school life as a boarder. In the boarding there was a large Burgher Community. They brought a 4th dimension to life in the boarding and at Wesley. Many of my fellow boarders emigrated to Australia in the late 1950's and the 1960's. It has been my life long ambition to travel to OZ to meet my pals and to reminisce those happy years, perhaps for the last and final time. Keith was overjoyed when I told him I was visiting Melbourne. Being popular and loved by the Wesley Community Keith was able to rally the troops. He organised a party and a dinner for me and my wife with the support of the vibrant Melbourne OBUA. It was a most memorable night for around 50 guests. Those old stories came to the fore once again. It was a long night I will never forget for the friendship, camaraderie and the deep affection shown by all. The many speeches made and the kind words spoken still remain fresh in my mind. They will remain memories to cherish. The evening ended with the school song, the familiar Zam Zam Zakey and plenty of hugs. It was a great pleasure and a privilege to meet Keith and Myra in Melbourne on my tour of Australia in February 2009.
As the Editor of the OBUA Newsletter for many years he kept us informed of Wesleyites in Australia and also those around the world. I very much enjoyed and appreciated his work. He had the gift to capture school life and those as an old boy with all its joys and tragedies. His writing showed how much he loved Wesley and his many friends. Whenever there was an obituary he collected information and condoled with the families on behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites. He wrote eloquently and was a prolific writer for the school websites. Keith has made use of his excellent command of the English language to drum up support for Wesley on its many fund raising projects. His support for school rugby has been inspirational. Every school needs a 'Keith De Kretser' to carry its banners when everyone else has forgotten.
He was a colourful character and and so very persuasive. Keith spoke frankly and wrote without fear or favour. Occasionally he retained his no-nonsense approach to issues with a liberal dose of humour. Wesley College was in a spiral of decline from the 1980's to the early years of the new millennium. He wanted Wesleyites to be well informed. During those years Keith was most vocal in his genuine efforts to put things right. This invariably involved crossing swords with some grandees of the school and the Methodist hierarchy. He had a deep sense of right and wrong and stood by his principles with great dignity. Breaking away from tradition, this was a bold move to question the administration and authority at Wesley. I personally loved his irreverence and honesty all through this long and eventful saga. This was an important point in the history of the school when old boys forced the school to change its ways. The Methodist hierarchy and the Governing Board at school finally set in motion the transformation needed for the greater good of Wesley College.
Keith never lost his idiosyncratic approach to problems. Some may remember their encounters with him vividly. Anyone who got in his way would have felt the full force of his wrath. Some were offended by his straight and direct approach and his scathing remarks. He firmly believed that the end justified the means. Keith liked to push the boundaries in every area of his life. He didn’t have patience for apathy, and he never liked to be told what to do, because Keith did everything to the best of his ability. His flair,instinctive and intuitive brilliance ensured that he often prevailed in his plans and projects. Keith was greatly respected by all, including his critics, for his brutal honesty and the ability to get things done well. Keith has left an enormous void that cannot be easily filled.
He was something of a paradox being pragmatic yet idealistic, unfailingly magnanimous as yet annoyingly mischievous at times, but never vindictive or vengeful. Keith always harboured a spirit of decency and goodness. With his large frame and trained voice he filled any room he entered and had the ability to control the proceedings with civility, courtesy and fairness.
When I wanted to handover the Double Blue International to maintain its continuity after me, Keith stepped in and made it possible for the Melbourne OBUA to take charge. I will be eternally grateful to Keith and the OBUA. Now the DBI has a permanent home and it will remain a Forum of friendship for all Wesleyites worldwide.
In all my years of closeness to Wesley and Wesleyites I have never seen such deep affection, devotion and loyalty to the school than what I have observed with Keith de Kretser. He is no doubt one of the most loyal old boys to have walked the long corridors of our beloved school.
Keith had many health problems that needed prolonged care and supervision. Keith bore his ever debilitating and restrictive illness, stoically. He accepted those privations and hardship gracefully and without complaint. It was his resilience that always amazed me. Myra and his close knit family were an enormous help to him. The last time I spoke with him he seemed well aware that his time on earth is coming to an end. Keith dealt with these issues with enormous courage and characteristic indomitable spirit. He remained cheerful and his enthusiasm for life never waned. This wonderful attitude to adversity is a beacon to us all.
In the realm of selflessness and unwavering dedication, there are those rare individuals who shine as beacons striving to make a positive impact in the lives of others. Keith born in Sri Lankan and lived in Melbourne, Australia, never forgot his roots and he touched the hearts of countless individuals through his tireless efforts to bring Wesleyites together. As we bid farewell to this remarkable soul, let us celebrate the life and legacy of a man who epitomized the values of love, friendship, and service. As I write this tribute, I am reminded of the profound loss that his passing represents. His genuine concern for Wesley College will forever be remembered and cherished.
Keith was a phenomenon, a force of nature. He was a fine Wesleyite, a talented human being, and a good friend. So funny, warm, and charming his charisma was off the charts. With his wit and humour he brought joy to our lives. With a personality bigger than his waistline he always had a fund of stories to relate. He was an accomplished raconteur and delighted in entertaining friends with narratives of people and events. He knew everything about everybody including the tittle-tattle and was a wealth of information. I will miss those long interesting chats on the phone on a spectrum of topics ranging from the serious to the mundane, what he has heard through the grapevine. All this was recounted with his perfect English diction and that familiar Australian twang. Keith will be remembered with affection, joy, and gratitude. He will be sorely missed.
Keith was a committed Christian and his life was truly devoted to God. The greatest gift he received from his parents was the legacy of character and faith. His faith meant a lot to him all through his life. From schooldays he loved singing and was in the choir and continued this tradition during his sojourne in Australia
At this time of grief, on behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites, I send my condolences to Myra and the family. We thank him for his immense contribution and commitment to the life of the school and to the Wesley Community.
Keith, a great supporter and patron of the Double Blue International
He was a repository of information and knew everything about everybody. Keith made a genuine effort to keep in touch with the school community. As I live in the UK the information provided by Keith was invaluable to maintain the DBI uptodate and relevant.
Whenever he received information about an obituary, he made it a point to write a tribute or an appreciation and sent it across with a photograph of the person, to jog everyone’s memory. Keith often wrote a poignant poem or a verse to pay a special tribute for the departed. His love for the school community knew no bounds. I received so much material from Keith, perhaps I took too much for granted. I must confess I began to appreciate his invaluable support for the DBI only after he left us. He is simply irreplaceable. Keith was a gem in a world of pebbles.
Now that Keith is no more that constant flow of messages has largely dried up. This makes one believe in the philosophy that “nothing is forever”. I will always remember Keith with great affection for his loyalty to his friends, the school and the Double Blue International.
I seek the wisdom of Christina Georgina Rossetti:
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It’s all part of the master plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go to the friends we know.
Laugh at all the things we used to do
Miss me, but let me go.
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An Appreciation - By Bashur Musafer
Keith de Kretser - the loyal Old Wesleyite from Down Under
The passing away of Keith de Kretser is indeed a great loss to the fraternal band of Wesleyites spread across the world. We will miss this larger than life figure who took it upon himself to do all that he could for his Alma Mater. He was a dedicated old boy who had Wesley’s well being written in his blood. He was inspirational in his leadership to unite the old boys domiciled in Australia especially in Melbourne not forgetting links with NSW and Colombo. Committed to the betterment of the school in all spheres of its activities Keith did not hesitate together with the Victorian branch to help the old school. He was passionate about Wesley and was not afraid to speak his mind out if the need arose. He was forthright in his opinions and called a spade a spade. Despite his battles with serious health issues he laboured on to be a loyal son of Wesley when others would have walked away.
Such was his dedication and commitment.
The newsletter he edited and circulated individually to us in Sydney was the first link established to bring closer together the old boys from the two states.This was helped with the formation of the Wesley College (Colombo) Old Boys Union of NSW in 1985 which led to a lot of interaction and fellowship in the years that followed.
On many an occasion he answered our call to be the Master of Ceremonies at the NSW dances, travelling down at his own expense and doing us proud with his imposing figure and eloquent command of the english language.
When Wesley was to celebrate its Fifty years of Rugby, Keith with the help of some supportive sponsors coordinated the arrangements to send to Sri Lanka the renowned Australian and International rugby coach Bob Dwyer to be the chief guest and speaker at the event. It was a feather in the cap for Wesley to have celebrated its fifty years of rugby with a world renowned rugby personality -thanks to Keith. In addition, as rugby was his passion a souvenir was published from articles collated from past players to record their memories for posterity as envisioned by him.
Today the literary contributions made by Keith are there for posterity, embedded in the Double Blue International which he took over from Dr Nihal Amerasekera. The contributions made by this partnership should not be forgotten as the DBI is virtually the condensed history of a great school and its past students for the next generations to read and cherish..
Keith de Kretser will no doubt be remembered as an extraordinary loyal Wesleyite
My sincere condolences to the family.
May he Rest in Peace.
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From the Editor DBI:
Solid and dependable, I find solace in the endless support he provided for the Double Blue International - He will live in our memories forevermore
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From Keith de Kretser:
Mr. Bashurdeen Musafer
President
Wesley College Colombo Old Boys’ Union(N.S.W. Branch)
15A Felton Street
Telopea, N S W. 2117
Dear Bashur
On behalf of the Touring Party and the members of the Australia Branch, I wish to place on record our sincere thanks to you and your Members for your warm welcome, cordiality and generous hospitality over the ANZAC Weekend Trip to Sydney. The overwhelming feedback was that it was a most memorable and enjoyable trip and I am confident that when we have to return in 1999, the response from our members will be even greater.
Organising and hosting such a visit is not easy and I would like to thank Mr. Lalith Fernando for coordinating the visit from your end and for taking care of the logistics. To Patta Siva and the army of Ladies led by your charming wife, a big thank you for putting on such a great Club Social on the Friday evening. It was truly an evening where the Wesley College Family, "bound by onefraternal band", gathered to share fond memories of years gone by with that unique brand of “Double Blue" fellowship and friendship that was etched in our persona whilst at our beloved Alma Mater. Last but not least to you - Bashur, a big thank you for your efforts, particularly marshalling the troops and making sure that everything went off smoothly
This year’s visit has galvanised the spirit of co-operation between our two Branches and I hope that it will enable us to join forces in helping the Principal, Mr. N.A.B Fernando who has been entrusted with the difficult task of restoring Wesley’s pride and her rightful place as a leading school in Sri Lanka. I am confident that we all share this vision for Wesley and that the Old Wesleyites through out Australia will do their bit to ensure this happens.
As the new President, the success of the ANZAC Weekend Trip is a great feather in your cap and it must give you tremendous confidence for the year ahead My heartiest good wishes to you and your wife for the remainder of your year in office.
“Ora et Labora"
Yours fraternally
Keith de Kretser
President
Wesley College Colombo OBA, Melbourne
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Wesleyites at the Final Farewell
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Links to further reading
From Sahan Salgadoe
With great sadness we inform the demise of our beloved aunt, A.V Chrisanthi Salgadoe. She was a teacher at Wesley 1977-87, Government Teacher Services 1987-2011. The Remains will leave the residence at 3.30pm on the 5th of July. The funeral service will be at the St Paul's Roman Catholic Church. Burial will be at the Roman Catholic Cemetery
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GRANT HER O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
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It is with great sadness we received the news of the passing away of Nihal Seneviratne. I remember him at school although much junior to me. I clearly remember Nihal arriving at school with his father every morning and walking up the driveway. Nihal played cricket for the Wesley 1st XI in 1965 and 66. Subsequently he played for the National Team in 1968. He was a fine fast bowler and opened the bowling.
His father Christie Seneviratne was an old boy who represented the school in cricket and later became a respected Senior Sports Reporter for the Ceylon Daily News. He used the "nom de plume" Wrong'Un in his sports reports of matches. Christie was a well known figure in the cricketing circles of the era. He was ever present at Campbell Park during the school cricket matches. Nihal's son Sanjeeva and his grandson Reshana too represented the school in cricket in the 1st XI.
We recognise, respect and feel greatly honoured that four generations of Seneviratnes were Wesleyites. So grateful they all represented the school in 1st XI cricket.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Nihal for his services to his alma mater. We appreciate immensely his contribution to the life of the school.
We pass on our condolences to his family at this time of grief
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May he find Eternal Peace
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Links to further reading
From the Times Newspaper in Sri Lanka 20th December 2020
Former Wesley, CR and FC and Sri Lanka rugby full back Zubair Doray passed away after a brief illness yesterday. One of the finest attacking full backs Sri Lanka has seen, he represented the country in both XVs and 7s. The rugby community is Sri Lanka is shocked by the sudden demise of Doray who was an outstanding product of Wesley, representing the school in rugby, cricket and hockey. Sri Lanka Rugby (SLR) President Rizly Illyas and Council Members expressed their sincere condolences on the passing away of Zubair Deen Doray. “We are deeply saddened to learn of the death of Zubair Deen Doray, our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends,” SLR secretary Jude Pillai stated. He was mentor of Wesley College rugby team at the time of his death. “Our thoughts and prayers with his beloved family, youngest son, former Wesley College captain, Junior National Tusker and current CR&FC player Murshid, eldest son Muzni, daughter Amira and wife Faiza Zubair,” the SLR statement added.
From Indika Welagedera of the Sri Lanka Daily News
Former Wesleyite Zubair Doray who died on Saturday was a fine sportsman. In school he excelled in Rugby, Cricket and Hockey. He was an attacking full back who turned out for Wesley College from 1979-1981.
After leaving school he joined the CR & FC and played for the Longden place club from 1982-1987 manning the last line of defence. He donned the Sri Lanka jersey at the 1982 Rugby Asiad in Singapore and 1984 Asiad in Fukuoka City Japan. He also represented the Sri Lanka seven a side rugby team at the Hong Kong sevens.
His younger brother scrum half late Farcy Doray also turned out for Wesley College and was a member of the Clifford cup winning CR & FC teams which was captained by Christopher Jordashe in 1987-1988.
Zubair’s youngest son Murshid Doray went on to captain Wesley College in 2019 and was a member of the Sri Lanka under 20 team at the Youth Rugby Asiad. Following in the footsteps of his father and uncle he also donned the CR & FC jersey in the 2019/20 ‘A’ division league rugby tournament.
Zubair Doray remained a loyal supporter of his school Wesley College and club CR & FC until his sudden demise. One of his happiest moments was when Wesley college under the leadership of scrum half Rahul De Silva clinched the Milo ‘A’ Division knock out championship beating Trinity College Kandy by 35-21 i8 in the final after having knocked out league champions Dharmaraja college Kandy in the Semi Finals in 2013.
From Rangi Akbar
There was something about his stance that commanded respect. The flowing robe and the long beard could not camouflage the determination on his face as he stood and prayed at the Al Ghaffooria Mosque in Maharagama.
After prayers I approached him and my fears were allayed. This is Zubair Doray, former Wesley, CR and Sri Lanka rugby full back now maintaining a low profile. He said that he was recovering from a painful kidney operation and now his whole life centered on prayers.
He was surprised that I had recognized him. I have watched him train dedicatedly at Campbell Park whilst still a schoolboy at Wesley. Nothing would deter him. His one ambition was to chase the oval ball, collect it and kick it to safety. He would tackle his opponents to a standstill. He was absolutely fit and would train for long periods… long after his colleagues had left the picturesque venue.
“My coach was Reggie Bartholomuesz. He is now domiciled in Australia and is the President of the Melbourne Branch of the Wesley OBA. He taught me the basics. Reggie knew that I was good material and under his guidance I joined the CR&FC and played for the Red Shirts in the last line of defense from 1981 to 1986 and later I was picked for the National team.”
He manned the last line of defense for CR when Malik Samarawickrema captained the side. Malik is now the king pin at Kandy SC, the side which has been dominating the rugby scene for several years. Reggie Bartholomeusz was a blazing winger, one of the few produced by Wesley. He was a regular member of the CR&FC when stalwarts such as Sari de Sylva, Hadji Omar, Tony de Sylva, Thiruchitthampalam, Eric Roles and Dushantha Samarasekera donned the Red jersey.
Later Reggie turned out for the National team where his determined and blazing down the line made him an outstanding winger. Reggie’s exploits on the rugby field are still spoken in awe at rugby gatherings.
Zubair spoke haltingly during an interview held at his residence in Maharagama. “I devote a lot of time to prayers now. But I do take the chance to witness a good game especially when my old club CR plays,” said Zubair.
Zubair has rugby in his blood. His father Lt. Abdus Kuthus Doray of the Sri Lanka Navy was a former secretary of the Sri Lanka Rugby Football Union and was President of the CR&FC in 1974. His mother Zahra Hanoon (nee Musafer) was also a keen rugby fan and would follow her husband’s passion for the game with interest and was often seen at the Longdon Place Club encouraging rugby players. Zubair turned out for Sri Lanka and was a permanent member of the National team from 1981 to 1986. He played in the national side at the Singapore and Japan Asiads during this time under the captaincy of scrum half and former Royal coach CPP Abeygunawardena and roving forward Saman Jayasinghe. Speaking about his experience at the 1981 Singapore Asiad Zubair said that Sri Lanka lost a hard fought battle against Korea at 22-6. He regrets that the standard of club rugby has not improved in the island. This has however not deterred him from encouraging his sons Muzni and Mushid from playing rugby. “Both of them play at the under 12 and under 14 levels at Wesley. Their coach is the former Army winger MP Gunadasa.”
He speaks proudly of his maternal ancestors who have done well at Wesley. “The Musafers - Dr. Sandy has been a hockey star. My great, great grand uncle Z.D. Musafer captained Wesley at cricket and A.W. Musafer captained Wesley with great distinction in 1935 and ’36, he said,
In rugby Shani Musafer captained Wesley in 1966, Iqbal Musafer led the double blues in 1974 and Hisham Musafer led Wesley in 1988.
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From the Editor Double Blue International
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we pass on our condolences to the family. We remember most fondly his tremendous contribution to Rugby and to the life of the school
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From Him do we come and unto Him do we return"
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From Bashur Musafer
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Sharir Musafer had his entire education from the kindergarten up to the GCE Ord level at Wesley and then joined the Ceylon Police force as a Sub Inspector.
It was unfortunate that Sharir lost his father when he was about nine years old. Z D Musafer his father was the first of the Musafer clan to be educated at Wesley in the early 1930’s setting the trend for three generations to follow suit. He passed away in 1958 at a relatively young age of 48. Z D Musafer was a lawyer and a politician (MMC) and had represented the school at cricket and soccer and was an ardent old boy being a member of the OBU.
Sharir was intelligent but not as brilliant a student like his brother A F Musafer (Faisal ) who was a recipient of the Hill Medal in 1957 and then graduated from the University of Peradeniya with a degree in law. A F whilst a follower of cricket did not participate in any sporting activities but was an avid reader which one would term as a bookworm. He migrated to England in the mid sixties and passed away in London in 2020.
As a young boy Sharir was an ever willing participant in any game whether it was football, cricket, hockey or rugger. He was an interesting and amiable character and had a strong sense of wit and humour. Once in his teens asked by his teacher "what was his father’s occupation" he replied “ Underground Operator “ embarrassing the teacher, meaning that his father was no longer amongst the living. He was a member of the scout troop and related hilarious stories about his "Chip A Job week " exploits and experiences which included being bitten by a dog.
As a sportsman he took to rugger, playing from 1962 as a prop forward that suited his short but stocky frame and rather lethargic trot. He captained the rugby team in 1966. He also represented the 2nd eleven hockey team as the goal keeper and was not proud of the record number of goals he let go especially against the Thomians. He was also reputed for his love of food and his favourite haunt was the tuck shop.
Knowing his limitations of his academic abilities he aspired to join the Police force and follow in the footsteps of his three uncles who were in the service. Having joined the Police in1968/69 he played Rugby in the B division tournament but was forced to give the game away through injury. When he was transferred as OIC to the Delft Islands in the north he was the butt end of jokes as friends and family used to joke that the Delft was mostly inhabited by donkeys. He took it all in his stride and in good humour and played host to many a friend at that location..
Sharir and I though being cousins rarely met after I left school. However in 1971 during the 1971 insurgency the Government Agent of Hambantota Mr Sonny Goonewardene mentioned that a S I Musafer was to be posted to Hungama and asked me if he was any good as I was, paying a compliment to me. I replied in the affirmative and said Yes Sir.. This was on the eve of my departure to India on a six month course. Sadly on the very next day after my return I was informed of his untimely death at Middeniya and had to proceed to Middeniya to bring back his mortal remains to Colombo for burial..
His death was shrouded in mystery as he on New Year’s day 1972 is alleged to have in the early hours of the morning brushed his teeth ,washed his face and then turned a sterling submachine gun to his head and committed suicide. A very unlikely characteristic of Sharir who loved all the fun in life..
It was tragic that he died so young leaving behind many friends and relatives who enjoyed his genial and friendly company.
Sharir's two nephews the late Zubair Doray and late Farcy Doray whose parents were the late Lt A K Doray(Navy) who was a Ceylon cap and a former president of the CR &FC & SLFRU and Hanoon the sister of Sharir. They both followed in their uncles footsteps and captained the college rugby teams as did Zubair's son Murshid Doray in 2019. A proud and unique family achievement indeed.
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From the Editor Double Blue International
Although belated, on behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we pass on our condolences to the family. We remember most fondly his tremendous contribution to Rugby and to the life of the school
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From Him do we come and unto Him do we return"
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REV BRIAN BLACKER
Retired Pastor of the Grace Evangelical Church, Wellawatte; former National Director, Youth for Christ, and Back to the Bible; devoted husband of Parames; dearest brother of Rosemary Faber and the late Danton; loving father of David and Paul; fond grandfather of Eric and Josh.
Remains will lie at AF Raymond's on Saturday 27th August 2022, from 9am onwards. Funeral Service will be at 4pm, followed by cremation at 5.30pm at General Cemetery Borella New Crematorium.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I remember Brian who was a year senior to me at school. He was a quiet guy always polite and well mannered. Several generations of Blackers attended Wesley College and many of his relatives worked for the Ceylon Government Railways (CGR) and lived at the Railway Housing Estate at Mount Mary just a short walk from the school. I remember his grandfather who came to the Maradana Methodist Church for the evening Sunday services. He sang the hymns with gusto and much feeling. He was hard of hearing and occasionally sang a different verse to everyone else. He was greatly respected by all.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we pass on our condolences to the family. We remember most fondly his contribution to the life of the school and society
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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RICHARD PERINPAM DWIGHT
I was deeply saddened to receive the news of the demise of Richard Dwight. He was senior to me but I remember seeing him walk the long corridors of the school and being at Assembly in the Great Hall. He played cricket in the small park during the lunch intervals with great enthusiasm.
After leaving school he worked at the Central Bank in the Colombo Fort. Richard was better known as a fine Sports Reporter to the Daily News where he contributed articles for many years until retirement. He was ever generous to his alma mater in his reports and wrote with great style and honesty.
I met him at the 2012 Grand Reunion and spoke warmly and reminisced at leisure of those days gone. I did remind him of the cricket in the small park to which he added his memories of those happy years.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his immense contribution to the life of the school
Links to further reading
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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RAJAH SINNATHURAY
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The news of his demise was sent to me by Ranjit Aaron of New Zealand
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SINNATHURAY, the RAJAH of motor racing by Elmo Rodrigopulle
This week we shed pads, bat and ball and the cricket field and move on to the track that is motor racing to pay tribute to a champion motor cyclist RAJAH SINNATHURAY who brought credit to the sport and country in the 1950s and ‘60s with his masterly and dare devil riding and driving.
Tagged the RAJAH OF RACING when he dominated and burnt the track astride a 125cc JAVA, NSU and Tiger Triumph, he was then described as a dare devil on the two wheeler, leaving his opponents far behind as he received the chequered flag first.
From his teens as a minor he was tagged the ‘Baby of the track’ for his major triumphs as he was obsessed with motor racing and it became a craze with him and as he confessed to me, he would spend exciting nights rolling on his bed when a motor meet was drawing near, dreaming that he would win his events and in style.
As the youngest Ceylonese competitor at the All India race meeting on the Scholavaran Air Strip in 1953 SINNATHURAY was so young that special exemption and permission had to be obtained for him to compete. In his first attempt at racing he made a great impact on the spectators. Although starting 80 seconds late than the first rider SINNATHURAY won his event with ease.
Surfeit of motor racing
In that era there was surfeit of motor racing in the country at Katukurunda and Katunayake where the tracks that were up to international standard and that saw even foreign riders and drivers participating and praising the standard of the track, falling short of describing it short as the Brands Hatch in England. The craze for motor racing flowed in his blood from his student days at Wesley College and was counting the days when he could major and be astride a motor bike or a car and prove his class on the track. He had a love for cricket but admits he did not have the talent and concentrated on motor racing.
SINNATHURAY, every time he put his old faithfulls on the track he enjoyed success and the numerous trophies that adorn his shelves speaks volumes for his determination and dedication to succeed.
Trophies and certificates
Even today SINNATHURAY admires with amazement the trophies and certificates he won and thinking of the era that was that was and asking what if that era was to dawn again. He believes that every good thing must come to an end. His motor racing fans used to flock to watch SINNATHURAY in action and he did not disappoint his thousands of fans. In 1957 he became the youngest rider to represent the country at his own expense, as in those days there were no sponsors like today, participating in meets in Madras, Coimbatore and Bangalore. He pitted his talent against the likes of the Dean brothers Rally and Zacky who were household names, Chandra de Costa, Kingsley Smith, Nihal Seneviratne, Collin Silva, Ivor Drieberg, U.D. Jinadasa, Bathiya Mirando, Pat Coomarawel and Reggie Fernando.
Novices event at Katukurunda
Having won the novices event in 1957 at Katukurunda he then began to handle powerful machines riding 250 cc Javas at Katukurunda, Mahagastota, Karundapona and Kegalle, Hantana Hill Climbs and also making his presence felt in rallies and meetings with success. These wins prompted him to take a fling in India and the All India Motor Races where outstanding riders and drivers were in action. He still remembers the day when his mother noticing his talent, passion and craze for racing bought him a NSU ‘super max’ to help him ride in India and be crowned the All India Champion beating the Indian champion K.V. Mani and dedicated that victory to his mother.
Mani in admiration of this win presented him with a gold ring. His win was all the more creditable because he rode a 250 cc BSA to Mani’s 350 cc. That win saw him carry away the V.Raja Challenge Cup and he was the youngest to do so. Behind the wheel
While he excelled in motor bike racing he was quite competent behind the wheel of a Ford Anglia and in steering the vehicle in style he won the novices event and was presented the Annesley /Philip Challenge Shield.
Speaking of motor bikes of a bygone era that were the BSA Gold Stars, Tiger Triumphs and Norton Dominators, I remember when as teenager visiting MILLERS who were the local agents for BSA with my cousins Tony and Noel Ambrose who were also a keen racing enthusiasts and seeing the second floor packed with shiny BSA bikes. Incidentally Noel’s son Chanaka went on to become a motor racing champ in Sri Lanka later on before migrating to the US.
Once SINNATHURAY’S excellent racing days came to an end, the love he had for the sport that was at its zenith at that time forced him to take to the administration, development and its promotion with gusto.
Looking sprightly
Even today at 80 and still looking sprightly, he is present at all motor meets held now recalling memories of his dashing and daring on the track and doing everything possible in his endeavor to see that the sport does not lose its glamour and attraction that it enjoyed in the past, what he describes as being glorious. In the 1980s as Sports Editor of the ‘Times of Ceylon’ I used to organize Old Crock Rallys known as the ‘Great Race’ which had a film of that title running at that time and it was SINNATHURAY who my Editor H.E.R.Abeysekera appointed to be the chairman of the Organizing Committee and he performed a splendid job to see to its success for many years. One of his greatest achievements was when CASTROL the popular oil people featured him in their widely circulated magazine selecting riders and drivers from all over the racing world. From Sri Lanka then Ceylon SINNATHURAY won inclusion in that magazine which was great pride to the country, because no other rider or drive earned mention in that mag.
Prestigious Castro magazine
In the 1957 magazine With a picture of SINNATHURAY astride his famous N.S.U this is what the Editor of that magazine had to say: ‘Motor Sports enthusiasts got a full and varied day’s racing at the meetings organized by the Ceylon Motor Cycle Club.
A mixed program of car and motor cycle races is provided and although the participants may not be internationally famous, their enthusiasm, like that of the spectator was immense. RAJAH SINNATHURAY who won the 250 c.c. event at Katukurunda meeting on his N.S.U.is just one of the many successful CASTROL at Ceylon race meetings’.
Riders and drivers who were featured in that prestigious magazine were from – Italy, Spain, Britain, France, Sweden, Scotland, Portugal, Scandinavia, Canada, South Africa, CEYLON, Singapore, Australia and the Americas. Racing gloves
Once SINNATHURAY took off his racing gloves, he was not lost to the sport but continued to contribute to the sport financially and with advice and saw to it that many races were conducted in the country. He headed the Ceylon Motor Cycle Club and the Motor Sports Club. At present SINNATHURAY holds responsible positions in many clubs which are too numerous to mention and a glance at his Visiting Card tells the story. SINNATHURAY is still full of enthusiasm and energy and never misses a motor racing event and it is men of his calibre that are needed to further enhance this sport which was a craze in that era.
SINNUTHRAY’S wife Malini too was a promising driver on a Ford Cortina until sadly death struck like a thief who comes in the night in her youth. Daughters Shashikala and Pushpakali too were promising drivers but had to step down from the steering wheels to concentrate on their studies. Another record that stands to his credit and that would not easily be broken is that he has been member, committee member, secretary, chairman and president in nearly 30 schools, clubs and national associations and oozing with energy if when called on for further service.
When ‘SPORTS LEGENDS’ are spoken about SINNATHURAY’S name will be amongst the best.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with much sadness I received the news of the demise of Rajah Sinnathuray, a long standing supporter of Wesley College. We all acknowledge his success in motor sports bringing honour and glory to his school and country.
Rajah Sinnathuray was a politician in addition to his prowess in Motor Sports He was a Member of the Western Provincial Council from 1988 to 1993. Rajah was a strong supporter of the OBU in Colombo and was its President from 1976-82. He remained a loyal and vocal supporter of the school and the Old Boys Union. Many will remember his ascerbic comments at the OBU Meetings, all for the love of the school. He gave successive Principals much to think about in the running of the school. Rajah always had the welfare of the school and its old boys at heart. There were times his enthusiasm got the better of him. We are thankful to Rajah Sinnathuray for his commitment to the good governance at school over so many years.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his services to the OBU and his many contributions to the life of the school.
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Ponnambalam Sivasubramaniam
A Celebration of Siva’s Life will be held at the Strathfield Uniting Church (11 Carrington Avenue, Strathfield) on Saturday, 19th November 2022 at 9:30am, with a viewing beforehand at 8:45am. The funeral service will be followed by a burial at Rookwood Cemetery at 11:45am. Flowers can be sent to 2 Webster Avenue, Peakhurst NSW 2210.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Fred Hollows Foundation or a charity of your choice.
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Extreme left Joe David , Gamini Kulasooriya, Shreederan, Sec OBU, Nizar Sappideen, to his rear John Bultjens,right of Nizar Darrel Maye, R Devendra cricket captain 1990 and self. There were more present but could not get them all. They were Lalith Fernando played the guitar to sing the college song. Keith Grenier, Roger and Bradon Koch, R Abel,Robin Herft and President of OBU Kugan T
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From Patta Siva - Ponnambalam's younger brother
Good day to all, A simple note of thanks for amazing old boys of Wesley College.
Thank you for joining my family and I to celebrate the life of my oldest brother, fondly known as Big Siva. Whilst it was sad to see him go back to his creator at a young age of 74, his bigger than life personality ensured he enjoyed every year of his life.
My brother was a very proud Wesleyite and he would have thoroghly enjoyed the rendition of our college song before the casket was closed. Strong representation from the boys of Wesley made me also very proud that we have an amazing bunch of boys that support each others families in good times and sad times.
Thank you for every Wesleyite that showed up today or had Big Siva in their mind as we bid the final farewell today.
Please accept the sincere gratitude from our family to ALL of the Wesleyites.
Thank you and God Bless
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From the Wesley College OBA of NSW Australia
We are deeply saddened to inform the Wesley fraternity of the passing of Ponnambalam Sivasubramaniam (aka Big Siva).
Most of you in New South Wales know Siva because he was one of the founding Members of Wesley OBA NSW in 1994 and also the first President of the Association.
He was the eldest son of our dearest teacher Mrs. Enid Sivasubramaniam. Siva also was a Prefect at school and a great servant of Wesley.
Our deepest sympathies to his family, brothers and loved ones.
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From Bashur Musafer, Sydney, Australia
Ponnambalam Sivasubramaniam (Big Siva) the Founding President of the Wesley College Colombo, OBA of New South Wales 1994/95
With the passing away of Ponnambalam Sivasubramaniam Wesley has lost a loyal Old boy who was very passionate in everything “ Wesley.” He was affectionately referred to as Big Siva perhaps for his tall and above average frame and commanding personality. or maybe as being the eldest of six siblings in a single parent family and bearing the biggest responsibility in the Sivasubramaniam family.
I did not know Big Siva well as he was years junior to me at school but knew his mother Mrs Enid Sivasubramaniam who was a teacher at Wesley,well liked and respected though being a strict disciplinarian. His younger brother Patta was also schooled at Wesley and like brother was very generous and supportive of the Old Boys Association of NSW.
In the funeral eulogies it was said that as a sixteen year old schoolboy he was selected together with another Wesleyite in the first intake of recipients for the American Field Service scholarship. He spent a year studying and living with an American family. His host Dr Ziegler a famous Gynaecologist had an immense influence on him to shape his thinking that served him well for the rest of his life. After leaving school he moved into the field of Advertising, Marketing and Sales where he achieved much fame and success working as the Sales and Marketing Director of the Hotel Ceylon Intercontinental the first five star hotel in Sri Lanka.
It was also said that he was a caring selfless individual whose guidance,support and generosity to his family, friends, community and the lesser fortunate was unmatched.
It was almost after thirty years since I left school that I met Big Siva in NSW. He had migrated to Australia and had become a successful entrepreneur in the travel Industry and had taken ownership of forming the OBA of NSW at the insistence of Lalith Fernando, Robin Herft, Charles David and a few others. Charismatic and amiable he proved himself to be a very capable leader, persuasive and articulate in expressing the need for an Old Boys Association in Sydney. Most of the Old boys rallied around him wholeheartedly and supported the association in all its endeavours.
Big Siva did not confine his leadership to Wesley alone he was a inspiring and uniting figure to the Tamil community, a committed christian and a President of the Tamil Uniting Church, a mentor to many seeking his advice and guidance and a benefactor to the disadvantaged. He was a strong advocate for social justice reflecting his days at Wesley where race, religion or ethnicity did not exist. In simple terms he was a decent human being and a friend to many. Under his leadership in the formative years of the OBA there was an active participation and togetherness amongst its members which has served us well .
There was interaction between NSW and Victoria whose president was the late Keith De Kretser another die hard and loyal old Wesleyite to the core. Reciprocal visits between the states were undertaken which further bonded ties of old school mates.
There was a sense of pride and achievement in whatever was organised, The annual Double Blue Ball was the talk of the town as being all class and value for money and dubbed the best dance in Sydney with so many airline prizes on offer. It was once mischievously rumoured that even a BMW was to be raffled as a prize.
The generosity, business acumen, dedication and organisational skills of Siva and his dedicated team ensured the overwhelming success of the dances and events organised. Not to be outdone other members sponsored the band, the printing of tickets and made worthwhile donations which boosted the bottom line with all proceeds being donated to the school..
Despite an ageing membership and very limited migration the OBA has carried on for over twenty five years Loyal old boys have answered Wesley’s call and shouldered the responsibility of serving as office bearers and continued to organise events to bring together the Double Blue fraternity.
The Covid pandemic has restricted activities but with its easing it is heartening to note that a band of energetic Young Old Wesleyiites have stepped in to take over those roles to ensure the continuity of the OBA. We owe a debt of gratitude to Big Siva and his pioneering team for the establishment of the OBA in NSW.
Rest in Peace Siva. We thank you for your commitment to have served Wesley well and leaving a legacy for others to follow and emulate.
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From the Editor DBI
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Ponnambalam Sivasubramaniam for his contribution to the life of the school as a student and also as a respected Prefect.
He was many years junior to me and our paths never crossed as we lived in different continents separated by the vast oceans. However, I am reliably informed he was gregarious by nature with a ready smile and a fine sense of humour. As a friend he was immensely loyal. A strong sense of self-belief lent itself in many ways to the success of his career. He was abundantly grateful to Wesley College for what he had achieved in life.
He will surely be remembered & sorely missed by his many friends from school and life.
I end my brief tribute with an excerpt from Khalil Gibran's Meditations in the "Prophet"
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Maurice Dahanayake
From the Sri Lankan Newspaper of 26th July 2013
Veteran film actor and singer Maurice Dahanayake passed away this morning at the age of 81. He was unwell during the past couple of years. Maurice Dahanayake passed away at Sri Jayawardenapura General Hospital due to a cardiac disorder.
In a career spanning several decades Maurice Dahanayake has played crucial roles in maintaining high standards in the local arts.
His songs like ‘Onna Olu Malak', ‘Sudo Poddak Andanna', ‘Meth Mal Pibidewa', 'Muthu Mitak Piri Eththe' are some creations that will linger in our memories forever.
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The photo and the write-up were kindly sent to me by Trevor Collette, a former classmate of Everard, who made the long journey from Melbourne to attend the funeral service in Adelaide accompanied by Lucien Fernando.
WALKER, Patrick "Everard" (31/05/1943 - 08/11/2022)
Resting peacefully with the Lord.The FAMILY and FRIENDS of MR EVERARD WALKER are invited to attend his Funeral service on THURSDAY, November 17, 2022 at 2:00p.m. in the Harrison Rivergum Chapel, Corner of Golden Grove Road and Jack High Lane, Ridgehaven. A donation in Everard's memory can be made on the day to the Modbury Hospital Palliative Care Unit. Envelopes will be available at the Chapel.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news that Everard Walker passed away. I do remember him from those memorable schooldays. I recall with great affection a story retold by my friend, the late Ranjit Alwis who also lived in Adelaide. Everard was in Mr C.J.T Thamotheram's Mathematics class. The teacher made fun of Everard's surname calling him "AVIDINAWA" which is the Sinhala word for walking. These brief episodes brought some light relief to an otherwise intensely stressful maths class.
Everard emigrated and settled in Adelaide, South Australia. He had many friends and will be remembered with great affection.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Everard for his contribution to the life of the school.
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From the Church Service booklet
We have come here today to remember before God Everard. A son, a brother, a devoted husband, a father, a grandfather, a loyal friend, an astute marine insurance businessman, a robust chorister in the Anglican tradition, a faithful Freemason. None of these relationships or activities define Everard. Like all of us he was a complex human being. A bundle of mystery embodying hope, fear, anger, doubt, faith, love, laughter, pain, tears, disappointment, joy, weakness and strength and yes he was a bundle of mischief as well. We give thanks for his life with all its many shades; we gather to commend him to God our merciful redeemer and judge; to commit his body to be cremated, and to comfort one another in our grief. We stand alongside those who loved him most and whose hearts ache with a grief beyond our comprehension. We remember with fondness family and friends who have gone into eternity before him.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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It is with deep regret and profound sadness that the Commander of the Army and All Ranks of the Sri Lanka Army pronounce the demise of Major General H D W Kariyawasam (Rtd) USP Lsc on 13th January 2023.
Major General H D W Kariyawasam (Rtd) USP Lsc was born on 09th February 1962 as the third child to a respectable family in Kurunegala. Major General H D W Kariyawasam (Rtd) USP Lsc received his education at Wesley College - Colombo, where he excelled in many sports and social activities during his school career and became a dynamic character in all aspects.
After his school education, young H D W Kariyawasam joined the Sri Lanka Army as an Officer Cadet into the Intake 18A of the Sri Lanka Army Military Academy, Diyatalawa on 27th April 1983 and successfully completed his basic military training. He was commissioned as a 2nd Lieutenant on 18th April 1985 and subsequently posted to the Sri Lanka Army Service Corps, one of the most prestigious regiments of the Sri Lanka Army. He served in numerous Command and Staff appointments in different capacities, displaying a high degree of professionalism and utmost commitment in discharging duties and responsibilities, entrusted to him.
His absolute dedication, commitment and competence displayed towards the service was recognized by promoting him to the rank of Lieutenant on 10th October 1986, Captain on 19th October 1989, Major on 19th October 1992, Lieutenant Colonel on 01st July 2000, Colonel on 01st August 2006 and Brigadier on 06thMay 2009. He was promoted to the rank of Major General on 07th February 2017. He held many appointments in different capacities during his long and glorious military career.
Some of the significant appointments amongst them were:
Platoon Commander - Combat Training School (Ampara)
Officer Instructor - Ceylon Volunteer Force Training School (Diyatalawa)
Troop Commander - 11 General Transport Squadron (Panagoda)
Officer Commanding - 2 Composite Squadron (Kandy)
Officer Commanding - 15 Supply Squadron (Panagoda)
Officer Commanding - 21 Brigade (Palaly)
Staff Officer 3 - Directorate of Supply & Transport Officer Commanding - Composite Squadron (Trinco)
Staff Officer 2 (Tpt) - Directorate of Supply & Transport Officer Commanding - Army Service Corps School (Thisawewa)
Staff Officer 1 - Forward Maintenance Area (N)
Staff Officer 1 - Master General Ordinance Branch, AHQ Commanding Officer - 1 Sri Lanka Army Service Corps (Panagoda) Colonel (A/Q) - 52 Infantry Division Colonel (A/Q) - Defence Services Command and Staff College Centre Commandant - Sri Lanka Army Service Corps BAQ - SFHQ (W)
Director - Directorate of Admin and Quartering, AHQ Commander - Forward Maintenance Area (Kilinochchi)
Major General H D W Kariyawasam (Rtd) USP Lsc had followed a number of local and overseas courses at different stages of his career where his performances were outstanding. He has attended overseas training courses in following training centers and achieved higher standards:
Young Officers’ Course - India Officer Transport Management Course - India Mid - career Course - Pakistan Unit Command Course - Pakistan Logistic Staff Course - Pakistan Platoon Commander Tactics Course Platoon Commander Course Tamil Language Course
Certificate Course in Human Resource Management Major General H D W Kariyawasam (Rtd) USP Lsc was awarded the following medals in recognition of unblemished and distinguished service, rendered to the Sri Lanka Army:
Uttama Seva Padakkama
Puma Bhumi Padakkama
North Humanitarian Operation Medal
North and East Operational Medal
Ceylon Armed Services Long Service Medal
Riviresa Campaign Service Medal
Sri Lanka Army 50th Anniversary Medal
Vadamarachchi Operation Medal
50th Independence Anniversary Medal
Sevabhimani Medal
Major General H D W Kariyawasam (Rtd) USP Lsc was a source of encouragement and inspiration to the Officers and Other Ranks of the Sri Lanka Army Service Corps. He seived the Army and the country with utmost dedication, displaying exemplary qualities as an Officer and a gentleman during his illustrious military career that extended for more than 30 years. The exemplary leadership he gave to the Sri Lanka Army Service Corps will be remembered forever.
The last rites of Major General H D W Kariyawasam (Rtd) USP Lsc was held on 16th January 2023 at the Crematorium, Diyabawa with full military honours. The Commander of the Army and All Ranks join the family members in sharing their sadness at this moment of grief.
Late Major General H D W Kariyawasam (Rtd) USP Lsc, though you have departed, your name and exemplary service to the nation will always be remembered. Your noteworthy contribution towards the progress of the Sri Lanka Army would be cherished by all those who follow. You will remain as a true son of Mother Lanka forever.
Military Honours Salute Late Major General Dammika Kariyawasam (Retd) during Final Journey
The military funeral of Major General Dammika Kariyawasam (Retd) of the Sri Lanka Army Service Corps (SLASC) who had served the country for more than 33 years took place on Monday (16) at Kurunegala Doratiyawa cemetery amid a gathering of his military comrades and other mourners.
Representing the Commander of the Army, Major General Hirosha Wanigasekera, Master General Ordnance (MGO) and Colonel Commandant of the SLASC attended the funeral and paid his last respect to the remains.
Troops in accordance with military traditions received the corpse, presenting arms near the entrance to the cemetery before being placed in the gun carriage and draped it in the national flag. As the funeral procession reached the main entrance to the cemetery, a representative gathering of Senior Officers formally, received the coffin and began to inch their way towards the crematorium after all of them together with family members lined up behind the coffin.
The formal Special Part I Order, issued by the Commander of the Army was then read out to the mourners as the occasion turned solemn. Troops in conformity with military traditions, then saluted the deceased, presenting a symbolic gun salute, the highest tribute a military officer could get in the event of his demise.
Minutes after the Last Post, the bugle call that sounded, indicating that the great soldier had now gone to his final rest, the remains were taken to the crematorium.
Seconds after, Major General Hirosha Wanigasekera presented the bereaved family with decorations and medals that had been earned by Major General Dammika Kariyawasam (Retd) during his illustrious career, a general tradition in the armed forces. The military funeral of late Major General Dammika Kariyawasam (Retd) was organized under the direct supervision of the office of the Army Adjutant General's Branch.
Retired Senior Officers, Senior Officers, Directors and other mourners were also there to salute late officer as the dusk fell.
From the Editor
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Major Kariyawasam for his contribution to the life of the school
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“MAY YOUR ATTAIN THE SUPREME BLISS OF NIBBANA”
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Rev Neville Koch passed away on the 15 th of February 2023. He was former Chairman of NCEASL & LEADS a much loved & respected Christian leader. He was President of the then Dutch Reformed Church. Also was the first Principal of Colombo Theological Seminary. A pastor to many pastors he was. A trained Counselor sought by many.
From Lorraine Koch
Sad News! Neville passed away peacefully at 5.40pm on Wednesday, 15th February. (early hours of LK morning today). Graeme and I were by his side. Graeme kept telling him that he ran the race well. The song that was playing on Alexa was – ‘Softly and Tenderly Jesus is calling’ when he was taking his last few breaths. We are sad and heartbroken.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I received the news of the demise of Rev Neville Koch in San Diego California. Neville was the son of Lawson (ex-locomotive Engine driver, CGR) and Margie (nee Walker).
Rev. Neville Koch celebrated his 50th Anniversary of his Ordination to the Ministry of the Dutch Reformed Church in Sri Lanka on 27th August 2019. Neville and his family lived in California, USA and he was a Pastor of the San Diego Christian Reformed Church. Although officially retired for some time, at 79 he kept himself busy with his Christian religious work.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Neville for his contribution to the life of the school.
Neville Koch remembering his friend Robin Reimers
Hi Trevor, fellow classmates and boys of Wesley,
It is with profound sadness that I received the news of Robin's passing away.As you say, we have all lost a very special friend. For some of us (Robin's classmates in particular) who knew Robin from the early 1950's up to the time he left our shores for the land Down Under, who had the privilege of knowing Robin for 60 years, I believe the pain is even greater. We have lost a most sincere, genuine and devoted friend! We were the guys who enjoyed (or endured) class teachers like Joyce Leembruggen (UKG,1951), Agnes Smith (Std.2A), Iris Blacker (Std.3A), Oliver Swaris (Std.4A), Iris Blacker again and Dulcie Leembruggen (Std.5A), Ivor De Silva (Form 1A, 1956), Edmund Dissanayake (Form 2A, 1957), and Rachel Leembruggen (Form 3A, 1958) - to name a few! Of course, we all enjoyed playing cricket, soccer and hockey together in the small park, where some of us (guys like Robin and others) graduated to playing those games "big time" at the venerated " Campbell Park ." Some of us sat on the boundry lines and cheered our guts out, relishing our victories, sober and sportsman-like in defeat ("taking cool whatever befall"). We enjoyed lots of great fun - and, of course, giving our teachers a hard time! We shared our deepest secrets, our joys, our struggles. We skinned our hearts and skinned our knees together. We were in and out of each other's homes, where we enjoyed eating lamprais and watalappan. We talked about almost everything under the sun - and, of course, about the GIRLS of All Saints, Metho and Lindsay et al (ask William Deutrom about those long "after school" walks from Bambalapitiya to Borella)! He will tell you about those "glorious" days!
Such are the memories (and many more) that we all cherish and treasure (and will do so till we die). We can all profoundly thank God for bringing us together (that was no accident), for what we learnt from each other, and for how, in unique and unimaginable ways, we helped shape each other's lives over the years. In the midst of our grief, we can thank God for Robin - that bright and shining star that impacted and enriched our lives in so many wonderful ways. We will all certainly miss him. I believe he is at peace with his Maker, free from all sickness and pain. And to dear Trilby and family, Glen, Jill and family, Lorraine and I offer our heartfelt condolences. Though so far away, you are all much in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord give you strength and comfort in the difficult days and long, lonely nights ahead. May you know the peace of His presence in the midst of your pain!
Regards, Neville.
Ora et labora
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ETERNAL PEACE
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From Gaz Hameed
I write burdened with the heaviest pangs of sorrow.
I came to know a few hours ago that our erstwhile and most dedicated member, Chinthaka, is no more. We all recall how committed a member he was and the meticulous attention to detail with which he contributed to our OBU.
Chinthaka Hettiarachchi - Funeral Notice
Please join us in saying Goodbye to our beloved friend. The time has come for us to say our farewell to our beloved friend. Your cheeky smile, generosity; kind heart and the help you gave to each and every one of us will always be cherished.
Our beloved brother & friend, you will be missed dearly but never forgotten. Chin, you'll always hold a special place amongst us. Our memories will continue and always hold a special place in our hearts, and will continue to live on through the stories wc share.
The Cremation will take place at the Hendon Crematorium South Chapel, Holders Hill Road, Mill Hill London NW7 1 N B 23rd Sunday at 11am
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness we received the news that Chinthaka passed away so suddenly at the age of 48yrs. He was a stalwart of the OBU(UK) over many years and presently elected editor for 2023. We pass on our condolences to his family.
An Almsgiving was held at the Kingsbury Temple in London in his memory on the 26th of March 2023
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleytes I wish to thank Chinthaka Hettiarachchi for his immense contribution to the life of the school.
May he find the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
From Seyad Azmaan, Secretary WCC OBUA
The OBUA along with the Wesley fraternity in Melbourne are saddened to hear of the passing of our oldest member Mr. Langston Joseph yesterday. Wesley OBUA extends our condolences to the family and may his soul rest in peace. Langston, a keen Wesleyite graced our functions and served as a Committee member at the inception of the Melbourne OBU.
His sons Arden and Christopher were also Wesleyites and Arden has served in the Melbourne OBU as Vice President in the past and frequents most of our functions and sport events.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Langston Joseph was a proud, true blue Wesleyite. He wrote warmly of his time at school. Langston was a regular at the Seniors Lunch and was part of a vibrant community of senior old boys. He wrote elegant tributes to his school friends who passed away. His contributions are now in the Double Blue International website.
Yet another fine Wesleyite has crossed the vale. Langston was well known for his generous and kind ways and for the care and affection he had for his friends. This brings me great sadness but feel we were so fortunate to have had him in our lives. We all spent those memorable formative years learning in those hallowed class rooms. We have all walked those same long corridors, attended morning assembly in the Great Hall and sung the school song with great gusto.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Langston for his immense contribution to the life of the school and the Old Boys Union of Australia. His was a long life well lived. We pass on our sincere condolences to his family at this time of grief.
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Commander - Sri Lanka Navy
The news of the demise of Nihal Fernando brought great sadness to many of the Wesleyites of my generation. His loss hurts immensely, but memories of his intellect, heart and friendship will live on. Something I remember so well about Nihal is that he could never say a bad word about anyone. Several of his contemporaries from around the world have contacted me after seeing his obituary. This shows the high esteem and regard they have for Nihal Fernando. Many of us from that age will recall those times as the golden era in the boarding and at Wesley College.
Nihal was also called NGA in the boarding. I was a boarder with Nihal and his elder brothers Cecil and Ranjan (A.R) in the 1950’s. Nihal was 2 years my senior and was a quiet decent lad, a sincere friend, who was ever willing to help his fellow boarders. A man of firm faith and strong convictions he had a strong belief in the Christian teachings. His modesty and humility stood out. Nihal was greatly respected as a thoughtful and courteous lad by his peers and the teachers alike.
I recall with much nostalgia the years in the boarding. In the 1950's it was a vibrant institution of great warmth, cameraderie and friendship. Sadly the boarding does not exist anymore and is an empty shell, a sign of the times. The fun and the laughter which was endemic in the boarding must swirl in the ether of that great institution to surprise the vary!!
Sports was compulsory for all boarders between 4 and 6pm and we loved it. The Small Park behind the school was our amphitheatre where we played cricket and football every evening. We all enjoyed immensely the battles and the rivalry of the games. Nihal was a regular and took part in the rough and tumble of the sports activities with much enthusiasm. Basketball was his forte and he played in the school team in 1959. Although he was small in stature for basketball he made up for it in skill, commitment and dedication.
Wesley College Basketball Team 1959
I remember the days when I lived with my parents in Kurana Katunayake (1956-58). Nihal came to stay with Nimalsiri Rosa for a few days. Rosa too lived in Katunayake just at the turning into the Royal Air Force base. We met up together every day and swam in the Negombo lagoon which was just behind our house. We caught prawns in the lagoon and did many walks exploring the area. The three of us had a wonderful time together. Those memories have remained with me all these years.
Nihal’s eldest brother Cecil joined Air Ceylon and retired as Manager-Reservations of the company. In the boarding he made everything seem very relaxed. Cecil was very energetic and lively and was responsible for much mischief and schoolboy pranks. Cecil had enormous charm and a great sense of humour. He was amiable, cordial and tolerant and was well liked by all. He took part in the sports in the Small Park with great passion and interest. I do remember he was a fine soft ball cricketer and everyone wanted him on their side.
In his official capacity as a high official of Air Ceylon he was helpful to many Wesleyites. Cecil is held in high regard by many. He was a member of the OBU and remained a loyal old boy for many years. On an evening Cecil was often seen at the Old Wesleyites Sports Club enjoying a drink with his pals. That was where he was happiest relating his humorous stories with a twinkle in his eye. He sadly passed away at the prime of his life, far too young to leave this world.
Andrew Ranjan Fernando (A.R) was an intelligent student and carried away many coveted prizes at the Annual Prize Giving ceremony. He won a scholarship to Japan in 1956. He studied medicine and emigrated to London with his Japanese wife and children. Around 1978 I met him briefly at Foyle's, a popular medical book shop in London. We had a long chat about what has happened to our lives since those balmy schooldays. Despite the passage of years we both hadn't changed much. Subsequently we kept in touch with phone calls. It surprised us both to know that our fathers were students at Richmond College Galle at the same time. Ranjan is rather feeble now but is comfortable being cared for very well.
Nihal left school and joined the Sri Lanka Navy. I could only imagine him as a pragmatic, no-nonsense operational commander. Although he was gentle and kind Nihal possessed the charisma and the personality for high office. His honesty and integrity must have been a great asset to the Navy. He rose up the ranks rapidly to become a respected Commander of the Sri Lanka Navy. I am well informed that as a Senior Officer, he was always ready to share his experience and ideas and was accessible and generous to those who sought to follow his example. His genial and approachable manner would encourage his subordinates to open up about their thoughts. He gave credit where it was due. Nihal served our country with great courage during the trauma and turbulence of the long civil war.
Sadly our paths never crossed as I emigrated to England where I have lived for nearly 50 years. I never met Nihal again but recall a brief contact by email some years ago. As I have not been a regular visitor to Sri Lanka I was hoping earnestly that Nihal will be present at the Wesley's Grand Reunion of 2012. I was deeply disappointed not to see him. I'm certain if he could he would have attended this large gathering of Wesleyites from all over the world.
I have a plethora of fine memories of Cecil, Nihal and Ranjan which I will cherish forevermore.
In this tribute I wish to remember the three brothers Cecil, Ranjan and Nihal Fernando. They were an integral part of that dynamic and lively community of boarders of the 1950's.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Ranjan, Nihal and Cecil for their contributions to the life of the school. Many from the school and the boarding in the 1950's will remember them with fondness and affection.
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GRANT THEM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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It is with deep sorrow that we inform you about the passing away of our past teacher Mrs. Pearl Wickremasinghe (Member of the Primary staff ). She joined the teaching staff at Wesley College on the 16th of January 1985. Mrs Wickramasinghe served the school with loyalty and great devotion for over 25 years.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank Mrs Wickramasinghe for her long years of service to the school.
Funeral will be held on Sunday 7th May 2023. Service will be at 3.00p.m. (time subject to change) at the Methodist Church, Dalupota.
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GRANT HER O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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It is with great sadness we announce the demise of Mohamad Wazeer Zavahir of Auckland, New Zealand - Retired Telecommunications Engineer. Janaza (Funeral) was held at Airport Masjid for viewing and burial was today at Manukau Memorial Gardens for burial. He was from Batch of 1954 and the known oldest Wesleyite in NZ.
Wazeer Zavahir was a fine boxer and was in the Boxing Team at Wesley with his brother H.C.Zavahir. On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites Worldwide I thank Wazeer for his contribution to the life of the school
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness that I heard the news of the passing of a Boxing legend at Wesley, H.C Zavahir in New Zealand. It was in 2021 that he succumbed to a prolonged illness. I wish I knew about his passing earlier to publish a more timely tribute.
Despite the years I still remember HC Zavahir as a wiry and energetic figure with a distinctive voice. The 1950's was the Golden era of Boxing at Wesley. During those memorable years the name 'Zavahir' was synonymous with Boxing. The two Zavahir brothers brought honour and recognition to the school by their excellent performances in the ring. Blessed with speed and endurance boxing was their preferred sport. As now even in those days it was regarded as a 'manly' combat sport and a true test of courage, stamina and talent. The boxers were held in high regard. H.C.Zavahir retained a cult following for his exploits in the ring.
As a boarder I can still remember watching him being trained by L.V Jayaweera (Sr) our boxing coach. He sparred with other boxers with courage, style and elegance. They fought and sparred regularly. These coaching sessions took place after school hours in the Great Hall, with many eager spectators. I am reliably informed he boxed successfully in the Stubbs Shield and also was in the Ceylon Boxing Team.
HC Zavahir subsequently joined the SL Army and was trained at Sandhurst. He was a great success as a boxer at Sandhurst too. On his return from England he remained in the Army and qualified as an accountant. HC Zavahir emigrated to New Zealand and joined the NZ Army retiring as a Major. We ask soldiers to risk their lives in our defence and we have a moral obligation in return to respect and remember them with gratitude.
Boxing nowadays have achieved a macho image of meanness for the huge money in the business. I must emphasize that in those days, schools' Stubbs Shield boxing was a true sport done in the correct spirit. H.C Zavahir was a gentleman boxer and has always remained dignified and honourable all through his life.
Although a few years my senior, I remember HC Zavahir as a warm, cheery and unfailingly courteous lad at school. He was deeply inspired by the all round education he received at Wesley for which he has been forever grateful. I wish to thank H.C Zavahir for his immense contribution to the life of the school. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his support for the school and Double Blue International website. He will be remembered with affection and esteem by his friends and colleagues.
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Some memories about his boxing by H.C Zavahir
I have received trophies several times from Mr.C.J Oorloff during the college assembly on Fridays. Most of the trophies were for my Boxing wins at the National Meets. I represented the college in many boxing meets conducted by the Amateur Boxing Association (ABA) of Ceylon and won several times in the finals. On instruction from Mr Van Sanden, our boxing Master in Charge, I would hand over the boxing trophy to the college office to be presented again on Friday at the school assembly.
I recall with nostalgic feelings and the thunderous applause from the students at the College assembly on Friday when I walked up to the stage to receive the trophy from Mr.C.J Oorloff. Memories of Mr.C.J Oorloff is difficult to forget and cannot be forgotten.
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This is a letter HC Zavahir sent me in 2009. It shows the immense affection, love and loyalty he had for the school
As for me, I was at Wesley from 1949 to 1957. In 1958 I was selected to go to the Royal Military Academy Sandhurst for military training prior to obtaining a commission in the Ceylon Army.
I left Sri Lanka to New Zealand in 1977 and joined the New Zealand Army. I am now retired.
I read and re read most of the articles in the website and was impressed to note the collections of all the histories of Wesley well written and documented. I remember C.M Fonseka who has caned and slapped me many a times because I was naughty. I recall the names of Vethanayagam, Guneratna (Bullet), LAFFA (I admire him and his teaching skills), Lionel Jayasuriya (driving his 1930's Austin 7), Felix Premawardene, NSJ Fonseka (Long Jaw) R.A Honter, JLF De Mel etc etc etc. I was sorry to note that Thamotheram has passed away. In 1975 when I was working at the Army HQ during the trouble times (Racial conflict) when I had a telephone call from Thamotheram. He has just arrived from UK for a holiday in the midst of the racial violence. He wanted help because some thugs were targetting the place where he was staying (at Dehiwela) to loot all the goodies he has brought from England. Thamma has referred the Telephone Directory and looked for any Wesleyites from whom he could get help. He found my name an old maths student in his class.
On receiving the telephone call I rushed to his place in a Military vehicle at Dehiwela with security personnel. I met him and took him safely to his brother's residence at the Bambalapitiya flats. He was overjoyed and thanked me profusely and said that he will do anything to help me to get my son to a good school in UK if need arises. I will never refuse a helping hand to any of my old Tutors at Wesley.
Memories of Wesley will never perish from my mind and I love every brick wall of the college. The Cone Tree, Toffee man and the Tuckshop are icons. I reached great stride in my chosen career because of my solid foundation I received at Wesley
Thank you for sending me this website. I am coming over to London in July to see my son. Will be in London for three weeks.
Kind regards
Careem Zavahir
Major (Retired)
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
The Small Park was our 'amphitheatre' located behind the school. It was sold to developers and is now a housing complex. This park was the cradle of sports for all Wesleyites. We learnt to bat, bowl and kick a football in a small gravel field behind the school called the Small park. The likes of Neil Gallagher, AR Chapman, Nalendra Abeysooriya, Kenneth De Silva, Sarath Wickramaratne and the Carnie brothers all started their cricket in the Small park. It was situated between Karlsruhe Gardens and the Nalanda Grounds, both ends lined by tall Andara trees. The passage from Karlsruhe Gardens was a steep slope. A parapet wall separated Dr.Jayasundera's house from the Campbell Park end of the grounds, tall enough to save his 4 daughters from the prying eyes of the boarders constantly snooping in that direction. At the opposite end was an old house with a pretty verandah and porch separated by a barbed wire fence loosened by boys creeping through to collect the ball. A tall Kottan tree was at the far corner beyond which was a 2 storey house where the occupant was a keen cricketer and watched the games as they unfolded. He couldn't resist the temptation to clap for a boundary or comment forcefully about the umpiring. The Small Park is now a shattered memory.
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A Tribute from Bashur Musafer - Sydney, Australia
Major H C Zavahir Ist Bn SLI {Retd )
It is sad to note that another great sportsman of Wesley had passed away unannounced.
Careem and his brother Wazeer were both fine boxers at Wesley in the 1950's
Careem Zavahir was years senior to me and seen by me as a prefect and a boxer. He excelled as a schoolboy boxer by winning his weight in the Inter schools Stubbs Shield Boxing on many an occasion. He then progressed to be a National champion. Though lean of frame he packed a powerful punch and was fast on his feet to avoid many a punch. He was a stylish boxer and a pleasure to watch in the boxing ring and won many a title as a Scientific boxer.
After he left school he was selected as an Officer Cadet to undergo a course of military training at the prestigious Royal Military Academy at Sandhurst in the United Kingdom. He was the third and last Wesleyite to be selected, the first was T S Musafer (Bomba ) of cricketing fame followed by TM Tammitigama (Tammi) a former senior prefect.
He continued his boxing at Sandhurst and excelled in that sport. On his return to Ceylon he was commissioned as a Second Lieutenant in the First Battalion of The Ceylon Light Infantry. He continued to box for the Army and crowned himself with glory being a national champion.
My first interaction with Capt Zavahir was at the Army Training Centre Diyatalawa where he was my course commander. I was following my basic training prior to leaving to The Pakistan Military Academy at Kakul. T D Samidon (Dalkin ) another fine all-round sportsman and a Ceylon cap at soccer was selected amongst the first batch of officer cadets to under go training in Pakistan.
As a course commander he did not treat me any differently as an Old Wesleyite but encouraged me to undergo the rigorous physical challenges with a sense of determination and not throw in the towel as in boxing parlance. His advice has served me well.
Whilst in the Army he followed a Cost and Works Accounting course outside his Army working hours and graduated as an accountant. He was promoted as a Major and was later appointed as the first Budget Officer of the Sri Lanka Army. He retired from the Army and migrated to New Zealand.
He joined the New Zealand Army as a Major from where he retired.
I did have the occasion to meet him briefly in transit at the Singapore airport about a decade or more ago where he though aged looked the same as a schoolboy boxer at Wesley years ago.
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Links to further reading
Information kindly sent to me by Nizar Sappideen, Sydney, Australia
Eric Bernard Boucher
Born -1st November 1947, Died: 6th June 2023
It is with great sadness that we received the news of the passing of Eric Bernard Boucher. He died peacefully
surrounded by his family on Tuesday 6th June 2023 at Northern Reaches Hospital.
His funeral service will be held on Wednesday 21st June from 1045am at the
Castlebrook Memorial Park Garden Chapel, Windsor Rd, Rouse Hill
After the service there will be a time to get together and share some memories.
We know Bernie was very well loved
Bernie was from the batch of 1965 at Wesley College Colombo. At school he was with Chris Jansz, Alston Koch and Reggie Batholomeusz. As Bernie moved little with the rest of the Wesley community less is known about him.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Bernie for his contribution to life of the school in all his years at Wesley College.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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From the Sureweere family in Vancouver
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend. Nimal was called home to Jesus on June 17, 2023, while surrounded by his loving family.
Nimal was born in Colombo, Sri Lanka, to Neville and Phyllis Sureweere. He was the 2nd oldest of five children and cherished the bonds he had with each of his siblings, Priyanthi, Sriani, Malik and Palitha. As a toddler, one of his birthday presents from his father was a British-made tricycle which Nimal took great pleasure pedaling whilst giving rides to his older sister, Priyanthi, who would hang on behind him. His younger sister, Sriani, recalled fun times of using sheets and blankets over pieces of furniture to play house. Family trips were always a highlight for the siblings and they would travel by train and car where at some portions along their travel routes, the railways lines and roads would be parallel to each other and the children and adults would wave to each other from the trains and cars. We can only imagine the joyous reunion Nimal has had with his darling parents and his brothers, Malik and Palitha, all who predeceased him.
Nimal was well known and well liked in the schools he attended, Trinity College and Wesley College, in Sri Lanka. Blessed with what so many called a ‘golden voice’, Nimal was a tenor and performed in lead roles in a number of professional operas in Sri Lanka. Much to their delight, he was known to entertain his friends with impromptu performances during and after his school days. This continued throughout a good part of his life and he always felt honoured to sing at weddings and other special occassions. Nimal was very gifted with his hands, creating batik paintings and making intricate cards.
Nimal met the love of his life, Julie, through the Church of Ceylon youth movement in 1973 and they wed in September 1975. Their daughter Niroshi was born in 1976 and their son Dilshan was born in 1980. A devoted husband and father, Nimal worked hard to provide for his family and in 1988 they immigrated to Richmond, BC, Canada. The transition to a new culture and finding work was not easy yet he pushed through the difficult days and secured a job in accounting until his retirement at the age of 67.
Nimal was generous to the core, and friendly and kind to anyone he met. He went out of his way to help and make others feel welcomed. He was a child at heart and loved chocolates and hot wheels cars, and he enjoyed shopping for and adding to his extensive collection of shirts and ties.
A diagnosis of kidney cancer in 2002 resulted in removal of one of Nimal’s kidneys and the cancer was in remission for 8 years. In early 2010 it was discovered that the kidney cancer had returned, metastasizing in Nimal’s pancreas. Neither surgery nor treatment were viable options and Nimal fought with much courage, grace and strength – this same bravery continued when he started treatment in 2017, despite the very painful side effects. In the summer of 2022, he made the fearless decision to stop treatment. He always gave God the glory and trusted in His will. Nimal’s prayer was for healing but he believed that God knew best and was thankful for what he referred to as the “extreme goodness” of God. Psalm 91 was his favourite psalm – he read it every night as it was also his mother’s favourite psalm.
The apple of Nimal’s eye was his precious granddaughter, Maëlle. Her arrival in March 2020 gave Nimal a new lease on life and he truly fought his illness to the very end for Maëlle. Forgoing pain medication many times, he did so in order that he could be present with his “patiya” (endearing Sinhala term for a little child) and “angel girl”. They formed an even closer bond when Nimal’s significant decline started in November 2022 and the last few months were spent together, holding hands while watching Maëlle’s favourite shows, eating cookies and drinking juice. Maëlle’s love for her Seeya (grandfather) kept him going until the end.
Nimal will be deeply missed by his dear family and friends near and far. They all take immense comfort in knowing that their precious Nimal, Thathi, Seeya, Malli, Aiya and Uncle is now at eternal peace and rest in the arms of Jesus.
A Celebration of Life will be held at 1:30pm on Saturday, July 8, 2023, at Hillside Community Church (1393 Austin Avenue, Coquitlam, BC). In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Nimal’s name to the Ronald McDonald House Charities BC & Yukon via the following web link: https://rmh-bc-community-fundraising-hub.raisely.com/nimal
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news of the demise of my school friend and classmate, Nimal. We were together in the boarding for many years, 1952-56. Within a short time we became close friends. Together We enjoyed the rough and tumble of hostel life.
Nimal had a remarkable sense of humour which lightened the burden of life being away from our parents at that young age. He was a brilliant mimic and an impersonator both of which he did to near perfection giving rise to fits of laughter and a great deal of fun. He had the fine ability to see the lighter side of life. Nimal was the author of many of the nicknames that stuck to fellow boarders like glue.
I recall most fondly the cricket and football we played in that dust bowl we called the Small Park. The fierce competition, the rows and arguments that ensued during those matches are all a part of the wonderful and rich memories to cherish. With his wit and pranks Nimal became an integral part of the fabric of boarding life. In those our childhood days with all the mischief and naughtiness he had the ability remain honest, dignified and be a loyal friend to many.
We were close since the days in the boarding. We both sang in the school choir and joined in the Carol services and took part in the Operettas. This friendship grew and persisted since Nimal left school in 1960. Professional training, marriage and caring for our children userped our time. We had gone our separate ways and reconnected in 2009 after he had moved to Vancouver. I live in London. Being separated by time, and vast stretches of land and ocean, keeping in touch hasn’t been easy. But whenever we chatted the friendship and warmth returned and time just melted away to recall and reminisce those wonderful years at school.
The school and friends meant a great deal to him. Whenever I spoke to Nimal on the phone he seemed to know a lot about many of my classmates, specially those who were living in Sri Lanka. Nimal had the wonderful ability to gloss over the rough edges of people with his wit and humour. He spoke about each one of them with great affection and on how life has panned out for them after we had said our last goodbyes at the famous school gate.
Nimal had a long battle with cancer over many years. It was his tremendous courage, sunny optimism and deep faith that pulled him through those difficult years. He made best use of this precious time enjoying life with his ever loving family. Nimal always found peace within himself. He radiated and transmitted that tranquillity and calmness to his friends and all those who cared for him. Despite all the evidence stacked against him he proved the medics wrong by living for several years longer enjoying life with his family. His indomitable courage and strong faith gave him a long and happy life. For this I must applaud and praise him.
Nimal's life was a manifestation of his profound Christian faith, living to the fullest the injunctions that his beloved Jesus preached at the Sermon On The Mount. He was compassionate, selfless, saturated with love for all regardless of creed, ethnicity, and station in life.
Nimal, Julie, Dilshan and Niroshi are a close knit family. Nimal was fortunate to be always sustained and well-looked after by his devoted family. They most lovingly provided 24 hour care right to the very end. His lovely granddaughter helped Nimal to keep his spirits up all through those difficult months.
Above all what we remember mostly about Nimal is his golden voice. Nimal was an acclaimed tenor whose performances thrilled so many over several decades. With his uniquely thrilling voice and exceptionally endearing personality he was able to reach out to people be it at a party or an organised event. He had an insatiable love to perform and gave great pleasure to those around him. He sang beautifully both Sinhala and English songs. Nimal had a vast repertoire of special favourites ranging from operatic arias to the lilting and melodic Sinhala songs. He became a popular person at parties when he entertained us all. He sang many of the solos at our Carol Services. I remember him walking majestically up onto the stage in the Great Hall at Wesley College to sing and being greeted with loud applause. We remember most dearly his fine singing at the evening gatherings of the Old Wesleyites Sports Club after imbibing a sip or two of the amber nectar. I have an abiding memory of singing with Nimal one evening on a sand dune at Hambatota whilst on a school trip. There he ended the evenings proceedings with his signature tune "The Ash Grove".
Our Golden voice is no more. Ah! Indeed, What a gift it was.
Nimal was a wonderful, loyal and instinctive friend, the likes of whom are a rare minority, and is now sadly practically extinct. He was a delight. I’ll miss him.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Nimal for his friendship and the immense contribution to the life of the school
Nimal's two brothers Palitha and Malik were both at Wesley. They too are now no more. May they Rest in Peace
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From Rev Rohan Wijesinghe
One dominant recollection that I have of Nimal Sureweere goes back to our very young days at Wesley College. Nimal was our class monitor. Nihal Ameresekere and I occupied a double desk. One day just as our small interval was ending, I playfully thrust my fist at Nihal, but he failed to move his face away. My fist struck his front teeth which caused some bleeding. (This was a time we all had shaking teeth) Mr. Wilfred, our class teacher came in just then, and learning how it happened, he sent Nihal and me to the Headmaster along with Monitor Nimal. All the way to the Headmaster's, Nimal gave us a lecture on how friends should behave.
I will never forget that lecture!
What I remember most is Nimal's unique golden voice and what he did with that. He loved to sing not only in choir performances or as a soloist, but also as one who would lift our spirits when circumstances dampened them. We would often practise for sports events at Cambell Park after school. In the middle of our practices, it would suddenly rain and interrupt our training. Then we would run to the pavilion. Nimal would suddenly place a few tables together, climb on to one and entertain us singing all kinds of songs. Even now, many decades later, I could hear his golden voice lifting our spirits.
We came to Canada over 3 decades ago and I met Nimal in Vancouver at a friend's home. A few years ago, I learnt that Nimal was a cancer patient. I contacted him immediately and since then, I have been amazed at the dignity, courage and positivism with which he lived each day with a devoted and very caring wife, Julie, daughter Niroshi and son Dilshan and Jennifer. My frequent conversations with him and the family for a few years enabled me to understand the courage, perseverance, steadfast faith and calm confidence with which he lived facing his illness. There were times when he would phone me and update me about the progress, as well as how his illness was gradually getting the better of him. There was no panic, but a calm resignation about what lay ahead.
Nimal accepted my observation that it is not illness, nor disease, that ends our lives, but the day of our departure to return home is determined for us when we are born. I salute Julie, Nimal's excellent wife who gave him all the love and care he needed, and Nirosha, Dilshan and his family who gave him strong support. A little salute goes to Nimal's 3 year old grand-daughter Maelle who brought Nimal great joy every day.
Farewell our brother, until we meet again on that beautiful shore!!
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ETERNAL PEACE
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It is with deep sorrow that we received the news of the passing away of our past teacher Mrs.Lalani Dias, member of the Primary Staff of Wesley College at Borella and Havelock Town for over 25years.
We wish to extend our condolences to the family. Her husband Stanley, son Sahan and daughter Dunya,her sister Prashanthi ( former teacher at Wesley College) and the rest of the family.
Funeral arrangements are as follows;
Body will lie at the residence from Monday the 3rd of July from 12.00 noon onwards.
On Wednesday the 5th of July cortege leaves residence by 3.15p.m. for service at Moratumulla Methodist Church at 3.30p.m. Thereafter burial at Methodist Church Cemetery, Moratuwa.
From the Editor DBI
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Mrs Lalani Dias for her immense services to Wesley College over many years. We appreciate her contribution to the life of the school.
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GRANT HER O LORD
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26.1.54 - 04-07-23
1st XI Team 1971
Parakrama Wijemanne, Mr A.M Mohideen, Rohan Amerasinghe, Mr A.S Wirasinha, Jayantha Wijemanne, Mr. A.K Suppiah, Neil Harvie, Chris Harvie
Standing L to R:
Geethal Peiris, Neil Obeysekera, Shamil Amit, Mahinda Sunil, ??????, Asoka Karunaratne, Mervyn Lye, ????????
Rich tributes paid to Dubai pastor and life coach who died in Sri Lanka
From: Sajila Saseendran, Senior Reporter, Gulf News
Published: July 06, 2023 18:16
Long-term resident Rev Dr Neil Obeyesekere passed away three months after wife’s death
Rev Dr Neil Obeyesekere, 69, died of a heart attack on Tuesday. Community members have paid rich tributes to a veteran pastor and life coach in Dubai who passed away in Sri Lanka.
Rev Dr Neil Obeyesekere, 69, died of a heart attack on Tuesday during a visit to his home country, according to his church and family. Dr Obeyesekere’s unexpected death took place just over three months after the family lost his wife Savitri Obeyesekere, 64, on March 24, they told Gulf News. “He was the beloved husband of the late Savitri Obeyesekere, who stood faithfully by his side throughout their lives,” the family said in a memorial note sent to Gulf News.
“They brought us to this world, taught us the value of life, provided for us, and supported us throughout our entire life. We are forever grateful to our parents. Mom and Dad were not only our home, but also our life. Their happiness meant everything to us. Now they are together in a better place. We miss them a lot,” stated his daughters Dhyneika Jayemanne, Tanika and Shelomi Obeyesekere. “He was a pioneer in setting up the first charismatic church in Dubai. Additionally, he founded Wow Life Church in Sri Lanka, leaving behind a lasting legacy that has reached every corner of the world. The Rt. Rev. Dr. Neil also served as a National Overseer of the Apostolic Diocese of Ceylon (ADC) and held the position of Head of the ADC Bible School,” according to a statement issued by the church in Sri Lanka.
Colleagues from the New Covenant Church in Dubai said Dr Obeyesekere lived in Dubai for four decades and worked under the Holy Trinity Compound till he retired at the age of 65. “He continued to be regarded as the head of our church while he worked as a certified optimal life coach. His wife always stood by him in spreading the message of love and tolerance. Our beloved pastor would also be remembered by many for solemnising several marriages in the community,” said Anna Walker. “Both of them were true leaders and mentors. Their passion to serve and enable people to reach their potential had been their heartbeat. Their journey of tolerance and love was always aligned and in synchronisation with the initiatives of the Rulers of the UAE. It is a legacy for which we are grateful,” added Jeffrey Walker.
John Besterwitch, another pastor, said: “Dr. Neil Obeyesekere, was considered by many as a gifted visionary. Over the past three decades, Dr. Neil and his wife Savi were actively involved in and spearheaded several projects, institutions, and movements in Dubai and Sri Lanka. Dr. Neil, a certified life coach, was a revelatory teacher and mentor. This combination of gifts earned him a reputation for bringing insights into people's lives that invariably enabled them to break free from self-limiting beliefs and any self-imposed restraints in life. He loved people, enjoyed being in their midst, and provided them with the requisite pastoral care.
“His empathy in understanding and serving people made him an excellent counsellor. His warm and humble nature brought light into the lives of many and helped them experience an authentic optimal abundant life. Dr. Neil held two doctorates in Divinity, and many other honours and accolades. Happily married for 36 years, Dr. Neil and Savi were always available to whoever sought their wisdom and counsel,” added Kelcey Besterwitch.
The funeral of Dr Obeyesekere will be held in Borella in Sri Lanka on Saturday.
From the information collated by Bashur Musafer
It is with much sadness we received the news of the passing of Neil Obeysekera an old boy of Wesley College. His brothers Nihal and John were at Wesley too. Nihal was a good student and a fine hockey player and was appointed Senior Prefect in 1966.
We thank Neil for his contribution to the life of the school.
The funeral service was held on the 8th of July.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we send our condolences to his family during this time of grief.
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Beloved husband of Sherrine Perera (Former Teacher Wesley College), loving father of Sandesh and Thilini, Shenal, Michelle and Shakya, grandfather of Shahen and Kylie, brother of Mohilal and Sunimal. The mortal remains will lie at No. 20/1, Moragasmulla Road, Rajagiriya from 10 a.m. on Saturday 9th September. Cortège leaves residence at 3.30 p.m. on Monday 11th September to St. Stephen’s Church, Moragasmulla, Rajagiriya. No flowers by request
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It is with deep sadness we received the news of the demise of Mithral. We appreciate and remember him for his wonderful sense of humour. All through his school career and beyond Mithral showed his loyalty and dedication to his alma mater . We admire immensely and value his kindness and friendship.
His wife Sherrine was a longstanding teacher at Wesley for over 25 years. His mother, Mrs Isla Perera, was a well respected Art teacher at Wesley for well over 25 years.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Mithral for his contribution to the life of the school.
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Beloved husband of Hiranthie , loving father of Chryshan and Rochelle, loving father-in-law of Suren and Natasha, adored grandfather of Alicia, Arielle and Alayna. Beloved son of Hector and Grace Rodrigo (deceased). Loving brother of Lorna (deceased), Cecil, Dawn, Nihal, Sunil (deceased), Malini, Jeanne, Kanthi, Rohini,Mohan and Cheryl. Called to eternal rest on 12th September 2023. Remains will lie at Jayaratna Respect Home, 485 Kanatta Road, Colombo 07, from Thursday the 14th, 9 am - 10 pm, and Friday the 15th, 9am onwards. Service and prayers at 3pm. The cortage leaves the parlour at 3.30 p.m. on Friday the 15th for burial at the General Cemetery Borella (Anglican section).
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I heard the demise of a true blue Wesleyite, C.T Rodrigo. He passed away peacefully at his home surrounded by his family following a short illness.
I first met him in the early 1950’s in the primary school, when he was a year junior to me . I remember with such clarity CT playing cricket in the small park with his friends at the school intervals. He did so with such keenness,verve and vigour.
He continued with his love of cricket to play for the school 1st XI from 1961-63. Wrist spin has long been a wondrous skill that mesmerised batsmen. His memorable 8 wickets for 9 runs against a formidable Ananda College team will forever be remembered as one of the finest achievements by any school boy cricketer in Sri Lanka. This was a ritual annihilation. I was watching the game in the side-lines when CT simply bamboozled a succession of well known batsmen by his wily flight and turn and immaculate line and length. It must have been sobering, bewildering and more than a little frustrating to be confronted by viscious spin for which no one seems to have an answer. Sarath Wickramaratne who was a close in-fielder with his agility and guile had a match bag of 10 catches. CT Rodrigo became an instant superstar for this most remarkable feat. Despite all this adulation CT remained modest and had his feet firmly on the ground.
Being genteel and refined, at school he kept away from the mischief and naughtiness that was ever present. I remember CT as a charming, soft spoken and cultured person. He was kind and generous and had a fine sense of humour. All through his school career and beyond CT has been a deeply religious person. He kept his faith right to the very end.
My abiding memory of CT at school is of a lad who was always well turned out. His school uniforms were duly starched and ironed and his hair Brylcreemed and neatly combed back. He continued this elegance into later life when he appeared at school functions in dapper suits with great style and grace. He conducted himself with politeness and courtesy at the school meetings that were rather intense at times.
I understand from personal communications that when CT was a manager at JEDB in Avissawella he conducted himself with great dignity and was ever helpful to the many Planters who visited the institution for help and advice.
For me it was a great pleasure to see him at the Grand Reunion of 2012 in the familiar surroundings of the Great Hall and also at Campbell Park. Although I saw him after more than 50 years time just melted away as we spoke. We reminisced at length those glorious years recalling warmly of friends and teachers of our time.
Formidably industrious he combined his day job with a multitude of assignments and activities related to Wesley College. Although surprisingly shy, he was meticulous, knowledgeable and clear-minded, with a rigour of intellect that allowed him to see through problems and was a great help to the organisation. I am aware that CT always remained close to the school through the Old Boys Union. He was an office bearer and remained a stalwart of the OWSC. CT also functioned as the indefatigable Prefect of Games keeping our sports in the forefront. He provided a great service to Old Boys worldwide by his Annual Sports Reviews. Those Newsletters were honest, comprehensive and were a pleasure to read.
We will always remember his loyalty and commitment to Wesley. He carried out his duties to the school he loved with great devotion. For his allegiance and service to the school over so many decades CT will forever be remembered as an icon and a legend at Wesley.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I wish to thank C.T Rodrigo for a lifetime of support for Wesley and for the immense contribution to the life of the school. CT remained classy to the end. Everyone will remember him and his achievements.
We pass on our deepest sympathies to the family at this time of grief.
As we say for cricketers
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From Bashur Musafer
C.T Rodrigo excelled at Hockey and Captained the School Team. He played in the prestigious Colombo North and Ceylon Schools Team . C.T Rodrigo continued to play hockey in the Club and Mercantile Tournaments with much success.
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From Rohan Perera - OBU/OWSC
It is with the heaviest of hearts that I convey my condolences on the profound loss of a beloved Father & My Dear Friend Clifford.
He wasn't just an ordinary man; he was an extraordinary beacon of Christian virtue, a Cricketing legend whose prowess left us with inspired awe. He indeed was s distinguished Old Boy of Wesley who selflessly poured his soul into nurturing sports at the alma mater.
In the drapery of his life, he wove threads of inspiration that will forever etch his name in our hearts as Wesleyites who admired him & upheld him in the greatest of esteem.
His unwavering faith, both in his spirituality & in the game of Cricket, was nothing short of breathtaking.
His commitment to Wesley's sporting legacy was unparalleled, shaping the destinies of countless young Wesleyites who would be ever so grateful.
As we stand at the crossroads of grief, may his family & all his loved ones find solace in the precious moments they shared with him, in the echoes of his laughter & the wisdom of his counsel.
Clifford's spirit as a father was a fusion of faith to Chryshan & his sporting spirit, will forever be an enduring flame of inspiration that guides all of us through the darkest of times.
In this moment of profound sorrow, I express my deepest grief & condolences as a fellow Wesleyite .
My thoughts & prayers envelop his loving family, as our living God Jesus Christ provides a semblance of warmth & strength in the face of this irreplaceable loss.
May God Console his Family at this moment of abject sorrow 🙏
With heartfelt sympathy, Rohan Perera
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1st XI Cricket Team - 1963
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At the Grand Reunion of 2012
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L to R: Afghar Mohideen, CT Rodrigo, MN Mihlar, Sarath Wickramaratne, L.C.R Wijesinghe and Darrell Maye, Glen Reimers, Kenneth De Silva, Muthuvaloe and Everard Schoorman seated in front |
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From Dennis de Rosayro
Many relatives and friends here and abroad would have received the intimation of Clifford Tissa Rodrigo’s demise with much sadness. Affectionately known as ‘CT’ he was a loved personality both on and off the field. Clifford was a great lover of sport, with a passion for hockey and cricket.
Extremely devoted and talented he excelled in both sports and one of the best all-round sportsmen produced by Wesley College in the early sixties. In his position as centre forward, he was a regular goal scorer and ‘glamour boy’.
In 1962 his amazing feat of eight wickets for nine runs against Ananda College, Colombo, must surely be a schools’ record. Soon after leaving College, he secured employment at Carson Cumberbatch, a reputed mercantile establishment whose hockey team were ‘A’ Division champions in 1963 and thereafter.
Simultaneously, he joined the Burgher Recreation Club and secured a place in a team that had a host of internationals and played for just over a decade.
He continued his steady progress and represented Mercantile Hockey Association (MHA) at the Sri Lanka Hockey Championships from 1964 to 1973, captaining the MHA Team in 1971 and won the Best Player Award that year. In between his moment to glory came in 1969 when he was selected to tour South and North India with the Sri Lanka Hockey Federation contingent.
In all these teams he mainly played as centre forward. He possessed deft stick work coupled with body swerves and had the uncanny ability to slip through the tightest defence and score many spectacular goals, some winning ones too.
In 1975 he left Carsons to join Shaw Wallace & Hedges, where he met his future wife, Hiranthi Goonetilleke. Not long after he joined the JEDB in 1977 and Pussella Plantations as Administrative Manager.
On full retirement he devoted his time and efforts towards the Old Wesleyites SC in varied positions and finally as the Sports Administrator of Wesley College, an enviable position he richly deserved.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It was with great sadness I received the news of the demise of Harold Juriansz in Melbourne, Australia after a prolonged illness. I remember him well in the hostel always elegantly attired, soft spoken and polite. He captained the 1st XI Cricket in 1957, a successful year. What I remember him mostly is for his modesty and humility despite the many sporting achievements. Harold was a gentleman in every sense of the word. It was such a great pleasure to see him again during my visit to Melbourne in 2009. This is what I wrote then:
When everyone else had changed beyond recognition Harold Juriansz remains unchanged in over 50 years. Harold was Teetotal and took his daily exercise seriously. His unmistakable “galthoppi” and the broad smile is a photocopy from the late 1950’s. Harold has maintained his athletic figure, a result of his clean living. . He remains soft spoken and gentle as he has always been. It was lovely to speak with a former Wesley College hero and cricket captain.
Harold has had a good life well lived. The privilege of meeting him in Melbourne in 2009 allowed me to understand his personal pride and emotion in having captained Wesley, and simply confirmed in my mind his standing as one of the great gentlemen of the game. Despite all his achievements he was ever so humble and he was loved by all. Harold was a lovely person, great colleague and friend and an example to us all. The Wesley community will unite in sadness at losing an undisputed cricketing celebrity. He will be sorely missed by so many.
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Here are some recollections from the past
From Ranjit Aaron in New Zealand
The year was 1956 but I cant remember the whole match It was memorable, Wesley were set to get 45 runs in 12 minutes by Trinity College, captained by Mahinda Ratwatte. We made it ! A memorable match. Lou Adhihetty captained Wesley that year and Harold Juriansz and Lou opened the batting. WHAT A SENSATION !! Harold scored 14 runs in the first two overs. Upali Samararatne got the winning runs and Wesley won.
Editor: This was a generous declaration by a sporty captain. Whilst at Trinity College, Mahinda Ratwatte captained three college teams in three different years. He captained the Trinity boxing team in 1953 then went on to captain the rugby team in 1955 and thereafter clinched the cricket captaincy in 1956.He was a senior planter and Lt Colonel in the Army and passed away in April 2014.
From Mr Edmund Dissanayake
In 1957 HL Juriansz, a hosteller captained the 1st XI cricket team at Wesley. I remember him as a thoroughly decent Wesleyite and a very popular captain.
From Fred Abeysekera
Bertus Perera, one of the best fielders produced by Wesley- another classmate, scored a magnificent 111 against S. Thomas’ at Campbell Park (1948). His brother Neville, years later also excelled in the game as an all rounder. S Musafer was a great wicket keeper. Herbie Felsinger, Neil Gallahar, Kenneth De Silva, D Kodithuwakku, L C R Wijesinghe, Senthil Sinniah, Sarath Wickremaratne, Harold Juriansz and Milroy Muthuvaloe, all cricketers of the highest calibre.
From Lou Adhihetty
The greatest joy of my life was NOT scoring 4 centuries for my school (thus equalling Bryan Claessen's record of 4 centuries) but helping Wesley to defeat Trinity College Captained by Mahinda Ratwatte in 1956. They set us 12 minutes to get 45 runs ! What an exciting match ! When I walked into the pavilion after dismissing Trinity, the coach Mr. A. V. Fernando, said "TOUGH TASK" ! Later, he came into the dressing room while I was getting ready to go out to open the batting. Then, I took the courage to tell him, "Sir, we are going all out to achieve this". I also informed that I had changed the batting order. As a right hand Bowler, I never liked bowling to left handed Batsman, so I said, " I have asked Harold Juriansz (also a left handed Batsman) to open the batting with me". AV had no objections because I was the skipper of the side (HE RESPECTED THIS - not all Coaches would accept such a decision - BUT AV DID ! ). Although I am an opening bat, as a rule, I never faced the first ball (I was a coward !!), my poor brother Vincent, who opened batting with me (previously) always agreed to face the first ball. On this occasion Harold also agreed to face the first ball. Harold was always quite an aggressive batsman and BELIEVE ME OR NOT he hit the first ball for 4 runs (BELIEVE ME OR NOT - it was a "blind shot" - anyway 4 runs !!). Harold scored at least 14 runs in the first two overs - roughly 6 minutes (I reckon I scored not more than 6 runs). Then, Harold got out. I cannot recall who joined me after Harold got out but when Wesley was around 35 runs for 2 or 3 wickets, Upali Samararatne joined me. Ratwatte (the Trinity bowler - Hector or Tissa) was doing his best to discourage and upset us by bowling wides or wide off the off-stamp. I cannot remember the full details but in last over Upali got a winning run (BLIND SHOTS OF COURSE !!!). WESLEY WON ! What a victory - PRAISE TO GOD NOT TO HAROLD OR UPALI OR LOU !!!!
From Michael Tissera former St Thomas' and Ceylon Cricket Captain
Tissera captained Ceylon to its first victory over a Test-playing nation in Ahmedabad in 1965. He said " Neil Gallaher was a stylish batsman and just as stylish in his dress. He joined the Hong Kong bank and I played against him often turning out for Brooke Bond. Harold Juriansz and Hilary de Vos worked together with me at Brooke Bond and we were part of a team that won the Mercantile (A) Division championship. We used to have some great battles with Hong Kong bank who had many good cricketers. Harold and Hilary subsequently migrated to Australia. Hilary unfortunately passed away a few years ago but Harold keeps in touch and we were able to meet on my last visit to Melbourne, 18 months ago"
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1st XI Cricket Team - 1957
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Ranjit and his brother Brian were both students at Wesley College. They were in the school boarding 1952-55. Then they left for Jaffna and arrived at Wesley again in 1958. Brian left for medical school in Peradeniya in 1960 and Ranjit remained until 1962.
Ranjit was with me in the 6th form 1960-62. He was a jovial lad full of fun and took part in the humour that was ever present. As our mutual friend Andrew Ratnam reminded me Ranjit proudly wore an Omega Seamaster as a 6th former. In those days we all had nick names. Ranjit was affectionately called 'python' and it stuck to him like glue until he left school.
He had a fine command of the English language and at the time he was keen on becoming a lawyer. With his honesty and integrity Ranjit would have made a good lawyer. Being at the top of the school hierarchy, it was a good life in the 6th form despite the hard work. I remember Ranjit with great affection for his relaxed attitude to life.
Both Ranjit and Brian were deeply religious and were part of the Student Christiam Movement at school and also joined in the Methodist Church activities at Wellawatte. They both were in the school choir.
After we left school our paths never crossed. He first emigrated to the UK. Some years after Brian passed away in the USA I traced Ranjit to Auckland, New Zealand. My conversation with him was bright and cheerful and deeply positive. We had a long chat about old times and vowed to remain in touch. But we were both busy with our career and family and this never happened. Then we could not keep up conversation as we both moved on in years. With the tribulations of age, the distance and time difference, it all got far too difficult. But the fragrance of our friendship lingered on. While our time as friends has been fragmented over a long 61 years, a deep bond remained. On a chance search, I was deeply saddened to see Ranjit's obituary in the New Zealand Herald Newspaper online.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
6th Formers 1960-62 with Mr Charles Yesudian
R.Somanathan, LAFA's nephew !! (Geethal De Silva?), D.M. Arandara, Sarath Ranasinghe, N.J Nonis, C.H De Alwis Jayasinghe, L.S.Jayasinghe, AS Ratnam, Gnanakrishnan,, Rohan Wijesinghe, Siyamala Carson, Ranjith Alwis, Sarath Wickramaratne
Seated L to R:
L.C.R Wijesinghe, Daya Perera, Sheriff Fallil, Mr.C.Yesudian, Ranjith Jegasothy, Hamilton Amarasinghe, C.Sathyanathan, Nihal D Amerasekera
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From Sarath Wickramaratne
MSK completed his degree from Peradeniya University in 1966. During his time at Peradeniya he was ever helpful to many Wesleyites to settle into University life. His jovial character and kindness was a feature of his time at Peradeniya.
After graduation MSK held several high profile jobs. He worked in the National Institute of Business Management as an executive.
In his final years he was troubled by hip problems which made walking difficult and required assistance. This sadly made it harder for him to meet up with his school friends towards the end of his life.
From L.C.R Wijesinghe (Lalith)
Sisira was originally my elder brothers friend along with the likes of Lucky Goonetilleka and Upali Samararatna who were a close knit group of friends at school.I befriended them subsequently. I recall visiting Sisira's home at Wellampitiya and spending the day on many an occasion. His mother, father brothers and sister were kind, simple, hospitable folk who treated us with kindness and understanding.
Sisira entered the faculty of Arts at the University of Peradeniya in the early sixties from Wesley and graduated thereafter. He also obtained a postgraduate degree later on.
The greater part of his working life was as the Personnel Manager at the State Flour Milling Corporation and a Consultant at the National Institute of Business Management. He also served as the General Manager of the Leather Products Pvt Ltd prior to retiring.
Sisira married Leela a soft spoken, kind and devoted lady and had an only son Chaminda who is a Consultant Medical Doctor. He lived at Thimbirigasyaya since marriage. I recall with nostalgia our family visits to each others homes over the many years of our friendship. He was fiercely loyal, kind and understanding friend. His passing away was unexpected. We will miss him dearly. A true and loving friend.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I remember MSK and his younger brother MLT living in Wellampitiya during our schooldays in the 1950's. His photo brings him back to life and those happy and carefree days of long ago.
For a time I lived opposite their house and saw them play cricket in the evenings. My grandfather then was an Apothecary at Wellampitiya and lived behind the dispensary. He was senior to me in school. I remember him as a quiet polite lad and very sociable. The humour that was such a marked part of his character was evident from his youth. During the school intervals he was always seen chatting and laughing interacting with friends. After leaving school MSK was a regular at the OWSC to meet school friends on an evening.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I gratefully appreciate his loyalty to the school and his friends and thank him for his contribution to the life at school.
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May he attain the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
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From Upali Perera, Melbourne, Australia
During his school years Dion lived in Udahamulla and had several of his relatives who were Wesleyites at the same time. Dion will be remembered for being a fine hockey player who represented school in the First XI 1962/63.
Dion migrated to Australia in the 70’s , lived in Melbourne and moved to the Gold Coast in Brisbane about 30 years ago. Whilst in Melbourne he worked for the Coburg Council and did his own business in Gold Coast. He had his own Limousine car hiring business and was also involved in buying properties in Los Angeles . Dion was an entrepreneur and a great guy. May he rest in peace.
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I received the news of the demise of Dion Herft, a loyal old boy. He was junior to me at school but I do remember him well.
His was a most remarkable life and a life well lived. Dion worked for the Essendon City Council in Brisbane. He also achieved much as an entrepreneur.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I wish to thank Dion for his immense contribution to the life of the school. I send my condolences to the family at this time of grief.
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Excerpts from the Daily News 29th March 2016
The History of the Wesley College Senior Western Band dates back to 1986. Pulse Beat marks their 30th Anniversary. The Pillar of this Western Band has been the Teacher in Charge, Mrs. Thilina Fernando who has taken them to great heights. The band has many feathers in its belt – 1st place of the all island western band competition organized by Prince of Wales College Moratuwa (2012) and 1st runners up of the all island western band competition organized by Maris Stella College Negombo (2014).
Teacher-in-charge Thilina Fernando has nurtured the members of this band since 1986. Her role as their spiritual mother cannot be overemphasized. She has been the wind beneath their wings. And the Wesley College band is in debt to this extraordinary lady.
On her retirement
The school bade farewell to Mrs. Thilina Fernando in April 2022 as she retired from her service at Wesley. She served the college for more that 40 years as a music teacher.
Meashed Liyanage: God bless you Thilina Mihirani Fernando, teacher. You have been a great blessing to many. I'm thankful that I had the privilege also to be a pupil of yours during my school years. God bless you abundantly.
Sehan Pushparaja: Thilina Mihirani Fernando, is a wonderful teacher, and a calm and joyous person full of energy. Thank you for teaching, and guiding us in life. I learnt a lot from you. All the best !
Jeremy Brohier: The service you rendered to Wesley cannot be measured in words. Wishing you a happy retirement with God’s Blessings.
Mrs Fernando sadly passed away on the 3rd of November 2023
Sumith Kuruppu: One of the greatest teacher in my schooling time, the only one I respect, because she did not care whose parents had the most money nor she stroke anyone’s egotistical personality. Simply a true Christian, who loved all her pupils unconditionally. Far too young be taken away, but that God’s grace. My you rest in peace
As the Editor of the DBI on behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Mrs Thilina Fernando for her long service to teaching at Wesley College. We are grateful for her contribution to the life of the school for over 40 years.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I saw the the obituary of my friend with great sadness. He joined our class after getting a double promotion from the class below to STD 3 in 1951. Although it is a prestigious award Nihal posessed the modesty and humility to merge in with the rest of the class making new friends. This he did with consummate ease. He soon became a popular classmate. Nihal was a quiet studious guy. I remember his friendly kindness and generosity. All through the years at Wesley he remained an outstanding scholar. In 1962, Nihal Kalupahana left Wesley to study engineering at the University of Peradeniya.
I lost contact with Nihal after he left Wesley. Although our paths never crossed a few years ago I phoned him. He was then on his way home after work. As he was driving we couldnt have a long conversation. He seemed happy with his life.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Nihal for his contribution to the life of the school
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From the family of George Robertson
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news of the demise of George Robertson in Melbourne, Australia. George and his five brothers all attended Wesley College in the Cartman-Oorloff era. Over the years he has written elegantly about his life at Wesley and of his friends. Several of those notes are included in this short tribute to a True Blue Wesleyite. George spoke and thought deeply about life's ups and downs and its peaks and troughs. He wrote with much nostalgia about his schooldays. Hence his articles document his thoughts deeply and gracefully.
After George emigrated to Australia, he became a part of the strong and vibrant past student community of Wesleyites where he was loved and well regarded.
He was caught up in the spirit of Jazz and had a great taste for the music of Frank Sinatra and Sammy Davis Jr. George had a fine singing voice which he exercised at the Old Boys gatherings belting out the College song and Christmas Carols.
Like most Sri Lankans, George was an inveterate cricket fan. He kept in touch with the Wesley cricketers of his era who had emigrated to Australia like Bryan and Radley Claessen. Neil Gallagher when he toured Australia met up with George in Melbourne. Bryan Claessen was George's classmate at Wesley. Although Bryan lived in Adelaide they met up and also kept in touch despite the distance.
I had the great pleasure of meeting George and his wife Beryl in 2009 on my visit to Australia. I remember George as a genial and jovial figure. Both George and Beryl were students at Wesley. The Melbourne OBU most kindly organised a lavish dinner for me and my wife, attended by around 50 old boys. George spoke so warmly of his time at Wesley and of the marvellous community of Wesleyites in Australia.
George possessed a heart of gold which he shared with Beryl. After he retired George and Beryl volunteered to work with the Multiple Sclerosis Society of Victoria. This they continued for many years. It was there he met a fellow Wesleyite, Ramsay Miller, who was a patient. He cared for Ramsay until 2002 when he succumbed to his illness. George wrote most warmly of his association with Ramsay.
Since that memorable meeting George and I continued our friendship with emails. He sent me some of his superb articles about schooldays and his friends. George was always at hand to provide information built on his decades of knowledge and experience — always given with his trademark wry, good humour. We were both boarders at Wesley College although at different times. Hence there were many stories and memories to share of that great institution. I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have had the benefit of George's friendship.
When age caught up with them, George and Beryl were well cared for by their everloving family. As his memory failed, George spent his final years with Beryl in a care home. All through the years their love for each grew and never waned. George and Beryl are beneficiaries of a life well and fully lived. Perhaps he had a premonition to write that wonderful article captioned "Before I forget" where he most elegantly outlined his early life in Ceylon.
George was an extremely courteous man, personable and unpretentious. He was a charming gentleman, kind and warm hearted to the core. George was calm and he was considerate and he had great integrity. He earned the respect and admiration of everyone and was indeed one of the finest to walk the long corridors of our school. We all valued his friendship and George will be missed by all whose lives he touched.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank George for his immense contribution to the life of the school and for his unwavering commitment to the Wesley fraternity in Melbourne.
George enjoyed all the good things in life. Despite the years he never lost his sense of fun. His was a good life well lived. Rest in Peace my friend.
On behalf of all Wesleyites I send my condolences to George's family at this time of grief.
Meeting George Robertson in Melbourne - 2009
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Photo taken at the final farewell for Bryan Claessen
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The Seniors together at the Great Reunion of 2012 Gala Dinner at the Galle Face Hotel
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The Seniors- Shelton Peiris, Edmund Dissanayake and George Jayatunge - Sadly none of them are with us today. We thank them for their loyalty and support for their Alma Mater. May they Rest in Peace. |
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From Arthur d'With Barbut, Melbourne, Australia
I read tonight on your website of the passing of George Jayatunge. George was a Grandson of James Barbut( Ex Wesley). James Barbut was also my Great Grandfather! James Barbut married twice. James had six children with his second wife Sally Silva.
I met George and his wife Chrysanthi at a party to celebrate the 50th Wedding anniversary of Kenneth and Elaine Barbut, the kind couple who befriended Cecil in Negombo. Kenneth was also a Grandson of James Barbut.
The name d’With-Barbut was started by my grandfather Claude(ex-Wesley) and his wife Florence(nee Thuring) to differentiate them from the children of James Barbut’s second marriage of which they did not approve.
Hope you appreciate the genealogy lesson!!
Warm regards,
Arthur
Post Script
GOD's GOOD MAN - Claude Ancel d'With Barbut
Late Assistant Supdt of Surveys, Born 6th March 1883 - Died 23rd October 1935
James Barbut was the Postmaster at Bandarawela. He lived in a house called “Mount Zion” and was a stalwart of the Bandarawela Tennis Club. Claude d’With-Barbut was an Assistant Superintendent of Surveys and died young at 52. He was destined to be the Survey General prior to his untimely death!
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From Upali Perera, Melbourne
George played cricket in the 1st XI for Wesley College under the captaincy of Derrick (D.B.C) Mack and Radley Claessen. He was a humble, decent and an honourable human being.
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From George's wife Chrisanthi Jayatunge
George Christopher Perera Jayatunga, son of Belle and Rev W M P Jayatunga (studied at Wesley under Rev James Cartman). He Married in 1962 June to Chrisanthi Gunawardana. They had two daughters-- Shiromi Perera. Nimali Barfoot and four grandkids-- Natalie- Danielle- Jessica and Tyson migrated to Australia 1991. George worked at Lever Brothers Ceylon as a sales rep and ended up as a sales manager and Shipping manager. He represented his school in cricket.
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From the Editor
George Jayatunge's father Rev. W. M. P. Jayatunga (Wilmot) received the Bachelor of Divinity B.D. from Serempore Divinity College in India. He was the first Baptist priest in Ceylon to receive it. Rev Jayatunge was the Principal at Carey College Colombo 1945-54.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank George for his immense contribution to the life of the school.
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From Dyan Seneviratne
It is with great sadness that I have to inform you of the sudden passing of Nihal (NMJT) Perera beloved husband of Sunil.
Nihal was an Old Boy of Wesley College and shone in Athletics, his pet event being Pole-Vaulting. An engineer by profession who served Sri Lanka Telecom with much success and distinction.
A quiet unassuming gentleman, Nihal was that typical DIY family man and the kind who could ‘fix anything’ around their loving home! Above all Nihal was the epitome of solidity, integrity and trustfulness and was truly a Man of God with the Baptist Church his refuge which he served with absolute love and devotion - indeed a greatly admired and respected personality.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
I remember Nihal Perera who was many years senior to me at school. I recall with much clarity Nihal's dedication to the athletics event of pole vaulting. He was seen every evening practicing his event in Campbell Park with much enthusiasm and commitment. He won the event year after year at the annual sports meet at Wesley.
On behalf of the worldwide brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Nihal for his contribution to the life of the school.
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From Rohan Perera
We are truly devastated to learn about the shocking demise of K. S. John (or Mama as we all so lovingly call him). Our meeting just last evening to plan the Hostellers Christmas Get-together Ironically feels like a cruel twist of fate, as we never imagined it would be our last. His caring nature, boundless love, generosity, and infectious liveliness were the threads that wove together the beautiful tapestry of our nostalgic life as one family in the College Hostel.
In the midst of the joyous planning for the "Chug Along To Christmas " *The Hostellers' Christmas Gathering,* who could have foreseen or bargained for the abrupt departure of someone so dear, uniquely Integral and indispensable as John to be suddenly gone? He selflessly buttressed the success of the task undertaken as a doer who makes it happen.
K. S. John (Mama) wasn't just a presence; he was the heartbeat of our gatherings, infusing energy and warmth into every moment.
His loyalty to Wesley was unparalleled, a steadfast supporter who embodied the very spirit of our community. His silent contribution & magnificent support extended to enable the construction of the current OWSC club house building at a time of dire financial constraints was immeasurable. The irreplaceable void left by his absence is not only palpable but devastatedly heart-wrenching. The memories of his unwavering support and the lively conversations we shared are now bittersweet reminders of the Amazing Brother we all have lost.
Oh, how we will miss him – A genuine Wesleyite whose kindness touched every soul fortunate enough to know him. In this time of profound sorrow, Our thoughts and deepest condolences are with you and all of those who like us, feel the weight of this unfathomable loss. May his memory be a source of solace amid the grief. May The Almighty Console His Family During This Time of Abject Mourning.
May You Rest In Peace At Your Final Place of Dwelling In Gods House
From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
The school hostel is a brotherhood. The passing away of one of our brothers is one of the saddest events of our lives as we have once lived and bonded together in that great institution. The suddenness of his departure makes his passing a devastating blow to all who knew him.
We thank K.S John for his friendship, loyalty and immense contribution to the life of the hostel and the school at large.
We pass on our deepest condolences to the family at this time of grief.
Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Formerly Sri Lanka's First Honorary Consul & Tea Commissioner to New Zealand Australia and Fiji for 42 years
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Mohamed Iqbal's Tea Party with the Ex Governor of New Zealand Sir Anand Satyanand
4th July 2012
Mohamed Iqbal today celebrated the ending of his 42 year innings as the Honorary Tea Commissioner for Sri Lanka (in New Zealand, Australia & Fiji) with a delightful lunch and tea party at the Jewel of India restaurant at Mission Bay.
And joining his tea party was none other than the ex-Governor General of New Zealand, Sir Anand Satyanand. He along with other distinguished guests, namely: Mr. Raman Rayganda, Dr. C.S. Kanagalingam and Dr. Rajen Prasad came to give company and acknowledge Mr. Iqbal’s contribution over the years.
Mr. Mohammad Iqbal as been associated with the Sri Lankan Tea Board for over 42 years at various levels and has been the Tea Commissioner for New Zealand, Australia and Fiji. He has provided a lot of support to promote Ceylon Tea world over and particularly in this part of the world. He resigned from the board on 30th June, 2012, due to some personal & confidential reasons.
Mr. Iqbal choose the ‘Jewel of India’ as the preferred venue for this occasion and Mr. Giri Gupta, owner of the restaurant, hosted this special lunch.
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Diamond anniversary: 60 years of togetherness By Farida Master - June 9, 2020
It’s like a dream, says Jean Iqbal as congratulatory messages and cards flooded in. They came from Queen Elizabeth, Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern, Governor-General Dame Patsy Reddy, Minister of Internal Affairs Tracey Martin, mayors past and present , Morin Cooper and Phil Goff, and Member of Parliament Simeon Brown —have been delivered on Jean and Mohamed Iqbal’s Diamond Anniversary (60th wedding anniversary).
Due to Covid-19 and their ill health, the Howick couple couldn’t host a celebration but were happy to talk to the Times about the first time they met over curry. Jean’s friend, also a nurse, invited her home to have curry and introduced her to a friend’s friend who worked with Crown Agents for Overseas Governments and Administrations, London.
As Iqbal, a young barrister who studied law in London, got to know Jean, a night duty nurse at the Chelsea Women’s Hospital, England, he realised that she was determined to study further.
Jean soon left for America. “It was quite exciting to get engaged on the ship just before I sailed to New York with the intention of staying there for a year to complete my course,” says Jean, now 87.
However, four months later, she cut short her stay and returned to London to be with the young lawyer who had slipped a ring on her finger. “I missed him too much,” she says. When Iqbal first broke the news to his parents in Ceylon (Sri Lanka) that he wanted to marry an English girl, they were worried that he would be the first person in the family to marry for love. It was unheard of.
“My father was a Sufi helped but my mother, who was a direct descendent of Prophet Mohamed, was naturally upset,” says the former Tea Commissioner of Australia, New Zealand and Fiji. Jean says that her boss and friends tried to warn her against marrying a brown person. They said she would find it difficult to get a house to live in. “As a nurse, I never understood racism. I had always treated patients of all races with equal love and care,” she says.
Iqbal married Jean Irene Stanton on the April 26, 1960 in London.
Two years later they were blessed with a baby girl who they named Zanhuba (Zan)
After five years in England, the newly married couple moved to Ceylon where Iqbal was offered a job as Secretary to Minister of Housing and Labour. “Everyone treated me like a queen there,” says Jean. Their son Rasak (Zak) was born in Colombo.
Three years later the couple moved to New Zealand. “The minute we landed in New Zealand in 1968, I knew this is the place I was meant to be,” Jean says. Jean and Iqbal say they’ve shared an exciting life, thanks to Iqbal’s job as Honorary Tea Commission New Zealand. They often met prime ministers and heads of state including Robert Muldoon, Mike Moore, Norman Kirk, David Lange, Jawarharlal Nehru, Saddam Hussain, Zial-u-haq, Colonel Gaddafi and the Royal Family of Saudi Arabia.
Iqbal was also the First Honorary Consul for Sri Lanka. He was connected with the Sri Lankan Tea Board for more than 42 years.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Mohamed Iqbal, passed away, early this morning New Zealand time. His health had been deteriorating in the past few months. His wife, Jean, predeceased him earlier this year.
Iqbal was greatly respected by the Sri Lankan community in New Zealand and has been a helpful friend to many.
All through his life Iqbal has been a loyal old boy of Wesley College. During my email conversations with Iqbal I realised what a great character he was although belonging to a different generation. He never lost his love for Wesley and was a regular reader of the Double Blue International and an occasional contributor with information about his life and work. Iqbal comes from a long line of Wesleyites who have contributed enormously to the country, society and the school. His close relatives, The Mayor of Colombo Municipal Council M.H Mohamed, Prof Mahroof Ismail, Ifthi Ismail and Dr.Farouk Sikkander were all Wesleyites. Iqbal was an individual who sought and found his destiny and in doing so, enriched us all.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank Iqbal for his immense contribution to the life of the school.
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1st XI Team 1963
The Photo kindly sent to me by Upali Perera
W.Deutrom, S Wickramaratne, Upali Perera(Capt), Mr L.A Fernando, I.Thurairajah (Vice Capt) C.T Rodrigo, Lal Fernando
Standing: L to R:
D Thiagalingam, H Musafer, Devaraj,T.Maye, R.Jayasooriya
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From the Doyen of Sri Lanka Hockey, Dennis de Rosayro
Raja Jayasooriya
Born : 1945
Raja Jayasooriya represented the Colombo Hockey Association at the 1966 National Championships who were joint champions and the Nationalised Services HA from 1962 to 1965, and 1967 to 1972. A game in which Raja played, Ceylon for the first time beat Madras HA 1/0 at Madras in 1966, during their tour to South India and North India, led by none other than the great Freddie White.
Position : Right half
Clubs : Tamil Union, Old Wesleyites Sports Club,
Colombo Hockey Association and Nationalised HA
1966 Tour of South and North India
1966 Asian Games, Bangkok
1967 vs India
1969 Tour of South and North India
1970 vs Mysore HA
1970 Asian Games, Bangkok
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Raja Jayasooriya was the son of the famous Wesley and Ceylon Hockey player Walter Jayasooriya. Walter Jayasuriya, fondly known as the “Father of Ceylon/Sri Lanka Hockey,” played a pivotal role in shaping the hockey landscape of the country. The Walter Jayasooriya Trophy, named in his honour, pays tribute to his remarkable contributions and the enduring legacy he left behind.
In his own right, Raja was a fine Hockey player for Wesley College in the early 1960's. He later went onto represent Sri Lanka. Raja was greatly respected as a fine influential player. Everyone in the hockey community remember Raja as a modest and soft-spoken hockey player, who shunned glamour and launched his prowess with his stick on the playing field. A fleet-footed athlete, his team mates knew him for his courage and tireless industry. Despite his tremendous ability and hockey pedigree he showed great humility and was well liked by all.
He sadly passed away around 2015. This was a great loss to his family, friends and the hockey fraternity in Sri Lanka.
Raja's son Esanka Jayasooriya captained Soccer and Hockey at Wesley College, played Rugby for the school and was a Hockey International. Sadly Esanka passed away at the young age of 35 years.
On behalf of the Brotherhood of Wesleyites, worldwide, I wish to thank Raja and Esanka for their contribution to the life of the school and the huge part they have played in representing the school and the country in Hockey.
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It is with deep sorrow that we received the news of the passing away of Mrs. Geetha Wickremasinghe. She taught Sinhala at Grade 5 and 6 and was greatly liked and respected by students and colleagues alike. Mrs Wickramasinghe has been on the tutorial staff of Wesley College for more than 25 years and has played an important role in providing an all round education.
The remains will be at her residence in Seeduwa. Funeral will be on Wednesday 17th January, 2024, Cortege leaving residence at 3.30 p.m for service at Methodist Church ,Seeduwa
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Mrs Geetha Wickramasinghe for her long service as a teacher at Wesley College Colombo. We thank Mrs Wickramasinghe's for her dedication and loyalty to the school and her students. We appreciate her immense contribution to the life of the school.
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GRANT HER O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Mervyn or MB as he was called at school was well known for his artwork. He was an immensely talented artist and drew caricatures of people and humorous cartoons in the 1950's. Mervyn was two years senior to me at school and was respected for his quiet and dignified manner. He was well known for his art work that adorned the annual Double Blue school magazine. Mervyn brought to life the important people in our lives at school by his skill, artistry and wit. He amused the readers with his caricatures of the principal, teachers and interesting colleagues.
Mervyn entered the University of Ceylon circa 1960 to follow a course in Zoology. He completed an honours degree in Zoology at the University of Ceylon. Mervyn became a well known Entomologist and was an integral part of the Anti Malaria Campaign in Sri Lanka. He wrote extensively and with great expertise about mosquito bourne diseases and their control.
Mervyn did not join the many functions of the Old Boys Union and not many school friends met him after he left school.
Caricature of the Principal - Mr P.H Nonis drawn by M.B Wickramasinghe of 6th Form (Sc). This has elegantly captured the Principal's usual stance as he walked the long corridors of the school
Mr. Nonis received his early education at Richmond College, Galle, during the time that the Rev. W. J. T. Small was its Principal. He was one of the best pupils of Rev. Small and passed brilliantly in the Cambridge local Examinations. Joining Wesley as a student in 1918 during the Highfield era he had the unique distinction of winning the coveted Hill medal and captaining the cricket team in 1921.
Our Physics Teacher Mr J.A.T Sethukavalar was a rather eccentric teacher with a professorial manner. He refused to provide any photographs for his tribute in the Double Blue Magazine when he left Wesley College. Hence this exact likeness was drawn by our own cartoonist Mervyn B.Wickramasinghe
Mr Sethukavalar had the respect of us all for his immense knowledge on science and he inspired a generation of students to take up physics. His philosophy of teaching was the encouragement of students to think rationally and scientifically, rather than through strict discipline. His departure from Wesley was a great loss. He left to join Jaffna Central College where he taught until retirement. In all those years he never lost his sense of wonder over the physical phenomena that make up this planet. He remained a gentle soul liked by all, much the same as he was at Wesley. He was an ever popular teacher. He passed away in the late 1980's
Physics Silva alias Garandiya was the man in charge of the laboratory. He wore thick-rimmed small circular spectacles. He brought his ancient bicycle to work every morning and looked after it like a Rolls Royce. He rode it like a circus clown - pretty upright and in straight lines. Silva parked his bicycle just outside the lab and sometimes inside. He had a foul temper and would have frightened even the boldest. This caricature of Silva was drawn by MB Wickramasinghe for the 1958 School magazine. The caption read as follows: "The back of the head is sometimes used as a reflecting surface".(Silva passed away in June 1969)
Dr Farouk Sikkander then and now drawn by his classmate MB Wickramasinghe. Farouk served as a well respected General Practitioner in the posh enclave of Nawala.
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Farouk has met Mervyn just the once when he was an invigilator for Farouk's pathology examination in medical school many years ago. Farouk is aware Mervyn has published a book of drawings for Botany and Zoology for 6th form students.
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On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Mervyn for his immense contribution to the life of the school
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May he find the Ultimate Bliss of Nirvana
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Russell Hamer – One of the finest glovesman of pre-Test era passes away
From the Financial Times Sri Lanka - 28th March 2024
Even in the pre-Test era Sri Lanka had a habit of producing wicket-keepers of the highest quality. One of them was Russell Hamer who passed away yesterday in his eighties after a long ailment.
A product of Wesley College, Hamer played for Ceylon Schools in 1964 and then later made it to the Sri Lankan side in the annual Gopalan Trophy first-class fixture in 1967-8. Hamer was Sri Lanka’s main wicket-keeper of the early 1970s and toured India with the Sri Lanka team led by Anura Tennekoon in 1975-76 playing in two of the three unofficial tests. He also played in limited over matches for Sri Lanka against touring MCC teams in the 1970s.
A hard hitting left-hand bat and wicket-keeper, Hamer had to fight hard for a place in the Sri Lanka side with another rival wicket-keeper Ranjit Fernando and therefore could not hold onto a permanent position. But there was no enmity between them.
“Russell and I were competing for the wicket-keeper’s berth but we were very good friends,” said Fernando. “When I finished cricket and started coaching at NCC, Russell came to me and entrusted his son Peter and wanted me to look after his cricket. That was Russell. He was a very good soul. He loved his cricket and he played it the way he wanted.”
Two former Sri Lanka Captains Michael Tissera and Anura Tennekoon under whom Hamer played also paid tributes.
“He was a brilliant wicket keeper hard hitting left hand bat, all the time aggressive in his outlook,” said Tissera. “The opposition used to rile him and he used to give it back to them.”
“He was a superb wicket keeper and a fighter all the way. He counter-attacked and showed a lot of aggression in his batting,” said Tennekoon. “Hamer was always ready to bring something to the team. The only thing is he had a bad temper.”
There was this story about Hamer and Tony Greig. When the England cricketer was batting Hamer is alleged to have made a remark to the effect like ‘Is your mother a dog?’ Greig was too stunned to answer or he didn’t understand what it was all about.
Hamer was a loyal servant at Maharaja Organisation and later became a curator at the SSC in the nineties. In 2017 he was one of the first players to receive financial assistance under a new scheme to help former national cricketers with medical expenses. In September 2018 he was one of 49 former Sri Lankan cricketers to be felicitated by Sri Lanka Cricket who honoured them for their services in the pre-Test era. – (ST)
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Cricketer Russell Hamer was ‘One Of A Kind’
By Lawrence Machado
Russell Hamer, who played for Ceylon (later Sri Lanka) for many years, passed away in Colombo on Wednesday, March 27. He was 76. He would have played many more times for Sri Lanka but unfortunately, international games were not as regular as these days.
The former Wesley College star was always a treat to watch on the field. He was a natural entertainer and had a very loyal following. Many a time he pulled his team out of trouble by counter-attacking and lashing the ball to all parts of the ground. I was lucky to see a few of his knocks.
A former Ceylon Schools representative, Hamer represented the country at the annual Gopalan Trophy against Tamil Nadu, with a top score of 52 in the 1970-71 series. These matches were among the highlights for Ceylon and later Sri Lanka in the days before the country started playing Test cricket in 1982.
During a time when Ceylon produced some brilliant wicketkeeper batsmen, Hamer was at the top of his game, playing a few limited-over matches for the national team.
He turned out for Sara Trophy heavyweights SSC and Nomads and also played a big role in keeping Maharajas as one of the most formidable sides in the Mercantile cricket competitions.
Fearless and ready to take on the opposition, Hamer was slick and flamboyant behind the sticks. Also, as a batsman, he never took a backward step.
When Hamer suffered a stroke some years ago, he was helped financially by the then newly-formed Sri Lanka Cricketers Association Benevolent Fund which helped former cricketers who had medical issues.
Hamer and A.J Samarasekera, another first-class cricketer who had a stroke, were the first two beneficiaries of the Trust in 2017.
In 2018, Hamer and 48 other ex-Lankan cricketers were felicitated by Sri Lanka Cricket for their services to the game before the country was accorded Test status by the International Cricket Council.
Russell’s two brothers, Mervyn and Granville, were also fine cricketers, who played for Wesley College and Division I clubs for many years. They predeceased him. Russell’s son, Peter, also played cricket at a level before migrating to Australia.
Russell is survived by wife Mallika, Peter and Briony (Australia), Sandra and Sherman De Silva and grandchildren Tiffany and Steffany. The funeral will be held on Good Friday, March 29.
May the turf lie gently on him.
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From the famous English Cricketer and Cricket Writer - Simon Hughes
I experienced the Sri Lankans' audacious approach to the game first-hand when I played a season there before they had become a Test-playing nation. One afternoon, my club were struggling to take wickets until our wicketkeeper, Russell Hamer, who kept for the national side, came up and told me to sling a fast yorker well down the leg side. After four fruitless hours in 90-degree heat and high humidity, you'll try anything to get a wicket, believe me, and I did as suggested. As I ran in to bowl, Hamer began sneaking up to the stumps from his position 15 yards back, unbeknown to the batsman, of course. As the ball veered past his pads, the batsman, sensing another easy boundary, swished eagerly at it, but missed and overbalanced in his enthusiasm. Hamer, who had by now reached the stumps, gathered it one-handed and whipped the bails off in one flowing movement with the batsman out of his ground. The keeper beamed a 100-megawatt smile after a brilliant, instinctive act that he later repeated off other bowlers, and it remains the only time I ever got a batsman out stumped. Hamer is now head groundsman at one of Colombo's Test venues. One wonders what trickery he employs in that role.
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From the Island Newspaper - 28th March 2024
Former Sri Lanka wicketkeeper Russell Hamer (76) has passed away. A product of Wesley College, he represented Nomads and SSC. He played several unofficial Tests for Sri Lanka. After retirement, he coached cricket and functioned as the curator of SSC in the 1990s.
Hamer once took the board to courts after being overlooked by the selectors. His lawyer was popular leftist leader Colvin R. de Silva. The President of the Cricket Board at that time was another leftist leader; Dr. N. M. Perera.
His remains are at A. F. Raymond’s, Borella. The funeral will be on Friday evening at General cemetery, Kanatte.
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The Russell Hamer I wish I knew By Sudat Pasqual
Russell Hamer, one of the best glovemen Sri Lanka has ever produced, bid adieu to his earthly brethren on March 27. Russell’s health has been failing for a while and we knew he was fighting an uphill battle. Yet, the confirmation that Russell has folded his innings among the mortals to take the battle elsewhere was difficult digest.
I didn’t know Russell Hamer well nor was I his friend. We were acquainted through cricket briefly in the 1979-82 period. Russell was my senior by almost a decade and a half and one of my favourite local cricketers.
Russell Hamer was flashy, mouthy, irreverent and very good behind and in front of the stumps. He was one of the best wicketkeepers Sri Lanka has seen and he was no slouch with the bat either. Russell, as I recall, was one of the early exponents of the then not so looked in favour of sweep shot; not slog, the paddle or the scoop sweep or various other recent incarnations, but the original perfectly orthodox cricket shot called the sweep. He was an excellent sweeper of the ball and a nuisance to bowlers because he would sweep balls pitched in areas a bowler would reasonably consider sweep-proof.
As good as he was on the field for his physical prowess, Russell came to be almost as well known for his incessant chatter from behind the wicket. From what I gather, for I only played one match against Russell where his mouth was mostly silent because he was busy hammering us for a century, his verbiage was largely irreverent and snarky.
But, insolence was never more than an underarm throw away from Russell’s tongue; especially at officious white coats or opposing batters who had overstayed their welcome in the middle.
But, the combativeness was mostly left on the field except for those pulling the strings of Sri Lanka’s cricketing pecking order. Many of us who are familiar with that order hoisted upon us by a sycophant chatter class, could relate to Russell’s frustrations and were silently cheering him on. As a teenager, I loved to watch Russell keep and bat. I was a fan. Teenagers are attracted to flash and swagger and I was smitten by the abundance of those qualities presence in the man. Russell was the real deal. He had lightening quick hands behind the stumps, a quick eye and a quicker tongue. What’s there not to love?
In 1979, I got my only chance to go up against my childhood idol. I was 17 and playing my debut first class match for Board President’s XI against Maharajahs. Russell was keeping for Maharajahs and at the prime of his career. Russell got a hundred and I got him with the second new ball. Not exactly even, but I was happy. Later in the year, I was selected to Sri Lanka’s 1979 Prudential World Cup squad. I was the sole left hand bat in the squad. Many, including this writer, felt that the seasoned left handed Russell Hamer would have been the more logical choice compared to a 17-year-old with one first class match to his credit. The unhappiness of the selection process ended up in the courts where a litigant sought an injunction against the selected squad, especially the parachuting of an untested teenager over seasoned and deserving players.
I toured, but unfortunately Russell did not. To this day, I wish we were both part of that 1979 squad to the Old Blighty.
My last encounter with Russell was at NCC grounds, probably around 1982. I was playing for NCC and Russell for (I’m not certain) Nomads. During lunch break Russell calls me and says “Passy, there’s a thalagoya on the MCA side. Lets go!” I had heard of Russell’s fondness of thalagoya flesh but had disregarded it as typical tall story about a colourful Burger cricketer. Well, it was not a tall story I found out first hand.
Mercifully for the thalagoya and myself, Russell’s hunt was not successful. I shudder thinking what would have transpired if Russell found that iguana. Maybe he would have intimidated it to death by his chatter. Yeah. Russell also said he was sorry about the 1979 court rigmarole regarding selections. “No hard feelings Passy?” No hard feelings Russell. Not for a second. Russell Hamer was truly one of a kind. When he didn’t like what he saw, he mouthed it; when he felt wronged, he mouthed it; when challenged to prove it on the field, he proved it.
Russell fought the thin skinned bumptious order at Maitland Crescent, and came up short. As a result, the country lost the services of one of its most uniquely gifted cricketers.
Bon voyage Russell. I will always cherish you.
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The successful 1st XI Cricket Team of 1962
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1st XI Cricket Team - 1976/77
W. Dias, R Claessen, S.Rajendra, M Rajaratnam, G.Van Dort, J Brohier, J Samarasinghe, F.Mahroof
Seated L to R:
Mr Dunstan Fernando (Vice Principal), Russell Harmer(Coach), N.R Gajendran (Vice Capt), D Jayasekera (Capt), D De Alwis, Mr Piyasena (M.I.C), Mr A.S Wirasinha (Principal),
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ETERNAL PEACE
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news of the passing of Dr. Andrew Ranjan Fernando in October 2023 after a prolonged illness. He was at Wesley College in the 1950’s with his brothers Cecil and Nihal. Cecil was the eldest and Nihal the youngest.
In the boarding we had 3 houses: Yodhayas, Vikings and Spartans. There was great rivalry between them. The matches were keenly contested and took place in the "Small Park". The small park was a gravel field behind the school. Ranjan was a few years senior to me and we happened to be in the same house, the Spartans.
As a senior student he showed great kindness to the many young boys who were homesick and far away from their parents. Ranjan was a bright lad and carried away many prizes at the Annual School Prize Giving. I have many memories of those cricket matches played in the blistering heat at weekends and the evenings. He was a fine all round cricketer and helped his house to win the crucial matches against stiff opposition. In those days we played football with a proper ball made of leather. To head the ball one needed skill and courage and he was fearless heading the ball to score goals.
Ranjan was greatly respected by students and teachers alike and was appointed a Prefect of the boarding. He had 2 brothers in the boarding, Nihal and Cecil. In 1956 Ranjan won a scholarship to study Marine Biology in Japan. I was told Ranjan persuaded the Government to change his course to Medicine.
I came over to London to train in Radiology. One day in 1977 I went to Foyles’ Bookshop on Charring Cross road. In a poorly lit corner I saw a person flipping over the pages of a book. He looked so much like Ranjan. As I approached him we recognised each other instantly. We chatted away about those ‘lost years’ and our lives since we left school. We kept in touch by telephone but when I moved away from London I lost contact with Ranjan again. I was busy building a career and caring for the family. Then again about 10 years ago we made contact. By now Ranjan had retired and was working part time in General Practice. It was always a great pleasure to speak with him and reminisce those happy years in the boarding. We have fond memories of our friends who shared the pain and pleasures of boarding life all those years ago.
Ranjan had a son, Michael and a daughter Angelica with whom I have kept in touch.They were a great help to Ranjan in his retirement and during his illness.
Ranjan was a kind and generous person and wonderful company. He will be sadly missed by his many friends.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Ranjan for his contribution to the life of the school.
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From Ranil Thilakaratne
It is with deep sorrow that I announce the passing away of Justice Ameer Ismail, late this morning.
My Senior in the official bar and the Judiciary, Justice Ameer Ismail was sworn in as an Advocate in 1969. He joined the Attorney General Department as a Crown Counsel in 1971, where he was later promoted to Senior State Counsel. He was appointed as a High Court Judge in 1983, served as a Judge of the Court of Appeal in 1990, and became the President of the Court of Appeal in 1998. In 1999, he was appointed as a Judge of the Supreme Court. He has served the community and nation in many other capacities including as the Chairman of the Commission to Investigate Bribery and Corruption.
May the Almighty accept his good deeds.
The Janaza will depart from residence No. 19, Boswell Place, Colombo-06 for burial tomorrow, Sunsday, 21st April, 2024, at 5:00 am at the Dehiwala Muhiyyaddeen Grand Jumma Mosque Burial Ground on Mosque Lane off Hospital Road, Dehiwala.
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From the Times of Sri Lanka - Sunday 21st April 2024
Retired Supreme Court judge Ameer Ismail passed away yesterday. Educated at Wesley College, Colombo, he obtained a Bachelor of Laws degree from the University of Ceylon and was sworn in as an advocate in 1969.
He joined the Attorney General’s Department as a Crown Counsel in 1971 and was later promoted to Senior State Counsel. He was appointed as a High Court Judge in 1983, as a Judge of the Court of Appeal in 1990, and as President of the Court of Appeal in 1998.
In 1999, Justice Ismail was appointed as a judge of the Supreme Court.
Justice Ismail was also the Chairman of the Commission to Investigate Allegations of Bribery or Corruption (CIABOC) from 2005 to 2010.
His remains are lying at No. 19 Boswell Place, Colombo 6. The burial will take place at Dehiwala Muhiyyaddeen Grand Jumma Mosque Burial Ground at 5 a.m. today.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Ameer Ismail and his brother Hakim hailed from the strong Muslim enclave of Sammanthurai in the Eastern Province. I remember Ameer Ismail from the school boarding in the 1950's. He was a fine softball cricketer in the Small Park and also a good soccer player. He had an air of confidence even in those days respecting the endless rules and laws of the boarding. Ameer was appointed a hostel Prefect and was greatly respected.
We admire greatly his meteoric rise in his chosen profession and being appointed as the Chief Justice of Sri Lanka.
During the Principalship of Dr Shanti McLelland the Chief Justice Ameer Ismail was invited to be the Chief Guest at the Annual School Prize Giving. This may have given him immense pleasure to be at the stage where he received many prizes during his long and illustrious school career.
His brother Hakim was an accountant in London and helped the London OBU with their accounts for many years. He passed away a few years ago.
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Ameer and Hakim for their contribution to the life of the school
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From 150th Anniversary Chronicle
The First World War from 1914 - 1918
The 1st World War was away from our shores and hence the social and economic devastation was not felt intensely in our country unlike the 2nd World War, where the battlefields extended to the shores of Ceylon.
The Cadet Corps were in formation at that time and men of valour from Wesley were prepared for their part by the Corps. Many brave old boys responded to the call of duty and laid their lives in battle. A roll of Honour was listed in the College magazine in 1919 and reprinted in the Diamond Jubilee Celebrations volume. However, the names are once again included in this Chronicle as a tribute to those old boys.
N. K. Redlich, France (Killed in Somme, July 1“ 1916)
H. E. W. Staples, France (Killed on Ancre, February 28* 1917)
E. L. Brohier, Palestine (Killed in Gaza, April 12th 1917)
Capt. R. Pestonjee, I.M.S.
Lt. J. N. Simpson, France (Wounded)
Lt. R. B. Robertson, Indian Army
Lt. T. C. Vanderziel, Mesopotamia Sanitary Corps
D. B. Seneviratne, France Military Medal (Wounded)
Sergt. F. R. Swan, Mesopotamia (Engineers)
Cpl. V. A. Azariah, France
Lance Cpl. E. L. E. Ratnayake, Mesopotamia Sanitary Corps
Dr. E. Samaraweera, R.A.M.C.
R. L. Tucker, France (Wounded)
L. M. Chapman, France (Wounded)
D.C. Ranasinghe (Wounded and invalid)
S. J. H. Jansz, France (Invalid)
H. C. de Vos, France C. H. Newman, France A. M. Andree, France
D.F. Holmes, France N. S. de Soysa, France A. A. Carthelis, France
C. R. Gooneratne, British East Africa
A. W. Vanderziel, British East Africa
V. Koelmeyer, Mesopotamia Sanitary Corps
A. Ferdinand, France
S. Vandersmagt (returned)
E.Jayawardena (returned)
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them.
Kindly sent to me by Riza Azoor
From Dr. P. K. Ravindran,
Consultant General Surgeon Chilaw
(an evergrateful mathematics student of Mrs. VSF)
Some worldly events happen without a reason. Likewise Mrs. V.S. Fernando was not meant to be a teacher at Wesley. An unfortunate event in her family life brought about an economic burden, and to support the family she tried her luck to be a teacher at Wesley. She met the then Principal Mr. A. S. Wirasinha. Mr. A. S. Wirasinha was a kind hearted person and offered her a job of Assistant Teacher at Wesley. It was a challenge to Mrs. V.S. Fernando.
On a sunny morning in 1969, she stepped into the premises of this great educational Institute. During that period the Government of Sri Lanka introduced a new educational policy for the entire country. Mrs. Fernando studied the educational reforms and started teaching New Mathematics to Grade 6.
Even though she was new to the field, she worked hard to teach these new methods. Her teaching was very convincing and out of the ordinary that her students warmly embraced her style.
At the end of each lesson, she sets a mini test and gives marks. Her term test paper is set in a manner nobody will be able to get 100 marks. She has a marking scheme and marks the paper accordingly. Not a single mark is given more or less. She has not given 100 marks to anyone in her entire 40 year career. The highest mark she has given is only 99. After the term exam, she collects the mathematics paper of all schools in search of any new questions. She would do those questions after term exams. Her personal diary used to be full of mathematical questions. She was the best teacher of mathematics at Wesley at the time. Mrs. V S Fernando is the only teacher at Wesley who can teach in all three languages. A few years later enrolled at the Teacher’s Training College for teacher training and successfully passed out as a trained Teacher.
Mrs. V S Fernando was the class teacher for Grade 6C and encouraged students to participate in extracurricular activities. She arranged excursions for her class students. She has a kind heart towards poorer students and helped them to join in the excursions with others. During Wesley’s Centenary in 1974, she encouraged every student to participate in the celebrations and also memorize the College song. After 24 years she left Wesley. Wesley lost her best teacher. She did not rest from active service. Ilma International School decided to accept her services. She left Ilma International after some time.
She was not happy staying at home. She came back to Wesley as a co-coordinator for the London Advance Level classes. She was doing a voluntary job. She had to leave Wesley again due to her health condition.
Mrs. V S Fernando was one of the best teachers at Wesley. Even at the age of 94, she could remember many of the equations in Mathematics. Teaching was her passion. She was present to join us in the Sesquicentennial celebrations of 2024 although quite feeble.
From Kumar De Silva
Kindly sent to me by Peter Peiris
Deeply saddened to hear of the demise, this afternoon, of Mrs. V. S Fernando, yet another legendary teacher at Wesley College, Colombo, my alma mater. Mrs. VS, as she was known to one and all, belonged to what I call the Golden Era of Wesley College, the 70s and the 80s.
She was my Maths teacher in Grace 06 in 1973. Maths isnt every student’s favourite subject. You either loved it or you hated. Lots of us, like myself, hated it. But Mrs. VS managed to coax and persuade us to at least tolerate and like it, leave aside loving it. Such was her skill as a teacher. She somehow managed to get under our skins and win us over.
Mrs. VS was sharp and perceptive too. She was very intelligent too and could literally sift the errant boys from the others. But beneath that very strict and very stern façade lay a loving and caring human being. Her beaming smile was disarming. The love she had for us was tangible. We felt at most times.
I remember last meeting her at the Wesley College Past Teachers’ Christmas Get-Together at the OWSC last December. Although relatively frail and forgetful, her spark was still slightly there. She was too frail to walk and I recall old boy Angelo Gamage carrying her in his arms to the car.
My dear Mrs. Fernando, I (very selfishly) grieve your passing. I grieve my loss and the loss of hundreds of other Wesleyites whom you taught and mentored over many many years.
Death is painful. Death is sad. But then I also console myself that you are finally free of all earthly suffering.
Thank you for those wonderful cherished memories.
May your journey through Samsara be speedy.
From the Editor
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Mrs V.S Fernando for her loyalty and dedication to teaching and her immense contribution to the life of the school
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1st XI Cricket Team - 1960
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Wesley College 1st XI Cricketers 1960 at the Grand Reunion 2012
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Wesley College 1st XI Cricket Team 1960 |
Back row: Sarath Wickramaratne, Darell Maye, Glenn Reimers, D.Kodituwakku,
Right at the back is Senthil Sinniah
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Photos kindly sent to me by Peter Christie
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| L to R: Sarath Wickramaratne, K Kodituwakku, Milroy Muthuvaloe, CT Rodrigo, MN Mihlar, Peter Christie, Upali Perera, Mike Christoffelsz, Everard Schoorman, Darrell Maye, Bill Deutrom, L.C.R Wijesinghe |
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| L to R: Afghar Mohideen, CT Rodrigo, MN Mihlar, Sarath Wickramaratne, L.C.R Wijesinghe and Darrell Maye, Glen Reimers, Kenneth De Silva, Muthuvaloe and Everard Schoorman seated in front |
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From Lalith (L.C.R)Wijesinghe
M.N.Mihlar was the younger brother of Wesley's famous left arm fast bowler, M.N Samsudeen, who represented Ceylon as a schoolboy in the Claessen Era.
Mihlar was my cricketing colleague playing for Wesley College 1st XI in 1960 under the Captaincy of Senthil Sinniah. He opened bowling for the school with the more famous L.R Goonetilleke in 1960.
Mihlar was a commerce student under Mr Van Sanden the gifted and well known Commerce teacher at Wesley.
Mihlar was mischievous as a student. He had a very special sense of humour. Mihlar was easy to get on with as he had a carefree approach to life. I had lost contact with Mihlar since 1960 and managed to contact him in 2012 to get him to participate in the Reunion held in 2012.
That was the last occasion we saw him. He lived at Kawdana Rd Dehiwela with his daughter. Soon after the reunion I came to know he was ill with cancer of the lung. Mihlar sadly passed away about 8 years ago.
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From Bashur Musafer, Sydney, Australia
I met Mihlar at Borella a long time ago . When I saw this familiar face and exchanging glances I asked the question if he was Samsudeen to which he replied he was Mihlar. Talking to him he gave me the impression of being a jovial character, friendly and lighthearted in conversation and without a care in the world. I have the impression he was a bit of a rioter. He came to school riding a bicycle like many did in those days. Very Sad to hear of his demise.
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I received the news of the demise of M.N.Mihlar and that he passed away several years ago. I wish I knew earlier to pay my respects and write a tribute. He was a student at Wesley in the 1950's and early 60's. Mihlar was 2 years senior to me at school.
His brother M.N Samsudeen was a fine fast bowler who played 1st XI cricket for Wesley during the Claessen era in the early 1950's. He played for Ceylon while still a student at school.
Short and stocky and powerfully built Mihlar too was a superb fast bowler. He played under 16 and 1st XI cricket for Wesley with great distinction. With the ball in his hand, with his accuracy and speed he was as lethal an opponent as you could imagine. He relied not on guile, but on accuracy and a devilishly quick pace. Batsmen found themselves pinned to the crease. He was a fine fast bowler.
He was a quiet person and cricket seemed to be his life at school. Mihlar was a mild-mannered, friendly and humble man, who radiated charm and gentle humour. He embodied the proverbial principle "see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil". I do recall seeing him play softball cricket in the small park at lunch intervals with many of his pals including Richard Dwight and Baafi. He got many wickets with his quick bowling to great applause from the many spectators, like myself.
Mihlar played 1st XI cricket at Wesley Under the captaincy of Senthil Sinniah in 1960. Senthil was my close friend and confidante. He could not speak highly enough of Mihlar both as a fine bowler, a good sportsman and a friend. I do value Senthil's words.
It was a great pleasure to see Mihlar at the Grand Reunion of 2012 when many cricketers had gathered in the school premises. This was a wonderful opportunity to meet his friends and to reminisce, which he did. It was lovely to see Mihlar having a warm and long conversation with Senthil Sinniah about times past.
Mihlar enjoyed the educational opportunities provided by the school. His ambitions to proceed with further education and continue with cricket after leaving school were thwarted by his desire to work and earn a living. He just wanted to be independent and get on with his life.
Although he stopped playing the game, his passion for cricket never waned and remained to the end of his life
On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Mihlar for his contribution to cricket and to life at school. His laughter and voice must still echo in the corridors and classrooms at Wesley and also in the pavilion. A truly lovely man with a tremendous sense of humour who will be greatly missed. Rest in peace, Mihlar, you deserve it
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Ora et labora
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Written by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
C. Amaradasa Fernando was the son of a Methodist Catechist. As his parents lived far down south in Dickwella he was sent to the boarding. He was in my class from Std 3 in 1953 until he left school after GCE in about 1958. He was a big lad always fearless and combative. He stood no nonsense. I remember the many cricket and football matches we played with him in the Small Park. He was affectionately called "Homba". That was a nick name he never liked. When he was called by that name it caused much aggravation which often lead to fisticuffs. Despite all that CAF was a jolly, kind and helpful person.
After leaving school CAF joined the Police Force, an ideal profession for a tough guy. There he took his work seriously
Around 1973 I was driving my VW Beetle along Baseline Road when a Police van overtookme and instructed me to stop immediately. A huge Policeman in full gear came upto me shouting out why I was breaking the law by driving erratically. It took me awhile to recognise my friend C. Amaradasa Fernando now much bigger than before and had that fearsome look of a senior cop. He said he was attached to the Police Training School in Kalutara. With him was yet another class mate who was in the Police Force R.A Wimalasena from Kolonnawa.
I emigrated to the United Kingdom in 1974 and never heard of him until I was told that CAF rose up to become a Superintendent of Police and passed away young after a heart attack. The news gave me a shock and pang to lose a childhood friend so young. He had so much to give this wonderful world. He served society and his community with distinction and lost his battle for life in his early fifties.
I feel incredibly lucky to have enjoyed the company of such wonderful friends while receiving an excellent education. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank CA Fernando for his contribution to the life of the school. His gentle satire and wry and irreverent wit must still waft in the ether of the dormitories and corridors of the old hostel.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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Written by Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
Dayaprasad Peiris was a boarder at Wesley College from 1953-59. Daya as he was known was the son of a Methodist Minister. His brother Devananda Peiris too was in the boarding at the same time. Devananda was a jolly tubby lad but he sadly passed away while a boarder after a ruptured appendix.
Daya had a wonderful singing voice and joined the College Choir managed by Mr Maxwell de Alwis. He made an outstanding contribution to the Choir. During the school Carol services Daya often sang solos. They were always the highlight of the service as he had an angelic voice. Whenever I hear “Away in a manger” or “Once in Royal David’s City” I am always reminded of Daya Peiris. He played an important role in the Operettas Alad-In-And Out and Robin Hood staged at Wesley College and at Kingswood College Kandy.
Daya was a keen cricket fan and I do recall his efforts in the small park. He was a keen spectator too and never missed a school match at Campbell Park when he sang and entertained the crowd with his verbal support.
After leaving school he became a newspaper columnist writing about sports. Writing for him was not a full-time occupation as I met him in Main Street Pettah around 1970 when he managed a furniture shop. We sat outside the shop and had a long chat about old days and mutual friends.
Little was known of his private life. I was deeply saddened to hear that he died young leaving a young family. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Daya for his tremendous contribution to the life of the school. At this time we remember Daya and Devananda with great fondness.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT THEM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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From Maurice Mortier, Melbourne, Australia
From Dr Nihal. D Amerasekera
I was a boarder at Wesley 1952-58 and remember Brian as a senior. He was several years my senior but Brian treated the juniors with kindness. Brian enjoyed the fun and the humour that was ever present in the boarding. I recall him play football and cricket in the small park with great enthusiasm. After he left school we never met again.
Brian was much loved in the boarding and was a popular hosteller. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank him for his contribution to the life of the school.
I do sincerely hope Brian had a good and happy life.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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1st XI Cricket Team - 1952
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1st XI Cricket Team - 1953
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1st XI Cricket Team - 1954
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From Upali Perera, Melbourne, Australia
Arthlow would have been 89 years next month. Arthlow and Neil Galaghar were the two best cricketers in the hostel during our period and Arthlow was a wonderful athlete (hurdler) and a great hockey player.Having left college at an early age in 1954 he joined the tea brokers Bosanquet and Skrine as a tea taster until his departure to Australia a few years later and recommended his position to be filled by Bryan Claessen.
May he Rest in Peace
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness that we share the news that Arthlow has passed away.
I was in the boarding at Wesley College in the 1950’s. There were about a hundred boarders at the time. Arthlow Chapman was a senior boarder and a very popular one being a fine 1st XI cricketer from 1952-54. Tall fair and handsome he was easily recognisable. Arthlow joined in the fun and laughter that was ever present in the boarding.
All the hostellers learned to play cricket in the Small Park behind the school. Although a dust bowl it was our amphitheatre. I can well recall Arthlow and Neil Gallagher playing competitive cricket in this park for their boarding houses amidst much cheering by the younger spectators. He showed exceptional kindness to the younger boarders who were far away from their parents. He was often seen together with Neil Gallagher who played 1st XI cricket with him in those glorious years of cricket at Wesley. The two of them remained inseparable friends right to the end until Neil passed away in 2019.
The 1950's were legendary years of cricket at Wesley. Arthlow was a fluent batsman and a beloved member of the cricket family of the time. He was then revered by young fans like us. His skill was unquestioned and his abilities and achievements across the 3-years brought so much happiness to his teammates and supporters. Arthlow was a hugely popular figure. With his modesty, he was even more special. He was a reliable and doughty middle order batsman. While at the crease Arthlow had his own unique aggressive attacking style that ticked on the runs and thrilled the spectators. Helmets, chest guards and arm guards were not a part of the game in those times. The batsmen took on the fast bowlers and bouncers with little more than a strong heart and indomitable courage. All through his long life Arthlow never lost his love for the game.
Arthlow belonged to an era when School Cricket was played with dignity, decency and decorum. He retained those valued principles, enviable standards and commendable integrity all through his life.
I last met Arthlow at the Great Reunion of Wesleyites and cricketers in 2012. It was such a joy to revisit the Great Hall, the long corridors and also the class rooms. He was his usual self, quiet and reserved but jolly. Visiting Campbell Park and the pavilion was very special. We chatted about those halcyon days in the boarding and talked a lot about cricket of those years and also of our former teachers and friends. He reminisced and spoke of those years with much relish.
Arthlow was not much into the digital world and sadly I never heard from him since our last meeting. Arthlow had a tremendous love for his old school and spoke about it most warmly.
He’s had a long and happy life. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Arthlow for his immense contribution to the life of the school. We send our deepest condolences to his wife, Christobel, at this time of grief.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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1st XI Cricket Team - 1971
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1st XI Team 1970
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1st XI Team 1971
Parakrama Wijemanne, Mr A.M Mohideen, Rohan Amerasinghe, Mr A.S Wirasinha, Jayantha Wijemanne, Mr. A.K Suppiah, Neil Harvie, Chris Harvie
Standing L to R:
Geethal Peiris, Neil Obeysekera, Shamil Amit, Mahinda Silva, Ananda Karunaratne, Mervyn Lye, S.Rajendran
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In Memory of Neil Harvie by Rohan Perera
It is with deep respect & heartfelt admiration that I pay solmn tribute to Neil Harvie, a remarkable individual who left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege of knowing him. Neil was not just a fine Gentleman, but a Strong, Kind and Caring Senior whose presence was a beacon of guidance and warmth.
As a charismatic leader, he had time for everyone ranking from his immediate peers spanning down to the junior most student at Wesley. Neil's influence extended far beyond his circle, inspiring everyone around him with his unwavering Dedication, Integrity & Magnificient Personality. His prowess as an outstanding Hockey player and a 1st Eleven Cricketer showcased his exceptional talents and Sportsmanship, making him a revered figure among the adoring Student community. Neil's role as The College Head Prefect was indeed a testament to his "Clear Eyed" Leadership abilities, where he resourcesfully led by Example, instilling values of Christian Discipline and Studendship Excellence in all who followed him. His remarkable achievements were further highlighted by his recognition as the Winner of the Lydia Senerathna - Best Hosteller's Award, which unequivocally is an Honor that Profoundly Reflected his Exemplary Profile & Character as a Senior Hosteller worthy of Emulation .
To me, Neil was a Virtual Hero during my formative years clasping the ropes as a hosteller at Wesley College Colombo. Neil's "Thought Out" guidance and "Caring" support shaped my journey, and his legacy continues to influence my path. My association with Neil as a senior Wesleyite throughout my studentship was a privilege that I cherish deeply even of this day & time.
With Neil's passing, An immense wedge of abject sorrow engulfs me inflicting a bottomless void of an irreplaceable loss. He was more than a Mentor; He was a guiding light whose Wisdom and Kindness profoundly impacted my life.
Neil Harvie's legacy is one of Inspiration, Excellence, and unwavering Kindness. His memory will forever remain a guiding light for all who strive to follow in his footsteps.
Rest in peace, Neil. Your contributions and spirit will never be forgotten.
"Ora et labora"
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with deep sadness I received the news of the demise of a loyal old boy of our school, Neil Harvie. He joined Wesley and the hostel in 1963 from Uva College, Badulla. Neil immersed himself fully in the life of the school and the hostel. He represented Wesley College in Cricket and Hockey in the 1st XI. Neil was a popular student and well liked by all. He earned the respect of his peers and staff alike to be appointed as the Senior Prefect in 1972. Neil was awarded the coveted Lydia Senaratne Prize for the best allrounder in the boarding in 1973.
After Neil emigrated to Australia he lived in Brisbane. He remained an active member of the Hostel WhatsApp Group where I connected with him.
Many recall the fun and the laughter enjoyed at the school and the boarding. He had the wonderful ability for friendship. Those were happy memorable years. We thank Neil for his immense contribution to the life of the school. We all have lost a friend and the world has lost a wonderful, kind and generous man. A remarkable human being and we are all the poorer for his loss. Condolences to all who loved him. RIP.
Neil has written with great warmth and in graphic detail his life at school and in the years in the hostel. I have included a link below and would urge you to read his wonderful recollections.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with much sadness I received the news that Harris Anthonisz passed away on the 7th of September 2024. When I spent 4 happy days in Sydney Australia in 2009 the highlight was my meeting with 2 stalwarts from our hostel years. When a silver Holden appeared in front of our hotel I ignored it as its occupants didn’t look familiar. The guy who stepped out of the car had a beaming smile and an outstretched hand. It was Michael Christoffelsz. He was with Harris Anthonisz. We hugged each other until we got our breath back. We spent our formative years together in the hostel. Michael took us on a tour of the city including the famous Opera Hall where we had lunch . Harris was a walking encyclopaedia on the history of this great city. He knew so much about every statue, monument and edifice we saw. This was a fine guided tour and indeed a memorable experience.
We spoke at length about our time in the hostel, its people and problems. The trials and tribulations of our teenage years we bore together with our fellow hostellers. Harris Anthonisz was a few years senior to us but a dear friend to us all. He was a rebel who instigated a hunger strike to improve the quality of food in the boarding. He paid for it dearly with "6 of the best" but his efforts worked !! The food improved at leasts for a time. Harris was a fine raconteur, a great historian and a wonderful friend. Mike and Harris kept us going for the rest of the day. We reminisced probing deep into the archives of our memory.
I well remember Harris as a senior in the hostel playing cricket and football in the Small Park. Tall and broad he was a fine basket ball player. He was seen playing the game on most days next to the tennis court at Campbell Park. Harris represented the school in Basket Ball in 1956.
He always joined in the fun that was ever present in the boarding. He had a tremendous sense of humour which was there until the very end.
Harris has had a long and happy life in the country of his choice. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites I thank Harris for his contribution to the life of the school and the boarding. We will remember him always.
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Wesley College Basketball Team 1956
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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From Dr Nihal D Amerasekera
It is with great sadness I received the news of the demise of Derek Kiel. My grateful thanks to Trevor Collette and Bryan Wijeyakoon for passing on the information. Derek had a keen interest in all sports and played Rugby for the 1st XV for Wesley College. After leaving school he played rugby for Havelocks Sports Club.
He made a good life for himself in Melbourne and continued his love of the sports.
From The Le Page Park Cricket Club:
From Port Melbourne Cricket Club:
Derek passed away suddenly and unexpectedly. The funeral service was held on the 4th of October at St. Matthews Church in Cheltenham for burial at Springvale.
Many recall his good humour, broad smile and happy demeanour. On behalf of the Worldwide Brotherhood of Wesleyites we thank Derek for his immense contribution to the life of the school.
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Ora et labora
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GRANT HIM O LORD
ETERNAL PEACE
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